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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
Written by Stan Tatkin
Narrated by Michael Hinton
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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About this audiobook
"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this book presents ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this book presents ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
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Reviews for Wired for Love
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excellent book that all partners should read. Confirmed some of my beliefs, provided useful tools for relationship building. Best book I’ve ever read on relationships.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Really knowledgeable book. Tought me alot about myself, and giving love.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Great book but I felt like I needs a sequel the way it ended.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very helpful in understanding love. Especially with anchor, island, and wave education.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Enlightening content different from other books on the same topic. Science oriented and might just redeemed the relationship you wish
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The book gives a lot of insight into how we think when in a relationship. It also give practical solutions aswell ? It's a must listen/book to get!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Fantastic book! Very on point! Need keep it as a guide and re-read it from time to time
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Narrator was super easy to follow and interesting. The book was excellent, with practical things for couples to do, as well as the science behind it. It was a bit confusing to follow along with the author's terminology, ie. inslands, anchors, ambassadors, primitive, etc. But even with that, the book still deserves a 5/5
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Amazing!! I love and really enjoyed this. It’s such a bundle of refreshing ideas. Glad I read it.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I liked the book. It was very helpfull and optimistic and showcased how no matter what you struggle with relationship you can adjust abit and where tge relationship can adjustbin to help you.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5One of the best relationship books I ever read - a lot of unique and valuable insights, very well written, i enjoy it a lot!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I think WFL is is the best training a couple can get to learn how to stay together in a happy and loving relationship. The audiobook is short precise and it gives a lot of information that you can easily incorporate into your live or relationships.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I love how simple it is and well explained. It showed me how important the little details are. I am really happy I read it.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I don't read self-help books or books with "love" in the title, for that matter. But I'm glad I read this one. The author includes just enough science to keep me interested and enough advice to make it worth reading.