The Overweight Mind
By Jay Nixon
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You're About to "Strike it Rich" In the Most Important Lottery on Earth…
What does it feel like to strike it rich in the world of health and wellness? Does it mean improved sleep? What about being able to walk longer, enjoy a day out at the lake, or just keep up with the family on a lazy weekend? Health is wealth, no way around it. Striking it rich in health is always on your terms. What would better health mean to you, right now? Hold on to that answer, because this book will help you get to that destination.
So, let's get to the point: are you getting rich…or finding yourself struggling to keep your head above water? What does your health profit and loss statement really look like at the moment?
If things aren't as rosy as you would like them to be, you're not alone. For decades, the health and fitness industry has been promising you riches, but giving you pocket change. You've probably run into things like, "Lose 20 pounds in 20 days," "Guaranteed 6-pack in 6 weeks," and "Drop three dress sizes in 4 weeks!" These are just some of the sneaky slogans that are siphoning away valuable health dollars, sometimes right before your very eyes!
It's old.
It's tiresome.
It changes now.
A Missing Piece, Now Revealed
Mainstream fitness programs have one major flaw: they only address one part of the greater health equation. It's all physical, with little variation: just move a little more, eat a little less, and you'll be on your way to a huge health jackpot.
But what about the mind?
The biggest mistake made in the pursuit of better health is not using your mind to the fullest. The human mind has far more to do with weight loss and developing a healthier lifestyle than it may seem at first glance. That's exactly what this book will help you understand.
When you pick up, The Overweight Mind: The Undeniable Truth Behind Why You're Not Losing Weight, you'll learn how:
*The very people you share your daily life with are keeping you fat (even when they "sound happy for you")
*Your own closely-held beliefs are stretching your belt (and the rest of your wardrobe)
*The very thoughts that buzz noisily around your mind are slowly devouring your chances at being thin
*The everyday words you say are adding pounds and inches
*Habits you don't even think twice about are affecting your health
*The mindset you build – or disassemble – affects your physical health (for better or worse!)
Beyond the Basics
There's more to it than just moving more. All the crunches in the world can't move you towards the real gems of better health. Crash diets are only short-term, if they even work at all. Every single chapter in The Overweight Mind is designed to showcase your mind's true potential and its role in your weight loss.
Above all? No get thin quick schemes. No gimmicks. Health is wealth. Get ready to get rich.
Jay Nixon
Jay Nixon is an internationally recognized transformation coach who has been profiled by ABS, CBS and FOX. He has also been featured in magazines such as Health and Triathlete. With his extensive coaching and speaking career and deep life experience, plus his witty but purposeful writing style, there’s no one better qualified to explain the benefits (yes, benefits!) of suffering than Nixon.
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The Overweight Mind - Jay Nixon
The Overweight Mind
The Undeniable Truth Behind Why You’re Not Losing Weight
Jay Nixon
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Contents
What Is the Overweight Mind?
Chapter 1: 80% Psychology, 20% Mechanics
Chapter 2: We Are Our Habits
Chapter 3: Eater’s Remorse
Chapter 4: Three Things More Important to Track than Fats, Carbs, and Protein: Beliefs, Thoughts, and Words
Chapter 5: Standards – Raise the Bar
Chapter 6: Circle of Success
Chapter 7: Fall in Love with the Process
Chapter 8: What You Do in the Dark
Chapter 9: Fueling Your Body versus Failing Your Body
Chapter 10: There is No Finish Line
Chapter 11: Your Upgrade Is Now Available
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What Is the Overweight Mind?
Did you know over two-thirds of American adults are considered overweight? Our country is bloated. Our waistlines are bulging. Hell, even the name of the institute that provides the weight statistic (The National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases) could use some trimming. We are living in excess.
How do you reverse the trend? How can you get back to a healthy lifestyle, one enabling you to live as your best self at a comfortable and healthy weight?
You could alter your eating habits. You could hit the gym more often. You could change your physical life in countless ways, but I’m willing to argue those won’t be enough to overcome our overweight culture.
The journey to a healthy lifestyle must begin by attacking your overweight mind. If you think your diet and exercise regimens are standing between you and sustainable health, you only have part of the equation. While your journey to a healthy lifestyle may have been slowed by burgers, fries, and a lack of exercise, the mindset floating between your ears could have been equally detrimental. Thoughts like:
I’m not good enough.
I’m not an athlete.
My family is overweight; it’s in my genes.
I like food too much.
I don’t deserve to be in shape.
I don’t like change.
I have bad joints, so I can’t exercise.
Whether explicit or subliminal, thoughts like these are more of an obstacle to a healthy body than any bag of food you could get from a drive-thru window. Your conscious mind overflows with thoughts, both positive and negative. The negative thoughts—those that will never serve you as you attempt to better yourself—will weigh you down. Your subconscious mind is programmed with countless habits and rituals that can either help or hurt you. While your subconscious mind is on cruise control, mindlessly allowing poor eating and exercise habits, the conscious mind is beating itself up. The tandem of a negative conscious mind and a subconscious mind steering you blindly into obesity can be a dangerous combination. It will never allow you to improve. That dangerous pair won’t allow you to create the change you seek.
The aim of this book is to teach you how to lighten the load. If you’re among the two-thirds of the population that is overweight, chances are your mind plays a larger role than you know. This book will teach you how to shift your mindset, raise your standards, and change your psychology to promote a healthy lifestyle. Each chapter will detail a portion of your overweight mind needing adjustment and present action steps designed to make those changes happen. I’m not here to give you information; I want to help you create the healthy lifestyle you desire.
You deserve a healthy body. You are worth it. It’s time for you to prove it to yourself!
Chapter 1: 80% Psychology, 20% Mechanics
A healthy outside starts from the inside.
–Robert Urich
Eat fewer calories. Exercise five days a week. Eat less sugar. Eat more vegetables. Mix cardiovascular training with weight training. Balance your macronutrient intake.
Sound advice, but it’s all mechanics. Each statement is valuable and should be implemented as you strive to achieve a healthy body, but relying solely on mechanical habits won’t create lasting and permanent change in your lifestyle.
Mechanical changes to your lifestyle like the ones listed above are important, but not nearly as important as any psychological or mental shifts you make. In fact, when it comes to the breakdown of a permanent, happy, and healthy lifestyle, I’d argue mechanics make up about 20% of it. That’s right, 80% of your health and wellness depends on your psychology or mindset.
I can sense some of you may still be on the fence about this ratio favoring your mental state, so let’s consider some familiar examples to paint the picture. Have you ever seen The Biggest Loser? Even if you haven’t watched a season from beginning to end, I’m sure you’ve at least read an article about some of the amazing transformations. Or maybe you’ve tuned in for a season finale where triple-digit weight losses are the norm. Watching these contestants work their asses off and lose so much weight is inspiring. The incredible transformations are the reason the show has stayed on the air for so long.
We’d all love to think these contestants step off the stage after the final show and go on to live happy and healthy lives with their friends and families. Unfortunately, that’s not the case for some of the most successful contestants. Ali Vincent, the first woman to win The Biggest Loser, sat down with Oprah after her big win and discussed her huge weight loss. On the show, Ali had lost 112 pounds. What she told Oprah was that when she got home from the Biggest Loser ranch, she didn’t know what to do with herself. All of the structure, exercise regimens, and changes in diet were no longer present in her daily life. She didn’t have a coach screaming in her ear to keep pushing it on the treadmill. Essentially, the mechanics of her weight-loss journey broke down.
So, what happened? Her meal plans became less strict, she didn’t exercise as much, and she had the liberty to go out and have drinks with friends whenever she pleased. She ended up gaining nearly all of the weight back.
Ali is not alone. She is only one example of a long list of Biggest Loser contestants who had a tough time keeping the weight off. The National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases followed season-eight contestants and found thirteen of fourteen contestants gained weight back after the bright lights of TV had dimmed. This study also disclosed that the contestants endured a significant slowing of their metabolisms during their rapid transformations, making it even harder for their bodies to keep up with the demand to burn calories. Their slower metabolisms (coupled with a weight-loss plan far too focused on extreme diet and exercise) created a recipe that left the contestants closer to where they started than where they finished.
We don’t have to look far for more health transformations skewing the focus towards mechanics than psychology and mindset. Consider people who opt for bariatric surgery. Bariatric surgery shrinks your stomach (either by using a gastric band to minimize it or by removing a part of it). Individuals undergoing the procedure are likely obese and have the best intentions. They want to live healthier. They don’t want to die young. They want to shed the emotional baggage accompanying their excessive weight.
Some patients find success and report weight loss over the long term. Unfortunately, many patients gain the weight back over time. In fact, in a study done by the American Medical Association in 2015, nearly half of the bariatric surgery patients researched reported significant weight gain within five years of their surgery. Why? Mechanics. Reducing the size of the stomach is about as mechanical as you can get in terms of weight loss. You literally wake up with a smaller stomach. Yes, bariatric surgery is paired with counseling, but the counseling isn’t geared towards understanding and shifting a patient’s psychology. It’s aimed at advising him/her about proper food choice, how much food to eat, and what exercise regimen to follow. Sound familiar? More mechanics.
Don’t get me wrong. Changing the food you eat and the way you exercise is essential to achieving a healthy body and lifestyle. But what deserves greater focus and energy for a lasting foundation of health is your mindset. You can’t lose 10, 20, 30 pounds (and keep it off) until you first focus on losing your limiting beliefs, negative thoughts, and emotional baggage.
Think about it. The same person who created the mess you’re in—you—is trying to get you out. The same psychological you, anyway. In order to find some permanence in your weight-loss results, you need to change as a person. You need to change your mindset. Maybe you ate so much because you were stressed. Maybe you drank too much because you were sad. Maybe you didn’t exercise because you convinced yourself you’re not an athlete. The reasons holding us back and perpetuating bad habits are numerous. If you just change the mechanics of your behavior by eating less or exercising more, you still haven’t addressed the underlying psychology that got you out of shape in the first place.
In truth, no matter who you are, the process and mechanics of your health will break down. Even the most elite athletes and top performers have off days. Maybe it’s a birthday party or Thanksgiving dinner or a night out with friends. There is going to come a time when they eat too much and exercise too little. No one is perfect. The difference between these top performers and the average human being, though, is that their mindset and psychology picks them up when they fall. They’ll wake up the next day and get right back to work without blinking an eye.
They won’t spend time telling themselves how terrible they are or how they shouldn’t have had so much food. For them, those moments of indulgence are the exception, not the rule. They feel deserving of a good