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Inner Child Adult BELONGING step 1 Step 1 Parent

USES: USES: ? Helps create ? Restore natural and awareness and true belonging to solutions about any system relationships with self and others

A primordial archetypal dynamic, is that ofbut thea inner parent and adult archetype. Belonging is not an opinion or perception, fact,child, an absolute truth. When any system, be The child and parent archetype are polarized and seek balance. If we suppress one suffer. it a company, a team or a family denies or resists this fact, the system and its members (minus), there we automatically exaggerate the other polarity pair (plus). Only when child belongs and Though is a natural hierarchy of responsibility and order to a system, everyone parent are balanced, can the adult emerge. to support the equallyarchetype to a system. Use this PQF to explore and archetype restore belonging harmonious functioning of any group dynamic.

Everyone belongs system equally - CHILD then + PARENT : to +a CHILD then - PARENT
PQF Who belongs 3 subgroups: Perspectives subgroups
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Contract GROUP (System) (system) Goal

Draw a diagram of everyone that factually belongs system/group... Think Think carefully carefully so so as as not not to to Theme Date to the system/group. Name exclude anyone. Include yourself if you belong to the system. Indicate for each member in onyour your opinion (your sense of this) with a scale of 1 to 10, 10 meaning fully belonging and included and 0 meaning emotionally or mentally excluded. How to know if someone belongs to the system system? Family - all blood, ancestors, all born and unborn children, all deceased and living belong, all step families, half families and adopted belong. (Suggestion to work 2 - 4 generations back.) back) Companies - all staff, founders, partners, clients, suppliers, board, directors directors,and departments departments belong. belong.

System coaching questions

How can you best honour this system? How can you also honour your own choices and path? What is the absolute truth here? How might it feel to resist the truth of belonging to this system? What might it ultimately be like to complete fully acknowledge acknowledge the truth? the truth? How does it help to see the truth? Who factually exists in this system? How could you completely more fully honour honour the the truth truth ofof each each person person inin this this system system belonging belonging toto the the system? system?

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