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Connections is published twice a year for the friends of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet, St. Louis Province. Please send address changes and requests for additional copies to Editor, Connections, at the address above or to communications@csjsl.org. Province Leadership Sister Elizabeth Brown, CSJ Sister Patricia Clune, CSJ Sister Nancy Corcoran, CSJ Sister Helen Flemington, CSJ Sister Patricia Giljum, CSJ Sister Jean Meier, CSJ Sister Suzanne Wesley, CSJ Editor Jenny Beatrice Contributor Development Office Proofreaders Sister Jane Behlmann, CSJ Mary Lou Frank Sister Audrey Olson, CSJ Sister Charline Sullivan, CSJ Contributing Writers Sarah Baker Patricia Cassens Mary Lou Frank Kathy Futhey Design Barnes & Liston Creative Photography Sarah Baker Jenny Beatrice

Province Leadership, left to right: Sisters Elizabeth Brown, Helen Flemington, Jean Meier, Nancy Corcoran, Patty Clune, Pat Giljum and Suzanne Wesley.

Dear Friends, Theologian Anthony Gittins, CSSp once said, One of the signs of Spirit-led people is that their lives are full, worthwhile and never boring; they have an intuition for the Holy Spirit in the pulse of daily experience, not just in the mountaintop epiphanies, but in the suffering of the Valley of Tears. That requires honest commitment to ordinary events and ordinary people. This issue of Connections is filled with such people: sisters, associates, donors and partners in the ministry of justice and compassion. The mosaic of their lives and works express clearly their intuition for the Holy Spirit in the pulse of daily experience. The diversity of good works you will read about in this issue has a common thread holding them all together. From St. Teresas CSJ Camp to the Giving Voice Symposium; from the Village at Nazareth to Migrant and Immigrant Community Action; from Fair Trade at Carondelet and more, the people you read about are passionate about their activity and, at the same time, all care for something larger. In common, they care for the dear neighbor. When there is need for justice or a response to poverty and despair, they acted. As Rabbi Jonathan Sacks says, They knew that tears are a universal language and help a universal command. They saw faith not as a secluded castle but as a window onto a wider world. They saw Gods image in the face of a stranger, and heard Gods call in the cry of a starving child. We thank all who are part of these efforts in any way, through prayer, donation or engagement. We hope the articles you read here enliven the Spirit within you.

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The Road to Citizenship
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12 Q&A: The Principles of Restorative Justice

Sister Rose McLarney, CSJ discusses the principle of restorative justice, how it can reform our criminal justice system and help us better manage conflict in our lives. The Migrant and Immigrant Community Action Project, co-founded by CSJ Associate Jessica Mayo and Nicole Corts, assists families facing legal obstacles to immigration.

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D epartments
2 Around the Province 8 Beyond the Province 10 Faith Matters
On the cover: Nicole Corts, co-founder of the Migrant and Immigrant
Community Action Project, with her client Gonzalo Esquivel.

18 Peace and Justice 20 Advancing the Mission 23 Tributes and Memorials 26 Events and Happenings

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Back cover: Members of the congregation cheer at the start of the Sisters of
St. Joseph Congregational Chapter that was held in Los Angeles in July. Read more on page 8.
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Responsible Investors Meet at Fontbonne University
Calling Upon Corporations to Act in Just and Sustainable Ways

Members of ICCR give a panel presentation on their actions and progress on global health issues.

St. Louis: In June the Midwest Coalition for Responsible Investment (MCRI) hosted the annual general meeting of its national coalition at CSJsponsored Fontbonne University, with the leadership of MCRI Coordinator Sister Barbara Jennings, CSJ and the support of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet.
For 42 years, the Interfaith Center on Corporate Responsibility (ICCR) has promoted corporate practices to build a more just and sustainable world by integrating social values to investor actions. With more than 300 members, ICCR collaborates shareholder advocacy and corporate engagement across a wide range of sectors such as global health, social sustainability, human trafficking and supply chain monitoring. During the sessions, investors laid out strategies to address these issues and review progress in the past year.Some of ICCR members recent successes include engaging in a long-term dialogue with Hersheys that led to their pledge to use only cocoa beans certified sustainably

By joining with other socially responsible investors, such as those at ICCR,we are able to leverage our investments and join our voice with othersto call upon corporations to act in just and sustainable ways.
Sister Patty Johnson, CSJ Executive Director U.S. Federation of the Sisters of St. Joseph Sister Barbara Jennings gives a report on MCRIs progress on water issues.

sourced by 2020; advocating for the residents of Mossville, La. to protect them from Sasols industrial pollution; and leading ViiV Healthcare to enter into a voluntary license agreement with the Medicines Patent Pool to increase access to HIV medicines for children. Within each corporate dialogue and shareholder resolution are many days, months and years of member efforts in relationship building and advocacy work,

making the mutual support of the ICCR members one of the groups greatest benefits. Executive Director Sister Patty Johnson, CSJ of the U.S. Federation of the Sisters of St. Joseph values this support. By joining with other socially responsible investors, such as those at ICCR,we are able to leverage our investments and join our voice with othersto call upon corporations to act in just and sustainable ways.

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St. Ambrose University Honors Sister Barbara Moore

Awards & Recognitions

Davenport, Iowa: Sister Barbara Moore marked the

conclusion of St. Ambrose Universitys focus on Race Matters with her address to the Class of 2013. Sister Barbara was among a group of Catholic nuns who went to Selma in 1965 to march for equal voting rights in the Jim Crow-era south. Sister Joan Lescinski, CSJ, president of St. Ambrose, says, She is a quiet, self-effacing, brilliant woman and has been active the past 50 years in efforts to advance civil rights for our country. Sister Barbara was also presented with an honorary doctorate of letters.

Service Award for her compassionate and loving service as the secretary/receptionist at Our Lady of Life Apartments, an independent living apartment complex for seniors that is part of the Cardinal Ritter Senior Services Agency in the St. Louis area. The Cardinal Rigali Awards are presented for outstanding service to longtime employees and volunteers of the St. Louis Archdiocese and its parishes, schools and agencies.

Sister Joan Whittemore Co-Authors Reference Guide

Sisters Honored by Fontbonne University


St. Louis: Sister Rita Marie
Schmitz was recognized with the 2013 Fontbonne-Carondelet Heritage Award. The honor recognizes a sister who exemplifies the heritage of the CSJs and the values of Fontbonne. A professor of education and Fontbonne alumna (1966), Sister Rita has been influencing students entering the teaching profession since she began. In addition, the Sister Rita Marie Schmitz, CSJ Endowed Scholarship Fund is being established in recognition of this honor.

Sister Joan Whittemore with Jane Baldauf Berdes, Ph. D. has published A Guide to Ospedali Research (Pendragon Press, 2012), a two-volume research guide related to Venices four Ospedali Grandi for girls that served variously as orphanages, charities, schools and conservatories and, throughout their years of operation (1525-1855), yielded vast amounts of music. Joan Catoni Conlon of the Choral Journal says, Anyone who ever has been tempted to research any topic less than thoroughly will be humbled and chastised by the Herculean research efforts of the combined team of Jane Berdes and Joan Whittemore.

Sister Jane Hassett was selected as one of the 2013 recipients of Fontbonne Universitys Founders Award that honors alumni and others for their exemplary leadership and service to society through the mission and values of the CSJs. Dedicating nearly 50 years of ministry to Fontbonne University, Sister Jane has served as professor, chairperson, researcher, writer and archivist, as well as president (1972-1985). Sister Jane, along with four other awardees, is being honored during the annual Founders Dinner in October.

As the executive director of the Carondelet Community Betterment Federation, Sister Mary Ann Nestel (center) accepts a proclamation from the City of St. Louis at the 25th anniversary celebration of CCBFs free summer concert series, held June 2 in Carondelet Park. She is joined by Mary Ellen Ponder, a representative of St. Louis Mayor Francis Slays Office, and Tom Villa,Ward 11 Alderman and long-time friend of the Sisters of St. Joseph. Sister Mary Ann says, We have been giving the gift of music to the Carondelet neighborhood and greater St. Louis for 25 years and, with the communitys support, we hope to do it for 25 more.

Sister Amy Hereford has published Religious Life at the Crossroads: A School for Mystics and Prophets (Orbis Books, 2013) that explores the current situation of women religious, reimagines the meaning of vows, community and mission, and examines how religious life will fit into an emerging church. Sister Marlene Weisenbeck, FSPA, past president of the Leadership Conference of Women Religious says, Her view of the future is offered through defining characteristics that will be hallmarks of religious life in the 21st century.

Sister Amy Hereford Publishes Book on Future of Religious Life

Cardinal Rigali Award Given to Sister Kathleen OMalley

Sister Kathleen OMalley was honored on September 25 by the St. Louis Archdiocese as a recipient of the Cardinal Rigali
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Siebert Sisters Retire from St. Joseph Institute

Transitions

nn and Roseanne Siebert were first introduced to the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet when one of their sisters lost her hearing through meningitis and was accepted at St. Joseph Institute. Years later, when the sisters entered the Sisters of St. Joseph, both were called upon to serve the deaf at St. Joseph Sisters Ann Gerard and Institute in 1964. After 49 Roseanne Siebert years of dedicated service, these sister-sisters were honored by the school at their retirement celebration in June. Through their teaching and mentoring, Sisters Ann Gerard and Roseanne have shaped the lives of hundreds of children with hearing loss as well as countless deaf educators. Sister Ann Gerard says, My fondest memories are seeing the children grow and develop their academic skills and their self-esteem to the point where they can be part of society with confidence. I will miss the children and families we serve in this ministry, the dedicated staff with whom I have been privileged to work, the ability and opportunity to make a difference in the lives of children with hearing impairments, says Sister Roseanne. Both sisters have plans to use their energies in volunteer ministry in areas where the Sisters of St. Joseph serve the dear neighbor and, in the years to come, the Sieberts legacy will continue to inspire and guide all those who serve. SJI President Dr. Peter Kacharis says, The students, Board of Directors, faculty and staff of St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf treasure their memories with Sister Ann Gerard and Sister Roseanne and thank them for their years of service at the Sisters of St. Josephs first American ministry.

St. Louis: Sister Pat Dunphy retired as principal of St. Josephs Academy after nine years of service, two as assistant principal and seven as principal.
A Sister of St. Joseph for more than 50 years, Sister Pat is a career educator and school administrator, having worked in schools across Missouri, Texas, Colorado and Michigan. She plans to use her expertise to create an association of the 30 Sisters of St. Joseph-sponsored high schools to encourage further collaboration and partnership. I want to create a virtual academy that will enhance the spirit and spirituality of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet within our member schools, she says.

Sister Pat Dunphy Retires from St. Josephs Academy

St. Louis: On May 4, family, friends and the St. Matthew the Apostle Catholic Church community surprised Sister Regina Bartman with a retirement celebration after more than 35 years of service as pastoral associate and teacher at the parish.
I never thought I would be here as long as I was, says Sister Regina. But, I thought this was where the Lord wanted me, so I stayed. The day was full of surprises including a special Mass, a horsedrawn carriage ride and a reception. Sister Regina was then given the surprise of a lifetimea white papier mch airplane with the Swiss flag on it, representing a trip to visit her family in Switzerland.

Parish Celebrates Sister Regina Bartmans 35 Years of Service

The party was memorable, but for Sister Regina, the relationships she has built with the rest of the St. Matthews community are unforgettable. They have been so good and accepting. The greatest gift I have had is the grace of the people here.

St. Louis: Dr. Dennis Golden has announced he will retire as the president of Fontbonne University after 19 years of service, effective June 2014. Throughout his time at Fontbonne, Golden has overseen successes such as two capital campaigns and capital improvements; the establishment of community-

Fontbonne President To Retire

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Building Leaders at CSJ Camp


Sisters of St. Josephs tradition of fostering all of which women are capable, St. Teresas Academy held its annual summer leadership camp. Teachers nominate sophomores who exhibit exceptional leadership abilities, 26 of whom are selected to further explore these qualities through the program. The campers visited the sisters serving in the Kansas City area and learned about the history, mission and vision of the Sisters of St. Joseph and their impact on St. Teresas Academy. They also participated in on-campus activities designed to help campers discover their leadership skills and

Kansas City: Following in the

put them into practice through teambuilding challenges at TimberRidge Adventure Center. On the last day of this three-day program, the girls rolled up their sleeves and put in a hard days work serving the dear neighbor at Jerusalem Farm. Sponsored by Avila University, this farm and retreat center reaches out to Kansas Citys northeast neighborhood through sustainable living initiatives and home repair services. I learned the most about leadership this day, says camper Anna Bauman. It made me realize that leadership is not just about you, but it is about helping others in your community.

Transitions, continued
enriching programs like the annual Dedicated Semester; and a growth in enrollment and academic programs for undergraduates, graduates and working adults. Golden, who is the first male president of the university, sees his work at Fontbonne with the Sisters of St. Joseph as both a career and a callinga perspective he has lived out both as president and as a CSJ associate. I will conclude my time as servant-leader president knowing that, in collaboration with my colleagues, Fontbonne has reached the next level. overseeing the expansion of services on the campus with the construction of The Village at Nazareth independent living facility, and implementing a quality improvement program resulting in Five-Star facility status. These efforts have set Nazareth Living Center on a firm foundation for the future, says Vice President of Operations Chris Boldt. Throughout her tenure, she has been committed to leading Nazareth Living Center through the challenges facing the organization to a sustainable future while maintaining its dedication to the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelets mission.

St. Louis: Lu Westhoff, administrator/CEO of Nazareth Living Center, is leaving her role at the end of 2013. For the past 14 years, Lu has led Nazareth Living Center, guiding the facilitys financial turnaround, developing a master site plan,

Nazareth Living Center CEO Moving On

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The members of the ongoing commitment group gather for a picture on the chapel steps before the ceremony begins.

Association Grows with Recent Commitments

n June 1 in Holy Family Chapel at the motherhouse, 37 people made their initial and ongoing commitments as associate members of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet.

Associates are women and men, married and single, who are called by God to commit to extending the mission and sharing the spirit of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet without becoming vowed members. There are more than 300 associates who bring the CSJ spirit to their jobs, parishes and families as they share their gifts in works of justice and peace for the neighbor and the earth. Some associates are inspired by the spirit of service set forth by the founders. Our founding sisters mission was simple in wordhelp our dear neighbor. With this in mind they would go out daily into the neighborhood and see what the needs were, says Roland Martir. I commit to follow our founding sisters mission to go forth into our neighborhoods, identify what I see as needs and then do my best to put a plan into action to help our dear neighbor.
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I have discovered that my association with the Sisters of St. Joseph has helped me to find and be my best self.
Virginia Brown, CSJ Associate Others, like Catherine M. Schodrowski, seek to model their experience of the sisters today. The outpouring of love, dedication, care and joy the sisters bring to our world and all the peoples they meet, with such a magnificent humility, is an example that I will try to follow to the best of my ability. Brittany Rose is called to association because of the virtues and values she shares with the CSJs. I promise to serve the dear neighbor as best I can and continue to grow in my spiritual relationship with God to become the person that He wants me to be, she says. Kevin Kelly seeks to incorporate these values in his daily encounters and

relationships, pledging to continue to utilize the mission and the charism, of the love of God and of the dear neighbor, with my family, my co-employees and those with whom I come into contact every day in my ministry. Many associates attribute the personal growth they experience to the guidance of the members and mentors in the CSJ community. I have discovered that my association with the Sisters of St. Joseph has helped me to find and be my best self, says Virginia Brown. Kay Komotos says, In the last three years, my prayer life and my sense of mission have grown, and I feel that my association with the sisters has been a major influencing factor. Whatever the inspiration and the expression, the desire to live in right relationship with God is common to the associate experiencea journey expressed succinctly in the words of Pat Richey: I commit to seek wisdom to know, courage to do and to do all with the Loving Hands of God.

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Let Us Remember...
Visit www.csjsl.org to read the life stories of our faithful sisters who have died. Sister Marie T. Tucker November 23, 1917 April 14, 2013 Enthusiastic and joyful Sister of St. Joseph Sister Eileen Hoffer (S. Gregory Marie) March 4, 1929July 1, 2013 Excellent teacher, loving friend, genuine Sister of St. Joseph Sister Mary Laurent Duggan May 13, 1919 July 21, 2013 Generous, resilient, supportive to both community and family Sister Mary Antonia Palumbo October 27, 1914 August 3, 2013 Wonderful things happened in her classroom Sister Mildred Stellmack (S. Mary Ephrem) May 8, 1921 August 22, 2013 Always ready to lend a helping, loving hand Sister Kathleen Naughton (S. Thomas Louise) January 31, 1941 - September 17, 2013 Joyful follower of the Lords Will Sister Anna Schlett (S. Patrick Joseph) October 5, 1928 - September 27, 2013 Filled with love, giving of herself Sister Margaret Catherine Merrell (S. Mary William) January 16, 1917 - September 29, 2013 Prayerful woman with a generous heart

Ron Carter of Nazareth Living Center welcomes Sisters Patty Clune, Kathy Crowley and Anna Bridget Kearns to an open house at the new facility.

n the tradition of serving the needs of the times, CSJ-sponsored Nazareth Living Center in St. Louis continues to offer quality care for our elder dear neighbors with the opening of The Village independent living apartments. Nazareth grew in 1992 when the Sisters of St. Joseph opened Nazareth, their community retirement home, to laypeople. Its services were enhanced once again in 2009 through a co-sponsorship with Benedictine Health Systems. And today, Nazareth expands to offer a full continuum of on-site care: independent living, assisted living, memory care, nursing care and rehabilitation. Province Leader Sister Suzanne Wesley says, The overall continuum of care now provided at Nazareth provides options for living as well as stretching our creativity as to how we will create and live in community.

The Village Offers Independent Living at Nazareth Living Center

Sister Michael Therese Bauer shows Sister Marianne Keena her new bedroom at the Village.

Within the 16-acre campus of landscaped grounds, courtyards, walking paths and patios, Nazareth offers the warmth and companionship of community living, tailored to each persons unique interests and needs. Beautifully appointed apartment homes are enhanced by the many community life opportunities such as fine dining, movie theater, gym, salon and more. Choices are abundant and residents can take part in the offerings and services to the degree that it is nourishing for them, Sister Suzanne says.

way with each other and the dear neighbor. At this time, when our mission calls us to serve the dear neighbor, what could be better than to share their needs for care with the needs of our sisters?

Sister Suzanne is proud that the expansion at Nazareth has For more information about The Village at Nazareth, visit given the sisters an opportunity to live together in a whole new www.nazarethlivingcenter.com.
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Congregational Chapter Sets Direction, Elects Leaders
Los Angeles, Calif: Bells rang and voices sang to open
the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelets Congregational Chapter, held at Carondelet Center in Los Angeles from July 17-30. the Acts of Chapter: Calls to Action that focus on five key areas: Communion Within the Earth Community: committing to take measurable actions that have a positive impact on water, climate change, food, consumption and waste. More than 125 sisters and associates representing each of the provinces and vice provinces that make up the congregation (Albany, St. Louis, St. Paul, Los Angeles, Hawaii and Peru) were present in a variety of roles: delegates, persons with voice, leadership nominees, translators, presenters, committee members and observers. Held every six years, the chapter convenes to elect the congregation leadership team, review the life and ministry of the congregation in light of its spirit and purpose in relation to the current needs of the church and society, and make the decisions necessary to strengthen the congregation in fulfilling its mission. The business of sharing accountability reports, listening to presentations and discerning nominees for leadership were prayerfully centered in these words from Isaiah, I am making something new. Do you not see it?a call to listen deeply and respond truthfully to the limitless possibilities God is revealing. Noted speakers included Sister Griselda Martinez Morales, the United Nations-Non Governmental Organizations representative of the Congregation of St. Joseph, and Bishop Remi De Roo, renowned Vatican II author and lecturer. After much prayer, dialogue and hard work, the chapter body articulated the future direction of mission and ministry in

Partnering with New Eyes: committing to educate and transform our world views to join with others in addressing issues that deny people their human dignity. Church, The People of God: committing to living our baptismal call in the authority of the Gospel in the spirit of Vatican II teachings. Living the CSJ Charism: committing to intentionally welcome, foster and develop new ways and forms of living the charism through a variety of emerging relationships. Structures for Mission: committing to intensifying collaborations and experimentations as a congregation in order to maximize our resources and possibilities for the sake of the mission.

The chapter closed with the election and affirmation of the new Congregational Leadership Team: Sisters Danielle Bonetti (Albany), Barbara Dreher (St. Louis), Mary Ann Leininger, (Los Angeles/serving in Peru), Mary McKay (Los Angeles) and Miriam Ukeritis (Albany). The new team enters office in January 2014 and serves through 2020.

Sister Griselda Martinez Morales

Members of the new Congregational Leadership Team are (top row, left to right) Sisters Mary Ann Leininger and Danielle Bonetti; (bottom row, left to right) Sisters Mary McKay, Barbara Dreher and Miriam Ukeritis.
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Young Nuns Meet to Imagine Future Together


Sisters From More Than 30 Congregations Attend Giving Voice National Gathering
The opportunity to come together as young, excited, professional sisters, to share our stories, to buoy each other's dreams, to pray together about the ministries God would invite us to pursue into the future is a conversation aching to be lived.
Sister Sarah Heger, CSJ of St. Francis and a member of the Giving Voice leadership team. Mission and ministry is both one of the most challenging and most rewarding parts of religious life, says 31-year-old Sister Sarah Heger,a Sister of St. Joseph of Carondelet from St. Louis. The opportunity to come together as young, excited, professional sisters, to share our stories, to buoy each other's dreams, to pray together about the ministries God

Belmont, Calif: In July a group of

Roman Catholic Sisters of the younger varietyaged 25 to 49came together in the San Francisco Bay Area for the Giving Voice National Gathering.These young nuns, most of whom are the youngest members of their religious orders, prayed and reflected on the future of mission and ministry in the Church and society in the 21st century. Giving Voice is a peer-led grassroots national organization of Catholic sisters under the age of 50 that creates spaces for younger women religious to give voice to their hopes, dreams and challenges in religious life.The four-day national gathering brought together sisters from more than 30 congregations of women religious across North America. We love our sisters in our own communities, but having time with peers who understand what it is to live in similar circumstances affirms and strengthens us in our vocations, says 32-year-old Sister Sarah Kohles, a Sister

would invite us to pursue into the future is a conversation aching to be lived. Conference participants shared insights gained from a wide variety of ministry experiences as well as creatively imagined what the future ministry of Catholic sisters might look like given the growing number of people living in poverty and the increasing intercultural reality. Sister Kristin Matthes, a Sister of Notre Dame de Namur and one of the founders of Giving Voice, recognizes the importance of the gathering in renewing connections and building a network of peers. Religious life offers a support system for full engagement in the mission of Jesus, reaching out to those living on the margins of society, living in poverty, living in violent and dangerous circumstances across the globe, she says. We leave the conference energized for our ministries that help to bring about the Reign of God, the reign of justice and peace, in our world today.
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By Mary Kay Christian, CSJA, Province Liturgist

verywhere I look I see luxury and opulenceon the television, in the movies, on the pages of a magazine. Cars costing more than many peoples homes, a dress with price tags equal to a familys monthly food budget it all seems so commonplace. I look again and I see need and struggle. A man pushing a shopping cart up and down my alley searching for cans and scrap metal. Mothers holding sick children waiting for a bus to get to the clinic. I see the richest impoverished nation on earth. When my son needed cowboy boots for his high school play, we hit the thrift shops, not wanting to pay for shoes he will never need or wear again. The Salvation Army and Goodwill stores were packed with people rooting through huge bins of cast-off shoes, clothes and small household trinkets. And there I was in the mix, feeling like I was dumpster diving only with a roof over my head. More and more people I meet never dreamed they would need to buy second hand clothes or groceries from the dollar store. We have moved beyond thrifty

Could we as a society tolerate any injustice, neglect or abuse if it impedes the pursuit of happiness for any man, woman or child?
shoppers who love a bargain and know the best coupons to clip. Now many families working two or more jobs need to visit food pantries by the end of the month. Basic necessities have become luxuries for many middle class working folk. With no cowboy boots in sight, we were forced to shop the malls filled with people strolling down the aisles of pretty and plenty. I am haunted by the specter of the beautifully pampered faces, such a stark contrast from the faces of the stressed and depressed. But it occurs to me that the mall shoppers and the thrift-shop seekers are equally impoverished. There seems to be a poverty of spirit across socio-economic lines. Could it be the pursuit of material goods and consumerism are replacing our ability to nurture and replenish our spiritual needs?

For some, the endless search for the newest, shiniest status symbol has usurped the pursuit for meaning and inner peace. For others, the pursuit of basic resources makes it impossible to have energy left to make room for beauty and spiritual growth. What if we, as a society, made spiritual enrichment and the pursuit of inner beauty our top priority? If we reframed the definition of happiness to be the ability of every person to enjoy inner peace, spiritual comfort and opportunities for the cultivation of beauty into his or her daily lives, our communal, religious and political decisions would undergo vast changes. Could we as a society tolerate any injustice, neglect or abuse if it impedes the pursuit of happiness for any man, woman or child? If we were to re-imagine a world where happiness is defined by an ability to live in truth and beauty, our lives, families and communities would be rich beyond measure.

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The Perfect Leaf


By Sister Marilyn Lott, CSJ
scarring or woundedness, and yet, together we form community. Together, the God-within-me touches and inspires the Godwithin-you. There is a spiritual teaching that says we should live in the present moment. We should hold our consciousness in the midst of an eternal now. As we move into cooler weather and the earth begins its hibernation, what transformation is taking place in your own life? Take some time to be still and see that together with all those you meet you are an expression of Gods love and beauty. According to singer, songwriter and poet Ani DiFranco, there is strength in the differences between us and there is comfort, where we overlap. What I became aware of that day on the trail was that perfection happens in our coming together and sharing the gifts we have been given.

he Autumn Equinox marks the arrival of the season of fall, traditionally seen as a period of changes leading to the dark of winter. In watching the leaves change and flutter to the ground, we are reminded that natures cycles are mirrored in our lives.

Autumn is a time for letting go, releasing things and of letting the Spirit take charge of our lives. The changing of the autumn leaves brings about new hues. The trees are preparing for the winter by pulling energy inward and in many ways stand unadorned for all to see. What are we being invited to learn during this season?

One day, while walking and looking for the perfect leaves to place on the table, I was struck by the multitude of colors that had already fallen on the trails. Reaching down I lifted what I thought was the perfect leaf. In looking closer, I found that it Take some time to be still and see had cracks and was broken in that together, with all those In the season of autumn, parts. So what did I do? I put you meet, you are an expression we are reminded to continue to it down and looked again for hone our ability to listen to the of Gods love and beauty. the perfect leaf. Over and over I voice within and let go of what tried and finally something inside of me said to stop, stand still gets in the way of our ability to live in the present moment and and look at what is in front of me. delight in all we see and hear. By living mindfully, life unfolds in There I saw the perfect blend of colors and hues. I needed to let go of my external focus and stay in the moment. I needed to get out of my own way and see what was right in front of me. Finally listening to the soft voice from within I became aware that I needed to let go of my image and look at the beauty all around me. There in front of me was a picture of our transitioning to another season and a call to be transformed ourselves. It was a time to stop and to appreciate Gods own wonderful nature. What finally emerged was that each leaf had its own beauty, much like every individual. None of us is without some the present and we continue to transform. Like the many leaves on the ground, we color the world with new hues and gifts. Sister Marilyn Lott is the staff chaplain at St. Louis University Medical Center.

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The Principles of Restorative Justice
By Jenny Beatrice

hen Zach was 13 he made a poor decision. One night, he and five of his middle school friends threw rocks at the schools fleet of buses. Zach and one other boy were caught. Instead of being labeled a juvenile, Zach participated in a Victim Offender Dialogue program that included his parents, a representative from the school and a mediator.

America incarcerates individuals at a higher rate per capita than any other nation. And of the incarcerated who return to society, 68 percent return to prison. In 2008 there were over two million individuals in prison, costing $47 billion dollars. But the losses run deeper than dollars. Left with a broken system and broken relationships, we all pay the price. With more than 10 years of experience helping women and men rebuild their lives after incarceration, Sister Rose McLarney, CSJ has witnessed how a process based on relationships instead of retaliation can transform lives. A trained mediator, Sister Rose is the founder of the Missouri Restorative Justice Coalition, and she promotes and implements restorative justice practices in Kansas City schools and neighborhoods through her work with the Community Mediation Center. Sister Rose discusses the principle of restorative justice, how it can reform our criminal justice system and help us better manage conflict in our lives.

Zach heard about his pranks after-effects: $18,000 worth of damages, children without rides to school, the increase in insurance rates, the school personnels time and the drivers anger. In turn, the school heard about Zach. He admitted to getting in with a group of boys that skipped school, did not turn in homework and had been expelled in the last school year. In place of a punishment, an alternate agreement was worked out by all parties. Zach committed to attending school, completing all homework assignments and joining a school-sponsored sport. Four months later, Zach completed the requirements. He also made the honor roll.

What is restorative justice?


The definition by Howard Zehr, the leading educator in restorative justice, is a process to involve to the extent possible those who have a stake in a specific offense and to collectively identify and address harms, needs, and obligations in order to heal and put things as right as possible.

must listen to the victims and community members describe how they have been affected. He or she must realize the obligation to help make things right. Total restoration is not always possible, but every effort should be made.

What are the outcomes of this process?

risking going to jail! Victims are more satisfied, as their voices are heard and their needs are addressed to the extent possible. The result is a higher rate of restitution and payment for damages or loss.

How exactly does it work?

What role do these stakeholders play?

The victims have the primary say as far as what harm has been done and what would help them to heal. The offenders
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Offenders become aware of the harm their actions have caused. Instead of denying what they did to avoid punishment, the incentive is to admit what they did and make amends. Offenders say that this is tougher than going before a judge and

Take Doris, a 20-year-old shoplifter I met through a mediation process. Doris listened to the store representative talk about the repercussions shoplifting has on customers. She listened to the neighbors talk about the effect frequent police activity has on the neighborhood.

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Criminal Justice
Crime is a violation of the law and the state Violations create guilt Justice requires the state to determine blame (guilt) and impose pain (punishment) Central focus: oenders getting what they deserve

Restorative Justice
Crime is a violation of people and relationships Violations create obligations Justice involves victims, oenders and community members working together to put things right Central focus: victim needs and oender responsibility for repairing the harm

Criminal Justice
What laws have been broken? Who did it? What do they deserve?

Restorative Justice
Who has been hurt? What are their needs? Whose obligations are these?

Doris apologized for her actions. Then someone asked Doris about her life. She admitted she was into drugsa homeless college dropout disowned by her family. Instead of incarceration, the group worked out an agreement to get Doris in rehab, to serve at a community service center and to report back to the group the next month.

In reality, both sides usually lose something because the relationship is damaged and the problem is not truly resolved.

understanding of the other persons needs and interests or am I focusing primarily on my desires and needs? Now that is a challenge, especially if we cant reach the point of understanding. Respecting the other is not always easy. Sometimes I would rather look askance on them and feel justified in staying angry. But its not about Me vs. Them. Its about relationshipswho has been harmed and repairing that harm. Respect is at the core. In addition to her work with the Missouri Restorative Justice Coalition, Sister Rose McLarney is an instructor at CSJsponsored Avila University.

Whats the alternative?

With evidence of successes like Doris and Zach, why is there a reluctance to make a change in the system?
The criminal justice system focuses primarily on giving offenders the punishment they deserve. This is justice as retribution. The biggest barrier is the realization that giving offenders what they deserve is not productive. It does not reduce crime. It does not offer healing.

A more constructive way is a win-win collaborative or cooperative approach. Conflicts that are addressed early avoid escalation into advanced actions and even violence. We focus on repairing the relationship, understanding the other person and having a win-win solution rather than getting my way.

But shouldnt we be working on specific issues to eliminate conflicts at the core?


Conflicts are a natural part of life, but conflicts dont have to be destructive. Instead we can view them as an opportunity to grow, learn and improve relationships. We can learn the different needs and beliefs of others. There are not bad peoplethere are good people who have made bad choices.

How can we be catalysts for change?


Restorative justice is a process, a way of life that can be used anyplace where there is conflict. When conflicts arise within families, neighborhoods, work places, schools or communities, many of us automatically fall into adversarial ways of thinkingYou vs. Me. In this dynamic, there is a winner and a loser.

How can we make good choices in the throes of a conflict?


Evaluate rather than react. I may react in anger, but I have a choice in how I respond. Ask yourself, Am I seeking

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CSJ Associate Helps Immigrants Navigate the Legal Process


By Mary Lou Frank

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For Jessica Mayo, caring for the dear neighbor through the MICA Project is a way in which she can live out her vocation and avocation, as well as her commitment as a CSJ Associate.
parents had never been able to successfully navigate the legal maze to citizenship for themselves or their children, Eduardo was facing a final order of removal, meaning he could be deported at any time without any further due process. Then his family heard about the Migrant and Immigrant Community Jessica Mayo Action (MICA) Project. Co-founded by CSJ Associate Jessica Mayo and Nicole Corts, her law school colleague, the MICA Project is keeping low-income immigrant families together by helping them overcome barriers to justice. Having launched the project in August of 2012, the two attorneys now offer dozens of families like Eduardos low-cost legal services, advocacy and education to promote the voice and human dignity of immigrant communities. The road to citizenship is extraordinarily complex, Jessica explains. With thousands of undocumented workers and their families living in the St. Louis area, we saw there was a huge need to help these neighbors fulfill the requirements to stay here legally. We help them get beyond language and cultural barriers that so often lead to deportation. Typical MICA Project cases involve family immigration, naturalization, removal defense, and asylum and refugee issues. This past spring and summer, MICA helped Eduardo obtain DACA statusDeferred Action for Childhood Arrivals. He was able to get his driver's license and a social security number. Hes now protected from deportation and started college this fall. A work authorization is helping him to support himself and his family. Like most start-up nonprofits, the MICA Project struggles for funding. Prior to and since opening a little over a year ago, Jessica and Nicole secured several grants to meet the projects ongoing expensesespecially legal representation, travel and administrative costs, and interpreter fees.
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s the graduates processed down the aisle, strains of Pomp & Circumstance echoed through the auditorium. In May, Eduardos high school days came to a triumphant and happy close. All around him, proud parents and relieved graduates cheered and clung eagerly to their newly-issued diplomas. But unlike most of his classmates who were eager to begin packing for college, Eduardo had little hope that he would ever go to college or work legally in the United States. Having come to the United States with his family when he was just six years old, Eduardo has grown up much like most American kids. St. Louis is his home. But because his

Take a Seat for Immigration


Sister Loretta Costa Makes a Stop with Nuns on the Bus

n the summer of 2012, Network (a Catholic social justice lobby) made national headlines with its Nuns on the Bus tour, as Catholic sisters traveled through nine states to protest the effects of cuts to federal safety-net spending proposed by Congressman Paul Ryan.

Nuns on the Bus went on the road again this summer with a focus on comprehensive immigration reform. Led by Networks executive director Simone Campbell, SSS, the tour calls attention to the need for an immigration system that reflects the faith, values and needs of the 21st centuryone that allows families to stay together and workers opportunities to come forward and earn legalization. Georgia native Sister Loretta Costa, CSJ, was one of 10 women religious who participated in the Nuns on the Bus-Atlanta stop on June 5. The day began downtown at Senator Saxby Chambliss office, where Sister Simone and the sisters were met by a sizable group who joined them for conversation and discussion. Sister Simone was dynamic in her typically quiet way, says Sister Loretta. She spoke of the growing plight of people from many parts of the world and how imperative it was for all of us to work together. There was an evening gathering at the Good Shepherd Center, an organization that works primarily with Vietnamese refugees and immigrants led by Sister Christine MyHanh Troung. Despite a very severe storm, 50 people came out for the evening rally. The nuns who have traveled with this leg of the journey were all older women, which surprised and gladdened me, says 90-year-old Sister Loretta. Each shared their wonderful story, which was very impressive. But, what most impressed her was the beautiful simplicity of Sister Simone.Her demeanor spoke of peace with a passion as did her message.She shared her joy and gratitude to all the sisters who traveled with her. After the Atlanta stop, the tour continued on to New Orleans where they picked up six new travelers and began a trek westward, ending in California on June 18. I was grateful to be with the courageous women who share this journey, Sister Loretta says. Like our fore-mothers, they carry a strong voice for those whose voices have been silenced. Learn more about Network and Nuns on the Bus at www.networklobby.org.
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Among the funding was two Tabitha Grants awarded by the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet. The Tabitha Grant was named for the saintly woman described in Acts of the Apostles as a disciple full of good works and charity. It was established as a way for the CSJs to offer small nonprofits, like MICA, the funding they need to provide direct service to the most vulnerable people and communities. For the 29-year-old Jessica, caring for the dear neighbor is a way in which she can live out her vocation and avocation, as well as her commitment as a CSJ Associate. Growing up a Sunday churchgoer, Jessica became more involved with social and community service at Truman State University, where she met her husband Ken. Years later, after meeting a Sister of St. Joseph through a friend, both Jessica and Ken began a formative journey toward membership as CSJ associates. Jessica made her initial commitment in November 2011. As MICAs co-directors and sole staff members, Jessica and Nicole welcome the assistance of volunteers. And the Sisters of St. Joseph have been so supportive in that, Jessica says. In addition to this years $8,000 Tabitha Grant, which will pay for legal fees that our clients cant afford, theyve helped out in other ways, too, such as furniture donations and volunteers. Sister Sandra Straub is a weekly volunteer helping out with whatever we needfilling out forms for clients, processing grant proposalsactually she does all kinds of stuff for us! With well over half of clients being families with children, Jessica says that one of the most rewarding aspects of the projects mission is transforming confusion into opportunity.

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MICA co-founder and caseworker Nicole Corts helps Gonzalo Esquivel study for his naturalization exam with his wife Maria Elena Niniz by his side.

She notes that uniting families who have been apart, or keeping families from being separated by deportation, is an excessively long and arduous road. One application for attaining legal status might be as long as 400 pages. Cases generally take six months or even longer. And because St. Louis does not have an Immigration Court, families and their attorneys have to travel to Kansas City. Jessica notes, In 2010 over half of families dealing with the Immigration Court had no legal assistance, and there are no public defenders available at the Immigration Court. With an attorney, immigrants are four to six times likelier to avert deportation in some types of cases. Recently, the MICA Project helped Ana and Roberto, a young couple who met and fell in love some years ago. Roberto was working in the United States as an undocumented worker, so after they married, Ana began proceedings to allow Roberto to obtain legal status. Her petition was granted, but Roberto wasnt allowed to stay in the USA while finishing the process to obtain his visa. Shortly after he said goodbye to his wife and young daughter and returned to Mexico, Ana learned she was pregnant with their second child. Sadly, bureaucratic delays kept the family apart for another two years. When Ana and Roberto heard about the MICA Project, they asked for help to complete a special waiver needed to process the visa. In July 2013, Ana and Roberto were reunited in the United States, and Roberto finally got to hold his baby girl for the very first time.

Imagine living without one of your family members for three years. Imagine not being able to read or understand the dozens of pages of an application that you know can bring them back. Imagine not having the money to pay an attorney who can help you complete that application. This is what so many of our families are faced with. The two CSJ Tabitha Grants have enabled the MICA Project to expand its reach within the first full year of operation. The project is currently working with 80 clients, and others in need are finding us easily, Jessica notes. And during Jessicas recent maternity leave, the organization had to begin a client waiting list. Our clients are so grateful. Just a few days ago we got a thank-you note and someone added God love you. This has been a wonderful beginning of the journey my commitment to association began around the same time as the MICA Project was formed. The sisters and associates have been great companions through this time of growth. Learn more about the MICA Project, at mica-project.org.

Jessica and Ken Mayo make their home in St. Louis. They have two sons, two-year-old Levi and newborn Damian. Jessica graduated from Washington University in St. Louis in May 2012 with her Juris Doctorate after spending six years working in nonprofit organizations across the country.

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Pictured above at the STEM conference in May: Left, Janette Jamerson of the motherhouse kitchen staff and Justice Coordinator Anna Sandidge; Right, Director of Dining Services Scott Hark.

Equal Exchange Partnership Promotes Fair Trade


By Sarah Baker

hat began as an inquiry about where to purchase Fair Trade coffee eight years ago has led to a longstanding relationship between the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet and Equal Exchange, a for-profit Fair Trade worker-owned cooperative that distributes organic, gourmet coffee, tea, sugar, cocoa and chocolate bars produced by farmer cooperatives in Latin America, Africa and Asia.

their organization and 60 percent profit goes back to the farmers and worker owned co-ops. Not only does this model support small farmers, its a very tangible step in eliminating human trafficking, states Anna Sandidge, justice coordinator for the CSJs. It also reminds us of the importance of fair trade and care for the environment in our choices as consumers. Since 2005, the CSJ community has been selling Equal Exchanges Fair Trade coffees and chocolates at the Carondelet Motherhouse. The motherhouse dining services also use these products in their kitchen and are always ready to expand their Fair Trade ingredients when possible. But the bond doesnt stop there. In May, Anna and Scott Hark, director of dining services at the motherhouse, were asked to represent Equal Exchange and promote their Fair Trade products at the Science, Technology, Engineering and Math (STEM) Conference in St. Louis. They, along with two other members of the dining services staff, met with science and math

teachers during the conferences trade show, handed out free chocolate samples and spread the good news of Fair Trade options. All while sharing about the good works of the Sisters of St. Joseph, too. In October, Fair Trade chocolate was a featured product offered to guests at the Wine and Chocolate event presented by CSJs Development Office at the Carondelet Motherhouse. With this partnership, the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet continue to work together as a community for a better world. And, it reinforces what we know in our heartstogetherwe are more. To learn more about purchasing Fair Trade products and/ or fundraising opportunities, contact Anna Sandidge at 314-678-0317 or asandidge@csjsl.org.

We fell into it by grace, says Associate Diana Oleskevich, former justice coordinator for the Sisters of St. Joseph. Then, it just kept evolving. During her tenure with the CSJs, Diana was approached by several sisters asking where they could buy Fair Trade coffee and, then, if she could order the product. So she took a look into Equal Exchanges Selling in Your Community program. The initiative allows groups, churches and communitiessuch as the CSJs the opportunity to support small-scale farmers and bring people together. By selling the Fair Trade products, groups can earn 40 percent of the profits for
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I had traded one mindless purchase for another and sacrificed my friends along the way. I spent so much time and energy calculating the most ethical and righteous Fr. Jean Pierre Medaille choice I lost sight of what was important, being in right relationship with people, not Im not sure how I carried all that gear, plus thrift things. store clothes and save-the-world outreach materials along On a recent trip to Kaldis, one of St. Louis homewith the self-righteous ego. Looking back, its no wonder town coffee shops, I plopped my very handy Starbuckss I was tired most of the time. 8oz travel mug on the counter. The clerk playfully arched I was a passive-aggressive activist, bearing silent witness with my ration of acceptable foods and items. Not preaching, but taking every opportunity to explain my abstinence. And then it started happening. One by one my friends began to come up to me with their confessions.

have always traveled a lot for work. An eco-conscious locavore, there was a time when I waltzed through airports carrying a backpack filled with fairly-traded tea bags, raw sugar, homemade crackers and bags of vegetables. I was not going to feed the corporate machine!

Keep an ever free heart which clings to nothing terrestrial, whatever might be the appearances of good.

But without the being love all of that was for naught.

her brow and offered me a challenge. Youre going to have to justify this mug before I can fill it with Kaldis coffee.

Anna, I dont want you to think less of me, but I shop at Wal-Mart; its really the only affordable option where I live and Anna, sometimes, Im so overwhelmed with work and the kids, I use disposable plates and cups, just because I cant imagine doing the dishes. I hope you dont think less of me Anna, I really like the Pumpkin Lattes at Starbucks. I only buy them in the fall when they are in season. But, I hope we can still be friends? How had I become that person? How had I let my heart cling to something so terrestrial? Taking time to reflect on needs, wants and how we meet those is an important part of living peace and doing justice.

Her comment took me completely off guard. I sputtered, Do I get points for being here and not at Starbucks? One or two, she said with a grin. But I need a reason. Because there is no Kaldis at the airport? I asked, hoping that would satisfy. Fair enough. Im trying to be less judgmental and more loving. Im trying to lighten my backpack, make the best choices I can when I can, love myself and others when we fail and share in those confessions with my friends. I confess you may even see me in a Starbuckseven if its not at the airport. Join Anna on the path at the blog anunfinishedworld.org.

By Anna Sandidge, Justice Coordinator

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Use Your IRA the Smart Way


f you missed your chance to take advantage of the charitable Individual Retirement Account legislation in the past, youre in luck! Extended legislation is bringing back the most taxeffective way to make a gift to a cause you care about.

The Most Tax-Effective Way to Make a Gift to a Cause You Care About
By Patricia Cassens, CFRE, CSJA

Example Roberts Story:


Robert, 75, has $105,000 in his IRA in addition to his other assets. He wants to make a $15,000 gift to the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet but is uncertain about which gift option would best maximize his dollars. Robert talks with his financial advisor, who explains that he has an appealing opportunity under the extended legislation. Robert can make a gift to us from his IRA on or before Dec. 31, 2013, that will count for 2013. He will not have to pay income tax on the $15,000, nor will he deduct it.

How it works:

On Jan. 2, 2013, legislation* was signed into law which extends through Dec. 31, 2013, the provision that allows individuals aged 70 1/2 or older to make outright (immediate) gifts of up to $100,000 to qualified charitable organizations through direct transfers from their IRAs without paying income tax on the IRA distributions. If you are able to take advantage of this opportunity, you can improve your overall tax situation while helping us continue to meet our goals and achieve our vision for the future.

An option for giving later:


If you believe that making an outright gift from your IRA isnt right for you, or if you dont qualify under the legislation rules, consider making us beneficiary of your IRA or other retirement assets. In most cases, the government defers tax on the income used to fund your IRA. After your lifetime, the funds in your IRA are subject to income taxes, which can eat up to 39.6 percent of the value of your IRA. Estate taxes could consume even more.

*Note: The legislation does not permit direct transfers to charitable trusts, donor advised funds, charitable gift annuities or supporting organizations. In addition, this opportunity applies only to IRAs and not to other types of retirement plans.Owners of ineligible plans, such as 401(k)s and Keoghs, however, may have the option to roll over amounts into an IRA and then make an eligible gift from that account.

Benefits of an IRA Direct Transfer to a Charitable Organization:


1. The transfer generates neither taxable income nor a tax deduction, so you can benefit even if you do not itemize your tax deductions. 2. The transfer may count against your unsatisfied required minimum distributions.

3. You may transfer up to $100,000 directly from your IRA, which allows you to make a significant gift and You can make a direct gives you the flexibility to create an transfer if: 1. You are age 70 1/2 or older on the day improved tax situation. 4. Along with creating a powerful legacy, Ask us for more details: of the gift. you can witness the benefits of your If you are considering making gifts under 2. You transfer up to $100,000 directly gift to our organization now. this legislation, it is advisable to discuss from your IRA. This opportunity your philanthropic goals with your 5. Its simple to do. Just call your IRA applies only to IRAs and not other professional advisor to be certain that administrator to make the transfer or types of retirement plans. this is the best plan for you. Please contact 3. You transfer the funds outright to one use a personalized version of the Patricia Cassens, CFRE, CSJA, chief accompanying sample letter to make or more qualified charities. development Officer, at 314-678-0329 your request. 4. You make your gift by Dec. 31, 2013. or email her at pcassens@csjsl.org, for more information.
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The good news is that by naming us as beneficiary of these funds, the CSJs, as a charitable organization, are exempt from taxes and will receive the entire amount you designate. Also, as a result of the gift, your heirs may inherit more assets and pay less in taxes.

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Sister Barbara Dreher Moves from Mission Advancement to Congregational Leadership

Transitions
By Jenny Beatrice
~ Garrison Keillor

or the past seven years, as the executive director of Mission Advancement for the St. Louis province, Sister Barbara Dreher has told and retold the story of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet with eyes open, ears attentive, spirit alert and sleeves rolled up for the ministry of building relationships.

Be well, do good work, and keep in touch.

and radiates throughout the room. Her ability to touch and inspire others is something I will never forget. Annual Fund Manager Richard Rutz says, Sister Barbara respects each of us and acknowledges the different gifts that everyone in our office brings to the table. She has led us with passion for the mission of the sisters and done so while focusing on making our office as professional as possible. Upon Sister Barbaras departure, Patricia will become the executive director of Mission Advancement and Richard will step into the role of chief development officer. They will be joined by Sister Donna Loretto Gunn as the CSJ Mission Advisor, a position she will hold while still serving in her active ministry as special project coordinator at Sacred Heart Parish and Family Center in Camden, Miss.

Our remarkable story is not only about the where and why the sisters minister and what keeps us doing what we are doing, says Sister Barbara. It also captures the stories of our friends and donorstheir friendships, prayers, values and generosity of heart. Come January 2014, Sister Barbara will be rolling up her sleeves to share our story and build relationships for the Sisters of St. Joseph in a new role. During the Congregational Chapter in July (see page 8), Sister Barbara was elected as one of five members of the Congregational Leadership Team. Sister Barbara is excited about what God has in mind for her in this new ministry, but she admits that it doesnt come without tears. I will miss all those with whom Ive ministered these past seven years. Though titles named our responsibilities, in the end, we friended one another and that will last forever. There are a lot of things I will miss when she goes on to her well-deserved position, says Chief Development Officer Patricia Cassens, CFRE, CSJA. She is a dynamic ball of kinetic energy wrapped in one small package! Her love of God, her CSJ community and the dear neighbor is infectious

I am delighted to be asked to be the provinces liaison between the sisters and our wonderful, generous donors, Sister Donna says. Now more than ever this partnership of the sisters lives with the donors goodness and generosity is what makes hope real and visible in the here and now. For Sister Barbara, those coworkers and cohorts, friends and donors are the heartbeat of the mission and ministries of the Sisters of St. Joseph and will both sustain and stretch her throughout her new adventure. Their generous spirit will continue to humble me, she says. And the zest for lifeits already packed and coming with me!

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Long-time Supporter of CSJs and World War II Vet Receives Distinguished Flying Cross Award

Flying with the Angels


By Patricia Cassens, CFRE, CSJA

oseph Joe Falconetti Sr., of Littleton, Colo., loves the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet. When Sister Barbara Dreher and I had the pleasure of meeting him at a reception held in Littleton two years ago he couldnt express it enough. He is a devout Catholic and a faithful supporter of the Sisters of St. Joseph, who was taught by his mother so long ago that the love of country, church and fellow man was and is so important. Her words have always stayed with him. The sisters taught my children, Gerald, Joe Jr., Janet and Judith at St. Francis de Sales (Denver) and I cannot thank them enough for what they did for them. Yet we cant thank Joe enough for what he did for us, our country and our world. Born in New Jersey in 1924, he enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Forces at the age of 19 during World War II. Staff Sgt. Falconetti was a member of the 720th Bomb Squadron, 450th Bomb Group, a tail gunner, flying missions in the African theatre. One particularly dangerous mission was to destroy a heavily defended oil installation in Romania that was supplying German forces. He was aboard a B-24 in 1944 when the plane was struck during the bombing over Romania. During the mission, the pilot and two others were wounded. Thats when Sgt. Falconetti, who had never flown a plane before (or since) took control of the B-24 Liberator and landed it safely. He and the crew were wounded and the

plane badly damaged, but he managed to get everyone to safety. After everyone was back at the base, he was told he would get a medal and a ride home. He got the ride, home but the medal came 68 years later. On July 6, 2012, Joe was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross, which is awarded to members of our military who show extraordinary bravery while fighting in the air. Always humble, Joe said, I just wish some of the crew were here, they deserve this more than I do. Theyre the ones who taught me how to fly. And Joe empathizes with todays war veterans, making a plea to the public to help them return to normal life after serving and witnessing unspeakable atrocities. What we have to do for them is teach them how to live in harmony with people. We teach them how to kill, but we dont teach them how to come home and live with people theyre not given that chance to become human again. After the war, Joe settled in Colorado, married, and he and his wife Dee raised their four children. Dee died in 2002. Up until recently, Joe attended a weekly meeting of veterans at the V.A. hospital. These days, Joe has become frail and housebound, but he is not forgotten. The Sisters of St. Joseph thank you, Joe, for your generosity, service and inspiration to us all.

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Thank you for the following gifts received between February 1, 2013, through August 31, 2013.
Tribute donations of $25 or greater will be published. Thank you for your continued generosity in paying tribute to your loved ones with a gift to the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet.

In Honor of
2013 Jubilarians Sister Ann Albrecht, CSJ & Sister Mary Ann Donovan, CSJ Ms. Barbara Atteln Ms. Pat Baxter, CSJA Mr. & Mrs. Elliott Chubb Suzanne E. Faletti, CSJA Sister Rita Flaherty, CSJ Sister Rosemary Flanigan, CSJ & Sister Patricia Lorenz, CSJ Ms. A. Carolyn Henry, CSJA Mr. & Mrs. Ronald E. Hughes Ms. Maureen J. Kane Mr. & Mrs. Donald E. Konop Ms. Peggy M. Maguire, CSJA Sister Christine Massman, CSJ Anonymous Sister Patricia Murphy, CSJ Mrs. Marjorie K. Shine Ms. Deborah L. Webers Sister Michael White, CSJ Sister Teresa John Zilch, CSJ 50 year Jubilarians Ms. Kathleen L. Robinson & Ms. Sandy J. Magurany 60 year Jubilarians Mrs. Margie A. Beckmann Sister Angela Abood, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. James A. Peniston Mr. & Mrs. John Turek Sister Mary Louise Basler, CSJ Mr. Richard H. Haber Sister Ida Robertine Berresheim, CSJ Ms. Rose Mary Green Sister Virginia Browne, CSJ Mr. Edward J. Browne Sister Leo Ann Bub, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Terry G. Wall Buff Buffkin The Honorable Rosemary Denson & Susan Kohl, Ed.D. Mr. Curtis E. Litchfield & Mrs. Michele C. Reed Litchfield Ms. Candace OConnor Alison F. Gee & Mary S. Rosenthal Sister Ruth Butler, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Robert E. Barrett Mr. & Mrs. Mark L. Wilhelmi Sister Patty Clune's 50th Jubilee Ms. Frances Diane Lott Mrs. Ellen M. McCoy, CSJA Sister Pat Dunphy, CSJ Ms. Deborah M. Bird Sister Kathleen Eggleston, CSJ Mrs. Tom Hyland Sister Kathleen Elliott, CSJ Bernard Meyer & Barbara Meyer, CSJA The Global Human Resources Team at Energizer Holdings, Inc, Buron Buffkin, Jr. & Donn Kleinschmidt Sister Rita Essert, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. James M. Terschluse Sister Arline Eveld, CSJ Anonymous Sister Ann Everett, CSJ Ms. Sharon Everett Sister Rosemary Flanigan, CSJ Ms. Deborah D. Conklin Ms. Teresa J. House Sister Mary Flick, CSJ Patricia Murphy, CSJ Sister Jo Ann Geary, CSJ Mrs. Marilyn F. Koncen, CSJA Ms. Carol Myers Pete & Clare Genovese Mr. & Mrs. Robert C. Beckring Mr. Daniel Genovese Mr. & Mrs. Donald L. Ross Sister Catherine Ann Gleason, CSJ Rev. Paul J. Nomellini Mrs. Mary C. Skewis Sister Audrey Goebel, CSJ Ms. Sally Hebert Sister Mary Concordia Hennessy, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. W. James Enghauser Mrs. Ann M. Geraty Ms. Marianne Petru Mr. & Mrs. Francis J. Schlueter, Jr. Mrs. Mary C. Skewis Mr. & Mrs. Paul J. Unnerstall Ms. Michaela Witcher Sister Mary Ann Hilgeman, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Sister Patricia Marie Hix, CSJ Mr. Dennis C. Donnelly Mrs. Margaret H. Miller Sister James Lorene Hogan, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Thomas K. Andrew Mrs. Clarice M. Baum Ms. Lorraine M. Camper Mr. & Mrs. W. James Enghauser Sister Carolyn Hupperts, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Franklyn B. Hupperts Sister Mary Helen Kane Mr. & Mrs. Walter T. Thome Sister Kate Kitslaar, CSJ Anonymous Sister Joan Lampton, CSJ Mrs. Geraldine F. Stassi John T. & Donna M. Turek Mr. & Mrs. John Turek Peggy Maguire CSJA Mr. Robert H. Mace, Jr. Marie & Roland Martir Sister Mary Louise Basler, CSJ Sister Rose McLarney, CSJ Greater KC Community Foundation & Affiliated Trusts Sister Jean Meier, CSJ Ms. Janice A. Hughes Sister Paula Patrice Michaud, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Bernard J. Hogan Sister Marian Therese Muehlbauer, CSJ Mr. Francis D. Muehlbauer Gifts received February 1, 2013, through August 31, 2013.

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Sister Mary Ann Mulligan, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. William E. Brush, Sr. Mr. & Mrs. Thomas M. Carroll Mr. & Mrs. Robert A. Gibbs Bernard Meyer & Barbara Meyer, CSJA Ms. Barbara A. Peach Mr. & Mrs. John C. Slaughter Sister Bonnie Ann Murray, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. James W. Abkemeier, Jr. Sister Martha Niemann, CSJ Don & Mary Etta Benson, CSJA Mrs. Joan Kilian Dr. Madelon Perreault Sister Eleanor O'Hearn, CSJ Mr. Richard H. Haber Dr. Suzanne M. Hamm Bernard Meyer & Barbara Meyer, CSJA Mr. & Mrs. Gene E. Steinke Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet Mr. Edward J. Browne The Retired Sisters of St. Joseph Mrs. Catherine M. Warren The Sisters who taught at St. Mary Magdalen School Mr. John E. Wrobel, Jr. Sister Clare Spaeth, CSJ Mrs. Ruth A. Sullivan Sister Ruth Stuckel, CSJ Ms. Teresa J. House Sister Cecilia Sullivan, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Nicholas P. Calandro Ms. Nancy C. Doerhoff Mr. & Mrs. David E. Janicke Sister Marianne Thomas, CSJ Mrs. Gloria Bluj Mr. & Mrs. David C. Sheets Sister Margaret Eugene Tucker, CSJ Ms. Lorraine M. Camper Dr. Ellen Lissant Mr. & Mrs. Kevin J. McCarthy Mr. Thomas Tucker Sister Barbara Volk, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Nicholas P. Calandro Sister Suzanne Wesley, CSJ Alan Baker & Michelle Schiller-Baker Mr. William J. Bollwerk Mr. & Mrs. Leo K. Ives Ms. Suzanne C. Leslie Sister Michael White, CSJ Mr. Sean Donnelly Sister Joan Margaret Whittemore, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru

In Memory of
Paul Allaert Mrs. Mary Joy Allaert Feeney Msgr. Paul Anthony Sister Joan Lacey, CSJ Paul David Arnold Mr. & Mrs. John P. Wolk Dorothy Aubuchon Ms. Jennifer Millikan Mildred Baldelli Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Zinselmeyer, Jr. Dolores M. Baumgartner Mrs. Mary Sullivan Ethel Beck Mrs. Marilyn A. Miles Lorraine C. Behrens Sister Jean Magdalene Wyatt, CSJ Sister Mary de Paul Berra, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Dr. Louis Bono Anonymous Sister Kathryn Mary Brady, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. David L. Dunlap, Jr. Sister Dorothy Browne, CSJ Mr. Edward J. Browne Sister Mary Elizabeth Browne, CSJ Mr. Edward J. Browne Margaret Cantrell Mr. & Mrs. Claude B. Martin Suzanne Carolan Ms. Joan Bourke Roy Carroll Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Richard Cholet Mr. & Mrs. David W. Fitzgerald Jo Ann A. Coghlin Mr. & Mrs. Alexander F. McGuire Lynne Cooper Mr. Mark Anderson Mr. & Mrs. Daniel Andrews Anonymous Ms. Mary Atkin Mr. & Mrs. John H. Aughey Mr. & Mrs. Robert S. Bax Mrs. Gloria Bluj Rev. Gary Braun Mr. & Mrs. Michael L. Brooks Mr. & Mrs. Jeffrey S. Burger Ms. Eleanor C. Caven Ms. Margaret T. Caven Mr. Donald Chamberlain Ms. Cathy Deneault Ms. Frances A. Dennis Doorways Mr. James Dryden & Ms. Virginia Westmoreland Ms. Suellyn Fahey, CSJA Mr. Joseph Freaney & Mr. Douglas Krauss Mr. Robert Gallagher Mr. & Mrs. Edward E. Gould Mr. John P. Green, Jr. Ms. Cynthia A. Harrison Mr. & Mrs. Charlie Jacobson The Jonas Co. Ms. Carla M. Jones Ms. Opal M. Jones Mrs. Mary Knutson Mrs. Marilyn F. Koncen, CSJA Ms. Carol Lawrence Diane G. Levine to Faye E. Licata, D.M.D, F.A.G.D., P.C. Ms. Brenda Malone Roland & Marie Martir, CSJA Ms. Mary Patricia McCafferty Mr. & Mrs. James L. McCoy Thursday Night Group Ms. Eileen McLoughlin Ms. Cathy Modde Mrs. Roy J. Murphy National Aids Housing Coalition Mr. & Mrs. Diego B. Navarro Ms. Joan M. Niehoff Dr. & Mrs. Richard C. Pennell Ms. Rachel Phillips Mrs. Cecelia K. Piekarski Mr. & Mrs. John A. Pohl III Brother Joseph Rogenski Mr. & Mrs. Mark A. Scheipeter Mr. & Mrs. Richard Schmidt Ms. Becky Shelton Ms. Mary F. Shuff Sister Mary Carol Anth, CSJ & Sister Rita Marie Schmitz, CSJ Ms. Peggy Slater Mr. & Mrs. John P. Wagner Mrs. Paula C. Watson Ms. Linda F. Weisenstein Mr. & Mrs. William F. Winfrey Mr. & Mrs. Troy Woytek Sister Raymond Joseph Cordes, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Francis W. Saale Sister Blanche Marie Corcoran, CSJ Ms. Susan K. Haddock Sister Patricia Cramer, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Gerald E. Anderson Ms. Marianne Petru Ms. Diane M. Wallace Jacquelyn Curran Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Ed Deppe Mr. & Mrs. Harry L. Saunders Sister Theresa Desrochers, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Ray Desrochers Ms. June M. Savoie Mr. & Mrs. Joe Shereda Bernard Dever Mrs. Marilyn A. Miles Ron Donovan Mr. & Mrs. M. Anthony Eakin Joseph Dornberge Mr. & Mrs. John P. Wolk Sister Mary Laurent Duggan, CSJ Mr. Charles W. Brennan Catholic Diocese of Savannah Mr. & Mrs. Martin L. Duggan Mr. & Mrs. Patrick M. Duggan Mr. & Mrs. William B. Guyol Ms. A. Carolyn Henry, CSJA Ms. Jean F. Kertz, CSJA Mr. & Mrs. Timothy P. Leahy Rev. Thomas J. Peyton Mr. & Mrs. Marlott Rhoades Gaetana Eacopelli Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Elaine Ebeling Mr. John J. Ebeling Steven A. Eckhardt Mrs. Virginia R. Eckhardt Betty Ellinger Mrs. Elizabeth A. Daues Mr. & Mrs. William G. Fillman Mr. & Mrs. Jean T. Hammel Bailey Hurley Ms. Mary A. Latal Ricci Law Group Mr. & Mrs. Dave Soellner Ms. Rhonda Taylor Mr. & Mrs. Jeremy R. Triplett Mr. & Mrs. Paul R. Triplett Ms. Linda Waszkiewicz Mr. & Mrs. William R. Wlodarczyk Mr. & Mrs. Glenn S. Wolf Sister Mary Eschbacher, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. James R. Killion Sister Aniceta Farrell, CSJ Mrs. Ann W. Stuart Miss Mary Jane Waldron John A. Feeney Mrs. Mary Joy Allaert Feeney William Fischer & Mary Fischer Sister Pauline Komrska, CSJ Patricia Fortune Mr. Philip E. Fortune Sister Mary Franklin, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Lesslie Frawley Mr. & Mrs. John M. Christensen Mr. & Mrs. Michael Christopher Ms. Barbara A. Dubis Mr. Ronald Guentz Mr. & Mrs. Donald Hardin Mr. & Mrs. Gerald M. Holden Gary & Carolyn Johnson Mr. & Mrs. Jack R. Luebbert Mr. & Mrs. J. Arthur McManus, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. James Murphy Mr. & Mrs. Brad M. Sinclair Ms. Leslie A. Swip Mr. & Mrs. Willam R. Vetter Mr. & Mrs. Ralph N. Weiss Mr. Roger Zoellner Sister Eileen Gamache, CSJ Mr. Joseph F. Brinley Rose Marie Geoghegan Dr. & Mrs. Robert S. Yoselevsky Humbert & Mary Ghio Rev. John J. Ghio Mary C. & Francis A. Gilreath Ms. Theresa A. Gilreath Ann Gorman Mr. & Mrs. Ernest W. Dohack Michael Greif Mr. & Mrs. John P. Wolk Sister David Marie Hallinan, CSJ Mr. Donald G. Weidman Sister Alma Hammerschmidt, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. David L. Dunlap, Jr.

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Donald Hastings Jr. Mrs. Mary Jean Weber Mary Hawver Mr. William L. Hawver Sister Mary Concordia Hennessy, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Jerry A. Bentrup Ms. A. Carolyn Henry, CSJA Mr. & Mrs. Greg A. Janoch Marianne & Roseanne Petru Father Ed Hilgeman Anonymous Mike & Pat Favier Sister Eileen Hoffer, CSJ Mr. Mark N. Nolting Mr. & Mrs. James F. Seidler Sister Ellen Hucker, CSJ Mr. Thomas Gallagher Mary Alice Hungerford Ms. Dori Frei Amacher Mr. & Mrs. Tom Cortopassi Stephen Hunsicker, Sr Brad L. Badgley, P.C. Mr. & Mrs. William J. Betz Dr. & Mrs. David E. Boesch Mr. & Mrs. Patrick Condon Ms. Sharon Connelly Mr. & Mrs. William Dahlmann Ms. Barbara J. Daley Ms. Laurie A. Deruntz & Mr. Patrick Cushna Mr. & Mrs. Thomas J. Feder Ms. Jane Fuchs Gator Sunshine Group Green Pines Elementary Mr. David E. Guymon Mr. & Mrs. Keith Hanson Mr. Curtis M. Jones & Mrs. Cheryl J. Weeks-Jones Ms. Jacquelyn Jones Ms. Ann Kelly Mr. Steve Koenig Ms. Elsie H. Montgomery Mr. Earl W. Phillips & Mr. Jay D. Phillips Dr. & Mrs. James J. Rechtien Mr. & Mrs. John Rocco Mr. & Mrs. Russell R. Roehr Mrs. Mary Kathleen Simokaitis Mr. & Mrs. Kevin Sullivan Mr. & Mrs. John Talley United States District Court Southern District of Illnois Office Gregory Vitello Ms. Ann Wegmann Wunderman Robert Eugene Hupfeld Sister Jean Magdalene Wyatt, CSJ Sister Casimir Joseph Hurrle, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Ronald G. Davis James Hyland Mrs. Roy J. Murphy Donald L. James Mr. & Mrs. John G. Graf Glennon & Shirley James Ms. Cathy James Joel Janssen Ms. Veronica Dayhuff Mr. Jeffrey Norton

Joan M. & George W. Jinkerson Ms. Theresa A. Gilreath Charles Jokisch, Jr. Mrs. Janet R. Jokisch Sister Rosemary Junak, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Larry W. King Theresa Kaspar Mr. & Mrs. Dominic S. Bisesi Regina Keedy Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Sister Mary Francina Keane, CSJ Mr. Thomas Keane William Keller Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Walter Kienzle Mrs. Roy J. Murphy Bud Leo Kohl Mr. & Mrs. William L. Anger Ms. Becky Shelton Sister Alexandra Kuhn, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Bill Bowers Mr. & Mrs. Basil H. Pflumm Mrs. Evelyn B. Rimmer Mr. & Mrs. Raymond Wolski Richard Kuhn Mr. & Mrs. Eugene H. Kuhn Mary Elizabeth Kundrat Mr. & Mrs. Joe ONeill Sister Natalie Lafser, CSJ Ms. Susan Sanfilippo Sister Christiana Lippert, CSJ Mr. Norbert P. Schott Elizabeth "Betty" Livers Creative Planning Bernadette O'Malley Lynch Ms. Joan Bourke Loretta Lynch Mrs. Roy J. Murphy Sister Germaine Matter, CSJ Mr. Robert J. Palmer William Mattingly Mr. & Mrs. Robert Henning Mr. Paul C. Perlik & Mrs. Leslie Phelps Perlik Sister Joseph Marie (Jeanne) McGovern, CSJ Miss Mary Jane Waldron John McGuire Mrs. Mardel H. McGuire Robert Eugene McKee Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Dorothy Meade Arkansas Community Foundation Jack Meier Ms. Roseanne Burgoon Kathleen L. Grewe, CSJA, & Diana Burnson Sister M. Kathleen Mitchell, CSJ Anonymous Mrs. Mary Carol Mitchell Sister Clara Francis Mongin, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Martin Morrison Mrs. Roy J. Murphy Luke Morrow Ms. Jennifer Millikan Lucille Hiegert Morrow Sister Jean Magdalene Wyatt, CSJ

Sister Mary Ursula Mott, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Sidney P. Mott Bernard Mulcahy Anonymous William Murphy Mrs. Roy J. Murphy Sister Josepha Nellesen, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Fran OBrien Ms. Deborah A. Oates & Mr. Michael Nooner Sister Elizabeth Ogilvie, CSJ Ms. Anna C. Leverich Sister Rosemary O'Malley, CSJ Ms. Joan Bourke Marie O'Shaughnessy Ms. Rose Marie OShaughnessy Virgina Palmer Mr. Robert J. Palmer Sister Mary Antonia Palumbo, CSJ Ms. Margaret E. Comerford Mr. & Mrs. Leo H. MacDonald, Sr. Mr. & Mrs. Les Muckerman Mr. & Mrs. Peter J. Palumbo, Jr. Mrs. Mary J. Reinhardt Mr. & Mrs. William Ziegler Dr. Maurice F. Perll Dr. & Mrs. Peter D. Perll Dr. Rita Dobel Perll Dr. & Mrs. Peter D. Perll Ernie Peters Mr. & Mrs. William Ashley Joan Pfotenhauer Sister Marion Renkens, CSJ John R. Powers Dr. & Mrs. James Gilsinan Margaret Pranschke Mr. & Mrs. Leo P. Reynolds Mary K. Puhr Mr. & Mrs. Ralph E. Puhr Mary M. Purk Mr. & Mrs. Glenn Walker Ruth H. Raterman Mr. & Mrs. Jerome A. Giddings, Sr. Mr. Cornelius Riordan Mr. Robert W. Vondera Sister Mary Rocheleau, CSJ Mr. & Mrs. Jerome H. Quigley Joseph & Mary Rodriguez Ms. Mary Ann Rodriguez Frances Rubery Mr. Richard C. Raupp Anna Ruzicka Mr. Lawrence J. Ruzicka Julie Ann Schaeffer Mr. & Mrs. Neal T. Schaeffer Isabel Schlosser Mr. & Mrs. Charles Schlosser George Schulte Mr. & Mrs. John E. Klevorn Sandra Schupbach, CSJA Ms. A. Carolyn Henry, CSJA Robert T. Schweiger Mrs. Barbara Schweiger Richard Shoults Sister Joan Lacey, CSJ Mattie & Erven Shy Ms. Ruth E. Shy Wilson, CSJA

Lucille Silva Mr. & Mrs. James P. Silva Jacob Silver Mr. & Mrs. Richard M. Reiter Eleanor Smith Audrey Doss Darlene & Jackie Goede Maxine Smith Mr. Lyle C. Smith Sister Eileen Smits, CSJ Mrs. Barbara Schweiger Norma Sollars Mr. & Mrs. Gerald E. Anderson Ms. A. Carolyn Henry, CSJA Howard Douglas Stapp III Ms. Beverly S. Matsoukas Mrs. Joan R. Rubesch Jon Stegen Ms. Jennifer Millikan James Stelloh Mrs. Mary M. Stelloh Sister Mary Stolte, CSJ Ms. Marianne Petru Larry Strawn Mr. & Mrs. John P. Wolk Dennis Sullivan Ms. Helen Hoffman Mr. & Mrs. Lawrence R. Quick John T. & Donna M. Turek Mr. & Mrs. John Turek Carlos Vallejo Mr. & Mrs. John Osborne Beatrice Venker Binns Pierson Mr. & Mrs. Malvin P. Leonard Jeanne Vogelgasang Mrs. Patricia Ann Dunn Father Thomas Wilcox Mr. William M. Wilcox

The Province Development Office has made every effort to ensure the tributes are properly recognized and correctly spelled. To make a donation, request memorial envelopes or report a correction on our tributes listing, please contact our office at 314.678.0326.
Gifts received February 1, 2013, through August 31, 2013.

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he Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet held their 25th Annual Golf Tournament in St. Louis at the Westborough Country Club on September 23. And what a way to celebrate 25 years! The weather was beautiful, and the 120 golfers present (filling the course to capacity) enjoyed a wonderful day of golf in the name of the sisters. And our friends bid high and often at our silent auction, which helped make this one of our most successful years ever. Thank you to all who participated and we hope to see you next year!

25th Annual CSJ Golf Tournament


1. The scene at Westborough Country Club as the golfers get ready to hit the course. 2. Executive Director of Mission Advancement Sister Barbara Dreher with Marty Hadican. 3. Sisters Margaret Gregg and Linda Straub. 4. Golfers talk team strategy. 5. Golfers Larry and Sue Krodinger and Barb and Al Krueger. 6 Golfers David Deutschmann and Bill Pastor. 7. Sister Linda Markway, Development Associate Kathy Futhey and Associate Peggy Maguire have a little fun while checking in the golfers.

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50th Jubilee

ore than 400 friends, family and members of the CSJ community gathered to celebrate the 50th jubilee of the 10 members of the Reception of 1963 during a special Mass on Sept. 15 in Holy Family Chapel at the Carondelet Motherhouse.

1. Jubilarian and musician Sister Joan Whittemore leads the congregation in song. 2. The members of the Reception of 1963: Back Row (l-r): Sisters Suzanne Wesley, Margaret Schulz, Mary Louise Basler, Joan Whittemore and Carole Walton. Front Row: Srs. Patty Clune, Kathleen Karbowski, Maureen Langton, Rose McLarney and Elaine Margaret Besand. 3. Sister Jane Gerard leads the musicians. 4. Sister Agnes Marie Baer celebrates with her CSJ community. 5. Province Leader and Jubilarian Sister Patty Clune serves as a lector at the Mass.

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Save the Dates


2013 EVENTS
Treat yourself to four enriching Saturday mornings per year, where you will feed your mind, body and spirit with good company, a hearty breakfast and a dynamic program.

2014 EVENTS

All Souls Mass

Saturday, November 2
Eucharistic Celebration followed by refreshments 10:00 a.m. in Holy Family Chapel at the Motherhouse RSVP by October 28 to Quiana Kelley at 314-678-0326 or qkelley@csjsl.org.

Next Session:

December 7, 2013

Praying Your Day with Sister Marian Cowan

Amy Hereford Wednesday, November 13

Religious Life at the Crossroads with Sister

Jesus is coming to your breakfast table, your workplace, your weekend excursions and all the places in between. Welcome him into your life by transforming your daily doings into a form of prayer. Sister Marian expands upon the types of prayer and the various ways we can experience it. When: 911 a.m. Doors open at 8:30 a.m. Where: Historic Carondelet Motherhouse Oering: $15 per session (includes breakfast) To Register: Call 314-678-0307 or 314-678-0309 or e-mail mrenkens@csjsl.org

Dining to Donate

Wednesday, March 26
Favazzas Italian Restaurant on the Hill, St. Louis Enjoy a great meal and help the Sisters of St. Joseph at the same time. Dine at Favazza's on the Hill and 20% of dinner sales will be donated to benefit the good works of the sisters.

Hear Sister Amy talk about her new book, Religious Life at the Crossroads: A School for Mystics and Prophets (Orbis Books, 2013). Sister Amy explores the movements in religious life today and examines how religious life will fit into an emerging church. An important conversation for both religious and the laity. 6:00 p.m. at the Motherhouse RSVP to 314-481-8800 or motherhousersvp@csjsl.org.

Generosity of Joseph Honors Gala


Friday, April 25, 2014
Carondelet Motherhouse Make your plans to Party on the River with the sisters. More information coming soon!

For more information visit www.csjsl.org


and subscribe to our e-news to be notied when registration begins.

Save the Dates for 2014


ST. LOUIS: February 22, April 5, September 6 and November 8

Christmas Concert
Sunday, December 15
Featuring the St. Margaret of Scotland Choir 4:00 p.m. Holy Family Chapel at the Motherhouse

KANSAS CITY: April 5 and October 18

A rewarding experience.

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Togetherin faith
Event Series 2014
An Evening with Paul Coutinho
February 12
Come for an evening of inspiration with Paul Coutinho, author of How Big is Your God. Paul is an internationally recognized Ignatian scholar, author and speaker who brings an Eastern flavor to Western spirituality, challenging us to grow in faith through deepening our relationship with God, whose love knows no bounds. for a series of events that promise to inspire and entertain! From speakers to concerts to retreats, this eclectic mix of programs is designed to deepen our spirituality as we come together surrounded by the beauty and spirit of the historic motherhouse. Read about what we have planned for the rst half of 2014 and visit www.csjsl.org to subscribe to our bimonthly e-news alerts so you dont miss the details about these programs (and the ones still to come). We hope to see you at ONE, TWO OR MORE!

Join us

author and poet. She has a passion for Celtic spirituality and the healing power of nature. Ticket sales and retreat registration coming soon!

Luke Live! with Father James Diluzio

May 17-18, Concert & Retreat

Celtic Soul Experience with Owen & Moley O Silleabhin and Friends

March 7-8, Concert & Retreat


Experience the Gospel of Luke as members of the Early Church experienced itinternalized, personalized and shared. Based in New York City, Paulist priest, actor and singer Father James Diluzio brings his unique presentation of the Gospel to parishes nationwide, reciting the beloved texts with storytelling and reflectionall accompanied by inspirational chants and songs, including popular music from Broadway shows. It's interactive and fitting for all ages. The May 17 evening performance will be followed by a day-long retreat experience for those who want to enter into deeper reflection. Ticket sales and retreat registration coming soon!

Celebrate St. Pattys Day the Celtic way with internationally-acclaimed Irish singer/songwriter duo (and brothers) Owen and Moley O Silleabhin. Performing a mix of ancient Irish music, sacred songs, traditional tunes and inspirational pop, Owen and Moley fill the house with heart-healing harmonies, humor, exquisite musicality and infectious joy! (Just ask some of the folks they have performed with such as Russell Crowe, The Chieftains, Bobby McFerrin, renowned poet David Whyte, Canadian rocker Alan Doyle and violinist Nigel Kennedy.) We start off the weekend with an evening concert on Friday, March 7

where Owen and Moley will perform. The show will open with St. Louis favorite Stickely and Canan and will include other local surprise guests. For those who want to delve deeper into the Celtic experience, join us for a day-long retreat on Saturday, March 8 with Owen and Moley, who are partnering with their collaborator and friend from St. Louis, Kimberly Schneider. Kimberly, author of Everything You Need is Right Here is a transformational speaker, life coach,

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