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CEPE - Printable BDSM Checklist

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200
Question
BDSM
Checklist
-
Printable
Version

This
checklist
is
formatted
to
print
correctly
on
standard
8-1/2"x11"
paper.
For
personal
use

only.

Checklists
are
frequently
difficult
to
complete
due
to
the
complex
variety
to
what

we
enjoy.
When
we
try
to
fill
them
out
as
Tops,
Bottoms,
Dominants,

Submissives,
etcetera
there
is
usually
confusion
over
fetishes
that
aren't

physically
interactive
between
partners
or
over
activities
that
may
not
clear
as
to

who
is
giving
and
who
receiving.
A
sincere
effort
has
been
made
here
to
reduce

this
kind
of
confusion,
but
bdsm
checklists
will
never
be
perfect
enough
that
you

won't
probably
have
to
go
to
your
partner
and
confer
about
how
to
answer
at

least
one
item.
Take
it
as
a
blessing
in
disguise
-
a
bdsm
checklist
is
only

supposed
to
get
a
conversation
started.
That's
what
the
tool
is
made
for.

Remember,
it's
just
a
beginning
to
negotiation,
not
an
end
in
itself.

Done
to/for
Self:
Read
this
as
how
you
feel
about
being
on
the
receiving
end
of

the
act.

(As
examples,
here
Whipping
would
refer
to
you
being
whipped,
while
Massage

would
mean
you're
the
one
on
the
table.)

Done
to/for
Others:
Read
this
as
how
you
feel
about
having
someone
else
receive

this
act.

(In
the
examples
above,
you
would
be
delivering
the
Whipping,
or
serving
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partner
a
Massage.)

Tried:
Have
you
tried
this?
Circle
Yes
or
No
for
each.

Rating:
How
does/might
this
feel
to
you?
Use
the
chart
below
as
a
guide,
and

circle
two
answers
together
if
you're
"in-between."

Not

Actions
that
are
physical
impossibilities.
Draw
a
slash
through
the

Applicable box
for
these.

Curious

Maybe
you're
never
tried
this,
or
only
once,
and
want
to

experience
more
before
deciding
how
much
you
like
it.

Essential

This
is
something
that
you
can't
see
yourself
enjoying
a

scene/date/relationship
without.

Love

You
love
doing
whatever
it
is.

Like

You
like
doing
whatever
it
is.

Don't

You
can
take
this
or
leave
it,
but
will
probably
do
it
for
your

Mind

partner.

Dislike

You
dislike
this
but
will
put
up
with
it
for
your
partner.

Hate

You
hate
this
but
will
put
up
with
it
for
your
partner.

Soft
Limit

Something
you
cannot
attempt
at
this
time
but
might
be
possible

in
the
future.

Hard
Limit Something
you
will
not
ever
attempt.

To/For
Self

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Done

Anal
Play

Rate

Done

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
in
which
the
anus
is

Essential


Curious
Yes

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2



1
No

involved.

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4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Beating
(General)

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
in
which
one

Rate

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

partner
is
beaten.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Beating
-
Canes

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

cane.

Beating
-
Crops

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

crop.

Beating
-
Floggers

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
one

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

partner
is
beaten
with
a

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3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

flogger.

Beating
-
Hairbrushes

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

hairbrush.

Beating
-
Hard

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
in
which
one

5



4



3



2



1
No

partner
is
beaten
hard.

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Essential


Curious
Yes
5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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Beating
-
Paddles

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

paddle.

Beating
-
Soft

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
in
which
one

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

partner
is
beaten
softly.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Beating
-
Spanking

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

hand.

Beating
-
Straps

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

strap.

Beating
-
Whips

Acts
in
which
one

partner
is
beaten
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

whip.

Beating
Location
-
Back

Beating
based
acts
that

focus
on
the
back
as
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

target.

Beating
Location
-

Essential


Curious

Bottom

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Beating
based
acts
that

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

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Essential


Curious

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

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focus
on
the
bottom
as
a

target.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Beating
Location
-
Chest

Beating
based
acts
that

focus
on
the
chest
or

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Rate

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

breasts
as
a
target.

Beating
Location
-
Feet

Essential


Curious

Beating
based
acts
that

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

focus
on
the
feet

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

(usually
the
soles)
as
a

target.

Beating
Location
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Genitals

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4



3



2



1

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3



2



1

Yes
Beating
based
acts
that

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

focus
on
the
genitals
as

a
target.

Beating
Location
-
Legs

Beating
based
acts
that

focus
on
the
legs
as
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

target.

Bestiality

Essential


Curious
Yes

Sex
with
animals.

5



4



3



2



1
No

5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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Essential


Curious
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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Biting

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
involving
biting

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

one
partner
with
the

5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Blindfolds

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
blindfolds

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4



3



2



1

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2



1

teeth
of
the
other.

are
placed
over
one

partner's
eyes
to
remove

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

that
sense
(and
often

heighten
others).

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Branding

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Burning
the
body,
often

Yes

with
a
specific
design,
to

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

leave
a
permanent
mark

or
scar.

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Piercing,
Permanent

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Putting
an
object

through
a
part
of
the

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

body
for
permanent

adornment.

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Piercing,
Play

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Exploring
the
concept
of

body
piercing
but
in
a

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Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

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manner
that
is

temporary.

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Saline
Injection

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Injecting
saline
in
to
a

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

part
of
the
body
to

temporarily
engorge
it.

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scarification

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Deliberately
causing

scars,
often
through

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

cutting
the
skin,
for

adornment.

Body
Modification
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Tattooing

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Yes
Adorning
the
body
by

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

permanently
applying

ink
under
the
skin.

Bondage
(General)

Essential


Curious
Yes

Binding
or
restricting

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

some
or
all
of
the
body.

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4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Bondage
-
Breast

Binding
or
restricting

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Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1

Rate

Essential


Curious
Yes

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4



3



2



1

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No

Bondage
-
Cuffs

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Essential


Curious

Binding
or
restricting

Yes

the
body
(usually
the

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

wrists)
with
[hand]cuffs.

Bondage
-
Genital

Essential


Curious
Yes

Binding
or
restricting

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

the
genitals.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Bondage
-
Heavy

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Heavily
binding
or

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3



2



1

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3



2



1

restricting
the
body,

usually
to
the
point

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

where
no,
or
next-to
no,

movement
is
possible.

Bondage
-
Intricate

Intricately
binding
or

restricting
some
or
all
of

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

the
body.

Bondage
-
Light

Essential


Curious

Lightly
binding
or

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

restricting
the
body.

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Usually
more
symbolic

than
actually
restrictive.

Bondage
-
Locks

Essential


Curious
Yes

Bondage
that
involves

5



4



3



2



1
No

locks
and
keys.

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Essential


Curious
Yes
5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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Bondage
-
Prolonged

Binding
or
restricting

some
or
all
of
the
body

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

for
prolonged
periods
of

time.

Bondage
-
Sleeves,
Arm

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Restricting
the

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2



1

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2



1

Yes
movement
of
the
arms

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

by
placing
them
in
a

confining
sleeve.

Bondage
-
Sleeves,
Leg

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Restricting
the

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2



1

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1

movement
of
the
legs
by

placing
them
in
a

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

confining
sleeve.

Bondage
-
Spreader
Bars

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Restricting
the

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2



1

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2



1

movement
of
the
legs
by

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

connecting
them
to

either
end
of
a
bar,

usually
forcing
them

open.

Bondage
-
Stocks

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Restricing
movement
by

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2



1

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3



2



1

placing
the
wrists
and

neck
(though
may

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Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

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involve
ankles)
through

a
set
of
stocks.

Bondage
-
Strait
Jackets

Essential


Curious

Binding
or
restricting

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

the
torso
and
arms
by

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

placing
them
inside
a

straight
jacket.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Bondage
-
Suspension

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Binding
or
restricting

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

someone
so
they
are

Rate

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

suspended
above
the

ground.

Bondage
-
Suspension,

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Inverted

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3



2



1

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2



1

Binding
or
restricting

Yes

someone
so
they
are

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

suspended
above
the

ground,
upside-down.

Bondage
-
Whole
Body

Essential


Curious
Yes

Binding
or
restricting

Essential


Curious
Yes

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4



3



2



1
No

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2



1
No

the
whole
body.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Bondage
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Chain

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3



2



1
Yes

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1
Yes

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No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

the
body,
or
parts
of,

with
chain.

Bondage
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Leather

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Binding
or
restricting

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

the
body,
or
parts
of,

with
leather.

Bondage
Material
-
Rope

Binding
or
restricting

the
body,
or
parts
of,

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

with
rope.

Bondage
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Saran
Wrap

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4



3



2



1

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3



2



1

Binding
or
restricting

Yes

the
body,
or
parts
of,

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

with
saran
wrap

(clingfilm).

Bondage
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scarves

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Binding
or
restricting

Yes

the
body,
or
parts
of,

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

with
[usually
silk]

scarves.

Bondage
Material
-
Tape

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Binding
or
restricting

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body,
or
parts
of,

with
[usually
adhesive]

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Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

tape.

Breath
Play

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Also
called

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1

Asphyxiation.
Acts

involving
restricting
or

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

cutting
off
the
supply
of

oxygen.

Catheters

Essential


Curious
Yes

Inserting
a
tube
in
to
the

Essential


Curious
Yes

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2



1
No

urethra
to
collect
urine.

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2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Clothespins

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Using
clothespins
to

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

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1
No

pinch
parts
of
the
body.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Clothing
-
Chosen
For

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Having
your
clothing

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1

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1

Yes
choices
made
for
you,

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

usually
without
the

ability
to
appeal.

Clothing
-
Corsets

Wearing
corsets
which

control
the
shape
of
the

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

waist
and
hips.

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To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Clothing
-
Full
Head

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Hoods

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1

Wearing
hoods
that

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

cover
the
entire
head,

leaving
only
small
holes

for
vision,
breathing,

etc.
(if
even
them).

Clothing
-
Harnesses

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Wearing
clothing
that

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Yes
harnesses
the
body

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

without
necessarily

covering
it.

Clothing
-
High
Heels

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
high-heeled

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

shoes.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Clothing
-
Lingerie

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
women's

Essential


Curious
Yes

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No

lingerie.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Clothing
-
Masks

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
masks
that

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

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No

cover
the
face.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Clothing
-
Uniforms

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

(General)

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1

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2



1

Wearing
uniforms
that

Yes

No

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Limit


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Limit

Yes

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Limit


Hard
Limit

No

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have
a
given

significance.

Clothing
-
Uniforms,

Military

Wearing
military

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

uniforms.

Clothing
-
Uniforms,

Essential


Curious

School

Essential


Curious

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2



1
Yes

Wearing

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2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

schoolgirl/schoolboy

uniforms.

Clothing
Material
-

Leather

Clothing
made
out
of,
or

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

involving,
leather.

Clothing
Material
-
PVC

Clothing
made
out
of,
or

involving,
PVC
(the

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

shiny
plasticy
material).

Clothing
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Rubber

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2



1

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1

Yes
Clothing
made
out
of,
or

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

involving,
rubber
or

latex.

Clothing
Material
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Sheer

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1

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1

Clothing
made
out
of,
or

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Yes

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Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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No

No

(transparent
or

translucent)
material.

Collars
-
Private

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
a
"slave"
collar

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

in
private.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Collars
-
Public

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
a
"slave"
collar

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

in
public.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Crawling

The
act
of
crawling
on
all

fours
to
denote

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Rate

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

submission.

Cutting

Essential


Curious
Yes

Deliberately
cutting
the

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

skin.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Dilation
-
Anal

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Deliberately
stretching

Essential


Curious
Yes

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No

the
anus
open.

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Dilation
-
Vaginal

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Deliberately
stretching

Essential


Curious
Yes

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No

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No

the
vagina
open.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Discipline

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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or

receiving,
the
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Yes

No

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Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

corporal]
discipline
of

another.

Drinking
-
Blood

Essential


Curious
Yes

Drinking
blood.

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Drinking
-
Semen

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Drinking
semen.

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

Drinking
-
Urine

No
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Yes
Drinking
urine.

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1

Yes
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1

No

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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Electricity

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Using
electricity
for

Essential


Curious
Yes

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No

sensation
or
pain.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Enemas

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Applying
liquid

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(traditionally
warm

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

water)
in
to
the
lower

intestine,
via
a
tube.

Yes

Yes

No

No

Often
to
induce

uncontrolled,
or
hard
to

control,
excretion.

Examination
-
Physical

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Having
your
body

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1

physically
examined

Soft
Limit


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Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
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and,
often,
appraised.
Yes

Yes

No

No

Sometimes
this
includes

medical
examination

roleplays
though,
here,

that
is
listed
as
Roleplay

-
Medical.

Exhibitionism
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Exposing
your
body
to

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

others,
nominally

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

against
your
will,
at
the

will
of
another.

Exhibitionism
-

Voluntary

Willingly
exposing
your

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

body
to
others.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Face
Slapping

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Slapping
the
face,

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

usually
with
an
open

Rate

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

hand,
to
cause
pain
or

denote
position.

Fisting
-
Anal

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Placing
an
entire
hand

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1

(the
term
"fist"
is
often

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Limit


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Limit

Yes

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Limit


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exageration)
inside

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No

No

the
anus.

Fisting
-
Vaginal

Essential


Curious

Placing
an
entire
hand

Essential


Curious

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4



3



2



1
Yes

(the
term
"fist"
is
often

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

an
exageration)
inside

the
vagina.

Food
-
Chosen
For

Essential


Curious

Having
your
food

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

choices
made
for
you,

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2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

usually
without
the

ability
to
appeal.

Food
-
From
Body

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Eating
food
from

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another
person's
body.

Yes

Either
eating
it
directly

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

from
them
or
using

them
as
a
platter.

Food
-
From
Bowl

Essential


Curious

Eating
food
directly

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

from
a
bowl,
like
an

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

animal
such
as
a
cat
or

dog.

Food
-
From
Hand

Eating
food
directly

from
another
person's

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Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

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Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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hand.

Gags
(General)

Devices
used
to
limit,
or

prevent,
verbal

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

communication.

Gags
-
Ball

Essential


Curious

A
type
of
gag
that
uses
a

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

ball
to
effectively
block

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

any
verbal

communication.

Gags
-
Bit

Essential


Curious

A
type
of
gag
that
uses
a

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

bar
that
goes
across
the

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Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

mouth,
much
like
a

horse's
"bit".

Gags
-
Ring

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

A
type
of
gag
that
uses
a

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ring
to
force
the
mouth

open
while
providing

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

access
to
the,
now

undefendable,
mouth.

Gags
-
Tape

Essential


Curious

Using
adhesive
tape

Yes

across
the
mouth
to

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

create
a
gag.

Given
Away
(General)

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Being
given,
at
a

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whim,
to

another
person,
usually

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Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

temporarily.

Given
Away
-
Auctions

Being
given
to
another

person
as
the
result
of
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

[slave]
auction.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Given
Away
-
Permanent

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Being
given
away,
at
a

Essential


Curious

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2



1
Yes

partner's
whim,
to

Rate

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2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

another
person,

permanently.

Hand
Jobs

Pleasuring
someone

else's
genitals
with
your

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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4



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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

hand.

Heterosexuality
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Sexual
acts
with

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Yes
members
of
the

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

opposite
sex,
nominally

against
your
will.

Heterosexuality
-

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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Yes

No

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Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

members
of
the

opposite
sex,
willingly.

Homosexuality
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Sexual
acts
with

Essential


Curious

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1
Yes

members
of
the
same

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

sex,
nominally
against

your
will.

Homosexuality
-

Essential


Curious

Voluntary

Essential


Curious

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2



1
Yes

Sexual
acts
with

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Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

members
of
the
same

sex,
willingly.

Humiliation
-
Private

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
you
are

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1

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humiliated,
degrated,
or

shamed,
in
a
private

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

setting.

Humiliation
-
Public

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
you
are

Essential


Curious

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2



1
Yes

humiliated,
degrated,
or

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1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

shamed,
in
front
of

others.

Humiliation
-
Verbal

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
you
are

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humiliated,
degrated,
or

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

shamed,
through
either

the
words
of
someone

else
(such
as
name

calling)
or
your
own

words.

Including
Others

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
in
which
other

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1

people,
from
outside

your
immediate

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

relationship,
are

included.

Kneeling

Essential


Curious
Yes

The
act
of
kneeling
to

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

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2



1
No

denote
submission.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Leashes

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Wearing
a
leash,

attached
to
a
collar
(or

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

other
convenient
point).

Lecturing

Essential


Curious

An
exposition
of
a
given

Essential


Curious

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4



3



2



1
Yes

subject
for
the
purpose

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

of
instruction
or

reprimand.

Licking

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Using
your
tongue
on

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

another
person's
body

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Yes

Soft
Limit


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Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

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often,
anything
they

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No

No

require].

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Massage

Rubbing
another

person's
body
for
their

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Rate

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

relaxation.

Masturbation
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Pleasuring
your
own

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Yes
genitals,
with
your

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

hand,
nominally
against

your
will.

Masturbation
-

Essential


Curious

Voluntary

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Pleasuring
your
own

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

genitals,
with
your

hand,
willingly.

Nipple
Clamps

Essential


Curious
Yes

Placing
clamps
on
the

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

nipples
to
cause
pain.

5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Nipple
Play

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Acts
that
focus
on
the

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

nipples.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Nipple
Weights

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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Applying
weights
to
the

Yes

nipples
to
stretch
them,

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

generally
to
cause
pain.

Nudity
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Periods
of
time
spent

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

without
clothing,

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

nominally
against
you

will.

Nudity
-
Voluntary

Essential


Curious
Yes

Periods
of
time
spent

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

without
clothing.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Orgasm
-
On
Command

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Having
to
orgasm
on
the

command
of
another

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

person.

Orgasm
Control

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Giving
control
of
when

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4



3



2



1

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4



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2



1

and
how
orgasms
are

experienced
-
and
when

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

they
are
not
-
to
another

person.

Orgasm
Denial

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Losing
the
right
to
have

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2



1

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3



2



1

Yes
orgasms
for
an
[often

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

protracted]
period
of

time.

Pain
(General)

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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involving
physical

pain.

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Yes

No

Pain
-
Heavy

Acts
involving
a
very

large
degree
of
physical

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

pain.

Pain
-
Light

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
some

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

physical
pain,
yet

without
too
great
an

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

intensity
-
being
more

symbolic
than
serious.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Phone
Sex

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Having
sexually
explicit

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

phone
conversations,

usually
involving

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

performing
sexual
acts

at
the
same
time.

Rape
-
Fantasy

Essential


Curious

Acts
that
explore
being

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

sexually
used,
nominally

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

against
your
will,
by

another
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Rape
-
Fantasy,
Gang

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
that
explore
being

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3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

sexually
used,
nominally

against
your
will,
by

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

more
than
one
other

person.

Recorded
Scenes
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Photographs,
Private

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Having
photographs

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

taken
of
you,
either

naked
or
indulging
in
a

sexual
act,
for
private

viewing
only.

Recorded
Scenes
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Photographs,
Shared

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Having
photographs

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

taken
of
you,
either

naked
or
indulging
in
a

sexual
act,
to
be
shared

with
others.

Recorded
Scenes
-
Video,

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Private

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Having
video
taken
of

you,
either
naked
or

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

indulging
in
a
sexual
act,

for
private
viewing
only.

Recorded
Scenes
-
Video,

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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Shared

Having
video
taken
of

you,
either
naked
or

5



4



3



2



1

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

5



4



3



2



1

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

indulging
in
a
sexual
act,

to
be
shared
with

others.

Roleplay
(General)

Scenes
in
which
the

participants
take
on
and

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

act
out
roles.

Roleplay
-
Age

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

act
out
roles
based
on

being
a
different
age

(such
as
babies
or

naughty
young
girls).

Roleplay
-
Education

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

act
out
roles
based
on
a

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

scholastic

teacher/student
setting.

Roleplay
-
Interrogation

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

act
out
roles
based
on

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Yes

Yes

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where

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No

No

one
person
is
the

interrogator
and
the

other
the
subject.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Roleplay
-
Kidnapping

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

act
out
roles
based
on

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

one
partner
being

kidnapped.

Roleplay
-
Medical

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

participants
take
on
and

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

act
out
roles
such
as

Doctor/Patient.

Roleplay
-
Pig

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Yes
subject
takes
on
and

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

acts
out
a
role
based
on

being
a
pig.

Roleplay
-
Pony

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

subject
takes
on
and

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

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Essential


Curious

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

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acts
out
a
role
based
on

being
a
pony.

Roleplay
-
Prison

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

act
out
roles
based
on

the
prison
world
such
as

Sadistic

Jailer/Vulnerable
Inmate

Roleplay
-
Puppy

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

subject
takes
on
and

acts
out
a
role
based
on

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

being
a
puppy
or
adult

dog.

Roleplay
-
Religious

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

participants
take
on
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

act
out
roles
based
on

the
religious
world
such

Yes

Yes

No

No

as
confessionals
or

Bishop/Nun.

Roleplay
-
Whore

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Scenes
in
which
the

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

subject
takes
on
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

acts
out
a
role
based
on

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Yes

Yes

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a
male
or
female

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No

No

prostitute,
selling

themselves
to
another

person
for
sex.

Sensation
Play
(General)

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

Yes

senses
and
strong

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

sensations.

Sensation
Play
-

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Deprivation

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Acts
involving
depriving

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

the
subject
of
their

senses
(often
to

Yes

Yes

No

No

heighten
the
remaining

ones).

Sensation
Play
-
Fire

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

sensations
and

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

apprehensions
caused

by
fire
and
heat.

Sensation
Play
-
Hair

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Pulling

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Acts
involving
the

sensations
and

Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

apprehensions
caused

by
having
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To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Sensation
Play
-
Hot

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Wax

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Acts
involving
the

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

sensations
and

apprehensions
caused

Yes

Yes

No

No

by
having
hot
candle

wax
dripped
on
to
or

applied
to
the
body.

Sensation
Play
-
Ice

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

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4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

sensations
and

apprehensions
caused

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

by
using
ice
or
other

cold
items
on
the
body.

Sensation
Play
-
Needle

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

sensations
and

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

apprehensions
caused

by
using
needles
on
the

Yes

Yes

No

No

body,
either
scratching

with
them,
or
poking

them.

Sensation
Play
-

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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Yes

No

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3



2



1

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Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

sensations
and

apprehensions
caused

by
being
scratched.

Sensation
Play
-
Suction

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

sensations
and

apprehensions
caused

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

by
having
suction

applied
to
the
body.

Sensation
Play
-
Teasing

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

sensations
and

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

apprehensions
caused

by
teasing
the
body.

Sensation
Play
-
Tickling

Essential


Curious

Acts
involving
the

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1
Yes

sensations
and

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4



3



2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

apprehensions
caused

by
tickling
the
body.

Serving
(General)

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

in
specific
ways,
putting

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

their
pleasure
ahead
of

your
own.
For
example,

a
maid
or
a
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servant.

Serving
-
Art

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

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4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

putting
their
pleasure

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

ahead
of
your
own,
as
a

(usually
immobile)
piece

of
artwork
such
as
a

statue.

Serving
-
Ashtray

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

5



4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

putting
their
pleasure

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

ahead
of
your
own,

Yes

Yes

using
a
part
of
your

No

No

body
as
a
receptacle
for

their
cigarette
or
cigar

ash.

Serving
-
Chauffer

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

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4



3



2



1

5



4



3



2



1

Yes
putting
their
pleasure

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

ahead
of
your
own,
as

their
formal
driver.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Serving
-
Dancer

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

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their
pleasure

ahead
of
your
own,
as
a

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Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

dancer.
For
example,
a

belly
dancer
or
stripper.

Serving
-
Following

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Orders

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Serving
another
person,

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

putting
their
pleasure

ahead
of
your
own,
as

they
give
you
specific

formal
orders
to
follow.

Serving
-
Forced

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person

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in
specific
ways,
putting

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

their
pleasure
ahead
of

your
own,
nominally

forced
against
your
will.

Serving
-
Furniture

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

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1

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putting
their
pleasure

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

ahead
of
your
own,
as

an
immobile
piece
of

Yes

Yes

No

No

furniture.
For
example,

on
all
fours
as
a
table
or

a
footstool.

Serving
-
Housework

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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another
person,

putting
their
pleasure

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Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

ahead
of
your
own,

performing
household

chores.

Serving
-
Maid

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

5



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2



1

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2



1

putting
their
pleasure

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

ahead
of
your
own,
as
a

maid.
For
example,

serving
tea
while

wearing
a
uniform.

Serving
-
Sexually

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Serving
another
person,

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2



1

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1

putting
their
pleasure

Yes

ahead
of
your
own,
in

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

whatever
sexual
way

pleases
them.

Sex
-
Anal

Sexual
intercourse

involving
a
penis

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

entering
your
anus.

Sex
-
Cunnilingus

Sexually
stimulating
the

vagina
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



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3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

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1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

mouth/tongue.

Sex
-
Denial

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Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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without
sex,
or

sexual
gratification,

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Yes

No

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3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

often
at
another

person's
command.

Sex
-
Fellatio

Sexually
stimulating
the

penis
with
a

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

mouth/tongue.

Sex
-
Group

Sexual
intercourse
with

Yes

No

more
than
one
partner.

Essential


Curious

5



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3



2



1

Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Done

Rate

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2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

To/For
Self

Activity

Essential


Curious

To/For
Others

Done

Rate

Sex
-
Penetration,

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Double

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Sexual
intercourse
in

which
two
orrifices

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

(mouth,
vagina,
anus)

are
filled.

Sex
-
Penetration,
Triple

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Sexual
intercourse
in

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2



1

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which
three
orrifices

(mouth,
vagina,
anus)

Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

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Sex
-
Rimming

Sexually
stimulating
the

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Yes

No

anus
with
a

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1

Yes

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

mouth/tongue.

Sex
-
Threesome

Essential


Curious
Yes

Sexual
intercourse
with

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1
No

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2



1
No

two
other
people.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Sex
-
Vaginal

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Sexual
intercourse

involving
a
penis

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

entering
your
vagina.

Sex
-
Vanilla

Traditional
sexual

intercourse,
without

Essential


Curious
Yes

No

5



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3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

involving
any
kinks.

Sex
Toys
-
Beads

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Having
a
string
of

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3



2



1

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1

connected
beads
(or

balls)
inserted
in
to
your

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

anus
or
vagina
and
then

pulled
out.

Sex
Toys
-
Butt
Plugs

Essential


Curious
Yes

Wearing
a
"plug"

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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4



3



2



1
No

inserted
in
to
your
anus.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Sex
Toys
-
Dildos

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Using
and/or
being

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2



1

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1

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penetrated
with
a
non-

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No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

vibrating
artificial

phallus.

Sex
Toys
-
Eggs

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Variously
known
as
Ben-

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2



1

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1

Wa
Balls,
Love
Eggs,
etc.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Two
balls
made
to
be

vaginally
inserted
which

Yes

Yes

No

No

vibrate
when
you
move

or
are
battery
powered

to
vibrate.

Sex
Toys
-
Public
(Under

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Clothes)

5



4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

Going
out
in
public
with

Yes

a
sex
toy
(such
as
a
butt

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

plug)
in
your
body,

under
your
clothing.

Sex
Toys
-
Strap
On

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Using
and/or
being

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4



3



2



1

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4



3



2



1

penetrated
with
an

artificial
phallus
that

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

fastens
about
a
partner's

waist.

Sex
Toys
-
Vibrators

Essential


Curious

Using
and/or
being

Essential


Curious

5



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3



2



1
Yes

penetrated
with
a

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2



1
Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

vibrating
toy,
usually
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artificial
phallus.

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Shaving
-
Body

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious
Yes

Removing
all
traces
of

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



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2



1
No

hair
below
the
neck.

5



4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Shaving
-
Genital

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Removing
all
traces
of

Rate

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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2



1
No

hair
from
the
genitals.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Shaving
-
Genital,

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Styling

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2



1

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2



1

Shaving
or
trimming

Yes

pubic
hair,
removing

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

some
but
not
all
of
it
in
a

given
style.

Shaving
-
Head

Essential


Curious
Yes

Removing
all
traces
of

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



4



3



2



1
No

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3



2



1
No

hair
from
the
head.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Showers
-
Brown

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Yes
Defecating
on
another

Yes
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2



1

No
person.

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4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Showers
-
Golden

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Urinating
on
another

Essential


Curious
Yes

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3



2



1
No

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3



2



1
No

person.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Speculums
-
Anal

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

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Using
a
medical
tool
to

dilate
(stretch
open)
the

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Yes

No

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4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

entrance
to
the
anus,

providing
access
within.

Speculums
-
Vaginal

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Using
a
medical
tool
to

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1

Yes
dilate
(stretch
open)
the

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

entrance
to
the
vagina,

providing
access
within.

Swapping
(Partner)

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Sex
between
two
or

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more
couples
where

members
of
each
couple

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Yes

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

exchange
partners
and

have
sex
with
them.

Voyeurism

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Watching
someone,

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1

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1

often
without
their

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

Yes

No

No

knowledge,
in
a

situation
with
sexual

connotations.

Worship
-
Boot

Essential


Curious
Yes

Worshiping
the
boots
of

Yes
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3



2



1

No
another
person.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

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3



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1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Worship
-
Bottom

Worshiping
the
bottom

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious
Yes

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1

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another
person.

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No

Worship
-
Breast

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Essential


Curious
Yes

Worshiping
the
breasts

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



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2



1
No

of
another
person.

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4



3



2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

To/For
Self

Activity

Done

Worship
-
Foot

Rate

To/For
Others

Done

Essential


Curious
Yes

Worshiping
the
feet
of

Essential


Curious

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2



1

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2



1
No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Worship
-
Genital

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

Worshiping
the
genitals

Rate

Yes

No
another
person.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Essential


Curious
Yes

5



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3



2



1
No

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3



2



1
No

of
another
person.

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Worship
-
High
Heel

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Worshiping
the
high-

heeled
shoes
of
another

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

Yes

No

5



4



3



2



1

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

person.

Wrestling

Essential


Curious

Essential


Curious

Wrestling
with
another

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2



1

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3



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1

Yes
person,
overpowering

Yes
Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit

No

Soft
Limit


Hard
Limit
No

them
or
being

overpowered.

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