Be Strong and Let Go

No matter how many times you have gone through a break up in your relationships, it
still hurts each time. It is more painful for those who experience it for the first time in
their life.
After a break up, you might decide not to get into a serious relationship again because
you are afraid of getting hurt once more. You may even fear that you might not find
another person because your self-esteem was shattered. Feelings of not being good
enough for anyone might lurk in your mind.
Stop thinking and talking about him. Forget about contacting or spying on him
especially in the early days. No need to send him an e-card, remembering his birthday or
other anniversary dates.
And as long as you still have even a tiny hope that you want to come back together,
refuse to see or write to him again.
Return his things or dispose them. It is a way of assuring yourself that you have really
accepted that the relationship is over. Keep the gifts, photographs and cards that you have
received out of your sight.
What is the worst thing that can happen from the break up? You definitely have learned
something from the relationship, about yourself and your partner. It's up to you to answer
that.
But what is more important is to get on with life. It is not the end. You still have your
family, other friends, your career and a full life ahead.
You can make new friends that may develop into better relationships. You can do things
that you wanted done but held on because he did not like it.
Sitting alone in }our room and0brooing a"out what could hav been i{ a waste of time
and energy. Figuring a!wcy to avenge how he has`men unfair to you may satisfy to a
cErtai. extent but it does not benefi you in any other way.
Remember that he is getting on with his life And you are wasting yours away. The best
thing xou can do is to work"on yourself, on your qersonal growth.
Plan out and state your goals nn what`you"want out of your creer and your ogn
personl improve}ent. Acxieve Your Dreams!
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