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Parents
Yelling and threatening
z Giving ultimatums
z Throwing insults
z Making future plans without
considering their childs
feelings
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Teenagers
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tell my lord
and father, mad
am,
I will not marry
yet
Lies! She wa
s alr
eady marrie
d to Romeo
behind her p
arents back
!
That story
didnt turn
out well.
There must
be a better
way
etch!
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2%
11%
33%
18%
Compare me to siblings
Nag about chores
Complain about friends
Call me names or tease
20%
7%
9%
Start crying
Embarrass in front of friends
Say, I know what you mean or oversympathize before you have understanding.
Listening Tips
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Be attentive.
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Encourage talk.
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Empathize.
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Talking Tips
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Be brief.
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Be honest.
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State the effect the situation has on you. ". . . I don't know
where you are. . ."
Identify the feeling that you have. ". . . and I begin to worry
that something might have happened to you.4
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Script
When you ask how was your day? and your teenager
actually answers, stop what youre doing and really
listen.
When an argument is brewing, stop and calmly talk-without blame--about the situation involving the
problem, the effect the situation has on you, and the
feeling that you have--using I statements.
Presentation
Handout
Photo Credits
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The photograph is from Matheson Lang's production of Romeo and Juliet which opened at the
Lyceum Theatre, London, on March 14, 1908, and ran through May 30,
30, 1908.
It is a postcard published by Rotary Photo, London. Card No. 7423E.
7423E. Photograph by the Daily
Mirror Studios.
Nora Kerin as Juliet; Herbert Grimwood as Capulet
http://shakespeare.emory.edu/postcarddisplay.cfm?cardid=54
References
1Wulf,
http://www.lifespan.org/Services/ChildHealth/Parenting/PDF/communication2.PDF
4Davis,
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