BECOMING A
CONTAGIOUS
CHRISTIAN
PARTICIPANT'S GUIDE
‘Communicating Your Flin Stylo That Fits You
MARK MITTELBERG
LEE STROBEL
BILL HYBELS
with contributions by
WENDY SEIDMAN and DON COUSINS
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‘who will confidently and compassionate reach
‘out to family friends, and strangers with the
sospel message, which s “the power of God for the
salvation of everyone who believes.”Acknowledgments
Induction
SESSION 1
‘The Benefits of Becoming a Contagious Chistian
SESSION 2
Being Yourself—and Impacting Others
SESSION 3
Deepening Your Relationships and Conversations
SESSION 4
“Teling Your Story
SESSION 5
Communicating Goes Message
SESSION 6
eping Friends Cros the Line of Path
APPENDIX
Becoming Contagious Chron Course Evaluation,
Sle Survey,
Taking Next Steps of uth
Additional Gospel stations.
‘Write Out Your Story
Recommended Resources
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2ACKNOWLEDGMENT
The authors express their sincere appreciation to
1 The people of Willow Creek Community Church in
suburban Chicago, where this project originated years ag,
and where thousands have been both trained and reached,
' Jim Mellado, Nancy Raney, Christine Anderson, Doug,
‘Yonarmine, Stephanie Oakley, and the entire Willow Creek
Assocation publishing team for flitting the publishing
process and for your encouragement along the way.
' Wendy Seidman, Willow Creek Association’ training
gor, for your extra efforts in updating and improving this
‘course forthe next big ran,
' Don Cousins, whose early influence on this project shaped
itin significane ways,
1 And to Garry Poole, Judson Poing, Karl and Barbara
Singer, Kevin and Sherry Harney, Brad Mitchel, Laura
orans, Paul Braoudakis, Steve Bel, Andy Cook, Gary
Schwamnmlen, Jim Becks, Dave “Supe” Wright, Graeme
Paris, Jason and Rachel Lane, Lary and Rosemary Estry,
Dave Moore, Rick Richardson, Mark Miler, Rickey
Bolden, Beth and Larry Dahlenbutg, Ruse Robinson,
[Nancy Grisham, Courtney Stevens, yn Norum, Joe
‘Sherman, Doug Martinez Julie Harney, Marie Little, Chad
‘Meister, Jim Russel, Tom Chapin, nd everyone else whose
names we should have mentioned, and especially our ownfamilies—thank you forthe ways you've encouraged end
supported this kingdom venture. We appreciate you al
‘Also, deep appreciation to
» John Raymond and Zondervan, for your partnership in
producing and distributing the orignal and now this
‘updated course for use by churches and ministries around
the word,
‘Ando the following ministries: CON (Church
‘Communication Network —espocilly Bil Dallas, Jay
Mitchel, and Ryan Erps); Outreach, Inc (especially Scott
and Susan Evans, Ron Forseth, Lynne Marian, Jenifer
Dion, Paul Pickard, and Kim Levings); the Luis Palau
Evangelistic Association (espcilly Luis and Kevin Palau
and Alan Hotchkis); International Bible Society (especially
‘Tom Youngblood); the Billy Graham Center in Wheaton
(especially Lon Allison}; and Mission America (specially
aul Cedar and im Overholt fr al ofthe significant ways
you've partnered with us for evangelistic and ministry
purposes.
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INTRODUCTION
1995
The Becoming a Contagious Christan course is designed to help
everyday Christians—like you and me—to confidently and
ffectively spread their faith to people they know. The emphasis
{son natural approaches that work overtime to bring family
members friends, coworkers, and neighbors to the point of
trusting in Christ,
If you are someone who thinks relational evangelism is very
Important bu “isnot realy my area,” then we want you to know
that this course i especially for you, We are convinced tha, as you
_move through thee sessions, you wil sense a growing excitement
bout how God can prepare and use you to impact the lives of|
others for eternity.
‘Through a variety of formats inchuding video vignetes, group
discussions, role playing, and teaching segments, you will learn
how to communicate the message of Christ in your own personal,
God-given stye. As you gain confidence and begin to put into
action what you have eerned, you will discover what thousands
‘ofpeople who have taken this training before you have found out:
becoming a contagious Christian is an unparalled adventure!
You will have the til of sensing the Holy Spit work through
you as you build strategic relationships, raise spiritual topics of|
conversation, express what God has done for you, and encourage
Your friends toward commitment, When God uses you a par of
the team thet leads someone across the lie of ith, watch out You
"ETOP RICHEY, us
will never the same gain. You will experience the exhilaration
‘that comes with knowing you have played a key role in fullling
God's central purpose on earth —"to seek and to save what was
lost”
So get ready, rll up your sleeves, and let the adventure begin
Mak Mi
South Barringtot,Ilinois
2007
Wyhard believe thats been morethanadecade and overaaillion|
people trained since we frst introduced this couse. But along the
‘way weve learned a lot about equipping Christians —especially
those who are convinced that evangelism isnot for them —to
naturally and effectively communieste thee faith. We've applied
thot Iesonsto this revised and updated edition, Our prayers that
itwillserve you and the people in your group well, and that 2s a
result God will use you to reach many more for him,
Your partner inthe gospel,
Mask Ma
Trabuco Canyon, California
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UA SSSI i
THE BENEFITS oF BECOMING
A CONTAGIOUS CHRISTIAN
{Who Is Jesus?
@B vp: Who Is Jesus?
Notes:
13‘The Goal of This Course
To prepare us to be contagious Christians
‘who are active in leading others to Christ
For the Son of Man came sak ant save what wast
(sk 110)
‘Ath Father has sent me, Lam sending you John 2:2),
You wil be my witness Jerusalem, and in al ude and
Samaria, and rth ends ofthe oarth (Acts 1:8).
‘The Benefits of Becoming
a Contagious Christian
QB DvD: Stories of Contagious Christians
| Notes:
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Jesus, what are the benefits to us, te others, and to God?
‘irite down few responses to each ofthese three
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‘There are many influences and conversations that precede
etson's decison to conver: to Christ. {know the jy of being
the firs nk a times, a middle ink usually and ocasonal
‘he ast link. God hat not called met only be the ls ink
(Care Ker, sutho, speaker, and evangelist
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PD civics etn: Bein a
Prayer List and an Impact List
‘Turn tothe lst page and the inside back cover.
Groups: Praying for the
People on Your Impact List
Directions
1. Pair up with someone near you, introduce yourselves if
you don't already know each other, and share the first
name of the person you wrote down on your Impact
List, and what your rationship to them is (coworker,
sister, brother-inJaw, spouse, neighbor, parent, et.)
2, Take few minutes to pray together for the people
you've both mentioned. To help you know how to pray,
follow the simple prayer guide onthe righ side ofthe
Prayer Liston the last page of your Participant's Guide.
Recommended Reading
Read chapters 1-3 ofthe companion
book for this course also called Becoming
1 Contagious Christian, These chapters
ace filled with ditional information
and exciting real-life stories.
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LL Sea 2
BEING YOURSELF —
AND IMPACTING OTHERS.
Directions:
Read each ofthe 36 statements on pages 20-23 and
record a namber by each that reflects the degree to which
you think that statement its you. Your choices are from
1 to5, with 1 being the lowest match to who you are, and
5 the highest. Here’ a description of what each number
That's totaly me
Pretty much ke me
‘Somewhat ike me
Ate tke me
That's not ma at all
2. Transfer those numbers tothe grid at the bottom of
page 23 and total each column,
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1. In conversations, Iitke to approach topics directly,
‘without mach small tall or “beating around the bush”
2. Thave a hard time getting out ofa bookstore without
‘buying a bunch of new books that will help me
‘understand what people are thinking
3. Loften speak out of my personal background or
‘experience in order to illustrate a point Lam trying to
make.
4. Tama "people-person” who places high value on
Siendship.
5. enjoy adding or including nev people in activities Tin
involved i,
6, [see needs in people'slives that others often overlook,
7. don’ shy eway from challenging someone when it
seems necessary
8. Trend tobe analytical and logical
9 Toften identity with others by using phase ike,“
‘used to think that, t00” or “Tonce elt the way you do”
10, People have commented about my ability for
developing deep friendships.
1. Toe honest, often watch for situations in which
someone “better qualified” can explain concepts to
ry fiends.
12. Ifind fulfillment in helping others often in beind-
the-scenes wy.
1. Ido not have a problem confronting my frends with
the truth even if strains the relationship.
14. In conversations, Inaturally key in on questions that
are holding up a person's understanding or progress.
——15. When I talk around the locker room or the drinking
fountain people realy listen,
16. I would rather delve ito personal lif issues than
abstract theoretical ideas.
7 isnot unusual for me to attend special events or
concerts and bring slong carful of frends,
18, Twould rather show love through ations than
through words,
18. Tthink the world would be alo better place ifpeople
‘would stop being so sensitive about everything and
just speak the truth!
—— 20. Lenjoy discussions and debates on difficult questions.
—— 21. Lintentionally share my mistakes and strugles with
others when twill help them consider solutions that
could help them.
2. | prefer discussing a person’ lif before getting into the