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Tatton
Comm
2150-07
Shirene
McKay
April
22,1916
Overview
My
final
paper
will
include
my
competency
area,
my
thoughts
on
why
I
chose
what
I
did,
and
my
experiences
that
helped
me
become
more
aware
of
why
I
act
the
way
I
do
in
social
situations.
Also
I
will
include
a
reflection
of
what
I
learned
and
how
it
has
affected
me.
Competency
Area
Tolerance
of
Ambiguity:
This
dimension
measures
the
extent
to
which
I
am
able
to
manage
ambiguity
as
it
relates
to
new
and
complex
situations
where
there
are
not
necessarily
clear
answers
about
what
is
going
on
or
how
things
should
be
done
{McKay
25).
I
decided
to
do
my
Cultural
Change
Paper
on
Tolerance
of
Ambiguity.
After
I
took
the
Global
Competencies
Inventory
test
I
realized
that
this
was
something
that
I
needed
to
improve
on
in
my
social
life
and
my
soon
to
be
professional
life.
I
am
getting
ready
to
enter
into
the
field
of
Interpreting
for
the
Deaf.
I
figured
this
will
only
help
me
be
a
better
person.
Thats
what
life
is
all
about
right?
Becoming
a
better
individual?
I
have
had
some
experiences
that
led
me
to
where
I
am
now.
I
am
an
active
LDS
member.
I
grew
up
in
the
church.
I
have
had
many
callings
where
I
work
with
other
members
of
my
faith.
I
have
developed
a
habit
of
not
contributing
to
the
conversations,
because
I
feel
there
are
many
high
strung
people
that
have
a
certain
way
they
do
things
and
it
does
not
matter
what
I
say
or
do,
I
am
wrong.
So
I
have
developed
a
bad
habit
of
just
letting
the
high
strung
person
lead
the
meeting.
Which
causes
me
to
misunderstand
what
is
going
on
because
I
am
not
asking
clarification
on
some
aspects
of
the
activities
that
I
am
involved
in.
I
also
get
frustrated
when
we
talk
about
the
activity
when
its
finished.
The
leaders
will
ask
What
can
we
change?
or
How
can
we
improve?
My
answers
would
be
sarcastic
The
whole
thing.
I
dont
really
say
that
but
that
is
what
Im
thinking.
Instead
of
saying
that,
I
just
sit
quietly
and
let
everyone
else
do
the
talking.
Those
moments
would
be
my
opportunity
to
speak
up.
But,
I
dont.
In
the
book
it
states
There
is
often
a
great
deal
of
ambiguity
in
intercultural
conflicts.
We
may
be
unsure
of
how
to
handle
the
conflict
or
of
whether
the
conflict
is
seen
in
the
same
way
by
the
other
person.
And
the
other
person
may
not
even
think
there
is
a
conflict
(Martin
and
Nakayama
437).
After
reading
that
about
ambiguity
I
thought
that
is
why
the
other
leaders
think
that
everything
is
okay.
I
am
not
speaking
up.
I
am
not
contributing
to
the
meeting.
If
I
want
something
to
change
I
need
to
be
apart
of
that
change.
They
think
I
am
fine
with
it
when
Im
not
so
this
causes
hurt
feelings
with
me
and
causes
confusion
in
the
relationships.
Goal:
Ambiguity
means
unclear
messages
or
meanings.
This
can
go
both
ways.
The
message
going
out
can
be
unclear
and
the
message
being
received
can
also
be
unclear.
This
can
cause
confusion
within
the
cultural,
because
the
correct
message
is
not
being
conveyed.
My
goal
is
to
speak
up
in
my
planning
meetings
when
decisions
are
being
made
especially
when
Im
not
sure
about
what
is
being
said
or
dont
like
what
is
being
said.
Also
When
I
communicate
with
my
family.
The
conversation
can
become
misunderstood
due
to
lack
of
information
or
lack
of
attention.
This
can
cause
some
ambiguity
in
our
family.
I
want
to
change
this
so
that
there
is
no
contention
within
our
family.
Chapter
#8
Understanding
Intercultural
Transitions
Tactic
#8:
As
I
communicate,
I
need
to
make
sure
I
am
not
judging
others
as
they
communicate
with
me.
They
may
have
something
important
to
say
but
are
being
shy
about
it.
The
quote
I
found
was,
In
any
interaction,
it
is
important
not
only
to
predict
how
someone
will
behave
but
also
to
explain
why
the
person
behaves
in
a
particular
way
(Martin
and
Nakayama
332).
My
youth
group
was
ready
to
go
on
this
outing
that
we
had
planned
earlier
that
month.
There
was
a
Leader
that
was
giving
instructions
to
the
group.
He
was
not
very
clear.
I
spoke
up.
I
was
able
to
get
better
directions
on
where
we
were
going.
Knowing
that
the
group
was
going
to
feel
lost
and
frustrated
I
decided
to
speak
up
and
get
clarification.
That
experience
reminded
me
of
the
quote
in
the
book
it
stated,
In
any
interaction,
it
is
important
not
only
to
predict
how
someone
will
behave
but
also
to
explain
why
the
person
behaves
in
a
particular
way
(Martin
and
Nakayama
332).
Another
experience
I
had
was
with
my
mother.
We
were
having
a
girls
night
out
with
my
sisters.
When
we
get
together
we
all
talk
very
rapidly.
There
was
a
point
in
the
conversation
that
was
discussed
where
we
were
to
go
to
Hobby
Lobby.
I
did
not
want
to
go.
I
should
have
paid
closer
attention
to
when
this
event
was
being
talked
about.
This
caused
me
to
be
very
frustrated.
Earlier
in
the
conversation
I
told
my
family
about
all
the
homework
I
had
waiting
for
me
at
home.
I
feel
that
they
should
have
predicted
my
behavior
when
suggesting
that
we
go
to
another
store.
I
felt
like
the
bad
guy
telling
them
that
I
didnt
not
hear
them,
and
could
not
go
with
them.
Tactic
Implementation:
I
feel
that
predicting
behavior
can
go
both
ways.
I
need
to
continue
to
be
aware
of
how
I
come
across
when
receiving
clarification
on
certain
matters.
I
also
can
be
more
aware
of
others
and
how
maybe
they
feel
the
same
way.
If
I
see
the
frustration
in
their
faces
I
can
certaintly
speak
up
for
them
or
help
them
not
feel
so
frustrated.
The
issues
with
my
family,
that
is
one
that
I
dont
know
if
it
will
ever
change.
Its
been
that
way
my
whole
life.
I
tried
talking
to
them
about
the
situation.
It
was
a
waist
of
time.
They
did
not
see
my
side
of
the
story
at
all.
Tactic
Recommendations:
Now
with
being
aware
of
how
others
can
feel
in
a
situation
or
how
I
can
sometimes
feel
I
think
that
I
will
continue
with
my
course
of
action.
I
like
that
I
can
predict
someones
behavior.
One
excellent
aspect
of
Sign
Language
is
we
are
being
taught
to
read
body
language.
So
this
course
of
action
will
help
me
as
I
become
an
Interpreter.
Sometimes
when
a
person
is
signing
to
a
Deaf
individual
they
need
to
be
able
to
explain
through
sign
why
someone
is
behaving
in
a
certain
way.
The
Deaf
Culture
has
different
ways
they
express
themselves.
Because
of
that
I
have
to
predict
what
is
going
to
happen.
This
will
only
make
me
a
better
Interpreter.
Chapter
#9
Popular
Culture
and
Intercultural
Communication
Tactic
9:
Dont
be
afraid
of
others
opinions.
Speak
up
and
express
yours
with
confidence.
You
dont
have
a
problem
with
this
anywhere
else.
Maybe
something
might
be
considered
the
Norm
it
does
not
mean
that
I
have
to
agree
with
it.
The
quote
I
found
was,
It
is
difficult
to
avoid
popular
culture.
Not
only
is
it
ubiquitous
but
it
also
serves
an
important
social
function
(Martin
and
Nakayama
362).
The
experience
I
had
with
Popular
Culture
was
when
I
was
with
a
group
of
friends
and
we
were
talking
about
music.
They
were
so
excited
to
talk
about
this
group
that
they
all
have
listened
to.
I
had
no
idea
what
they
were
talking
about.
Instead
of
just
sitting
there,
agreeing
with
what
they
were
saying
I
said.
I
have
no
idea
who
that
is.
When
they
clarified
that
this
particular
group
was
a
gospel
singing
group
I
told
them,
in
a
polite
manner,
that
I
dont
listen
to
gospel
groups.
I
love
Rock
and
Roll.
They
were
a
little
surprised
by
my
reaction.
I
was
asked
to
speak
to
a
group
of
ladies
at
an
upcoming
activity.
I
was
raised
to
always
say
yes
and
to
do
it
with
a
good
attitude.
This
I
feel
ties
into
Popular
Culture
because
its
what
expected
in
my
faith.
I
did
not
want
to
say
yes,
all
I
could
think
about
was
a
way
out.
I
told
her
I
would
have
to
think
about
it.
I
called
her
back
and
asked
questions.
I
then
realized
that
I
could
do
this.
I
liked
the
topic.
So
I
agreed.
I
did
it
because
I
wanted
to.
Not
because
it
was
expected.
Tactic
Implementation:
Popular
Culture
is
one
that
I
was
very
aware
of
at
an
early
age.
I
always
went
against
the
grain.
I
didnt
not
like
to
be
part
of
what
everyone
else
liked.
Today
I
still
fell
that
I
am
that
way
with
certain
aspects
of
our
society.
As
I
mentioned
above
I
really
enjoy
Rock
music.
I
felt
that
I
was
able
to
speak
up
and
share
my
thoughts
on
why
I
like
it.
I
know
that
I
was
viewed
differently.
I
didnt
care.
I
enjoy
what
I
enjoy.
I
feel
that
I
could
be
left
out
of
conversations
about
music
in
the
future.
That
could
be
a
problem.
I
do
think
I
could
help
them
understand
why
I
like
what
I
do.
Tactic
Recommendations:
I
will
continue
to
speak
up.
I
dont
want
others
to
just
assume
that
I
go
with
the
Norm.
I
think
society
molds
people
to
think
that
way.
I
will
be
vocal
about
things
that
I
like.
However
I
know
what
I
want
and
what
I
like,
but
I
will
not
be
disrespectful
of
others
likes
and
dislikes.
Chapter
#10
Culture,
Communication,
and
Intercultural
Relationships
Tactic
#10:
I
will
learn
to
speak
in
a
manner
that
will
be
understood
by
others.
I
will
do
this
as
I
continue
to
interact
with
my
church
group
and
communicate
with
my
family.
The
quote
I
found
to
go
with
this
is
from
the
book
it
states,
We
often
learn
how
to
do
new
things
in
intercultural
relationships.
Through
intercultural
relationships,
newcomers
to
a
society
can
acquire
important
skills;
all
of
these
potential
benefits
can
lead
to
a
sense
of
interconnectedness
with
others
and
can
establish
a
lifelong
pattern
of
communication
across
differences.
We
also
hope
that
it
helps
us
become
better
intercultural
communicators
(Martin
and
Nakayama
392).
I
had
an
experience
where
I
needed
a
paper
printed
out.
I
do
not
have
a
printer
at
home.
I
talked
to
my
husband
on
the
phone.
He
said
to
email
it
to
him
and
he
would
print
it
out.
We
continued
the
conversation
with
some
details
about
an
up
coming
trip
that
we
are
planning.
When
the
conversation
ended
I
emailed
my
husband
the
paper
to
be
printed
off
and
the
details
of
the
trip.
I
put
in
the
subject
of
the
email.
Trip
and
paper
I
thought
he
would
understand
what
that
meant.
Nope!
When
I
asked
him
about
it
when
he
arrived
home
he
said,
I
never
saw
that
email
with
your
school
paper
come
through.
He
thought
the
email
was
only
our
itinerary
of
our
trip.
He
was
expecting
2
different
emails.
I
needed
my
husband
to
take
my
son
to
a
neighbors
house
to
order
a
birthday
cake
(This
lady
sells
birthday
cakes
to
neighbors
to
earn
a
little
money,
they
are
out
of
this
world.
Its
so
worth
it)
I
had
the
appointment
set
up
but
had
double
booked
myself
for
that
night.
I
asked
him
to
go
instead
of
me.
He
told
me
No,
I
am
so
tired
tonight,
can
you
just
reschedule
please?
I
said
no.
Just
go.
When
I
came
home
from
my
other
engagement
I
asked
what
they
ordered.
My
husband
said,
I
told
you
I
didn't
want
to
go
I
should
have
been
more
understanding
of
his
long
day.
I
was
forgiving
to
him
because
it
was
easy
just
to
call
her
and
reschedule.
Tactic
Implementation:
When
it
comes
to
blending
two
cultures
together
for
instance,
in
a
marriage,
there
needs
to
be
understanding
and
forgiveness,
when
making
mistakes.
This
can
cause
hurt
feeling
in
the
marriage.
When
I
expect
something
from
my
husband
and
he
is
honest
with
me,
I
need
to
be
willing
to
work
with
him
and
come
to
a
compromise
and
not
be
the
problem.
The
understanding
can
go
both
ways.
If
we
are
honest
with
our
feelings
with
each
other
then
we
can
create
a
happy
environment
in
our
home.
Tactic
Recommendations:
I
will
continue
with
my
course
of
action.
I
see
how
my
friends
treat
their
husbands.
I
see
that
someone
is
the
controlling
one.
I
see
how
this
can
hurt
the
relationship.
I
do
not
want
that
in
my
relationship
with
anyone
especially
my
husband.
I
will
continue
to
take
what
he
has
to
offer
and
blend
it
with
how
I
do
things.
Talking
with
him
about
this
helps
him
to
also
understand
that
he
needs
to
do
the
same
for
me.
It
just
works
better.
Chapter
#11
Intercultural
Communication
Applications
Tactic
#11:
As
the
end
of
the
semester
is
coming
to
a
close,
I
will
be
aware
of
how
I
talk
to
others
and
my
expectations.
I
have
a
great
deal
of
stress
I
am
dealing
with
and
I
would
hate
for
someone
to
misunderstand
me.
I
will
slow
down
and
think
through
how
to
communicate
with
my
husband
and
kids
as
well
as
in
my
church
group
I
will
communicate
with
them
so
there
is
no
misunderstanding.
In
the
book
it
states,
There
is
often
a
great
deal
of
ambiguity
in
intercultural
conflicts.
We
may
be
unsure
of
how
to
handle
the
conflict
or
of
whether
the
conflict
is
seen
in
the
same
way
by
the
other
person.
And
the
other
person
may
not
even
think
there
is
a
conflict
(Martin
and
Nakayama
437).
A
recent
meeting
we
were
organizing
the
remaining
birthday
gifts
we
give
out
to
each
of
our
girls
in
our
church.
I
told
them
to
separate
each
necklace
and
put
them
in
a
small
bag,
then
put
all
the
bags
in
a
box
or
basket.
A
few
days
later
when
it
came
time
to
hand
out
the
birthday
gifts
I
noticed
that
the
necklaces
were
still
tangled
together
and
had
not
been
separated.
Very
casually
I
asked
a
leader
sitting
next
to
me
why
they
were
still
tangled
and
not
organized.
I
was
just
curious.
She
shyly
said
well
you
came
across
kind
of
rude
and
I
dont
think
she
completely
understood
you.
I
felt
so
bad.
I
started
to
think
of
what
the
situation
was
and
why
my
statement
would
have
offended
her.
I
could
not
come
up
with
any
conclusion.
When
the
meeting
ended
I
pulled
her
aside
and
she
would
not
answer
my
question.
I
then
just
decided
to
tell
her
that
I
was
a
very
direct
person
and
if
I
offended
her
I
was
sorry.
Also
I
told
her
why
my
idea
was
good.
I
just
wanted
to
help
her
feel
more
organized.
She
accepted
my
apology
and
we
have
moved
on
from
that.
I
had
an
experience
this
week
with
a
woman
who
is
the
secretary
for
the
primary
in
my
church.
The
primary
is
the
organization
for
the
kids
ages
3
to
11.
The
Presidency
of
the
Primary
wanted
to
come
over
and
visit
my
son
who
just
turned
8.
He
is
ready
to
be
baptized
into
our
church
and
that
is
why
they
wanted
to
come
over.
She
said,
Are
you
ignoring
my
text
messages?
I
just
looked
at
her
and
wanted
to
punch
her
in
the
throat.
That
was
rude
I
thought.
So
I
told
her
I
am
now
My
husband
was
there
and
said
in
his
calming
voice
Why?
Are
you
trying
to
get
a
hold
of
her
for
something?
She
then
explains
the
purpose
of
the
text
message.
I
calmed
down.
I
hate
it
when
someone
accuses
me
of
Avoiding
them
I
am
very
busy.
I
will
answer
my
texts
when
I
have
time.
I
always
tell
people
if
its
important,
call
me
and
leave
a
message.
Or
be
patient
with
my
response
to
any
text
you
may
send
me.
She
didnt
realize
that
I
was
in
a
bad
mood
and
didnt
realize
her
approach
was
aggravating
to
me.
I
was
able
to
work
out
a
time
for
the
visit
and
then
told
her
the
reason
I
responded
the
way
I
did
and
she
apologized
for
the
sarcastic
approach.
Tactic
Implementation:
With
the
two
experiences
that
I
have
had
with
this
chapter
I
can
see
that
I
need
to
be
clear
in
my
messages
but
pay
attention
to
the
person
Im
talking
to.
I
see
that
some
people
are
very
sensitive
to
others
approach.
I
had
the
experience
of
being
on
both
sides
of
things.
The
first
one
was
me
being
upfront
with
what
I
wanted
and
expected,
then
someone
got
offended
by
me.
The
next
was
me
being
in
a
bad
mood
and
someone
approached
me
and
made
me
mad.
It
does
go
both
ways.
However,
I
can
change
the
way
I
come
across
to
others
by
paying
better
attention
to
them.
I
only
can
control
my
feelings
when
others
are
communicating
with
me.
If
I
am
in
a
bad
mood
I
need
to
be
aware
of
that
and
not
let
it
affect
the
situation.
Tactic
Recommendations:
I
am
aware
of
how
I
am
when
I
am
in
a
bad
mood.
My
husband
laughs
at
me.
He
tells
me
he
wishes
he
had
a
microphone
in
my
head
so
he
can
hear
all
my
thoughts
that
run
through
my
head
when
I
am
in
a
bad
mood.
So
knowing
how
I
come
across
when
I
am
mad
can
be
hard
on
others.
I
will
change
this
behavior.
I
will
also
pay
attention
to
how
I
come
across
to
others
when
I
am
being
assertive
with
my
decisions.
The
last
thing
I
want
to
do
is
hurt
someone
through
my
actions.
Reflection:
Q:
How
does
this
assignment
illustrate
the
growth/change/progress
you
have
had
in
this
class?
A:
I
didnt
even
know
there
was
such
a
thing
as
Ambiguity.
I
didnt
even
know
how
to
say
it
at
first.
As
I
studied
the
meaning
of
the
word,
I
realized
that
I
have
that
problem.
I
need
to
speak
up
more
in
social
situations
to
understand
the
meaning
of
what
we
were
doing
or
talking
about.
I
found
a
website
that
had
a
compilation
of
quotes
one
of
my
favorites
that
I
feel
applies
states,
The
most
important
thing
in
communication
is
hearing
what
isnt
said
(Drucker).
Body
language
is
just
as
important
as
how
we
use
words.
The
family
I
grew
up
with
is
a
big
factor
in
why
I
have
communication
problems.
My
mom
does
a
lot
of
implying
and
she
Assumes
so
much.
My
communication
with
her
has
always
been
bad.
I
think
that
is
part
of
the
problem
I
have
with
her.
I
wish
I
could
say
that
through
this
class
its
gotten
better
with
her
but
it
hasn't.
It
needs
to
go
both
ways.
The
communication
within
my
immediate
family
has
changed.
My
husband
and
I
have
a
lot
more
to
talk
about
now.
We
have
learned
from
each
other
about
how
we
communicate,
whether
its
through
words
or
through
body
language.
We
need
to
be
sensitive
to
all
the
factors.
Q:
How
can
you
apply
what
youve
learned
in
this
class
to
other
classes,
to
the
workplace,
and/or
other
areas
of
your
life?
A:
I
have
grown
in
my
knowledge
of
communication.
I
have
learned
what
has
caused
conflicts
with
how
I
communicate
as
well
as
how
others
communicate
with
me.
I
can
implement
these
tactics,
and
new
knowledge
in
my
family
as
my
husband
and
I
raise
our
children.
They
can
benefit
from
this
as
well
as
I
can.
Also
I
can
implement
this
new
found
knowledge
in
the
work
place
as
I
continue
to
go
to
school
I
will
be
able
to
practice
these
and
hopefully
the
good
ones
will
become
a
habit.
Then
when
I
start
to
work
I
will
be
able
to
feel
successful
in
what
I
am
doing.
Work
Cited
Martin,
Judith
N.
and
Thomas
K.
Nakayama.
Intercultural
Communication
in
Contexts.
6th
Ed.
Boston,
MA:
McGrawHill,
2013.
McKay,
Shirene.
Intercultural
Communication
Learning
Packet.
Salt
Lake
City,
Ut:
Salt
Lake
Community
College,
2015.
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21 Apr. 2016.