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Introduction Email
Dear Ms. Raven,
Good afternoon, I am Miss.McDonald, Jay's 2nd grade teacher. I would love to meet with you to
discuss and collaborate regrading Jay's report card and behavior in class as we close out this first
term. Would you be available to come meet with me this Thursday May 5th at 10:00am? If this
time does not work with your schedule I would be more than willing to find a time that works
better for you. I have planning everyday from 10-10:30 this week and am available before school
as well. Please feel free to come prepared with any questions, comments, or concerns you would
like to share regarding Jay. I want to do all I can to help Jay do his very best in my class and
want to work with you to achieve this goal. I look forward to meeting with you!
Sincerely,
Miss McDonald
2nd Grade Teacher
Eagle Elementary School
Parent Reply
Miss McDonald,
Thank you for the email. This time works for me as I have recently been laid off from my job
and am free all the time. I will come prepared with questions (and a few concerns). Looking
forward to it.
Ms. Raven
Jay Raven Parent Teacher Conference Agenda
Introduction:
Good morning, Im so glad that you came to meet with me
Goal- for us to work collaboratively to do what is best for Jay because you know him better
than anyone
wanted to meet to discuss Jays behavior and the classroom, I believe is is interfering with his
academic development and I want to see Jay be the best he can be
Strength/Areas to Improve (use note taking guide)
Strengths:
To begin with I love having Jay in my class, he is a bright young boy that is full of potential
strong reading skills
Jay is doing really well in Science. He has shown a lot of interest in animals and knows a lot
about them. He enjoys reading non fiction books and is very interested in the subject as a whole.
Show her writing sample from writing workshop about sharks
Areas to Improve:
I want us to think about Jay and his full potential as we discuss weaknesses, it can be
hard to discuss
Jays disruptive behavior has shifted towards aggressive behavior towards his
classmates recently (6X per day, taking things, hitting, not only in the classroom)
Unfortunately due to his behavior he has been spending time off task and in the principals
office and it is my concern that Jays behavior is resulting in missing out on instruction time in
the class
show decline in grades on last years report card, dont want this to continue
mentioned in your email back to me that you lost your job recently. Have you noticed a change
in Jays behavior since this has happened?
I did some research on the subject last night and it is very common for this to happen to a child
during this time
Present the How can children cope when Dad or Mom lose their jobs? resource
highlight signs of behavior
explain this is normal
read strategies suggested by article
Plan of Action:
I have high expectations for Jay because I have seen him produce quality work and I know
that we can help him overcome these challenges he is facing. I don't want his behavior to be the
reason he struggles
Here are some resources I think we could implement that would help Jay with his behavior and
academic performance
Share feelings chart- explain will help mom, myself, and student be aware of childs feelings
at the beginning of day
Share Positive reinforcement resource- student will respond well to this when they do
something right they receive a punch on chart. Use at home and school. Receive some kind of
reward at home like chose favorite restaurant?
explain that these will be laminated and put on a key ring for Jay to keep in backpack
Share App: Beep & Boop: Beep & Boop allows you to reinforce good behavior with Beeps,
and issue Boops to signal bad behavior. Each Boop deletes one Beep, helping kids understand
that choosing to misbehave comes with consequences. Putting a rewards system in place with
pay-out contingent upon receiving a specified number of Beeps can also be effective if youre
using a rewards versus consequences model of behavioral modification.
perfect for Jay because he loved to play on iPad
Conclusion:
If we work together I think Jay will really benefit from our effort
Please let me know if you have any questions, comments, or concerns at anytime. I want to be
a resource for you and Jay
I think it would be great to have a follow-up meeting in a few weeks to touch base and see how
these resources are working
I really enjoyed meeting with you today
Give parent thanks for popping by goody
things together that celebrate beingin the family are powerful weapons
in fighting back fear.
Help your child understand why you seem so preoccupied at times not
by going over your own sadness and worry, butby stressing that this is
a difficult problem that sometimes takes up your full attention.
Trywritingdown some of the solutionsor options you are thinking of
in your own efforts and show these to your children.
Take care of your own signs of stress. Teach children how a personcan
still be good and kind to themselves even underfrightening
circumstances. Make a point oflimiting your own survival
behaviors such as insecure eating, and instead demonstrate one or two
healthyhabits that you can control during these difficult times.
Haveafamily meetingto comeup with a list of resources, ideas, and
familystrengths. Dont brush away childrens offers of help, because
they arelooking for a sense of purpose and direction just like the
parents in the family.
Take away some of theunknown bydescribing what might change in
the familysroutine, schedules, or activities. Give them some time
frames so they canknow what to expect.Stress that some of these
changes may be temporary and some may be permanent, but be clear
that the changes will helpthe familystay on track through this problem.
The temptationto give in to the whirlwind of emotions thataccompany
lossoffamily income is great, and tempers and negative communication will
happen despite parents bestefforts at self-control. Feelings of
embarrassment andshame about having to approacha church or food
donation organization, or about explaining to relatives the familys
situationcanlead to avoidant responsesthat can be learned by children.
When it is necessaryto reach out for help, letting children know that we stand
together in as a community or country to help each other is a sign of strength,
notweakness. The followingsupport organizations are inthe forefront of
helping address thewidening line between economic security andmiddle
class poverty that many families are experiencing during this recession:
While not offering direct assistance, advice and supportfrom the
governmentsinformation program for affordable housing can be found at
http://makinghomeaffordable.gov/.
Follow-Up Email
Response Form
Reflection
The mock parent teacher conference was a great learning opportunity. The thought of
parent teacher conferences had always intimidated me, but now I feel much more confident in
my ability to conference with a parent. Through this assignment I learned a lot about the
importance of parent-teacher communication. Parent-teacher communication is crucial to helping
students be the best they can be, and although it can be a challenge the partnership between the
teacher and the parent has a major effect on a students performance in class.
Prior to the parent teacher conference we were provided with information about our 2nd
grade student, Jay Raven. As I flipped through his report cards, behavior reports, and work
samples it felt like I was trying to solve a mystery. I observed that in first grade the student made
great grades and received positive comments from his teacher, However in the last term of first
grade something changed. Jays grades went down and his teacher became concerned with his
behavior. I came to the conclusion that something mustve happened to Jay that caused this shift
in behavior and academic performance.
To help the students aggressive behavior I found resources like the feelings chart and the
behavior punch card that would help myself the teacher, the parent, and the student be aware of
how he is feeling as well as reinforce positive reinforcement. Since the child loved video games
and the iPad I was also able to find an app called Beep and Boop that the child could play that
reinforces positive behavior. When the parent told me that she had recently lost her job in the
email I felt like I found a major clue. I found resources the support that this behavior was normal
for a child going through this and strategies to help the child cope.
While I was meeting with the parent I felt confident in what I had prepared. I was excited
to share with her the resources I had found and work with her on the plan of action I had
developed. I was excited to praise Jay as well as explain why I felt there had been a shift in
performance. Ms.Raven seemed to respond well to everything we discussed in the conference. I
thought I would be nervous, but since I was so confident in what I prepared I was excited to
share and work with Ms. Raven.
Overall, I feel that the parent teacher conference was a unique and important experience.
Through this I feel much more confident in my ability to conference with a parent. Through this
assignment I have also been able to see the importance of parent-teacher communication. The
process of going back and looking at the students past to explain his current situation is a
process that I will replicate with my future students. I also realized the importance of
preparation. Since I was prepared I was able to feel confident going into the meeting and have an
answer and plan for everything the parent asked me. I know I will take what I learned through
this experience into my future parent-teacher conferences .