"Can money buy happiness?" parfitt, Matthew. "Rich people sometimes develop unhappy attitudes on their way to making their fortunes" "materialism, simply put, is wanting money and material goods more than you want other things, such as love or leisure time"
"Can money buy happiness?" parfitt, Matthew. "Rich people sometimes develop unhappy attitudes on their way to making their fortunes" "materialism, simply put, is wanting money and material goods more than you want other things, such as love or leisure time"
"Can money buy happiness?" parfitt, Matthew. "Rich people sometimes develop unhappy attitudes on their way to making their fortunes" "materialism, simply put, is wanting money and material goods more than you want other things, such as love or leisure time"
Citation: Parfitt, Matthew. Can Money Buy Happiness? Pursuing Happiness: A Bedford Spotlight Reader. Boston: Bedford Bks St Martin'S, 2015. 160-73. Print.
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Distinguished Professor Emeritus of
Psychology research focuses on subjective well-being (P160)
From his background, he seems to be
knowledgeable and a reliable source of information on this topic
Is Chinese food better than Mexican food?
p160
Great comparison to the question. Its very
subjective
Rich people sometimes develop
unhappy attitudes on their way to making their fortunes. P160
This is the idea that I have on what happenes
during the wealth gaining process.
forty-seven of the forty-nine rich people
were satisfied with their lives p162
I find this shocking as this literally directly
conflicts with what I thought the result would be
It wasnt money that brought their
happiness p162
Okay. Thats more like what I thought
once an individual is earning a middleclass income, money bought little additional
I can believe that
happiness. P163
working a stripper and drinking heavily.
P165
Wow. That was a sharp change from her
euphoric spend, spend, spend.
The media may find lottery winners
newsworthy only when they make a mess of their lives. P 165
That sounds about right.
materialism can be toxic to happiness
p166
I feel as though its mainly due to the constant
desire for more, bigger, better, newer things that leaves a person without the current satisfaction of now need to be happy.
poor people are usually not depressed.
P 167
This furthers the idea that money isnt
necessary for one to be happy.
Happiness = What we have / What we
want p170
Seems simple enough but makes a lot of
sense.
pattern of rising desires p 171
Great name for what I was stating earlier
Materialism, simply put, is wanting money
and material goods more than you want other things, such as love or leisure time. P172
What a nice concise way to put it
Some readers still may not be convinced
that heavily valuing money is toxic to happiness. P 173
I am definitely not one of those readers
Thus, the merest hint of money let to a
tendency for folks to feel confident, but also to feel more distant from others. P 173
I was just about to change my screen saver to
money but then finished reading that section and immediately changed my mind. The cost
unfortunately outweigh the benefits in my
opinion this time. The Believing Game forty-seven of the forty-nine rich people were satisfied with their lives p162
I find this shocking as this literally directly
conflicts with what I thought the result would be
How could this be possibly right?
Well, as I read further in, it seems as though it wasnt the money that gave them their happiness. The fact that they were wealthy meant little to nothing in the context of their happiness. What is interesting or helpful about this view? It introduced the idea that wealthiness doesnt necessarily lead to unhappiness. What would I notice if I believed this view? I would notice that money isnt the source of unhappiness. In what sense and under what conditions could this be true? This would be true if, there were other factors that lead to unhappiness such as the method of its pursuit.