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Nearly 2 million children in United States military families have been affected by a service member
deployment since the start of military involvement in Iraq and Afghanistan.
Of the 2.5 million active duty and reserve military members, 36% are married with children, 6.6% are
single parents, and 2.3 % are dual military families with children In 2013, approximately 1.9 million United
States children had at least one parent in the military; 62 % had a parent in the active duty component;
and 38 % in the reserve component (National Guard or Reserve). Approximately 37 % of children in
military families are between birth and 5 years of age, 30 % are aged 6 to 11 years, 25 % are 12 years to
18, and 7 % are 19 to 22 years.
What is Deployment?
Military deployment is a temporary assignment overseas or within the United States (such as
after Hurricane Katrina); during these assignments families must live apart from their loved one
in the service.
Effects
Preschoolers think that they were bad, toilet issues, thumb sucking, sleep
problems, clinginess, separation anxiety. Also may be touchy, depressed,
aggressive, or complain about aches and pains
Getting irritated and fighting with others(acting out), anger towards others
More clinging behaviors at home, not wanting to go to school, wanting more attention
Physical complaints(sick)
stick to routines
3-4 yr. olds- no concept of time, but important markers Mom/dad will be home before
your birthday
5-6 yr olds- mark calendar... specific day when mom/dad will is supposed to come home
7-8 yr olds- understand good vs bad, can mark calendar themselves.. mom/dad going
away to help the good guys
Resources
https://www.zerotothree.org/parenting/military-and-veteran-families-support
https://www.naeyc.org/files/yc/file/200701/BTJAllen.pdf
http://www.realwarriors.net/family/children/managingstress.php
http://www.militaryfamily.org/kids-operation-purple/deployment.html?
referrer=https://www.google.com/
Books
I Love You All Day Long Francesca Rusacks Home Again Dorinda Williams
The boy has been waiting for this day for many months. It's the
day his daddy comes home from overseas. He jumps out of bed
and gets ready for the big event. But before going downstairs for
breakfast, he takes along something very important: his red
balloon. There will be many families and loved ones at the pier.
The red balloon will help his father find him among the crowd. But
as the ship approaches, the boy loses his grip on the red balloon.
Will his daddy find him in the crowd?
School is starting in the forest, but Chester Raccoon does not want to
go. To help ease Chester's fears, Mrs. Raccoon shares a family secret
called the Kissing Hand to give him the reassurance of her love any time
his world feels a little scary. Since its first publication in 1993, this
heartwarming book has become a children's classic that has touched the
lives of millions of children and their parents, especially at times of
separation, whether starting school, entering daycare, or going to camp.
It is widely used by kindergarten teachers on the first day of school.
Stickers at the back will help children and their parents keep their Kissing
Hand alive.