"Aversion to happiness across cultures" by mohsen Joshanloo and david weijers. Society seems to perceive happy people as ignorant because optimism has been morphed to be synonymous with feeble-minded. "Happiness and a glass vessel are most easily shattered"
"Aversion to happiness across cultures" by mohsen Joshanloo and david weijers. Society seems to perceive happy people as ignorant because optimism has been morphed to be synonymous with feeble-minded. "Happiness and a glass vessel are most easily shattered"
"Aversion to happiness across cultures" by mohsen Joshanloo and david weijers. Society seems to perceive happy people as ignorant because optimism has been morphed to be synonymous with feeble-minded. "Happiness and a glass vessel are most easily shattered"
Aversion to Happiness across Cultures Mohsen Joshanloo and Dan Weijers Aversion to Happiness Quote:
Response:
Indeed, Western culture and psychology see
to take for grantedthe most important (pg. 267)
It is very true. Society today is so focused on
success and achieving the things that supposedly make us happy, that we forget to check if we truly are. There seems to be a balance between the two and that you can only be one or the other. With my depression, for example, I feel that no matter how happy I am, the depression is stronger, so when I have a wave of those feelings, I just ride it out until my happiness can then be the conqueror. Because people believe unhappiness will follow, it is like the self-fulfilling prophecy. Happiness can be shattered because people let it. Like its easier to be sad. People set expectations and place the dependency of their happiness on those expectations henceforth running the risk of disappointment. This is why society has such trouble with the when I haveI will be happy thinking Society seems to perceive happy people as ignorant because optimism has been morphed to be synonymous with feeble-minded. Due to this perception, people may sub-consciously avoid the attitude that pairs with happiness. This is a tragic thought. People like drama. There is no drama in a content life. Smiles all day may seem same old, same old; but a life in pain is not worth fitting the perception of society. I can understand how someone constantly in a good mood can rub people the wrong way. Its like theyre a show-off or make others jealous. What really frustrated me though, is denying that expression just pushes you closer to
Happiness tends to be accompanied by and
then outweighed by unhappiness and vice versa (pg. 268)
happiness and a glass vessel are most easily
shattered (pg. 269)
because they are likely to result in painful
unsatisfiable desires for more and better of the same (pg. 270)
Naturally, happiness doesnt necessarily cause
ignorancedeep reflection on important issues. (pg. 271)
happiness makes people bland because
interesting lives include agony (pg. 272)
The entire section on expressing happiness
(pgs. 272-274)
In a Buddhist context, pursuing happiness is
seen as misguided. (pg. 274)
the notion that health is requiredled to
such an abundance of devices (pg. 275)
Summary section (pg. 278-279)
adopting a more negative attitude. Humans
have extremely developed brains and part of our adaptions is language and expression, use it! I believe some cultures see pursing happiness as a bad things because society has shaped happiness to be materialistic. The Buddhist culture also promotes inner well-being. Being at peace with yourself if the happiness we need to search for. Again, turned something into needing an object. Not only that, but the technologies created create stress by constant monitoring and even competition on whose_____ is better. Industry has morphed pursing and the definition of happiness We are too consumed with what perceptions are taken from certain actions. Happiness has been taken to a materialistic level henceforth changing the meaning of how cultures pursue and express it.