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Narrative performativity
There is no gender identity behind the expressions of
gender; that identity is performatively constituted by
the very expressions that are said to be its results.
- Judith Butler, Gender Trouble
The self so often invoked in self-expressive theories
of autobiography is not a noun, a thing-in-itself,
waiting to be materialized through the text.
narrative performativity constitutes interiority.
- Sidonie Smith, Performativity, Autobiographical
Practice, Resistance
The singleton
Unmarried
Usually between 20 and 35 years
Upper middle-class
Urban
Educated
English-speaking
Almost Single
Aisha, wake up, sleepyhead. Misha sounds like a bottle of
the best bubbly ready to pop, and my head feels like its going
to explode. Just what happened last night?
What time is it?
Quarter to eleven oclock, and its a gorgeous day! Do you
want to get a coffee at Barista? We can sit outside.
I hang up.
Of course it rings again. Damn, some women just dont get it.
Yes, Mish, I grind out. No coffee for me, it stains the teeth.
Come on! You smoke like a pack a day. Dont give me that.
Almost Single
So, in brief, I tolerate my job, hate my boss, annoy
my X, and bond big time with my friends. All this
while living under the open sky of urban, secondfastest-economy-in-the-world, India.
The obvious victims are the new entrants making
their debut in the social jungle. They get spotted as
soon as they walk into a room, which makes them
extremely self-conscious, of course, and very aware
of their short skirts and transparent straps.
Heterotopia
Ric and Nic, with the sensitivity that is the
preserve of gay men, have brought a hamper with
the ultimate Moet and Chandon, Boursin cheese,
shepherds pie, garlic bread, a tossed salad and
brownies, not to mention linen serviettes and real
silverware. Not exactly religious fare, but then, we
arent great on religion either.
As we sit around sipping the bubbly under the
moonlit sky, I savour the moment. Friends are really
the family you choose.
Tradition/modernity
Marriage market
We have to take being single into our own hands.
There is a whole world of men out there and we
have to reach them! This is the way to do it! We are
too cosmopolitan for the local boys, we have to
expand our horizons and harness the benefits of
technology
We come attached with a best before tag, and if
god forbid! we reach the expiry date while still
single, its downhill all the way from here.
Marriage market
Gomati Maami (GM): So this is your daughter
Little Voice (LV): No, Im actually her son. I love
cross-dressing for special occasions like this.
Me: Polite smile
Amma: Yes, this is Damayanthi, my only daughter.
Eager smile.
GM: So what do you do?
Amma: She has completed her chartered
accountancy exams with all-India rank
LV: I actually scour all the pornography sites on the
internet and fantasize about making love to tall,
handsome men in public places.
Me: Polite smile.
Makeover
On perusing this piece of contemporary literature, I am
depressed to see that women across the world are
obsessed with their looks losing them and men finding
them.
I couldnt believe this was the same girl who quoted from
The Beauty Myth and swore off lip gloss for three whole
years.
I feel silly, I said. I spent a bomb on this haircut, new
clothes and shoes, and now I feel l dont look good. I should
oil my hair and change back to my usual self.
No, D. You look good. Keep the change. He smiled kindly.
It suits you and you are still you, inner beauty and all.
Conclusion
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