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This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.
365 Reasons Why I Love My Dad…
He gave me a great vocabulary by
the way he talked.
He was bold enough to put up a wall in He often knows what I’m thinking.
the big bedroom (to create 2 rooms). He thinks the same way I do.
He was humble enough to take that He sees me as his little girl, and
wall down (when mom came home, also as a woman.
discovered the wall, and WASN’T too I feel proud to be seen with him
happy about it.) and as his daughter.
He took Greek once He always knows how to make
(ω, ε ι σ , ε ι , ο µ ε ν , ε τ ε , ο υ someone feel included in the
σ ι . . .) conversation or party.
He knows how to fly a plane. He lets us take seconds from his
He’s a dreamer and a visionary. dinner plate. He offered it.
He keeps growing as a person and He waited patiently to get ready for
a Christian. church.
He has high expectations of me. He’s not dogmatic at all.
He laughs a lot. He was always nice to my friends.
He isn’t afraid to be venerable. (Even the weird ones!)
He’s not afraid to apologize. He put up with, and drove, some
He kissed me goodbye every day lemons patiently. He always gave
before I went into school. mom the better car.
He never forgot my birthday. He bandaged me up when I fell off
He’s a handsome man. my bike at age 18.
He ran outside in his underwear to He’s my mentor.
catch the burglar who tried to break He was willing to look foolish to get
into my room. (He tried!) pictures of us at graduation.
He prays for his family. He tells me I’m beautiful.
He’s got a warm, friendly smile. He tells mom she’s beautiful.
He listens to me. He knows the world of business.
He always “likes” the gifts I give him He likes slapstick humor, like
(even when I was little and made him a Tommy Boy.
orange pottery ashtray in He knows how to grow older
kindergarten.) gracefully. His mind will
He works hard around the house. always be young.
He made me coffee in the morning. He licked our ice cream cones to
He told me stories about when he was keep them from dripping.
a kid. He always took the dog out for
He came to all of my recitals. walks.
He quizzed me in spelling and the He always prayed before we went
times tables. on a trip for safety.
He was protective when I was dating. He taught me how to mow the
He let me learn from my mistakes. lawn, wash the car, change the tire
He consoled me when I bombed a and oil.
project or recital. He taught me many physics
He always told me how proud he lessons.
was of me. He took me to see Raiders of the
He used to always let me pick the Lost Ark three times in the theater.
“Three Little Pigs” story to read. He covered our eyes at the bad
He put up with all of my girl stuff and parts of the movie (like at Indiana
makeup to buy at Walgreen’s. Jones).
He turned my music (pages) for me. He didn’t let us make fun of each
He played chauffeur many times. other.
He knows a lot about tools. He painted my first bike yellow and
He taught us how to do the “Nestea” bright green, just like I wanted it.
plunge at the YMCA pool. He taught me how to ride a bike.
He loves my mom’s relatives and their He carries my picture in his wallet.
quirks.
This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.
365 Reasons Why I Love My Dad…
He gave me his good genes (well, He helped me to learn how to read
some of the bad ones too). by having me read Bible Stories.
He’s dynamic. We are ‘cut from the same cloth’.
He can get people talking at parties. He never complains.
He always seems so happy to see me. He’s a great bible teacher.
He always told me I had great He has strong faith in God’s
potential. plan.
He’s traditional. He sent me to a Christian school
He implanted a good work ethic in me. even though it was more
He can make a great peanut butter & expensive.
jelly sandwich. He learns from his mistakes.
He never burped. I could write a book about him and
He was the only white-haired guy to his experiences.
walk of the “Demon” at Great America. His clothes always match.
He was proud of me at graduation. He takes out the garbage.
He went into debt to send us to school. He taught me the principles of
He took me all over to visit colleges. nuclear power.
He makes awesome pancakes. He always sits at the head of the
He did magic tricks at my Birthday table.
parties. He gave me his basement
He’s got a cool singing voice – one we bedroom.
heard every week at church. He sent me to camp.
He knows how to make my oatmeal He forgives me.
just like I like it – “dry as sawdust.” He never hid anything from us.
He taught me how an airplane works. He funded my braces so I could
He’s polite. have a perfect smile.
He tucked me into bed when I was He NEVER swore.
little. He always helped me out.
He calls me at college. He helped us play ‘surprise’ in the
He knew after I had been on a retreat car when waiting for mom to come
that it had been a bad weekend. He out of a store.
took off of work early, picked me up He taught me how to build stuff in
after school, and took me to buy a the garage.
curling iron and to talk about it. He let us clomp around in his BIG
He would take off work to care for me shoes when we were little.
if he needed to. He invited very interesting people
He would carry me to bed when I fell over for dinner.
asleep at the TV – or even when I He taught me the reality of spiritual
pretended to. warfare.
He drove me to school every morning He was an encouragement to my
so I wouldn’t have to take the bus. mom.
He taught me how to get a job. He killed big bugs and spiders.
He encouraged ‘us kids’ to go out with He worried about me.
each other. He tolerated giggling at slumber
He was so kind to us, we would worry parties. (all night long)
that he’d get mad or let him down or He’d always give us his last $2 –
disappoint him. always crisp and tri-folded.
He has cool scars – like the stab mark He insisted that a guy always come
on his back. to the door before I went out on a
He knows how to carve a turkey. date.
He knows how to choose a good tie. He’d be happy when I got a date
He doesn’t play golf. for the dance.
He always took ‘the lesser’ car, even He encouraged me when I lost
when he shouldn’t have. weight.
He’s a great arbitrator. He never complains about being
He likes history. sick.
This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.
365 Reasons Why I Love My Dad…
He let me wear his clothes in high He’ll make the perfect grandfather.
school because that was “cool.” He didn’t wince at some of my
He watched “Three’s Company” with strange-looking boyfriends.
us. He’s mechanical.
He appreciated my childhood crafts He plays hymns on the piano.
(even the orange ashtray) that I made He supports my decisions.
in kindergarten. He wants me to have fun, exciting
He has 1001 uses for duct tape. experiences.
He appreciates cultural diversity. He doesn’t play favorites.
He led me to the Lord. I got his nose.
He took me to Baskin Robbins after our He was good to Nick, the dog.
concerts. He’s dealt with a lot, and remained
He lives as if earth is not his home. strong.
He gives me pizza money. He wouldn’t read us “Jelly Beans
He often made me breakfast. for Breakfast” or “Cream Puffs” to
He lets me borrow his car. us before bed because they were
He paid for college even though it put far too silly.
him in debt. He married my mom.
He thinks the Bible is exciting. He’s respected by other people.
He flipped us in the pool at the YMCA. He’s fun.
He tells awesome stories. He survived my teenage years.
He treats mom like a queen. He’s strong.
He took me on trips. He hates ‘parlor games’.
He goes to work every day to support He’s open-minded.
us. He’s got hearing aids, so he can
He took notes at my violin lesson - he hear us better.
cared so much. He didn’t have ‘guy buddies’
He gives good advice. that he always had to ‘hang
He’s honest. out’ with.
He’s a man’s man. He’s a positive thinker.
He let us ‘dress him’ with cool clothes He’s NOT a sports freak.
we picked out. He’s proud of us.
He always told us we looked pretty on He taught me how to drive.
Sundays before church. He taught me how to drive STICK
He taught us to pray. SHIFT!
He likes to teach the Bible. He’s always made some plywood
He started the December 14th tradition. table contraption for family
He makes great pancakes and vacations. (Very useful!)
cinnamon toast. He helped me decorate my dorm,
He took me to concerts. and stapled material on my
He was concerned about my grades. bolsters.
He was my taxi driver, even when I He knows how to smooth things out
was embarrassed. with my mom.
He went to all of my violin / orchestra He sees the best in people.
concerts. He never stops learning.
He made a ‘practicing’ time-clock seat He took us to the Learning Tower Y
to “encourage” good violin practicing and bought us snacks (like Suzie-
habits. Qs) afterwards.
He fell for my April Fool’s joke about He’s a college grad.
being engaged, and then forgave me. He’s sincere.
He gave me roses when I was feeling He defended my mom even when I
bad. didn’t want him to.
He dressed up for the Taylor “Hoe He let me go to prom.
Down” and searched endlessly for it He’s a faithful husband.
before taking us to Azar’s Big Boy. He’s good with babies.
He’s kind to animals. He’s a protector.
He’s a great role model.
This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.
365 Reasons Why I Love My Dad…
He clicks his teeth when he laughs He is positive in negative
really hard. situations.
He likes classical music. He taught me how to use a circular
He’s patient – very patient! saw.
He does dishes. He let us laugh at him and laughed
He’s sensitive. along.
He read me stories when I was young. He let me know he was praying
He knows how to fix the toilet. for me and I know that when he
He could laugh when he was in the said he’d pray for someone he
hospital. always did.
He gave us chocolate on Valentine’s He made us visit the historical sites
Day. on vacation.
He answered 1000s of questions. He got me to stop sucking my
He helped me learned state capitals thumb.
and used pneumonic devices for He’s smart.
spelling tests. He knows how to use the
He gave me a curfew. computer.
He helped me memorize scripture. He loves my violin playing.
He took me to ‘The Artist’s Café’ He always sounds so happy to
downtown after I flubbed ‘The Bee’ hear my voice on the phone.
during a violin competition. He always compliments the chef on
He consoled me when I was down. He her meals.
seemed to sense when I was sad. He taught me how to be a good
He didn’t let me quit playing violin. worker.
He’s cool. He made my lunches.
He tried me to improve my grades. He remembers what it was like to
He makes my boyfriend laugh. be a kid our age.
He built me my own tool workbench He will walk me down the aisle and
when I was little. give me away someday as a bride.
He looked so handsome at Bonnie’s He brought us back gifts from his
wedding. infrequent business trips.
He’s organized. He invested his life in his kids.
He’s left-brained. (The logical, He helps clean the house.
mathematical side of the brain) He makes awesome French toast.
He’s the best example of the love (or cinnamon toast, like before
of God I’ve ever known. watching Disney movies on TV)
He let me have some of his coffee I was his little ‘Tom-boy’.
when I was little. He doesn’t act his age.
He was patient when I spilled He’s got a good sense of humor.
everything. He’s not interfering.
He has a sacrificial spirit. He knows how to fix cars.
He woke everyone up for church. He was patient with endless
He let me ask questions about my childhood questions.
faith. He was the ‘chocolate monster’.
He bailed me out when the cars broke He was strong when I was weak.
down. He didn’t have lots of hobbies that
He’s always been there when I’ve would keep him away from his
needed him. family – he had 2 – flying, which he
He helped me get to Europe. hadn’t done in decades, and
He lets me buy stuff at Talbot’s with teaching the Bible.
my paycheck from Talbot’s. He carried us in to bed when we
He gives constructive criticism. fell asleep in the car (or pretended
He’s loyal. to fall asleep.)
He’s always walked in during the one He took out my splinters.
bad part of the movie. He emptied the mousetraps.
He knows when to give guidelines and He taught me success was not in
when to give rules. the result, but in the effort.
This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.
365 Reasons Why I Love My Dad…
He knows when to ‘let go’. 365 reasons I love him, was not
He pulled the car up (to pick us up) so that hard to come up with.
we’d stay dry in the rain. He’s the only one who believe I
He let Bonnie and I laugh and talk at could DO ANYTHING I set my mind
night when we were little. to.
He woke up when I got sick in the He’d always sit behind mom in
middle of the night. church so that he could hear every
He gave me a curfew in High School. note she played on the organ.
He is my friend. He always made sure mom had a
He can find a mechanical solution to corsage for her concerts or
almost any everyday problem. Mother’s Day – an orchid.
People say I look like him. Just because he’s my dad.
He was careful about what I watched
on TV.
He wears good smelling cologne (like
Old Spice).
He can laugh at his mistakes.
He never passes gas or burps – at least
I’ve never heard him .
He chased down burglars in ski masks
that were trying to get into the house
and CAUGHT them.
He can make anything out of plywood.
He got upset when others hurt our
feelings.
He watched PBS with us.
God first, Mom second, us third – his
hierarchy was indisputable and
evident.
He always speaks using good English.
He never really wanted anything
he didn’t already have – he truly
knew contentment.
He put his love into action.
He once stapled his pants for a quick
‘fix it’. Glue or tape could also be used
when needle and thread, or buttons, or
tie tacks were not readily available.
He made us laugh.
He hated vandalism – and would “fix
it” himself if he came across it – like by
bending back a mangled stop sign.
He knew where every donut shop was
– Winchel’s near Christian Life Church,
Amy Joy Donuts near the YMCA, and
Dunkin’ Donuts just about everywhere
else.
He never talked unkindly about anyone
– never gossiped.
He wrote me letters at college.
He made mom a birthday cake using
maple syrup as the icing.
He always prayed over his cereal
in the morning.
Education was a priority in our family
because of him.
He rarely stayed late at work.
This was written and put into a daily calendar by Wally’s daughter, Joy.
She gave it to him for his birthday on May 9th, 1996.