Interpersonal Attraction

three kinds of intimate behavior

1. companionship
Individuals can be useful because they are friends, but not
friends because they are useful.
2. self-disclosure

right person
superficial
3. Helping
day-to-day affairs

Likingis having a positive attitude toward a person.

Loving Zick Rubin
1. attachment-dependency
If I were lonely, my first thought would be to seek ____ out.
2. intimacy I feel that I can confide in
_____ about virtually everything.
3. caring
If ______ were feeling badly, my first duty would be to cheer him/her up.
Robert Sternbergs Triangular Theory of Love
The three basic components of love are intimacy, passion, and commitment.
1. intimacy

2. passion

(1).(2).

3. commitment

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 Liking
Empty Love
Infatuation
Companionate
Love

Romantic Love

Fatuous Love

Consummate Love
2~3

ABCDE model of relationship development

1. Attraction
2. Building
3. Continuation
4. Deterioration
negative affect reciprocity
ex:

1)
2)
3)
4)

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5. Ending

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1) .
2) .

3) .

(A)
(B)

1/3 ()()

1.

1) . Propinquity

2) . familiarity mere exposure

()

( C 2007 6 )

3) . arousal

ex:()
ex:
1

( B 2002 1 )
2.

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(1).

matching principle

2) . Similarity()

1) . Complementary needs/ Role compatibility

Heart

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