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Domination And Submission List (51) Fetish List (55) Full List (200) Quick List (20) Roleplay List (23) Sadism And Masochism List (41) Printable Version
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Key No Answer Curious Essential Either you choose not to answer for whatever reason, or it's not applicable - such as breast bondage for males. To represent this, just put a cross through the box. You've not tried it and so have no idea how you'd feel, but you are curious. This is something that's so essential to you that you can't see yourself enjoying a relationship without it. You love doing whatever it is. You like doing whatever it is. You don't mind either way, but will do it for someone else.

Love Like Don't Mind Dislike You dislike doing it but will do so if it means a lot to someone else. Hate You hate doing it but will do so if it means a lot to someone else. Soft Limit While it is not something you are capable of at the moment, you can see how that might one day change. Hard There is no way you can ever see this being something you could do without damaging Limit who you are.
Done To Self / Receiving
How you feel about having the act done to you or with you as the primary participant, perhaps at someone else's command. Alternatively, read this as how you feel about being on the receiving end of the act. For example, Done To Self for "Fisting - Anal" means that it is your anus that the st enters. For Cunnilingus, it would be you being licked (recieving).

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Done To Others / Giving


How you feel about your play partner having the act done to them, perhaps at your command. Alternatively, read this as how you feel about doing this act to someone else. To take the same example, Done To Others for "Fisting - Anal" means that it is your play partner's anus that the st enters, be it your st or someone else's. For Cunnilingus, it would be you doing the licking (giving).

Tried
Have you tried the activity (either done to yourself or done it to someone else)?

Rating
How do you feel about the activity (either doing it to yourself or to others)?

Copyright
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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Anal Play Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which the anus is involved. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating (General) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Canes Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No cane. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Crops Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No crop. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Floggers Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No ogger. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Hairbrushes Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No hairbrush. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Hard Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten hard. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Paddles Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No paddle. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Soft Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten softly. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Spanking Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No hand. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Straps Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No strap. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating - Whips Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No whip. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating Location - Back Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Beating based acts that focus on the back as Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No a target. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Beating Location - Bottom

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating Location - Chest Essential Curious Beating based acts that focus on the chest or Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No breasts as a target. Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating Location - Feet Essential Curious Yes Beating based acts that focus on the feet 1 2 3 4 5 No (usually the soles) as a target. Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating Location - Genitals Essential Curious Beating based acts that focus on the genitals Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No as a target. Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating Location - Legs Essential Curious Beating based acts that focus on the legs as Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No a target. Soft Limit Hard Limit Bestiality Essential Curious Yes Sex with animals. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Biting Essential Curious Yes Acts involving biting one partner with the 1 2 3 4 5 No teeth of the other. Soft Limit Hard Limit Beating based acts that focus on the bottom as a target.

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Blindfolds Essential Curious Essential Curious Acts in which blindfolds are placed over Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 one partner's eyes to remove that sense (and No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit often heighten others). Body Modication - Branding Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Burning the body, often with a specic 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No design, to leave a permanent mark or scar. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Body Modication - Piercing, Permanent Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Putting an object through a part of the body Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No for permanent adornment. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Body Modication - Piercing, Play Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Exploring the concept of body piercing but Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No in a manner that is temporary. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Body Modication - Saline Injection Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Injecting saline in to a part of the body to 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No temporarily engorge it. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Body Modication - Scarication Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Deliberately causing scars, often through 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No cutting the skin, for adornment. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Body Modication - Tattooing Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Adorning the body by permanently 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No applying ink under the skin. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Bondage (General) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Binding or restricting some or all of the 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No body. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Bondage - Breast Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Binding or restricting the breasts. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Bondage - Cuffs Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Binding or restricting the body (usually the Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No wrists) with [hand]cuffs. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Bondage - Genital Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Binding or restricting the genitals. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Bondage - Heavy Essential Curious Essential Curious Heavily binding or restricting the body, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 usually to the point where no, or next-to no, No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit movement is possible. Bondage - Intricate Yes Essential Curious Yes Essential Curious Intricately binding or restricting some or all No 1 2 3 4 5 No 1 2 3 4 5

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of the body.
Bondage - Light

Lightly binding or restricting the body. Usually more symbolic than actually restrictive.
Bondage - Locks

Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Bondage that involves locks and keys.


Bondage - Prolonged

Binding or restricting some or all of the body for prolonged periods of time.
Bondage - Sleeves, Arm

Restricting the movement of the arms by placing them in a conning sleeve.


Bondage - Sleeves, Leg

Restricting the movement of the legs by placing them in a conning sleeve.


Bondage - Spreader Bars

Restricting the movement of the legs by connecting them to either end of a bar, usually forcing them open.
Bondage - Stocks

Restricing movement by placing the wrists and neck (though may involve ankles) through a set of stocks.

Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Activity
Bondage - Straight Jackets

Binding or restricting the torso and arms by placing them inside a straight jacket.
Bondage - Suspension

Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground.


Bondage - Suspension, Inverted

Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground, upside-down.
Bondage - Whole Body

Binding or restricting the whole body.


Bondage Material - Chain

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with chain.


Bondage Material - Leather

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with leather.


Bondage Material - Rope

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with rope.


Bondage Material - Saran Wrap

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with saran wrap (clinglm).
Bondage Material - Scarves

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually silk] scarves.
Bondage Material - Tape

Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually adhesive] tape.
Breath Play

Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving restricting or cutting off the supply of oxygen.
Catheters

To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Done Rate Done Rate Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Inserting a tube in to the urethra to collect urine.


Clothespins

Using clothespins to pinch parts of the body.

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Clothing - Chosen For

Essential Curious Having your clothing choices made for you, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No usually without the ability to appeal. Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Corsets Essential Curious Wearing corsets which control the shape of Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No the waist and hips. Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Full Head Hoods Essential Curious Wearing hoods that cover the entire head, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 leaving only small holes for vision, No Soft Limit Hard Limit breathing, etc. (if even them). Clothing - Harnesses Essential Curious Yes Wearing clothing that harnesses the body 1 2 3 4 5 No without necessarily covering it. Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - High Heels Essential Curious Yes Wearing high-heeled shoes. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Lingerie Essential Curious Yes Wearing women's lingerie. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Masks Essential Curious Yes Wearing masks that cover the face. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Clothing - Uniforms (General) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Wearing uniforms that have a given 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No signicance. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Uniforms, Military Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Wearing military uniforms. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing - Uniforms, School Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Wearing schoolgirl/schoolboy uniforms. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing Material - Leather Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Clothing made out of, or involving, leather. Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing Material - PVC Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No (the shiny plasticy material). Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing Material - Rubber Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Clothing made out of, or involving, rubber Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No or latex. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Clothing Material - Sheer Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Clothing made out of, or involving, sheer 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No (transparent or translucent) material. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Collars - Private Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Wearing a "slave" collar in private. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Collars - Public Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Wearing a "slave" collar in public. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Crawling Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes The act of crawling on all fours to denote 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No submission. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Cutting Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Deliberately cutting the skin. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Dilation - Anal Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Deliberately stretching the anus open. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Dilation - Vaginal Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Deliberately stretching the vagina open. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Discipline

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Drinking - Blood Essential Curious Yes Drinking blood. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Drinking - Semen Essential Curious Yes Drinking semen. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Drinking - Urine Essential Curious Yes Drinking urine. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Electricity Essential Curious Yes Using electricity for sensation or pain. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Enemas Essential Curious Applying liquid (traditionally warm water) 1 2 3 4 5 in to the lower intestine, via a tube. Often to Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit No induce uncontrolled, or hard to control, excretion. Examination - Physical Essential Curious Having your body physically examined and, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 often, appraised. Sometimes this includes No Soft Limit Hard Limit medical examination roleplays though, here, that is listed as Roleplay - Medical. Submitting to, or receiving, the [often corporal] discipline of another.

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Exhibitionism - Forced Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Exposing your body to others, nominally 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No against your will, at the will of another. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Exhibitionism - Voluntary Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Willingly exposing your body to others. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Face Slapping Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Slapping the face, usually with an open 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No hand, to cause pain or denote position. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Fisting - Anal Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Placing an entire hand (the term "st" is 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No often an exageration) inside the anus. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Fisting - Vaginal Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Placing an entire hand (the term "st" is 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No often an exageration) inside the vagina. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Food - Chosen For Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Having your food choices made for you, 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No usually without the ability to appeal. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Food - From Body Essential Curious Essential Curious Eating food from another person's body. Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Either eating it directly from them or using No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit them as a platter. Food - From Bowl Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Eating food directly from a bowl, like an 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No animal such as a cat or dog. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Food - From Hand Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Eating food directly from another person's Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No hand. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Gags (General) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Devices used to limit, or prevent, verbal 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No communication. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Gags - Ball Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes A type of gag that uses a ball to effectively Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No block any verbal communication. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Gags - Bit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes A type of gag that uses a bar that goes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 across the mouth, much like a horse's "bit". No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Gags - Ring Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 A type of gag that uses a ring to force the No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit mouth open while providing access to the,

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now undefendable, mouth.


Gags - Tape

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Given Away (General) Essential Curious Being given, at a partner's whim, to another Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No person, usually temporarily. Soft Limit Hard Limit Given Away - Auctions Essential Curious Being given, at a partner's whim, to another Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No person as the result of a [slave] auction. Soft Limit Hard Limit Given Away - Permanent Essential Curious Yes Being given away, at a partner's whim, to 1 2 3 4 5 No another person, permanently. Soft Limit Hard Limit Hand Jobs Essential Curious Yes Pleasuring someone else's genitals with 1 2 3 4 5 No your hand. Soft Limit Hard Limit Heterosexuality - Forced Essential Curious Yes Sexual acts with members of the opposite 1 2 3 4 5 No sex, nominally against your will. Soft Limit Hard Limit Heterosexuality - Voluntary Essential Curious Yes Sexual acts with members of the opposite 1 2 3 4 5 No sex, willingly. Soft Limit Hard Limit Using adhesive tape across the mouth to create a gag.

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Activity
Homosexuality - Forced

Sexual acts with members of the same sex, nominally against your will.
Homosexuality - Voluntary

Sexual acts with members of the same sex, willingly.


Humiliation - Private

Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in a private setting.


Humiliation - Public

Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in front of others.


Humiliation - Verbal

Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, through either the words of someone else (such as name calling) or your own words.
Including Others

To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Done Rate Done Rate Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Kneeling Essential Curious Yes The act of kneeling to denote submission. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Leashes Essential Curious Yes Wearing a leash, attached to a collar (or 1 2 3 4 5 No other convenient point). Soft Limit Hard Limit Lecturing Essential Curious Yes An exposition of a given subject for the 1 2 3 4 5 No purpose of instruction or reprimand. Soft Limit Hard Limit Licking Essential Curious Using your tongue on another person's body Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No [or, often, anything they require]. Soft Limit Hard Limit Massage Essential Curious Yes Rubbing another person's body for their 1 2 3 4 5 No relaxation. Soft Limit Hard Limit Masturbation - Forced Essential Curious Yes Pleasuring your own genitals, with your 1 2 3 4 5 No hand, nominally against your will. Soft Limit Hard Limit Acts in which other people, from outside your immediate relationship, are included.

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Masturbation - Voluntary

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Nipple Clamps Essential Curious Placing clamps on the nipples to cause pain. Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Nipple Play Essential Curious Yes Acts that focus on the nipples. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Nipple Weights Essential Curious Applying weights to the nipples, or usually Yes 1 2 3 4 5 to clamps on the nipples, to stretch them, No Soft Limit Hard Limit generally to cause pain. Nudity - Forced Essential Curious Yes Periods of time spent without clothing, 1 2 3 4 5 No nominally against you will. Soft Limit Hard Limit Nudity - Voluntary Essential Curious Yes Periods of time spent without clothing. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Orgasm - On Command Essential Curious Yes Having to orgasm on the command of 1 2 3 4 5 No another person. Soft Limit Hard Limit Orgasm Control Essential Curious Giving control of when and how orgasms Yes 1 2 3 4 5 are experienced - and when they are not - to No Soft Limit Hard Limit another person. Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, willingly.

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Orgasm Denial Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Losing the right to have orgasms for an 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No [often protracted] period of time. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Pain (General) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts involving physical pain. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Pain - Heavy Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Acts involving a very large degree of 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No physical pain. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Pain - Light Essential Curious Essential Curious Acts involving some physical pain, yet Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 without too great an intensity - being more No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit symbolic than serious. Phone Sex Essential Curious Essential Curious Having sexually explicit phone Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 conversations, usually involving performing No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit sexual acts at the same time. Rape - Fantasy Essential Curious Essential Curious Acts that explore being sexually used, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 nominally against your will, by another No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit person. Rape - Fantasy, Gang Essential Curious Essential Curious Acts that explore being sexually used, Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 nominally against your will, by more than No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit one other person. Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Private Essential Curious Essential Curious Having photographs taken of you, either Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 naked or indulging in a sexual act, for No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit private viewing only. Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Shared Essential Curious Essential Curious Having photographs taken of you, either Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit shared with others. Recorded Scenes - Video, Private Essential Curious Essential Curious Having video taken of you, either naked or Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 indulging in a sexual act, for private No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit viewing only. Recorded Scenes - Video, Shared Essential Curious Essential Curious Having video taken of you, either naked or Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit others.

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Roleplay (General)

Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles.


Roleplay - Age

Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on being a different age (such as babies or naughty young girls).
Roleplay - Education

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on a scholastic teacher/student setting.
Roleplay - Interrogation

Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Scenes in which the participants take on Yes 1 2 3 4 5 and act out roles based on interrogations Soft Limit Hard Limit where one person is the interrogator and the No other the subject. Roleplay - Kidnapping Essential Curious Scenes in which the participants take on Yes 1 2 3 4 5 and act out roles based on one partner being No Soft Limit Hard Limit kidnapped. Roleplay - Medical Essential Curious Scenes in which the participants take on Yes 1 2 3 4 5 and act out roles based on the medical No Soft Limit Hard Limit world such as Doctor/Patient. Roleplay - Pig Essential Curious Yes Scenes in which the subject takes on and 1 2 3 4 5 No acts out a role based on being a pig. Soft Limit Hard Limit Roleplay - Pony Essential Curious Yes Scenes in which the subject takes on and 1 2 3 4 5 No acts out a role based on being a pony. Soft Limit Hard Limit Roleplay - Prison Essential Curious Scenes in which the participants take on Yes 1 2 3 4 5 and act out roles based on the prison world No Soft Limit Hard Limit such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable Inmate

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Activity
Roleplay - Puppy

Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a puppy or adult dog.
Roleplay - Religious

To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Done Rate Done Rate Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Scenes in which the participants take on Yes 1 2 3 4 5 and act out roles based on the religious No Soft Limit Hard Limit world such as confessionals or Bishop/Nun. Roleplay - Whore Essential Curious Scenes in which the subject takes on and Yes 1 2 3 4 5 acts out a role based on being a male or No Soft Limit Hard Limit female prostitute, selling themselves to another person for sex. Sensation Play (General) Essential Curious Yes Acts involving the senses and strong 1 2 3 4 5 No sensations. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sensation Play - Deprivation Essential Curious Acts involving depriving the subject of their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 senses (often to heighten the remaining No Soft Limit Hard Limit ones). Sensation Play - Fire Essential Curious Yes Acts involving the sensations and 1 2 3 4 5 No apprehensions caused by re and heat. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sensation Play - Hair Pulling Essential Curious Yes Acts involving the sensations and 1 2 3 4 5 apprehensions caused by having hair pulled. No Soft Limit Hard Limit Sensation Play - Hot Wax Essential Curious Acts involving the sensations and Yes 1 2 3 4 5 apprehensions caused by having hot candle No Soft Limit Hard Limit wax dripped on to or applied to the body. Sensation Play - Ice Essential Curious Acts involving the sensations and Yes 1 2 3 4 5 apprehensions caused by using ice or other No Soft Limit Hard Limit cold items on the body. Sensation Play - Needle Essential Curious Acts involving the sensations and Yes 1 2 3 4 5 apprehensions caused by using needles on No Soft Limit Hard Limit the body, either scratching with them, or poking them. Sensation Play - Scratching Essential Curious Yes Acts involving the sensations and 1 2 3 4 5 No apprehensions caused by being scratched. Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Sensation Play - Suction

Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having suction applied to the body.
Sensation Play - Teasing

Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by teasing the body.
Sensation Play - Tickling

Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling the body.
Serving (General)

Serving another person in specic ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own. For example, a maid or a sexual servant.
Serving - Art

Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as a [usually No Soft Limit Hard Limit immobile] piece of artwork such as a statue. Serving - Ashtray Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, using a part of Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit your body as a receptical for their cigarette No or cigar ash. Serving - Chauffer Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as their formal No Soft Limit Hard Limit driver. Serving - Dancer Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as a dancer. No Soft Limit Hard Limit For example, a belly dancer or stripper. Serving - Following Orders Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as they give No Soft Limit Hard Limit you specic formal orders to follow.

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Activity
Serving - Forced

Serving another person in specic ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, nominally forced to do so against your will.
Serving - Furniture

To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Done Rate Done Rate Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as an immobile Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit piece of furniture. For example, on all fours No as a table or a footstool. Serving - Housework Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, performing No Soft Limit Hard Limit household chores. Serving - Maid Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid. For Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit No example, serving tea while wearing a uniform. Serving - Sexually Essential Curious Serving another person, putting their Yes 1 2 3 4 5 pleasure ahead of your own, in whatever No Soft Limit Hard Limit sexual way pleases them. Sex - Anal Essential Curious Yes Sexual intercourse involving a penis 1 2 3 4 5 No entering your anus. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Cunnilingus Essential Curious Yes Sexually stimulating the vagina with a 1 2 3 4 5 No mouth/tongue. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Denial Essential Curious Yes Going without sex, or sexual gratication, 1 2 3 4 5 No often at another person's command. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Fellatio Essential Curious Yes Sexually stimulating the penis with a 1 2 3 4 5 No mouth/tongue. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Group Essential Curious Yes Sexual intercourse with more than one 1 2 3 4 5 No partner. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Penetration, Double Essential Curious Yes Sexual intercourse in which two orrices 1 2 3 4 5 No (mouth, vagina, anus) are lled. Soft Limit Hard Limit

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Sex - Penetration, Triple

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Rimming Essential Curious Yes Sexually stimulating the anus with a 1 2 3 4 5 No mouth/tongue. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Threesome Essential Curious Yes Sexual intercourse with two other people. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Vaginal Essential Curious Yes Sexual intercourse involving a penis 1 2 3 4 5 No entering your vagina. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex - Vanilla Essential Curious Yes Traditional sexual intercourse, without 1 2 3 4 5 No involving any kinks. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex Toys - Beads Essential Curious Having a string of connected beads (or Yes 1 2 3 4 5 balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina and No Soft Limit Hard Limit then pulled out. Sex Toys - Butt Plugs Essential Curious Yes Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus. 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex Toys - Dildos Essential Curious Yes Using and/or being penetrated with a 1 2 3 4 5 No non-vibrating articial phallus. Soft Limit Hard Limit Sex Toys - Love Eggs Essential Curious Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls, Oriental 1 2 3 4 5 Love Eggs, etc. Two connected balls that Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit are placed inside the body and either vibrate No when you move or are battery powered to vibrate. Sexual intercourse in which three orrices (mouth, vagina, anus) are lled.

Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious 1 2 3 4 5 Yes Soft Limit Hard Limit No

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To Self To Others (Receiving) (Giving) Activity Done Rate Done Rate Sex Toys - Public (Under Clothes) Essential Curious Essential Curious Going out in public with a sex toy (such as Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 a butt plug) in your body, under your No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit clothing. Sex Toys - Strap On Essential Curious Essential Curious Using and/or being penetrated with an Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 articial phallus that fastens about a female No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit partner's waist. Sex Toys - Vibrators Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Using and/or being penetrated with a 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No vibrating articial phallus. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Shaving - Body Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Removing all traces of hair below the neck. Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Shaving - Genital Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Removing all traces of hair from the 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No genitals. Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Shaving - Genital, Styling Essential Curious Essential Curious Shaving or trimming pubic hair, removing Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 some but not all of it in order to create a No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit given style. Shaving - Head Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Removing all traces of hair from the head. Yes 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Showers - Brown Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Being defecated upon by another person. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Showers - Golden Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes Yes Being urinated upon by another person. 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No No Soft Limit Hard Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Speculums - Anal Essential Curious Essential Curious Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 the entrance to the anus, providing access No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit within. Speculums - Vaginal Essential Curious Essential Curious Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 the entrance to the vagina, providing access No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit within. Swapping (Partner) Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Sex between two or more couples where No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit mebers of each couple exchange partners

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and have sex with them.


Voyeurism

Watching someone, often without their knowledge, in a situation with sexual connotations. For example, watching someone undressing or having sex.
Worship - Boot

Essential Curious Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Yes 1 2 3 4 5 Soft Limit Hard Limit No Soft Limit Hard Limit No Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit Essential Curious Yes 1 2 3 4 5 No Soft Limit Hard Limit

Worshiping the boots of another person.


Worship - Bottom

Worshiping the bottom of another person.


Worship - Breast

Worshiping the breasts of another person.


Worship - Foot

Worshiping the feet of another person.


Worship - Genital

Worshiping the genitals of another person.


Worship - High Heel

Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of another person.


Wrestling

Wrestling with another person, experiencing them overpowering you.

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