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SHOWER POWER * 2 September 24, 2009 // volume 7, issue 6 Table of contents and cover photo illustrations by Jerry Wang TABLE OF CONTENTS 09 24 09 2 Lets talk dirty The naked truth about bathing 10 Jayplay TOC Trading clothes for cash Empty your closet and fll up your wallet at these Lawrence businesses 5 Searching for Porubsky The story of one historic Topeka business will soon make it to the silver screen 13 Clearly an eye-opening experience Writer Hailey Osterhaus talks about undergoing LASIK eye surgery 19 Monthy Unlimited {level 1 beds only} $25 new customers will receive an additional week FREE 4000 W. 6th St. 856.2646. must present coupon in store. 1 per person. expires 10.15.09 0L7lM47L 74k 7ennIng Lewrenre jer ze+ YeersI ke MembershI RequIred zqqy lewe 5t., 5uIte 0 Lewrenre, k5 66eq 8y.8qz.qyqy z Menth 0nIImIted $]z ReguIer 8eds kew Custemer 5erIeI ] 5essIens + z lree: $zq CALENDAR 3 EDITOR // Sean Rosner ASSOCIATE EDITOR // Alex Garrison DESIGNERS // Laura Fisk, Liz Schulte CONTACT // Mia Iverson, Hailey Osterhaus HEALTH // Kirsten Hudson, Amy Johnson MANUAL // Francesca Chambers, Patrick De Oliveira, Andrea Olsen thursday, sept. 24th friday, sept. 25th saturday, sept. 26th sunday, sept. 27th monday, sept. 28th tuesday, sept. 29th POKER PUB Conroys Pub, 6 p.m. & 9 p.m., free, all ages THE JUNKYARD JAZZ BAND American Legion, 7 p.m., free, all ages CLUB MOROCCO Lawrence Community Theatre, 7:30 p.m., $15, all ages MOTORHEAD Midland Theater, 8 p.m., $9.89, all ages UP Woodruff Auditorium, $2- $3, all ages WADE BOWEN The Granada, 9 p.m., $15, all ages FLOYD THE BARBER Pachamamas, 9:30 p.m., free, all ages NEON DANCE PARTY The Jackpot, 10 p.m., $1- $5, 18+ THE BIG IRON / REDUCTO ABSURDUM The Eighth St. Taproom, 10 p.m., $3, 21+ MYSTERY OF TWO / WHY MAKE CLOCKS? / LITE LOINS The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ BLACK DOG STATION The Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., 21+ ORLANDO VENTURA, PIANO Pachamamas, 7 p.m., free, all ages KU COLLAGE CONCERT Lied Center, 7:30 p.m., $10- $15, all ages DANGEROUS DAMSELS! Lawrence Arts Center, 7:30 p.m., $7-$10, all ages SPLIT LIP RAYFIELD The Bottleneck, 8 p.m. $13- $14, all ages UP Woodruff Auditorium, 8 p.m., $2-$3, all ages RETRO DANCE PARTY Wildes Chateau 24, 9 p.m., $3-$5, 18+ CALIFORNIA CRAISINS / JET SET BACHELOR DJS FEAT. NICK RAY The Eighth St. Taproom, 10 p.m., $3, 21+ SUNU The Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., $4, 21+ THE CALAMITY CUBES / GRISLY HAND The Jackpot Music Hall, 10 p.m., $6-$8, 18+ 1,000,000 LIGHT YEARS / GOOD TOOTH BAD TOOTH / UTERUS YOUTH / BOPAPHONICS The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $3, 21+ POKER PUB Conroys Pub, 6 p.m. & 9 p.m., free, all ages ORLANDO VENTURA, PIANO Pachamamas, 7 p.m., free, all ages DANGEROUS DAMSELS! Lawrence Arts Center, 7:30 p.m., $7-$10, all ages SOUTHERN CULTURE ON THE SKIDS The Granada, 8 p.m., $16- $18, all ages CORY MORROW The Bottleneck, 8 p.m., $11- $13, all ages UP Woodruff Auditorium, 8 p.m., $2-$3, all ages THE DEAD GIRLS / LITTLE BRAZIL / THE OLD BLACK The Jackpot Music Hall, 10 p.m., $5-$7, 18+ THE BREAKDOWN WITH STACKSWELL AND BSEARS The Eighth St. Taproom, 10 p.m., $3, 21+ FOURTH OF JULY / NAOMI WHAT? The Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., $4, 21+ THE ANTS / JON HARRISON & THE HARRISONICS The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ RECENT WORK BY CLARE DEVOTION Pachamamas, 11 a.m., free, all ages DRAKKAR SAUNA / MIDDAY RAMBLERS The Replay Lounge, 6 p.m., $5, all ages POKER PUB The Pool Room, 7 p.m. & 10 p.m., free, 21+ SMACKDOWN TRIVIA The Bottleneck, 7:30 p.m., free-$5, 18+ BROTHER ALI / EVIDENCE / TOKI WRIGHT / BK ONE The Granada, 10 p.m., $15- $17, all ages THE KINETIKS / RADEMACHER The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ THE AIRBORNE TOXIC EVENT The Granada, 7:30 p.m., $15, all ages DOLLAR BOWLING Royal Crest Bowling Lanes, 9 p.m., $1, all ages ORIGINAL MUSIC MONDAYS The Bottleneck, 9 p.m., all ages LSD AND THE SEARCH FOR GOD / OWL PEOPLE The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ ADAM LEE & THE DEAD HORSE SOUND CO. / SIDESHOW TRAGEDY / TYLER GREGORY & THE BLUE SHUFFLE The Jackpot Music Hall, 10 p.m., 21+ RECENT WORK BY CLARE DEVOTION Pachamamas, 11 a.m., free, all ages TUESDAY NITE SWING The Kansas Union, 8 p.m., free, all ages UP Woodruff Auditorium, $2- $3, all ages FIGHT CLUB 10TH ANNIVER- SARY SCREENING Woodruff Auditorium, 8 p.m., $2-$3, 17+ OBLIVION / AVANT NATIONAL GUARD / BLACK JOHN Duffys, 9 p.m., $3, all ages BIRDS OF AVALON / THE OLD BLACK The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ AN HORSE The Jackpot Music Hall, 10 p.m., $6-$8, 18+ HEAVINESS, NEW WORKS BY DONIKA WILEY Lawrence Arts Center, 9 p.m., free, all ages POKER PUB The Pool Room, 7 p.m. & 10 p.m., free, 21+ THE AMERICANA MUSIC ACADEMY JAM Signs of Life, 7:30 p.m., free, all ages THE INVENTION OF LYING ADVANCE SCREENING Woodruff Auditorium, 8 p.m., free, all ages DOLLAR BOWLING Royal Crest Bowling Lanes, 9 p.m., $1, all ages YOUNG BUCK / CRUCIAL MUSIC The Granada, 9 p.m., $18- $20, all ages ACOUSTIC OPEN JAM The Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ MARK MALLMAN / ANTENNAS UP The Replay Lounge, 10 p.m., $2, 21+ JAYPLAY editors note // After bearing with pairs of glasses for decades and sufering through the 1980s with hard, un- comfortable, extremely expensive contacts, my mom woke up from a long nap one day in late 1999 and, suddenly, could see. She had gone under the laser after signing her- self up for what was then still a relatively new and unproven procedure: LASIK eye surgery. Like Jayplay writer Hailey Osterhaus, she went home after the quick outpatient surgery desper- ate for sleep. After several hours, she opened her eyes and, for the frst time since she was a child, she could see the room clearly. She hasnt needed any form of vision correction since. // ALEX GARRISON, ASSOCIATE EDITOR The University Daily Kansan 111 Stauffer-Flint Hall 1435 Jayhawk Blvd. Lawrence, KS 66045 (785) 864-4810 3 09 24 09 Conroys Pub 3115 W. 6th St. Ste D. The Bottleneck 737 New Hampshire St. The Jackpot Music Hall 943 Massachusetts St. The Jazzhaus 926 1/2 Massachusetts St. The Gaslight Tavern 317 N. 2nd St. Lawrence Arts Center 940 New Hampshire St. Wildes Chateau 24 2412 Iowa St. The Granada 1020 Massachusetts St. The Eighth St. Taproom 801 New Hampshire St. The Replay Lounge 946 Massachusetts St. The Pool Room 925 Iowa St. Duffys 2222 W. 6th St. venues // wednesday, sept. 30th NOTICE // Hannah DeClerk, Kelci Shipley, Valerie Skubal PLAY // Sarah Bluvas, Zach Getz, Jake Lerman CONTRIBUTORS // Mike Anderson, Taylor Brown, Amber Jackson, Chelsea Johnson, KJHK music staff, Sasha Lund, Landon Mc- Donald, Abby Olcese, Brett Phillippe, Nicolas Roesler, Amanda Sorell CREATIVE CONSULTANT // Carol Hol- stead CONTACT US // jayplay09@gmail.com Ten years after my moms surgery, I wonder if LASIK is for me. When my mom got it done, the idea of someone fring lasers into my then- ten-year-old eyes scared the bejeezus out of me. Older but perhaps not entirely wiser, I cant say I dont still feel the same. Do I want to risk my vision, arguably my most important sense? What if I move during the surgery and mess it up? My mom says this is what she worried about most not that the doctors would screw up, but that she would. And then theres the cost. My mom says its the best money shes ever spent, but its not covered by our insurance and, even if I had the money, Im probably too lazy to bother when contacts dont seem like too much of a pain. Still, I hear my moms and Haileys stories of awakening and feel a tinge of jealousy. Check out Haileys story on page 19 to read more about LASIK surgery and the way it changed her life. Perhaps itll open your eyes to new and exciting medical possibilities. 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As the stenographer, it is her job to take down a perfect record of what is said in court and to maintain the exhibits of the court. Oakleaf has been a stenographer for 32 years. Shes seen the court reporter apparatus change from a typewriter to what reporters use now, the steno machine. Te contemporary steno machines use a jump drive to record the coding that is typed on the steno paper, but Oakleaf still uses her foppy disk machine. Shes just too busy copy-editing testimony theres no spell check on the steno and researching court cases, she says, to learn the new technology. People interested in becoming stenographers must complete a two-year program online or at a college and be able to type 225 words per minute on the steno to receive state certifcation. Oakleaf says the most difcult part of her job has nothing to do with typing, listening or technology, though; its keeping her emotions at bay during trials. You have to learn to shut your emotions of, because when youre in a murder or rape trial, you cant get emotional, she says. get some culture // its not all about fast food and beer pong. SOUL NIGHTS AT Does anyone want to take this party back to their house? the DJ hollers to the crowd of sweaty, drunk dancers. Will Weinstein looks at his brother and gives him the I dont know face. Te next thing Weinstein knows, the DJ is broadcasting his address into the microphone, and people are pouring out of the steamy Taproom basement to head toward his home. But thats what Weinstein, Overland Park senior, loves about weekends at the Eighth St. Taproom, 801 New Hampshire St., versus other dance bars in town. He has the opportunity to hang out with like-minded people who just want to get drunk and dance, and he gets to hear funk music he wouldnt be able to hear anywhere else. Weinstein says he liked retro artists such as Curtis Mayfeld and Marvin Gaye before moving to Lawrence. However, he says many people in the Lawrence dance scene are more cultured and know about lesser-known records that contain some of the best music from that era. Te Taproom is also known for the classic soul music it plays on most weekends. Jerome Favre, a Lawrence resident who has worked at the Taproom for three years and has frequented the bar for more years than hes willing to count, says // FRANCESCA CHAMBERS Photo by Francesca Chambers THE TAPROOM the artist schedule is always the same. Tat means, if you like the music, come back on the same day each month to hear it again. Walking into the Taproom basement on the weekends is like being transported through a time machine back to the 1970s. You feel the aura of peace, love and happiness immediately, and you suddenly feel the urge to dance. What if youve never shaken your groove thang before, though? Teres no way to dance to funk. Its just fun and easy, Weinstein says. And even if it looks silly, it makes you move. Get down: Chances are youll hear a variety of funk tracks on weekends at the Eighth St. Taproom. 7 4 09 24 09 Contributed photo Typo: Debbie Oakleaf shows a piece of paper from her steno that reads Rock Chalk Jayhawk. Tucked back in the depths of your closet theres that one forgotten shirt the one that you always skip over when youre picking something to wear for a night out. Te one with the tags still on it. Its the one that looked great when you tried it on, but once you brought it home you hated it. Now, you never wear it and seeing it always makes you feel a little guilty. Everyone has at least one of these items in their wardrobe, but why not turn it into a positive thing? Many stores in town buy back your gently used clothing, ofering you cash or store credit in return. So that impulse buy thats taking up space in your closet can be traded in for some extra money or something you like better. Kim Livingood, Lawrence junior, has been trading her clothes since she was in high school. She says she comes as often as twice a season to both Arizona Trading Company and Platos Closet hoping to get cash for her old clothes. Not only does she sell her old clothes back but she regularly shops at each store to fnd new items for her closet. She says its a great way to make extra money and a great way to save money as well. If youve got a shirt thats making you feel guilty, heres a rundown of local resell stores to help you get started. Let the closet purging begin. 5 09 24 09 MANUAL // ANDREA OLSEN One person's trash, another person's treasure: Trent Thompson, Overland Park junior, shops at Plato's Closet, 3514 Clinton Pkwy. Stores such as Plato's Closet, Wild Man Vintage and Arizona Trading Company give you the opportunity to sell your old clothing, or trade it in for what they have in stock. Photo by Amanda Kistner Wild Man Vintage 939 Massachusetts St. FALL STYLES The styles Lawrence stores are looking for this season
* Neutral colors * * Knee-high boots * * Name-brand jeans * * Anything plaid (mens and womens) * * Mens Western shirts * * Clothes with ruffled details * * High-waisted skirts * * Military-style jackets * * Winter coats (mens and womens) * TRADING CLOTHE$ FOR CA$H Feel better about last years impulse buy Arizona Trading Company 734 Massachusetts St. Platos Closet 3514 Clinton Pkwy GOOD FOR: Tose super high Steve Madden heels that kill your feet because you bought a half- size down. (But they were on sale!) Or those Ed Hardy shirts you thought were so cool until you saw Jon Gosselin wearing them. Platos Closet specializes in name-brand clothing, so if you have a lot of high-end labels this may be your place. Teres tons of selection if youre interested in buying. Te clothes are inspected based on style and condition as well as whether the employees think it will sell in the store. Allyson Nichols, Leawood senior who works at Platos Closet, says the business prices clothes based on the brand frst, then the condition. So a high-dollar brand will start you of with more cash back and then the condition of the piece gives you more on top of that. Nichols says Platos Closet takes clothes no more than two years old and they have to be in pretty good condition. Te business also takes accessories such as belts, purses and jewelry as well as shoes. GOOD FOR: Te vintage foral mini-dress you bought for last years Woodstock-themed sorority party. (Teres a new theme this year.) If you have a collection of vintage clothing in excellent condition, Wild Man Vintage would love to buy some of it. Lacy Myers, Kansas City, Kan., nontraditional student who works at Wild Man, says the business buys older styles, specifcally the 1970s and 1980s. She says they do take some newer things from Urban Outftters and American Apparel, depending on the style and condition. But dont be fooled by the fact that Wild Mans clothing is older; it still has to be in good condition. Neesa Hussain, a Wild Man employee, says employees always check the seams and zippers for tears and signs of wear. Te business buys clothing based on the season and according to what it already has in stock. Once employees price what they want to buy back, you have the option of taking 40 percent of it in cash back or 60 percent in store credit. GOOD FOR: All of those mens button-downs that are now gaping between the buttons. (Looks like your bar tab has been afecting your waistline.) Arizona Trading Company covers everything from vintage to high-end clothing, as long as the items are current styles. Lisa Roberts, an employee at ATC, says the business takes both unique pieces and good name brands, as long as employees think it will sell. ATC buys its clothes seasonally, so if youre looking to trade now, bring in fall styles. Like Wild Man Vintage, ATC gives you two options for your money. You can take 35 percent in cash, or take 60 percent in store credit. Roberts says the business keeps your store credit on fle for up to six months, so it doesnt have to be used right away. Justin Wilson, Wichita senior, used his store credit to buy what he says is his favorite sweater of all time, and a couple other items. Trading your clothes gives you something for nothing, because otherwise I would have just thrown away those unwanted clothes, Wilson says. Jp NOTICE Q&A // TUCKER MAX because we have questions. celebrities have answers.
Jayplay: Hows the tour going so far and what do you think of Lawrence in general? Tucker Max: I knew the tour would go good, I knew the fans would love the movie, but I didnt know the rest of the world would fgure it out so quickly. Lawrence is about what I expected: hot girls, bad drinkers. No, Im just teasing. Actually, my buddy was a Beta and did undergrad at KU so I came here when he got married at the chapel on campus. Its a fun city. How much creative input did you have and how involved were you in the movie? Nils Parker and I wrote the script, picked the director and cast the actors. Te fnal cut is our cut, so we were the beginning and end of all creative decisions. If this thing is a success, Nils and I will answer to no one else the rest of our lives, except for our fans. What was it like seeing Matt Czuchry play you in the movie? Once you do something enough you get tired of it and I had seen it so many times so it wasnt that weird. Matt took the character in a diferent, better direction. Movie Tucker is a lot more likeable and redeemable than I am in real life. Like I can be a lot of fun, but Im really a fucking dick. And you had to have a cameo as the best man Of course I did. Im a narcissist. I have to be in my own fucking movie. // KELCI SHIPLEY JP: TM: JP: TM: JP: TM: JP: In one of your stories from I Hope Tey Serve Beer In Hell, you say, at 21 I was possibly the worst person in existence, I was narcissistic and self-absorbed to the point of psychotic delusion. Have you changed at all? Te book isnt about the narcissism so much, its just funny stories. But the movie is about the fallout and how my behavior impacts my friends, and what I have to do when it gets to the point where they dont want to be friends with me and how I fx that situation. Look, Im 33. If I hadnt grown up at all that would be fucking weird and awful. Ive defnitely changed, Ive defnitely matured and Ive learned how to empathize and how to outthink my narcissism to some extent. When you wrote the book, did you think about the people who wouldnt appreciate it? Te people who hate you, generally speaking, hate you for their own reasons. I love them because one, your enemies are always the frst to fnd your faults, second is because I love being hated because its like Eminem said: It lets me know that I made it. No one hates someone whos anonymous. Every time they write about me its like throwing a gasoline-soaked log on the raging inferno that is my ego. Do you ever look back or re-read stories and have regrets? If you dont have regrets that means you havent lived life. Just because the stories are funny doesnt mean theyre right. I had to fail a lot and learn a lot of painful lessons and do a lot of introspective self-examination, which means looking at what youre doing and being honest with yourself about it. Where do you think you would be if you wouldnt have written the book or made the movie? I dont know what I wouldve done, I know what I did. I wanted to be a fucking star, and I wanted to stand in the pantheon among the greats. Why do you think some people hate you? I mean there are plenty of reasons to not like me Im self-centered and I care more about my own happiness than anyone elses to a bad degree. Sometimes I cross the line to meanness, like tonight when I said an audience member looked like a keg with a hat on. It was funny, but still kind of mean. TM: JP: TM: JP: TM: JP: TM: JP: TM: Tucker Max has made a living out of being an asshole. His 2006 New York Times bestseller, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, is a personal narrative of numerous alcohol-induced incidents and conquests of not-so-nicely-named women. And now the profane comedy is being introduced to 31 college campuses across the nation as a movie based on one of the books stories. The movie opens nationwide tomorrow. I wrote a scathing review of the book last year, but as I found myself sitting on his tour bus for this interview, my mind began to change. He didnt seem like such a jerk after all. Where was this straight-shooting, self-absorbed womanizer? I found out in his responses about fame, fortune and life on board the Tucker Max tour bus. What are you looking for in a girl? Im a fucking brilliant, complicated dude. Its going to take a very smart, very strong woman to match up to me. Its not just about the checklist, its about being in the right place. I cant tell you how many girls met me when I was 21 and they were smart enough to see the man I would become in a few years but they tried to change me into Hey, at least hes honest: Tucker Maxs books may have earned him a bad reputation, but he doesnt deny some of his unfavorable traits. A story from his book, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, has been made into a movie of the same title. The movie hits theaters tomorrow. Photo by Adam Buhler 7 6 09 24 09 JP: TM: that, and now the road to Tucker Max is littered with their broken souls. Tey gave a lot to me before I was ready to give a lot back and they got burned. What they shouldve learned is that you cant change a dude.
JP: 7 09 24 09 NOTICE Q&A // CISCO ADLER because we have questions. celebrities have answers.
How did you meet Aaron Smith (Shwayze)? We met in Malibu. It is a simple town. We started hanging out and I gave him his nickname, Shwayze. We started playing music together and I realized I had discovered a diamond in the rough. At the time, I wanted to be a solo act. He is a rapper and I started to throw my rock genre into it. We started having our own kind of music with no rules. It was a beautiful accident.
If you could put Shwayze into a musical genre, what would you call it? It is a beach-time summer vibe, mixed with something to play in the clubs. Our frst album, Shwayze, we were just trying to get our own sound. We were playing it safe and not trying to go too many places. In our newest album, we have fnally reached our ideal genre. We have many songs. Basically, we are trying to show that we are not just a one-trick pony.
What are you and Shwayzes individual roles in the group? Aaron (Shwayze) raps and I play all the music and sing the hooks. I am also the producer so we fnish of the sound together.
In your newest album, Let it Beat, you work with celebrities such as Snoop Dogg. What was that like? It was cool. Te way we worked with the features was very cool. We wanted to go with friends and infuences, and Snoop was one of them. We were blessed to have him on our album. Now, people cant say shit about us.
What type of instruments do you play? I do all the music on the records. I play piano, guitar and drums. I also mix all the tracks myself. I have played instruments since I was 10 and I couldnt get enough of it. // HANNAH DECLERK JP: CA: JP: CA: JP: CA: JP: CA: JP: CA: You and Shwayze had your own series on MTV, Buzzin'; have you ever considered a possible acting career? Most defnitely. I have produced and acted in a flm called Sweetie Pie, along with my friend Paris Hilton. Also Shwayze and I are working on a new flm called Big Jacks Tickets, which is a comedy. Basically I am kind of a jack-of-all-trades, master of all and none.
In your newest single, Get You Home, you talk about hooking up with girls and spill about diferent sexual encounters. You say in your song that none of it is fantasy and you live to tell the tale. Can you share any of your encounters? I do not kiss and tell. We are selling a lifestyle and not just music. I will say that all of the lyrics are real and not bullshit. We sing about love, and even love lost. JP: CA: JP: CA: Cisco Adler is a music producer, member of rap group Shwayze and record producer Lou Adlers son. Although Adler was sitting on a plane about to take off to Dallas, he told the flight attendant to hold on so he could talk to Jayplay about his newest album, a possible acting career and his love life.
How does it feel to rise to the top so quickly? It is a lot of diferent emotions, especially since our album was released around the time that other giant tracks were released. I came into the business being known for whom I have fucked, and now I am known for my passion in life.
You have been paired up with celebrities such as Paris Hilton, Mischa Barton and Kimberly Stewart. Dating anyone famous as of now? I actually am taken. I have a beautiful model girlfriend who is normal. I am done dating actresses. You can never understand if their tears are real. I am just over psychopaths.
JP: CA: JP: CA: Would you ever date a KU girl? Yeah, I would date a farmers daughter. I have actually dated many girls who are not in the spotlight. I do not constrict my love life. My girlfriend right now is the most normal girl. She is not a psycho like most. I really do not have a specifc type, but I do tend to gravitate to funny, smart women.
What are your future plans? I started a new label known as Bananabeat Records. I have also just launched a new artist named Chris Young. JP: CA: Beach boys: Cisco Adler (left) and rapper Shwayze have gained popularity with their summer anthems. Adler, who is also a music producer and actor, provides the instru- mentation for the duos songs. Contributed photo Jayplay: How long have you known you wanted to be in the music industry? Cisco Adler: My frst inclination was when I found hip-hop as a teenager. It was a kind of rebellion against my father, who is in the rock business. But basically I was just a little white kid who wanted to be a rapper. Once I started actually doing it, I fed the hunger. I decided to go into rock after that. JP: CA: 7 8 09 24 09 NOTICE // KELCI SHIPLEY Seeing double: Logan (left) and Gavin (right) Wartick, Rose Hill juniors, got up to tricky twin antics in grade school, sitting in each others assigned seat and then serving double the detention. Today they still struggle with some people assuming they dont have individual identities (they do) and that, as identical twins, they have special telepathic powers (they dont). Photo by Amanda Kitsner I sat in the oral surgeons waiting room, nervously fipping through an old copy of People magazine. As I was catching up on the daily gossip of underworked and overpaid celebrities, I felt my stomach lurch. My twin brother had already gone into the dentists chair, and I knew the exact moment the IV was inserted into his arm. Hes deathly afraid of needles and blood, and Ive frequently been able to tell when hes facing one situation or the other. Im not saying I can read his mind or feel his pain, but we have a diferent connection than most siblings. Growing up with a twin brother allowed me to become an individual, but for same-sex identical twins the task is not so easy. Tere are many comparisons and judgments, but twins eventually form their own identity. Even with a unique personality twins have a closeness that fascinates the world, causing outsiders to assume that the two have twin powers. When I sit down to interview Logan and Gavin Wartick, Rose Hill juniors, I have no problem telling the two apart. Logan calmly sits across from me in a white T-shirt and jeans, his left ear is pierced and a fve oclock shadow sits on his long face. Gavin nervously sits to my left wearing a blue button-down and tan pants, his hair is a bit longer and hes clean-shaven with his girlfriend by his side. Even though I can tell the diference, the boys say that most people cant. And although some would think they would it use to their advantage, theyve only switched places once, in their high school Spanish class. To the frustration of their teacher, they sat in each others assigned seats. Both were punished with detention because the school ofcials didnt know who was causing trouble. Gavin says he always ended up getting blamed when it was really Logans fault. When it comes to being compared, the boys banter back and forth. Gavin says that girls think Logans prettier, and a bit of a ladys man. And Im obviously the smarter one, Logan counters. Teir timing is almost comedic, interrupting one another when they disagree. People assume that hes your best friend and that were the exact same person mentally and physically, Gavin says. But Im my own person. Watching them interact, its obvious that they have a relationship unlike most siblings. Insults and jokes aside, Logan and Gavin have always been close; theyve lived together their entire lives, and even share many friends. Tis closeness doesnt imply any sort of superpowers, however. Te boys say that sometimes theyll be singing the same song coincidentally, but nothing out of the ordinary usually occurs. Were not telepathic by any means, Gavin says. Dory Cochran, Manhattan senior, never got the chance to be distinguished from her sister until coming to Lawrence. Until then she and her twin, Laura Beth, had always been known as the Cochran twins. Te OshKosh BGosh-wearing girls had the same friends growing up, but Laura Beth was more vocal. She would usually speak for both of us, Dory says. Its a Twin Thing What its like to recognize emotions and thoughts in your other half T w i n ( ) Now the girls are separated, with Laura Beth studying architecture at Kansas State University and Dory here, pursuing degrees in English and womens studies. Im diferent than I wouldve been if we wouldve gone to the same school, she says. Even through distant campuses and continents during study abroad trips Dory says that the older they are the closer they become, and that they try to communicate on a daily basis. Dory says that having a twin is like having a great Jp support system. You can look at them and not even have to say what youre thinking. Like Gavin and Logan, Dory says that she and Laura Beth dont have any ESP capabilities. She says that sometimes shell ask her sister what to listen to and theyll end up picking the same music, but their similar thoughts and tastes are a result of knowing each other so well, more so than having a twin connection. Most people assume that this recognition of emotions and pain is standard for twins, but there is no scientifc research to back it up, says Pamela Fierro, guide to twins and multiples at about.com and author of several books on multiples. Fierro, mother of identical twin girls, says that theres a fascination with twins because of their rarity, and because people like to think of twins as clones. Twins try to avoid it by dressing diferently and participating in diferent activities, but society judges them together. Even with the comparisons and judgments, Fierro says that twins have a bond that outlasts relationships with their parents and friends. Logan and Gavin admit that they like constantly having a companion, and Dory says that she can count on her sister during hard times. I for one know that my twin will always be there for me, whether its to go see a movie, help with homework or even sit in the waiting room while I get my wisdom teeth removed. Tanks, Kevin. QUESTIONS TWINS HEAR, AND HATE ***** * Can you tell what hes thinking? * Have you switched places? * If she gets hurt do you feel it? * Whos the evil twin? * Do you have the same personality? * Are you identical? tomorrows news // SHOWERTAN just call us Cleo. You go to the tanning salon to either lie in a tanning bed for 30 minutes or get hosed down by a tanning solution. You go to your shower to, well, take a shower, right? Not if youre using ShowerTan. Developed by RNJ Enterprises in Tampa, Fla., and featured on Good Morning America, this new product is supposed to bring sunless spray tan technology to your own home by way of your shower. It comes in three parts you stack together to form the misting pole. Fill the base with the solution and cartridge and it begins to spray you as you turn to get your even tan. Te solutions are water-based so cleanup is not supposed to be a hassle, with the solution completely rinsing of the shower the next time you bathe. Bailey Young, Winfeld freshman, says she tries to tan whenever she can. She uses spray- tan booths in Lawrence and feels like she looks better while tan. She likes the idea of the easy access factor of a shower spray tan. You would not have to leave your house to do it, she says. You can fnd more information and a how- to video at showertan.com. // VALERIE SKUBAL Sunbathing: The ShowerTan system gives you a sun- less tan from the comfort of your own bathroom. Contributed photo 9 09 24 09 NOTICE wescoe wit I wish my boobs werent big. Life would be so much better. Yours are pretty big, too. GIRL 1: Yeah, I enjoy mine just fne. 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GIRL 2: GIRL: (laughing) My boyfriend kidnapped me and threw me in his trunk. Yeah, and the worst part is that I woke up with my bare ass in the air and people were walking by going to class. GIRL 1: I mean, what would life be like without the Cheez-It? GUY 1: Pointless and boring. GUY 2: Now Open $1.99 Sake Bombs everyday! 99 cent Margaritas Mon-Thurs 2907 W. 6th St. 785.838.3399 Japanese Steakhouse & Sushi Bar 10 % off any service. ALL THE TIME. w/ Student ID Diagnostics, Transmissions, Brakes, Clutches, Oil & Lube, Steering/Suspension, Engine Repair, Electrical, & More & Midwest Repair 1705 Haskell Ave, Suite B 785-856-3240 Auto Diagnostics Lowest Prices Guaranteed Free Estimates 7 17 09 03 09 16 09 03 09 10 09 24 09 11 08 27 09 09 24 09 FEATURE FEATURE At least three times a day, Najibullah Wardak, Wichita senior, takes a shower. He washes his hands each time he enters his house and every time he touches his shoes. I just think thats good, clean habits, he says. When questioned about their bathing habits in e-mails and personal interviews, about 50 KU students said they bathe once a day for seven to 10 minutes. But in her book Comfort, Cleanliness and Convenience: Te Social Organization of Nor- mality, Elizabeth Shove says what one person sees as normal bathing habits, another person often does not. Like hairstyles and clothing, bathing is a fashion statement that has changed throughout time and difers among contemporary societies. Today, bathing is an individual experience in the United States and is an activity used for both hygienic and stress-relieving purposes. Tis was not always the case, though. Although the idea of a group of males and females bathing together, naked, for fun, brings to mind the word orgy these days, in ancient Greece and Rome, communal bathing was a non-sexual, social activity. Even baths in private homes in ancient Rome were clearly designed to accommodate more than one person, says Garret G. Fagan in his book, Bathing in Public in the Ro- man World. Ten, for more than a century, bathing went out of style completely. People often survived their entire lives without washing. When the Roman Empire crumbled, so did their system of bathing. In her book Te Dirt on Clean, Katherine Ash- enburg says the Germanic tribes that conquered Rome preferred to wash in streams. Later, in the Middle Ages, people washed only their hands a necessity considering they were still eating food of of them. Fagan attributes the decline of bath- ing during this time to the spread of Christianity and the religions disapproval of nudity. Regular and public bathing customs resurfaced in Western Europe after the Crusades. Te reli- About 51 percent of French women and 55 percent of French men do not shower or bathe every day, Katherine Ashenburg says in her book, Te Dirt on Clean. Te French seem to have a perverse national pride in their own unconcern about cleanliness, she writes. But thats just not true, says Olivia Prouvost-Allen, Lilles, France, graduate student. Prouvost- Allen says people have a lot of misconceptions about French hygiene. She is often asked if she shaves and showers regularly, she says, and the answer is yes. All her friends bathe every day, too. Te only people in France who do not are the people in their 60s and 70s, who she says are still not used to the idea of having indoor plumbing and unlimited access to water.
DAILY SHOWERS ARE A PRIVILEGE Ian Cummings, Overland Park graduate student, has spent the last few years living in Hondu- ras and Columbia, where the temperature of the water is extremely unpredictable, he says. Where I am now, the water usually starts out piping hot and then unpredictably turns ice cold, he says. Tis means that my showers have frequently become wild, frantic afairs. It is impossible to become accustomed to the cold water when it refuses to appear predictably. In Honduras, not only is water temperature spotty, so is the availability of water. Cummings says sometimes he had to take his baths in a concrete water tank a pila behind his house. Te pila was used as an all-purpose water source, he says, excluding drinking out of. Whenever he visits the United States now, Cummings says he takes long, hot, wasteful show- ers.
LOOKING FOR A NEW WAY TO EXFOLIATE? TRY TREE BARK In Slavic culture, it was once customary to bathe after every sexual encounter, says Eve Levin, professor of history. Bathing itself was a non-sexual activity, though, Levin says. Like Europeans of the time, Russians bathed in mixed-sex bathhouses that were used solely for the purposes of becoming clean and patrons used birch twigs for exfoliating. Levin, author of Sex and Society in the World of Orthodox Slavs 900-1700, says traditional bathhouses in Russia still ofer the tree bark to customers today. // FRANCESCA CHAMBERS LETS TALK gion that had once discredited bathing brought it back to popularity in the form of Turkish baths. Te most lavish of these baths resembled high- class parties without the clothes. Musicians performed, guests gorged themselves on fruit and women wore elaborate make-up, jewelry and headdresses, all in the baths, Ashenburg writes. At frst, the prostitution that sprang up in and around the public baths at the end of the Middle Ages was ignored. However, in 1538, bathhouses were prohibited in France as rumors grew that women could become pregnant and infected with sexually transmitted diseases by swimming in the water, Ashenburg writes. Te spread of the plague led to the decline of bathing yet again, Shove says in her book. Medi- cal experts in the 16th century led the public to believe that dirt-flled pores decreased the ability of the plague to enter the body. Bathing re-emerged in the late 1800s because of the successful creation and marketing of soap, Ashenburg says, and fourished with the advent of modern plumbing, which poured hot water over the body for extended periods of time with a simple touch of the hand. Bathing was a symbol of a persons status in society, both economically and racially, during the Industrial Revolution. Janice Boddy, a profes- sor of anthropology at the University of Toronto, says in the book Dirt, Undress and Diference that advertisers used cartoons of monkeys to portray those who didnt bathe and referred to the un- washed as jungle people. If bathing in the 1900s was a mark of the up- per-class society, today it is a mark of belonging to society, period, Shove says in her book. Ad- ditionally, she says bathing has evolved into an activity about comfort and self-indulgence, with a sense of self emphasis on the type of soap or body wash one uses. THE DORM SHOWERS ITS WHAT YOU CANT SEE THAT COULD HURT YOU Although outdoor, mixed-sex, nude baths have lost their favor, remnants of the practice have subtly persisted in our communities. At the University, women and men use sepa- rate bathing facilities in the dormitories, but same-sex group bathing is still acceptable. Stu- Bathing habits and the idea of dirty and clean vary throughout history and from person to person dents dont necessarily enjoy showering in close proximity with strangers, though. Not to men- tion, the dormitory showers are far from the high-roller saunas promoted in the Middle Ages. Tey are just dirty, and some of them are moldy, says Felicia Powell, a Lee's Summit, Mo., senior who lived in McCollumHall her freshman year. Ten there are strands of people's hair, and it's just gross, even though they're cleaned daily. Causing a stink: Showering habits vary across and within cultures. How much is too much? How much is too little? The answers may seem obvious but social norms have changed drastically over time. Photo illustration by JerryWang Jp SHOWERING AROUND THE WORLD LAVEZ-VOUS UN CORPS CHAQUE JOUR? Cleaning fops: Though the idea of sharing public showers and the shared germs within them in residence halls scares some off from showering as regularly as they would normally, experts say the showers are more or less clean. Photo illustration by Jerry Wang In reality, most of the germs are nothing to worry about, even if the buildup looks like its a form of the bubonic plague. If we did culture the bathrooms, we would probably grow stuf, says Pat Moody, a medical technologist at Watkins Memorial Health Cen- ter. But it probably wouldnt mean anything because its all harmless. Students could pick up a virus, such as the cold or the fu, from the communal showers, though, says Patty Quinlan, supervisor of nurs- ing at Watkins. Viruses cannot be grown, so it would be impossible for Watkins laboratory to determine how many and what kind of viruses are lurking in dorm showers. Contracting a virus could be as easy as walking around barefoot in the showers with dry, chapped feet, so Quinlan advises students to wear swim shoes or fip-fops to the communal bathrooms, even if they do not have any open wounds. For one KU student, going showerless fresh- man year was better than showering in the poor- ly lit, hair-infested dorm showers. Samantha Collins, Olathe junior, considers herself to be a regular bather, but she admits she showered sporadically during her stay at the dorms and that sometimes during the winter, she showered only once every three days. It didn't help that my best friend, Erica, didn't shower very often either, she says. It was just a way of life freshman year. Skipping the shower after a humid or even a cold Kansas day may sound repulsive, but is it a medical no-no? Quinlan thinks so. Quinlan says students should shower every night, unless they did not leave their house that day. When we are out in public, we come into contact with an unlimited number of bacteria and viruses, she says, and the risk of becoming infected with those germs is heightened by not showering before we go to sleep. Each day, those of us who shower in the morning bring contagious germs into our home, transfer them onto our pillows and sheets and soak in them all night long. So, showering at night is especially important for those students who have aggressive allergies. But some people disagree with this idea. Te idea that everyone needs to shower every day is ridiculous, says Katherine Ashenburg, au- thor of Te Dirt on Clean. I think this is all propaganda about daily shower and bath with soap and deodorant, she says. We're all too individual for that. People who sweat more than the average person may need to shower every day, she says, but for the most part, to stay healthy, washing anything above the wrists on a daily basis is op- tional.
SKIPPING SHOWERS WONT HELP YOU SAVE A WHALE OR MONEY
If not showering really is harmful to our bod- ies, surely it saves us oodles of money on our wa- ter bill each month? Doubtful, says the City of Lawrence. According to the citys website, residents are charged $3.18 for every 1,000 gallons of water used. In Lawrence, the average amount of water used during a 10-minute shower is 40 gallons. Tat means if you take a shower every day, you will use about 1,240 gallons of water per bill- ing cycle. So, at best, you could save yourself the extra $3.18 charged to you for going over 1,000 gallons by cutting out one or two showers per week. But showering any less than six times a week doesnt save you any more money. Granted, the amount of times you fush your toilet and run water for other purposes plays a part in the cost of your water bill, too, but show- ering less saves you at most about 10 cents a day, or $38.16 a year, and thats only if your shower head was made before 1992. In 1992, the federal government changed the standard for showerheads, requiring that no more than 2.5 gallons of water be sprayed out per minute. At the end of the month, students living in newer apartment complexes are using about 775 gallons of water a month well below the 1,000 gallon mark so, decreasing the number of showers taken each week would save them no money at all, says Chris Whitley, a spokesman for the Midwest region of the Envi- ronmental Protection Agency. As far as saving the environment goes, Whitley says that as far as he knows, the EPA has never released information suggesting a certain num- ber of showers per week. A lot of this comes down to how long you can stand yourself and how long your friends can stand yourself when it comes down to bathing, he says. Good, clean fun: Showering is a privilege to many who have spent time in the developing world, where water resources are scarce. But even in the U.S., many shower myths abound. Photo illustration by JerryWang I need to use a lot of soap when I shower to get clean. Absolutely not, says Dr. Lee Bittenbender, a registered dermatologist and owner of Der- matology Center of Lawrence, 930 Iowa St. Soap removes natural oils from the skin and can dry out the skin when too much is used, especially in the winter when your skin is al- ready drier than usual.
I need to wash my hair every day. Wrong, says Patty Quinlan, supervisor of nursing at Watkins Memorial Health Center. You need to wash your hair only three to fve times a week.
I shouldnt use loofas because they are gross and spread germs. Te problem with loofas is not that they are unhealthy, Bittenbender says, its that people are too rough with them. Sometimes people get the notion I need to exfoliate and scrub the heck out of things and get tingly clean, he says. I dont think theres any scientifc basis for that.
Using plain soap is better for my skin than using fragranced body gels. Wrong again, says Katherine Ashenburg, author of the book Te Dirt on Clean. Te type of soap we use has no efect at all on our lives. Te type of soap we use does not make us any cleaner, more attractive or more boring. Bittenbender says the type of soap used matters less than where we use it. If all you have done that day is go to class or go to the gym, you dont need to use soap anywhere but in your armpits and your groin area. POPULAR SHOWERING MYTHS 7 12 09 24 09 HEALTH good for you/bad for you // LISTENING TO MUSIC WHILE STUDYING Books? Check. Highlighter? Check. iPod? Check. Youre ready to study, right? Wrong. You might want to ditch the iPod that latest Beyonc song pulsing in your ears may be doing more harm to your studying than you think. Listening to music while studying can distract you, which will make it more difcult to remember the material youre reading come exam time, says Paul Atchley, associate professor of psychology. If you turn on a little Dave Matthews Band to drown out other // KIRSTEN HUDSON thats disgusting // DRINKING PREVIOUSLY You opened that bottle of Dr. Pepper a week ago and crammed it into the back of the fridge. Now youre desperate for a cafeine fx, but arent sure if chugging it down is a good idea. Turns out its not really bad for you just super gross. Any bacteria that could grow in a previously opened drink probably wont make you sick, says Susan Egan, professor of molecular biosciences. After a while though, bacteria would use up the sugar in the drink and secrete their byproducts into it, making it taste bad. For most beverages, it will take more than a day for bacteria to grow. Te amount of creepy crawlers in your drink also depends on its temperature. Keeping the drink refrigerated will keep fewer germs from developing. Clear liquids, such as water or lemonade, will take longer to grow bacteria because they have less to feed on, Egan says. Carbonated drinks, such as sodas, will also take a while to grow bacteria. Te high acidity levels naturally sterilize those drinks, making it more difcult for bacteria to grow. But watch out before taking a swig of week-old super sugary drinks such as punch and certain juices. Tey can grow bacteria more quickly. dude. gross. OPENED BEVERAGES sometimes its hard to tell. // KIRSTEN HUDSON Photo illustration by Kirsten Hudson Background distraction: You may think listening to music while studying helps you focus, but odds are it actually distracts. Photo illustration by Kirsten Hudson Take a swig of these germs: Drinking opened bever- ages from the fridge can be disgusting. Drinking a sip of your own day-old Vitamin Water probably wont harm you, but defnitely avoid your buddys old Pepsi. Germs growing on the top of the bottle are an easy way to transfer a bacterial disease or fu virus, Egan says. If you accidentally take a swig of the water you left sitting by your bed three nights ago, the nasty taste might make you gag like a cat hacking up a hairball, but chill out. Its probably just dust. distractions, such as your roommates jabbering, listening to music might be benefcial. But if youre studying in a quiet place, listening to music probably can only hurt, Atchley says. Te volume of the music also afects how well you input those Spanish verb tenses or names of U.S. presidents into your memory. If the volumes so loud that a full-blown concert is going on in your ear drums, its going to be harder to concentrate than if its just background noise. If you cant study without the music, its best to just turn on what you usually listen to. If you really enjoy country western, that would be less distracting than punk. Whatever music will capture your attention the most is the worst you can play, Atchley says. During your next study session try nixing the iPod. Dont worry; itll be there when you get back.
VERDICT: BAD FOR YOU . An inventive species known for strident voices and an enlarged abdomen, commonly referred to as a beer gut (brus dringk re- s) e e Beerus Drinkerius KCBEERFEST OCTOBER 17, 2009 A.d. @ LEGENdS 1PM - 5PM Over 300 Beers - Live Music - Sports Lounge Tickets are $25 in advance / $30 at the door Buy your ticket TODAY before we sell out WWW.KCBEERFEST.COM must be 21 or older to attend PLAY 13 09 24 09 Ive never visited the legendary C.W. Porubskys Deli and Tavern in Topekas Little Russia neighborhood before, but as I walk through the creaky screen door for the frst time, I feel the same way newcomers and long-time patrons alike feel when they walk in: comfortable. It could be the few men crowded at the end of the bar, watching college football on a tiny television set. Maybe its the chatty woman who I soon fnd out is a Porubsky herself seated in the booth in front of me who, upon hearing that this is my frst trip to Topeka, invites me to her table and lets me in on some of the family secrets. Known for its chili, hot pickles and cold-cut sandwiches, Porubskys frst opened in 1947 and has survived foods and fres to become the only neighborhood grocery left in Topeka. Yet, as Matt Porubsky, KU graduate and grandson of the original owners, says, Porubskys is special for more than just cold cuts and resilience to disasters. Instead, its the inexplicable feeling that people get when they step through the door that prompted Porubsky to make Porubskys: Transcendent Deli, a documentary flm that will be released in Topeka and Lawrence in November. Following the 2008 death of his grandmother Lydia, who opened the grocery and tavern with her husband Charlie, Matt Porubsky began to question whether the deli would stay in the family without his grandparents. Always fascinated by the familiar faces and stories found in the deli, Porubsky also wondered why people kept coming back. Teres an appreciation for what this place is, what it stands for, what it stood for, Porubsky says. And he intended to fnd out why. One inquiry led to another, and Porubsky soon met David Kitchner, KU graduate and co- director from Gizmo Pictures, the Topeka-based production company releasing the flm. With support from the Kansas Humanities Council and the Center for Kansas Studies at Washburn University, Porubsky and crew conducted countless interviews and watched hours of pickle- eating footage. One member of the Porubsky clan, for instance, recalls the deli honor system, noting how Charlie and Lydia never wrote down orders, instead relying on customers to remind them what they had when it came time to pay. Premiering at Liberty Hall in November, Porubskys: Transcendent Deli, a new documentary about Topekas last small grocery, uses the talents of local artists to tell the story of one vital Kansas landmark. SEARCHING FOR // SARAH BLUVAS Patrons abided by this system because, If you screw Charlie Porubsky, you aint no good. Te documentary, though, is as much about Topeka as it is about the deli. Using local talent, the flmmakers hope to showcase the local grassroots arts community that few people outside of Topeka often notice. Teres some serious talent working on this flm, says Leah Sewell, Porubskys wife, who co-wrote and researched the flm. We want to show that Kansas isnt just a place you fy over. Justin Marable and Sam Billen, both Topeka artists and KU graduates, contributed their talents to the flm as well. Marable, whose wife Bailey was tricked into trying the Porubskys chili for the frst time on camera, provided nostalgic artwork for the flm. Billen and his brother Dan recorded the quirky, Russian-infuenced music for the soundtrack. Sitting in Porubskys for more than two hours, I listen to Matt Porubskys family and friends talk about a place that means so much to them and begin to see why it means something to me. Te worn-in barstools and neon beer signs remind Jp A standout Topeka staple: A flm featuring Porubskys, said to be the last neighborhood grocery in Topeka, aims to show that Kansas isnt just a place you fy over, says Leah Sewell, flmmaker Matt Porubskys wife. The flm shows the family and neighborhood history rooted in the Topeka landmark. Contributed photo Porubsky me of old photos of my great-grandfathers bar in Omaha. Bruce Harrington, the judge-turned- bartender who has held down the Porubskys bar for decades, has the same husky voice and sense of humor as my uncle Don. Porubskys has a story for everyone, even me. To hear some of these stories and fnd your own, watch the premiere of Porubskys: Transcendent Deli at 7 p.m. Nov. 17 at Liberty Hall, 644 Massachusetts St. Admission is free because, according to the flmmakers, Porubskys has always been for the people. Donations, however, are greatly appreciated. Transcendent chili: Porubskys, a small deli, restaurant and bar in Topekas Little Russia neighborhood, is the subject of a new flm premiering at Liberty Hall in November and is famous for its homemade chili. Contributed photo Youll definitely be tempted to head to Porubskys, located at 508 NE Sardou Ave. in Topekas Little Russia neighborhood, after seeing Matt Porubskys film. Not sure what to order for lunch for the first time? Try one of these house favorites: CHILI. Porubskys chili still uses the original recipe and probably the original chili pots. But if you have a hankering for a hot bowl of chili on a Friday or Saturday, youre out of luck. Lydia Porubsky never served chili on the weekends, and the tradition still sticks. COLD CUT PLATE. Basically a mini sandwich bufet, the cold cut plate comes with a selection of meats and cheeses, hot pickles and several slices of bread so you can design your own Porubskys creation. Have the bartender grab you a beer from the cooler and youre all set. HOT PICKLES. Im not a fan of pickles, but even I liked these. Sure, theyre so hot that Porubskys cant send shipments to customers for fear of the jars breaking and releasing hot fumes into the back of delivery trucks. But once you get over the shock, youre left with a tangy aftertaste and not a hint of heat. Chase with a slice of bread if you must. out & about // random people. random answers. Whats your guilty pleasure? Hawk Track ice cream. Sylas and Maddys is my new obsession. Laura Krone Lenexa sophomore // SARAH BLUVAS Getting my hair done. It has to look good all the time. Tyisha McFarlen Atlanta freshman Buying pets I cant take care of. Like chickens. James Herynk Auburn graduate student Miley Cyrus. I cant stand her as a person, but her songs are so fucking catchy. Megan Do Wichita junior Going of on the tangents on the Internet when youre supposed to be doing research for class. Daniel Siegel Overland Park freshman Chocolate because I shouldnt eat it, but I do. Liz Thompson Effngham freshman I guess I dont feel guilty about anything. Jos Alemn Ban Murcia, Spain, graduate student PLAY 7 14 09 24 09 The ne w pr e mi e r f a s hi on bout i que i n Lawr e nc e Pr e mi um De ni m Uni que , Sa v v y Fa s hi on Pr e mi um De ni m Uni que Sa v v y Fa s hi on PPr e mi um De ni m Uni que Sav v y Fa s hi on P Hour s : Mon- Sa t 11- 7pm, Sunda y c l os e d Hour s : Mon- Sa t 11- 7pm, Sunda y c l os e d p y d HH d We s t on 9t h St . f r om Ma s s St . W t 9t h St f M St W t 9t h St f M St For Wome n & Me n Tr ue Re l i gi on, Hus don, 7 f or Al l Ma nki nd, El l a Mos s , Spl e ndi d , La Rok , J oi e, Twe l f t h St . , 7 Di a monds , Fr e e Pe opl e For Wome n & Me n ee n NOW OPEN // MIKE ANDERSON CONTACT Id like to start opening up this column to you, dear readers, to answer your specifc questions re- garding sex and relationships. You can e-mail me at kansasinheat@yahoo.com. Heres one question I often get: Lately sex with my boyfriend has become a bit stale. Is there a sure-fre way to jump start our love life? I dont know if there is a sure-fre, bound-to- work-100-percent-of-the-time technique for all couples, but I do have some ideas that might work. For a romantic relationship lacking fre, I rec- ommend sharing your sexual fantasies with each other. I dont care who you are, everyone has a sexual fantasy that he or she would love to come true. Talk to each other about your fantasies and act these fantasies out. Some fantasies might be illegal and others might involve elaborate objects or places that you dont have access to (such as having sex in the Taj Mahal with the entire Dal- las Cowboys cheerleading squad rooting you on). But try to do the best you can to accommodate your partner. One of the key components used in sexual therapy sessions is getting individuals to discuss their sexual fantasies to determine what really turns him or her on. Try acting out a scene from your favorite movie, television show or play. Allow yourself to let go. Relationship and sex therapist Carol Altman says fantasy allows you to vary your behavior and sources of plea- sure, making sex more passionate and fulflling. So many of us feel embarrassed to talk about our sexual fantasies, which is too bad. Sexual com- munication leads to relational satisfaction. Te next suggestion I have for you is to in- corporate sex toys into your sex life. One of the frst things that I noticed when I began my re- search about sex and sex therapy was the men- tion and presence of sex toys by so many scholars and sexual therapists. A University of California study found that 10 percent of American couples incorporate sex toys during sex. I strongly believe that the actual number is higher than that. Using a vibrator on a womens clitoris while you are having vaginal intercourse is probably one of the more common techniques used, but there are far more. Tere is a sex toy out there for everyone, and they dont have to be elaborate to be efective. Something as simple as a cloth Relationship researcher Mike Anderson tackles the sticky world of relationship advice, one weekly Jayplay column at a time blindfold can become just what you need to spice things up. Closing your eyes will open up your other senses and you will be aroused more easily. Plus, it adds an erotic nature to the mo- ment. Try having one person wear a blindfold. It will be sensual for both parties. If these dont work try investing in ambience, using sex games or books, giving and getting massages and making sex a priority in your rela- tionship. You deserve great sex in your life, and these are some of the ways you can get it. kansas in heat (print edition) // REKINDLING THE FLAME *THE OPINIONS OF THIS COLUMNIST DO NOT NECESSAR- ILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF JAYPLAY. KANSAS IN HEAT IS NOT TO BE CONSIDERED AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFES- SIONAL HELP. Mike Anderson, Dell- wood, Minn., graduate student, is the host of Kansas in Heat, a talk show about sex and relationships that airs Wednesdays at 8 p.m. on KJHK, 90.7fm and at kjhk.org. 15 09 24 09 CONTACT // HAILEY OSTERHAUS catch of the week // ANDREW LEWIS our weekly peek at a fsh in the KU sea. His Jasmine tea is brewing in the morning while he checks his daily dose of current events through BBC News and Te New York Times. Andrew Lewis, Rose Hill senior, has his day planned, and he more than likely has the next fve years of his life mapped out as well. My career is my drive in life, Lewis says. Not very many people know where they want to go and what they want to do. Itd be nice to fnd someone that thinks the same way. Finding a partner isnt the frst thing that Lewis wants to check of on his to-do list. I always keep thinking my time here is temporary so I dont really expect to fnd anything, Lewis says. I keep thinking itll happen eventually. Right now, interior design is Lewis main concentration. After school he wants to live in New York City or travel overseas. Lewis past slightly explains his passionate drive. Hes unique if you consider the theories of birth order. Usually the oldest children are head strong and determined like Lewis. Hes the youngest of four, but all of his siblings are signifcantly older than him. His youngest older brother is actually seven years older than him and, because of the age gap, Lewis found major: Interior design Contributed photo interested in: Men himself taking care of his nieces and nephews once he turned 15. Tey felt like my younger siblings. Because of that, I think Im pretty good at taking care of people, Lewis says. Lewis may know how to take care of others, but from the looks of his planned path, he clearly will never have to depend on anyone but himself. 7 16 09 24 09 OUR BALLS CHECK OUT OUR CHECK OUT OUR ON N THE BACK COVER DRINK SPECIALS LD 601 KASOL 99 785.749.769 OPEN DAILY 9AM - 2AM DO WHAT YOU LOVE. DO WHAT Discover how you can launch an exciting and REWARDING CAREER in the HEALTH AND WELLNESS FIELD. MTTI-WellSpring is NOW ENROLLING for its accredited, hands-on programs in MASSAGE THERAPY and PERSONAL FITNESS TRAINING. 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A healthy romantic relationship will always have a strong friendship ele- ment, whereas a healthy friendship is not romantic (real sexual).
Tere are several things: 1. betrayal; 2. unfair fghting or resolution of disagreements; 3. insecurity that leads to jealousy; and, 4. absence of at- traction.
One where individual growth and development and the maintenance of self can occur in the context of a close and intimate relationship.
In most cases, yes, but third and fourth chances are usually about depen- dency and not forgiveness.
Find a trusted friend who will listen and not give advice unless asked. It is good to hear one's own voice being clear about (how) an ending was the right thing to do. WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE DIFFER- ENCE BETWEEN A FRIENDSHIP AND A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP OR IS THERE A DIFFERENCE? WHAT ARE SOME THINGS YOU THINK ARE THE MOST DESTRUCTIVE TO A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP? WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP? DO YOU BELIEVE IN GIVING SECOND CHANCES? WHEN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ENDS, WHAT SHOULD YOU DO TO VENT? AFTON BEEBE, Prairie Village senior Friendship seems to be encompassed within a romantic relationship. But friendships do not involve romance. Romance involves some type of at- traction or desire.
Lying is the worst thing you can do in a romantic relationship, or any relationship for that matter. Not only are you being untrustworthy but you are breeding resentment and guilt at the same time the recipe for breakup. People who are honest with one another, who are kind to one another but still express their opinion. Not many arguments and fun to be around.
Absolutely not, although I can see where some people would say it de- pends on the circumstances. I have made that mistake a couple of times and giving someone a second chance should be avoided.
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It sounds really cool, and set a great build that makes the album fow together very well. I like the album and feel as if I am able to display my cute, touchy-feely singer-song- writer side as per usual, but now, Ive added a very proper, bourgeoise pop sound to my ensemble. Te only thing I think is wrong with the record is that, at times, it sounds slightly over- produced but that was my producers deci- sion, not mine. Im unabashedly in love with being a really nice guy and I like long walks on the beach. If you would like to know more, play this record movie review // At frst, the meteoric rise of Juno screenwriter Diablo Cody from ex-stripper to Hollywoods reigning queen of quirk was fascinating and weirdly gratifying to observe. Although Juno itself remains an excellent movie, its box ofce success and critical acclaim paved the way for an endless supply of increas- ingly pallid imitators. But it turns out the worst Diablo Cody imita- tor may be Cody herself. Te new teen horror-comedy hodgepodge Jen- nifers Body is based on a screenplay Cody wrote during the same creative apex that spawned Juno. But Jennifers Body is the polar opposite of its distinguished predecessor. Its a bloody but un- moving bore that never lives up to its entertaining premise, which promised a gonzo-crossbreeding of Mean Girls and Te Exorcist. Seriously, how do you screw up a movie about a cannibalistic cheerleader, especially when said cheerleader is being played by international su- per-vixen Megan Fox? Te basic setup shows what might have been. Te beautiful alpha-bitch Jennifer (Fox) is the most popular girl at Devils Kettle High School, KJHKs weekly guide to sonic consumption. SONDRE LERCHE HEARTBREAK RADIO music review // After 2008s excellent album Furr, experi- mental folk rock band Blitzen Trapper has come forth with an EP that opens with Black River Killer, one of the mellower cuts from Furr. However, that song is the only repeat track; the other six numbers are unreleased cuts from the Furr recording sessions. Tough the full-length contains the supe- rior tunes for obvious reasons, these six are still fun gems from a band that has given us a great amount of quality material along their career so far. Tis EP should do well to tide us over to the bands next full release. Blitzen Trapper is coming through Lawrence on their tour. Teyll be playing Oct. 18 at the Jackpot Music Hall. // BECKY SULLIVAN KJHK production director and rotation DJ Hollywood hits, indie ficks and everything in between. REVIEW BLITZEN TRAPPER BLACK RIVER constantly surrounded by a harem of frustrat- ed male suitors and attended to at all times by her homely best friend, the aptly named Needy (Amanda Seyfried). One night, the girls go out for some under- age clubbing and Jennifer is kidnapped. After surviving a grueling satanic ritual, she turns into a bloodthirsty she-beast who preys on teenage boys to retain her youth and beauty. Now Needy faces a difcult choice: Should she kill her best friend or allow her to continue on her rampage? If Megan Fox has a repressed inner thespi- an, its the only part of her thats shes kept well concealed. Shes as fat and emotionless here as she was in that god-awful Transformers sequel. Even the best eye candy goes sour eventually. Amanda Seyfried fares a bit better as Needy, the only character Codys muddled script seems to lavish any attention on. I didnt go to Jennifers Body expecting an- other Juno. But I was expecting to see a movie of some kind, not the autopsy of a once-prom- ising career. // LANDON MCDONALD JENNIFERS BODY or call 864-4747 and ask for me. Ill be waiting. Editors note: Sondre Lerche did not actually write this review, Logan Nickels did in jest. Also, 864- 4747 is KJHKs request line. So, there you go. 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Everything else around me had disappeared. My heart was pounding while I lay on my back with my hands tightly clasped together and my jaw clenched. All of my muscles went tense and before my vision faded to black, I felt a hand gently settling onto mine. Tat was when I knew that this was going to hurt. What I didnt know was that Laser-Assisted Stromal In-situ Keratomileusis (LASIK) eye surgery was not only going to change the way I see, but the way I live my life as well. I started having problems with my sight when I was about 7 years old. Id watch PBS in the mornings and always end up seeing two Mr. Rodgers or two LeVar Burtons. When my mom noticed Id been covering one eye while watching the screen, shed ask why, and Id simply respond, I see two TVs. Shortly after, I found myself in the optometrists chair awaiting his diagnosis of farsightedness and astigmatism. In other words, my vision sucked. After I went through three pairs of glasses, I started poking soft lenses onto my eyes in the sixth grade. Te contacts were wearable but the expense was outrageous. For every years supply of contacts and doctor appointments, my parents would shell out about $600. Considering the price of LASIK about $3,600 and the price of buying contacts for the next 30 years of my life $18,000 my parents were doing me a huge favor. I moved fast before my time on my mom and dads insurance ran out and booked an appointment. I found a place I was comfortable with, went to a free consultation and then set the date for my surgery: Sept. 4, 2009. Te planning was simple and everything seemed easy and calm. But that was before I settled myself onto the operating table. When I went under the laser, my eyes were numb and I had a pill of Valium in my system, courtesy of the doctors. To check if I was sane enough for the procedure, a nurse asked me common questions. Whats your full name? Hailey Osterhaus. How are you feeling? Fine. And what are we doing for you today, Hailey? Slicing my eyeballs open! I mean, correcting my vision. Lying on my back, I clasped my hands together as the doctor lowered a circular tool onto my eye to hold it in place. While the suction ring was on my eye, the pressure was painful. I finched and the nurse quickly grasped my hands. Meanwhile, my vision slowly faded to black. Tis was when he sliced the top layer of my cornea, making a fap. Luckily, I didnt feel the slicing, but the pressure on my eyeball was almost unbearable. Twenty seconds later, my sight came back as he lifted the suction ring of of my eye. Ten I saw the red dot that was actually the point of the laser. When the doctor turned on the laser, there was a clapping noise that sounded similar to crackling fre. As the laser was reshaping my cornea, the smell of burning hair hit my nose. Te doctors said that this wasnt the smell of my eye burning but actually a fume from the laser. But I couldnt get away from the thought that the smell was fumes from the laser burning my eyes. When the doctor turned the laser of, the hinged layer of my cornea was fipped back onto the front of my eye. Te doctor gently sponged it back in place and put drops of solution into my eye. Te solution felt like a stream of cool water running over you when its the middle of summer and 100 degrees outside. After one eye was done, the doctor moved directly to my other eye, spending only 10 minutes on each of them. When he was fnished torturing me with his tools, I rose from the table and everything looked as if I were under water. When I went into the bathroom and stared into the mirror, my eyes stared back at me. Tey were dark pink and splotched with blood. It looked like I hadnt slept for months. Te only thing I could do to stand the burning pain was shut my eyes and lubricate them when they were open. But while I slept that frst night, my eyes miraculously healed. I woke up the next morning and saw clear numbers on my alarm clock. I reached for my glasses, but when I snapped out of my half-asleep stupor, I shot up in bed and gazed around my room in awe. I didnt have to look around for my glasses and I didnt have to decide if I wanted to wear contacts for the day either. I looked into the mirror and saw that my eyes were still pink but the image in the mirror was completely clear so I didnt care how I looked, just that I could see. Nearly a month after the surgery, I still fnd myself reaching up to my face to take of my glasses before I go to bed. And I still dread putting in or taking out my contacts until I remember that I dont need them anymore. But what is really great about these realizations is that I am reminded how lucky I am to receive a surgery that gave me 20/20 vision. CLEARLY AN EYE OPENING I would recommend it to every person who wears contacts and glasses. Sure the surgery is painful, but 20 minutes of pain is nothing compared to the remaining years of life free from glasses and contacts. Contributed photo Seeing a difference: Writer Hailey Osterhaus (left) shown a few months before her surgery with her roommate, Jacquelyn Meiners, recently put her years of wearing glasses and contacts behind her went she underwent LASIK surgery to correct her vision. EXPERIENCE.
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