tension with incidental touching, indifference to her reactions to physical cont act , and vague language that sets

her imagination on re . Get her invested in you withcompliance, dirty compliance and virtual compliance . With shaping you can send hersubconscious signals that you have a lot of sexual value to her. Vin DiCarlo - SCubed Notes ( Compliance) Compliance: The perception that she is wor ing for you.I need to alert you to the fact that compliance is properly rewarded through aprocess we will discuss at the end of t his wor , called shapingthe nal strategyof Vincent DiCarlo's sCubed system. Used t ogether, these two strategies willbuild attraction momentum . People want things they've earned. They value them more than the things that come easy. Compliance raises herdesir e for you dramatically, because the more wor she puts in, the bigger thereward she wants. Three inds of compliance that are relevant to sCubed: True Compliance: She does things for you. This involves getting her to do little things where she is actually putting in wor or effort to ma e you happy.1. Have her come out to meet your friends - Hey baby, why don't youcome over and meet my friends. They'd love you.2. Have her hold something - Here baby, can you hold this for onesecond? Than you.3. Have her pic something up on the way over - Sweety, on your wayover, why don't you go ahead and pic up some brownie mix--t hat way wecan have nice little treats after dinner, while we watch a movie. The b iggest problem with true compliance is her saying no. The cause of thisis usually ma ing an obvious request or a request that's too bi g and therefore not smooth. If she feels manipulated or used, that will becounterproductive. She wants to fe el helpful and important. If you can framecompliance requests this way, you'll g et very few refusals. Virtual Compliance: You role play a fantasy in which she does things for you.Virtual compliance allo ws her to vividly imagine doing things for you withoutactually doing this wor . This gets her thin ing about the roles that will bene tyou. When you get true comp liance later on, it won't seem alien. It'll all seemfamiliar. To do this, youll use a role playing frame to embed an imaginaryscenario in which she is wor ing for you. 1. Vacation -

"It's so wonderful to be here. You pac ed my clothes, ironed my shirts, and you' re ma ing me feel so special to share this time with you." 2. Old Lovers "All those love letters you've been writing me, and the allthose photographs you 've been sending have ept our relationship strongover the years." 3. Father Daughter "And since you've been a good girl, and did all of your chores, and ate your bro ccoli, we can go out and spend a special day together. If you're really good, we 'll even get ice cream!" In general if she doesn't fall into the frame , you might have heard thisbefore, but your energy is wrong . It should be noticeably playful. Otherwise it'sreally creepy. If a girl has em otional damage, just change the subject. Don't pushit!If she doesn't buy into yo ur frame and says: "What are you tal ing about?" You will say, Don't worry baby, the Doctors said you'll get the rest of your memory bac soon. It's OK--you're still my baby. If she still doesn't buy the frame: What are you tal ing about? Oh wait!Wrong girl! Sorry baby, you're my one and only. She'll usually laugh atthis. Then go to another virtual compliance frame.Lets say that when you go to escalate, she says, This is creepy, I thought you were my dad. I was idding. I can't believe you are b ringing that up at a moment li e this. You pervert. Shut your mouth. Then ma eout with her. In terms of compliance, the main problem is she doesn't do what you say . That's usually a value problem.Dirty Compliance: She does something and you frame it as if she did it for you.Dirty compliance, a side from helping prepare her for true compliance, also reinforces the perception in her mind of having invested in you. Thisma es her more loyal, and ma es it easier for her to rationalize her escalat ionswith you. You frame wor that she did for herself, as wor she did for you. In this way you're presenting her with a false reality that she's putting wor i n toget you or impress you and because it's funny, she accepts it. Now what happens when you want to go dirty with whatever comes at you ina social setting? Simply frame whatever is going on as for you. This ma eseverybody feel good while generating compliance for you! Let's say girls are singing... Wow, I didn't now there was liveentertainment down here, you guys sound great! Turning the frame intoa service for you that is simultaneously a compliment for them ma es both of you feel better. It puts them immediately into a playful stat e. Compliance ExercisesWhat are the differences between true compliance, virtual co mplianceand dirty compliance?True Compliance

 Actual compliance, she does things for you Virtual Compliance Role Playing, have her do things for you Dirty Compliance Pretend/Interpret that she does things for you Why are virtual and dirty compliance useful? Creates the perception and frame of her investing in you, without her actuallyin vesting in youpreps her for actual compliance. What's another example of dirty compliance? Baby, you didn't have to get all dressed up just for me.Sweety, you didn't have to clean up your entire house just for me. List 3 things you could say to create virtual compliance in the followingrole-pl aying scenarios:Old lovers reuniting: 1."All those love letters you've been writing me, and the all those photographs you've been sending have ept our relationshipstrong over the years." 2.Baby, remember that gift you got me for our anniversaryI really loved it, it got me thin ing 3.That money you helped put into my business has really helped me outIl ove how youre so supportive of my lifestyle. Daddy / Daughter: 1."And since you've been a good girl, and did all of your chores, and ate your b roccoli, we can go out and spend a special day together. If you're really good, we'll even get ice cream!" 2.Hey honey, daddy is gonna be gone for a while but Ill be bac I promise. 3.Dont worry honey; daddy is here to protect you