Get in the habit Paradigms and Principles Paradigms of self Paradigms of others Friend-Centered Suff-Centered Boyfriend/Girlfriend-Centered School-Centered Parent-Centered

Others Possible Centres Principles Never Fail Principle-Centered Weekend work Balance is better Take time for a time-out Caring for Your Body You are what you eat Use it or lose it It's all about how you feel. not how you look I can quit whenever I want Ask questions Name the trouble State the consequences Suggest an alternative Take off Caring for you brain The key to unlocking your future Sharpen your mind Find your niche Don't let school get in the way of your education Post school educational options Mental barriers You gotta wanna Caring for your heart How to feed you soul Getting back to nature A teenager's best friend Your spiritual diet You're disturbing my sleep Fried frogs Get real Synergy is everywhere Shunner's Profile Tolerator's Profile Celebrator's Profile We see differently We have different styles, traits & characteristics Ignorance Cliques Prejudice Sticking up for diversity Finding the "High" Way Getting to synergy Define the problem or opportunity Their way My way Brainstorm High way Teamwork and Synergy The deepest need of the human heart Spacing out Pretend listening Selective listening Word listening Self-centered listening Eyes Heart Ears Stand in their shoes Practise mirroring Communicating with parents Then seek to be understood Genuine Listening The fruits of Win-Win spirit Five poor listening styles Win-Lose - The totem pole Lose-Win - The doormat Lose-Lose - The downward spiral Win-Win The all you can eat Buffet Win the private victory How to think Win-Win Ovoid the tumour twins Competing Comparing Action Plan Roadblocks to celebrating differences Plan weekly We are all a minority of one Celebrate your one diversity The Time Quadrants Celebrating differences Caring for your soul Three watch-outs Getting started on your mission statement The crossroads of life The refusal skill Human tools in action What It Means Friends ? Sex ? School ? Who's in the lead ? Just push pause Paradigms of life Proactive or Reactive... the Choice Is Yours Listen to your language The victimitis virus It pays to be proactive We can control only one thing Turning setbacks into triumphs Rising above abuse Becoming a change agent Growing your proactive muscles Can-Do Self-Awareness Conscience Imagination Willpower

The Set-up

Be Proactive

Sharpen the saw

A personal mission statement Uncovering your talents The great discovery The Quote Collection The Brain Dump The Retreat The Big Lazy Negative Labels It's All Over' Syndrome Wrong Wall Count the cost Put it in pen Go for the goal Just do it Use momentous moments Rope up Turning weaknesses into strenghts Make Your Life Extraordinary Packing more into your life The Procrastinator The Prioritizer The Yes-Man The Slacker Big Rocks Pebbles

Begin with the End in Mind

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Muslims

Synergize

Pick up a planner

Put First Things First

The other half

Adapt daily The comfort zone and the courge zone Never let your fears make your decisions Winnin means rising each time you fall Be strong in the hard moments Overcoming peer pressure The common ingredient of success

Think Win-Win

Seek First to Understood, Then to Be Understand

Watch how it makes you feel

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