Woman 2.0: Hey Girl, Its Time To Rebel !!

Woman 2.
0
Hey girl , it's time to rebel !!
1 | Pages on the journey to becoming a Woman 2.0
Rohas Nagpal
Dedicated to all the lovely ladies who have shaped my life - for better or for worse. I owe you.
Woman 2.0 She is not afraid of men, she knows how to twist them around her little finger. She knows when to follow the rules and when to bend them. She is not afraid to explore and experiment with her sexuality. She knows which secrets to keep from her parents, her friends and even her husband or boy friend. She knows when to obey and when to rebel. Woman 2.0 - she knows what she wants and can fight to get it.
A comma can change your life
Woman without her man, is nothing. Woman, without her, man is nothing. Got the difference? The only difference between the two sentences is a comma. But the meanings are poles apart. The first sentence implies that a woman is nothing without man. The second implies that a man is nothing without a woman. Looks at the sentences again. The first one reflects an average woman, who thinks she is nothing without the man in her life (father, brother, boyfriend, husband or son). The second one reflects a woman 2.0, someone who knows that a man is nothing without her. One tiny comma and such a radical change! Sort of like the butterfly effect. According to this scientific theory, tiny changes in atmospheric conditions could result in massive climatic variation - a butterfly flapping its wings in an Indian forest could cause a hurricane in USA. This book is a tribute to the butterfly effect. Its full of tiny wing-flaps that WILL help you evolve into a woman 2.0 using practical, simple and effective ideas.
Read this book with an open mind, try out the Think & Do sections and I guarantee that you will be on your way to evolving into a woman 2.0 in 13 weeks or less. And if you do, remember to buy me a coffee. And if you don't, I will buy you two :-)
Who wrote this book? I am Rohas Nagpal, more popularly called D (because I love the number 13 and in hexadecimal 13 is represented by the letter D). Born into a military family, I studied across many parts of India. I did a lot of random, but cool, stuff in life (including working as a crime reporter for a leading newspaper) before I combined my passion for law and computers and co-founded Asian School of Cyber Laws.
I am a lawyer by qualification, a cyber crime investigator by profession, a hacker at heart and a programmer by passion. I am also a son, a brother, a husband a father and a man who likes women. I have written dozens of books in the fields of law, technology, cyber crime investigation et al but had always dreamed of writing a book on the most enigmatic subject woman. I have had the good fortune of always being surrounded by strong women my grandmother, mother, sister, girlfriends, wife, mother-in-law, many many colleagues, two daughters and a niece! These women have the courage to take life head-on and never give up. But I have also seen so many women giving up their dreams. Giving in to the repression, oppression and resulting depression. Giving in to unfair parents, overbearing brothers, cruel in-laws, weak husbands, insecure boyfriends and a hostile social system. I wrote this book over 39 non-stop hours, but its the result of 39 years of experiencing the power and love of women. While reading some parts of this book, you may suddenly think I am already better than this. Thats great, but give
me some time to make my complete pitch. Give the whole book a chance. You may get the impression that I dont want women to remain nice. That I want women to become manipulative and selfish. Well, if you are oppressed and repressed, being nice isnt a choice, its compulsion. But once you rebel, break free and are living life on your terms, then you can choose to be nice. This book is a call to rebellion. Hey girl, its time to rebel against oppression, against repression, and most of all, against yourself.
Hey girl..
..its time to rebel !!

What's in the book?
Theme 1- Tackle your weaknesses 1. Financial dependence on men - of fathers, brothers, boyfriends and husbands 2. The emotional roller coaster of mood swings and why nature makes the female of a species more emotional than the male 3. Its called making love, not having sex of sex being an emotional and not physical act for women 4. Hey woman, you are your own worst enemy - of the girl child, of mothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, of jealousy and insecurity and of women living together 5. Dude, wheres your approval? of a womans constant need for a mans approval 6. Shes hot, after all she is a Scorpio of taking sun signs too seriously 7. I hate poker of what's in your head (or heart) showing on your face 8. Its not always noble to sacrifice of why everyone should not try to be Mother Teresa
Theme 2 - Magnify your strengths 1. Cry more the power of the strongest water force known to humans 2. My mommy is the strongest how to multi-task like a mother 3. Pain, sweet pain of a womans awesome ability to handle pain 4. A blink is all it takes hone your instinct 5. Mirror, mirror on the wall - flaunt your beauty
Theme 3 - Conquer your threats 1. Tough nuts to crack of jailers, unfair parents and insecure men 2. Love in the time of recession - the hidden cost of romance and marriage
Theme 4 - Explore your opportunities 1. Business at the speed of thought awesome opportunities in cyberspace 2. Boyles law of women and high-pressure jobs 3. Serendipity the role of randomness in our lives
Theme 5 - Of boys and men 1. Hey mom, I forgot to grow up why most boys dont grow up to become men and How a boy GROWS UP to be a man (Generous, Responsible, Organized, Wild, Secure, Unpredictable, Paternal) 2. The bro code of the secret code of conduct for guys 3. Do men love women who love women? of the strange fascination guys have for girl on girl action 4. Its called having sex, not making love of sex being a physical and not emotional act for guys 5. The lure of the damsel in distress of guys and their attraction to the babe in the woods 6. The male ego - of penis sizes, alcohol limits and sexual bravado
7. Please be impressed of a boys need to impress everything in skirts and of his fear of strong women 8. Economics 101- of the law of demand and supply in human relationships 9. The thrill is in the chase of the hunters instinct
Theme 6 - Strange but true 1. Why women check out other women 2. Tales of women and their shoes 3. Beautiful women have it tough. Really! 4. Why women drive the way they do 5. Really, really, really dangerous questions 6. Can women keep secrets?
Theme 7 - Your BACKPACK on the journey to becoming woman 2.0
Body FEEL GOOD about your body Food, Exercise,

Energy, Lingerie, Grooming, Odour, Orgasms, Dressing
Attitude have an ORANGE attitude think Out-of-thebox, Respond not react, be Ambitious, learn to say No, be Gutsy, handle your Emotions
Communication skills C5 (correct, clear, concise,

creative, customised) approach to your communications POSTER
Knowledge know-how, news, organisation behaviour,

work, law, economy, digital, general knowledge, environment
People skills of tact and diplomacy, of social roads,

rivers and bridges
Action it is better to have tried and failed than not to

have tried at all
Cash- earn smart, invest smarter and spend smartest Kraziness - do something krazee everyday
What next? 1. Spend 13 minutes a day carrying your BACK PACK 2. Flaunt your mood 3. Tackle a weakness 4. Magnify a strength 5. Conquer a threat 6. Explore an opportunity 7. Get over a fear
Tackle your weaknesses
1. Financial dependence on men

Of fathers, brothers, boyfriends and husbands
Boys are brought up with the belief that some day they have to head a family so they need to be financially independent. Girls are brought up with the belief that they will move from their fathers family to their husbands family. So they really have no need to be financially independent. So is it any surprise that many women rely on men (father, brother, boyfriend or husband) for financial stability? This conspiracy is very deep-rooted. A bright young girl I know wanted to pursue computer engineering after school. But her mother felt that there was no point in spending so much on her education. Why spend so much on her education when we are going to marry her off anyway? Let her study commerce or some cheap course. Lets spend on our sons education instead.
Without professional education, the girl would have remained financially dependent first on her father and then on her husband. Maybe in due time she would have used this same logic to deny her own daughter a good education. Fortunately, in this case, the girls father prevailed. The young girl went on to study computer engineering and is today an excellent programmer in a top-notch web company. With just a couple of years work experience, she, today, already earns more than her father! Yes, today she is financially independent. But there are thousands of girls out there whose parents deny them a good education because after all, we are going to marry her off!
Think & Do
If you are not financially independent, Make a workable plan to become financially independent. Discuss this plan with someone you trust. Make sure it is realistic. (Theme 5 of this book may be of help in this.) List the skill sets you need to implement your plan. Work on achieving these skills soon. List the people who could be of help to you in making this plan a success. Ask them for help. List people who will be obstacles. Figure out how to handle these people. If you are already financially independent, List the people who could threaten your financial independence. Plan on how you will handle them. List the events that could threaten your financial independence. Plan on how you will handle them (Insurance, more education, better investments...) Help at least one woman a year to plan her financial independence.
2. The emotional roller coaster

Of mood swings and why nature makes the female of a species more emotional than the male
Every woman I know experiences mood swings. Lots of them. And not just during that time of the month. People who have pets seem to think that the female of the species (dogs, cats, rabbits, horses, even pythons!) is more prone to mood swings than the male. I guess its the hormones. Since the female bears and nurtures the off-spring, she must be endowed with a lot of special hormones. The problem arises when the mood rules the woman rather than the woman ruling the mood. Men usually do not understand random mood swings and quickly conclude that the woman is unprofessional or arrogant or just weird! Often, genuine issues raised by an emotional woman are brushed off as hormones at work! Strangely, women dont understand womens mood swings!
Think & Do
Ask yourself if you have mood swings Ask this question of guys you trust Ask this question of women you trust Work on hiding your moods from the world
Keep your mood swings private
3. Its called making love, not having sex

Of sex being an emotional and not physical act for women
For most women, sex is more of an emotional act, rather than a physical act. When a woman allows a man to touch her, she allows him into her mind, not just into her body. And this is where the problem begins. Men know this. Many of them use this to control and manipulate women! I know this flies contrary to popular belief that men are more sex-driven then women. After all isnt it believed that most historic wars were fought over women? My observations in life have been very different. I believe that for most men, sex is about fun, pleasure and a sense of achievement. While for most women, sex is about love, bonding and attachment. Some time ago I conducted an informal thoughtexperiment. I asked a group of people what were the 3 most important factors for a sexual encounter to be considered awesome.
The ladies said: 1. It should be with someone I love or at least deeply care for 2. It should be in a romantic setting (with lovely scented candles, red silk bed sheets etc etc) 3. It should be followed by cuddling or a soak in a hot tub Most of the guys said: 1. Hot woman 2. Hot woman 3. Hot woman I know my informal thought experiment does not qualify as scientific proof, but youve got to admit there is a lot of truth in it. Another thought experiment goes like this. During sex, the man asks the woman questions like what is 13 times 7 or how tall are you or even what is your full name. The woman usually takes a long time to answer. Men usually perform better on this test, because most women are too involved in the love making to remember to ask the questions!
Think & Do
Is sex a physical or emotional act for you? Is sex a physical or emotional act for your partner? Does having sex with someone make you more emotionally dependent on that person? Is your partner using sex to control or manipulate you? Is sex with your partner emotionally satisfying for you? physically and
4. Hey woman, you are your own worst enemy

Of the girl child, of mothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, of jealousy and insecurity and of women living together
I will admit it, this has me totally stumped! Why is a woman the worst enemy of a woman? In many communities, when a girl is born, why is the mother or grandmother so unhappy? Why do most mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law hate each other so much? The proof is in the success of Hindi television serials and English movies based on this theme. Is the mother-in-law insecure that the daughter-in-law will replace her in the sons life? Why doesnt friendship between two women last very long? Why does jealousy and insecurity turn a woman against her female friends? My grandmother used to say that a dozen men can live peacefully together, but two women can never share a kitchen! Is this true? Think about it. I dont have an answer to this, but at least I know its a major weakness that women need to work on.
Think & Do
Think about your relationship with the women in your life your mother, sister, daughter, friends, in-laws, grandmother etc etc Are all these relationships the way you would really want them to be? What can you do to make these relationships work out the way they ideally should?
5. Dude, wheres your approval?

Of a womans constant need for a mans approval
Even some of the most successful women I know ultimately need a guys approval whether from their father, brother, boyfriend, husband or friend. A hundred women could say you are looking great, but do you believe it? No. You need a man to say it. Could it be because women simply dont trust other women? Or that a mans opinion counts more for them? I quote another informal thought-experiment that a notso-handsome friend of mine helped me carry out some years ago. We came across this extremely beautiful confident-looking, well dressed young woman shopping for a skirt with a bunch of her equally fashion-conscious girl friends. She tried on this great skirt that made her look even more awesome. All her friends oohed and aahed and told her
how gorgeous she was looking. The smile on her face showed how much she liked the skirt. My friend kept looking at her till she caught his gaze. He then crinkled his nose and shook his head to indicate that he did not like the skirt. No prizes for guessing what happened next. She did not buy the skirt !! Why did this beautiful woman reject her own feelings on the skirt? And those of her friends? And that too for a stranger a not so good looking man with a silly sense of fashion.
Think & Do
Whose approval do you value more the men in your life, or the women in your life? List the men whose approval matters to you. Are these men better than you in terms of taste, achievements, intelligence etc? Now make a list of people whose approval should actually matter to you not because of their gender but because you can look up to them.
You are special. Believe it. You dont need a man to tell you that.
6. Shes hot, after all she is a Scorpio

Of taking sun signs too seriously
Who doesnt occasionally peek at the horoscope column in the newspaper or magazines? Most of us do. Its fun, right? But should we start judging people based on their sunsigns? Think about it can the worlds multi-billion population be divided into 12 compartments based on a date of birth? Do you honestly believe that every Scorpio woman is exceptionally beautiful, mysterious and totally magnetic and has beautiful, penetrating eyes? Or that every Gemini woman has a dual nature. Or that every Leo woman is the centre of attraction? Thats actually a greeting card companys way of selling stuff to you. Dont let sun signs cloud your judgement of people.
7. I hate poker
Of what's in your head (or heart) showing on your face
Poker is an interesting card game in which your ability to read your opponents facial expressions (even microexpressions) is as important as your cards. In life it helps to keep a poker face so that people cant figure out whats going on inside your head (or heart). Try keeping a poker face the next time you are bargaining with a hawker, or even negotiating at work.
Dont let your face betray your emotions.

8. Its not always noble to sacrifice

Of why everyone should not try to be Mother Teresa
Is it good to sacrifice? Most women must think so. Why else would they sacrifice so much for their parents, boyfriends, husbands, in-laws and children? But at the end of the day is it really worth it? Does anyone really appreciate it? Or do they simply take you for granted? I once worked with this really bright young woman from a small town in north India. She worked really hard to become an engineer and landed a dream job in Mumbai. She loved her work and her new found independence. Then one fine day her parents decided that she should give up her job and return home to get married. She cried, she pleaded. She said she was just beginning to make a mark professionally and did not want to give it all up. Her parents said they would come down to her office and forcibly take her back!
I dont know how her life is going to turn out. I wish her all the best. But shouldnt she be allowed to decide whats right for her? With the notable exception of one person (hats off to you Rahul), I have never come across a man who gives up his career for the family. Thats always the womens responsibility. Why?
Think & Do
List the times when you have sacrificed for your friends and family. Did they appreciate it? How did that make you feel? List the people who take you for granted. How does that make you feel? What are you going to do about it?
Why must a woman always choose between career and a family?
Why is a man never asked to make this choice?

Magnify your strengths
Theme 2 - Magnify your strengths 1. Cry more the power of the strongest water force known to humans 2. My mommy is the strongest how to multi-task like a mother 3. Pain, sweet pain of a womans awesome ability to handle pain 4. A blink is all it takes hone your instinct 5. Mirror, mirror on the wall - flaunt your beauty
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1. Cry more
The power of the strongest water force known to humans
Scientists believe that crying is good for us. It lowers stress levels and makes the body release endorphins (which makes us feel good). Tears kill germs in the eyes. They also lubricate the eyes. Crying is a great way to overcome emotional pain. Women know this, so they cry. Men dont know this, so they dont. So, go on. Cry more. But, dont let them see you cry.
Think & Do
When was the last time you cried? How did it make you feel? Do you feel better when you cry alone or when you cry with someone you trust? Is there any man you are comfortable crying in front of? How do the men in your life (father, brother, boyfriend, husband, close friends) react to your crying? Do they think its emotional blackmail? Attention seeking? Or emotional healing?
2. My mommy is the strongest

How to multi-task like a mother
In the 1990s, some scientists believed that the corpus callosum (nerve connections between the right and left halves of the brain) is more highly developed in womens brains than in mens. Since these nerve connections allow easier flow of information between the two halves of the brain, women were scientifically more capable of multi-tasking than men. Subsequent research disproved this hypothesis. There may be no scientific evidence to this, but women can really multi-task very well. Look at any mother. Thats evidence enough! Take this strength to your workplace too.
Think & Do
Are you a good at multi-tasking? Or do you prefer to concentrate on one task at a time? Look at the people around you at home and at work or college. How many of them are good at multi-tasking? Can you learn something from them?
You think computers multi-task?
You havent seen a working mom!
3. Pain, sweet pain

Of a womans awesome ability to handle pain
Maybe its natures way of preparing them for child-birth, but women seem to be able to handle pain much better than men physical as well as non-physical. To a casual observer, things may seem the opposite. After a bad break-up how does a woman react tears, depression and ice cream? How does a man react drinking and partying? But scratch beneath the surface and you realize the truth. The man is trying to forget the emotional pain by drowning it in alcohol and loud music. The woman is dealing with it. A few weeks (or months) down the line, the woman will be over it. The man will probably never get over it. Ever. But will he admit it? No. A womans ability to handle pain physical and emotional, is one of her greatest strengths.
Think & Do
List the times that you experienced strong emotional pain. How did you deal with it? Which method was the most effective? List the times that you experienced strong physical pain. How did you deal with it? Which method was the most effective? How do the men you know deal with pain? How do the women you know deal with pain? Whose methods are more effective?
4. A blink is all it takes

Hone your instinct
Malcolm Gladwells book Blink makes a compelling case for trusting your instinct to make a snap judgement when you know something without knowing why. And herein lies a great strength. Women seem to have a stronger developed intuition as compared to men. I know its a clich, but thats why its called womens intuition. I know its true but I dont know why. So go ahead, blink through life!
Think & Do
List the times that your snap judgement or instinct about people and things has been correct. List the times that your snap judgement or instinct about people and things has been incorrect. Of all the people you know, whose snap judgements or instincts do you trust the most? Why?
Its a scary world..
..trust your instincts.

5. Mirror, mirror on the wall

Flaunt your beauty
Beautiful women can get a lot of stuff for free. Whether its free popcorn at the movies, an extra helping of desert at an expensive restaurant or a complimentary upgrade to business class on a long flight. Or even getting a guy to complete your college assignments. All they have to know is how to ask the man concerned. Look into his eyes and ask him sweetly. Sometimes you need to flirt harmlessly for a few seconds. And thats it! Is it wrong? I dont think so. Is it wrong to use your intelligence to get free stuff? No. So why is it wrong to use your looks to get free stuff? And its not as if men dont do this. Men can charm their way to a lot of free stuff from women too. So go ahead, use your looks to get free stuff.
You are beautiful.
Flaunt your beauty.
Think & Do
Have you ever used your charms and good looks to get free stuff? What kinds of men give out free stuff in exchange for a smile or some harmless flirting? What kinds of men dont give out free stuff in exchange for a smile or some harmless flirting? List the techniques you have used to get free stuff. Ask your friends what techniques they have used to get free stuff.
Conquer your threats
Theme 3 - Conquer your threats 1. Tough nuts to crack of jailers, unfair parents and insecure men 2. Love in the time of recession - the hidden cost of romance and marriage
1. Tough nuts to crack

Of jailers, unfair parents and insecure men
For most women, the biggest threats are: Jailers. These are the insecure boys who feel the need to control every breath of the woman in their life. Dont wear this. Dont talk to him. For jailers, the woman is a prisoner and they are the self-appointed prison guards. I feel sad for the women in such jails, but I dont pity them. Its the womans fault. Why does she tolerate it? Why does she not rebel? If your boyfriend asks you not to wear sexy clothes in public, what should you change your clothes or your boyfriend? Unfair parents. These are the parents who deprive the daughter to squander on the son. They would forgive their son any sin, but consider the daughters most minor transgression to be a blot on the family name! In this case I feel both sadness and pity for the woman. After all, how can she rebel against her parents? Or can she? Should she?
If your boyfriend asks you not to wear sexy clothes in public, what should you change your clothes or your boyfriend?
Insecure men. This is the husband who cant tolerate his wife earning more than him, or being more successful than him. Its as if your success makes him less of a man! If you are stuck in a relationship with an insecure man, RUN! He is not going to succeed and he is definitely not going to let you succeed.
Think & Do
Is your father unfair to you? In what ways? Can you talk to him about this? Will he change? If not, can you rebel? Is your mother unfair to you? In what ways? Can you talk to her about this? Will she change? If not, can you rebel? Are your in-laws unfair to you? In what ways? Can you talk to them about this? Will they change? If not, can you rebel? Are you in a relationship with a jailer? Can you talk to him about this? Will he change? If not, can you rebel? Are you married to an insecure man? Can you talk to him about this? Will he change? If not, can you rebel?
2. Love in the time of recession

The hidden cost of romance and marriage
Marriage is expensive. Very expensive. And I dont mean the money you are going to spend on the invitation cards, the clothes, the actual ceremony, the parties before and after the ceremonies, the gifts to relatives (many of whom you dont even like) or the honeymoon. I mean the hidden opportunity costs. The cost of having to give up your career. The cost of giving up your dreams. A lot of my friends are lawyers. And they all say the same thing divorce cases are going up in numbers every day. Look around you. Do you notice the same trend? Why are so many marriages breaking up? You need to pass a driving test to get a drivers license. But there is no test you need to pass before you get married. Or before you become a parent. And that may be the problem.
A lot of people get married because thats the acceptable / expected thing to do after a certain age. You get married and then you have children. Simple isnt it? Not any more. Marriage as a concept probably started off to make it easy to pass on property from one generation to another. Or maybe as a way for a man to display his possession of a particular woman. Did you know that under the legal principle known as "coverture", married women could not own property? Or sign legal documents. Or even get educated if her husband did not permit it. If she were permitted to work, then under the law, she had to hand over her salary to her husband. Marriage basically implied that the woman was now no longer the property of her father. She was now the property of her husband! Does the phrase kanyadaan or gift of a virgin strike a bell? Its used during marriage ceremonies in a lot of South Asian communities. Putting this in a modern perspective makes one realize that maybe the age-old approach to marriage needs to be questioned.
Marriages are no longer made in heaven nor do they last till death do us part. Marriages are no longer about the father donating a virgin to the groom. Marriages are now about two individuals, equal in all rights, who want to share a life. And who realize that compromise should be equal on both sides. Till both parties to the marriage understand this, its just going to be good news for divorce lawyers.
Think & Do
If you are married Ask yourself why you got married. Was it because thats what you were supposed to do? Or did you have specific reasons for doing so? Are you in a happy marriage? Are you in an unhappy marriage? If yes, can you make it a happy marriage? If not, can you rebel?
If you are not married Ask yourself whether you have specific reasons for getting married. Whats your understanding of a happy marriage?
Exploring your opportunities
Theme 4 - Exploring your opportunities 1. Business at the speed of thought awesome opportunities in online business, sales & marketing and creative avenues 2. Boyles law of women and high-pressure jobs 3. Serendipity the role of randomness in our lives
1. Business at the speed of thought

Awesome opportunities in cyberspace
I love technology. Not for what it is, but for how it can enrich my life. Some years ago I read about virtual reality headsets that enable you to learn the salsa, without a human teacher! I am waiting for the day when virtual reality will enable me to travel to the farthest corners of the world, without leaving my home. Cyberspace is making the world a safer place for women to work in. Many women no longer have to worry about crazy work timings or having to undertake a dangerous commute to work. Technology enables them to work from home. Can cyberspace work for you? I have put together a short list of career opportunities that women can easily pursue in cyberspace. Most of these opportunities require minimal financial investment
and can help you make a lot of money while working from home (or from a coffee shop, if you prefer) Mobile app development The unbelievably crazy growth of smart phones has led to a huge demand for mobile app developers on various platforms including iOS, Windows Mobile, BlackBerry and Android. Website Design Every time you see an ugly or badly designed website, you can see an opportunity for a web designer. With so many templates available, all you need is a little knowledge of HTML, CSS and PHP and you are good to go. Online Reputation Management A lot of people and companies are paying top dollar to monitor what is being said about them online. Content Creation You can publish and sell your book online, get paid to write blogs and maintain facebook pages. Digital Forensic Investigation Whether its a cheating husband or a scheming employee, a lot of evidence is found in cell phones and laptops. The day is not far when every neighbourhood will have a forensic investigator who can recover cyber evidence from digital devices.
Teach Online The spread of online conferencing tools makes it easy for teachers to cater to a global audience all from the comfort of their homes. Online marketing and brand building More and more businesses are realizing the power of social networks. This is the perfect time to get into online marketing and brand building.
Think & Do
Can cyberspace or technology enable you to make more money in your current line of work? If yes, how? If not, can you change your line of work? What skill sets do you have that can be commercialized online? How can you acquire more skills?
You get just one shot at life
dont waste it doing stuff you dont love.
2. Boyles law
Of women and high-pressure jobs
I have worked with a lot of people. In a lot of fields. As a general rule, I have found that most women can handle high-pressure situations better than most men. This is because they are more focussed, have higher concentration levels and are less distracted. They also tend to get a lot less flustered. Raising a bunch of naughty children is a very high-pressure job and women seem to do it so easily. You just have to realize that you have an inborn ability to tackle tough situations. Carry that realization to your workplace. Men on the other hand tend to get distracted very easily. Maybe its all the testosterone gone mad!
Think & Do
Are you good scenarios? at handling high-pressure
Look at the people around you at home and at work or college. How many of them are good at handling pressure? Can you learn something from them?
3. Serendipity
The role of randomness in our lives
Look back upon the important events and turning points in your life choosing a career, landing your first job, meeting someone who changed your life, picking up a book that redefined you, making a killing on the stock market or in a casino. How much of a role did chance or luck play in it? Ancient scriptures ask you to do your duty and not worry about the results. Maybe the results are not under your control. But the efforts are. So do your best and let randomness do the rest. You could read Fooled by Randomness, an excellent book by Nassim Nicholas Taleb on this.
Think & Do
List the important events that have shaped and defined your life. Did you plan these events or were they random? Do you consider yourself lucky? Why? Are you always prepared to meet random opportunity?
Do a complete SWOT analysis. Every year on your birthday.
Of boys and men
Theme 5 - Of boys and men 1. Hey mom, I forgot to grow up why most boys dont grow up to become men and How a boy GROWS UP to be a man (Generous, Responsible, Organized, Wild, Secure, Unpredictable, Paternal) 2. The bro code of the secret code of conduct for guys 3. Do men love women who love women? of the strange fascination guys have for girl on girl action 4. Its called having sex, not making love of sex being a physical and not emotional act for guys 5. The lure of the damsel in distress of guys and their attraction to the babe in the woods 6. The male ego - of penis sizes, alcohol limits and sexual bravado 7. Please be impressed of a boys need to impress everything in skirts and of his fear of strong women 8. Economics 101- of the law of demand and supply in human relationships 9. The thrill is in the chase - the hunters instinct
The complex mind of the male homo sapien
1. Hey mom, I forgot to grow up

Why most boys dont grow up to become men and how a boy GROWS UP to become a man (Generous, Responsible, Organized, Wild, Secure, Unpredictable, Paternal)
Almost without exception, girls grow into women latest by the time they hit their teens. Women are generally mature, responsible, organized and fairly unpredictable. For boys on the other hand, things are a little different. Most of them remain boys even at 30. Or 40. Or 50. Or forever. Boys are generally immature, insecure, irresponsible, disorganized and very predictable. A boy GROWS UP to become a man, when he becomes: Generous. Not just with his money, but more importantly with his time. A man spends more time with his family rather than his friends. Responsible. A man is always ready to take up and handle responsibility personally and professionally. And when things go wrong, he does not pass on the blame, he takes responsibility.
Organized. A mans personal and professional life is well organized. Wild. Men are born to be wild. The modern world may have domesticated men a bit, but deep at heart every man is wild. SECURE. A man lets his girlfriend or wife wear what she wants because he is not insecure that she is going to run off with someone else. A man is not uncomfortable around strong and successful women because he is secure about his own strengths and accomplishments. And a man is never insecure if this wife makes more money than him. Unpredictable. Its very difficult to predict how a man is going to react to a particular situation. Paternal. A man takes very good care of children. And his wife.
Think & Do
Is your father a boy or a man? Why? Is your boyfriend / husband a boy or a man? Why? Is your brother a boy or a man? Why? Are your close male friends boys or men? Why?
2. The bro code

Of the secret code of conduct for guys
In recent times, the bro code has been popularized by the American sitcom How I met your mother. But its been around for a really long time. A guys close guy friend is a bro or a brother from another mother. Some of the inviolable commandments of the bro code are 1. If you catch a bro cheating on his girlfriend, you say nothing to anyone. 2. If you catch a bro cheating on his wife, you say nothing to anyone. You may advise the cheating bro to be more careful next time so he does not get caught. 3. You never ever go out with a bros girlfriend or wife. 4. You never ever go out with a bros ex-girlfriend or exwife. 5. If a bro likes a girl, it is your lifes most important mission to help him get her.
6. You never criticise a bro in front of anyone. Exception to this rule is if you are drunk and there are no women around. 7. If a bro gets into a fight, you will fight for him, even if the whole thing is his fault. 8. If someone insults a bro, you will beat the person up, even if the whole thing is the bros fault. 9. The bro code can be safely abandoned, if there is a girl involved, whose rating is at least 9 out of 10. 10. You will forgive a bro who abandons the bro code as per Rule 9.
3. Do men love women who love women?

Of the strange fascination guys have for girl on girl action
Almost every straight guy I have spoken to says his biggest fantasy is to make out with a couple of girls at the same time. In India this is referred to as 1722 (for the Hindi phrase ek saat do do implying two at the same time). Since most guys are not fortunate enough to live this fantasy, they make do with the next best alternative watch lesbian porn. This fantasy seems to extend to almost every guy boy or man and irrespective of which country he belongs to. Do I also have this fantasy? No comments!
4. Its called having sex, not making love

Of sex being a physical and not emotional act for guys
For guys, sex is just sex. Deal with it.
5. The lure of the damsel in distress

Of guys and their attraction to the babe in the woods
There probably isnt a guy in the world that can resist the urge to help a damsel in distress. So, if you bat your eyelashes and look lost, you can bet that a hundred guys are going to queue up to help you!
6. The male ego

Of penis sizes, alcohol limits and sexual bravado
Some of the building blocks of the fragile male ego are: 1. Penis size this is mostly speculation and based on rumour since most guys have not seen each other that well. But if a woman was to say a man is well endowed, well he rules! The easiest way to crush a mans ego is to say something unflattering about his manhood. A few words and you can break him for life. Unless, of course, he is man enough to be secure about it! 2. Alcohol limits amongst a lot of guys, the more alcohol you can handle, the more of a man you are. Its not uncommon to hear guys boast about how many pegs they can have without getting drunk. 3. Performance in bed Most guys claim to be exceptional in bed. You need to get the true story from their women. 4. Hotness of his girlfriend the hotter the girlfriend, the more respected he is amongst his friends. Here, quantity pips quality. Two average girlfriends at the same time is more prestigious than one hot girlfriend.
7. Please be impressed
Of a boys need to impress everything in skirts and of his fear of strong women
One of the most basic instincts of a boy is to impress everything in skirts. If he drives rashly, its because he thinks it will impress you. If he plays really really loud music in his car, its because he thinks it will impress you. If he stalks you, its because he thinks it will impress you. To be fair, it works in a lot of Hindi movies! If he gets into fistfights in public, its because he thinks it will impress you. If he ridicules you in public its because he thinks it will impress you. This ones a little twisted. He thinks you will get insecure and then come to him for help!
8. Economics 101
Of the law of demand and supply in human relationships
The law of demand and supply basically states that if the demand for something is more than the supply, the price will go up. Conversely if the supply of something is more than the demand, the price will come down. Its simple and its true. In economics and in human relations. Think about it.
9. The thrill is in the chase

Of the hunters instinct
For millions of years, man has been a hunter. He hunted wild animals for food. Then he hunted them for sport. Millions of years of the hunting instinct are not going to go away soon. This instinct extends to the chase for women. Most of the thrill is in the chase. Once he gets the woman, a lot of the thrill is lost. I am not saying that all men are like this. And I am not saying that all men are not like this. I would rather just quote an example. Once upon a time a man named Hugh Grant was married to one of the most beautiful women in the world Elizabeth Hurley. Whilst married to one of the most beautiful women in the world, this man was caught receiving oral sex from Divine Brown, a rather unattractive sex worker. Go figure!
Strange but true
Theme 6 - Strange but true 1. Why women check out other women 2. Tales of women and their shoes 3. Beautiful women have it tough. Really! 4. Why women drive the way they do 5. Really, really, really dangerous questions 6. Can women keep secrets?
1. Why women check out other women

Depending upon whom you ask, when a woman checks out another woman, these are some of the things she is thinking about: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Is she better looking than I am? Does she have a better figure than me? Would my guy find her more attractive than me? Are her shoes better than mine? Are her clothes better than mine? In what way am I better than she is? Is she a threat to me?
All this in two seconds or less!
2. Tales of women and their shoes

Not many may remember Imelda Marcos, the wife of disgraced Filipino President Ferdinand Marcos. Well, she had nearly 3,000 pairs of shoes. As a man, if you know a lot of women or if you have seen almost any episode of Sex and the City, you cant help but wonder what is it with women and shoes? Some say women love shoes because they make them feel sexy. Some say its because it is one fashion accessory that you feel least guilty about buying because a pair of shoes can be worn more times than any single piece of clothing. Still others say its because heels make a woman look taller then she actually is. And it makes her stand with a better posture and that makes her look sexier. Some say a great pair of shoes can make any dress come alive. A neuroscience research paper titled The Brain in Love even provides scientific logic for why shoes are erotic.
All I can say is, if you want to gift a woman something she is most likely to love, gift her a gift coupon to her favourite shoe store. Warning dont actually buy shoes for her. You will never get it right!
3. Beautiful women have it tough. Really!

Its easy for women to envy beautiful women. But, beautiful women have it tough. Really! This very attractive woman I know had a really tough time in college. When a not-so-good-looking girl topped the class, everyone would say Wow, she is so intelligent. But when the attractive one would top, her classmates would say You got the marks because the professors find you attractive! Ironically, she always scored higher marks in external papers (evaluated by examiners who had never seen her) as compared to internal papers! But that did nothing to convince anyone that maybe she topped because of her brains and not her looks. Things dont get too easy in the work place either. The boss is always apprehensive about praising the beautiful junior after all, people will presume that he is hitting on her. Its much easier to just praise (and promote?) the not-so-good-looking juniors.
4. Why women drive the way they do

I am not saying that women drive badly. I am not saying they drive well. I am simply saying most women drive very differently when compared with most men. For starters, when a man drives, his intention is to get from place A to place B in the least possible time, while showing off his driving skills. Along the way if he can hurl the choicest abuses at other drivers, all the better. When a woman drives, her intention is to get from place A to place B in the safest possible manner, while allowing everyone on the way to overtake her. And many times, women drive with a bunch of hyper kids in the backseat. So typically, she is thinking am I looking good, is one of the kids sleeping at the wrong time, are the kids fighting, is the music good for the kids, am I going in the right direction, what is my husband up to. And, am I looking good? The problem is that in no country do we have separate roads for men and women.
5. Really, really, really dangerous questions

This one is for the guys. If she asks. Q1. Do I look fat in this dress? If you say yes, you are well and truly screwed. If you say no, it means she otherwise looks fat but is not looking fat in this dress. If you pause before you answer, you are well and truly screwed. Best answer: Sweetheart, you never look fat. Q2. Is she hotter than I am? If you say yes, you are well and truly screwed. If you say no, it means that you have compared her to some other woman. Thats not good for you! If you pause before you answer, you are well and truly screwed. Best answer: I never looked at her that way.
Q3. If I die, will you re-marry? If you say yes, you are well and truly screwed. If you say no, chances are she will think you are lying! If you pause before you answer, you are well and truly screwed. Best answer: It hurts too much to even think about it.
Q4. Do you love your mom more than you love me? If you say yes, you are well and truly screwed. If you say no, chances are she will think you are lying! If you pause before you answer, you are well and truly screwed. There seems to be no right answer to this one!!
Q5. Is your mother a better cook than I am? If you say yes, you are well and truly screwed. If you say no, chances are she will think you are lying! If you pause before you answer, you are well and truly screwed. There seems to be no right answer to this one!!
6. Can women keep secrets?

It does not matter if its women or men. Some people can keep secrets. Some people cant.
Your BACKPACK
Theme 7 - Your BACKPACK on the journey to becoming Woman 2.0
Body Attitude Communication skills Knowledge People skills Action Cash Kraziness
Body
FEEL GOOD about your body food, exercise, energy, lingerie, grooming, odour, orgasms, dressing sharp
When you stand in front of the mirror do you feel good about your body? Do others think you are attractive? To FEEL GOOD about your body, you need to focus on 8 things: Food Exercise Energy Lingerie Grooming Odour Orgasms Dressing sharp
FOOD. You have just bought an expensive car. Would you fill kerosene instead of petrol in the fuel tank? Obviously not. Cars are not supposed to fill up on kerosene. You dont want to cause any damage to the cars engine, right? How about being as careful about the fuel you put into your body? A lot of what we eat causes severe irreversible long-term damage to our bodies. Unfortunately, by the time we realize this, its too late. What you eat should depend upon your ethnic background, the climate of the place you live in and your personal preferences. A diet rich in red meat may be good for an eskimo living in ice-cold Alaska but not for an Indian living in hot and humid Mumbai. So go meet a dietician, draw up a good food guide for yourself and then most important stick to it.
EXERCISE. Whether you prefer to jog, hit the gym, do yoga, Pilates, play football or squash get regular exercise. Regular exercise is great for your heart, will keep most diseases away and will make you feel great. I promise.
ENERGY. When you get up in the morning, are you raring to go or are you tired and weak? After a hard days work are you looking forward to a run or are you too drained? To achieve anything in life, you need energy, a lot of it. Eating well, regular exercise and adequate rest should energize you. Also try cutting down on alcohol, cigarettes and other minor vices you may have. LINGERIE. Even if you are single and no man is going to see your lingerie, you must invest in the best lingerie you
can afford. Wearing awesome lingerie can do wonders for your confidence. Dont take my word for it, try it! GROOMING. Style your hair and your nails. Dont chew your fingernails its disgusting and makes your fingers look awful. Dont hunch your back when you walk or sit. Learn to correctly use cutlery while dining. There are hundreds of websites that can provide you lots of tips on this. If you can afford it attend a finishing school. ODOUR. Do you like smelling someones body odour? No one does. Have a bath everyday and use a good perfume or deodorant one that compliments your natural scent. The biggest put off for anyone is body odour. Trust me! ORGASMS. In the good old days it was said that an apple a day keeps the doctor away. I believe that an orgasm a day keeps the blues away. If you are single, use your imagination. If you are in a relationship use even more imagination. DRESSING SHARP. Unless you are all alone at home, always dress well. There is no excuse for dressing sloppily. Ever.
FEEL GOOD about your body

Attitude
Have an ORANGE attitude think Out-of-the-box, Respond not react, be Ambitious, learn to say No, be Gutsy, handle your Emotions
OUT-OF-THE-BOX THINKING. A young lawyer who decides to use non-violence and noncooperation as tools to overthrow the British Empire. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. A black man who dares to run for President in a country where till a few decades ago black people were not allowed to vote. Or even sit in a bus. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. The first woman IPS officer of India. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. A young woman who quits her job to start what later becomes one of the biggest fully integrated biopharmaceutical companies. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. A boy who went from distributing newspapers to becoming a missile scientist and then the President of the worlds largest democracy. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. A beautiful white laptop in a world ruled by ugly black and grey ones. Thats out-of-the-box thinking. Apple, Microsoft, Google, Facebook, Twitter. Thats out-ofthe-box thinking. The examples are many, the message is one. Dont think between the lines. Think out of the box.
Think & Do
How can you transform your work, your relationships, and your life with out-of-the-box thinking? Look around you. How many out-of-the-box thinkers do you know? What can you learn from them?
RESPOND, DONT REACT. What do you do if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you hurl the choicest abuses? Do you get into a fistfight? Do you curse under your breath? Or do you take a deep breath and just let it go? What do you do when someone criticises you in public? Do you criticize the person back? Or do you think about the truth in the criticism? Its very easy to react to things. But our instantaneous reaction to negative things is usually something we will regret later. So, dont react, respond. When something negative happens, take a deep breath. Count slowly to 10. Then evaluate the issue. Then respond. And as they say, revenge is a dish best served cold.
Think & Do
What are the situations to which you usually react? How do you feel about it later? Have you spoilt any relations because you reacted to a situation instead of responding?
BE AMBITIOUS. Orville and Wilbur Wright wanted to fly. So they built the worlds first successful airplane. I am sure everyone told them that humans cant fly. But they wanted to. So they just worked and worked at it. And one day, they flew. Dont let the world hold you back. Fly.
Think & Do
What are your ambitions? How do you plan to achieve them? Who are the people who dont want you to achieve your ambitions? What are you going to do about them? Who are the people who can help you in achieving your ambitions?
LEARN TO SAY NO. The next time someone asks you to do something unreasonable / unfair, say NO. Say it politely, but firmly. Saying NO can be one of the most liberating experiences. Dont take my word for it. Try it.
Think & Do
Who are the people that are unreasonable with you? What are the unreasonable things they do? How are you going to rebel? Look around you. Do you know women who have learnt to say NO? What can you learn from them.
Learn to say NO
BE GUTSY. Ms Norma Cruz is a Guatemalan human rights activist who fights to protect mothers whose babies are stolen. Her foundation, Fundacin Sobrevivientes, has helped find, prosecute and convict dozens of people accused of murdering women. She regularly receives rape and death threats. Her office has been bombed. But she fights on. Ms Maria Bashir is the Chief Prosecutor General of Herat Province in Afghanistan and the only woman to ever hold such a position in her country. She has survived the Taliban, corrupt cops, death threats and several assassination attempts. But she fights on to against corruption and oppression of women. Ms Henriette Ekwe Ebongo is a Cameroon journalist who has survived torture and military court. But she fights on against government corruption, gender discrimination and human rights abuse. Ms Samar Mohammad Badawi from Saudi Arabia was physically abused by her father for 15 years. She was then imprisoned when her father accused her of disobedience under the Saudi Arabian male guardianship system. But she fights on for womens rights. Ms Jineth Bedoya Lima is a Colombian journalist. While investigating a story on arms trafficking, she was abducted, tortured and raped by men who wanted to
send a message to the press in Colombia. But she fights on. Ms afak Pavey from Turkey lost an arm and a leg in an accident when she was 20. She has gone on to become a successful journalist, writer and politician. She fights on. When she was 12, Ms Reem Al Numery from Yemen, was forced to marry her 30-year-old cousin. When she refused, she was bound and gagged by her father for the ceremony. Her husband repeatedly raped her. Two suicide attempts later, she managed to get a divorce. She fights on as children's rights activist. The stories are many, the message is one. It takes a lot of courage to achieve what you want.
Think & Do
Look around you. Do you see women of courage who are fighting on? What can you learn from them?
HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS. Blame it on oestrogen or PMS or even postpartum depression, but women appear more emotional than men. When you display your emotions in public, especially at the workplace, you are considered weak and unprofessional. You cant change your emotions. Maybe you cant even control them. But you sure can hide them in public.
When did you last take a vacation all by yourself?

Is it about the race?
Or about winning it?
Have an ORANGE attitude
Out of the box thinking Respond dont react Ambition No Guts Emotional control
Who are you?
Who would you rather be?
Communication skills
C5 (correct, clear, concise, creative, customised) approach to your communications POSTER (presentations, online, SMS, telephonic, email, resume)
Your communications POSTER covers: PRESENTATIONS. These can be oral, visual or written. They can be one-to-one or delivered to an audience. ONLINE. This covers your blogs, Facebook and LinkedIn posts, twitter updates. SMS. Text messages are an important tool for business as well as personal communication nowadays. TELEPHONIC. Whether for official or personal stuff, telephone calls are a vital part of your life. EMAIL. Most business communication today revolves around electronic mail. RESUME. One of the most important official documents you are going to create (and update regularly) is your resume.
Make sure your communication is always: CORRECT. Make sure your communication is always correct. Even one instance of incorrect communication could damage your credibility for life. This is most important to remember when you are writing your resume. Never lie on your resume. And dont forget to do a spell-check.
CLEAR. Always be clear in what you want to communicate. And make sure the receiver gets a clear picture of what you are trying to communicate. Avoid using excessive technical jargon unless its really required. You should usually address the 5Ws and H of effective communication What, Where, Why, Who, When and How. CONCISE. Respect everyones time. Always keep your communication concise, even if you are explaining a complicated topic. Get to the point without beating around the bush for too long. Most of the time, the moral of the story is more important than the story itself. The only exception is if you are writing a mystery novel. CREATIVE. Who says a resume cannot be printed on scented pink paper? Who says an official email cannot contain smileys? Who says a business report cant have cartoons? Be creative. Make your communications stand out. CUSTOMISED. Always customize your communication for your audience. There is no one-size fits all logic here. When sending the same email to a bunch of people, dont BCC them all in one email that begins with Hello All. Use mail merge. Always customize your communication.
Give your communication the power of 5Cs
Keep it correct, clear, concise, creative & customised
Knowledge
Know-how, news, organisation behaviour, work, law, economy, digital, general knowledge, environment
The KNOWLEDGE you need is basically of 9 types: KNOW-HOW. This is the technical know-how you need for your chosen area of work or business. That means lawyers need to know law and programmers need to know programming. NEWS. Having a fair idea of whats happening in your community, country and world is necessary. If not for generating new ideas, the information would at least help you make small-talk at parties and meetings. ORGANISATION BEHAVIOUR. Politics and groupism are probably part of every organization in the world. Make sure you are clued in to the latest gossip. I am not saying spread the gossip. Just make sure you know about it so you can protect your interests. WORK. Make sure you know everything there is to know about your work. Know what is actually expected of you at the office. You will be surprised how many people actually are not very clear on this!
LAW. Most people find law very boring. Or complicated. Or both. But basic knowledge of laws that affect you is essential. At minimum, you should have an idea of family law (marriage, divorce, inheritance, adoption), criminal law, domestic violence law and cyber law (you do use computers, right?). ECONOMY. Get clued in on whats happening in the economy not just in your country, but also globally. It will help you prepare for the future. DIGITAL. Being tech-savvy is imperative today. No matter what your area of work, keep updated on the latest gadgets and apps that you make your work easier and more fun. In fact, one of the most tech-savvy people I know is an interior designer! She uses an interconnected system of laptops, tablets and smart phones along with dozens of apps to run her business. GENERAL KNOWLEDGE. Read up on current affairs, world history and geography etc in your free time. It will come in handy when you have to impress people! ENVIRONMENT. Read up on global warming, global cooling, pollution, the rain forests, marine eco-systems and other issues related to the environment. Its your earth. Spend some time learning about it.
Knowledge
Know-how, News, Organisation behaviour, Work, Law, Economy, Digital, General knowledge, Environment
People skills
Of tact and diplomacy, of social roads, rivers and bridges
People can be divided into categories. About 7 billion categories. The first rule about dealing with people is to treat each person as an individual. Dont try pegging people into categories based on their nationality, community, sexual orientation, gender, age, political beliefs etc etc. Another thing that I have learnt along the way is that everyone wants to be heard. And appreciated. And respected. So give people a chance to be heard. Give them some respect and appreciation. Learn how to read peoples faces and interpret body language. For the most part of human evolution, we probably did not have a spoken language. This means we probably communicated using facial expressions and body language. In fact scientists believe that the best way for a woman to select an ideal mate is by smell. This makes sense when you consider that your smell depends on the major histocompatibility complex (MHC) genes the same as your immune system your personal chemical signature, so to speak. That said, you need to use a lot of tact and diplomacy to build bonds with other humans. And yes, sometimes you need to lie to protect someones feelings.
People skills
Use tact and diplomacy to build social roads, rivers and bridges.
Action
It is better to have tried and failed than not to have tried at all
Did you know that you cant copyright an idea. You can only copyright the expression of the idea. Youve got a great idea for a killer product? Build it! Youve got a wonderful book planned? Write it! You want to quit your secure job and start a business? Do it! You want to rebel? Do it! As they say, even if version 1 sucks, ship it. There will always be version 2.
Cash
Earn smart, invest smarter and spend smartest
An average person spends more than 68,000 hours of his life trying to earn money. How many hours does he spend learning about how to invest that money? Your guess is as good as mine. So invest a few hours reading Guide to Investing by Robert T Kyosaki. And remember, never take financial advise from someone who makes less money than you do.
Kraziness
Do something krazee everyday. Enough said. Go do it!
When was the last time you spent the day doing what you wanted to do and not what others wanted you to do?
What next?
What next?
If you liked this book and the companion Facebook page, then please 1. Share this book with someone. 2. Share your experiences on facebook.com/woman2.0 3. Send me a thank-you note on rohasnagpal@gmail.com Thats all I ask for. And I wouldnt mind the cup of coffee we discussed on page 4
BACKPACK diary
Maintain a daily BACKPACK diary like the one above. For details, visit us on facebook.com/woman2.0
First figure out what you want. Then figure out how to get it. Most people do it the other way around! Rohas Nagpal
First published in 2012. Copyright 2012 Rohas Nagpal. All rights reserved. This publication may be freely shared, printed and distributed for non-commercial purposes. No part of this publication may be sold or modified without express written permission of Rohas Nagpal.
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Version 1. Dated 5th November, 2012.
Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition. ~Timothy Leary
Who should read this book? Women seeking to succeed in a world seemingly controlled by men. Women who feel repressed. Women who feel the need to understand why men behave the way they do. Women who feel the need to understand why women behave the way they do. And most importantly, women who want to rebel and break free and make the transition to Woman 2.0 And yes, any man who likes Women 2.0 Follow the book on facebook.com/woman2.0

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A comma can change your life

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..its time to rebel !!

What's in the book?

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Theme 7 - Your BACKPACK on the journey to becoming woman 2.0

Body FEEL GOOD about your body Food, Exercise,

Communication skills C5 (correct, clear, concise,

Knowledge know-how, news, organisation behaviour,

People skills of tact and diplomacy, of social roads,

Action it is better to have tried and failed than not to

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Tackle your weaknesses

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1. Financial dependence on men

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2. The emotional roller coaster

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Keep your mood swings private

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3. Its called making love, not having sex

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4. Hey woman, you are your own worst enemy

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5. Dude, wheres your approval?

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6. Shes hot, after all she is a Scorpio

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Dont let your face betray your emotions.

8. Its not always noble to sacrifice

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Why must a woman always choose between career and a family?

Why is a man never asked to make this choice?

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Magnify your strengths

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2. My mommy is the strongest

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You think computers multi-task?

You havent seen a working mom!

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3. Pain, sweet pain

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4. A blink is all it takes