Sex over 50 is great!

I must admit that when I was in my younger days that I just assumed that by the time I reached 50 my enjoyment of sex would be nonexi stent or at least severely diminished. I also believed that any female that I wo uld be with would also be in the same boat, having gone through menopause by the n. After all, the common wisdom told me that my sexual pea would occur before I reached even 30, and it would all be downhill after that. I also had the idea t hat a post menopausal woman would immediately start drying up and just proceed w ith her nitting. However, as time passed I seemed to continue to be going stron g, and really never gave it a second thought. Now, Im well past that 50 mar and I must say that Im quite pleased, even somewhat surprised at where I am sexually. Granted, Ive ta en care of myself so Im still in good physical condition, and Im f ortunate not to need any meds at this point, but things are still quite differen t than what I had expected. Now, do I feel li e going four to five times a wee at times li e I used to? No. Do I go two or three times in one night a couple or three times a month li e I used to? No (though I once in a while will still go twice in one night after some rest). Do I get aroused by the mere sight of, or h aving had just casual physical contact with a sexy female? Not so much (I have s ome more to say about that at another time, but I digress). But when Im in the ri ght situation and the moon is bright I can still give a good howl! I can still b ring the sweat two or three times a wee if my partner is so inclined, and Im fi ne with that. Besides, with my accumulated nowledge, I enjoy including more act ivities during foreplay, so I figure Im coming out about even. Also, the lady Im w ith that Ive nown for a long time is still performing at a high level and is abl e to experience those mindbending orgasms that Im used to. Whod a thought it? Throughout it all Ive believed in certain set of principles and practices that have helped my partner and I enjoy sex at a consistently high level for a long time. I started pic ing them up when I was much younger through both reading and experience, so they can apply to lovers of all ages, and heres what they boil do wn to: Have a li e-minded partner - It ta es two to tango. Mutual desire is the single most important factor for a rewarding sexual experience. When youre together with your partner, you can loo into each others eyes and feed upon that very unique energy that can only exist between you and your partner, since the love mating o f any two specific individuals create a singular bonding experience that can nev er be duplicated anywhere in the entire universe! Physical condition - Your body can be an incredible vessel of pleasure. The bett er shape its in, the better all of its systems function. This involves circulati on, neurological responses, and musculature (strength & endurance). The only tr ue and effective way to optimize ones self in these critically important areas i s with regular judicious physical activity. It doesnt matter if youre able to put in three sets of tennis or can only lay on your bac and move your arms and legs in the air, if youre the least bit ambulatory you can do something! So pleaseno e xcuses! When youre firing on all cylinders the joy ride is that much more excitin g. So dont cheat yourself (or your partner) . . . be the best that you can be! Set the mood - Romance is the ultimate goal here, so dont overloo the importance of the proper condusive environment and the power of romantic gestures of all t ypes both in and out of bed (a good and loving body massage is hard to beat!). These definitely go a long way toward creating the precursor to ecstasy. Also, be sure to try different locations, even within your residence, and try differen t times of day. That gives you a change in atmosphere without having to go anywh ere. Have you ever gotten together with your partner on the bac lawn late at ni ght under the moon and the stars? Its a lot of fun to surprise your partner with special garb or other accessories (my wife in her belly dancing costume always w or s for me!). Create new soothing aromas to permeate the air with romance, sinc e there are endless sources you can draw upon. Absolutely avoid too much routine . These common-sense but very effective measures will put some extra freshness and spice in the game. Youll love it!

Sexual aids This is the area where the capacity to expand your sexual horizons i s almost limitless. Also, they can be very useful in enhancing overall sexual fu nction when needed. Boo s, articles, and other reading material are a rich sour ce of ideas that will add stimulation where arousal usually beginsthe mind. When you anticipate and visualize the passionate enjoyment of your partner, the arous al response is almost unavoidable. Erotic movies will definitely provide you wit h ideas and techniques to try, as well as, of course, assisting in overall arous al. Viagra and similar products most definitely wor , for women as well as men in many cases, not just for their physical effects but as confidence builders im portant for successful performance and enjoyment of sex over 50 (or, again, any age). Sexual devices are always absolutely invaluable. They provide a guarantee d turbo boost to your entire erotic experience. Regardless of how expert you ar e in you sexual techniques and practices, you can never match the stimulative ca pabilities of these devices. They simply can do stuff you just cant do. Also, t heir immense theraputic value should not be underestimated, especially if your s ituation is that youre definitely loo ing for avenues to help increase your level of sexual arousal/function for whatever reason, including medical. These are but a few ideas and principles to remind us to never forget the imp ortance of the basics. This applies to not just our sexual lives, but other area s as well. Its not roc et science, but if you properly execute them the rewards a re great. If you have some ideas and experiences that would benefit others pleas e share them with your comments. They will certainly be greatly beneficial and a ppreciated!