The Ultimate Players

AXCITE™ Attraction Guide

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Table of Contents
1. Approach Anxiety
2. What Women Want
3. How to Approach and Talk to Women
4. Overcoming Her Protective Shield
5. Conclusion

Chapter 1
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Approach Anxiety
We’ve all been there. You’re out at the bar, maybe a party, at a friend’s gathering, or at
the mall when you see a gorgeous girl. She’s totally hot and you’d love to take a girl like
that out on a date. For a fleeting moment you think about talking to her. But just as fast
as the thought to talk to her crosses your mind, something inside you grabs you and
holds you back. Your palms get cold and slightly sweaty, your heart rate quickens, and
thoughts race through your head. Your desire is to talk to her is very strong and so is
the desire to not approach her! At the end of the day or night, you go home thinking
about that girl. You think to yourself “What if?” What if you had approached her?
Maybe she would have really liked you, the two of you would have hit it off, and you’d
be going on a date with her this Friday night. What if?

Anxiety. What is this sudden and gripping emotion that paralyzes us and keeps us from
approaching the beautiful girls with whom we’d like to talk? Anxiety is a reaction to
stress. It occurs when the fear of danger or misfortune is present and results in the
mind becoming distressed and uneasy. The physical effects include an elevation in
blood pressure and heart rate, increased sweating (sweaty palms, arm pits, etc), an
increased flow of blood to your major muscles, a tightening of your muscles,
accelerated and deepened respiration, and energy is pulled away from your immune
and digestive system as your body prepares to fight or take flight. Essentially, anxiety
occurs in response to a perceived
threat.

So you can either karate kick that

gorgeous blonde or not approach her
at all. As ridiculous as this sounds,
this is the physiological and
psychological response that your
body is genetically programmed to
bring forth. Yes, your own genetic
code is programmed to make you
want to escape and/or avoid the
situation of approaching a woman.

Our own genetic code is the result of

millions of years of evolution. The
behavioral responses we have today
were selected for us millions of years
ago. And because evolution is not a
fast process, humans today are stuck
with genetically preprogrammed
responses that are no longer adaptive
for today’s world.
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The fear of rejection is something that all men have. On the surface it’s just a woman
saying “no”. Big deal right, considering how many fish is in the sea? Not really. Being
rejected can have deep psychological effects. These effects can last for days, weeks,
and in some men, years. Imagine the impact a guy who had to really work up the nerve
to approach a woman would feel if she said “no”.

We are living in a body that is not adapted to today’s world. We’re living in a body that
was programmed to be successful 100,000 years ago; to live as small hunter-gatherer
tribes, to be fearful of saber tooth tigers, to be afraid of spiders, to be afraid of falling off
cliffs, and so forth. So why, if we are so evolved as a species, are we afraid of “no”?
100,000 years ago, when the human population was a minute fraction of what it is
today, we were living in small groups of people. Think about it. There were not many
women available for men with whom to have sex. It wasn’t like today where men can
interact with thousands of women in their own city, millions of women online, and billions
of women world wide.

Imagine this. 100,000 years ago, a man living in a small tribe with only a few women of
breeding age, approaches one of those women. Yet in doing so, he said or did
something to screw it up. Guess what happened? The same thing happened that
happens today, whether you live in a small town or the big city! That woman says “no”,
tells her friends what happened, and now none of the women in the small tribe see him
as having high value. Guess what happens now? His chances for having sex are slim
to none and his genes are weeded out of existence. Same thing still happens today.
You approach a group of girls, hit on one of them, she rejects you, and now your
chances with her friends are totally blown. Think back to high school and how all her
friends knew. Think about the office you work in and how all the
women know.

Thus, YOUR approach to anxiety developed as a survival

mechanism to ensure that YOUR value as a male is not lowered.
After all, to not approach a woman and lower your value still
leaves you with your value in tact, and also leaves you with future
options for sex. So 100,000 years ago, a man had a better chance
of surviving and passing on his genes if he was more selective of
who he approached and how he approached them. The men with
this biologically preprogrammed fear/anxiety reactions were more
likely to reproduce and pass their genes on to future generations.
Therefore, those genes made it into the future, and those are the
genes that you carry now. Remember, anxiety results in the face
of fear of danger or misfortune. Not passing your genes on to a
future generation would be a great danger and misfortune for your
genetic survival.

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5 Steps to Overcoming Anxiety

Approach anxiety is often our worst enemy when it comes to meeting

new women. It’s uncomfortable to walk up to someone you don’t
know, especially a beautiful woman, and to try and engage her in
conversation. But also consider this thought. How much does it suck
to go home at the end of the night thinking, “Damn, if only I had walked
up and said hi, the night could have been so much different.” Yeah, going home like
that sucks, and is just as unpleasant as approaching a woman you don’t know. Which
is worse? While anxiety is a preprogrammed response we all have, there are a few
tricks you can use to overcome it.

1. First of all, remember the above. Anxiety is just your body’s out-dated way of
making sure that your genes survive into the future. Is that needed today? Not
with all the hotties that surround us on a daily basis! This isn’t 10,000 B.C where
we lived in tribes with 2 hot girls. This is the 21st century. So the first step in
overcoming anxiety is to recognize why your body is responding the way it is;
that your body is performing a series of out-dated reactions to a threat that no
longer exists today. Come on, do you really think that hot girl is a threat?!

2. There is a right and a wrong mindset with which to approach a woman. When
you make your approach, the trick is not to care about the outcome. If you walk
up thinking to yourself “I better not screw this up or else I won’t get laid”, you
won’t even get your foot in the door. If you place any great amount of weight on
the outcome, if you care about it, it will show through in your game in very slight,
yet noticeable behaviors. Women shoot guys down all the time that care about
the outcome. If you don’t care, they’ll pick up on that and think to themselves
“Wait a minute. This guy doesn’t care about winning me over. I’m worth winning
over. Why won’t he work for me?” Now your foot is in the door and you have her
interest.

If you do care though, here’s what will happen. You won’t be relaxed, playful,
and fun because you’ll be too caught up in trying to say the right thing to make
her like you. The right mindset to approach a woman is this: “I am approaching
her to see if she’s a cool girl and worth my time.” That’s it.

3. The third step in overcoming anxiety is to beat anxiety to the punch. It only takes
a few seconds for the symptoms of anxiety to start manifesting when you think
about approaching a girl. So we can’t let those physiological reactions happen.
How do we do that? When you see a girl you’d like to talk to, just do it. Don’t
give your mind or emotions the chance to mess up this opportunity for you, yet
again, and leave you going home thinking “What if?” When you see a hot girl,
you have 2 seconds, and nothing to lose and everything to gain.

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4. Wear 1-2 sprays of AXCITE. Ok, we know this sounds like a total plug.
However, research has proven that women exposed to mens’ axillary
pheromones found the men they looked at to be much more sexually attractive.
In fact, women who were exposed to sex pheromones reported a 74% increase
in sexual activity with men! Key pheromones in the AXCITE formula
physiologically boost levels of confidence in men who wear it. The pheromones
in AXCITE can also reduce anxiety and nervous tension, elevate the moods of
both men and women, put both men and women into very talkative and socially
outgoing moods, make YOU appear friendlier and more approachable, and
increase the sense of comfort and intimacy that a woman feels when around you.
All of this occurs on a very subconscious level, yet can have a powerful effect on
increasing a woman’s attractiveness to you!

The 5th and Final Step

5. This last step is absolutely critical to help you overcome your fear. Next time
you’re out, approach a woman and say this. You: “So I get really bad approach
anxiety when I see girls like you. I know it’s not rational, and I figure that the
worst that can happen is for you to say “Piss off” or some variant of that. So will
you tell me to “Piss off” so that I can see that being anxious and rejected isn’t that
bad? Be playful, yet serious when you say this.” When you say this to a woman,
she’ll likely be shocked. Be sincere so that she knows this isn’t some lame pick
up line. The point of this exercise is to prove to yourself that being rejected and
having the absolute worse happen to you isn’t that bad at all.

Congratulations! You’ve now experienced the worse.

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Chapter 2
What Women Want
What arouses a woman’s interest in a man is entirely different than what arouses our
interest in women. Men are simple. We are biologically programmed to respond to
specific visual stimuli that trigger small shots of pleasure chemicals in our brains. That
includes specific breast size, shape, hip-to-waist ratios, hair length, facial features, and
youth. If this weren’t true, then men the world over would not be attracted young, fit,
and sexy Victoria’s Secret models. If this weren’t true, women would not go to great
lengths to improve their beauty through plastic surgery, breast and lip implants, lipo
suction, chemical and facial peels, tummy tucks, and so forth. This is why we see men
more attracted to young women in their late teens and twenties, and why we don’t see
men attracted to women in their 50’s and 60’s.

Biologically speaking, women are the weaker of the species. So while it’s important for
a man to mate with a young and healthy woman of breeding age, it’s equally important
for that woman to choose a man who can protect and provide for her and her child.
Therefore, women place far less importance on a man’s looks, and far greater
importance on the following characteristics.

Female Approved: Have you ever noticed that when you get a girlfriend, all of a
sudden other women seem much more interested in you? It’s like they come out of the
wood-work and you’re left wondering “Where were they when I was single and
available?” It’s frustrating to realize that you had all these options available to you that
you didn’t know about…but did you really? A woman will find you attractive if she
believes that other women find you sexually attractive. A man standing by himself or
sitting at a table alone is much less attractive than a man sitting at a table with two or
three women at his side. If other women find you attractive, then you must be capable
of providing and protecting.

Being “female approved” is a great way to increase other women’s

interest in you. Here are a few great ways to turn ON this switch in
woman.

Hang out with other girls even if you’re not interested in them. The mere
presence of other women around you will dramatically elevate your appeal
to other women. It signals to them that you are safe, protective, and worthy of
female attention. When you go out, make sure there are girls in your group.

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 If you don’t have many friends that are girls, don’t worry. While hanging out with
girls that are your friends will make you appear much more attractive to other
women, here is a simple way to signal to women that you’re “female approved.”
Have one of your friends put lipstick on and kiss you on the cheek or neck. Yes,
it’ll cost you a couple bucks for the lipstick and a few moments of
embarrassment as you explain to your buddy what you’re doing, but it works!

 Wear 1-2 sprays of AXCITE on you when you go out. The great thing about
AXCITE is that it completely bypasses these necessary social cues to which
women pay attention. When inhaled, the pheromones in AXCITE
subconsciously stimulate and arouse a woman’s sexual interest in the man
wearing it. She will find him much more sexually attractive already, whether he’s
with other women or not. Either worn by itself or combined with some lipstick on
the neck and some female friends by your side, AXCITE will give you a powerful
subconscious advantage for attracting women.

Socially Approved: How do you act in social situations, and how do other people
respond to you in a social setting? The answer to these questions can either turn a
woman ON or turn her OFF completely.

Often times we’re unaware of what our own behavior says about us when we’re out.
When you go to parties, do you only hang out with your male friends, looking around the
room to see what others are doing? Do you look around the room for women? Do you
keep looking at the beautiful women? When you look around the room, what does the
expression on your face look like? Are you smiling and having a good time or do you
have a serious and “searching” expression on your face? Do you constantly clutch your
beer bottle and hold it close to your body? Are you out on a mission or are you out to
just have fun with whatever the night brings? If you do any of this, guess what? You
are projecting that you have little social approval.

Social approval is something that women look for in men. Women want men who can
offer them more fun and excitement than what they already have in their own lives.
Those are the men who have high social value. Now, just because we say that, don’t
go assuming that because you’re single you have no value to offer. For all you know,
the girl you decide to approach may be the most uneventful, boring, non-outgoing
person in the world and this is her one night out to break that mold.

Here are some tips to increase your perceived social value.

Smile when you walk into the room. When you smile, you appear to
have yourself together. People with good things in their lives have a lot
to smile about, and women are looking to fill their lives with good
things.

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 Enjoy the company you’re with. Ok, we know you’re there to meet chicks. But
they have to see that you have high social value even within your group of
friends. If you’re out with your friends but you spend all your time looking around
the room, this tells women “he’s not the center of attention with his friends. He
must not be that fun. I’ll pass.”

 Become the center of attention. Prepare a few funny stories in advance when
you go out. Keep up on the latest events, news, and news stories so you can
start and lead the conversations about them.

 Spray on 1-2 sprays of AXCITE! One thing we’ve noticed with AXCITE is that it
not only puts you in a good mood and makes you chatty, but it makes other
people around want to talk to you! Women will pick up on this and notice that
you’re the social center of attention.

And, if you really want to demonstrate high social approval, try this! Walk into a
room with a few friends that are girls because not only do you now have social approval,
but you’re demonstrating that you hold value to other women. Walk in with a smile, that
lipstick kiss print on your neck, and a couple friends that are girls…and expect to
demonstrate extremely high social approval…the kind that gets girls to notice you!

Be the Alpha Male: A woman is concerned first and foremost with safety and
protection. Alpha males provide this, and women are biologically hardwired to be drawn
to that trait in a man. But
being an Alpha is more
than just being the
dominant male of the
pack. It’s about being a
leader and leading those
around you. If other men
are willing to follow you,
then you now how have a
much higher value than
those other males. Why
else do women flock to
the quarterback, the star
of the team, the gold
medal winner, or any
other man in a leadership
position? So are you a
leader or a follower? If
you’re a follower, then we
need to cultivate some
leadership skills in you.

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 Look for opportunities in your life where you can take on leadership rolls, big or
small, whether it is through team sports you play, at work, or through various
clubs and organizations to which you belong.

 And yes, apply 1-2 sprays of AXCITE when you go out. A pheromone in AXCITE
known as AndrosteNONE heightens a woman’s perception of you that you are
the Alpha Male. It also subconsciously influences other males to treat you with
greater respect and more politeness, which too, is a pivotal cue that women pay
close attention to in determining who is the leader of the group.

Support and Protect: Are you invested in the lives of those you love? Do you support
your family, friends, and loved ones in all they pursue? Are you protective of those
closest to you, willing to stand up to anyone who’s offensive, rude, or harmful to those
you love? Women seek safety and protection in the men they chose, and if you exude
these qualities, she will certainly find this trait in you attractive.

Be Interesting: Women enjoy spending their time with men who are interesting, funny,
and can offer them great conversation! Being an interesting person ties closely with
having a high level of social approval and being the center of attention.

If you struggle with finding interesting things to talk about when

meeting new people, then here are some tips for you so that you may
display this trait and better attract women.

Take up a new hobby or activity. You don’t have to devote your life to
it, but invest a little time and interest into exploring the topic, activity, or
hobby that you chose. Not only will you meet new people, but you’ll
experience new things in life that others haven’t experienced…and
that’s interesting.

 Take up a hobby or pastime that’s eccentric. It’s a proven fact that people are
drawn to others who are eccentric and different from everyone else. Learn how
to do card tricks. Learn some magic. Learn the crafted skill of mind reading.
Large crowds are drawn to those who do magic!

 Educate yourself and have an opinion. There’s nothing more boring that talking
to someone who doesn’t have an opinion on something, whether they agree with
you or not. So make an effort to stay up to date on current affairs, news, and
world-wide events. Read a couple articles each day out of the newspaper that
are interesting to you. Don’t have the newspaper? Go online!!

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 When you’re in a good mood, you’re having fun, and it’s intoxicating to others.
AXCITE will help to ease tension, boost confidence, and put you and those
around you in a good, friendly, and very talkative mood. And when you and
others are feeling good and talkative, the conversations flow naturally, making
you appear interesting. After all, you don’t talk to people for any length of time if
you’re not interested in them.

Provide Emotional Stimulation: Men are biologically wired to respond to logic and
rationality. Women show a stronger reaction to emotions. In fact, the simple act of
feeling something to be true is enough for a woman to believe it to be so. If you want to
really stimulate a woman, engage her on an emotional level. Here’s how.

 If you’re telling a story, place more emphasis on the emotions felt, whether they
are your emotions or not.

 Engage women with a wide variety of emotions, ranging from curiosity to

fascination, excitement, joy, confusion, frustration, jealousy, happiness,
embarrassment, and so forth. The more emotionally stimulated a woman
becomes, the more exciting the experience of being with YOU is for her.

 AXCITE subconsciously triggers a woman’s sexual arousal in those who wear it.
This automatic, subconscious trigger has to be validated as years of social
dynamics have taught her to only be sexually aroused once the male proves he
is of high value. She will experience curiosity with you as she explores why she
suddenly feels arousal, excitement, happiness, and maybe even some jealousy
as she notices other women noticing you. Wearing AXCITE is a great way to
prime and stimulate a woman’s emotions, and can certainly be to your
advantage for creating a rich and emotionally stimulating experience for her.

Be Non-Needy: There’s a saying that goes “Whoever needs the other person the least,
wins”, and this couldn’t hold anymore truth when it comes to approaching women. With
that said…

 Be willing to flail, flop, crash, and burn with women…and

don’t give a crap about the outcome. When you stop
caring, you suddenly become non-needy. You see yourself
as the prize, and women also see you as the prize.

 AXCITE creates many opportunities for you and will open

many doors. It will take a while for you to notice this as you
wear AXCITE and get use to the effects that it has on other
people. However, when you calibrate yourself to the effects
that AXCITE has on women, you’ll realize that you are the
one with options and don’t need to place any great amount
of weight on the outcome of your conversation with any girl.

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As you can see, what women find sexually attractive and interesting in a guy is quite the
opposite from what we find sexually attractive in women. Each trait listed above is an
indicator of your value. If you possess a lot of these traits, then a woman believes that
you have high value and will be drawn to you. If you lack these traits, then a woman will
believe that you have lower value and will be less likely to be attracted to you.
How many of these traits do you possess? Write them down now. Then, write out the
traits that you can improve upon, and with the suggestions outlined above, make a plan-
of-action for how you will improve these traits in yourself. It may sound like work, but
you’ll be light years ahead of every other frustrated guy out there who can’t seem to get
women attracted to them. In the words of one of Rock N’ Rolls’ greatest seducers of
women, Steven Tyler of Aerosmith, “If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll
always get what you’ve always got.”

Chapter 3
How to Approach and Talk to Women
Approaching a woman is as simple as seeing a hot girl and making that split second
decision to approach her. You just do it, and you don’t even give your emotions a
chance to screw you up. Approaching a woman is as difficult as seeing a hot girl,
debating forever in your head if you should approach her, and allowing anxiety to take
over. If you do that, it’ll never happen.

What do I say to her?

When you approach a woman, you don’t want to communicate to her that you’re directly
interested in her. You especially don’t want to communicate to her that you’re sexually
interested in her. Instead you want to start out with an engaging statement or a funny
short story. Why?

Women are use to guys coming up, hitting on them, flirting with them, and even
complimenting them all the time. It gets old. It gets boring. To women, it’s the same
shit every day, and they’ve developed a nice little force field to keep these kinds of guys
away. Even complimenting a woman is a bad way to start a conversation? YES! Guys
are told to notice little things and compliment on them. Guess how many times a day a
woman is complimented on the same thing? And guess what she really hears from
you? “I’m just saying this so I can have a chance at sex with you later.” Starting a
conversation by directly telegraphing your interest in a woman is a sure fire way to lower
your value. She’ll perceive you as being needy because you have no other women who
are interested in YOU.

Instead, you want to come in under her “just another guy” radar. You have to approach
her in a manor that makes her believe you’re not interested in her. This drives women
crazy, because they believe that all men should be interested in them.
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Next time you’re out, try opening a conversation with a woman like
this.

If you’re in the college classroom

You: Oh my god! Did you hear what this guy did last quarter for his project that got him
kicked out of class and suspended from campus?

Girl: (don’t give her a chance to speak)

You: He decided it would be funny to chemically lace his term paper with Alzutrol.
Alzutrol is a medicine that taken in high doses induces uncontrollable sneezing fits for 4
hours! When Mrs. (Insert teacher’s name) started reading his term paper, the chemical
absorbed through her fingers, and she was up sneezing snot and buggers all over
herself in the bathroom until 2 AM in the morning! And if you have to go number 1 or 2
when you’re sneezing, well, it makes it
pretty messy! She was furious!

This is a non-sexual opener where you

don’t telegraph interest in her personally,
and it arouses her emotion of curiosity.

If you’re in a club

You: I only have a second because my

friends are about to arrive, but get this.

Girl: (Again, don’t give her a chance to

talk.)

You: On my way in to this other bar down

the street, as I was passing the bar, I
overheard this girl say “Hey bitch, it’s my
turn.” Now, just as I turn and look to see
who said that, the back-wash of a beer
comes flying at me as this girl went to toss
the rest of her beer at this other girl who cut
in front of her. I just barely duck out of the
way as these two girls just start trading blows! Crazy! I sure hope this bar isn’t like that.
Is it?

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If you’re at the grocery store

You: I need to get going, but do you believe in spells?

Girl: (Again, don’t give her a chance to talk. Point at one of the boxes on the shelf.)

You: So at the turn of the century back in 1902, Scott Abram, the founder of the
company that makes this product here, went to see a fortune teller about his future
success. Being the dishonest businessman that he was, it’s said that he stole her
monthly earnings as she went into the back room. Since then it’s been rumored that
she cast a spell on him to doom his business. Since then, he died of a heart attack
exactly one year after visiting her, the company building has been burned down 5 times,
relocated, was destroyed by 2 earthquakes, 1 flood, and now just went bankrupt thanks
to the economy. I kid you not! True story! So what do you think? Spells….yes, no?

Now, try coming up with a few openers of your own. Remember, they need to be
indirect, not communicate that you’re interested in her, and engage her on an interesting
and emotional level.

Tips for Talking to Women

Your voice is a powerful tool. Who’s more interesting to listen to when

they are talking? Ben Stein (no offense Ben, we love you) or Chris Rock?
What’s our point? When you’re talking to women you have to approach
them with energy, and one of the best ways to convey that energy is
through your facial expressions and the tone of your voice. Think about
Chris Rock when he performs. He highlights and accentuates certain
words, raising and lowering his volume, pitch, his rate of speech, and the
quality. His facial expressions reinforce his enthusiasm and drive home his routine,
leaving the audience shouting and laughing and clapping for me!

Having an expressive voice conveys emotions, thus adding more meaning and impact
to your words. And remember, women respond to emotions. It enhances your
message and makes it more interesting to the person with whom you’re talking. If your
voice doesn’t project excitement and enthusiasm, why should the girl you’re talking to
be excited and enthusiastic about getting to know you? She won’t. Work on
emphasizing certain words, using facial expressions, and changing up the way you talk.
Your communication style says a lot about your value.

Women want what they can’t have. When you approach a woman, you’re just like
every other guy. You immediately need to set yourself apart, and you also need to
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you do? Tell her that you only have a second so you can’t stay, but you have to tell her
this. Then deliver one of those openers listed above.

Why is this effective? You have effectively lowered her guard. She doesn’t need to
worry about you being creepy and hanging around longer than you’re welcome and
having to make up some lame excuse to get away from you.

So you can say this.

You: I only have a second because my friends are about to arrive, but get this.

Girl: (Again, don’t give her a chance to talk.)

You: I parked a couple blocks away so I had to walk a ways here. On my way, this
really old guy wearing this green trench coat shouts at me, “Hey little boy, what you
doing tonight?” And before I had a chance to comprehend what was going on, this old
guy has his coat open and balls flying around in a circle! I feel so disgusting and
offended right now, but I just had to tell someone!

Remember; be expressive when you say this. Raise your tone and the rate of your
speech as you describe your shocking moment and disbelief, and then slow it down a
touch when telling her how you feel about it.

How you hold your body says it all. Imagine this. A guy walks right up to you and
directly faces you. How would you feel? A bit on the defensive right? That’s exactly
how women feel when guys first approach them head on. The trick to not putting
women on the defensive right away when you approach them is to not have your body
directly facing them. Turn away so that your feet are pointed in another direction, and
talk to them initially over your shoulder. Not only does this keep her guard from going
up and making her feeling uncomfortable, but it also makes you appear less needy.

Also, when you’re sitting down talking and getting to know a woman for the first time,
pay attention to what your body position is saying. Do you lean in when you listen? If
you do, this behavior communicates that she has more value than you, and this is
dangerous to do if you haven’t yet communicated to her your high value. The person
who leans back will hold the power. This is a subtle body positioning technique that will
have women leaning in to hear you! And when she’s doing that, then you are the
person with the high value.

One of the most common body movement mistakes made has been this scenario. Guy
goes up and talks to girl. The club is loud so he moves his head in closer to her every
time she says something. Doing this communicates the same thing as if you were to
lean into her if the two of you were sitting down. It tells her that you have lower value.
It’s amazing how such a simple movement can communicate so much information about
you!
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Chapter 4
Overcoming a Woman’s Protective Shield To
Increase Interest

IMPORTANT! The art of Negging.

Now that you’ve approached her and the two of you are talking, it’s time to
start demonstrating value, flipping ON her attraction switches, letting her
know that you’re not like the last guy that approached her, and building her
interest and attraction to you. But sometimes that’s easier said than done.

Women get approached every…single…day. It’s not their fault. But as a result, women
develop a highly calibrated protective shield. This is a barrier or force field put up to
fend off guys who are needy, have low value, who are too nice, and who are jerks.
Often times when you approach a woman, regardless of how you open, she may have
her barrier up. Maybe she had a bad day, maybe some losers just got done trying to hit
on her, maybe she’s tired. The point is, you have to get through it if you want to stand a
chance, and the best way break down her shield is by showing her that you’re not
interested in her in “that way” and that you’re ready and willing to move onto the next
girl. Essentially, you need to communicate a lack of interest in her. But first, let’s take a
look at what type of behaviors she’ll exude if her protective barrier is up.

The Significant Other: Some women will openly say “I have a boyfriend” or “I’m
married” before you even begin. The reality is, many women will have sex with you
even if they do have boyfriends. But if you get the boyfriend line, it means that you
were too needy, showed lower value through your behavior, and/or expressed too much
interest in her too soon in the game.

No Sense of Humor: Women with their protection shield held high will not laugh at
anything funny. To do so would show interest on her part. So if you notice a woman not
laughing at your funny stories, take notice.

No Interest or Eye Contact: Women who aren’t into you will oftentimes be non-
responsive to what you say, questions you ask, and won’t even look at you. You’ll
notice them breaking their necks to look at something else in the room. If you notice a
woman is not engaging you in conversation, this is a sign that her shield is up high!

Being Surrounded: Women who don’t want to be approached will oftentimes surround
themselves with their friends and place themselves in the center. I mean, what guy has
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Uninterested Body Language: A woman who isn’t into you will not face you directly.
She will also lean her body away from you, and she won’t lean her head in to hear what
you have to say.

Being Mean: Girls use this tactic all the time. They’ll challenge you, what you say, your
choice in clothing, etc. You’ll find women insulting your character when they are not
interested.

The bottom line is that women do these behaviors to show that they are not interested
in you. The BEST way to get around them is to show her that you’re not interested in
her. You can do this through strategic body
language, approaching her with other girls at
your side, and telling her that you only have a
moment before you need to leave.
Here are some tactics for you to employ if you
notice any of these behaviors.

Your Body Says it All

When you talk to her, do not face her directly.
If you are standing, turn sideways to her and
talk to her over your shoulder. If you engage
her head on, you immediately telegraph a
large amount of interest. This can be very
uncomfortable for a woman, and she is used
to guys walking up to her this way all the time.
By talking to her over your shoulder, you are
saying to her that you’re not interested in her.

If the two of you are sitting down, lean back

and away from her. Don’t lean forward.
Leaning forward expresses interest. Make
her work for you interest. The more she
works to get your interest, to get you
interested enough to engage her by leaning
forward, the more she will have invested in
you. The person who leans into the
conversation is the person who needs or
wants the other the most.

Also, when you’re talking to her, rock your body away from her. Pretend like you’re
looking over your shoulder and about to leave. It’s a great way to non-verbally tell a girl
that you won’t be there for long, which as a result, lowers her guard. As you say
something, lean back and rock your body away as if you’re about to leave, and then say
“Oh, I have to leave here in a sec, but get this….” And then tell her a funny story that
engages her emotions.
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I Can’t Believe He Just Said That!!

Nice guys compliment all the time. The last thing they
want to do is make a hot girl feel like she is less of a
person by insulting her. Well, that’s exactly what we’re
going to do. Why? Women are use to snubbing and
insulting guys all the time to get them to go away.
Women have to do this. So we’re going to do the same
thing back. Why? Because guys who have lower value
than you take it and go away. Women have no respect
for these guys. But YOU on the other hand have HIGH
VALUE and can dish it right back to her without her
feeling insulted. And guess what? Women respect
guys that don’t put up with their shit and can give it right
back to them. It’s always a great way of telling a
woman that you don’t care about the outcome, that you
don’t care about having sex with her, and getting her to
ultimately work for you!

Here are some examples.

1. When a woman talks to you, pull out a pack of gum, and offer her some. This will
make her self-conscious of herself.

2. Tell a girl that she has something stuck in her teeth, and then point to it. Again,
this will make her self-conscious.

3. Ask a girl “Where’d you get that shirt you have on? Gosh, I see so many girls
wearing it.” Then act as if you weren’t insulting her and say “But I mean, it still
looks really good on you.” This lets her know that you aren’t affected by how she
looks, that you’ve seen it before.

4. When she asks you your name, tell her and extend your hand to shake hers.
When you shake her hand though, playfully say aloud “Eeew, your palms are
sweaty! That’s kind of gross! You should go wash them.” Most guys relish the
chance to make contact with a girl like that. But you don’t.

5. If a girl says that she’s a model, respond sincerely with “Like a foot model?” Most
guys respond with “Really?!!!!!!! Wow!!!!” Don’t do that. Remember, be
unaffected by her.

6. When she’s talking you can say “You know, I just noticed that when you talk,
you’re ears move up and down ever so slightly! Haha! It’s pretty cute.” Then
when she responds, point with both hands, one at each ear and say “See, there
they go again!”

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The key is to act pleasant, but you want to come off as if you are not interested or even
affected by her looks. What does this do? It tells her that you don’t really care what she
thinks about you. You’re not trying to impress her. She’ll end up wondering why and
begin to see you as a challenge. After all, no other guy approaches her like this, and
she’ll be curious about and chasing you. Women who have their guards up aren’t
curious about the man in front of them nor do they want to learn more about him.
Doing this also lowers her own sense of value and makes her self conscious, and this is
what you want to achieve. You see, when you approach a woman, your perceived
value is low while she perceives herself as having high value. Making subtle
statements like these put her into the position of questioning whether you have a good
opinion of her or not. Ultimately, you need to bring her down a few notches while raising
your own value.

Be careful and respectful with your comments though. Throwing two or three of these
types of “value-lowering” comments her way is usually enough to lower her guard and
get her VERY interested in you. Anything more and you’ll end up hurting her self-
esteem and make her believe that she isn’t good enough for you. That is not our goal.

So how do you know if she IS into you?

Women have numerous and very subtle ways of communicating that they are interested
in you. Below is a list of things women do to show that they are interested in you.

• She asks you for YOUR name.

• She asks how old you are.
• She touches you, whether it is your hand, arm, shoulder, etc.
• She smiles and laughs at all your funny remarks.
• She initiates the conversation with you.
• She reinitiates the conversation or drives the conversation forward, even when
you stop talking.
• She continually looks at you.
• She faces you directly.
• She stands close to you. Women will stand close to men they are attracted to,
and will not stand close to men to whom they are not attracted.
• She holds eye contact with you for a moment if you happen to make eye contact
with her from a distance.
• She tries to relate to you.
• She introduces you to her friends
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• She compliments you.

• She is playful with you.
• She creates a nickname for you.
• While she is sitting or standing next to you, a piece of her clothing or her arm/leg/
shoulder touches you and she doesn’t pull away.
• She fishes to see if you’re single, have a girlfriend, married, etc.
• She calls you back.
• She introduces you to her friends.
• This last one is classic, but true. She plays with her hair when she talks to you.
•

So how do you know if she is NOT into you?

• She doesn’t engage you or even contribute to the conversation when you try
talking to her. Instead, her responses are generic, sounding much like “uh huh”
“oh yeah” “aah, I see” and then back to “uh huh, uh huh”. One thing we have
noticed women do is they will pretend not to hear what you said. If she was truly
interested in you, she would be interested in what you have to say. If she is
telling you that she didn’t hear you, consider that a sign.
• She doesn’t look at you. Rather, she seems distracted by and interested in
everything else going on around her other than YOU. She may look away
frequently, look back over her shoulder, or even just get up and start talking to
someone else
• She avoids you. Whether she avoids talking to you, responding to your
questions, making eye contact, or calling you back, if she is avoiding you then
she is not interested in you.

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Conclusion
We have covered a lot of material in the Axcite Attraction Guide and we certainly hope
that the information contained within this guide will help you become more successful
with women. We’re sure that some of it even seems overwhelming! It’s a lot of
information to take in! Some of you may find that you need to completely rework the
way you approach women. It takes time, but with practice and internalization of the
information within, you will find yourself getting better and better at picking up women
until one day you’ll have your friends asking you how you do it!

But best of all, AXCITE makes the process of picking up women SO MUCH easier…
speeding it all up and instantly peaking and arousing a woman’s interest in you! One of
the best ways we have found to use AXCITE when going out is to spray one spray on
your wrist, the other on your neck. In clubs, applying a spray of AXCITE to your neck
works wonders. With the volume cranked
up, women will have to lean into to hear
what you’re saying.

For further tips on how to maximize the

effectiveness of AXCITE when picking up
women, make sure that you check out the
Score Sheet Newsletter. Inside you’ll find
invaluable information for using AXCITE
and how to best use it to your advantage!
All the Best!

You can find the Score Sheet

Newsletter at the Official AXCITE LP7
Website.

http://www.AxciteLP7.com

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