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Do You Know His True Character?

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by T Dub Have you heard the inspirational quote that goes something like this, Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking? Yeah, well that wisdom can be applied to relationships as well. You can get a good indication of the character of a potential girlfriend/boyfriend by just observing what they do and how they treat others when it doesnt matter. What it Means: You can tell a lot about a persons character by watching how they interact with others. People are able to put on a front or a faade for a short amount of time (especially on date, etc.), but they will always revert back to their true character. This is a scary thought when its applied to relationships. Can you imagine getting engaged to a man who has been a different person throughout

Talk about a nightmare This type of scenario happens all to often in relationships because people feel that they can revert back to themselves when no one is watching (except you) and/or there are no consequences for their misbehavior. To avoid being fooled by someones front in a relationship, look at how they interact and treat people when it doesnt matter. For example, your boyfriend runs into the grocery store and lets you wait in the car. As he gets all the way through the parking lot (and assumes he is out of your site), he passes an elderly lady loading her groceries into her car. She suddenly drops a bag and her oranges roll everywhere. Does he just look at her and keep walking or does he stop to help? Bottom Line: Walking past a lady that dropped her oranges doesnt make you a bad person or someone who cant have a solid relationship. On the other

hand, honing in on someones actions when no one is looking is a good indicator of their true character. Rooting For Ya, From Sarah: T Dub teamed up with Jonathan Green to create Girl Gets Ring. Its all about whats really going on with men so you can stop pushing him and stop wasting time waiting for him to pop the question. Watch the free video and read all about their approach to get a handle on your relationships.

are so prevalent that often we arent even aware of how we are being affected by them. You can spend a tremendous amount of time agonizing over the perceived wrongs you see in someone and convincing yourself that theyre true. This adds up to a lot of energy spent feeling either angry, resentful, envious, hurt, frustrated, or all of these. The sad truth is the more you judge others the more you are judging yourself and punishing yourself for who you are. But by paying attention to the judgments that constantly arise in your mind, you can begin to ease up on other people and be kinder to yourself as well. Judgments can be long held resentments that last years or even decades, but they also can come on instantly, the moment you meet someone. You may find yourself taking an immediate dislike to their appearance, manner or voice. Surprisingly, you develop a sudden dislike for this person, as if they were an enemy. They havent done anything but look a certain way and there you are having a visceral reaction you cant control.

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Judging Others Hurts You Most

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Many of these reactions are subconscious and primal, but you can consciously control what you do with them. It takes being aware of your judgmental thought the moment you think it and being willing to change it instantly, before it takes hold of you. If you can pay attention and catch yourself, you can then choose to think differently. You will free yourself of the pain of judging others and yourself and you may begin to feel like a whole different person. A few weeks ago I was driving down an alley and had to make a turn around a blind corner. As I did, another car was coming the other way driven by an elderly man in a very beat up car. He angrily stopped halfway through the turn and blocked my way. He yelled at me.
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by Virginia Clark Is there any habit we fall into more easily than judging others? Be it towards family, friends or strangers, we have an opinion, a judgment about who they are or how they are acting. These thoughts

Slow down! How dare you speed through this turn, you could have killed us both! The first thought that came to mind, well, Id rather not say. Then I thought, How dare this old geezer who is probably a terrible driver, in that beat up car accuse me of going too fast. I wasnt! I suddenly caught myself and thought, Wow, is this me? Why am I so hostile? In that moment I completed reversed my thinking and replied, Im so sorry, I didnt know I was going so fast. I wont do it again. In a split second I saw him change. He waved his hand indicating it was no big deal. He wished me a good day and drove away with a smile on his face. I didnt recognize myself, but it felt good. I had chosen not to judge him or make him wrong, and it freed me. That memory and its good feelings have stayed with me. It continues to remind me that even though as human beings we are programmed to be judgmental, it is in our power to change the pain of judgment into feeling good. Virginia is the real deal. Her story of meeting her man late in life and getting married (shed never been married before) is amazing, and her ebook Its Never Too Late To Marry will give you the hope you need, step-by-step instructions on how to make it happen for yourself, and the inspiration to transform your love life. Go here to check out Virginia and learn how to have the intimacy you want->

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What Do Nice Guys, Gentlemen, And Even Bad Boys All Have In Common?
By Jonathon Aslay

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What do nice guys, gentleman and even bad boys all have in common? No its not penises. Well, actually they do have that in common, plus this They dont push the sex agenda with someone they RESPECT.

Thats right, they dont push sex early on when dating. In fact, they might even hold off kissing in the first few dates. So ladies If hes not trying to jump your bones right away. If hes not trying to get you in the sack. If hes not trying to slurp your face. Chances are he respects YOU. Now heres how you can tell If hes listening to you (I mean really listening).
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If hes getting to know you as a friend (your conversation is effortless). If hes asking you out (yes, he made plans for another date). It just might mean hes into YOU and RESPECTS YOU.. So make note of this right now. Post it on your refrigerator. Store it in your memory banks. Men who RESPECT women view you as relationship material and not just a roll in the hay. Let me give you a personal example. Early in my dating life after my divorce, I found myself in whole new territory. My belief was that AMAZING chemistry was the key to relationship success. If a date was going great and there was lots of chemistry, I didnt see any problem having sex on the first date. Now let me just say that theres nothing wrong with having sex on the first date. And many relationships have started that way. But literally the next day after sex I felt no emotions towards them. How could this be, we had tons of chemistry? Chemistry must equal love, right? Here were women I barely knew and we had so much chemistry it was mind blowing. But what I realized in the morning, since I hardly knew them, was that I had no feelings for them one way or the other. It took me about a year or so of dating to realize that chemistry doesnt lead to relationship success. In fact, the more intense the chemistry the more it would crash and burn. So lets fast forward 5 years, 2 transition relationships and hundreds of first dates. In 2010, I met my beloved. Our first contact was an internet connection; we met on Facebook.

We had tons of mutual friends and we were both in the relationship business. In fact, she was a well respected doctor who had her own T.V. show. After a few comments on Facebook threads and posts, we decided to chat on the phone. For me the conversation was magical. Because she carried herself with class and charm, I had respect for her. Maybe it was because it was a little professional. Maybe it was because we could relate to our life experiences. Maybe it was because it was light and flirty. All I knew was, I wanted to get to know her. As we were about to end our first chat, she let it slip she just broke up with a guy. In my head I said, Bummer as I knew she wouldnt be ready to date YET. In a way, it took romance off the table so we could get to know one another as friends. A few weeks went by with a few text messages and emails. The day came when I knew she was ready to date. Can you guess how? One of my daily duties as a dating coach is to review online profiles. As luck would have it, there was her profile on Match.com. In fact, it turns out she had just signed up the very day I saw her. So I emailed hernothing fancy, just a Hi, and then I told her I had a crush on her. She said ah thats sweet, but I dont think we are a fit. In the midst of getting ready to commit hari kari, I said Lets meet as friends. She said, Okay. In fact, I called it a friendship date. No pressure, just friends.

In many ways because I had respect for her, I knew I didnt want to blow it. Taking the sex agenda off the table allowed me to do a few things. A) I got to know her as a person. B) I got to see if we were a fit. C) I got to see if we really liked each other as friends. Now heres the thing about nice guys, gentlemen and bad boys. Nice guys often dont have enough self confidence, so they respect way too much, believing that being friends only is a way not to blow it. Gentleman, on the other hand, respect everyone and know that relationships are not a sprint. Plus, they dont want to blow it. Bad boys want love, attention, affection and regular sex and when they respect a woman, they usually dont want to blow it. When we men are relationship ready, we really dont want to blow it. So there you have it, men who respect women want sex, but we take our time getting to know you cuz we dont want to blow it. Sending smiles, Jonathon From The Editors: Jonathon KNOWS the male brain. He coaches women on how to choose better when it comes to men, and he has a huge following. We just LOVE him and know youll love his free tips, too so go here to find out how you can succeed at dating->

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Are You In An Addictive Relationship?

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by Virginia Clark Do you wonder if you might be in an addictive relationship? Most of us go through at least one addictive relationship in our romantic life. But even more of us will suffer the withdrawal from several of these relationships before we learn to stop our destructive patterns of behavior. Like any addiction, denial can keep us from waking up to the truth of what were doing. Why does this happen to so many of us? The addictive behavior has its start in childhood where many of us experienced a lack of emotional support. That, when coupled with other influences, can make us grow up as desperate and needy women longing for male attention. This is the perfect storm to create a victim of addictive love feeling at the mercy of men as we try to get our dependency needs met. How do you know if youre in an addictive relationship? You cling to the relationship even though intellectually you know its not what you want. You feel a sense of panic and physical anxiety when you start to leave and you end up running back for relief. Your friends and family encourage you to leave and you agree with their reasons why, but when away from their influence you forget or dismiss everything theyve said.
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If these resonate with you, you have a choice but you might not see it yet. Part of any addiction is denial. Things usually have to get so painful that we have to hit bottom before we can see the truth of our situation.

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Eventually, like any addict knows, the drug of love that seemed so strong and euphoric in the beginning loses its potency. We become a little crazed trying however we can to get that initial feeling back. We will manipulate, plot and scheme to get the love we so desperately long for. We know that if he just loved us more wed be safe; so we begin to push. We begin to love more to get more. We become dependent on their feelings and we start to chase them. We end up doing all sorts of things we normally wouldnt do or would be ashamed to admit. Nothing is more painful than a relationship based on emotional neediness. When were addicted our need for them to love us is all we can think about. We want them so we can feel okay, so we can feel lovable.

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The only way out is to stop the denial and to admit we are in an addictive relationship. If we were in control we would not wish this situation for ourselves. We have to get the help we need to wean us off it; whether with a counselor, a Twelve Step meeting, or the right book. Once released from your addiction its unlikely youll relapse and make the same mistake again. Youll have the freedom of choice to stay or go, and to change how you show up in your future relationships. Virginia by Alexandra Fox

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Have you ever experienced getting dumped by a man you love for a woman who was less attractive, less intelligent, or otherwise less desirable than you? Youve probably seen or experienced this before. The story begins when you meet a great new guy, and you seem to hit it off pretty well. You get to know each other better every single day, and your friends and co-workers begin noticing a change in you.
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Why In The World Do Men Settle For Less In Love?

We May Never Know. Its incredibly frustrating! It just doesnt make sense! What a jerk! They say youre in a better mood these days, or that they often catch you with a goofy smile on your face. You cant help it he seems like the perfect guy. So you wait for him to make the move. Theres just one problem he seems to be taking his darned time doing so! So you decide to take matters into your own hands and begin to drop hints. You subtly talk about your dates, or relationships, or your views on love. You try to go on even grander dates than before. You try to do things normal couples do. Whatever it takes to make him take the hint! And ultimately he does pick up on your hints but in the exact opposite way you hoped. Apologetically, he tells you that he isnt really ready for a serious relationship yet. He tells you hes either still too busy getting his career in order, or that he still has some unfinished business in his life that sort of thing. Of course, being the understanding girlfriend, you let him go. You figured that if he had a little time and space to himself, hes going to sort things out on his side and prepare to have you in his life. Theres just one problem: I know, I know Its happened to ME in the past, too. And it drives me crazy. We may never know why men sometimes let go of the most desirable women in society and instead settle for a miserable relationship with another woman. (Maybe its because they feel better being with someone at their level. I dont know.) But heres what I DO know: That looks and smarts arent really everything in the attraction game. This is perhaps the most important lesson Ive ever learned in dating and relationships. Good looks lead to PHYSICAL attraction which can land you a few quick dates here and there. Smarts lead to INTELLECTUAL attraction which can help you advance your career or business. These are all great theyre parts of a balanced, complete life. But to lead a great relationship, youll need something else. And thats EMOTIONAL attraction. And sad to say, too many women focus too little on this aspect of dating and relationships.

How Emotional Attraction Works Just a few weekends after you cooled off with him, To Build Lasting Love
you hear news that hes going around with a new woman! And whats worse you hear that this woman is less attractive, less intelligent, or otherwise less desirable than you are. Whats going on? Why did he dump you for someone who wasnt nearly as good as you? Emotional attraction is a powerful thing. It can turn any woman, no matter how unattractive or average, into a sexy, attractive, desirable women that men would be DYING to date. Emotional attraction is also the same gut-feeling attraction that attracts you to certain guys, even if theyre not as tall, rich, or handsome as your ideal man. Youve felt it before, havent you?
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Youve fallen in love HARD for certain men in the past enough to keep you awake rolling around in bed all night but you simply dont know WHY youre so in love with him. You just love him. PERIOD. And you love him so much that its driving you CRAZY! Friends, THIS is the kind of attraction that you should be focusing on! And Im willing to bet that this is the reason why some men leave beautiful women and settle with women who seem to be less pretty. Its that gut-feeling attraction at work! And heres the good news you can use it to your advantage, too. How To Keep Him From Leaving You For Less First of all, remember communication? the four levels of

You risk ruining your chances! Heres the thing in love and relationships, we seem to be hard-wired to let the man lead. Its like the entire universe conspires to make the man lead the relationship from friendship, to emotionally-availability, to being touchy-feely, to love. And yes, I HAVE seen that relationships in which the man took the lead work out SO MUCH BETTER than relationships in which the woman took a more direct role. I know it sounds unfair but thats actually a good thing. See, we women are natural born backleaders. When an experienced female dancer is dancing with a newbie male dancer, she doesnt take the lead instead, she dances in a way that encourages him to take the lead and do things right. She covers up his little mistakes, she emphasizes his strengths, and she gracefully moves the dance forward without ever taking the lead. There are many secret backleading techniques in relationships that encourage the man in your life to take control of your relationship. And yes, I LOVE sharing them to you little by little in these articles Until the next article, stop trying to figure out whats wrong with him and start focusing on how you can backlead things into the right direction! Alexandra From LoveRomanceRelationship: Alexandra is the author of the well-loved book 77 Secrets to Make Him Love You among others. Visit her webpage to find out about her book and learn from more of her fabulous advice about love>>

Weve talked about this in the past. Theres the friends level, then the emotionally-available level, then the touchy-feely level, and finally, the love level. He sees you as a friend when all he talks about is the weather, his job, about TV shows and other people, etc. Hes telling you hes emotionally-available when he talks about his previous girlfriends, or about love and dating in general. Hes touchy-feely when he starts tapping your shoulder, holding your hand, or holding you close when its cold. And you know he loves you when he starts talking about going steady. Are you seeing someone these days? Then ask yourself what level are the two of you on? Does he see you as just a friend? Is he telling you hes emotionally-available? Is he being touchy-feely? Is he talking about getting into a relationship and you havent given him an answer yet? If youre thinking of trying to make him go to the next level in the relationship, STOP.

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Man speak is the little code only we men know about. Man speak is what every woman wants and needs to learn. So as your man speak translator, I want to share something we men talk about behind closed doors. Imagine the following: Youve met an amazing man and youve been dating for a few months. Hes kind. Hes courteous. Hes attractive. Hes into You. And the sex is off the charts. You feel a real connection with him. Heres the thing, when you first began dating he said something like this: Im not looking for a relationship right now. You didnt make much of it because you might have said to yourself Im not sure about him yet anyway. So now the relationship is going little deeper. The sex is becoming more regular. The emotional connection seems stronger. The doors to the exclusivity have begun to crack open.

Why An Honest Man Can Be A Bad Bet

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By Jonathon Aslay Trust Such an empowering word and it means so much to a woman and a relationship. As a coach who has interviewed thousands of women, I can say TRUST is how a woman truly opens her heart. Trust begins with honesty and honesty builds trust.

All the Makings of a Serious Relationship

He hasnt done anything which creates mistrust. Honesty is the foundation of integrity. Honesty leads to deeper intimacy. Honesty IS the best policy. But when can honesty be a bad bet when seeking love? As your guy spy into the male mind, I want to share some man speak. Whats man speak, Jonathon? Man speak is the inside language we men talk about when youre not around. Man speak is what we say in the mens locker room. Since trust allows you to go deeper emotionally, youre really beginning to open your heart. Theres only one problem. Whats that, Jonathon? Ok, we said its been about 3 months. You share some activities together. He comes over to your place for dinners. He occasionally takes you out for dinner or a movie. The relationship is light and without pressure. He doesnt get much into your personal life.
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He doesnt share too much of his own. The sex is really amazing and you feel deeply connected. You take a chance and ask wheres this relationship going? All of a sudden his behavior changes. He responds with a vague answer. He begins to call less. His text messages become more sporadic He shifts his regular pattern. Do you want to know whats really going on? As your heart protector. As your guy spy into the male mind. As your man speak translator. Heres what he really means: Now I hope youre sitting down, cuz this might hurt a little. When a man says: Im not looking for a relationship right now. Translation: I want to see you, I want to have sex with you and I want to keep my options open (should my princess walk into my life). Thats right friends, I know it sucks. And heres the thing. Because we told you up front were not interested in a serious relationship. We men feel we are being totally honest and in total integrity with you. We might even be subtly reminding you of our impending escape. Therefore We have no connection. problem investing emotional

Look friends, I was no angel when I first began dating after my divorce. So this comes from knowing men and even my own behavior. Now that Im totally in love. Now that Im a professional dating & relationship coach. Now that I know the importance of real integrity, Im here to help. The reason why I became your heart protector. The reason why I love being your guy spy. The reason why I now teach man speak. Truth is, I hurt someone; it was wrong, and I woke up. So heres 3 things to remember before you give your heart:

First, Ask Yourself Relationship Ready

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Hes

Is he going through a divorce, did he just break up with a long term g/f, did he just change jobs or worse, lose his job? Second, does he include you in his life and vice versa? Does he take interest in you personal life, the good the bad the ugly and does he share his own stuff too? Third, does he talk about a we or is it all about him? If he sees his life as a me and not a we you might be in for a rough road or worse a path heartbreak. Just remember these men feel theyre being honest because They told you right from the get go. They believe you know the score. They believe theres even exchange. In essence they believe theyre absolutely honest. So the next time you hear: Im not looking for a relationship right now. Ask yourself, is he worth the gamble? Lastly, if a guy knows youre falling for him and he doesnt state his intentions, hes out of integrity.

We have no problem having regular sex. We have no problem knowing we will leave. So long as we are being honest, how you feel doesnt really matter. Its kinda bull shit I know, but its the truth.

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Now to help you spot men of integrity, Ive created several products you MUST OWN. Your Man Speak Translation Catalog Includes: 1) Why Men Pull Away, 3 Ways To Bring Him Close 2) 5 Keys To Unlock His Heart 3) We Need To Talk, Bringing Up The Touchy Subjects The more you know, the better choices you make. The man speak lessons I share are your decoding translator for following questions: How we men think. How we men act. How we men feel about you. And how we men commit. Just think of me as your foreign language interpreter giving you the translations into whats really going on inside his head. So youre in the right place if you want to learn what men are REALLY thinking when it comes to love, sex and commitment. Once you know man speak Understanding men is easier than you think. Youll be able to talk to men in their language. And know whats really going on when it comes to dating, mating and relating. Thank you for reading. Wishing you all a fantastic weekend. With love, Jonathon Your Man Speak Translator From The Editors: Jonathon KNOWS the male brain. He coaches women on how to choose better when it comes to men, and he has a huge following. We just LOVE him and know youll love his free tips, too so go here to find out how you can succeed at your relationship-> Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time

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