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It is important for the well-being of the spouse or significant other that he/she accepts help from other family members and friends. The spouse or significant other may experience unexpected feelings of loss, anger,isolation or denial. Unresolved issues from the past may also arise, adding more stress. Talking to an ET nurse, social worker or trained visitor as well as trusted relatives and friends, and seeking help from a SASO representative in the local chapter can give you much needed emotional and practical support. Qualified suppliers of ostomy supplies may also be able to provide helpful advice. Self-care is an essential part of healing and gaining self-worth, for both the ostomate and the spouse/ family. Support from other SASOs, who understand the concerns, expectations and ways of coping, is important. Caregivers, who are often SASOs, have a responsibility to look after their own physical, emotional and mental or spiritual health so that they are better equipped to help the person with the ostomy. The SASO plays a key role in helping the ostomate adjust and develop coping skills to manage his or her ostomy independently. The spouse or significant other walks with the ostomate during the learning process by sharing understanding and offering support. A positive attitude and open communication between the spouse or significant other and the ostomate will encourage a successful recovery from ostomy surgery. People heal at different rates and patience is essential in the healing process. All concerns with regard to feelings and management of the ostomy need to be discussed in a caring and loving manner.
United Ostomy Association of Canada Inc. Suite 501, 344 Bloor Street West Toronto, ON M5S 3A7 Phone: 416-595-5452 Fax: 416-595-9924 Toll Free: 1-888-969-9698 Email: uoacan@astral.magic.ca Website: www.ostomycanada.ca
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Information for spouses, families, friends and caregivers of a person with an ostomy
MISSION STATEMENT
The United Ostomy Association of Canada Inc. is a volunteer-based organization dedicated to assisting all persons facing life with gastrointestinal or urinary diversions by providing emotional support, experienced and practical help, instructional and informational services through its membership, to the family unit, associated caregivers and the general public.
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