Nature has not got two voices, you know, one of them condemning all day what the

other commands.

--Marquis de Sade

Marquis de Sade Night at Justines, 2011

the pain & pleasure of fashion and the fashion of pain & pleasure

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Foreword
White-collar conservative flashing down the street, pointing that plastic finger at me, they all assume my kind will drop and die, but I'm gonna wave my freak flag high. --Jimi Hendrix +++

Contents
Justine, by Marquis de Sade
Marquis de Sade Himself History Masters & Slaves The J. Crew of S&M Shoes Accessories Lace Leather Rubber Blindfolds Collars Reins, Canes, Bloodstains & Chains Heroes The Cage Equestrian Couture Nuns Spanking Evil Queen Gloves Venus in Furs Makeup Ropes Japanese Bondage Pet Play Story of O Black Orchid Perfume

Justine, by Marquis de Sade

The Marquis de Sade Night idea begins in this book, Justine, by Marquis de Sade, 1791. Its a dark, opulent response to Valentines Day. A pair of nipple clamps on Hallmark. Think black roses and leather petticoats and absinthe. Out with candlelight and romance. Lets tie each other up instead!

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The Marquis Himself

Donatien Alphonse Franois, Marquis de Sade (2 June 1740 2 December 1814) was a French aristocrat, revolutionary, politician and writer famous for his libertine sexuality and lifestyle. His works include novels, short stories, plays, dialogues, and political tracts. He is best known for his erotic works, which combined philosophical discourse with sexual fantasies. He was a proponent of extreme freedom, unrestrained by morality, religion or law. Sade was incarcerated in various prisons and in an insane asylum for about 32 years of his life.

I think that if there were a God, there would be less evil on this earth. I believe that if evil exists here below, then either it was willed by God or it was beyond His powers to prevent it. Now I cannot bring myself to fear a God who is either spiteful or weak. I defy Him without fear and care not a fig for his thunderbolts. Marquis de Sade, Justine

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History
SM stands for two words, sadism and masochism, named after two writers, Marquis De Sade and Sacher-Masoch. Both European aristocrats pursued erotic activities that took place more in their minds than in the real world.

A Sadist enjoys inflicting pain.

A Masochist enjoys receiving pain. +++

Masters & Slaves

In BDSM, Master/slave is a relationship in which one individual (the submissive) gives to another (the dominant) ultimate authority over them. It is a form of dominance and submission or total power exchange. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The owner/slave relationship is entered into on a consensual basis. A slave is someone who is voluntarily owned: who elects to give up much or all emotional, psychological, and physical control in a relationship (if not in his/her life) to another person who voluntarily takes on the responsibility the first person relinquishes. The slave's behavior is relatively independent of the top's emotional responses, however that is, the slave will continue to perform his/her duties regardless of the Master's or Mistress's kindness, harshness, or even absence because ownership invokes and is invoked by his/her extremely deep commitment to the relationship and to his/her part in it. What the Master or Mistress gets from this relationship may come down to something as simple as having his or her desires, as well as his or her needs, met on an ongoing basis, by someone whose devotion and loyalty need not be questioned. What the slave gets may be as simple as the comfort, satisfaction, and security of being owned or possessed and, of course, the pleasure of pleasing his/her Master or Mistress whether or not the slave's position is pleasant or comfortable.

The limits of the slave contract can vary widely and extend into other areas of BDSM. Some people opt to be purely "sex slaves", while others who prefer domestic service identify as "service slaves". Some slaves allow their masters or mistresses complete latitude as to the demands that can be placed on them. Such a relationship is known as total power exchange or TPE. People usually only enter into a master/slave contract after they have known and played with each other for some time, often several years. It can be one of the most difficult relationships in the BDSM world to maintain, and requires special skills and experience.

Hegel, the father of Lordship and Bondage. +++

The J. Crew of S&M

Season basics! Collected in AtomAge Magazine, care of 1970s designer, John Sutcliffe.

Bondage is the life of personality, and for bondage the personal self will fight with tireless resourcefulness and the most stubborn cunning. --Aldous Huxley

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Shoes

"Without discipline, there's no life at all." - Katharine Hepburn

I don't know who invented the high heel, but all men owe him a lot. ~Marilyn Monroe +++

Accessories

One should either be a work of art, or wear a work of art. ~Oscar Wilde

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Lace
Shut up and lace up. L. M. Heroux

"Lace is as much about the space between the threads as it is about the threads themselves."

Lori Howe

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Leather
Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain. Marquis de Sade

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Rubber

People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf. --George Orwell +++

Blindfolds

I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. -- Anais Nin

Thou art to me a delicious torment.

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Collars

The collar of consideration is the pre-engagement ring. This collar could be removed at any time by the submissive with no ill will and the relationship thereby ended. The training collar is an engagement ring, and indicates a deepening relationship in which the submissive is being prepared by the dominant to serve to the standards the dominant wishes. Again, the submissive may ask to be released but the break is considered more serious and painful for both parties.

The slave collar is a wedding band, and at this point the submissive is considered a
formal slave and owned by the dominant.

"You should stand up for your right to feel your pain. Jim Morrison, the Doors

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Reins, Canes, Bloodstains, Chains

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Heroes

It is a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness.

--Seneca +++

The Cage
Put a bird cage near the window so that the bird can see the sky? It's much better to look than not to, even if it hurts.

--Klaus Kinski

Taught from infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to adorn its prison. --Mary Wollstonecraft

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Equestrian
No hour of life is wasted that is spent in the saddle. ~Winston Churchill

It is not enough for a man to know how to ride; he must know how to fall. ~Mexican Proverb

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Couture
I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. -- Anais Nin

Couture

"I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy." - Rabindranath Tagore

Couture

"The eye of the master will do more work than both his hands." - Benjamin Franklin +++

Nuns

"I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power." - Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

It's the good girls who keep diaries; the bad girls never have the time. --Tallulah Bankhead

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Spanking

I cannot sing the old songs I sang long years ago, And yet I cannot say I'm sad that time hath changed us so, For when I used to sing those songs, My Papa blankety blanked, And Mama took me on her knee And I, alas! was spanked --Eugene Field

The queen of her profession was undoubtedly Mrs. Theresa Berkley, of No. 28 Charlotte Street, Portland Place; she was a perfect mistress of her art, understood how to satisfy her clients, and was, moreover, a thorough woman of business, for she amassed during her career a considerable sum of money...

"Her instruments of torture were more numerous than those of any other governess. Her supply of birch was extensive, and kept in water, so that it was always green and pliant: she had shafts with a dozen whip thongs on each of them; a dozen different sizes of cat-o'-nine-tails, some with needle points worked into them; various kinds of thin bending canes; leather straps like coach traces; battledoors, made of thick sole-leather, with inch nails run through to docket, and currycomb tough hides rendered callous by many years flagellation. Holly brushes, furze brushes; a prickly evergreen, called butcher's bush; and during the summer, a glass and China vases, filled with a constant supply of green nettles, with which she often restored the dead to life. Thus, at her shop, whoever went with plenty of money, could be birched, whipped, fustigated, scourged, needle-pricked, half-hung, holly-brushed, furze-brushed, butcher-brushed, stinging-nettled, curry-combed, phletbotomized, and tortured till he had a belly full. She also invented the Berkley Horse, an automatic flagellation machine still used in some S&M parlors to this very day.

Above quote by Henry Spencer Ashbee (21 April 1834 29 July 1900) was a book collector, writer, and bibliographer, notorious for his massive, clandestine three volume bibliography of erotic literature written under the pseudonym of Pisanus Fraxi. +++

Evil Queen

Sadism is all right in its place, but it should be directed to proper ends. Freud
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Gloves

"There are a hundred ways to kneel and kiss the ground." - Rumi +++

Venus in furs

First published in 1870, Venus in Furs gained for its author both notoriety and a degree of immortality when the word "masochism"--derived from his name--entered the psychiatric lexicon. The novel describes the sexual obsessions of Severin von Kusiemski, a European nobleman with the desire "to be the slave of a woman."

Severin finds his ideal of voluptuous cruelty in the merciless Wanda von Dunajew. Not simply a lurid tale of sexual perversion, nor a Victorian fantasy of antique decadence, Venus in Furs is a passionate and powerful portrayal of one man's struggle to enlighten and instruct himself and his world in the realm of desire. Influential on Freud, Thomas Mann, and Arthur Schnitzler, Venus in Furs remains a classic literary statement on sexual submission and control.

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Makeup

"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac." Henry Kissinger

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Ropes
Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down.

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Japanese Bondage

Kinbaku (?) means 'tight binding Kinbaku-bi (?) which literally means 'the beauty of tight binding'. Kinbaku (also Sokubaku, bakujojutsu, and senyojo jutsu) is a Japanese style of sexual bondage or BDSM which involves tying up the bottom using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin ropeoften jute and generally around 6 mm in diameter, but sometimes as small as 4mm, and between 7m-8m long). In Japanese, this rope is known as 'asanawa'.

The word shibari came into common use in the West at some point in the 1990s to describe the bondage art Kinbaku. Shibari (?) is a Japanese word that literally means "to tie" or "to bind". It is used in Japan to describe the artful use of twine to tie objects or packages. Japanese bondage (kinbaku/shibari) is said to differ from Western bondage in that the bottom is almost always immobilized or restrained to gain pleasure from being under the pressure and strain of the ropes, often squeezing the breasts or genitals, while the Western practice of bondage often focuses more on the immobilization, or may be applied strictly for decorative purposes. The aesthetics of the bound person's position are also important: Japanese bondage is distinguished by specific katas (forms) and aesthetic rules. Sometimes, asymmetric and often intentionally uncomfortable positions, often giving choice of two 'evils' (two in different ways uncomfortable positions to chose between by moving in the ropes), are employed to heighten the psychological impact of the bondage. Japanese bondage is very much about the way the rope is applied and the pleasure is more in the journey than the destination. In this way the rope becomes an extension of the tiers hands and is used to communicate. Western styles are usually more symmetrical and may sometimes only marginally restrict the bottom's ability to move. +++

Pet play

Animal roleplay may be either a non-sexual or an erotic sexual roleplay (when it may also be called petplay, ponyplay, ponyism, kittenplay, or pup-play). In its erotic sexual roleplay form, one or more of the participants takes on the role of a real or imaginary animal in character, including appropriate mannerisms and behavior, and sometimes a partner will act as another animal, or, in a sexual context, may take the role of rider, trainer, or caretaker. +++

Story of O

1954: Published in French by Jean-Jacques Pauvert, Story of O is a tale of female submission about a beautiful Parisian fashion photographer, O, who is blindfolded, chained, whipped, branded, pierced, made to wear a mask, and taught to be constantly available for oral, vaginal and anal intercourse. Despite her harsh treatment, O grants permission beforehand for everything that occurs, and her permission is consistently sought.

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Black Orchid

Its the state flower of Justines for the night +++

And the perfume

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Safe words

Justines Safe words: Bev Nap Mocktail Share plate Big top Well gin +++

Rules of Public Master-Slave Etiquette

by Gloria Brame

Call a dominant by the title of her or his choice (e.g., Mistress, Ma'am, Master, Sir, etc.) If you don't know what his or her preference is, ASK. Don't lunge at a dominant, stand too close to him or her, or thrust your hand out in greeting. Wait politely until the dominant greets you or initiates a handshake. You don't need to act like a mouse but it is respectful to periodically lower your eyes in deference to the dominant. The only person who has the right to give you orders is someone to whom you have consensually surrendered control. If such a person gives an order, an appropriate response would be, "Yes, Sir" or "Yes, Ma'am." When an order is given, do your best to comply immediately.

If the order pushes a limit, either use your safe word (if you have one), or tell the dominant that you are having a problem and need to talk to him or her. If a dominant wanna-be tries to order you around, an appropriate response would be, "I have not consented to this." Anyone who tries to pressures you into service or tells you it is expected of all submissives should be avoided. Basic rule of thumb: if someone is rude to you, you are under no obligation to be polite to them, even if he or she is a dominant. Clearly he or she is not a good one. Open doors for the dominant and wait until she (or he) passes through before following. Have a lighter or matches handy so you can light a dominant's cigarette or cigar. If the dominant does smoke, discreetly empty the ashtray every so often. Offer to fetch a drink for the dominant. Keep an eye on the dominant's beverage glass and offer to get a refill whenever it is empty. Offer to carry the dominant's coat, equipment bag, or other cumbersome object. When standing beside your dominant, make sure to stand just behind his or her elbow, so that the dominant is slightly in front of you. (Note: some dominants may require that you kneel in attendance.)

Do not assume you may take a chair beside your dominant unless she or he has already discussed this with you. Wait until your dominant tells you where to sit. If the dominant gives you no instruction, politely ask where she or he would like you to be. Avoid starting requests with phrases such as "I want" or "I need." Instead, ask for the privilege by starting with: "May I please" or "Mistress/Master, may I have permission to...".

If you are in a club or at a party, never bolt away from your dominant's side or give the impression that you would rather be anyplace else but next to your dominant. If something exciting is going on which you are dying to watch, or if you see people you know, ask permission to go. No matter how attractive another dominant may be, when you are in the company of your dominant, control yourself and do not flirt or otherwise express untoward interest in someone else. Even if you are not yet collared or formally owned, if you wish to become owned, you will significantly reduce your chances by acting shallow. Always remember to say "thank you" for every privilege your dominant grants you. For example, if you've received permission to do something, do not charge off like an animal just released from a cage. It gives others the impression that you couldn't wait to leave your dominant's side. Do not argue in public with your dominant. If you are genuinely upset about something which cannot wait until you get home, ask your dominant for permission to discuss it privately and out of earshot of the crowd. +++

Endnote
See you at Justines on February 12, 2011! Well celebrate the right to use our imagination. I shut my eyes in order to see. --Paul Gaugin

"Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other. Marquis de Sade