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WORKING IT OFF ... Muscle-strengthening activities, including yoga, can help men and women over 50 lose weight and keep the weight off. Losing some weight is a goal for many people regardless of age. While youngsters and young adults might be able to get away with a few extra pounds without suffering any significant consequences, older adults carrying some extra weight might be putting their overall health at considerable risk. Shedding weight after the age of 50 is not always easy. As a person ages, muscle mass tends to dwindle while body fat has a tendency to increase. Since fat burns fewer calories than muscle, weight gain as a person ages is bound to happen. But that doesn't mean such weight gain is inevitable. In fact, men and women willing to make certain changes with regard to diet and exercise can shed pounds after 50 while preventing future weight gain.
KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE GOING ... Going on dates is a great way for older married couples to create excitement and romance.
can be beneficial, too much time spent together may lead to feelings of suffocation and the perception that each member of the relationship is no longer his or her own person. Individuals can remedy this by doing more things on their own, whether spending time apart with friends or engaging in hobby time without your spouse. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Brief periods of separation can make the time married couples do spend together feel more meaningful. Recommit to your vows. After 30 or more years, the vows you shared on your wedding may be a distant memory. Some people may have different views on the permanence of vows, putting personal happiness ahead of the happiness of the couple. Take stock of what you promised one another on your wedding day and stick to those words. Become a comedian. Laughter has a way of dissolving a tenuous situation. Focus energy on laughing at mistakes instead of pointing blame. Couples can make fun of themselves and resolve to not take things too seriously. Act like you're dating. Couples often become complacent after many years of marriage. They may forget about the little details that made the relationship fun in the early years. The personal notes and cards and other surprises may fall by the wayside after being together for some time. Make an effort to go on dates, write love notes and think of what was appreciated by your partners when you were in the dating stage. Practice selflessness. Sometimes all that is needed to rekindle a relationship is a selfless act that shows how much you care for your partner. Couples who are on the fence with regard to divorce can make an effort to improve the relationship rather than simply see divorce as the best option.
DIET Men and women need fewer calories as they age. For example, men and women in their 40s may need as many as 200 calories more per day than they will when they reach their 50s. Counting calories might seem difficult, so men and women in their 50s and older who don't think they can count calories can try to eat more low-calorie foods like fruits, vegetables and whole grains. Consuming fewer calories often requires changing dietary habits, not only with regard to what you're eating but also how you're eating and even how you shop for food. Men and women used to dining out for lunch every day can start bringing their own lunches so they can gain greater control of their daily caloric intake. For those who find they're frequently too exhausted to cook each night, they can prepare meals in advance to have healthy, homemade meals waiting instead of always ordering takeout or delivery. When shopping for food, people should avoid The Internet and related techdoing so on an empty stomach so they're less inclined to nologies have been a game-changer buy unhealthy snacks. for people of all ages. The instant connectivity made possible by these EXERCISE Exercise is another essential component to shedding advancements has been valued by pounds after 50, though men and women over 50 should young adults and children for years. always consult a physician before they begin a new exer- But now social media is attracting an cise regimen. The Centers for Disease Control and Pre- entirely different demographic -- sevention points out that regular exercise can help older niors. More than just a method of chanmen and women prevent the onset of a host of ailments, including heart disease and diabetes. In addition, the neling information to the comfort of CDC notes that regular physical activity as one ages helps home, the Internet and the various muscles grow stronger, which increases the chances that social media platforms, including an individual will be able to perform necessary daily ac- Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, and Intivities without the assistance of others. Maintaining that stagram, are ways for older adults to independence into older adulthood is a goal for many men stay connected with friends and famand women, and it's a goal that's far more realistic for ily. For seniors faced with mobility ismen and women who exercise than it is for those who sues, social media helps to bring the world to them. don't. Despite the stereotype that seWhen coupled with a healthy, low-calorie diet, routine exercise can help men and women over 50 shed extra niors do not want to learn to use new weight and keep the weight off once it's gone. According technology, many seniors are getto the CDC, older adults need at least 2 hours and 30 ting on board. Findings from the Pew minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity, such as Research Institute show that social brisk walking, every week and muscle-strengthening ac- networking use among Internet ustivities on 2 more days a week. These muscle-strengthen- ers ages 50 to 64 grew by 88 percent ing activities should work all the major muscle groups, in- between April 2009 and May 2010. cluding the legs, hips, back, abdomen, chest, shoulders, The research also found that the perand arms. Muscle-strengthening activities include lift- centage of those 65 and older using ing weights, working out with resistance bands, exercise social media grew from 13 percent to such as push-ups and sit-ups that use body weight for re- 26 percent during that same stretch. sistance, and yoga. Even gardening that involves digging Although young adults continue to and shoveling can be considered a muscle-strengthening be the primary users of social media, older users are gaining momentum activity. Weight gain is often an expected side effect of aging. and surpassing youth in the number But men and women don't have to gain weight as they get of new users. Individuals who are not yet utilizolder. Some simple dietary changes and a commitment to ing social media to manage their comroutine exercise is all it takes to shed weight after 50 and munication efforts may be inspired by keep that weight off once it's gone. these benefits to doing so. Photo and video sharing: The majority of photos being taken today are digital, as fewer people are making prints of their photos. Rather, they are being shared via e-mail or through social media sites. Grand-
STAYING CONNECTED ... A quick chat with a loved one can help seniors fight off depression. women. A study by Dr. Shelia Cotten, a sociologist and associate professor from the University of Alabama, Birmingham, revealed that Internet use was associated with a 30 percent decrease in depressive symptoms among older adults who used it regularly, while other studies have shown similarly impressive results. Working the mind: Going online, chatting on social media or simply writing an e-mail works areas of the brain. Typing also helps improve manual dexterity. These factors can be beneficial for seniors looking to stay sharp. Using the Internet as a form of communication is a growing trend among the 50-plus demographic. It enables them to stay connected with family and the world in a variety of ways.
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As the Baby Boomer generation enters retirement age, there has been an increased demand for services that meet the needs of this segment of the population. Amenities such as active-living communities that boast top-of-the-line features typically are the first things individuals seek. There are many choices with regard to active adult retirement communities. Many of these developments boast everything from detached, single-family homes to villas to condominiums. These residences are built with the active adult in mind. Here are some of the benefits that these communities boast. COMMUNITY COMPANIONSHIP Due to the age-restricted nature of active-adult-home-developments, the residents are all in a similar age range, and may have similar interests. At a time in life A COMPETITIVE EDGE ... Adding years when friendships from work may waver OFFERING MORE ... An active lifestyle is does not mean you need to give up sports. due to retirement, and older children may at the heart of 55-plus communities. be busy with their own lives, these combefore and after a workout. In addition, ac- munities can help foster new friendships. SECURITY tivities such as yoga can work wonders on Individuals who are no longer bogged LOW- OR NO-MAINTENANCE LIVING improving flexibility for young and aging down with work requirements may be One of the biggest attractions to active- more likely to take vacations or go visiting. athletes alike. Don't stop strength training. Some adult living is that these homes are built In a traditional home, there may be woraging athletes mistakenly feel they should to provide worry-free living. Included in ries about leaving the home unattended stop strength training as they get older. No the home ownership fees are provisions to for a period of time. However, in 55-plus longer concerned about building muscle, take care of much of the interior and ex- residences, homes may be in gated comaging athletes might feel as if they have terior maintenance. That means should a munities or have security patrols. nothing to gain by lifting weights and con- pipe leak or the lawn needs mowing, maintinuing to perform other muscle strength- tenance staff rather than the homeowner CONCIERGE SERVICES ening exercises. But the body gradually will handle the problem. Some of the more exclusive communiloses muscle mass as it ages, and that ties may have staff who can help with evACTIVITY-BASED FUN loss puts the joints under greater stress erything from booking vacations to helping Many communities build activities into with moving details. There also are develwhen aging athletes perform other exercises. That stress can put people at greater the living plan. Therefore, there may be a opments that offer transitional homes, and risk for arthritis, tendinitis and ligament workout room, the game center, exercise someone may be available to help with the sprains. While you no longer need to max classes, movie nights, and many other at- transition from an active-style home to out on the bench press or challenge your- tractions to keep residents busy. Active- one that has nursing staff or assisted livself on the biceps curl, it is important to adult communities may be similar to all- ing offerings at that time in life when it is continue to make strength training a part inclusive vacations and cruises in that needed. they have their own activities coordinator of your fitness regimen as you age. Active-living communities offer many Aging athletes need not associate ag- on staff. Should residents prefer solo ac- of the features that recently retired people ing with ceasing their athletic pursuits. tivities, the property on which these homes seek in homes that do not compromise on But recognizing your limitations and the are built are often created with recreation amenities. Individuals who are looking for changes your body is going through is an in mind. There can be walking paths or ar- comfortable, maintenance-free homes ofimportant element of staying healthy as eas for cycling. Pools and spas are often ten seek out these developments for the part of the living package as well. your approach older adulthood. convenience and services they offer.
STAY ACTIVE ... Staying physically active as you age can prevent or delay the onset of Alzheimer's disease. disease may also reduce the risk for Alzheimer's down the road. More information on a heart-healthy diet is available at www.heart.org. Stimulate yourself mentally. Mental stimulation can help the brain stay sharp, and men and women who find ways to stay mentally stimulated can reduce their risk of developing Alzheimer's. Embrace activities that require communication and interaction with others, and find time for additional tasks that can stimulate your brain. These may include studying a foreign language, reading, trying your hand at mentally stimulating puzzles such as crosswords or Sudoku, and other activities that emphasize organization. Such activities are essentially workouts for your brain that can help it stay sharp as you age. Remain socially active. Staying socially active into older adulthood is important for a variety of reasons, not the least of which is that research has indicated the brain functions better when men and women are not isolated from others. Memory and cognition are stronger when people remain socially active and engaged in their society, so retirees should look for ways to revive their social lives as a means to protecting their brains from the onset of Alzheimer's or dementia. Alzheimer's disease remains an enigma in many ways. But ongoing research continues to show that men and women can take measures to actively prevent or delay the onset of Alzheimer's disease and improve their quality of life as a result.
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KEEPING THEM SAFE ... Regular driving assessments can help keep aging loved ones safe.
REGULAR VISITS ... When moving a relative into a nursing home, find a facility that's close to home so men and women can still enjoy regular contact with friends and relatives. in a nursing home does not mean he or she can no longer travel. If a relative is healthy enough to travel, include them on family trips and outings. This includes more routine events like weekly Sunday dinners, kids' sporting events and other extracurricular activities. The more involved your aging relative are in the daily life of your family, the more likely they are to see the advantages of living in a nursing home. Encourage your loved ones to take some personal items with them. When moving into a nursing home, men and women must leave behind many of their possessions. This is a simple space issue, as the rooms in a typical nursing home cannot accommodate a life's worth of keepsakes and possessions. But that doesn't mean men and women have to leave everything behind. Encourage your loved one to bring along some possessions, such as his or her family photos, a favorite chair or smaller mementos from places he or she visited throughout his or her life. Such items can make a nursing home seem less antiseptic and more like a home. Set up an e-mail account for your loved one. If your loved one still has his or her mental health, then set him or her up with an e-mail account. This allows your loved one to maintain daily contact with family and friends. Many of today's nursing homes provide facilities where residents can access the Internet. If not, speak to the staff and ask if your relative can bring his or her own computer. If your relative will be able to routinely access the Internet, consider purchasing a digital subscription to the local newspaper so he or she can further maintain a connection to the community.
It is 2 a.m. and that cough and stuffy nose you have been battling is still keeping you up. You reach for the nighttime cold relief medicine only to find it expired a few months ago. If you take a dose to ease your symptoms, will you be putting yourself at risk? This situation is a relatively common occurrence. Many medicine cabinets are stocked with over-the-counter drugs as well as prescription medications that may be past their expiration dates. It is a good idea to routinely discard expired medicines, but if you happen to take a drug that has passed its expiration date, you will most likely suffer no ill effects. According to the Harvard Medical School Family Health Guide, the expiration date on a medicine is not the dates when a drug becomes hazardous. Rather, it marks the period of time after which a drug company can no longer guarantee the efficacy of the medication. Since 1979, drug manufacturers selling medications in the United States have been required by the Food and Drug Administration to stamp an expiration date on their products. This is the date until which the manufacturer can still guarantee full potency of the drug. Expiration dates also may be a marketing ploy. Francis Flaherty, a retired FDA pharmacist, has said drug manufacturers put expiration dates on products for marketing purposes rather than scientific reasons. It doesn't make financial sense to a company to have products on the shelves for years. Therefore, most drug manufacturers will not do long-term testing on products to confirm if they will be effective 10 to 15 years after manufacture. The U.S. military has conducted their own studies with the help of the FDA. FDA researchers tested more than 100 over-the-counter and prescription drugs. Around 90 percent were proven to still be effective long past the expiration date -- some for more than 10 years. Drugs that are stored in cool, dark places have a better chance of lasting because the fillers used in the product will not separate or start to break down as they might in a warm, humid environment. Storing medicines in the refrigerator can prolong their shelf life. Although a pharmacist cannot legally advise consumers to use medication past an expiration date, most overthe-counter pain relievers and drugs in pill form should still be fine. Certain liquid antibiotics and drugs made up of organic materials can expire faster than others. For those who still want to err on the safe side, routinely clean out medications from cabinets once they expire. However, if an expired medication is taken by mistake, there's little need to worry about potentially adverse effects.
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More and more elderly residents are moving in with their adult children, the still-struggling economy has likely played a significant role. Elderly men and women who lost retirement savings as the market tumbled can no longer afford the costly expense of an assisted living facility, causing many of those people to move in with their children. For adult children welcoming a parent or an in-law into their home, a common priority is to ensure the home is safe for an elderly resident. Some safety measures might be easier to plan than others, but the following guidelines should help adults prepare their homes for the arrival of an elderly housemate. REDUCE RISK OF INJURY IN THE BATHROOM Perhaps no room can be more difficult or seniors to navigate than the bathroom. Wet tiled floors can greatly increase the risk of falling, so make sure to have bathroom rugs that are slip-resistant. Another step to secure the bathroom is to install grab bars on the walls, including in the bathtub and next to to save money. Don't go overboard rewarding yourself. Once your last the toilet. As for the bathtub, be sure to place a non-skid mat or child has left the nest, the temptation to reward yourself with a luxury item or two might prove overwhelming. After all, strips on the standing area. This can help secure arguraising a family and paying for college tuition has no doubt ably the riskiest part of a home. required substantial sacrifice on your part, so it's well within reason that you want to reward yourself after all these KEEP THE HOME ILLUMINATED years. Avoid overdoing it so your finances aren't stretched Nightlights should be used in hallways and along the too thinly. A vacation with your spouse is reasonable, but staircase as well as in the bathroom and the kitchen. buying a villa overseas might be a little over the top. Luxuries can be nice, but they can also drain a budget. Your monthly CLEAR OUT THE CLUTTER expenses once the kids have moved out should be lower, so if A cluttered home is a fire hazard regardless of whom is you find your cost of living has increased now that your nest living inside. However, a cluttered home is also a considis empty, you might be forced to determine which of your ex- erable safety risk for seniors. . penses are luxuries and which are necessities. The above are just a few of the many steps homeown Take advantage of your "experience." Though accepting ers can take to make their homes safer for elderly guests. a "senior" discount might be a blow to your pride, it also can be a boon to your bottom line. Many establishments, including gyms, restaurants and movie theaters, offer discounts to men and women age 55 and older. This can help you save a substantial amount of money over time, and no one has to know you've started cashing in on your experience. KEEP TRACK ... Empty nesters can track their monthly expenses, including how much they spend on dining out, to ensure they aren't overspending as they inch closer to retirement.
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