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1. TRAINING PROGRAM OVERVIEW
TABLE OF CONTENTS
2. PARTICIPANTS TRAINING HANDOUTS
3. REFERENCES
a. Leadership skills & emotional intelligence
b. Strategic guide to effective negotiations
c. The Neural Power of Leadership: Daniel Goleman on Social Intelligence
d. Social Intelligence: the heart and Science of Human Relationships
e. Leadership for today: Effective group communication
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TRAINING PROGRAM OVERVIEW
Advanced People Skills
Keys to Success through Social Intelligence
About the Program
Individual uniqueness is an attribute that promotes dynamism and challenge in building up
organizational culture. Aside from having the right person in the loop and nurture individual talents
within, confronting each person or to a few would require one to communicate effectively,
manage conflicts, proactively resolve negotiations and build stronger team dynamics. These
attributes are skills exceptionally unique for a leader and is considered a valuable asset to the
organization in promoting harmony across professionals and employees. Achieving the traits
mentioned- collectively known as Advanced People Skills, is only a few clicks away to grasp
concepts and in turn, bring out the confidence in you.
This one-day course helps the participants understand their ways of collaborating with people
within their organization, primarily on people skills. Apart from other usual courses of the same
title, this course integrates theories of social intelligence, widening our perspective of
understanding social cultures and thus, the pinch of this training.
Recognize their ways of collaborating with others
Major Learning Outcomes
At the end of this training, participants should be able to
Increase leadership capacity and confidence through mastery of the concepts
Proactively address people issues and ensure win-win resolutions as a challenge
Quantitatively address people skills as part of assessing organizational performance
Rank-and-file employees
Who should attend?
Managers and supervisors
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Course Outline
Introduction: People skills as defined by various resources
Communication skill: some vital concepts
o Communication Process Model
o Speaking and Listening
o Interpersonal Dynamics
o Behavioral Modeling
o Employee motivation (media presentation)
Setting things even with conflict management
o About conflict management
o Identifying ways of responding conflicts
Meeting both minds through Negotiation
o Negotiation and its concepts
o The major types of negotiation
o The 7 critical elements to successful Negotiation
Seeing power in unity: team dynamics
o The team model theory
o Teambuilding activity: Mine field
Social Intelligence and the society
o The theory of social intelligence
o The five aspects of social intelligence
o Understanding personalities in the workplace
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Advanced People Skills
Keys to Success through Social Intelligence
July 31, 2010
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W W W . E C C I N T E R N A T I O N A L . C O M
PHILIPPINES MALAYSIA VIETNAM INDONESIA INDIA CHINA
Gentle Reminders
Punctuality
Ask if in Doubt!
Phone on Silent Mode!
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Notify Facilitator if leaving! Have FUN, please!
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Session Briefing:
Expectation Setting:
1 / f C 1. NAME/Preferred Name to be Called
2. Job Responsibility and years in Company
3. Expect to learn in the Session
4. Want to Contribute to make session
productive
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5. One (1) unique thing about me few people
know about
Classroom Norms
1. Maintain adult learning principles
2. Listen and participate with an open mind
3 Minimize distractions keep mobile phones on silent mode (if
Session Briefing:
3. Minimize distractions keep mobile phones on silent mode (if
you need to take an urgent call, take it outside the meeting
room or return the call during the breaks)
4. Promptness is an expectation
5. Lets value mutual respect and mutual trust
6. Have fun.
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Learning Outcomes
1. Understand Multiple Intelligences and the power of Social
Intelligence (SI)
2. Assess own SI Profile and gain insights on how to enhance human
relations skills relations skills
3. Identify toxic behaviors and relate these to causes of
dysfunctional relationships
4. Relate insights to improving leadership competency and getting
things done through people
5. Plan action for continuous self-improvement
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Nuggets
Whocansaywhichismoreimportant
In the long run: Landing on the moon, In the long run: anding on the moon,
Orunderstandingthehumanmind?
TenzinGyatso
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(14
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DalaiLama)
17 November 1950 present
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CHECKING YOUR SMARTS
Self Assessment Exercise
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CHECKING YOUR SMARTS
AM I SMART ? MI ASSESSMENT
Howard Gardner's
Theory Of Multiple Intelligences
Gardner's theory argues that intelligence, particularly as
it is traditionally defined, does not sufficiently encompass
the wide variety of abilities humans display.; i.e., a child
who masters multiplication easily is not necessarily more
intelligent overall than a child who struggles to do so.
The second child may be stronger in another kind of
intelligence, and therefore may best learn the given
material through a different approach, may excel in a
field outside of mathematics, or may even be looking
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through the multiplication learning process at a
fundamentally deeper level that hides a potentially higher
mathematical intelligence than in the one who
memorizes the concept easily.
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H. Gardner Multiple Intelligences
The Eight (8) SMARTS:
1. Linguistic intelligence ("word smart"):
2. Logical-mathematical intelligence
("number/reasoning smart")
3. Spatial intelligence ("picture smart")
4. Bodily-Kinesthetic intelligence ("body smart")
5. Musical intelligence ("music smart")
6 I t l i t lli (" l t")
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6. Interpersonal intelligence ("people smart")
7. Intrapersonal intelligence ("self smart")
8. Naturalist intelligence ("nature smart")
MI Assessment Scoring Key
1. Add the total points of your response on the scale of the
against the following items per intelligence cluster:
o LANGUAGE/WORD: item #s - 1, 9, 17, 25, 33, 41, 49
o LOGIC/MATH: item #s 2, 10, 18, 26, 34, 42, 50
o MUSICAL: item #s 3, 11, 19, 27, 35, 43, 51
o SPATIAL/PICTURE: item #s 4, 12, 20, 28, 36, 44, 52
o BODY/KINESTHETIC: item #s 5, 13, 21, 29, 37, 45, 53
o PEOPLE/SOCIAL: item #s 6, 14, 22, 30, 38, 46, 54
o SELF/INTRA: item #s 7, 15, 23, 31, 39, 47, 55
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o NATURE: item #s - 8, 16, 24, 32, 40, 48, 56
2. Get total score per cluster and divide over 7 = average
score
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Zen Philosophy
Thebiggestobstacletolearning
somethingnew
isthebeliefthatyoualready
know it
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knowit.
Quick Exercise
Think back on your own experience of being
managed. Youve probably had bosses who you
thought did a good job managing you and thought did a good job managing you, and
others who you felt did a poor job. Think about
the good bosses. What qualities or skills did
they demonstrate that made them effective in
managing you that made them successful in
motivating you to do a good job. List those
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qualities and skills.
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Emotional Intelligence and
Leadership
Going Beyond I.Q. AND E.Q.
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Higher levels of EI are associated with better
performance in the following areas:
CENTER FOR CREATIVE LEADERSHIP
RESEARCH ON E.I. AND LEADERSHIP EFFECTIVNESS
(2003)
performance in the following areas:
Participative Management
Putting People at Ease
Self-Awareness
Balance between Personal Life and Work
Straightforwardness and Composure
Building and Mending Relationships
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Building and Mending Relationships
Doing Whatever it Takes
Decisiveness
Confronting Problem employees
Change Management
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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE : EI
Daniel Goleman
Emotional Intelligence (EI) describes the
ability, capacity, skill, or, in the case of the trait
EI model, a self-perceived ability, to identify, EI model, a self perceived ability, to identify,
assess, and manage the emotions of one's self,
of others, and of groups.
Emotional intelligence refers to an ability to recognize
the meanings of emotion and their relationships, and
To reason and problem-solve on the basis of them;
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The capacity to perceive emotions, assimilate
emotion-related feelings, understand the information
of those emotions, and manage them.
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Emotional Competence Inventory (ECI)
Four (4) Clusters; 16 Competencies
1. Self-Awareness: knowing ones internal states,
preferences, resources and intuitions
2. Self-Management: managing ones own internal
states, impulses and resources
3. Social Awareness: how people handle
relationships and awareness of others feelings,
needs and concerns.
4. Relationship Management: adeptness at inducing
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4. Relationship Management: adeptness at inducing
desirable results in others
1. Self-Awareness Competencies
Emotional Awareness recognizing own emotions and
effects
A t S lf A t k i t th d
Emotional Competence Inventory (ECI)
Accurate Self-Assessment knowing own strengths and
limits
Self-Confidence strong sense of self-worth and capabilities
2. Self-Management Competencies
Emotional Self-Control - keeping disruptive emotions and
impulses in check
Transparency maintaining integrity; acting congruently with
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Transparency maintaining integrity; acting congruently with
ones values
Adaptability flexibility in handling change
Achievement striving to improve or meeting a standard of
excellence
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2. Self-Management Competencies
Initiative readiness to act on opportunities
Optimism persistence in pursuing goals despite obstacles
Emotional Competence Inventory (ECI)
and setbacks
3. Social Awareness
Empathy sensing others feelings and perspectives, and
taking an active interest in their concerns
Organizational Awareness reading a groups emotional
currents and power relationships
Service Orientation anticipating recognizing and meeting
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Service Orientation anticipating, recognizing and meeting
customer's needs
4. Relationship Management
Developing Others sensing others development needs and
bolstering their abilities
Emotional Competence Inventory (ECI)
bolstering their abilities
Inspirational Leadership inspiring and guiding individuals
and groups
Change Catalyst initiating or managing change
Influence wielding effective tactics for persuasion
Conflict Management negotiating and resolving
disagreements
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Teamwork and Collaboration working with others toward
shared goals; creating group synergy in pursuing collective
goals
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Socrates
Died: 399 B.C.
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Give me beauty in the inward soul;
may the outward and the inward man
be at one.
Self Assessment Social Intelligence
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AM I SOCIALLY INTELLIGENT?
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A Different Kind of Smart
Since the 1995 publication of Daniel Golemans
landmark book Emotional Intelligence: Why It
Can Matter More Than IQ the concept of EI or Can Matter More Than IQ, the concept of EI or
EQan emotional quotienthas taken hold
significantly in the business sector
The concept of social intelligence, or SI, as one
of a set of key life competencies is surely an
idea whose time has arrived It crystallizes
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idea whose time has arrived. It crystallizes
much of what we know about an important
dimension of human effectiveness.
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE: SI
"the ability to understand and manage men and women,
boys and girls, to act wisely in human relations"
(Thorndike) (Thorndike)
A combination of a basic understanding of people --- a
kind of strategic social awareness - and a set of skills for
interacting successfully with them.
People with high SI are magnetic to others
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the human capacity to understand whats
h i i th ld d di t
Social Intelligence
A New Definition of Human Intelligence
happening in the world and responding to
that understanding in a personally and
socially effective manner.
Norman D Livergood
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Norman D. Livergood
IT Consultant, Writer
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE: SI
A simple description of SI
the ability to get along well with others
and to get them to cooperate with you.
Karl Albrecht
social intelligence consists of both
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insight and behavior.
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SI Range of Skills
Able to relate to people on a one-on-one basis, small groups, whole
roomful and even large gatherings;
Uses power of own brain and body to communicate with and read
people
Acquire an attitude that encourage others to grow, create,
communicate, befriend know how to make and keep friends
Can negotiate and navigate through conflict situations; mistakes and
endings
A superb conversationalist and listener and relates successfully with
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Is comfortable with others from different backgrounds, ages,
cultures, and social strata and is able to make them feel relaxed and
comfortable, making cooperative, participative and involved
From TOXIC to Nourishing
the biggest single cause of low social intelligence
comes from simple lack of insight.
Toxic people often become so preoccupied with their
own personal struggles that they simply do not
understand the impact they have on others.
They need help in seeing themselves as others see
them.
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What are Toxic Behaviors?
An individual's action can cause others to feel devalued,
inadequate, angry, frustrated or guilty.
The anti-thesis of which are Nourishing Behaviors can The anti-thesis of which are Nourishing Behaviors can
affect others to feel they are values, loved, capable,
respected and appreciated.
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BLIND SPOTS, LENSES and FILTERS
Blind Spots : parts of our reality that we have chosen
not to deal with
Personal Lenses : magnify those aspects of reality we
preoccupy ourselves with
Filters : selectively exclude or rearrange various aspects
of reality to suit our existing brain patterns
They operate dynamically
Shift from moment to moment, situation to situation
Programmed by a persons set of values, beliefs, desires,
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expectation, fears and evaluations
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Social Halitosis, Flatulence & Dandruff
Social Halitosis
Some people are completely capable of treating
another human being like a thing, a piece of furniture, g g, p ,
a non-being who exists only for the fulfillment of their
own selfish purposes (ex. religious proselytizers;
telemarketers; some hypochondriacs or really sick
people who love talking about their maladyetc.)
Social Flatulence
Originates mainly from ignorance lack of situational
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Originates mainly from ignorance, lack of situational
awareness or worse, lack of respect for accepted
norms of behavior (e.g. have the knack of saying
inappropriate or crude remarks cross culturally
ignorant, etc.)
Social Halitosis, Flatulence & Dandruff
Social Dandruff
A person with a pattern of behavior that selfishly imposes ones
interests on others (e g the gang who gets into a bar or a interests on others (e.g. the gang who gets into a bar or a
restaurant and owns it)
Imposes on the politeness of others to ask for favors
inappropriate for the relationship (e.g. the bumming co-
worker)
The get my way person (e.g. always insists on where the
group shall go for lunch; the prima diva entrance; etc.)
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The DILBERT Factor
The flawed outputs of our educational system
Everyone else is stupid, incompetent, or misguided to appreciate
them
Often arrested or retarded social development, marked introversion
and limited self-insight
Lack of awareness and insight into social contexts and motivation of
others
Compensated low self-esteem and self worth gained through
intellectual or technical achievements
Eccentric; presents self as unique
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Tend to deviate from norms and rules; all people in authority and
non-technical geniuses are either stupid or ignorant
Gods gift of genius is in them
Toxic Workplace Environment
Draconian work rules
Oppressive supervisory practices, pp p y p ,
and intense pressures to meet production
requirements certainly seemed to have increased his
stress level, and possibly aggravated his disturbed
emotional state.
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1. Situational Awareness
S.P.A.C.E.
THE SKILLS OF INTERACTION
2. Presence
3. Authenticity
4. Clarity
5. Empathy
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Situational Awareness
Build and strengthen your social radar
The ability to read situations and interpret the behaviors of
people in those situations
Being sensitive to peoples emotional states, possible intentions,
and a proclivity to interact
Staying attuned to others moods by listening beyond the words
or content, but the feelings and moods
An appreciation of culture and values of groups (even countries)
and an understanding of social networks and unspoken norms
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Presence
Often or commonly referred to as bearing
This competency incorporates both verbal and non-verbal
patterns of ones behavior, including;
O ll Overall appearance
Posture
Voice Quality
Subtle movement and gestures
A whole collection of signals other people process into an
evaluative impression of a person (e.g., grace under pressure;
energy; passion for purpose; a life essence that attracts attention
A i iti d SMILE
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An inviting demeanor; a SMILE
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Authenticity
Demonstrated actions or behaviors other peoples social
radars pick up as signals that can lead them to judge a
person to be:
Congruent and consistent with his/her pronounced values and
decisions/actions, are you true to yourself?
General impression of openness and transparency
Ethical; Trustworthy; Fair; A person with Integrity
Doing the right thing and standing up for what he believes is right
Well-intentioned and genuinely interested in people
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Clarity
The ability to express and explain self clearly and
coherently
Passes data accurately and un-cluttered
Illuminates ideas with stories, anecdotes, metaphors
Articulates views and proposed courses of action
Enriches discussions by building on others ideas
Persuades others by engaging people in discussions that appeal
to their self-interests
Can get support and cooperation of people through applying
influence and knows how to use SILENCE
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influence and knows how to use SILENCE
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Empathy
Defined in the context of social competence as having
the capacity for shared feeling with other people
A state of connectedness with another person
Builds a strong base for positive interaction and cooperation ; a
condition of rapport
Keen ability to understand and perceive what motivates other
people even those from diverse backgrounds and cultures
Is sensitive to other peoples needs and accepting of who they
are
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Tuning-in Exercise
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Nothing strengthens authority so
much as silence.
Leonardo di ser Piero Da Vinci
April 15, 1452 May 2, 1519
The Archetype of the
Renaissance Man
Renaissance human, the success
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model most of us admire, would have
a strong and well-integrated
combination of all intelligences.
The Renaissance Human
The Big Three Focus
The 3IM Model for businesses:
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EI) awareness and EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EI) awareness and
management of inner experience
SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE (SI) the ability to get along well with
others and get them to cooperate with you
PRACTICAL INTELLIGENCE (PI) the ability to solve
problems and cope effectively with daily life
The E.S.P. FACTOR
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Albrechts Renaissance Man Model
Six (6) Primary Intelligences (ASPEAK)
1. Abstract Intelligence (symbolic reasoning, of the IQ type);
2. Social Intelligence (what we are trying to grapple with);
3. Practical Intelligence (getting things done);
4. Emotional Intelligence (self-awareness and the management
of inner experience);
5. Aesthetic Intelligence (a sense of form, design, literature, the
arts, music, and other holistic experiences); and
6. Kinesthetic Intelligence (whole-body competence such as
sport, dance, music, or flying a jet fighter).
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What Builds Empathy?
The Three As
ATTENTIVENESS : getting outside of your own mental bubble
APPRECIATION : willingness and ability to accept people as
they are
AFFIRMATION : as human beings, we need, want and seek
affirmation of ourselves on at keast 3 levels:
Lovability
Capability
worthiness
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HowToConnectWithPeople:
1. Trainyourselftoreadsocialsituations. Whatsgoingon
here? What are the interests needs feelings and possible intentions here? Whataretheinterests,needs,feelings,andpossibleintentions
ofthoseinvolved?
2. Respect,affirm,andappreciatepeopleandyoullfindthatmostof
themwillreplyinkind. Puttingpeopledownseldomgainsyou
anything.
3. Listen attentively,respectfully,andwiththeintentionoflearning.
4. Pauseforoneheartbeatbeforeyourespondtowhatsomeonesays;
itgivesyourbrainextratimetochooseyourwordswell.
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5. Rememberthatarguingisoneoftheleasteffectivewaysof
changingonesmind;youdontalwayshavetofighttowin.
HowToConnectWithPeople:
6.Whenyoudisagreewithothers,firstacknowledgetheirrightto
thinkthewaytheydo thenofferyourviewsrespectfully.
7. Tryusingquestionsratherthanconfrontations,toinviteothersto
changetheirminds.
8. Stayourofconflictswithtoxicpeople;workaroundthem.
9. Getthecatsanddogsoutofyourconversation minimize
categoricalanddogmaticdeclarations.
10. Accentuatethepositive andthatswhatyoullmostlygetin
return.
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Try This Out
Train yourself to say the following three things
freely, appropriately and without guilt:
I dont know.
I made a mistake.
I changed my mind.
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Characteristics of Social Intelligence
1. The confidence to be yourself.
2. A life vision to know where youre going
3 An abiding interest in other people 3. An abiding interest in other people
4. Respect for others
5. Empathy and ability to read and use body language to
do this
6. Awareness of when it is appropriate to speak and when
to listen
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7. A positive attitude
Ten Skills Of Positive Politics
1. Do something well, get recognized as an achiever
2. Form alliances and service them regularly
3 Get visibility 3. Get visibility
4. Get credit for your achievements
5. Relieve pain when possible
6. Contribute to the big picture
7. Keep developing yourself
8. Have a plan for your progress in the organization
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9. Have options to your current job - especially in good
times
10. Know when to leave.
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1. Skills
2. Procedures invoke the power of the pen
S.P.I.C.E. Leading When Youre Not In Charge
3. Information
4. Consensus
5. Empathy helping people relate to one another
humanely and working out their difference
Earn authority by behaving in ways that cause others to consider you
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Earn authority by behaving in ways that cause others to consider you
worthy to influence them.
S.I. In Practice
Identify your Strengths and Weaknesses.
Craft a Plan for Change
Work with a Coach
Identify and learn from a role model
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A Prescription for
Social Intelligence
Take chances
Break old habits ..
See things in a new way
Learn to deal with
Ambiguity versus
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What is certain
And
Comfortable.
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Leadership Skills
&
Emotional Intelligence
Executive Summary:
Emotional intelligence has become a popular topic in the business press in recent
years. Although we have not used the term emotional intelligence, the Center
for Creative Leadership has helped many leaders understand and develop
emotional intelligence competencies for over thirty years. One way that we have
successfully helped managers move beyond intellectual know-how and expand
their emotional intelligence is through Benchmarks