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to know the entire picture. Lynn’s widowed mother lived across
the country from Lynn, close to Lynn’s
Listen to Joe Karp with sister. After several years in assisted
Anita Finley on Saturday, living and ultimately a nursing home,
June 6 from 7:30-8:00 AM the mother became terminally ill and
on WSBR 740AM and on the was hospitalized. Mother’s health care
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Internet at www.wsbrradio.com. power-of-attorney appointed Lynn
and her sister as decision-makers.
Naturally, many clients resist. Mother had a Living Will rejecting
They’ve spent a lifetime taking care life-extending procedures if she was
of themselves and nurturing their in a terminal state. But Lynn’s sister,
children, so even a short discussion who was at the hospital every day, felt
on how they want their children to that the Living Will did not preclude
take care of them can be uncomfort- a feeding tube. Lynn understood the
able. And the adult kids are compli- Living Will to mean her mother would
cit in avoiding the discussion. Many not have wanted one. A long-distance
of my clients have heard comments battle ensued. Mom died after a few
like, Oh mom, we don’t need to hear weeks, but it’s only now, bitter argu-
about your accounts, you’re going to ments and years later, that the siblings
live forever! or You’re in great shape, are talking again. Perhaps if Lynn’s
don’t worry about that stuff! or We mother had had an earlier heart-to-
drove a thousand miles with the grand- heart with both her daughters about
kids to spend Thanksgiving with you, these q ua lity o f l i f e i s s u es , t h e
and you want to talk about where to conflict could have been eliminated
find your brokerage statements if you or minimized.
have a stroke? Let’s switch the topic,
shall we? Joseph S. Karp is a nationally certified
Remember the time your kids were and Florida Bar-certified elder law attorney
(C.E.L.A.) specializing in the practice of Trusts,
little and you just had to make them Estates and Elder Law. His offices are locat-
listen to you? Well, now is another of ed at 2500 Quantum Lakes Drive, Boynton
those times. Your children need to Beach; 2875 PGA Blvd., Palm Beach Gar-
know, if they are ever called upon to dens; and 1100 SW St. Lucie W. Blvd., Port
step into your shoes, what your assets St. Lucie. Call him at 561-752-4550 (Boyn-
ton); 561-625-1100 (Palm Beach Gardens);
are, where they are, and how to get to or 772-343-8411 (Port St. Lucie). Toll-free
them and where the key to the safe from anywhere: 800-893-9911. E-mail: KLF@
deposit box is. If they have to start Karplaw.com or website www.karplaw.com