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Library of Quotations
Organized and compiled by the Josephson Institute of Ethics
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The purpose of this quote library is to collect and organize insightful or provocative thoughts related to character and ethics. Many of these quotes are inspiring and may help people acknowledge and live up to the principles that distinguish a good life. Other quotes are witty and light-hearted, while still others may strike some readers as wrong-headed, even corrosive or cynical. The point of this section is not to "endorse" the thoughts herein but to provide an educational resource for readers to use at their discretion. As always, your feedback, corrections and additions are welcome!

CATEGORIES:
CARING, COMPASSION, KINDNESS, GENEROSITY, FORGIVENESS CHARACTER CHOICE, FREEDOM CITIZENSHIP, CIVIC VIRTUE, CIVILITY CONSCIENCE CREATIVITY, IMAGINATION, PROBLEMSOLVING COURAGE, FEAR, WORRY CRIME, CORRUPTION, CHEATING CRITICISM, JUDGMENT, REPUTATION EDUCATION, CHILD-REARING, ROLE-MODELS ETHICS, MORALITY FAIRNESS, JUSTICE, PEACE THE FUTURE, FATE, CHANGE, SECURITY GOOD & EVIL HAPPINESS HONESTY, PROMISE-KEEPING, TRUTH HOPE, FAITH, IDEALISM, OPTIMISM, ATTITUDE, CONFIDENCE HUMAN NATURE & HUMAN FOLLY IDEOLOGY, RIGIDITY, NARROW THINKING INDIFFERENCE, MORAL BLINDNESS, RATIONALIZATION INTEGRITY, HYPOCRISY, IDENTITY KARMA LEADERSHIP, POLITICS, GOVERNANCE LOYALTY, FRIENDSHIP, GRATITUDE MEMORY, THE PAST MONEY, BUSINESS, GREED OBSTACLES, ADVERSITY, SADNESS, SUFFERING PASSION, ENTHUSIASM PERSEVERANCE, PATIENCE PRINCIPLE, EXPEDIENCY, VALUES PURPOSE, WILL, AMBITION RESPECT, TOLERANCE, ACCEPTANCE, DIVERSITY RESPONSIBILITY, DUTY SANCTIMONY, CYNICISM, PETTINESS, ENVY, ANGER SIMPLICITY, HUMILITY TRUST, DECEPTION, BETRAYAL VANITY, FAME, POPULARITY, PRIDE VIRTUE, VICE WISDOM MISCELLANEOUS

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CARING, COMPASSION, KINDNESS, GENEROSITY, FORGIVENESS

I expect to pass through the world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness I can show to any creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer it, for I shall not pass this way again. Stephen Grellet, 18th/19th-century French/American religious leader "Men are only great as they are kind." Elbert Hubbard, 19th/20th-century American
entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

"What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?" Jean-Jacques Rousseau, 18thcentury French philosopher

A kind word is like a spring day. Russian proverb "No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." Aesop, ancient Greek moralist Our duty is to be useful, not according to our desires but according to our powers.
Henry F. Amiel

"If the world seems cold to you, kindle fires to warm it." Lucy Larcom "There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it."
Edith Wharton, 19th-century American author

Real generosity is doing something nice for someone who will never find out. Frank
A. Clark

What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal. Albert Pike, 19th-century Scottish Rite Freemason We should give as we would receive, cheerfully, quickly, and without hesitation; for there is no grace in a benefit that sticks to the fingers. Seneca, Roman statesman and
author

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Mohandas
Gandhi, 20th-century Indian nonviolent civil rights leader

If one man dies, it is a tragedy; if a thousand men die, it is a statistic. Phillipe Berthelot One must care about a world one will never see. Bertrand Russell, 20th-century British
mathematician and philosopher

It is the characteristic of the magnanimous man to ask no favor but to be ready to do kindness to others. Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher Unshared joy is an unlighted candle. Spanish proverb The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm. Swedish proverb
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You have not lived a perfect day, even though you have earned your money, unless you have done something for someone who cannot repay you. Ruth Smeltzer Compassion is the basis of morality.'' Arnold Schopenhauer, early 19th-century German
philosopher

"Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace." Albert Schweitzer, 20th-century German Nobel Peace Prize-winning mission doctor
and theologian

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CHARACTER

"But rules cannot substitute for character." Alan Greenspan, 20th/21st-century chairman of
the U.S. Federal Reserve Board

"Character is what you are in the dark." Unknown "Another man's soul is darkness." Russian proverb "What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American essayist and poet If you will think about what you ought to do for other people, your character will take care of itself. Character is a by-product, and any man who devotes himself to its cultivation in his own case will become a selfish prig. Woodrow Wilson, 20th-century
American president

"We are what we seem to be." Willard Gaylin, 20th-century American psychiatrist "Our lives teach us who we are." Salman Rushdie, 20th-century Anglo-Indian novelist "If you dont have enemies, you dont have character." Paul Newman, 20th-century
American actor

"What someone is, begins to be revealed when his talent abates, when he stops showing us what he can do." Friedrich Nietzsche, 19th-century German philosopher "Why are we surprised when fig trees bear figs?" Margaret Titzel Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing. Abraham Lincoln, mid-19th-century U.S. president Many a man's reputation would not know his character if they met on the street.
Elbert Hubbard, 19th/20th-century American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

"You can tell a lot about a fellows character by his way of eating jelly beans." Ronald
Reagan, 20th-century U.S. president

A persons character is what it is. Its a little like a marriage only without the option of divorce. You can work on it and try to make it better, but basically you have to take the bitter with the sweet. Henrik Hertzberg, 20th-century American editor and journalist What a mans mind can create, mans character can control. Thomas Edison, 19th/20thcentury American inventor

The true test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of cities, nor the crops no, but the kind of man the country turns out. Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American
essayist, public philosopher and poet
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Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. Helen Keller, 20th-century American social activist, public speaker and author The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically... Intelligence plus character that is the goal of true education. Martin Luther King Jr.,
Nobel Prize-winning 20th-century American civil rights leader

The best index to a persons character is (a) how he treats people who cant do him any good, and (b) how he treats people who cant fight back. Abigail van Buren ("Dear
Abby"), 20th-century American newspaper advice columnist

Character is that which reveals moral purpose, exposing the class of things a man chooses and avoids. Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher Character is an essential tendency. It can be covered up, it can be messed with, it can be screwed around with, but it cant be ultimately changed. Its the structure of our bones, the blood that runs through our veins. Sam Shepard, 20th-century American
playwright

The measure of a man's character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out. Baron Thomas Babington Macauley, early 19th-century English historian Fame is a vapor, popularity an accident, riches take wing, and only character endures. Horace Greeley, 19th-century American journalist and educator "The proper time to influence the character of a child is about a hundred years before hes born." William R. Inge "If we want our children to possess the traits of character we most admire, we need to teach them what those traits are and why they deserve both admiration and allegiance. Children must learn to identify the forms and content of those traits." William J. Bennett,
former U.S. Secretary of Education, author

"The formation of character in young people is educationally a different task from and a prior task to, the discussion of the great, difficult ethical controversies of the day."
William J. Bennett, former U.S. Secretary of Education, author

"Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct." Thomas Carlyle, 19thcentury Scots-English historian, author

"Character is much easier kept than recovered." Thomas Paine, 18th-century American
political activist

"Every man has three characters: that which he shows, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has." Alphonse Karr
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"All paths lead to the same goal: to convey to others what we are." Pablo Neruda, 20thcentury Nobel Prize-winning, Chilean poet and political activist

"A mans character is his fate." Heraclitus, ancient Greek historian "Character is simply habit long continued." Plutarch, Roman biographer "One can acquire everything in solitude except character." Henri Stendahl, 19thcentury French author

"Character is much easier kept than recovered." Thomas Paine, 18th-century American
political activist

"Character is that which can do without success." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century
American essayist, public philosopher and poet

"No change of circumstances can repair a defect of character." Ralph Waldo Emerson,
19th-century American essayist, public philosopher and poet

"The force of character is cumulative." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American


essayist, public philosopher and poet

"Not in time, place or circumstance but in the man lies success." James Joyce, 20thcentury Irish novelist

The measure of a man's real character is what he would do if he knew he would never be found out. Baron Thomas Babington Macauley, early 19th-century English historian It is with trifles, and when he is off guard, that a man best reveals his character.
Arthur Schopenhauer, 19th-century German philosopher

If a man has any greatness in him, it comes to light, not in one flamboyant hour, but in the ledger of his daily work. Beryl Markham, 20th-century English adventurer and author "You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him. Goethe, 18th/19th-century German poet, novelist, playwright and philosopher

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CHOICE, FREEDOM

When you choose the lesser of two evils, always remember that it is still an evil.
Max Lerner

"He who has a choice has trouble." Dutch proverb There is a point at which everything becomes simple and there is no longer any question of choice, because all you have staked will be lost if you look back. Lifes point of no return." Dag Hammarskjold, 20th-century Swedish diplomat, U.N. Secretary General "Life is the sum of your choices." Albert Camus, Nobel Prize-winning, 20th-century French
"existentialist" novelist

"Liberty means responsibility. Thats why most men dread it." George Bernard Shaw,
19th/20th-century Anglo-Irish dramatist and wit

Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling that desire. Epictetus, ancient Greek historian Freedom means choosing your burden. Hephzibah Menuhin "In order to exist, man must rebel." Albert Camus, Nobel Prize-winning, 20th-century French
"existentialist" novelist

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CITIZENSHIP, CIVIC VIRTUE, CIVILITY

What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself. Lavater "What the people want is very simple. They want an America as good as its promise." Barbara Jordan, 20th-century congresswoman and professor "A nation, as a society, forms a moral person, and every member of it is personally responsible for his society." Thomas Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early
19th-century U.S. president (letter to George Hammond, 1792)

"It is strangely absurd to suppose that a million of human beings, collected together, are not under the same moral laws which bind each of them separately." Thomas
Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to George Logan, 1816)

Public virtue is a kind of ghost town into which anyone can move and declare himself sheriff." Saul Bellow, Nobel Prize-winning 20th-century American author "Americanism is a question of principles, of idealism, of character: it is not a matter of birthplace or creed or line of descent." Theodore Roosevelt, 19th/20th-century American
adventurer and politician, Nobel Prize-winning U.S. president

"If we are forced, at every hour, to watch or listen to horrible events, this constant stream of ghastly impressions will deprive even the most delicate among us of all respect for humanity." Cicero (Marcus Tullius), Roman orator, philosopher and statesman "Life is not so short but that there is always time enough for courtesy." Ralph Waldo
Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public philosopher and poet

"In a time of social fragmentation, vulgarity becomes a way of life. To be shocking becomes more important and often more profitable than to be civil or creative or truly original. Al Gore, 20th-century American politician, vice president of the U.S. Like the body that is made up of different limbs and organs, all moral creatures must depend on each other to exist. Hindu proverb Politeness is the art of choosing among ones real thoughts. Adlai Stevenson II, 20thcentury American politician, presidential candidate

We are all angels with only one wing. We can only fly while embracing each other.
Luciano De Crescenzo

"What has always made a hell on earth has been that man has tried to make it his heaven." Friedrich Holderin "Hell is other people." Jean-Paul Sartre, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning, French existentialist
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writer (from No Exit)

"Hell is ourselves." Claude Levi-Strauss, 20th-century French sociologist "It is in the shelter of each other that people live." Irish proverb Life is a place of service, and in that service one has to suffer a great deal that is hard to bear, but more often to experience a great deal of joy. But that joy can be real only if people look upon their lives as a service and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness. Count Leo Tolstoy, 19th-century Nobel Prizewinning Russian novelist

But it was impossible to save the Great Republic. She was rotten to the heart. Lust of conquest had long ago done its work; trampling upon the helpless abroad had taught her, by a natural process, to endure with apathy the like at home; multitudes who had applauded the crushing of other peoples liberties, lived to suffer for their mistake in their own persons. The government was irrevocably in the hands of the prodigiously rich and their hangers-on; the suffrage was become a mere machine, which they used as they chose. There was no principle but commercialism, no patriotism but of the pocket. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19th-century American humorist, author and journalist

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CONSCIENCE

"A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory." Steven Wright, 20th-century
comedian

"Conscience is Gods presence in man." Emmanuel Swedenborg, 19th-century SwedishAmerican spiritualist

"Prudence reproaches; conscience accuses." Immanuel Kant, 18th-century Prussian


geographer and philosopher

"Trust that man in nothing who has not a conscience in everything." Laurence Sterne,
18th-century English novelist

"Conscience is, in most, an anticipation of the opinion of others." Sir Henry Taylor "Most men sell their souls and live with a good conscience on the proceeds." Logan
Pearsall Smith

"A good conscience is a continual Christmas." Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century American


Founding Father, inventor and statesman

Reason often makes mistakes but conscience never does. Josh Billings (Henry Wheeler
Shaw), 19th-century American humorist

Conscience is thoroughly well-bred and soon leaves off talking to those who do not wish to hear it. Samuel Butler, 17th-century English poet The difficulty is to know conscience from self-interest. William Dean Howells, 19thcentury American journalist and novelist

When your intelligence don't tell you something ain't right, your conscience gives you a tap you on the shoulder and says Hold on. If it don't, you're a snake. Elvis Presley,
American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977)

There is no witness so terrible, no accuser so powerful as conscience which dwells within us. Sophocles, ancient Greek dramatist

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CREATIVITY, IMAGINATION, PROBLEM-SOLVING

"Nobody is bored when he is trying to make something that is beautiful, or to discover something that is true." William Inge "Imagination is more important than knowledge." Albert Einstein, 20th-century Swiss
mathematician, physicist and public philosopher

"Analysis kills spontaneity. The grain once ground into flour germinates no more."
Henri Amiel

"It is with the heart that one sees rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince

"You can never solve a problem on the level on which it was created." Albert Einstein,
20th-century Swiss mathematician, physicist and public philosopher

"No problem can stand the assault of sustained thinking." Francois Marie Arouet de
Voltaire, 18th-century French author, wit and philosopher

"Discovery is the ability to be puzzled by simple things." Noam Chomsky, 20th-century


American linguist and political activist

"To swear off making mistakes is very easy. All you have to do is swear off having ideas." Leo Burnett, 20th-century American advertising pioneer Imagination was given to us to compensate for what we are not; a sense of humor was given to us to console us for what we are. Mack McGinnis "The greatest and most important problems in life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They can never be solved, but only outgrown." Carl Jung, 20th-century Swiss founder of
analytical psychology

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COURAGE, FEAR, WORRY

"Worrying is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do, but it doesn't get you anywhere." Unknown "Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think."
Benjamin Disraeli, 19th-century British statesman and novelist

"Courage is the price life exacts for peace." Amelia Earhart, 20th-century American aviator "Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." John Wayne, 20thcentury actor

"The mighty oak was once a little nut that stood its ground." Unknown "Courage is like a muscle; it is strengthened by use." Ruth Gordon "No one reaches a high position without daring." Syrus "Great occasions do not make heroes or cowards; they simply unveil them to the eyes. Silently and imperceptibly, as we wake or sleep, we grow strong or we grow weak, and at last some crisis shows us what we have become." Bishop Westcott "The one permanent emotion of the inferior man is fear fear of the unknown, the complex, the inexplicable. What he wants beyond everything else is safety."
H. L. Mencken, 20th-century American journalist and humorist

"I believe that anyone can conquer fear by doing the things he fears to do, provided he keeps doing them until he gets a record of successful experiences behind him."
Eleanor Roosevelt, 20th-century American stateswoman, First Lady

"Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, what experience tells you to do, and what nerves let you do." Bruce Crampton "The art of living lies not in eliminating but in growing with troubles." Bernard M. Baruch,
20th-century American financier

"All problems become smaller if you dont dodge them, but confront them. Touch a thistle timidly, and it pricks you; grasp it boldly, and its spines crumble." William S.
Halsey

"Fortunately for themselves and the world, nearly all men are cowards and dare not act on what they believe. Nearly all our disasters come of a few fools having the "courage of their convictions." Coventry Patmore

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"It isnt the absence of conscience or values that prevents us from being all we should be, it is simply the lack of moral courage." Michael Josephson, 20th/21st-century American
ethicist

"To see what is right and not to do it is cowardice." Confucius, ancient Chinese sage "One man with courage makes a majority." Andrew Jackson, early 19th-century American
military hero and U.S. president

"It is better to die on ones feet than to live on ones knees." Albert Camus, Nobel Prizewinning, 20th-century French "existentialist" novelist

"Cowards die many times before their deaths; the valiant never taste of death but once." William Shakespeare, 16th-century English dramatist "Cowardice. . . is almost always simply a lack of ability to suspend the functioning of the imagination." Ernest Hemingway, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning American novelist "Courage easily finds its own eloquence." Plautus "Fear comes from uncertainty. When we are absolutely certain, whether of our worth or worthlessness, we are almost impervious to fear." William Congreve, 17th/18th-century
English dramatist

"The basest of all things is to be afraid." William Faulkner, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning
American novelist

"In times of stress, be bold and valiant." Horace, Roman poet "Grief has limits, whereas apprehension has none. For we grieve only for what we know has happened, but we fear all that possibly may happen." Pliny the Younger "Fear is an instructor of great sagacity, and the herald of all revolutions." Ralph Waldo
Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public philosopher and poet

The world has no room for cowards. Robert Louis Stevenson, 19th-century English novelist
and adventurer

If you let fear of consequence prevent you from following your deepest instinct, then your life will be safe, expedient and thin. Katharine Butler Hathaway

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Proust has pointed out that the predisposition to love creates its own objects; is this not also true of fear? Elizabeth Bowen What you are afraid to do is a clear indicator of the next thing you need to do.
Unknown

"When it comes to the pinch, human beings are heroic." George Orwell, 20th-century
English journalist and novelist

"If we could be heroes, if just for one day." David Bowie, 20th-century English pop music
performer

"One must think like a hero merely to behave like a decent human being." May Barton "What worries you, masters you." Haddon W. Robinson And each man stand with his face in the light of his own drawn sword. Ready to do what a hero can. Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 19th-century English poet Necessity makes even the timid brave. Sallust

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CRIME, CORRUPTION, CHEATING

"Never underestimate the effectiveness of a straight cash bribe." Claude Cockburn "The intention makes the crime." Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher My, my, my! Such a lot of guns around town and so few brains ... put it down, Joe.
Humphrey Bogart, 20th-century American actor (from The Big Sleep)

"He thats cheated twice by the same man is an accomplice with the cheater." Thomas
Fuller

"In an age that is utterly corrupt, the best policy is to do as others do." Marquis de Sade,
18th-century French moralist

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CRITICISM, JUDGMENT, REPUTATION

"A regard for reputation and the judgment of the world may sometimes be felt where conscience is dormant." Thomas Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19thcentury U.S. president (letter to Edward Livingston, 1825)

"There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn." Albert Camus, Nobel Prize-winning,
20th-century French "existentialist" novelist

"A critic is a man who knows the way but cant drive the car." Kenneth Tynan, 20thcentury English art historian and critic

"I criticize by creation, not by finding fault." Cicero (Marcus Tullius), Roman orator,
philosopher and statesman

"We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done." Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, 19th-century American poet To arrive at a just estimate of a renowned mans character one must judge it by the standards of his time, not ours. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19th-century American
humorist, author and journalist

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EDUCATION, CHILD-REARING, ROLE-MODELS

"To educate a person in mind and not in morals is to educate a menace to society."
Theodore Roosevelt, 19th/20th-century American adventurer and politician, Nobel Prize-winning U.S. president

"Don't worry that children never listen to you. Worry that they are always watching you."
Robert Fulghum, 20th-century American author

"Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
Proverbs, 22:6

"You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth." Kahlil
Gilbran

"Parents wonder why the streams are bitter, when they themselves have poisoned the fountain." John Locke, 17th-century English philosopher "The value of marriage is not that adults produce children but that children produce adults." Peter de Vries "But if you ask what is the good of education in general, the answer is easy: that education makes good men, and that good men act nobly." Plato, ancient Greek
philosopher

"Children need models rather than critics." Joseph Joubert "It takes a long time to grow young." Pablo Picasso, 20th-century Spanish artist "Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common sense."
Gertrude Stein, 20th-century American writer

"It takes a whole village to raise a child." Ashanti proverb Educate the heart. Let us have good men.'' Hiram Powers The best way to teach morality is to make it a habit with children.'' Aristotle, ancient
Greek philosopher

The question for the child is not Do I want to be good? but Whom do I want to be like? Bruno Bettelheim, 20th-century German/American child psychologist, author Example has more followers than reason. Bovee Education makes a people easy to lead, but difficult to drive; easy to govern, but impossible to enslave. Gen. Omar N. Bradley, 20th-century American military figure "If we are to reach real peace in this world ... we shall have to begin with the children."
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Mohandas Gandhi, 20th-century Indian nonviolent civil rights leader

"Imitation is a necessity of human nature." Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr., 19th/20th-century


American jurist, Supreme Court justice

"No one has yet fully realized the wealth of sympathy, kindness and generosity hidden in the soul of a child. The effort of every true education should be to unlock that treasure." Emma Goldman, 19th/20th-century Russian-American anarchist writer, lecturer and
activist

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ETHICS & MORALITY

"There's a hole in the moral ozone and it's getting bigger. Michael Josephson, 20th/21stcentury American ethicist

"Art, like morality, consists of drawing the line somewhere." G.K. Chesterton, 19th-century
English essayist and poet

"That which is beautiful is moral. That is all, nothing more." Gustave Flaubert, 19thcentury French novelist

"Morality is the best of all devices for leading mankind by the nose." Friedrich Nietzsche,
19th-century German philosopher

"Morality is simply the attitude we adopt toward people whom we personally dislike."
Oscar Wilde, 19th-century English wit and author

"The first step in the evolution of ethics is a sense of solidarity with other human beings." Albert Schweitzer, 20th-century German Nobel Peace Prize-winning mission doctor and
theologian

"In law a man is guilty when he violates the rights of others. In ethics he is guilty if he only thinks of doing so." Immanuel Kant, 18th-century Prussian geographer and philosopher "The foundation of morality is to have done, once and for all, with lying." Thomas Henry
Huxley, English biologist and essayist (1825-1895)

"Morality is stronger than tyrants." Saint-Just "Morality, when formal, devours." Albert Camus, Nobel Prize-winning, 20th-century French
"existentialist" novelist

"A moral being is one who is capable of comparing his past and future actions or motives, and of approving or disapproving of them." Charles Darwin "Morality begins at the point of a gun." Mao Tse-Tung, 20th-century revolutionary founder of
modern China

Without civic morality communities perish; without personal morality their survival has no value. Bertrand Russell, 20th-century British mathematician and philosopher

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The essence of morality is the subjugation of nature in obedience of social needs.


John Morley, 19th-century British statesman

Ethics is a code of values which guide our choices and actions and determine the purpose and course of our lives. Ayn Rand, 20th-century Russian/American novelist and
philosopher

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FAIRNESS, JUSTICE, PEACE

"Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian." Dennis Wholey,
20th/21st-century self-help author and journalist

"It is reasonable that every one who asks justice should do justice." Thomas Jefferson,
18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to George Hammond, 1792)

"It is less important to redistribute wealth than it is to redistribute opportunity." Arthur


Vandenberg, 20th-century American senator

"Grub first, then ethics." Bertolt Brecht, 20th-century German dramatist "The belly comes before the soul." George Orwell, 20th-century British journalist and novelist "Principles have no real force except when one is well fed." Mark Twain (Samuel
Clemens), 19th-century American journalist, author and humorist

"Rise above principle and do what is right." Walter Heller, 20th-century American economist "Youve got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn bodys sermon on how to behave." Billie Holiday, 20th-century American
singer

"The precepts of the law are these: to live honestly, to injure no one, and to give every man his due." Justinian I "A generous and noble spirit cannot be expected to dwell in the breasts of men who are struggling for their daily bread." Dioysius of Halicarnassus "All bad precedents begin as justifiable measures." Julius Caesar "Mans capacity for justice makes democracy possible, but mans inclination to injustice makes democracy necessary." Reinhold Niebuhr, 20th-century American theologian I take it that what all men are really after is some form of, perhaps only some formula of, peace." Joseph Conrad, 19th-century Polish/English novelist "Charity isnt a good substitute for justice." Jonathan Kozol, 20th-century American journalist
and author

"False hope is worse than despair." Jonathan Kozol, 20th-century American journalist and
author

"I do get scared about the physical danger from drug dealers. But its not in the same league as the danger I feel eating an $80 lunch with my privileged friends to discuss
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hunger and poverty. Thats when my soul feels imperiled." Journalist Jonathan Kozol, on
his work chronicling the lives of the poor in the Bronx

Never befriend the oppressed unless you are prepared to take on the oppressor.
Ogden Nash, 20th-century American dramatist

This country will not be a good place for any of us to live in unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in. Theodore Roosevelt, 19th/20th-century American adventurer and
politician, Nobel Prize-winning U.S. president

When a man hangs from a tree it doesnt spell justice unless he helped write the law that hanged him. E. B. White, 20th-century American essayist "There is no way to peace. Peace is the way." A.J. Muste "If you want to work for world peace, go home and love your families." Mother Teresa of
Calcutta, 20th-century nun and founder of the Order of the Missionaries of Charity (Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech)

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THE FUTURE, FATE, CHANGE, SECURITY

No wind favors he who has no destined port. Michel de Montaigne, 16th-century French
man of letters and essayist

We drive into the future using only our rear view mirror. (Herbert) Marshall McLuhan,
20th-century Canadian writer and educator

The future enters into us, in order to transform us, long before it happens. Rainer
Maria Rilke, 19th-century German poet

If there is anything we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves. Carl Jung, 20thcentury Swiss founder of analytical psychology

With our thoughts we make the world. Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama), Indian philosopher
and founder of Buddhism (c. 563-c. 483 B.C.)

We are the people our parents warned us about. Jimmy Buffett, 20th-century American
songwriter, performer

"Since changes are going on anyway, the great thing is to learn enough about them so that we will be able to lay hold of them and turn them in the direction of our desires. Conditions and events are neither to be fled from nor passively acquiesced in; they are to be utilized and directed." John Dewey, 19th-century American philosopher and education
reformer

"Security can only be achieved through constant change, through discarding old ideas that have outlived their usefulness and adapting others to current facts." William O.
Douglas, 20th-century American jurist, Supreme Court justice

"The way to be safe is never to be secure." Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century American


Founding Father, inventor and statesman

Security is mostly superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable."
Helen Keller, 20th-century American social activist, public speaker and author

"Security is a false god; begin making sacrifices to it and you are lost." Paul Bowles,
20th-century American novelist

The future comes one day at a time. Dean Acheson, 20th-century American secretary of
state

"Freedom and constraint are two aspects of the same necessity, the necessity of being the man you are and not another. You are free to be that man, but not another."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery, 20th-century Belgian adventurer and author
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GOOD & EVIL

"Do all the good you can, By all the means you can, In all the ways you can, In all the places you can, At all the times you can, To all the people you can, As long as you ever can."
John Wesley, 18th-century Anglican clergyman

"All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing." Edmund Burke,
18th-century English political philosopher

"The sad truth is that most evil is done by people who never make up their minds to be good or evil." Hannah Arendt, 20th-century German political philosopher and author "Most people are good only so long as they believe others to be so." Friedrich Hebbel "No one ever became extremely wicked suddenly." Juvenal, Roman writer "The good ended happily and the bad unhappily. That is what fiction means." Miss
Prism to Cecily in "The Importance of Being Earnest"

"The line separating good and evil passes not through states, nor between classes nor between parties either but right through the human heart." Alexandr Solzhenitzyn,
20th-century Russian Nobel Prize-winning novelist

No man chooses evil because it is evil; he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks.'' Mary Wollstonecraft, 19th-century English novelist "Evil always turns up in this world through some genius or other." Denis Diderot, 18thcentury French philosopher and writer

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HAPPINESS

"Those only are happy who have their minds fixed on some object other than their own happiness; on the happiness of others, on the improvement of mankind, even on some art or pursuit, followed not as a means, but as itself an ideal end. Aiming thus at something else, they find happiness by the way." John Stuart Mill, 19th-century English
philosopher and economist

"Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so." John Stuart Mill, 19thcentury English philosopher and economist

"We either make ourselves happy or miserable. The amount of work is the same."
Carlos Castaneda, 20th-century Latin American mystic and author

All happy people are grateful. Ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to complain, but its truer to say that complaining leads to people becoming unhappy. Dennis Prager, 20th-century American radio host and
author

Don't worry. Be happy. Meher Baba, 20th-century Indian spiritual leader (popularized in a song
by Bobby McFerrin, 20th-century American songwriter and performer)

Be happy. Talk happiness. Happiness calls out responsive gladness in others. There is enough sadness in the world without yours.... never doubt the excellence and permanence of what is yet to be. Join the great company of those who make the barren places of life fruitful with kindness.... Your success and happiness lie in you.... The great enduring realities are love and service.... Resolve to keep happy and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties. Helen Keller, 20th-century American
social activist, public speaker and author

Since the things we do determine the character of life, no blessed person can become unhappy. For he will never do those things which are hateful and petty. Aristotle,
ancient Greek philosopher

I have never been able to conceive how any rational being could propose happiness to himself from the exercise of power over others. Thomas Jefferson, 18th-century American
Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (in letter to A. L. C. Destutt de Tracy, 1811)

"To describe happiness is to diminish it." Henri Stendahl, 19th-century French novelist I believe... that every human mind feels pleasure in doing good to another. Thomas
Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (in a letter to John Adams, 1816)

People of superior refinement and of active disposition identify happiness with honour; for this is roughly speaking, the end of political life. Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher
(from the Nichomachean Ethics)

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"Happy families are all alike. Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." Count
Leo Tolstoy, Nobel Prize-winning 19th-century Russian novelist (from Anna Karenina)

"If we only wanted to be happy it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are."
Charles-Louis de Secondat Baron de Montesquieu, 17th/18th-century French jurist and political philosopher

"A man can refrain from wanting what he has not and cheerfully make the best of a bird in the hand." Seneca, Roman statesman and author "Welcome everything that comes to you, but do not long for anything else." Andre
Gide, 20th-century French author

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have. Woody Allen, 20th-century American humorist and filmmaker All who would win joy, must share it; happiness was born a twin. Lord Byron, 19thcentury English poet

If all our happiness is bound up entirely in our personal circumstances, it is difficult not to demand of life more than it has to give. Bertrand Russell, 20th-century British
mathematician and philosopher

Happiness is knowin' you've done a good job, whether it's professional of for another person. Elvis Presley See to do good, and you will find that happiness will run after you. James Freeman
Clarke

Those who seek happiness, miss it, and those who discuss it, lack it. Holbrook
Jackson

Happiness depends upon ourselves. Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher Happiness does not depend on outward things, but on the way we see them. Count
Leo Tolstoy, 19th-century Nobel Prize-winning Russian novelist

A great obstacle to happiness is expecting too much happiness. Bernard de Fontanelle Happiness is not the end of life: character is. Henry Ward Beecher, 19th-century American
preacher

"The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions, and not our circumstances." Martha Washington, 18th-century American First Lady "To get up each morning with the resolve to be happy . . . is to set our own conditions to the events of each day. To do this is to condition circumstances instead of being conditioned by them." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public philosopher
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and poet

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HONESTY, TRUTH

As scarce as truth is, the supply has always been in excess of the demand." Josh
Billings (Henry Wheeler Shaw), 19th-century American humorist

A promise made is a debt unpaid." Robert W. Service (in The Cremation of Sam McGee,
1907)

"We must not promise what we ought not, lest we be called on to perform what we cannot." Abraham Lincoln, 19th-century American president "The truth is not always the same as the majority decision." Pope John Paul II "I have not observed mens honesty to increase with their riches. Thomas Jefferson,
18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to Jeremiah Moor, 1800)

"Honesty isnt a policy at all; its a state of mind or it isnt honesty." Eugene LHote "Dont tell your friends their social faults; they will cure the fault and never forgive you."
Logan Pearsall Smith

"Frankness invites frankness." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public
philosopher and poet

"An overdose of praise is like 10 lumps of sugar in coffee; only a very few people can swallow it." Emily Post, 20th-century American etiquette advisor and author "The pursuit of truth will set you free even if you never catch up with it." Clarence
Darrow, 20th-century American lawyer

"Advertising is the art of making whole lies out of half truths." Edgar A. Shoaff "All advertising, whether it lies in the field of business or of politics, will carry success by continuity and regular uniformity of application." Adolf Hitler, 20th-century leader of
Germany's Third Reich

"The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that, youve got it made." Jean
Giraudoux

"Regardless of the moral issue, dishonesty in advertising has proved very unprofitable."
Leo Burnett, 20th-century American advertising pioneer

When all else fails, tell the truth.'' Donald T. Regan, 20th-century American business
executive, Treasury Secretary, chief of staff for President Ronald Reagan

A lie has speed, but truth has endurance. Edgar J. Mohn If you add to the truth, you subtract from it. The Talmud
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What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. Jewish proverb Truth is like the sun. You can shut it out for a time, but it ain't goin' away. Elvis
Presley

The great enemy of the truth is very often not the lie deliberate, contrived, and dishonest but the myth persistent, persuasive and realistic. John F. Kennedy,
20th-century American president (from the Yale Commencement address, 1962)

A belief is not true because it is useful. Henri Amiel The house of delusions is cheap to build but drafty to live in. A.E. Housman When somebody lies, somebody loses. Stephanie Ericsson "Flattery makes friends, truth enemies." Spanish proverb "Lying can never save us from another lie." Vaclav Havel, 20th-century Czech poet and
political activist, first president of post-Communist Republic

"We have to live today by what truth we can get today and be ready to call it falsehood tomorrow." William James, 19th-century American philosopher and author "Time, whose tooth gnaws away at everything else, is powerless against truth."
Thomas Henry Huxley, English biologist and essayist (1825-1895)

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HOPE, FAITH, IDEALISM, OPTIMISM, ATTITUDE, CONFIDENCE

"Optimism is the father that leads to achievement." Helen Keller, 20th-century American
social activist, public speaker and author

"I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality. I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word." Martin Luther King Jr., Nobel Prize-winning 20th-century American civil rights leader (from his
Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech)

What is important is not what happens to us, but how we respond to what happens to us. Jean-Paul Sartre, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning, French existentialist writer "Everything that is done in the world is done by hope." Martin Luther, 15th/16th-century
German priest and scholar whose questioning of certain church practices led to the Protestant Reformation

"Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character." Albert Einstein, 20th-century


Swiss mathematician, physicist and public philosopher

"I'm an idealist. I don't know where I'm going but I'm on the way." Carl Sandburg, 20thcentury American poet and writer

"Great hopes make great men." Thomas Fuller "The future belongs to those who believe in their dreams." Eleanor Roosevelt, 20thcentury American stateswoman, First Lady

"Idealism increases in direct proportion to ones distance from the problem." John
Galsworthy, 20th-century English poet

"Ah, but a mans reach should exceed his grasp, Or whats a heaven for?" Robert Browning, 19th-century English poet "Words without actions are the assassins of idealism." Herbert Hoover, 20th-century
American public servant, U.S. president

"Those who believe they can do something are probably right and so are those who believe they cant." Unknown "A pessimist is a man who has been compelled to live with an optimist." Elbert Hubbard,
19th/20th-century American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of the Roycroft firm)

"A leader is a dealer in hope." Napoleon Bonaparte, 19th-century French general and emperor "If we were logical, the future would be bleak indeed. But we are more than logical. We are human beings, and we have faith and we have hope, and we can work." Jacques
Cousteau, 20th-century French explorer, inventor, environmental activist and author
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Ideals are like stars; you will not succeed in touching them with your hands. But like the seafaring man on the desert of waters, you choose them as your guides, and following them you will reach your destiny. Carl Schurz, 19th-century German-American
politician

"There is no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather." John
Ruskin, 19th-century British critic and author

"Life is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel." Horace
Walpole, 18th-century English author and man of letters

"Light tomorrow with today." Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 19th-century English poet "He who has lost confidence can lose nothing more." Boiste "No great deed is done by falterers who ask for certainty." George Eliot (Mary Ann Evans),
19th-century English novelist

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HUMAN NATURE & HUMAN FOLLY

"In nature a repulsive caterpillar turns into a lovely butterfly. But with human beings it is the other way round: a lovely butterfly turns into a repulsive caterpillar." Anton
Chekhov, 19th-century Russian dramatist

"In spite of everything, I still believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank,
victim of the mid-20th-century Nazi Holocaust in Europe (from her Diaries)

"There are two levers for moving men interest and fear." Napoleon Bonaparte, 19thcentury French general and emperor

"If men were angels, no government would be necessary." James Madison, 18th-century
American Founding Father, 19th-century U.S. president

Somebody does somethin' stupid, that's human. They don't stop when they see it's wrong, that's a fool. Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977) The tendency of mans nature to good is like the tendency of water to flow downward.
Meng-Tse

People, like water, will run downhill, seeking their lowest level unless something interdicts them. Cal Thomas, 20th-century American journalist In general, men are ungrateful and fickle, dissemblers, avoiders of danger and greedy of gain. Niccolo Machiavelli, Florentine Renaissance writer and political adviser It is silly to go on pretending that under the skin we are brothers. The truth is more likely that under the skin we are all cannibals, assassins, traitors, liars and hypocrites.
Henry Miller, 20th-century American novelist

Ciceros Six Mistakes of Man (according to Arthur F. Lenehan): 1. The delusion that individual advancement is made by crushing others 2. The tendency to worry about things that cannot be changed or corrected 3. Insisting that a thing is impossible because we cannot accomplish it 4. Refusing to set aside trivial preferences 5. Neglecting development and refinement of the mind and not acquiring the habit of reading and studying 6. Attempting to compel other persons to believe and live as we do.

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IDEOLOGY, RIGIDITY, NARROW THINKING

My Son, these maxims make a rule An lump them ay thegither: The Rigid Righteous is a fool, The Rigid Wise anither. Robert Burns, 18th-century Scottish poet "Ideology is just an escape from thought." John Kenneth Galbraith, 20th-century North
American economist, statesman, author

"The proper man understands equity, the small man profits." Confucius, ancient Chinese
sage

"A weak mind is like a microscope, which magnifies trifling things but cannot receive great ones." G.K. Chesterton, 19th-century English essayist and poet "Those who give too much attention to trifling things become generally incapable of great ones." Franois duc de la Rochefoucauld, 17th-century French memoirist and philosopher "Our firmest convictions are apt to be the most suspect, they mark our limitations and our bounds. Life is a petty thing unless it is moved by the indomitable urge to extend its boundaries." Jose Ortega y Gasset "The death of dogma is the birth of reality." Immanuel Kant, 18th-century Prussian
geographer and philosopher

"He that will not apply new remedies must expect new evils." Francis Bacon, 16th-century
English statesman, scientist and author

"When people are least sure, they are often most dogmatic." John Kenneth Galbraith,
20th-century North American economist, author and diplomat

"A fanatic is someone who cant change his mind and wont change the subject."
Winston Churchill, 20th-century British prime minister and war leader, Nobel Prize-winning author

"New opinions are always suspected, and usually opposed, without any other reason but because they are not common." John Locke, 17th-century English philosopher "It is theory that decides what we can observe." Albert Einstein, 20th-century Swiss
mathematician, physicist and public philosopher

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INDIFFERENCE, MORAL BLINDNESS, RATIONALIZATION

"So convenient a thing it is to be a reasonable creature, since it enables one to find or make a reason for everything one has a mind to do." Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century
American Founding Father, inventor and statesman (from his autobiography)

"The hottest places in Hell are reserved for those who remain neutral in time of great moral crisis." Dante Alighieri, 13th/14th-century Italian poet (from the Divine Comedy) "Indifference is the essence of inhumanity." George Bernard Shaw, 19th/20th-century AngloIrish dramatist and wit

Man's basic vice, the source of all his evils, is the act of unfocusing his mind, the suspension of his consciousness, which is not blindness, but the refusal to see, not ignorance, but the refusal to know.'' Ayn Rand, 20th-century Russian/American author and
philosopher

"The greatest of faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none." Thomas Carlyle, 19thcentury Scots-English historian, author

"Few men think, yet all will have opinions." George Berkeley "Most of ones life ... is one prolonged effort to prevent oneself thinking." Aldous
Huxley, 20th-century English author

It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it. Upton Sinclair, 20th-century American author Necessity is an interpretation, not a fact." Friedrich Nietzsche, 19th-century German
philosopher

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INTEGRITY, HYPOCRISY, IDENTITY

"Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful."
Samuel Johnson, English writer and lexicographer (1709-1784)

"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." Count
Leo Tolstoy, 19th-century Nobel Prize-winning Russian novelist

"Do what you want to do.... But want to do what you are doing. Be what you want to be.... But want to be what you are."
Unknown

"Speak what you feel, not what you ought to say." Shakespeare (from King Lear) "Once integrity goes, the rest is a piece of cake." J.R. Ewing, lead character in the 20thcentury American television show Dallas

Know thyself. Plato, ancient Greek philosopher "Only the shallow know themselves." Oscar Wilde, 19th-century English wit and author "We are never more true to ourselves than when we are inconsistent." Oscar Wilde,
19th-century English wit and author

"Ones real life is often the life that one does not lead." Oscar Wilde, 19th-century English
wit and author

"A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen, philosophers and divines." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public
philosopher and poet

"Be as you wish to seem." Socrates, ancient Greek sage "Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people." Welsh proverb "Friendship with oneself is all-important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else." Eleanor Roosevelt, 20th-century American stateswoman, First Lady "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." Andre
Gide, 20th-century French writer

"A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval." Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens),
19th-century American humorist, author and journalist
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"Of all the paths a man could strike into, there is, at any given moment, a best path ... a thing which, here and now, it were of all things wisest for him to do ... to find his path and walk in it." Thomas Carlyle, 19th-century Scots-English historian, author "Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes." Carl Jung, 20th-century Swiss
founder of analytical psychology

"It isnt until you come to a spiritual understanding of who you are not necessarily a religious feeling, but deep down, the spirit within that you begin to take control."
Oprah Winfrey, 20th-century American entertainer, businesswoman

"Men can starve from a lack of self-realization as much as they can from a lack of bread." Richard Wright, 20th-century American author "Self-image sets the boundaries of individual accomplishment." Maxwell Maltz, 20thcentury American psychologist and motivational writer

Those people who are uncomfortable in themselves are disagreeable to others.


William Hazlitt, early 18th-century English essayist and literary critic

What people call the spirit of the times is mostly their own spirit in which the times mirror themselves. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, 18th/19th-century German statesman, poet,
novelist and dramatist

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KARMA

"We are here to awaken from the illusion of our separateness." Thich Nhat Hanh, 20thcentury French-based Vietnamese Buddhist monk, peace activist and author

"Such is the moral construction of the world that no national crime passes unpunished in the long run... Were present oppressors to reflect on the same truth, they would spare to their own countries the penalties on their present wrongs which will be inflicted on them in future times. The seeds of hatred and revenge which they [sow] with a large hand will not fail to produce their fruits in time. Like their brother robbers on the highway, they suppose the escape of the moment a final escape and deem infamy and future risk countervailed by present gain." Thomas Jefferson, 18th-century American
Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to Francois de Marbois, 1817)

"Men are not punished for their sins, but by them." Elbert Hubbard, 19th/20th-century
American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

"Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein." Proverbs The liars punishment is not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else. George Bernard Shaw, 19th/20th-century Anglo-Irish dramatist and wit Everybody comes form the same source. If you hate another human being, you're hating part of yourself. Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977) The jealous are troublesome to others, but torment to themselves. William Penn, 17thcentury American colonial leader

By a divine paradox, wherever there is one slave there are two. So in the wonderful reciprocities of being, we can never reach the higher levels until all our fellows ascend with us. Edwin Markham No man who continues to add something to the material, intellectual and moral wellbeing of the place in which he lives is left long without proper reward. Booker T.
Washington, 19th-century American educator

Do good with what thou hast, or it will do thee no good.'' William Penn, 17th-century
American colonial leader

Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
Unknown (Editor's note: This quote is widely attributed to "Frank Outlaw" on the Web, but we've found no confirmation that this is the correct source. Popular quotation books including Bartlett's Familiar Quotations (17th ed., 2002), Roget's International Thesaurus of Quotations (1970) and The Harper Book
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of Quotations (3rd ed., 1993) do not include this quote or any reference to Frank Outlaw. In July 2003, we received an e-mail message from "Elizabeth C.," who claims to have written this verse and sent it in 1998 to members of an e-mail group of people living with lupus. According to her, "these few lines have since taken on a life of their own via the Internet. I was honored when someone asked if they could post it on their work bulletin board. From there it ended up as a desktop theme. It has traveled everywhere.")

Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.
Unknown (Editor's note: This quote is commonly attributed to Tryon Edwards, a 19th-century American theologian and editor. Note the similarity of this quote to the one above.)

They who give have all things; they who withhold have nothing. Hindu proverb Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace. Buddha (Siddhartha
Gautama), Indian philosopher and founder of Buddhism (c. 563-c. 483 B.C.)

No man is more cheated than a selfish man. Henry Ward Beecher, 19th-century American
preacher

Our life is what our thoughts make it. Marcus Aurelius People pay for what they do, and still more, for what they have allowed themselves to become. And they pay for it simply: by the lives they lead. Edith Wharton, 19th/20thcentury American novelist (from The Age of Innocence)

Luck is a word devoid of sense. Nothing can exist without a cause. Francois Marie
Arouet de Voltaire, 18th-century French author, wit and philosopher

We awaken in others the same attitude of mind we hold in them. Elbert Hubbard,
19th/20th-century American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

Act so as to elicit the best in others and thereby in thyself. Felix Adler Doubt breeds doubt. Franz Grillparzer "We are shaped and fashioned by what we love." Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, 18th/19thcentury German statesman, poet, novelist and dramatist

"Any man will usually get from other men just what he is expecting of them. If he is looking for friendship he will likely receive it. If his attitude is that of indifference, it will beget indifference. And if a man is looking for a fight, he will in all likelihood be accommodated in that." John Richelsen "If you keep on saying things are going to be bad, you have a good chance of becoming a prophet." Isaac Bashevis Singer, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning Yiddish/American
writer

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LEADERSHIP, POLITICS, GOVERNANCE

[Because power corrupts] Societys demands for moral authority and character increase as the importance of the position increases. John Adams, 18th-century American
Founding Father, second U.S. president

"Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." Unknown "The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction and will to carry on." Walter Lippmann, 20th-century American journalist, author and public philosopher "If we lived in a state where virtue was profitable, common sense would make us saintly. But since we see that avarice, anger, pride and stupidity commonly profit far beyond charity, modesty, justice and thought, perhaps we must stand fast a little, even at the risk of being heroes." Sir Thomas More in the movie A Man For All Seasons (1966,
screenplay by Robert Bolt)

Few men have virtue to withstand the highest bidder. George Washington, 18th-century
American Founding Father and war hero, first U.S. president

The people have a right, an indisputable, unalienable, indefeasible, divine right to that most dreaded and envied kind of knowledge I mean of the character and conduct of their rulers. John Adams, 18t-century American Founding Father, second U.S. president Character is the only secure foundation of the state. Calvin Coolidge, 20th-century
American president

A man who wants to act virtuously in every way necessarily comes to grief among so many who are not virtuous. Niccolo Machiavelli, Florentine Renaissance writer and political
adviser

"With all the power that a president has, the most important thing to bear in mind is this: You must not give power to a man unless, above everything else, he has character. Character is the most important qualification the president of the United States can have." Richard Nixon (from TV ad for Barry Goldwaters presidential campaign in 1964) All leaders must face some crisis where their own strength of character is the enemy.
Richard Reeves, 20th-century American journalist and essayist

"In a president, character is everything. A president doesn't have to be brilliant... He doesn't have to be clever; you can hire clever... You can hire pragmatic, and you can buy and bring in policy wonks. But you cant buy courage and decency, you cant rent a strong moral sense. A president must bring those things with him. He needs to have, in that much-maligned word, but a good one nonetheless, a "vision" of the future he wishes to create. But a vision is worth little if a president doesnt have the character the courage and heart to see it through." Peggy Noonan, 20th-century American
author, speech writer for U.S. President Ronald Reagan
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"Faced with crisis, the man of character falls back upon himself." Charles DeGaulle,
20th-century French general and president, founder of the Fifth Republic

"Politics ruins the character." Otto von Bismarck, 19th-century German chancellor, founder of
the German nation state

"Character is power." Booker T. Washington, 19th-century American educator "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a mans character, give him power." Abraham Lincoln, 19th-century U.S. president "It is a grand mistake to think of being great without goodness and I pronounce it as certain that there was never a truly great man that was not at the same time truly virtuous." Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century American Founding Father, inventor and statesman Every person in America has done or said something that would keep him or her from being president. Maybe a nation that consumes as much booze and dope as we do and has our kind of divorce statistics should pipe down about character issues. P.J.
ORourke, 20th-century American humorist and essayist

"Leaders are visionaries with a poorly developed sense of fear and no concept of the odds against them. They make the impossible happen." Dr. Robert Jarvik, 20th-century
American heart surgeon

"Political interest [can] never be separated in the long run from moral right." Thomas
Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to James Monroe, 1806)

I don't like people who are in politics for themselves and not for others. You want that, you can go into show business.'' Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977) There is a secret pride in every human heart that revolts at tyranny. You may order and drive an individual, but you cannot make him respect you. William Hazlitt, early 18thcentury English essayist and literary critic

You can only govern men by serving them. Victor Cousin A politician would do well to remember that he has to live with his conscience longer than he does with his constituents. Melvin R. Laird, 20th-century American secretary of
defense

Politics, as a practice, whatever its professions, has always been the systematic organization of hatreds. Henry Adams, 19th-century American historian, memoirist and diplomat An election is a moral horror, as bad as battle except for the blood; a mud bath for every soul concerned. George Bernard Shaw, 19th/20th-century Anglo-Irish dramatist and wit
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Politics, n. A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles.'' Ambrose


Bierce, early 20th-century American journalist and writer (from the Devil's Dictionary)

Since a politician never believes what he says, he is surprised when others believe him. Charles de Gaulle, 20th-century French general and president, founder of the Fifth Republic Washington is a place where men praise courage and act on elaborate personal costbenefit calculations. John Kenneth Galbraith, 20th-century North American economist, author
and diplomat

Never create by law what can be accomplished by morality. Charles-Louis de Secondat


Baron de Montesquieu, 17th/18th-century French jurist and political philosopher

Bad administration, to be sure, can destroy good policy; but good administration can never save bad policy. Adlai Stevenson, 20th-century American politician, presidential candidate "How far would Moses have gone if he had taken a poll in Egypt?" Harry S. Truman,
20th-century American president

"Politics is the art of controlling the environment." Hunter S. Thomson, 20th-century


American journalist and writer

"Democracy becomes a government of bullies, tempered by editors." Ralph Waldo


Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public philosopher and poet

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LOYALTY, FRIENDSHIP, GRATITUDE

"New friends are silver, but old friends are gold." Unknown "When eating a fruit, think of the person who planted the tree." Vietnamese saying "Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect." Marcus Aurelius "Loyalty oaths increase the number of liars." Noel Peattie "Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others." Cicero
(Marcus Tullius), Roman orator, philosopher and statesman

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principle difference between a dog and a man." Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19thcentury American humorist, author and journalist

"Friendship, like credit, is highest where it is not used. Elbert Hubbard, 19th/20th-century
American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

"Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate." Thomas Jones "If you don't appreciate it, you don't deserve it." Terry Josephson, 20th/21st-century
motivational author

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MEMORY & THE PAST

"A mans memory may almost become the art of continually varying and misrepresenting his past, according to his interest in the present." George Santayana,
20th-century American philosopher, author

Men live by forgetting. Women live on memories." T.S. Eliot, Nobel Prize-winning 20thcentury Anglo-American poet

"The superiority of the distant over the present is only due to the mass and variety of the pleasures that can be suggested, compared with the poverty of those that can at any time be felt." George Santayana, 20th-century American philosopher "The past is a foreign country. They do things differently there." L. P. Hartley "The past isnt dead. It isnt even past." William Faulkner, Nobel Prize-winning 20th-century
American novelist

The past is one evil less and one memory more. Elbert Hubbard, 19th/20th-century
American entrepreneur and philosopher (founder of Roycroft)

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MONEY, BUSINESS, GREED

"Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants." Epicurus,
ancient Greek philosopher

"You are not what you own." Fugazi, 20th/21st-century American rock band "I get so tired of listening to one million dollars here, one million dollars there. It's so petty." Imelda Marcos, 20th-century Filipino First Lady (married to Ferdinand Marcos) "When it is a question of money, everyone is of the same religion." Francois Marie
Arouet de Voltaire, 18th-century French author, wit and philosopher

"Virtue has never been as respectable as money." Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19thcentury American humorist, author and journalist

"God looks at the clean hands, not the full ones." Publilius Syrus It's not how much you have that makes people look up to you, it's who you are.'' Elvis
Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977)

Sharing money is what gives it its value. Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (19351977)

The quest for riches darkens the sense of right and wrong. Antiphanes, ancient Greek
dramatist

Don't forget until too late that the business of life is not business but living. B.C.
Forbes, early 20th-century American publisher, founder of Forbes magazine

"He is poor who does not feel content." Japanese proverb "For greed, all nature is too little." Seneca, Roman statesman and author "Goodness is the only investment that never fails." Henry David Thoreau, 19th-century
American essayist and nature writer

Too many people miss the silver lining because theyre expecting gold. Maurice
Setter

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OBSTACLES, ADVERSITY, SADNESS, SUFFERING

"Nothing is too much trouble." Edward Kirby Bonds "To perceive is to suffer." Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher "He is a hard man who is only just, and a sad one who is only wise." Francois Marie
Arouet de Voltaire, 18th-century French author, wit and philosopher

"The gem cannot be polished without friction." Chinese proverb "Adversity introduces a man to himself." Unknown "We cannot learn without pain." Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher There is no greater sorrow than to recall a happy time in the midst of wretchedness.
Dante Alighieri, 13th/14th-century Italian poet

"You should not suffer the past. You should be able to wear it like a loose garment, take it off and let it drop." Eva Jessye "The beauty of the soul shines out when a man bears with composure one heavy mischance after another, not because he does not feel them, but because he is a man of high and heroic temper." Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher

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PASSION, ENTHUSIASM

"Reason alone is insufficient to make us enthusiastic in any matter." Franois duc de la


Rochefoucauld, 17th-century French memoirist and philosopher

"What a man accomplishes in a day depends upon the way in which he approaches his tasks. When we accept tough jobs as a challenge. . . and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. When we do our work with a dynamic conquering spirit, we get things done." Arland Gilbert Zeal will do more than knowledge. William Hazlitt, early 18th-century English essayist and
literary critic

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead, 20th-century American
anthropologist

"The conclusions of passion are the only reliable ones." Soren Kierkegaard, early 19thcentury Danish philosopher

"Make no little plans! They have no magic to stir mens blood." Daniel Burnham, 19thcentury Chicago architect

"Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring." Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19thcentury American essayist, public philosopher and poet

"The two sovereign remedies for dullness are love or a crusade. D.H. Lawrence, 20thcentury English novelist

"Know the true value of time; snatch, seize and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness ... never put off till tomorrow what you can do today." Lord Chesterfield, 18thcentury English man of letters

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PERSEVERANCE, PATIENCE

"I never failed once. It just happened to be a 2000-step process." Thomas Edison
(19th/20th-century American inventor), responding to a reporter who asked how it felt to fail 2000 times before successfully inventing the light bulb

"Be patient and calm for no one can catch fish in anger." Herbert Hoover, 20th-century
American public servant, U.S. president

Fall seven times. Stand up eight. Japanese proverb "If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down." Mary Pickford,
20th-century American actress

"The way to succeed is never quit. Thats it. But really be humble about it." Alex Haley,
20th-century American author

"Our energy is in proportion to the resistance it meets. We attempt nothing great but from a sense of the difficulties we have to encounter, we persevere in nothing great but from a pride in overcoming them." William Hazlitt, early 18th-century English essayist and
literary critic

"The greater the obstacle the more glory in overcoming it." Jean Baptiste Molire, 17thcentury French dramatist

"What does not destroy makes me stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche, 19th-century German
philosopher

"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them every day begin the task anew." Saint Francis de Sales "Success consists of getting up just one more time than you fall." Oliver Goldsmith, 18thcentury English novelist

"Endurance is nobler than strength and patience than beauty." John Ruskin, 19th-century
British critic and author

"By and by never comes. St. Augustine Energy and persistence conquer all things. Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century American
Founding Father, inventor and statesman

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan press on has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race. Calvin Coolidge, 20th-century American president
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People may fail many times, but they become failures only when they begin to blame someone else. Unknown One is defeated only when one accepts defeat. Marshall Foch, 19th/20th-century French
general

It is not falling into the water, but lying in it, that drowns. Unknown "Winners are losers who got up and gave it one more try." Dennis DeYoung, 20th-century
songwriter and member of the pop rock band Styx

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PRINCIPLE & EXPEDIENCY, VALUES

"A departure from principle in one instance becomes a precedent for a second; that second for a third; and so on, till the bulk of the society is reduced to be mere automatons of misery, to have no sensibilities left but for sin and suffering." Thomas
Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president (letter to Samuel Kercheval, 1816)

"The sentiments of men are known not only by what they receive, but what they reject also." Thomas Jefferson, 18th-century American Founding Father, early 19th-century U.S. president
(Autobiography, 1821)

"Whatever else may be shaken, there are some facts established beyond warring: virtue is better than vice, truth is better than falsehood, kindness than brutality."
Quintin Hogg

We talk on principle but we act on interest. William Savage Landor Expedients are for the hour, but principles are for the ages. Henry Ward Beecher, 19thcentury American preacher

Every man, at the bottom of his heart, wants to do right. But only he can do right who knows right; only he knows right who thinks right; only he thinks right who believes right. Tiorio Values are like fingerprints. Nobody's are the same, but you leave 'em all over everything you do. Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977) When things go wrong don't go with them. Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (19351977)

Two things fill my mind with ever-increasing wonder and awe: the starry heavens above me and the moral law within me. Immanuel Kant, 18th-century Prussian geographer
and philosopher

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PURPOSE, WILL, AMBITION

"The more you prepare, the luckier you appear." Terry Josephson, 20th/21st-century
motivational author

"But words are things, and a small drop of ink, Falling like dew, upon a thought, produces That which makes thousands, perhaps millions, think..." Lord Byron, 19th-century English
poet (from Canto the Third)

"[A]n aim in life is the only fortune worth the finding; and it is not to be found in foreign lands, but in the heart itself." Robert Louis Stevenson, 19th-century English novelist and
adventurer (from "The Amateur Emigrant")

"All progress depends on the unreasonable man." George Bernard Shaw, 19th/20th-century
Anglo-Irish dramatist and wit

"To know just what has to be done, then to do it, comprises the whole philosophy of practical life." Sir William Osler "When I am anxious it is because I am living in the future. When I am depressed it is because I am living in the past." Unknown [T]he tragedy of life doesn't lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach. It isn't a calamity to die with dreams unfulfilled, but it is a calamity not to dream.... It is not a disgrace not to reach the stars, but it is a disgrace to have no stars to reach for. Not failure, but low aim is sin." Benjamin Elijah Mays, 20th-century American
educator, president of Morehouse College

"Genius is but fine observation strengthened by fixity of purpose." Edward BulwerLytton, 19th-century English novelist

The most important part of doctrine is the first two letters. David C. Egner As long as I can conceive something better than myself I cannot be easy unless I am striving to bring it into existence. George Bernard Shaw, 19th/20th-century Anglo-Irish
dramatist and wit

Striving to do better, oft we mar whats well. William Shakespeare, 16th-century English
dramatist

"The only way to find the limits of the possible is by going beyond them to the impossible." Arthur C. Clarke, 20th-century English science fiction writer "The more you prepare, the luckier you appear." Terry Josephson, 20th/21st-century
motivational author
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"Stop thinking in terms of limitations and start thinking in terms of possibilities." Terry
Josephson, 20th/21st-century motivational author

RESPECT, TOLERANCE, ACCEPTANCE, DIVERSITY

"I do not serve what you worship; nor do you serve what I worship. You have your own religion and I have mine." The Koran "The words you speak today should be soft and tender ... for tomorrow you may have to eat them." Unknown Every man is to be respected as an absolute end in himself; and it is a crime against the dignity that belongs to him as a human being, to use him as a mere means for some external purpose. Immanuel Kant, 18th-century Prussian geographer and philosopher In his private heart no man much respects himself. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19thcentury American humorist, author and journalist

"The highest result of education is tolerance." Helen Keller, 20th-century American social
activist, public speaker and author

"Perhaps the most important thing we can undertake toward the reduction of fear is make it easier for people to accept themselves, to like themselves." Bonaro Overstreet Civilizations should be measured by "the degree of diversity attained and the degree of unity retained." W.H. Auden, 20th-century English poet Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up. Jesse Jackson, 20th-century
American political activist, preacher

Animals don't hate, and we're supposed to be better than them. Elvis Presley,
American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977)

We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love one another. Jonathan Swift, 17th/18th-century English satirist The true measure of an individual is how he treats a person who can do him absolutely no good. Ann Landers, 20th-century American newspaper advice columnist Prejudice is the child of ignorance. William Hazlitt, early 18th-century English essayist and
literary critic

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RESPONSIBILITY, DUTY

"You cant escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today." Abraham Lincoln,
19th-century American president

Provision for others is the fundamental responsibility of human life.'' Woodrow Wilson,
20th-century American president

To protect those who are not able to protect themselves is a duty which every one owes to society.'' Edward Macnaghten I am only one, but still, I am one. I cannot do everything but I can do something. And, because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do what I can. Edward Everett Hale It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. Chinese proverb Responsibility is to keep the ability to respond Robert Duncan Our duty is to be useful, not according to our desires, but according to our powers.''
Henry F. Amiel

The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had the means, time, influence and educational advantages, but what he will do with the things he has.
Hamilton Wright Mabee

The value of life is not in the length of days, but in the use we make of them; a man may live long yet very little. Michel de Montaigne, 16th-century French man of letters and
essayist

We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once. Calvin Coolidge,


20th-century American president

Any mans life will be filled with constant and unexpected encouragement if he makes up his mind to do his level best each day. Booker T. Washington, 19th-century American
educator

I long to accomplish some great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great and noble. Helen Keller, 20th-century American social
activist, public speaker and author

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"A man can do only what he can do. But if he does that each day he can sleep at night and do it again the next day." Albert Schweitzer, 20th-century German Nobel Peace Prizewinning mission doctor and theologian

"A sense of duty imprisons you." Jennie Holzer, 20th-century American artist "We demand entire freedom of action and then expect the government in some miraculous way to save us from the consequences of our own acts.... Self-government means self-reliance." Calvin Coolidge, 20th-century American president

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SANCTIMONY, CYNICISM, PETTINESS, ENVY, ANGER

"Hatred is blind, anger is foolhardy, and he who pours out vengeance risks having to drink a bitter draft."
Alexandre Dumas, 19th-century French novelist and playwright (from The Count of Monte-Cristo, 1844)

"Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life." Henry David Thoreau "Moral indignation is in most cases two percent moral, forty-eight percent indignation, and fifty percent envy." Vittorio De Sica, 20th-century Italian filmmaker A knaves religion is always the rottenest thing about him." John Ruskin, 19th-century
British critic and author

Anger is never without a reason, but seldom a good one. Benjamin Franklin, 18thcentury American Founding Father, inventor and statesman

Anyone can become angry. That is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way this is not easy. Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher (from the Nicomachaen Ethics) "When a man is wrong and wont admit it, he always gets angry." Haliburton "All seems infected that the infected spy, as all looks yellow to the jaundiced eye."
Alexander Pope, 17th-century English poet

"You can tell the size of a man by the size of the thing that makes him mad." Adlai
Stevenson II, 20th-century American politician, presidential candidate

Envy someone an' it pulls you down. Admire them and it builds you up. Which makes more sense? Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll icon (1935-1977) Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. Mark Twain (Samuel
Clemens), 19th-century American humorist, author and journalist

There are two kinds of people: those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there. Indira Gandhi, 20th-century
Indian prime minister

I shall allow no man to belittle my soul by making me hate him. Booker T. Washington,
19th-century American educator

"Instead of comparing our lot with that of those who are more fortunate than we are, we should compare it with the lot of the great majority of our fellow men. It then appears that we are among the privileged." Helen Keller, 20th-century American social activist, public
speaker and author

SIMPLICITY, HUMILITY
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Humility, that low, sweet root, from which all heavenly virtues shoot. Thomas Moore,
19th-century Irish poet, satirist, composer and musician (from Loves of the Angels: Third Angels Story)

"Humility, like darkness, reveals the heavenly lights." Henry David Thoreau, 19th-century
American essayist and nature writer (from "Walden")

"Humility is the solid foundation of all the virtues." Confucius, ancient Chinese sage "Once the game is over, the king and the pawn go back in the same box." Italian
proverb

"A taste for simplicity cannot last for long." Eugene Delacroix, 19th-century French painter "The problem with property is that it takes so much of your time." Willem de Kooning,
20th-century Dutch-American painter

"Hastiness and superficiality are the psychic disease of the twentieth century."
Alexander Solzhenitzyn, 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning Russian novelist

"Take what you can use and let the rest go by." Ken Kesey, 20th-century American author "Less is more." Mies van der Rohe, 20th-century Dutch-American "Modernist" architect "Less is a bore." Robert Venturi, 20th-century American post-Modernist architect "Make a virtue of necessity." Geoffrey Chaucer, medieval English author You can't have everything. Where would you put it? Steven Wright, 20th-century
American humorist

"A good name is more desirable than great riches." Proverbs 22:1 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. Bible (Matthew 5:5) "Do not sound a trumpet before thee as the hypocrites do . . . that they may have glory from men. . . . But when thou doest alms let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth." Bible (Matthew 6:1-4) "The farther a man knows himself to be free from perfection, the nearer he is to it."
Gerard Groote

"He who thinks he has no faults has one." Unknown

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The greatest truths are the simplest, and so are the greatest men. J.C. Hare Simplicity of character is no hindrance to the subtlety of intellect. John Morley, 19thcentury British statesman

If I have seen farther than other men it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.
Isaac Newton, 17th-century English mathematician and physicist

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TRUST, DECEPTION & BETRAYAL

"Betrayal can only happen if you love." David Cornwall, a.k.a. John Le Carre, 20th-century
British author (from "The Perfect Spy")

"It is more shameful to distrust ones friends than to be deceived by them." Franois
duc de la Rochefoucauld, 17th-century French memoirist and philosopher

"Most of our faults are more pardonable than the means we use to conceal them."
Franois duc de la Rochefoucauld, 17th-century French memoirist and philosopher

"Nature never deceives us; it is always we who deceive ourselves." Jean-Jacques


Rousseau, 18th-century French philosopher

"More dangers have deceived men than forced them." Francis Bacon, 16th-century English
philosopher and essayist

Every journalist who is not too stupid or too full of himself to notice what is going on knows that what he does is morally indefensible. He is a kind of confidence man, preying on people's vanity, ignorance or loneliness, gaining their trust and betraying them without remorse. Janet Malcolm, 20th-century American journalist and author ( The
Journalist and the Murderer)

"How many times do you get to lie before you are a liar? Michael Josephson, 20th/21stcentury American ethicist

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VANITY, FAME, POPULARITY, PRIDE

"Big egos are big shields for lots of empty space." Diana Black Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. C.S. Lewis, 20th-century British novelist and scholar "Half of the harm that is done in this world is due to people who want to feel important.... They do not mean to do harm.... They are absorbed in the endless struggle to think well of themselves." T.S. Eliot, Nobel Prize-winning 20th-century Anglo-American poet "When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity." Dale
Carnegie, 20th-century American motivational writer

"Nothing is so commonplace as to wish to be remarkable." Unknown If you let your head get too big, it'll break your neck.' Elvis Presley, American rock 'n' roll
icon (1935-1977)

"A free society is one where it is safe to be unpopular." Adlai Stevenson II, 20th-century
American politician, presidential candidate

"When you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform." Mark Twain
(Samuel Clemens), 19th-century American humorist, author and journalist

I value solid popularity the esteem of good men for good action. I despise the bubble popularity that is won without merit and lost without crime. Thomas Hart Benton,
18th/19th-century American writer and U.S. senator from Missouri

He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals. Benjamin Franklin, 18th-century
American Founding Father, inventor and statesman

When I hear a man applauded by the mob I always feel a pang of pity for him. All he has to do to be hissed is to live long enough. H. L. Mencken, 20th-century American
journalist and humorist

"Vanity plays lurid tricks with our memory." Joseph Conrad, 19th/20th-century Nobel Prizewinning Polish-English author

No man is a hero to his valet. Mme. Cornuel, 17th-century Parisian hostess

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VIRTUE & VICE

"He who hates vice, hates mankind." Pliny the Younger "Our virtues are most often but our vices disguised." Franois duc de la Rochefoucauld,
17th-century French memoirist and philosopher

"Few things are harder to put up with than the annoyance of a good example." Mark
Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19th-century American humorist, author and journalist (in Puddnhead Wilson)

"The essence of greatness is the perception that virtue is enough." Ralph Waldo
Emerson, 19th-century American essayist, public philosopher and poet

"Hypocrisy is the homage vice pays to virtue." Franois duc de la Rochefoucauld, 17thcentury French memoirist and philosopher

"More people are flattered into virtue than bullied out of vice." Robert Smith Surtees "To many people, virtue consists chiefly in repenting faults, not in avoiding them."
Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

Value is that which one acts to gain and/or keep. Virtue is the act by which one aims and/or keeps it. Ayn Rand, 20th-century Russian/American philosopher and author "If you live long enough, you get accused of things you never did and praised for virtues you never had." I.F. Stone, 20th-century American journalist "Be virtuous and you will be eccentric." Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens), 19th-century
American humorist, author and journalist

Sell not virtue to purchase wealth. English proverb What ought not to be done do not even think of doing.'' Epictetus, ancient Greek historian No man should be praised for his goodness if he lacks the strength to be bad; in such cases goodness is usually only the effect of indolence or impotence of will. Franois
duc de la Rochefoucauld, 17th-century French memoirist and philosopher

By associating with good and evil persons a man acquires the virtues and vices which they possess, even as the wind blowing over different places takes along good and bad odors. The Panchatantra The first and the best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and vile. Plato, ancient Greek philosopher Show me a man without vices and Ill show you a man without virtues. Abraham
Lincoln, 19th-century American president

WISDOM

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"All receive advice. Only the wise profit from it." Syrus "If thou thinkest twice before thou speakest once, thou wilt speak twice the better for it."
William Penn

"A wise man knows everything; a shrewd one, everybody." Unknown "A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds." Francis Bacon, 16th-century
English philosopher and essayist

"The Way of the Sage is to act but not to compete." Lao-Tzu (Tao Te Ching) "Wise men learn more from fools than fools from the wise." Cato, Roman censor "Never kick a man when hes up." Thomas "Tip" ONeill, 20th-century American politician,
Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives, 1970s-1980s

"A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds." Francis Bacon, 16th-century
English philosopher and essayist

"Whatever your grade or position, if you know how and when to speak, and when to remain silent, your chances of real success are proportionately increased." Ralph C.
Smedley

To finish the moment, to find the journeys end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom. Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th-century American
essayist, public philosopher and poet

Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought. Henri Bergson "To sensible men, every day is a day of reckoning." John W. Gardner, 20th-century
American nonprofit leader, founder of Common Cause

"Always imitate the behavior of the winner when you lose." Unknown

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OTHER, MISCELLANEOUS

"The younger we are, the more we want to change the world. The older we are, the more we want to change the young." Unknown "It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the ones most responsive to change." Charles Darwin "We can't become what we need to be by remaining what we are." Oprah Winfrey "All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much blame you place, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty of something, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy." Dr. Wayne Dyer, author (Your Erroneous Zones) "If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door." Unknown "Challenges make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew."
Cicely Tyson

"You never understand a person until you consider things from his point of view."
Harper Lee, 20th-century American novelist

"Things come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle."
Abraham Lincoln, 19th-century American president

"I can't imagine a person becoming a success who doesn't give this game of life everything he's got. Walter Cronkite, 20th-century American journalist "If you lead through fear you will have little to respect; but if you lead through respect, you will have little to fear." Unknown "The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment." Dorothy Nevill "This thing we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down. " Mary Pickford,
20th-century American actor

"If there's no wind, row." Unknown "It is easy to fool yourself. It is possible to fool the people you work for. It is more difficult to fool the people you work with. But it is almost impossible to fool the people who work under you.'' Harry B. Thayer "Reputation is what you are perceived to be. Character is what you are." John Wooden,
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20th-century college basketball coach

"I tell you and you forget. I show you and you remember. I involve you and you understand." Unknown "It won't help a young man much to be one hundred years ahead of his time if he is a month behind in his rent." Chalmers da Costa, 20th-century American writer "Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds you down or polishes you up depends on what you are made of." Unknown "The meaning of life is that nobody knows the meaning of life." Woody Allen, 20th-century
American humorist and filmmaker

When evil men plot, good men must plan. When evil men burn and bomb, good men must build and bind. When evil men shout ugly words of hatred, good men must commit themselves to the glories of love.'' Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., 20th-century Nobel Prize-winning
American civil rights leader

Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises. Demosthenes, ancient
Greek orator

The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had the means, time, influence and educational advantages, but what he will do with the things he has.
Hamilton Wright Mabee

Let no man be sorry he has done good because others have done evil. If a man has acted right he has done well, though alone. If wrong, the sanction of all mankind will not justify him. Henry Fielding, 18th-century English novelist Life is one long struggle between conclusions based on abstract ways of conceiving cases, and opposite conclusions prompted by our instinctive perception of them.
William James, 19th-century American philosopher and author

Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes. Oscar Wilde, 19th-century
English wit and author

Not a day passes over this earth, but men and women of no note do great deeds, speak great words and suffer noble sorrows. Charles Reed "Perfection has one grave defect; it is apt to be dull." Somerset Maugham, 20th-century
English author

"Satire is tragedy plus time." Lenny Bruce, 20th-century American comedian "When speculation has done its worst, two and two still make four." Samuel Johnson,
18th-century English public philosopher and scholar

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"A true history of human events would show that a far larger proportion of our acts are the results of sudden impulses and accident than of that reason of which we so much boast. Peter Cooper "If you cant explain what youre doing in simple English, youre probably doing something wrong." Alfred Kazin, 20th-century American critic and author "There are no shortcuts to any place worth going." Beverly Sills, 20th-century American
opera singer and civic leader

"We aim above the mark to hit the mark." Ralph Waldo Emerson "If thou workest at that which is before thee, following right reason seriously, vigorously, calmly, without allowing anything else to distract thee but keeping thy divine part pure, if thou shouldst be bound to give it back immediately, if thou holdest to this, expecting nothing, fearing nothing, but satisfied with thy present activity according to nature and with heroic truth in every word and sound which thou utterest, thou wilt live happily. And there is no man who is able to prevent this." Marcus Aurelius

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