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Awareness of the Benefits of Knowing Yourself Learn the 9 Different Personality Types & Its Characteristics Basic Understanding of Who You Are & How to Appreciate & Understand Others
EXPERIENCE
Spiritually STRONG
Intellectually SOUND
Emotionally STABLE
Physically FIT
PEAK PERFORMANCE
MEDIOCRITY
FEEL
Feelings
BEHAVE
In order for us to take on the journey of selfdiscovery and self-mastery, we must look at our personality because our personality is the main filter we use to:
Understand ourselves and the world around us, Express ourselves, Defend ourselves, Relate to other people
But, what is personality? Conditioning from the past Habitual thoughts Emotional reactions Fantasies about the future
KNOWING YOURSELF
Certain MIX Home-Based Universal applies to BOTH men & women All types have UNIQUE Strengths & Weaknesses
Like a RAINBOW
Not everything in the description of your basic type will apply to you all the time
The Enneagram can help us to have more insight into ourselves and others. It shows us: Our core psychological issues, Our interpersonal strengths and weaknesses, Our personality patterns, Effective ways of dealing with our core issues.
The Nice Self The Bully The Critic The Trickster The Playful Self
differs from
HEART
CENTRE
The notion of a primary centre, which stems from a long Eastern philosophical tradition, refers to the ways in which we typically react, often internally, to events n our lives. While we all have our heads, hearts and bodies, each of us tends to favour one of these three modalities. Each Centre contains 3 of the Enneagram styles.
BODY/ GUT
CENTRE
BODY
CENTRE
HEAD
CENTRE
HEART
CENTRE
HEAD
CENTRE
The Head (Thinking) Centre contains Enneagram styles 5, 6 & 7. These three mental styles share the tendency to engage first in elaborate analysis as a reaction to their common emotion, fear/anxiety.
5s respond to fear by withdrawing, retreating into their minds in order to understand. 6s react to their worry and fear by anticipating negative scenarios & planning alternatives to circumvent what could go wrong. 7s deal with fear by moving from worry very quickly into pleasurable possibilities. Although 7s do not appear fearful on the surface, they are actually running from fear and pain an avoidance reaction.
HEART
CENTRE
The Heart (Feeling/Emotional) Centre contains Enneagram styles 2, 3 & 4. Individuals with these Heart Centre styles work hard to project a particular image & they use their emotions to perceive how others are responding to them.
2s try to create an image of being likeable and they look to others for affirmation of their self-worth. 3s work to project an image of success & they seek the respect & admiration of others for what they accomplish. 4s try to create an image of being unique or special & they use their emotional sensitivity to defend against rejection.
The Body (Gut/Instinctual) Centre contains Enneagram styles 8, 9 & 1. Anger lies in the emotional substructure of these three styles.
8s tend to express their anger frequently and directly. Their anger, which begins in the gut & moves rapidly up & outward, is stimulated by various events, such as an injustice done to someone, weakness in others, someone taking ineffective control of situation and someones lying. 9ss anger get activated when they feel either ignored or forced to do something, in which case their anger may turn into passive aggressive behaviour. 9s tend to avoid direct anger and conflict, preferring a feeling of rapport and comfort with others. 1ss anger, while deep, often manifests as frequent irritations followed by flares of resentment. 1s also tend toward self-criticism, which is anger turned inward.
ANGER
Eights act out their anger and instinctual energies. Nines deny their anger and instinctual energies. Ones control or repress their anger and instinctual energies. Sevens cope with their anxiety by distracting their minds occupied with exciting possibilities and options. Sixes cope with their anxiety by looking for an external authority or denying their fear in the effort to be free of it. Fives cope with their anxiety about the world by withdrawing from it.
Twos control shame by getting people to like them. Threes deny shame by learning to perform well & be successful. Fours control shame by focusing on their uniqueness & authenticity.
ANXIETY
SHAME
THE REFORMER
The NEED to be
PERFECT
HIGH
Focused, PATIENT about other peoples imperfections, Know how to have fun
LOW
Intolerant, Tightly Wound, Unstable, Punishing, Judgmental and Unforgiving, Judge/Jury
MEDIUM
Discerning Judgmental Opinionated Easily Irritated Resentful Critical
THE HELPER
The NEED to
HIGH
Gentle, Generous, Deeply compassionate, Give without expectation
LOW
Master Manipulators, Use of Guilt, Blame or Shame to control others, Make others feel responsible for their despair
You R MINE !
MEDIUM
Engage people through flattery, give attention & favors, Emotional, Difficulty saying No
Famous TWO: Mother Teresa If you judge People, you have NO TIME to LOVE THEM.
THE ACHIEVER
The NEED to
Phony, Contagious Opportunistic, Enthusiasm, Chase after Confident, money, status and Genuine, Know fame with little who they TRULY are regard for others MEDIUM and FEEL Focus on GOALS and WORK, Driven, Competitive, Seek Recognition, Motivated by own desire for success
HIGH
LOW
THE INDIVIDUALIST
The NEED to
HIGH
Emanate Centeredness, tranquility and calm, Creative, do not go into Emotions when facing challenges
LOW
Bitter, Depressed, Emotionally Volatile, Hypersensitive, Negative self-perception, Withdrawn
MEDIUM
Dramatic, Yearning, Moody, Melancholic, Reflective, Engaged in prolonged personal stories
THE INVESTIGATOR
The NEED to
HIGH
Able to engage in life, rather than observe from afar Imaginative, Wise, Can become lively
LOW
Withdrawn, Isolated, Secretive, Implosive, Remove themselves from Interaction
MEDIUM
Remote and private, dislike surprises, detached from their feelings, hunger for knowledge
THE LOYALIST
The NEED to
Committed Engaging Responsible Security-Oriented Organizing Vigilant Evaluating Believing and Doubting
HIGH
Confident, Calm, Resilient, Clear and Courageous, Trust their own inner authority
LOW
Extreme amount of anxiety and frenzy, think of continuous worst case scenarios, panicky, clingingly dependent
MEDIUM
Approval Seeking, Short Tempered, Alternate between trusting and distrusting, loyal to people they trust
If you tell a big enough lie and tell it frequently enough, it will be believed.
Famous SIX: Richard Branson And obviously, from our own personal point of view, the principal challenge is a personal challenge.
THE ENTHUSIAST
HIGH
Able to FOCUS, Tamed their Active Minds, complete their work, Spirited, Inspiring
LOW
Hyperactive, Fleeing from self reflection, self-destructive behaviors
MEDIUM
Creative and Engaging but also frenzied, Half thought ideas/ notions, difficulty in focusing, Overly positive
THE CHALLENGER
TAKE CHARGE
Strong Assertive Resourceful Independent Determined , Action-Oriented Competitive Self Confident Decisive
HIGH
Generous, Strong, Open-hearted, Warm, Deeply confident, Able to manage their massive energy
LOW
Unleash flood of anger, justify their actions by blaming others, cannot control explosive behavior
MEDIUM
Controlling, Dominating, Aggressive, Expect immediate response from others, strong opinions
THE PEACEMAKER
The NEED to be
HIGH
Able to take a stand, Involved, Engaged, Serene, Deeply content
LOW
Passive aggressive (saying Yes but mean No), Sluggish, Forgetful, Does not pay attention to themselves
MEDIUM
Desiring Peace and Harmony above everything, go along with what others want
ENNEAGRAM WINGS
The Wings are another refinement offered by the Enneagram system. They recognize that while people are one basic type, almost no one is a pure type. No person is a pure personality type; everyone is a mix of two types, where the second type is the wing. Most people have one dominant wing. People could have a heavy, moderate or light wing. Level of influence over the basic type varies. The basic type and the dominant wing produces a unique Subtype.
ENNEAGRAM WINGS
9w8 exhibit more personal power & take more control of situations 8w7 more high-spirited, independent & adventurous 8w9 warmer, calmer & more consensually oriented 7w6 more overtly fearful & deliberate 7w8 more assertive & direct 9w1 more punctual, discerning, & judgmental
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9
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12
1
1w9 more relaxed, react less quickly & enjoy natures perfection 1w2 more generous & gregarious & may focus their work on helping people 2w1 more serious, critical & dedicated to work 2w3 more in the spotlight & focused on being successful 3w2 more empathic & pursue work & activities that help others 3w4 more emotional & have stronger aesthetic interests, such as writing, painting or photography
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23
6w5 more internally focused & passionate about information gathering 6w7 more upbeat & risk-taking
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4
34
5w4 more emotional & artistic 4w5 more skeptical & cautious
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45
4w3 more energetic & sophisticated & may pursue higher-profile work 4w5 more subdued, private and analytical
APPLIED
KNOWLEDGE IS
TRUE POWER!
Thank you!
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