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CREATING OPEN, PROFESSIONALLY


APPROPRIATE DIALOGUE WITH STUDENTS
 Although decisions teachers make
concerning relationships with students vary
depending on the age, the basic themes
related to teacher student relationships are
similar across grade levels

 One important question is how open and


CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
involved a teacher wishes to be with
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students
Lecture 21

 A primary factor involves the level of openness chosen.


We can chose a teacher –student relationship  However, you should avoid becoming
characterized by: overly involved in student‟s interests or
1) Almost complete openness, in which we share a wide activities outside of school, particularly if
range of personal concerns and values with students
you are a secondary teacher.
2) Openness related to our reactions to and feelings
about the school environment, with limited sharing of
aspects reflecting our out-of-school life.  Students need to know that we have
3) An almost exclusive focus on a role-bound
relationship; that is, we share no personal feelings or
interesting lives apart from them and that
reactions, but merely perform our instructional duties we find life stimulating and challenging in
some ways that are different from theirs.

SYSTEMATICALLY BUILDING BETTER


 At the same time, they need us to be interested
RELATIONSHIPS
enough in them and open enough with our own
values to share our ideas with them and We can express our interest in and concern for
engage them in discussions. students by:
1) Monitoring the quality of our relationships with
students, with a focus on maintaining a high rate
of positive statements;
 In addition to letting students know us as 2) Creating opportunities for personal discussions
people, we can model a degree of openness to with them; and
our students‟ verbal expressions of concerns 3) Demonstrating our interest in activities that are
and feelings in our classroom. important to them

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MAINTAIN A HIGH RATIO OF POSITIVE TO NEGATIVE COMMUNICATING HIGH EXPECTATIONS


STATEMENTS
 How teachers communicate their expectations about
 Children are sensitive to praise and criticism how well students will do in the classrooms is an
given by adults. Unfortunately many teachers important factor in teacher-student relationships.
find disruptive behaviours to be more noticeable.
And respond to it more frequently than to on-task  School effectiveness research has consistently pointed
behaviour. to teachers‟ high expectations of students‟ performance
 Frequent negative remarks by the teacher are
as a key factor associated with students‟ achievement.
usually accompanied by student‟s‟ dislike for
school.  In a variety of ways we tend to communicate to some
students that they are bright, capable, and responsible,
 Though we often believe that critical remarks will while other students receive the message that they are
improve students‟ behaviour, research suggests dull, incapable, and irresponsible.
that the opposite is true.

CREATING OPPORTUNITIES FOR PERSONAL DISCUSSIONS USING EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS


 Demonstrating Interest in Students‟ Activities  Communication Skills for Confronting Inappropriate or
 Eating Lunch with Students Disruptive Behaviour:
 Arranging Interviews 1) Deal in the present.

 Sending Letters and Notes to Students 2) Talk directly to students rather than about them.

 Using a suggestion box 3) Speak Courteously

 Joining in School and Community Events 4) Make eye contact and be aware of nonverbal

 Joining in Playground Games


messages
5) Take responsibility for statement by using the personal
 Making Birthday Cards
pronoun I.
 Introducing New Students to Adults in the School

 Being Aware of Issues Related to Sexual Harassment

CREATING POSITIVE PEER ACQUAINTANCE ACTIVITIES


RELATIONSHIPS
 The Name Chain
 Peers play an important role in determining the quality A name chain is the most effective method for helping
of the learning environment. students learn each other‟s names. Explain to the
students that each person will be asked to say his or
 Research indicates that time spent creating a positive her first name and tell the group one thing about himself
peer group can eliminate much misbehaviour and can or herself (something they like to do, something
provide a classroom climate that enhances students interesting that happened to them, how they are
achievement. feeling).

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 What’s in a Name? 4) Do people change their name in any way? Eg: Is it


often shortened and so on? How do they feel about
This activity is excellent as a first-acquaintance activity
or as an activity following a name chain. Students are this?
placed in groups of five or six. Briefly lead a discussion 5) Do they like their name? If not, what name would they
on the value of names. Ask students to tell these facts prefer?
about heir names. 6) What do they want used in the class?
1) State their full name.
2) How did they get their name? eg: Were they named for
someone? Does the name represent a family heritage After all groups have finished, one student in each
or nationality? group can volunteer to introduce each member of the
3) Do they have any nicknames? Who calls them by this
small group to the entire class. They do so by giving the
name? Do they like the nickname(s)? name each student wants to be called in the class

 Know your classmates  Interviews


Each student will need a ditto sheet entitled „Know Your Interviews are excellent means for students to become
Classmates‟ and a pencil or pen. Ask students to find a better acquainted with each other. The activity will often
person in the class who fits each description listed on foster new friendships and feelings of self-importance.
the sheet and to obtain the person‟s signature on the Lack of information about others is often a major barrier
line in front of the description. To encourage students to to establishing new friendships.
interact with numerous peers, inform them that they
cannot have the same person sign their sheet more We can use interviews in the classroom in many ways.
than twice. (Fig 4.2) One method involves introducing the interviewing
process by having students list 10 questions that would
help them know a classmate better.

ACTIVITIES FOR ESTABLISHING A


COHESIVE, SUPPORTIVE GROUP
Class History  Photo Album
- Development of a class history or year book. Four to six Whenever a special event occurs, capture the
students are chosen either by the teacher or by their moment in a photograph. Students can become
peers to write the history, and all students are actively involved by learning to use a camera.
encouraged to contribute ideas.
Pictures taken by students can be accompanied by
- Every month the history writers meet and decide what written statements and put on the bulletin board
events, assemblies and new lessons, and so on they until replaced by a picture and description of a new
wish to incorporate into their class history. It can also
event. The old material can then be placed in the
include poems, addresses and phone numbers,
autograph page, a page about students thoughts on the
class photo album and some written material can
year, letter written to the students by the teacher etc. be incorporated into the class history.

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 Special Days W ORKING WITH PARENTS


Creating special days allow students to have some
influence over their environment while enhancing a  Parents are the most important and influential
sense of group identity. adults in students‟ lives. Even at the secondary
level, parents‟ attitudes toward school
Special days might include a day on which everyone dramatically affect students‟ feelings and
wears the same colour, a day for dressing up, listen to behaviour.
related music on such days ( such as 1950s day) etc.
 With few exceptions, parents want to know
about their children‟s progress and to have
them be successful in school.

Keeping Parents Informed


- Importance of early contacts
 Parents are delighted to hear that their youngsters
- Obtaining parental support is facilitated by making
are performing well and they expect to be informed
parents familiar with the teacher‟s instructional goals
immediately when a problem arise. and classroom methods as soon as possible.

 Effective teachers accept the important role parents - Parents are no different from children or teachers. They
play in student‟s lives and implement methods for are more likely to feel positive about and support issues
communicating positively with parents. they clearly understand and have had the opportunity to
discuss.

 Methods for Obtaining Parental Support  The Initial Meeting


There are many approaches to developing parental support It is very important to try to meet parents as soon as
for student achievement and positive classroom behaviours. possible. Have an evening where parents can visit their
An Introductory letter child‟s classroom(s) and discuss the teacher‟s approach
to instruction and classroom management.
Perhaps the easiest approach for making initial contacts is to
send a letter to each student‟s parent(s). The letter will It is sometimes necessary to arrange an alternate meeting
include information that you will want to present personally to time for parents who are unable to attend or
students, and is best to send so that it arrives one or two uncomfortable to attend evening sessions.
days after school begins. Introduce yourself in letter, state Information about the times that are convenient can be
your interest in developing positive teacher-parent contacts
obtained by requesting in the initial letter sent to parents
and invite so that you can get opportunity to meet and
discuss the school year

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 Follow –up DEALING EFFECTIVELY WITH PARENTS’


Do not wait too long before reinforcing the ideas presented in
the orientation meeting. CRITICISM AND CONFRONTATIONS

Another follow up activity involves sending positive notes to


parents about improvements or achievements their children  Anyone who has taught for several years has had
have made in the specific areas discussed during the to deal with an angry or critical parent. Many
orientation meeting. teachers state that, along with classroom discipline,
this type of confrontation is perhaps the least
All parents care about their children and want them to be desirable aspect of teaching.
successful in school, therefore it is important to keep parents
 Although there is no foolproof method for dealing
continually informed about their child‟s progress in your
class. with an angry parent, there are several strategies
that can be used to cope with such situations in an
effective, professional manner.

1) Greet the parent in a pleasant manner. It is more


difficult for parents to remain critical and aggressive if 4) Present a calm, professional manner. Stand erect, look
you seem glad to see them. at the parent, and remain calm. Just as students
respond more effectively to teachers who remain calm
2) Use active listening to defuse the parent‟s emotions. and in charge during a crisis, parents need the structure
Becoming defensive or initially arguing will usually only provided by a calm response.
intensify the parent‟s emotions. Phrases like “I can see 5) Ask the parent what he or she wishes to accomplish. “ I
your concern” help the parent feel that you understand. appreciate your concern. What would you like to
It helps parents to calm down and replace angry or accomplish with our discussion today?”
frightened feelings with more positive and productive 6) Set a time limit if necessary. If your time is limited, it is
ones. important to inform the parent. Do by stating “I have 20
minutes before I have to be back with my class. Let‟s
3) Look genuinely interested and listen carefully.
see how far we can get in solving the problem in that
time. If we need more time I will be glad to schedule a
conference as soon as possible”.

7) Ask the parent whether the student is aware of the 10) Tell the parent specifically what will be done to deal
problem. Because the student is the most important with the problem. Parents have a right to know what
person involved it is important to clarify how she or he the teacher will do to alleviate a difficulty.
feels about the issue being raised by parent. Question
helps the issue of student‟s responsibility for any Furthermore, critical parents can often become strong
problem that may exist supporters if they learn that they will be listened to,
shown data, and presented with a plan. If the parents‟
8) Be honest. When confronted by parents, it is easy to worry was not justified, the plan may involve a follow-up
understate the seriousness of a problem or accept too to examine the results of the current programme.
much responsibility for a problem that is largely
something the child must work on.
If, however, the parent highlighted an area that required
9) Emphasize specific data. If a parent angrily states that attention, developing a plan shows respect for the
his daughter did well in math last year but is having parent‟s concern and competence on your part.
difficulty this year, the most logical and effective
approach is to examine data on the student‟s math.

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Source:
Jones,V.F.& Jones, S.J. (1998).Comprehensive Classroom
Management:Creating Communities of Support and Solving
Problems(5th).Allyn &Bacon.USA

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