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As a public gure, I get plenty of fan mailelectronic and otherwise. Heres an excerpted example from last week: I disdain you and just about everything you write you ignorant stupid b****** you God, I dont like you!
two earsone to let it go in and another to let it go out. Thats a light-hearted way to look at it, but its not that easy for children when they hear hurtful things about their parents. I always told our kids that their classmates were just mockingbirds, chirping what they heard at home. The late Ferrol Sams, noted author and Fayette County physician, had a novel comeback to his critics. Once under fire in his hometown, he was quoted in The Atlanta Journal-Constitution saying, A man is judged by the stature of his enemies. I wish more of mine had been giants rather than ****ants. You never got the last word on Sambo. If I had let every unsavory barb hurled at me fester, Id be an ulcerated wreck. Recently, Ive been called a political lackey and an imbecile. So, since 1971, Ive seen the good as well as plenty of the bad and the ugly. Still, I sleep well in the proverbial glass house. I concentrate on the good to plump my pillow. However, a survival strategy is beneficial. The key element is willpower. It takes willpower to consider the source of criticism. It takes willpower to get over ugly attacks. But most of all, I rely on willpower to simply move on. Taking advantage of Farnells two-ear advice helps, too.
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