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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

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Dear Annie: I am a single overlooked it. She then writes 40-year-old man. The past 18 a card and gives a gift. months have been rough for I dont know what to say my family. My father passed when the awkward phone call away, and my comes. My feelings mother moved to are hurt that my Florida. Then she birthday isnt auhad a mild stroke. tomatic for her beI have always cause weve known liked Florida, so I each other for so decided to move long. I also know with Mom and that she manages help care for her. to remember the My two brothers birthdays of other still live in our friends she hasnt old hometown known as long and with their famiwhose birthdays lies. are around the same Ever since our Annies Mailbox time as mine. move here, my What should brothers have given me the I say when she tells me she cold shoulder. I heard through cant believe she has forgotthe grapevine that they be- ten my birthday once again? lieve I am controlling Moms Perplexed in Pennsylvania money and taking advantage Dear Perplexed: Its posof her. That couldnt be fur- sible that your friend is so ther from the truth. I have put confident that your birthday my life on hold to make my is something shell rememmothers life better. She for- ber that she doesnt bother to gets to take her medications write it down and consequentand has lost interest in cook- ly forgets until its too late. Or ing. So I cook her meals, take she might remember but not her wherever she wants to go, have a moment to call, and by make her doctors appoint- the time things settle down, ments and see that she takes its slipped her mind. She the required meds. may also be having memory I have told my brothers the issues that she is too embartruth of the situation, and so rassed to mention. We dont has my mother, but nothing believe it is deliberate, beseems to change their minds. cause it requires much more We have always been a close effort to call, apologize and family, and I dont want that then send a card and a gift. to change. Is there something The next time she does this, I can do to fix this? Con- make a joke of it. Suggest she fused in Florida invest in some belated birthDear Confused: Your day cards for next year. brothers may be suspicious, Dear Annie: I read the but it is also likely there is letter from Second Best in some guilt mixed in, causing Michigan, whose husbands them to resent you and your widowed mother controls importance to Mom. The everything, including pickbest way to handle this is to ing her husbands clothes and include them as much as pos- scheduling their holiday gathsible. Ask their opinion on erings. Moms medical treatments My husbands mother was and any major decisions. widowed when we married Make all financial dealings 37 years ago. He was an only completely transparent. Send child. I can tell Michigan them regular updates and cop- that she will always be secies of her checkbook balance, ond best. My husband and I her investments, her cash out- went to counseling, but as you lay everything. Better yet, said, Annie, the key part is the ask them to come to Florida to willingness of the husband spend a week with Mom and to change. In my marriage, see how shes doing. change was never successful Dear Annie: I have for any length of time. known my best friend for If Michigans husband more than 20 years. For the doesnt stand up to Mom now, past three, she has completely he never will. She would be forgotten my birthday. She happier in the long run withusually remembers belatedly out him. Hate To See You and phones, mortified that she Suffer, Too In 2002, Steve Fossett completed the first nonstop solo hot air balloon flight around the world.
By Bernice Bede Osol

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WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 30, 2013 Rise to the occasion in the coming solar cycle. Put your best foot forward and be ready to dive into anything with courage and determination. Challenges will provide you with opportunities to thrive and improve. Hard work will bring you fabulous rewards. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Pick up information or expand your interests to find a way to make important contacts, reach new goals and improve your life. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- You should take a challenge or unusual situation in stride. Dont make a big deal or draw attention to what you are doing. If you make a sudden or unexpected change, youll catch others off-guard and gain the advantage. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Youll spark interest in whatever you do. Share your outlook and intentions. A contract, settlement or investment will have a positive outcome. A better position is within your reach. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Make a decision based on what you need, not what others want. Be strong and consider your motives. Justification will come through honesty, integrity and knowing what you want. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Do what you can for others, and you will get favors in return. Financial matters look positive, and investments will be worth your while. An unusual connection with someone will blossom into a relationship. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Research what you need to know before you plunge into a conversation that might affect your reputation. You can win or lose the confidence of others with your comments. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Choose what you want to do and with whom you want to do it. Take a position of leadership, but remain a team player. Your masterful way of handling people will be your ticket to success. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Step back and consider who is treating you well and who isnt. Cut your losses and weed out the people and projects that are weighing you down instead of picking you up. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- What you share with others will lead to exciting activities, projects and proposals. Pay close attention to whats going on at home. An emotional situation must be handled carefully. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Refuse to let anyone railroad you into something that you dont want to pursue. Ask questions, but avoid arguments. Look and listen carefully before making a major decision. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Talk is cheap, but sometimes frugality is whats called for. Stay within your budget, but offer something new and exciting, and you will have everyone entranced. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Your past professional performance and jobs that brought you the most joy will help you decide what direction to take now. Contact former co-workers and make a proposal.

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