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Hello Everyone
Well you are going to read about the Conference in this magazine so I wont go into too much detail here except to say Im overwhelmed with all the positive feedback from attendees and presenters. Everyone obviously had a great time meeting people and learning along the way. AAMET International is truly emerging as the most attractive EFT Association to belong to. A lot of changes are also being made to our Training Programmes and by the time you read this, the new information should be available on the website. The documents on the website will clarify the changes.
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We are also working on developing a newsletter to give further news on developments and we are collating all your questions and making them available to Trainers on the website. We now have a new Facebook page for EFT Trainers and Supervisors. The EFT Research Team have had a meeting and I will invite them to provide us with updates that we can share with you. The website will be undergoing another facelift to provide you all with useful downloads and there will be an area for you to advertise your EFT products and services. Im feeling the cold in the UK, having come from the lovely warmth of Gozo where I was surprised to find they too celebrate Halloween mainly with fancy dress parties. I recently discovered that Halloween originated from Ireland (where my parents were born). Countries around the world celebrate it differently. In the UK children get dressed up in costume and knock on doors for trick or treats. In China its known as Ten Chieh and they place food and water beneath the photos of departed family members.They then light lanterns and bonfires to light up the path so spirits can travel the earth. In Spanish speaking countries, alters are adorned with fruit, flowers, water for the spirits. A bowl of water and a towel is left out for the spirits to wash before the feast. In Germany knives are hidden to avoid harm from returning spirits. In France it has only become popular in the last 15years. In Czechoslovakia a chair for each living member of the family and a chair for each family members spirit is placed in front of the fireplace. Regardless of how you spend your Halloween, I hope you have a good one. I will go now but please remember to send in your stories or articles for our next magazine. With love
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Journal of Rehana Websters Trauma Buster Technique Workshops and Interventions in Pakistan May 2013
Arrived in Islamabad on 8th May and started an incredible adventure of delivering several TBT workshops and working with clients suffering from PTS (post traumatic stress) symptoms.
The Sindh Development Society invited me to work with the residents of Darulaman Women's Shelter which houses women labelled 'KARI' (the insidious tradition of honor killing). Asma bibi is the managing director of SDS, Kanwal Thebo, psychologist, Qudoos Memon, district officer and Makhdoom Hussain, High Court judge who is handling the gardening project. I was in Sukkur from 12-18 May and spent every day in sessions with the women and teaching TBT. Asma bibi and Kanwal were my official guides and translators as Sindhi is the dialect spoken here. We set up groups with team leaders to continue the TBT practice daily. The social worker from Sahil and the psychologist assigned to Darulaman will continue to monitor the progress and application of TBT at the shelter. What a great team dedicated to justice for women! The people of Sindh are mostly from the rural areas. They are generally poor with little education or literacy skills. It's amazing to think that most cities here have more people than the entire population of New Zealand which is 4 million. The society is comprised of clans or castes.The clans dont allow out marriages and therefore the majority of marriages are arranged by the families. There are 23 districts and 4 shelter homes servicing Sindh - 8 districts are covered by 1 6
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shelter. The maximum capacity for Darulaman is 30 residents and presently there are 50 women and 27 children crammed into the shelter, all referred by the Court. Young girls are married off (sold) to much older men and mistreated terribly. They are made to work in the fields, keep house, have babies and then burnt, beaten and abused. When they escape from their marriages by running away, their only hope is hiding in the Shelters or to face certain death by the hands of their families. There is little food, less power due to hourly blackouts and very little space - 6 small rooms to live in. One day the outside temperature was 47C and it was sweltering inside. Summer had barely begun. The government provides R9 per person, per day for food. R9 does not even pay for a cup of tea. In contrast the government gives $180 per person per day for people in jail. So you can imagine how this gardening project will help the residents. I gathered donations from friends and colleagues to start a gardening project at the shelter to help supplement food supplies for the residents and their children who are hungry and suffering from malnutrition. I felt that practical help was as valuable as teaching the residents how to use TBT. The project has been a huge success and the SDS members including the staff from the shelter have been involved hands on with the creation of this gardening center.
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I have posted pictures on face book documenting the progress of the project. There are two pages, one under my name and another under Trauma Buster Technique. However, here are some more pictures for those of you who don't use face book. The use of TBT was an unprecedented success. The women were able to use the simple technique and noticed the relief they achieved from the various symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress.
(see www.traumabustertechnique.com for details)
Success rate: 100% for any clients treated for a particular PTS symptom. The theme of the events were: violent home invasions with armed intruders, knife attacks, etc. Other events were of gory accidents and bomb attacks. These are the conditions that people are living under because of the unrest in society and war conditions. One success that stands out is a medical doctor who was unable to work because of paranoid delusions experienced after a traumatic event. He was not able to leave his home for 3 years and had received treatment at the best hospital in Islamabad. His paranoia condition had become very severe and when I saw him he was visibly trembling and in a high state of anxiety. His family had brought him to see me in the hope that TBT would help. We had one TBT session which lasted 3 hours. At the end his sense of anxiety had fallen from 10++ to around 2. I instructed him to continue tapping 3 times daily and at any time he felt anxious or had negative thoughts. When I saw him 2 days later he was totally transformed. Why... because he he had been able to sleep for the first time in 3 years without feeling paranoid about being attacked in his home. He continued to get better and I receive regular feedback from him. When I return to Chitral he has expressed a desire to be the first certified TBT practitioner to open up a clinic there. ;-)
TBT workshops delivered in Islamabad: 1. TBT workshop at Sahil.org for staff members (psychologists and social workers) 21/5/13 2. TBT workshop for retired American School Teachers 31/5/13 3. TBT workshop for Behbud Society (staff members, social workers, psychologists, doctors) 1/6/13 4. TBT presentation to staff at Hafeez Naval Hospital for Trauma (Staff and psychologists) 2/6/13
Chitral (in the Hindu Kush and Himalayas) All workshops sponsored and organized by SGRM Pakistan (Sustainable Growth through Resource Management).
Very different society here. Rate of education among the young people is the highest in Pakistan. University degrees are common. However there are no jobs to sustain this highly educated population. There are several suicides monthly among the young women. Again it appears that the custom of arranged marriages is the key factor in the high suicide rate. Population suffering from anxiety and stress. TBT workshops delivered in Chitral: 1. TBT workshop at Kosht Agha Khan School (students, teachers and staff members) 25/5/13 2. TBT workshop at Booni Area School (students, teachers and staff members) 26/5/13 3. TBT workshop at University of Chitral (students, staff and psychology department) 29/5/13 4. TBT workshop at Chitral sponsored by Commissioner (police, staff and students from economics department) 27/5/13
I am so grateful to SDS for giving me the opportunity to work at the Darulaman Women's Shelter and to SGRM for hosting and organizing the workshops in the province of Chitral. Many thanks to all the hard work and commitment of everyone involved.
Rehana Webster, BSc EFT Founding Master, NLP Master AAMET Trainer & Mentor New Zealand www.behaviourchanges.com www.traumabustertechnique.com
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A common fear that stops people from being proactive is the fear of failure. How can we know that it is there? If there is something we would like to do and feel hesitant doing it, the question can rise as to why we are hesitant. One possible reason could be that we are afraid of failing and so we hesitate to take the next step, so we postpone indefinitely doing something about it. So, OK, we dont like to fail. Nobody does. However, why is there a fear of failure? Most likely this fear is there because of the unwanted emotions the experience of failure brings. There must be at least one incident in the past that involved the experience of failure in something. If you wish to deal with the fear of failure you can try and remember one of those incidents in the past which involved you failing in something or perhaps witnessing someone else failing and the consequences experienced by that. Did someone make fun of you? Or insulted you in front of others? Did others express their disappointment in you? Did they get angry at you, laughed at you or perhaps they showed joy with your failure? Or maybe they rejected you one way or the other? Events like these can instantly disrupt your energy field and cause unhealthy emotions. What sort of feelings did the experience of failure and the response to it created in you? Embarrassment? Disheartening? Sadness? Anger? Lack of self-worth? Anything else? If the memory of these events still causes you an intensity of such emotions, then they are wonderfully tappable issues. Here I would like to share with you generalised tap-alongs using EFT shortcuts, that you might find helpful in eliminating the fear of failure. For greater success, however, tap directly on the issues rising from specific events.
Check your intensity on the scale of 0 to 10 (10 = highest possible intensity). TH Point = Top of the head Start with the setup:: Even though, I have this fear of failure, I accept myself and the way I feel. Even though Im afraid to make a step forward, because I might fail and this would be devastating for me, I love myself and profoundly accept the way I am. Even though Im afraid to try something new because I dont want to experience failure if it doesnt work out, I honour my feelings and who I am. Even tough Im afraid to go out of my comfort zone because the unknown is scary, I totally accept myself and the way I feel.
EB: This fear of failure. SE: This paralysing fear of failure. UE: This overwhelming fear of failure. UN: This anxiety from the fear of failing. CH: This fear of the new. CB: This fear of making a step forward. UA: This frightening experience of failure. TH: Im so afraid to fail again.good for your overall abundance picture.
Check again in the scale what your intensity is now and if it has not reached 0 carry on with the following setup::
Even though Im afraid to fail because it will prove - again - that Im not good enough, I choose to release these concerns now. Even though Im afraid to fail because I would again experience sorrow, I choose not to allow a failure determine who I am. Even though I fear failure because others will make fun of me or criticise me, I choose to remain uninfluenced by what others think, feel or say about me and my life.
EB: Im afraid to fail SE: Failure brings pain. UE: Failure brings criticism. UN: Failure brings embarrassment. CH: Failure brings low self-esteem. CB: Im afraid to fail again. UA: Its too stressful to fail. TH: I cant handle failure.
EB: I choose to accept me. SE: I choose to accept my mistakes. UE: I choose to accept who I am. UN: I choose to try new things. CH: I choose to expand beyond my comfort zone. CB: I choose to trust myself and the Universe. UA: I choose to appreciate myself. TH: I choose to accept life I choose to be me I choose to be free. After these rounds, hopefully you would be able to experience at least some relief from the original intensity. For possible greater results you might like to consider working on specific events as I mentioned earlier and for deeper issues consider working with an EFT professional.
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I was invited to an Open Day Public Event by The Horse Whisperer Adam Shereston to demonstrate using EFT with horses. No pressure there then as I had been bitten badly a long time ago by an Arabian stallion and dragged several foot into the air and a torn blouse. So I was afraid of horses! I invited two Practitioners living close by and asked if they wanted to demonstrate with me. Unbeknown to me they were both somewhat nervous as they had a fear of horses too. This must have been synchronicity to have three of us with the same fear and delivering EFT to the public. So I suggested we all Skype together and we did mentoring and tapping around Fear of Horses. Jennifer Rahman had fallen from a horse which had badly shaken her in the past and Drew Ryder just thought they were such big creatures! After that session, we appeared to have lost our fear. Such is the amazing power of EFT but of course the Open Day with the horses would be the final test - oh! and not to mention public speaking which was the least of my worries.
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Practitioners Jennifer Rahman and Drew Ryder with Moonlight. The owner said Moonlight was e tapping and whilst somewhat curious she started showing signs of relaxing very quickly that her r observed. Here they are using surrogate and proxy tapping with Moonlight.
For more information on Marie and using EFT with animals - hints & tips as well as tapping scripts, visit
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I would love to share this story about tapping on a wolf. Dont worry it is a pet wolf dog!
Previously I have used tapping with my own dog Lucy, physically tapping on her and she responds really well and indeed loves tapping. My other dog doesnt like it, so I have to use surrogate tapping or The Energy Exchange Photo Technique* I developed.
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Our pets often take on our issues... our negative emotions and illnesses
My story goes as follows with a beautiful wolf pet named Shawnee. Her unusual name is derived from the Shoshone tribe in America. I was invited around to our new neighbours who had moved in next to us with their dog and cats. It was a lovely afternoon and we sat having cocktails and getting to know each other when I saw this most stunning creature in the doorway. This was Shawnee, their pet wolfdog. She was simply breathtaking and I couldnt take my eyes off her. The owner told me Shawnee was very ill and didnt think she was long for this world. She had a terrible limp & could hardly walk as she was trailing her back leg and had many epileptic fits. To add to this, two of her feline companions had recently passed away & she was missing them dreadfully. She laid down, head in paws and looked very sorry for herself generally. I couldnt stop looking at this beautiful animal. The owner was very interested in EFT and had never heard of it or used it. She asked if I would try some on Shawnee. I advised that not all dogs liked tapping physically and it may be surrogate but the owner insisted she would be OK to try out physical tapping. I must admit to some degree of trepidation when I laid flat on the floor beside her; eyeball to eyeball. The absolute sheer size of her was daunting yet her beautiful eyes were magnetic, especially at such a close distance. I asked permission of Shawnee if she minded if I tapped on her and was sorry she felt so ill but the tapping might just help her. I felt it was OK & the owner said it was OK to go ahead. I then proceeded to tap on the points, around the eyes, chest and under arm, similar to ourselves with the following phrases as if I was Shawnee: I am so low, I feel pretty bad I cant walk properly But Im a good dog & my owners love me I wish I could walk properly Or just a bit better I keep trailing my back leg & hobbling along I keep limping But Im a good girl, such a good girl I miss my friends so much (the two cats) Now they have gone forever & I wont see them again Im a good girl At this stage, I stopped tapping as I thought she may have had enough because I had a sense that she was very weak and tired. The owner walked me round their garden, looking at the plants & chatting. I have to be honest I was still drawn to Shawnee & noticed she staggered up from the ground and started following us around. I thought her walking looked a lot better but didnt comment as I had only just met everyone including Shawnee.
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Then the owners husband commented about Shawnees walking looking much better. She has definitely improved but not knowing her, I didnt know what her normal day was like. I was then invited to sit with the owner in her courtyard area and Shawnee came to sit near us & laid down. The owner asked me to try some more tapping and I said I would use surrogate. I asked the owner if she wanted to follow me tapping and she said she would. I tapped on myself and used similar phrases to before including her two cat companions. They both died after moving home and this is when Shawnees leg problem started. I continued tapping and something came up from Shawnee and she was very worried about her owner but I didnt vocalise it to the owner just yet. I didnt want to freak this lady out whom I had only just met! Intuitively it felt like the right thing to do at this stage. The owner tried some tapping with Shawnee. Shawnee, even though you are so ill and missing your friends, you are a good girl and I love you very much. I love you Shawnee & dont want you to go but it may be your time? The owner asked very quietly... Shawnee is it your time to pass? There was a very long pause, I didnt say anything & the owner was visibly shaken.
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* Dogs have a lot more to teach us than we have to teach them - Peter Singh, Spain * Efficacy of EFT for Horses with Behavioural & Physical issues - Diane & Alain Von Der Weid, Switzerland * YOU are vital to your pets healing - Ferris Jay, Ireland * Bach Flower Remedies and Animals Emotional Wellbeing - Fleur Conway, Spain * EFT & Horses - Healing together - Domizia Parri, Italy * Animal Energy Techniques incorporating EFT for wildlife - Marie Holliday, Spain * Archetypal Surrogate Tapping to empower Abused Animals using EFT - Jo Peace, UK * Healing from the Heart Space - Love can change your DNA - Emma Bailey, UK For more information, visit
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Some months later following Shawnees huge improvement, I learned that she had deteriorated having 18 epileptic fits in two days. The owner asked me to help in any way even though I wasnt near them. I decided to use my Energy Exchange Photo Technique that I developed many years ago. I pulled up her photo on the computer screen and tapped on the points on the screen. Lucy my own dog of 9 years who loves tapping, was with me. Why not try surrogate tapping with her for Shawnee?! I took the lap top over with the photo of Shawnee, to where Lucy was sitting and asked if she would be willing to help tap and imagine she was Shawnee. I asked questions of Lucy as Shawnee for about 15 minutes and also tapped on Lucy and on myself and on Shawnees photo. We tapped similarly around her health and other issues and some interesting things came up. I asked via Lucy: How can we help you Shawnee? I heard Lucy reply as Shawnee Water Marie: Do you need water, do you want to swim? Lucy as Shawnee: Water Marie: I am not sure how to help with the water Shawnee but I will talk to your owners, is there anything else? Lucy Yes when I was 3 months old I was traumatised Marie: You were 3 months old, when you had a trauma? We had to stop as Lucy started barking at something outside! I then followed up with an email to the owners a couple of days later & told them about the exchange and I asked if Shawnee liked swimming. The owners said not really but she loved sitting in water. Two days ago she sat in the newly filled swimming pool. Something she loved to do. This was the exact same timing as Lucy told me water.
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My sessions were very impromptu and I went with the flow. This was the first time I had used another animal by proxy but why not? If the animal is willing, we do it with people. The whole article raises many issues about consent, surrogate tapping etc which leads to more discussion and debate. I have been asked how can you ask an animal for consent and how do you know they have answered? Follow your intuition which will develop the more you work with animals (and people). Whatever you hear is the answer. Additionally you can tell by an animals body language or if they move away from you that they have had enough or indeed too much energy if the animals system is depleted. You can find The Energy Exchange Photo Technique at www.eftspain.com/Owntechniques.html Or request a brochure from me on the techniques. Additionally there is a Podcast with full details you can listen to.
www.animalenergyworld.com
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In Conclusion
So, my conclusion is that if you want to use EFT to help an animal or pet I would suggest that you find at least one other person to tap with you. The one of you that knows the pet can then tune into the feeling of the pet, or simply speak of what you know happened or imagine what could have happened. If in doubt, guess. The other then acts as EFT therapist, asking questions and leading/guiding through the EFT process. Having one of you manage the process frees the other of you to manage the content and to be open to what comes to you without having to think about the words. If you can find other people to tap with you, then thats even better, though there is no proof, my gut feel is that these three cases were turbo charged by the action of the group. Once you sense the work is done the person speaking as the animal needs to de-role themselves by repeating and tapping with I am me and saying their own name. More information on using EFT with animals here:
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AAMET What would you say is the one characteristic that defines you best?
Dr. Carol Look I have a unique capacity to hold a huge energetic space so that other
people feel safe enough to do the work they need to do to release their emotional pain. I really use my heart and intuition in my work, and people feel it.
AAMET Looking back, as a founding EFT Master, and a true pioneer and leader in the EFT community,
what was it that started you onto the Tapping path which would eventually lead to where you are today? Dr. Carol Look Right at the beginning of my training, I kept getting exceptional results
on myself and my clients. My skepticism couldnt hold up under such obvious successes all around me with tapping.
AAMET Being recognized and respected around the globe as a premier success and abundance coach,
inspiring people to attract abundance into their lives by using EFT and the Law of Attraction, how did you come to take the huge step of making the decision to focus your work primarily on abundance and prosperity consciousness? What was the inspiration behind it? Dr. Carol Look I wanted to be able to heal my own conflicts around success and abun-
dance, and I did by combining EFT with Law of Attraction, so it was a perfect fit to teach it to others. And of course when you teach about success, you bump into everyones fears of success and failure, limiting beliefs and overall sabotage behavior, so its both fun and gratifying to help them succeed.
AAMET You are a great inspiration to us all and such a success story as a highly sought after interna-
tional speaker and workshop leader having authored the popular books; Attracting Abundance with EFT, Improve Your Eyesight with EFT, and the #1 bestselling Amazon Kindle book Stop Feeling Lazy: How to Break the Procrastination Cycle Once and For All as well as featuring in two leading EFT DVD documentaries, yet youve recently managed to launch your Abundance Coaching Program. How do you manage to operate at such a dedicated level? What is your secret? Dr. Carol Look I think with everyone, INSPIRATION is the secret. My passion for this
coaching program has been amazing and thats what keeps me going. I trained 7 top coaches in my style and methods, and they conduct the individual coaching sessions with the students, while I provide the Group Coaching Calls, the training products and the mastermind events.
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AAMET How does the Abundance Coaching Program work in helping me obtain an abundance mind-
Dr. Carol Look The Abundance Coaching program has 2 tracks if you take Level 1 only,
it is designed to release and heal all of your abundance blocks so you can attract what you want in your life. You get intensive individual as well as group coaching work. If you choose to become a Certified Abundance Coach, not only do you work on and heal your own blocks, you learn how to turn around and help others do the same through your coaching practice. The details and application process are here:
http://www.attractingabundance.com/coachingprogram AAMET What would you say about AAMET International (which is the largest worldwide professional
EFT Association), as an organization and what made you choose to be affiliated with AAMET?
Dr. Carol Look I have always loved AAMET trainers, and Ive been happily supportive of
and affiliated with them for years. They have very high training standards, and a lot of heart too, so were a good fit. I have been honored to be affiliated with them for so long.
AAMET What advice would you give to AAMET Life magazine readers who have aspirations of eventu-
Dr. Carol Look Dont get swept up in all the marketing and hype. Think about who
you want to serve, not how much money you want to make. Follow what you feel passionate about and what you love to do with your training, dont just do whats popular. Continue to work on yourself as well as your craft. Too many practitioners have stopped working on themselves and have become burned out and focused on their business too much. YOU are your best marketing tool, make sure youre sharp and clear.
AAMET What is your vision for the future of Tapping and how does your work fit in with that?
Dr. Carol Look My vision for the future of Tapping is clear and optimistic the tipping
point has finally happened - the results continue to be amazing, so the tool is around to stay. My work will be to continue to offer high quality training for others to heal themselves so they can help others on their journeys to success and deep joy in their lives.
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Dr. Carol Look, LCSW, EFT Master http://www.attractingabundance.com/
Imagine how much abundance would flow into your life if you
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I am sure you do not need me to tell you that we live in an ever changing world. Nor do I need to say that as health professionals we must keep up with the changes or we will be left behind.
One change we must realise is that the public recognise good practice as they become more aware of new and of course older models of therapy in this world of mass instant communication. My honest feeling is that the single modality professional is being left behind. The counsellor, the hypnotherapist and yes the EFT practitioner too with just one model of work, are being left behind by professionals who use multiple models of therapy to treat their clients. I know this is already happening and as the Chairman of the NCP I encourage every member to expand their disciplines and keep growing as people and in the ability to treat their clients. I encourage continuous growth for members of the NCP, true life-long learning. We have an ever expanding group of accredited training and CPD providers who are at educational standards and provide members and others with an enormous choice of growth opportunities. Yes of course read a book but you must be qualified to work with the public or we become snake oil salesmen. What frightens me is the single modality professional. As Maslow (1966) suggests, if you only have a hammer in your toolbox you are likely to treat every problem as a nail. In plain English, with one modality there is a risk that we fit the client into what we can do for them. Now I can hear the shouts of outrage! Of course the professional will refer on when they cannot help but that misses my argument entirely. Firstly a question, is single modality therapy always best practice? Secondly, with more than one model to work with you are likely not to have to refer on so often, which increases your income. The next two arguments against change are there is no time and no money. It would be a pity not to invest in yourself, your growth as an individual and make the time. Someone far wiser than I once said to me that you probably waste an hour a day, so stop wasting it and do something! You may think this short piece controversial, it is not intended to be so. It is written deliberately to ask you to think where you are as a practitioner facing the public in the form of your client. My question is that if you could expand your knowledge, help more people than you are at the moment and also potentially increase your income, would you do it? Ray has an honours degree in psychology and had a long career lecturing in psychology and mental health. He has qualifications in Psychotherapy, Hypnotherapy, Counselling, CBT and Teaching. As well as a client case load, Ray runs Coaching & Psychotherapy Training Ltd and is Chairman and a Fellow of the National Council of Psychotherapists.
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WOW!!! What an amazing weekend at the AAMET International EFT and Energy Psychology Conference 2013 held at the Hallmark Hotel, Cheshire in the UK, on 26th/27th October.
Delegates came from around the world to attend this conference travelling from countries such as Holland, Italy, Mexico, Netherlands, Switzerland, the USA, Denmark, Malta, Malaysia, Ireland, Spain and Australia! The conference was opened by AAMET Internationals chairperson Helena Fone who introduced members of the Executive Board and supporting teams. The first speaker of the conference was the lovely Jacqui Crooks EFT Founding Master, to present at the conference. Jacquis presentation entitled Back to your Blueprint which takes us to the essence of Who We Are. As therapists we are then in a better position to allow and enable clients to take responsibility for their negative truth, accepting and acknowledging it as their reality, to create empowerment taking them from victim to empowered being. Next to present was Dr Rupert Sheldrake speaking about his book The Science of Delusion.
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As a practicing psychotherapist I learnt so much at this conference.The atmosphere of openness and acceptance made it easy to be open to new ideas myself! Dr Ashley P Crosthwaite
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The first presentation after lunch was a very fast paced and extremely enthusiastic presentation by the renowned holistic physician Dr Bradley Nelson.
Dr Boaths passion for research and evaluation showed the importance of data to support, improve and advance the rising popularity of energy field work as a whole. She stressed that such empirical evidence can only add credence to the work that energy therapists and practitioners do. The AAMET Research Team is seeking funding to undertake clinical trials and hopefully have EFT accepted as an Evidence Based therapy. Dr Boath shared many different ways of collating such evidence with the Clinical measurement tools available. These will soon be available to download from the AAMET website. Next was Dr Phil Mollon talking on Healing the Reversed Personality - making our work fast and deep. Dr Mollons interest in the field of Energy Psychology is well documented along with the development of his Psychoanalytic Energy Psychotherapy (PEP). In his presentation he clearly showed that by using energy psychology it is possible to heal reversed personalities not only quickly but deeply as well. He further demonstrated that there is indeed a great and growing need for faster, deeper and sustained healing that can be provided within the ever growing field of energy psychology. Day one of the conference ended with members of the Training Board and Accreditation Panel answering some questions from attendees.
Could this really be the future of energy medicine, or medicine as a whole? Fast on the heels of Dr Nelson came Associate Professor Dr Liz Boath whose presentation entitled Rev up your Business with Research and Evaluation Skills created a buzz all of its own.
HAPPY PRIZEWINNERS
Saturday evening was time for the gala dinner and a huge raffle with over 70 prizes which raised over 500 pounds to support the work of AAMET International. As soon as the raffle was over people were up dancing the night away with tremendous energy needing to release it before going off to the land of slumber in preparation for day two!!
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After a great lunchtime of yet more rising positive energy from delegates, Dr Thornton Street the UKs leading authority on complementary medicine took to the stage with his Research Mapping the Anatomy and Physiology of the Human Biofield.
It is fair to say that the 2nd AAMET International EFT and Energy Psychology Conference will certainly go down in the history books as an awesome event!
To say it was a resounding success would be an understatement.and many wondered how it could be better. The feedback from the forms, videos and messages on Facebook reflect the sense of feeling from the delegates and speakers. Guest and Keynote speakers were very approachable and engaged in photo shoots and discussions during coffee breaks and lunch. The hotel staff was friendly and helpful and the lunch and dinner was appreciated by all.
Sabrina Scaccetti our compre, did a fantastic job throughout the event introducing the speakers and ensuring they all kept to time. However, the real thanks has to be given to those who attended to make this Conference a success. So thank you and we will see you next year wherever we may be. Before finishing off, you may like to know that CPD Certificates will be emailed out to all delegates. An audio recording of the Conference will be made available on the AAMET website and photographs will be uploaded too. The Smile poem that was requested will also be sent out.
A great conference and an opportunity to meet new friends and to make new ones! A fantastic opportunity to meet up with other AAMET members. We just love how effective community building is with EFT, and regularly use it within our community practice. Stephen Fields and Kay Phillips from Illinois, USA
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Promotion
A friend comes to you for treatment or therapy and accidentally trips up on your rug or step and loses her two front teeth. Shes a friend and says its OK and you believe her until some weeks later you receive a bill from her lawyer for her dental work plus loss of earnings of Euros 5,000. Public Liability Insurance would cover you in the event of a personal injury claim during the course of normal business. If members of the public visit your home or business, you should seriously consider taking out this insurance cover for your own protection. [If you share a managed building, the landlord should cover the insurance for the common parts and toilets only so you should still insure your own workspace. What if a client makes an allegation against you that you inappropriately touched her during a treatment or that you violated your codes of conduct? Could you afford to defend yourself? If you have Professional Indemnity/Malpractice insurance you would be protected against allegations of negligence and also provided with cover for the legal costs involved in defending you, regardless of the validity of the claim.
Appropriate insurance is usually a mandatory requirement from most professional associations/organisations anyway. Never believe it wont ever happen to you. Litigation cases are big business these days and all it takes is for one successful claim to be made before the floodgates open. Most insurance companies will offer a blanket cover that includes above plus equipment etc. Remember to check all the therapies you are using are included and what restrictions there may be. Discounted Insurance: If youre a member of AAMET International (www.aamet.org) you can benefit from the discounted policy cover with Balens Insurance Co (http://www.balens. co.uk) who have been running the family business for over 60 years. If you reside in Malta, Cyprus, Greece, Spain, Republic of Ireland, UK or the Netherlands then please email them on europe@balens.co.uk. Balens are also working on pan-European schemes for all professionals. In order to qualify for the insurance discount, you will need to be a student or practicing in EFT with AAMET.
Even if you are not an EFT Practitioner, Balens will be able to provide a competetive quote for you if you email:
europe@balens.co.uk
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