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NOVEMBER 2013

J-Lo
confesses

POSITIONS
FOR GIRLS

THE
NEW
FEMINISM
Would you
go topless
to get a
pay rise?

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COAT
...AND JACKET

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Can mates
ever be
lovers too?

56

J-Woah!

196

35

Fiery
autumn
scents

Instagram
these

On the cover
23 Dial F For Fashion
Marshmallow pink,
rock-star studs,
Hitchcock
glamour
Entrepreneur,
meet your new
entertainer, mum
A/W trends
Ms Lopez shows us
how its done
64 The New
Feminism Cosmo
reports on the topless sextremists
ghting for womens rights
76 The Truth About Men
And Cheating What makes a
cheater strike? Three men reveal all
142 Get Your Coat And Jacket
Shrug on one of these chic cover-ups
178 Hollywood Skincare The
future of awless skin? Its scalpel-free
204 Best Sex Positions For Girls
Youll never leave the bedroom
223 4 Steps To A Waist Like This
Sculpt yourself a J-Lo bod

56

J-Lo

U
ALL YDOIS
NEE MO!
COS

LIVE BIG & GO FOR IT


23 If You Only Buy One Thing This
Month Make it a candy-pink jumper
25 Catwalk To Cosmo Camouage
30 Men Vs Fashion What they really
think about celeb style
35 Fashion Forever Or Fashion
Fling? The choice is yours
38 Lust Haves A see-through
bag. Clearly
43 The Couple Who Changed Sex
Forever Meet this seasons hottest TV
show. No need to put the heating on
44 The Becks EYect Hes not called
Golden Balls for nothin
46 Pay Day Ends Heres how you can
ght for equal pay
48 Write The Right To-Do List Pretty
stationery helps, obviously
51 The Periodic Table Of Love The
science behind your swooning
53 Confessions Halloween horrors

LOVE, SEX & SUCCESS


73 The Rise Of The Friendship Fling
Is she more than a one-night stand?

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New-season
sparkle

89 I Dated My Teen Crush


10 Years Later Can a second chance
at love really work?
90 One Girl, One Guy, One Bed, One
Week Two single friends sharing a
duvet. What could possibly go wrong?
97 Be A Best-Selling Author Come to
our masterclass to nd out what it takes
to be the next Lisa Jewell
98 The Smart Girls Money Guide
Cosmos Sophie aims to save 100 a
month (hello, H&M shopping spree)
100 De-Zombify Your 9 To 5
Go from slumped to pumped with
these energy boosters
103 So You Think You Want My Job?
Want to bake for a living? Heres how
you can rake in the dough
105 Paint Your Workplace With A
Rainbow Understand your work
personality and shine
108 He Says She Says This romantic
proposal was seen all over the world
113 Meet The Editors Get insider
secrets from the UKs top editors at our
exclusive media masterclass
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211

Double Os?
Yes! Double
standards?
Pah!

227

You need an
owl lamp.
Seriously

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Camo ats,
we salute
you

142

195

Candyoss
cover-ups

Kick-ass
red lips

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Rapunzel
ponies

INSTAGLAM
115 Instaglam Opener
116 Country Cool Chunky knits,
bubblegum-pink coats and boots made
for crunching in autumn leaves
124 In Excess More is more. Especially
when there are sequins involved
132 Dial F For Fashion Channel
Hitchcock with femme-fatale shapes.
Plus: how to make it work 9-to-5
151 Catwalk To Curvy Cosmos Lauras
found some attering prints
155 How Do I Wear Boyfriend
Jeans? Team Cosmo shows you how
165 Finishing Touches Pointed ats
170 The Magical Book Of Ponytails
And your hair will live happily ever afer
187 Under Cheryls Skin Ms Cole
shares her beauty secrets

Inside

men
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mnds
75 3 Things You Didnt Know About
Liam Hemsworth And the fourth? How
hot he looks in a hoodie
81 Sex And The Single Guy Men
hate playing games. And were not
talking Candy Crush
83 20 Men Tell Us How Many Times
Theyve Been In Love Theyre smitten
86 Centrefold Fearnes BFF Kye Sones

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189 But What Does It


Smell Like? A mans nose
view of fragrance
193 How I Finally Got Great
Nails Cosmos Kate checked herself
into nail rehab
195 5 Of The Best Eye-Makeup
Removers As tested by the Cosmo
beauty lab
196 Hot Right Now The products
making the Cosmo beauty team giddy
201 Legs Like These Get pin-up pins

SEX ETC
203 Sex Etc Opener
209 Sex Therapy Rachel Morris sorts
your between-the-sheets problems
211 So What If I Cant Say No To Sex?
Sara Lieberman asks why a one-night
stand shouldnt lead to a relationship
212 Meet The Ultimate Cosmo Car
Check out the dream car you voted for
215 My Bodys Amazing Because
Pro bodybuilder Ren Campbell
216 The New Food Maths Less bad
stuT, more energy simple!
219 My Letter To Anorexia Niamh
Keoghans heartfelt open letter to
her eating disorder
221 Bye-Bye Body Hang-Ups Dr
Linda solves your body-image issues
225 Ask Irma No-nonsense advice
from Cosmos agony aunt
227 Design Doubles Animal magic
228 November stars

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FEATURES
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he naked female body is one of the most powerful


and symbolic images. It represents sex, nurturing,
vulnerability and condence. Its often exploited to
produce the most shocking and ofensive visuals,
while the choice to bare all is also used by women to
show their strength, liberation and independence.
Confusing? Just a bit. When I rst saw photos of Femen, the
radical feminist campaigners who carry out all their protests
topless wearing just jeans, body paint and hair garlands I
didnt know what to think. Preposterous eye candy for the
mostly male police sent to control them? Or free-thinking,
brave extremists reclaiming that which nature gave us? Quite
frankly, Im no closer to deciding as stories surface that they
might be the brainchild of a man something they dispute.
Read our special report on p64 and tell us what you think.

Follow Louise
on Twitter
@LouiseCosmoEd

Louise Court
Voodoo ritual
in Benin,
west Africa

Mum and
baby:
nurturing
The timeless
beauty of the
Venus de Milo

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FIVE THINGS
I DIDNT
KNOW UNTIL
THIS ISSUE
After Becks
grew his facial
hair, six times
as many men
requested
beard
implants. True
fact check
out p44.
Want to look
on trend this
Halloween? Go
and get yourself
a helmet or a
blankie! P51
explains all.
Putting a pic of
your mum/man/
moggie on your
desk makes you
more efficient at
work. Discover
why on p100.
Women
apparently spend
a whopping
11,000 trying to
find The One.
Wow (p203).
I need to
add chillies and
chia seeds to
my weekly
supermarket
shop. Learn
about other
wonder foods
on p216.

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Autumn = good telly.
Whats your guilty
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@janbagnall
This Welsh soap opera
Pobol Y Cwm about as
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@HausofBelle
Teen Mom. Oops!
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Glee. Most people
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Star

The article Sun, Sea And Sexual emal


Attacks in your October issue
was a real eye-opener. With sexual attacks
on British women abroad increasing, isolation,
language barriers and unsympathetic police
make prosecutions rare. My friend and I
worked in the United Arab Emirates and
during that time she was raped. She reported
it, but was dismissed by police and her attacker
got of scot-free. Women in the UK are much
more aware of their rights and more willing to
talk publicly about rape. Other countries need
to encourage awareness that rape is a crime,
and that it causes trauma. Name withheld

Size-zero debate

I disagree with Natashas view that websites


for petite girls celebrate extreme body sizes
in an unhealthy way (Should Size Zero Shops
Be Banned?, October). Eating disorders are
mental-health conditions that originate
from control issues a store isnt going to
make you develop one. Name withheld

THE DILEMMA
I said the wrong thing to
a potential employer...
I applied for a job recently and was

told the position had been lled, but


that they wanted to keep my le on
record. Then they called me yesterday to
give me an interview. I got nervous and
told them I wasnt looking anymore,
even though I am. Is it too late for me
to ring them and explain? Sausage_cat
You could ring

back and ask for


more information
about the job.
Admit that you
made a mistake
and see if they could
put you through
with the next lot
of applicants.
_Pandora_

your condence?
MoogleBear
Ring back and

try to get a second


chance. Its not
going to do any
harm and you wont
know unless you try.
LilSmiler
You have nothing

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You send us your latest


status update, then we
print the best. Its our
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Kate Lewis
You know youre a text
addict when you think
youve lost your phone
only to realise youre
speaking to your
mum on it
Georgina King
I received a compliment
from a man on the street
today. Pity he was triple
my age and drunk.

I think its a

bit late now, but


you can learn
from this. Perhaps
you should address

to lose. Maybe go in
person, explain
properly and then
hope for the best!
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Mindy
Kaling

OSMOND SAYS I nd
this look a bit boring its
not a style Im drawn to.
RICHARD SAYS Ive
seen Mindy look a lot better
than this. The colour isnt
very exciting or attering.
JONATHAN SAYS

We dont dress for men, but are


curious about their style turn-ons.
Cosmos Shelly Vella joins the debate

This dress is gorgeous less


is more its not too fussy
and it shows oV her curves.

COSMO FASHION
VERDICT Mindy looks

incredible: curvy, sexy, yet still


chic and classy. Its the perfect
choice of colour for her.

MEET
THE BOYS
Rose
Byrne
Cat
Deeley

OSMOND, 28, from


London, works in
marketing and is
in a relationship
I like it when women
dress casual but sexy.

RICHARD, 35, from


London, is a
recruitment manager
and is single
I like women who
know their own style.

OSMOND SAYS This


dress would look a bit boring
if it wasnt for the sheer bit
thats showing oV her waist.
RICHARD SAYS The

cut-out bits are too fussy;


without them itd be lovely.

JONATHAN SAYS

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FASHION
VERDICT

Chic, sexy,
understated.
Just perfect.
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RICHARD SAYS

The skirt is lovely but


Im not a fan of the top
at all; theres way too
much going on.

JONATHAN SAYS

This is a classy look. I love


the way it accentuates her
waist; its very attering.

JONATHAN, 22, from


Glasgow, is a barista
and is single
If a girl dresses with
condence, she can
wear anything.

This is a great look:


the top is sexy and the
bright colours are eyecatching. She looks quite
casual, which is great.

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This is horrible. The top


part looks like half of a
swimsuit and the skirt
does nothing for her.

COSMO FASHION
VERDICT I agree

with Richard: this is a


fussy dress that doesnt
atter Cat at all. Shes
gorgeous and normally
doesnt put a foot wrong.

REPORTING BY HARRIET STIGNER. PHOTOGRAPHS REX FEATURES

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Fashion
forever

OR

Will you splash your


cash on one designer
piece or spread the
love with a load
of style steals?
Decisions, decisions

fashion
fling?

Fashion
forever
A bright statement
bag this will
become a
WARDROBE
STAPLE
Bag, 3.1 Phillip Lim at
Harvey Nichols

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Fashion
forever

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OR

65

fashion
fling?
19

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Bag, Next

Shirt, Missguided

Dress, Dorothy Perkins

Shoes, Miss Selfridge

Fashion
f ling

Want more for


your buck?
Youre in luck

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50

19.

Shoes, Dune

Scarf, Marks & Spencer

Jeans, Wallis

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17.9

Skirt, Own The Runway

Headband, Accessorize

Top, Red Herring at


Debenhams

Coat, Asos

Necklace, Freedom
at Topshop

Bag, River Island

29.99

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25

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Earrings, Vivienne Westwood
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Cardigan, Monsoon

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Shoes, New Look

Skirt, Love Label at Very

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Total
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Bag, 4,235,
Chanel. Chanel
Rouge Allure
Lipstick, 25.
Chanel Le Vernis
Nail Colour, 18
PS

PLASTIC
FANTASTIC
The holy grail for any fashion lover. Clearly very cool
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BY SHELLY VELLA. STILL LIFE LEO ACKER

For more on-trend


perspex bags, try
Klear Klutch, &
Other Stories and
The Cambridge
Satchel Company

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IS THIS WHY
YOUR LOVE
LIFE STILL
SUCKS?

BY JACQUI MEDDINGS AND CAROLINE FERGUSSON. PHOTOGRAPH GETTY. YOU CAN BEAT YOUR BRAIN BY DAVID McRANEY (8.99, ONEWORLD)

Multiple
orgasms need
multiple les

The couple
who changed
sex forever
Solo sex and multiple orgasms
a new TV drama introduces us
to the scientists who let us enjoy
both before breakfast

ts the TV role that will earn Michael


Sheen a lot of points with women
everywhere: playing William Masters,
the man who helped discover the
female multiple orgasm, in new
Channel 4 drama Masters Of Sex. We
say helped because Masters wouldnt have got
anywhere without his research partner Virginia
Johnson, played by Lizzy Caplan (Janis Ian from
Mean Girls). Starting this month, the show follows
the two scientists groundbreaking work in the
50s to unlock the mysteries of female pleasure
while they navigate their own complicated
relationship. Pioneers when even the word
pregnant was censored on TV, they got people
talking about sex openly and debunked Freudian
myths too. So what do we have to thank them
for? Multiple things of course

By observing and recording


approximately 10,000 orgasms in their
lab, they demolished the idea that
women werent as sexually voracious
as men and proved that were capable
of multiple orgasms.

They were the rst experts to identify


diferent physiological responses to
sexual stimulation: excitement, plateau,
orgasm and resolution. Well take all
four, thank you very much.

By measuring a womans pleasure


during climax, they disproved the idea
that vaginal orgasms were superior to
clitoral, which had been dubbed the
bad kind by Sigmund Freud (WTF?).

They were champions of female


equality in science. Even though it was
Masters who had the qualications, he
gave Johnson equal billing in all their
scientic endeavours.

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A new book, You Can Beat


Your Brain, looks at how you
can overcome your quirks
and think more efectively.
Time to reboot your mind
QUIT WHILE YOURE BEHIND
Theres always that one man we
keep going back to. It all boils
down to the sunk-cost fallacy
we hate the idea of investing time
and efort in something that
ultimately proves fruitless, so we
return hoping to recover our initial
emotional investment.
Beat your brain: Itll hurt less in
the long run if you admit your
eforts were in vain and move on.
LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS
Its easy to get angry when a friend
says your new man may not be as
great as you think. This is because
were prone to the backre efect,
letting our love-skewed opinions
strengthen as theyre picked apart.
Beat your brain: Breathe... and
take their opinions on board.
CLOTHES MAKETH THE (WO)MAN
Hours spent choosing a date-night
or interview outt could be worth
it. A study in which half a group of
volunteers dressed like scientists
to perform a task found that those
who did so made fewer mistakes.
Beat your brain: Dress smarter,
hotter or cooler than you perceive
yourself and youll automatically
rise to the challenge.
STOP BELIEVING IN LUCK
its pointless. But our brains nd it
hard to accept that a coincidental
sequence of random events could
mean just nothing.
Beat your brain: Remember the
times you got lucky without your
lucky charm because the truth
is, it only acts as a placebo.

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Ever since Becks admitted


to using moisturiser, this is
the value of the beauty
products men pinch
from their partner
each year.

42%

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Burberrys sales increased by 13%


when Davids son Romeo fronted its
spring/summer campaign this year.

swell

The boost in sales of briefs at John


Lewis after he fronted the iconic
Armani underwear campaign.

There was a six-fold increase in


demand for beard implants
thanks to Davids handsome mug.

His new book, David Beckham, is


guaranteed to be a money spinner. So why does
everything Mr B touches turn to gold(en balls)?

e know exactly what we love about


Becks (eyes, body, every picture
involving Harper and a cuddle).
But his stamp of approval has also
generated billions of pounds worth of sales globally.
The key is his sense of individuality, explains
Massimo Stocchi of Harleystreetpsychology.com.
In many respects hes the epitome of success
of Beckham
because he works on every level of his personality.
football
He sees the opportunity in everything that
shirts and books
have been sold.
presents itself in front of him, and strives to be an
attractive individual not necessarily in the sense of
good looks, but in the presence he exudes. Hes the
The boost in
perfect role model because men want to be like him
sales of thermals
after he (maybe) and women want to be with him. So just how
powerful is his Midas touch?
jokingly said VB prefers them to boxers.

1
BILLION

140%
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TWEETERS
WHOLL
MAKE YOU
SMARTER

Yes, that cat in a


beret is very funny, but
you can use Twitter to
expand your mind too
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@Cmdr_Hadeld
Guitar-toting Canadian astronaut
Chris Hadeld, now back on earth,
still tweets awe-inspiring images
taken in orbit, as well as
fascinating facts about space.
@greg_jenner
Horrible Histories chief nerd is
the person to follow for fascinating

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historical factoids. Did you know


that in the 1800s, the Inspector
General of Military Hospitals James
Barry was a woman in disguise?
@hendopolis
The BBCs Neil Henderson shares
the most interesting newspaper
stories, and regularly contributes
to #tomorrowspaperstoday,

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1in10

men keeps up with Davids


legendary dos making his hair the
most inuential in the country.

providing a preview of the next


days front pages.
@Mashable
This provides links to an endless
stream of cool features for the
connected generation, from
how to add special efects to
Vine, to what to put on your
LinkedIn prole.

BY ROSIE MULLENDER. PHOTOGRAPHS REX FEATURES, WENN.COM,


PA PHOTOS, XPOSUREPHOTOS.COM, EROTEME.CO.UK

The Becks effect

Between
2009 and
2012, Becks
spawned
a surge in
tattoos
particularly
his iconic
angel wings.

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The Equal Pay Act
was passed in 1970

1. FIND A
FEMALE MENTOR

An inspiring female colleague or


role model is the perfect person
to give you the advice and
condence you need to ask for
that pay rise. Still feeling scared
about putting yourself out there?
Remember this: studies show that
companies with more women at
the top perform better on every
level than less diverse competitors.
So go for it!

2. DEMAND
ANSWERS

Employers can refuse to tell you


what your male colleagues earn on
the grounds of data protection so

instead ask for the average salary


of male colleagues at your level.
Contracts that say discussing your
salary is a no-no dont count legally
if they stop people from nding
out if theres an equal-pay problem
in their company.

3. SIGN UP!

Right now, the law states that


companies only have to reveal
whether theyre paying men
more than women in the same
jobs if theyre accused of gender
discrimination. If, like us, you
believe public pay audits should
be a government must-do, sign
the Fawcett Societys equal-pay
petition at Fawcettsociety.org.uk.

OMG!
Bridgets back

Or try these expert tips


Join a union. Some of
the biggest triumphs
in equal pay have been
brought about by collective
action. Go to Worksmart.
org.uk/unionnder. EMMA
SATYAMURTI, a solicitor at
Leigh Day, specialises in
equal-rights issues
Ask your employers
to sign up for the
Governments Think, Act,
Report initiative. It
encourages companies to
report on gender equalities

It is a truth
universally acknowledged
that when one part of your
life starts going OK,
another falls spectacularly
to pieces.
When someone
loves you, its like having
a blanket all round
your heart.

Turkey curry bufets, dodgy views on Chech-nyaaa, blue-string soup can you believe its 16
years since novelist Helen Fielding introduced us
to bonkers-but-brilliant Bridget Jones? This month,
our favourite mega-knickered heroine is back, but
exactly whats become of Bridget has been 2013s
Exes should never go
biggest literary secret. As Cosmo went to press,
out with other people, but
Fielding was rumoured to be bashing out
remain celibate to the end
the nal pages of Mad About The Boy (will
of days.
wanton sex goddess Bridget nd a very bad man
between her thighs?) Years on but still so true,
here we bring you our favourite Bridgetisms.
Bridge, its f**king great to have you back
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within their rm. So far, only


125 companies have signed
up make yours 126.
ANN FRANCKE, CEO
of the Chartered
Management Institute
Women dont always
shout about their
achievements like men do.
Asking for a pay review?
Find out what criteria are
used to evaluate pay and
show how youre exceeding
the requirements. CERI
GODDARD, chief executive
of the Fawcett Society

I will not fall


for any of the following:
alcoholics, workaholics,
commitment phobics, people with
girlfriends or wives, misogynists,
megalomaniacs, chauvinists,
emotional fuckwits or
freeloaders, perverts.

BY HARRIET STIGNER AND FIONA COWOOD. PHOTOGRAPHS REX FEATURES, ISTOCKPHOTO

Thanks to the
gender pay gap,
7 November
marks the day
women efectively
start working
for nothing until
the new year.
Angry? Heres
what to do

If you are
single the last thing you
want is your best friend
forming a functional
relationship with
somebody else.
Can ofcially
conrm that the way
to a mans heart these
days is not through beauty,
food, sex, or alluringness of
character, but merely the
ability to seem not
very interested
in him.

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Rachel Bilson in
The To Do List.
That skirts so
out, its back in!

Write the
right
to-do
list

Because its about


more than buying
milk and picking up
your dry cleaning

he To Do List
is our guiltypleasure movie
this month. Set
in 1993 (how
retro), it follows
the cringy quest of an 18-yearold girl (Parks And Recreations
brilliant Aubrey Plaza) to lose
her virginity, with the help of big
sister Amber (Rachel Bilson).
Although we cant say that an
awkward back-seat fumble in
the cinema ever featured highly
on our personal must-dos,
the lm does hammer home
the power of a good plan. So
how do you write a list you
can stick to? Development
consultant Charlotte AustinTalbot explains

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WHERE Ask yourself what areas of


your life actually
need a to-do list. Draw a wheel with
the following areas:
nance, career, romantic relationsh
ips, friendships,
family, tness and living arrangements.
Rate your
satisfaction in each area from 1-10
and place your focus
on the one or two that rate lowest.
WHY Write a long-term goal for each
area and an
explanation as to why you have this
particular to-do.
Once you understand why youre
doing something,
youre more likely to commit to it,
says Charlotte.
HOW In order for the goals to be achie
vable and not
overwhelming, they have to be smal
l and measurable.
Thats not to say you shouldnt aim
big, but break things
into smaller, digestible chunks. Start
with one aim and
break it into six-month, one-month
and then weekly
stages. Visualisation is a powerful
tool as well, says
Charlotte. Maybe make a mood boar
d on Pinterest,
picturing what you hope to achieve
as your end goal.
To make that goal even more conc
rete, tell friends
and family youll be less likely to
go back on it.
WHEN Decide on a specic date by
which
you would like to complete something
, because
it will keep you motivated and make
you more
likely to achieve it.
TICK THINGS OFF When you comp
lete
something, mark the fact, says Char
lotte. I have
clients who put pebbles in jars every
time they
achieve a small goal, and it serves as
a powerful
visual reminder. Or go old-school
use it as an excuse to
invest in some beautiful stationery and
get ticking.

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APP-ILY
IN LOVE

Coupled-up but
feeling a twang of
FOMO as your
single mates are
all on dating app
of the moment
Tinder? Here are
some hot and
free apps for
you and him

KINDU

The ultimate app


for sexual fantasies,
Kindu has more
than 600 turn-ons,
role-plays and sexy
activities. You both
privately answer
yes, no or
maybe about
what youd like to
try in the bedroom,
and it reveals
which ones you
have in common.

AVOCADO

Imagine a private
social network just
for you and him.
Here you can send
messages, photos
and doodles, share
calendars and lists,
and ping virtual
hugs and kisses.
Plus its all archived
so you have a
digital scrapbook
of your relationship
to look back on.

KAHNOODLE
COUPLE

Full of fun romance


tips, we love the
customisable
koupons: IOUs
you can give to
your partner for
anything from
washing the dishes
to a romantic
weekend away.

BY BECKY FLETCHER AND CHRISTABEL HASTINGS. PHOTOGRAPHS CAPITAL PICTURES, GETTY. FOR INFO ON CHARLOTTE AUSTIN-TALBOT, VISIT CHARLOTTEAUSTIN.CO.UK

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The
Sl periodic
table
Lu of love Lo
KEY

0-1 month

sleepless

Pheromones in sweat attract


us to people whose hormone
balance complements our own.

18
months +

EXPERTS
Dr Helen Fisher, biological
anthropologist
Dr Larry Young, co-author of
The Chemistry Between Us

Restless nights are caused by a


rush of dopamine, which
suppresses our need for sleep.

lust

1-18
months

longing

From butteries to love at rst sight,


scientists can earmark a chemical
behind every part of being in love

A molecule called CTP causes a


rise in stress hormones when
long-term lovers are separated.

Li Ob Cu Se

libido

We feel more sexually


attracted when our oestrogen
levels are high and were fertile.

obsession
Serotonin activity in the brain
drops, which makes us feel
anxious and infatuated.

Lk Bu
looks

BY HARRIET STIGNER. PHOTOGRAPHS REX FEATURES

Love at rst sight exists, and


causes the same brain activity
as love that builds up over time.

butteries
Sweaty palms and butteries
are caused by a protein called
nerve growth factor.

WHATS HOT THIS HALLOWEEN?


Yes, there are even trends in spooky attire. Shelby
Walsh from Trend Hunter predicts the big hits for 2013...

Christina
Milian

Beyonc

Michelle
Trachtenberg

security

Oxytocin, released during sex


and cuddles, makes you focus
on your partners features.

Serotonin is still active, causing


feelings of deep attachment,
calm and security.

Si

Fi

sickness

Surges of adrenalin are behind


extreme excitement and a loss
of appetite.

DAFT PUNK
Random Access
Memories was one of
the most buzzed-about
albums of the year, and
fans will be donning
their own Daft Punk
replica helmets.
CARRIE
The remake of the
popular horror ick is
out on 18 October,
giving us all a reason to

Heidi
Klum
AnnaLynne
McCord

cuddles

dress up as a bloodsoaked prom queen.


DESPICABLE ME
The popular kids
movie and its sequel
have spawned a love of
minions, so be prepared
for adults prancing
around as goggle-eyed
yellow monsters.
ZOMBIES
The Walking Dead
returns this October,

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delity

Scientists have connected


vasopressin, a hormone
produced during sex, to delity.

meaning zombie
style will be
everywhere.
Kim
Expect bloody
Kardashian
living characters
from the show too.
PRINCE GEORGE
Its all about the
royal baby! Step one:
nd an adult onesie
(scarily easy these
days). Step two: grab a
dummy and a blankie.

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Confessions
Your juiciest secrets this month

Hallow-eeeek!
Paranormal
activity or
an overactive
imagination?

Housemate from hell


Last Halloween, I decided to have a
movie night by myself and watch a
horror lm big mistake! Just as it got
to a gory bit, I heard someone unlock
the back door and walk slowly up the
stairs, pausing outside my room. I knew
my housemate wasnt due home for
hours, so I panicked, shouting,Im not
afraid of you, Ill call 999 and scream the
house down! At which point my
housemate walked in laughing her head
of. Shed forgotten something and
thought itd be hilarious to wind me up.
Grace*, 30, legal executive, London

The parent trap


I was staying with my boyfriend at his
parents house, and we had separate
rooms as theyre quite strict. I got up in
the night to go to the loo, and when I got
back into bed I felt something moving
around. Completely freaked out, I ran for
my boyfriends room and jumped into
his bed. Suddenly his parents switched
on the light, disapprovingly, and I learnt
that the presence Id felt was their cat,
who liked sleeping in that room.
Eleanor, 24, receptionist, Birmingham

Fright night
A few of my friends and I went
glamping for the weekend at a

Julie had just seen


that the bag shed
blown her paycheck
on was now 75% of

gorgeous but secluded campsite. I


stupidly suggested telling ghost stories
over wine. We all sat around and took
turns regaling each other with spooky
tales. As we were getting to the scariest
bit of one story, we heard rustling and
a bang nearby. We obviously all
jumped, and in doing so knocked the
tent poles out of the ground. We were
too scared to go outside and x it, so
we ended up sleeping in a collapsed
tent for the whole night!
Hope, 26, journalist, London

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Mystery guest
My parents live in a converted Victorian
mental asylum and weird things have
been known to happen there. Not long
ago, I was staying with them and had
invited some of my friends over for a
lm night in their basement cinema
room. We were about half an hour
into our movie when all of a sudden
we noticed a shadow of two feet
underneath the door into the hall even
though we were the only people in the
house. We wouldnt leave the room

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until my dad got home to check that
there was nobody there. So creepy!

Tom wasnt
great at
sending out
positive
signals

Sophie, 26, event coordinator, Ipswich

Knocked up
On holiday, in the middle of the night
my friend and I heard banging on the
balcony door. As it was locked, we
ignored it. Then the banging on our
room door started. We got so scared we
locked ourselves in our bathroom.
Eventually we heard someone come
into the room, saying, Ladies, its the
hotel manager. A lad from the room
next door jumped on to your balcony
and now hes locked out there. We
emerged red-faced to see all his friends
who had been knocking for an hour
trying to get our attention.

Let the right one in


My boyfriend and I had moved to a
gorgeous house in the countryside. It
was really old and could be a little scary
at night when I was by myself. One
evening I was sitting in the living room
with just our little dog for company,
when the doorbell started ringing as if
someones nger was continuously
pushing it. I opened the door but
nobody was there so I dismissed it as
faulty electrics. However, I reached my
limit when I saw the kitchen tap turn
on by itself. I rang my other half and
told him to get home ASAP! Typically,
nothing has happened since
Sara*, 25, wedding planner, Hereford

Horny devil
My friend had a Halloween party and
used it as an excuse to introduce her new
boyfriend to everyone. I didnt have
time to sort out an original costume so
I bought some devil horns and wore a
red dress. I was in the kitchen getting a
drink when I suddenly felt someone
squeeze my bum. As I turned around, a
guy looked horried and said,Youre
not Emily*! It turned out my friend
was wearing the same as me, and with
our similar builds and hair colour, plus
the fact that he was tipsy, her boyfriend
thought I was her. That was one creepy
introduction we dont want to repeat!
Becca*, 27, nurse, Manchester

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GUYSSS
CONFE

Online-date disasters
Sometimes the internet makes things a
whole lot more interesting

Computer says no

Looking up

Id arranged a date with a girl whose


prole gave little away but she was
very attractive. Then on the date she
got her phone out and was glued to
it. She asked me my full name and
then showed me the screen: shed
downloaded a compatibility app and
announced that we were only a 20%
match, so thisd be our last date!

I found a girl on a dating website


who seemed a great match. She
listed her height as average, which is
good as Im on the small side. But
when I turned up she was 7ins taller
than me! This wasnt an issue until
the end of the date when she leant
in for a kiss and, afer some awkward
standing on tiptoes, I had to move to
a step higher than her. We didnt
date again, but were still mates.

Ed*, 28, market analyst, London

Mixed messages
I was at a pub with a girl Id met on a
dating website. All was ne until my
phone buzzed and I quickly checked
it. She demanded I tell her whod
called and I said,Just my mum, (it
was). She then asked me to prove it. I
showed her my phone but she started
reading my texts then threw it on
the oor! The next day she messaged
me saying,You seem like a nice guy, do
you want to go for another drink?
Surprisingly, I declined.
Chris*, 27, security consultant,
Worcester

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David*, 31, charity worker, Cardif

Love is in the hair


I met up with a woman from a
dating website, and she remarked
that my hairs much longer than on
my prole pic. When we sat down in
the bar, the waiter approached from
behind me and said,Now then,
lovely ladies, what can I get you? I
dont know who was more mortied
when I turned around and he saw
my beard. But it made her laugh,
luckily, and there was a second date.
Scott, 29, insurance clerk, London

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Sophia, 28, marketing executive, Liverpool

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ALLACCESS
From the outside, J - L O s life seems
impossibly glamorous and busy.
Cosmo goes on the inside to nd out
how she makes it possible

WORDS JANCEE DUNN


PHOTOGRAPHS GOMILLION AND LEUPOLD

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Jennifer has
become one
of the most
powerful women
in entertainment

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large crowd is packed into an airy Manhattan lof, waiting for


Jennifer Lopez. They are tense, excited, dgety. Beefy security guards
talk into discreet mics. TV crews in dad jeans mill around. Jennifer,
currently stuck in trafc, is due to preview her autumn clothing line
for [US store] Kohls. Everything on the silver rack glitters: draped
shirts with sparkly sequins, handbags with major hardware; even
the bedspreads from her home line have a cool, metallic shimmer.

Suddenly the group surges forward.


Jennifer! Shes wearing an inky, slinky
black halter jumpsuit (Kohls, of course),
black platform stilettos and bright-pink
lipstick. A bystander compliments her
outt. I love a onesie, she says.From
childhood on, I never let it go! She is
friendly and funny but also utterly serene
despite the chaos swirling around her.
She does a few quick TV interviews
and then joins me to inspect the merch.
She picks up a pair of leopard-print
pumps and eyes them critically.When
we started, the shoes were OK, but now
theyre getting better, she says.I feel
like you shouldnt be in something if
youre not always trying to make it
better. The clothes, which debuted at
Kohls in autumn 2011, are really very
her lots of cream and dove grey, dolman
sleeves, prints in South Beach pastels.
My style is a little more embellished,
but I have to remember always that my
world is not everybodys world, she says.
When she talks about clothes, Jennifer,
44, gets a dreamy look. One slightly nutty
thing she likes to do, she tells me, is take
hours packing for a trip endlessly
putting together outts for herself and
her ve-year-old twins, Max and Emme.
I do it for Beau too, she says. That
would be Beau Casper Smart, her buf
26-year-old choreographer boyfriend.If
we have a ight in the morning, Im
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still packing into the middle of the


night. I just like to play with clothes.
As we chat, people are hovering. People
are always hovering. Everyone wants
their moment with one of the most
powerful women in entertainment. J-Lo
has teams (legal, business, PR), squads
(hair, makeup, personal training) and
crews (security, production). Her teams
have teams. Her squads have squads.
She made an estimated 33.5million in
2012 by having her hand in seemingly
everything: TV, lm, music, fashion and
a 20-fragrance beauty empire with Coty.
This year, she launched a chain of
mobile-phone stores in America, as well
as a new TV channel there, NUVOtv.
Shes also made headlines for less
savoury projects this year, drawing re
for taking high-paying gigs in repressive
countries, such as Turkmenistan, where
she sang for the presidents birthday party
in June. While she hasnt volunteered
anything about returning or donating
her fee, shes ready to admit for the rst
time that the appearance was a mistake.
I know that being seen as a role model
means taking responsibility for all my
actions, she says.I am human, and of
course, sometimes I make mistakes. But I
promise that when I fall, I get back up.
When I am wrong, I will learn the lesson
and move on to face other challenges.
For me, thats what creating your own

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Rehearsing
for The Sound
Of Change
Live, held in
Twickenham in
June to raise
awareness of
womens and
girls issues

Waiting to
be honoured
by HIV/AIDS
foundation
amfAR

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life is. Doing your best work while


being your best self.

Performing for
50,000 people
at Twickenham
Stadium

Channelling
Marilyn

Getting
dressed
for the
American
Idol nale
With
boyfriend
Beau after
this years
Idol nale

I was always
so insecure Then
I realised, this
is not a fluke. I work
my ass off

The
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made an
estimated
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last year

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THE RISE OF A SUPERSTAR

It seems Lopez was born motivated. At


ve, the middle daughter of computer
technician David Lopez and teacher
Guadalupe Rodriguez was taking singing
and dancing lessons, and performing
skits in their home in The Bronx. You
know the rest her breakthrough 1997
lm, Selena, the simultaneous numberone movie (The Wedding Planner) and
album (J.Lo) in 2001, the six-carat pink
engagement ring from Ben Afeck, and
the 100 pink balloons and white doves
from P.Diddy, sensing correctly he was
about to get dumped. Last year, Jennifer
went through a divorce from singer
Marc Anthony, her third husband and
father of the twins. She says the breakup lef her so devastated that she
couldnt get out of bed in the morning.
Her career went a bit quiet when the
babies were born, but in characteristic
fashion, came roaring back in 2011 afer
her stint as American Idols nice judge.
(I hate this, she moaned when she rst
rejected a contestant.I want to go
home.) Twenty-ve million people saw
her each week, and now with a return
to Idol for its 13th season, her eighth
studio album out next year, more product
lines, an executive-producing credit on
ABC Familys The Fosters and a steppedup lm career, including a signicant role
in The 33, the tale of the Chilean miners
her mojo is more potent than ever.
She feels it most intensely when shes
the creative force in a business meeting.
Everybody in there might be more
business-minded, but for me, if Im
talking about marketing or promotion
or why a piece of clothing is made, it all
comes from an emotion, she says. Im
more of an artist, so when Im able to use
that muscle, I feel like Im in my element.
It pains her that other women are ofen
so hesitant to tap into their own power.
We give away our power so much
even in love with men, she says. And
its always looked down on in the world
for women to be powerful they get
labelled as difcult or bitchy.
Even Jennifer, who radiates condence,
admits she only started feeling sure of
herself in later life.It was afer I had the
kids, to be honest, she says. Huh? Five
years ago? When she was, what, 39? The
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Arriving at
Twickenham
Stadium
The star says she
didnt used to feel
she deserved success

biggest insecurity I had was my


singing, she says.Even though I had
sold 70 million records, there was this
feeling like, Im not good at this. And
while I was married to Marc, he helped
me get over it. He kept telling me,
Youre the only one holding yourself
back from reaching your full potential
as a singer. You have to let go.
Nor did she feel that she deserved
success.I was always so insecure, she
says.Then I grew, little by little, and
realised, wait a minute, this is not a
uke. Im not a mistake I work my
ass of. And I know what Im doing.
Her publicist whispers in her ear. I
hear meetings and conference and
car waiting.Gotta go, she says.

Her twins, Emme


(pictured) and
Max, are now ve

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A MOTHERS LOVE

We meet up again at New Yorks Plaza


Hotel a few weeks later. Jennifer is
receiving the Humanitarian Award
from the HIV/AIDS foundation amfAR,
in honour of her work with the
non-prot Lopez Family Foundation,
which works to expand womens and
kids access to health care.
Flashbulbs go daylight-bright as the
guest of honour arrives, poured into a
Tom Ford gown, her hair in a sleek pony.
She poses, laughing at the wolf whistles.
The room goes dark, and the face of
Lopezs friend Ricky Martin lls a screen.
He explains that when Jennifer and her
sister Lynda had babies at the same
time, they decided to start their charity
to help other new mums. When he calls
her name, she takes a deep breath, heads
for the podium, and without notes,
delivers a long, eloquent speech about
the work of the foundation.
Aferwards, she says she was trying not
to cry.Im emotional that way, she says.
She only stumbled when she talked
about Lynda.I just love and respect her
so much, she says.Shes a single mom
but not like Im a single mom. I have a
lot of help she doesnt. I always ask,
Do you need anything? And shes like,
Im good. But I know shes exhausted.
The crowd gets louder as the drinks
ow. Not Jennifer, however. She doesnt
drink, doesnt smoke, never has.
Once it gets past 12, she says, laughing,
Im like, oh, its getting late. If youre

hanging around some afer-party until


the wee hours, how are you supposed to
take ve meetings in a row the next day?

HAVING HIGH STANDARDS

A week later, Lopez calls me from her


home in LA, winding down afer a rare
day of. She says she keeps meaning to
go on holiday, but somehow never does.
Luckily, she combined business with
pleasure during last years tour. Smart
was supervising choreographer, so the
two would grab time between shows
dinner in London, a club in Istanbul.
For me, its about having a great
partner to walk this life with, she says
of Smart, whom she calls her best
friend.I have my own high standards
for what I want in a partner and how I
want to be treated. I bring a lot to the
table. Im not talking about the material
things but what I have to ofer as a
person love and loyalty and all the
things that make a good relationship.
And when she commits to a man, she
gives herself completely.Its funny, early
on with Beau, I remember telling him
how I have a real button on being
ignored, she says.And he was like,
Listen, if somebody ignores you, then
forget them. They dont deserve to have
your attention. But its funny. Sometimes
when we dont get it, we try to get it in
a negative way, you know?
Chasing guys who ignore us, I say,
lounging on my bed.So many of us do
that in our twenties.
And then it becomes a habit, and
youre like,Why am I still doing this?
I know, right? I say, inspecting my
pedicure. I could go on talking to her
for a few more hours, but the kids rush
into her room. One is crying.What?
What? she says, putting the phone down.
Once again, she must leave. The twins
need to go to bed.Im of to bed too, I
tell her.Are you?Well, no, she says.
She has one more thing to do: shimmy
into sparkly skintight trousers and an
abs-baring bra top and jump in a limo for
the Hollywood Bowl, where Pitbull, her
collaborator, is doing a show. Sometime
before 11pm, shell burst on stage in a
surprise appearance as reworks explode
and the crowd loses its collective mind.
In other words, just a normal Tuesday.

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Bold, brave and feminist. Femen


the global sextremist group that
goes topless to ght for womens
rights is set to come to the UK.
But is baring your breasts really
the right way to get equality?
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EQUAL
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e all know women


earn less than men
(see p46), but how
do you think your
boss (male or
female) would react if you burst into
their ofce with I want equal pay
daubed across your braless body?
They certainly couldnt claim they
were unaware that you had a
grievance, but would it really give
you a bigger pay cheque?
If you arent familiar with Femen,
its a controversial feminist group
whose stock-in-trade is protesting
and making headlines with their
naked chests, oral hair garlands and
slogans daubed on their bodies.Our
mission is protest, our weapons are bare
breasts, runs their slogan. They have
eight branches across Europe, Canada
and Central and South America, and
say their next stop is the UK.
They say they ght patriarchy
in its three manifestations sexual
exploitation, dictatorship and religion,
and have ambushed right-wing rallies,
mosques even a meeting with
Russian president Vladimir Putin. But
do they shock the world into taking
notice or merely titillate the men
theyre protesting about?
They are, without doubt, brave:
they claim they have been severely
beaten, harassed, kidnapped and
threatened for their protests. During
one mission to Belarus, they were
arrested by secret agents, stripped,
humiliated and abandoned in a
forest close to the Ukrainian border,

according to a recent lm about


them. But they say the lack of clothes
is fundamental to their message.
We started to see the deeper symbolic
efect of being topless to put our
bodies inside a political context and
make a point that they can say
something, says Inna Shevchenko,
one of Femens most inuential
members.Its not to please someone,
its always to express aggression and
in this way we crush all the sexist,
trivial views about womens bodies.
But to add to the controversy are
stories that Femen was founded and
controlled by a man. Victor Svyatski,
known as a consultant to Femen, was
their mastermind, according to Kitty
Green, who has made a documentary,
Ukraine Is Not A Brothel, about the
group.He hand-picked the prettiest
girls because the prettiest girls sell
more papers that became their
image; that became the way they sold
the brand, she claims.
Inna says he was part of their
movement, but was not a founder of
their topless strategy. However, she
says, the power he gained within the
group was indicative of how men
and women behave in the Ukraine.
Having been born in a country in
which feminism was unknown, we
just accepted a man taking control of
us because we didnt know how to
resist and ght, Inna says.Since I
lef Ukraine for Paris to build a new
Femen, Svyatski has not been involved.
So are Femen inspiring ghters for
the feminist cause, or deluded?

THE GREAT FEMEN DEBATE

Theyre naked warriors

Feminist Caroline CriadoPerez was subjected to rape


and death threats on
Twitter aFer campaigning
for the Bank of England to
keep a female gure on its banknotes
Given Femens knack of getting on to
the front pages, you might think Id
object to their method of protesting.
Afer all, I support the No More Page 3
campaign. But youd be wrong.
Like the women in Femen, Page 3
models are beautiful and half-naked. But
the similarities end there. Page 3 models

dont have a voice. Theyre presented as


beautiful, silent, submissive bodies.
Femen roar and shout and snarl. They
punch the air and scrawl messages on
their bare skin. Theres no doubt over
what they want and what they will do
to get it. They are in charge.
By presenting female nudity in a
narrow light, we tell women their bodies
are not their own; they exist only for the
sexual gratication of others. So while
the members of Femen dont break out of
the blonde, beautiful paradigm, at least
theyre using their bodies for themselves.

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Inna Shevchenko (above


left) says Femen use their
bodies as weapons

A 2013 Hamburg
protest against
the sex industry

At the Venice Film


Festival for Ukraine
Is Not A Brothel

Topless protesters
at an action in
Paris last year

Protesters
punch the
air and write
messages
on their skin

Is Femen the way


forward for equal rights?
Id heard of Femen but I dont
agree with their shock tactics I
think it undermines what theyre
hoping to achieve and makes them look silly.
Hayley Dove, 24, events planner, London
Getting your boobs out is not the
way to achieve equality. I dont think
British women will be behind them.
Fiona Dunleavy, 27, account executive, Bristol
I wasnt ofended by the images
of Femen but I wouldnt have made
the connection between them and
feminism surely a bad thing. Eleonore
Quint, 28, media planner, Strasbourg
Femen are getting people
talking about womens rights,
which can only be a good thing.
Abby Henderson, 22, biomedical-science
graduate, Birmingham

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Pete Paphides, journalist


and husband of feminist
writer Caitlin Moran
I start to feel very uneasy
when any man tells a
feminist how they should go about
conducting their brand of feminism.
But a cursory look at the comments
beneath any article about Femen reveals
many dont share the same unease.Your
weapons of mass distraction are mainly
distracting us from the message you try to
bring across a male response to a piece
by Femen member Inna Shevchenko in

The Guardian is fairly typical. And yet


the fact that theyve grabbed headlines
and spearheaded a global debate
endangering no one but themselves
is testament to their method.
When I see footage of protestors
squaring up to Vladimir Putin, I dont see
sensationalist frivolity but unbelievable
bravery. For generations, womens bodies
have been used to sell anything from
newspapers to sports cars. Whats
surprising about a global movement that
sees women reclaiming their bodies in
this way is that it didnt happen sooner.

There must be
a better way

Im a British
member of Femen

Bryony Gordon, journalist


My initial thought on
Femen was,What a load of
plonkers. Its sad that they
have to use their bodies like
this. It risks their being undermined.
Theres grabbing headlines because your
message is getting through, and theres
grabbing headlines because youve got
your tits out which I think is all
theyre achieving at the moment. I
suppose that almost proves their point.
I doubt Femen will take of in Britain.
Theres a diferent view of womens
bodies in countries where people dont
think twice about sunbathing topless, but
were a bit more buttoned-up literally. I
cant imagine topless women parading
up Whitehall and anyone actually
asking to know more about the cause.

Pippa Chase, from Liverpool,


has taken part in several
topless actions in Berlin
I was immediately intrigued
by Femen as Ive always
been a womens-rights activist, and I
was in awe of them particularly as its
quite a dangerous method of protesting.
I was slightly scared of the police at my
rst protest, as they can get nasty. But
taking my top of didnt feel wrong its
part of our uniform. Ive taken part in
lots of actions, including protesting
against dictatorship and political
repression in Ukraine.
None of the people close to me are
surprised Im in Femen, but I have to
defend my position when I meet new
people. I hope to take part in
actions in Britain soon.

They had to go topless to get noticed


Nadine OConnor,
university lecturer on
political campaigning
I was one of the brains
behind the rst Fathers 4
Justice stunts [shes a campaign director
for the organisation], such as sending
a dad dressed as a superhero to
Buckingham Palace to protest against the
lack of fathers rights. I know sometimes
you have to shock to get attention.
Femen didnt get the headlines until
the women took their tops of. When

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you dont have the funds that large


organisations have, you need to be
creative. You have to weigh up how it
will ultimately further your campaign.
Femen knew the risks, just like we did.
The most successful campaigns have
always been the most radical, such as
the Sufragettes. Ten years ago, people
werent talking about fathers rights,
and now they are because of our
tactics. I think its great for Femens
campaign; theyre getting noticed and
have a trademark too.

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FEMEN

Inna Shevchenko, one of


Femens most inuential
members, ed her native
Ukraine after chainsawing
a crucix in Kievs main
square, in protest against
the Pussy Riot arrests in 2012. Shes since
started a Femen training camp in France.
I joined Femen in 2009 when I met up with
some other Ukrainian women who were
fed up of walking in the street and being
harassed by tourists for sex. We were just a
group of normal girls who were outraged.
So we started protesting against the sex
industry in Ukraine, but we didnt start our
topless action until 2010. I was against it to
begin with, as we are ghting against
objectifying the female body. I was also
worried about the reaction of my family
and my friends Id already lost a
media-relations job after taking part in a
protest. At the time, I only thought of the
naked body as sexual. But through
researching the best way to make a stand,
I came around to the idea of using my
body as a political weapon.
When I rst took part in a topless action
[this is what Femen call their protests], I
didnt feel naked. When your breasts are
out in front of an armed policemen, you
give a strong message to the world. We are
strict activists. Our goal is to destroy the
sexist way of viewing our bodies.
Victor Svyatski was part of Femen but
he was not the creator of our topless
strategy. The Femen ght still involves
men, but we only allow those who support
us, not dominate us.
Im getting more and more emails from
British women who want to see Femen in
London. We opened a
training centre for Femen
activists in Paris in 2012
and recently we held an
international meeting
between eight branches.
To those who say
were disrespectful,
I would say its
disrespectful to
say women
cant do what
they want with
their bodies. We
know the dangers
Inna
we face beatings and
Shevchenko
arrests but we choose
runs a Femen
to ght.
training camp

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The rise
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friendship
fling
Forget illicit afairs real
romance comes from your
new bFFN (thats best
Friend For Now)

By Sarah Kwong. PhoTograPh BEn waTTS/TrUnKarChIVE.CoM. FriendFluence: The


hidden Ways in Which Friendships Make us Who We are By CarlIn Flora (12.99, ShorT BooKS)

onstant giggling through


dinner? Check. Anxiously
waiting for the next-date
text? Yup. Only this isnt a
edgling relationship
this is the intense, emotional tug many
of us feel when we think weve just
found our new BFF.
Carlin Flora, friendship expert and
author of Frienduence, says,We cherish
and connect with our long-term friends,
but a ing is characterised by that
intense feeling of She gets me! Its
thrilling to see a part of yourself
perfectly reected in someone else.
Women such as Susanna Davastovu,
27, admit they thrive on nding that
special connection even if it is only
eeting. I love having diSerent people
in my life, she says.I put myself out
there and form tight friendships
quickly, even if they dont last. I was so
close with a girl I met while travelling
that, afer four weeks, wed decided to
be each others bridesmaids. I cried at
the airport when we said goodbye. But
then she visited a year later and our
friendship wasnt the same.
The great thing about friendship
ings is the guilt-free connection, says
Carlin you can enjoy the moment
without panicking about the future.
Unlike relationships, which are
dominated by questions such as,

The girls knew


their hats and hot
dogs Tumblr was
going to be huge

Wheres this going?, friendships dont


have to be exclusive, Carlin says.
Commitment is only an issue if
asymmetry develops, such as if your
friend becomes needy or fails to get
back to you. You have to decide if you
want to confront her or move on.
And if youre struck by an attack of
jealousy, dont be surprised.In early
tribes, we built friendships to survive. It
was imperative to pick someone who
would be our ally in a conict, says
Carlin.So if we see a friend getting
close to someone else, our primitive
emotional systems kick in and we
worry about being demoted. Its a
deep-seated reason why we feel so
threatened in these situations.
If the friendship does crash and burn,
Carlin says its important to be realistic.
Just because you had an hilarious
twerk-oS with her one night doesnt
mean youre going to be compatible in
every context.You might not be
kindred spirits when faced with multidimensional versions of each other, so
meeting up in other circumstances
could be awkward, says Carlin.
And if it is, let it go and focus on the
positive.With all of my friendship
ings, Ive learnt something about
myself in a short period of time, says
Susanna,even if its just what I like or
dislike. Thats a real perk.

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friendship ing 101


carlin flora gives us the lowdown on
the most common kinds

The one-nighT sTand

The girl you meet at the party where no


one else seems to be your type.
The giveaway You stick by her side
and bond by analysing the other guests.
The TesT If its not massively awkward
the morning after

The break-up
commiseraTor

Youre both going through splits and


your friends are sick of hearing about it.
The giveaway She wants to go over
every detail of your break-up, as long as
you let her do the same.
The TesT If you make each other feel
better rather than more depressed.

The holiday fling

You share chemistry and have a laugh.


The giveaway Its the same sensation
as falling in love, and you click instantly.
The TesT If you still rate her when youre
back home and only have texts, not
dance oors, to bond over.

The new-sTage-of-life
companion

This is your fellow new mum, bride,


divorce, student.
The giveaway All you talk about is
your new shared interest.
The TesT If your bond stays strong once
you both adapt to your new roles in life.

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What they really think


about love, sex
and YOU

things you didnt


know about
LIAM
HEMSWORTH
BY SOPHIE GODDARD. PHOTOGRAPH PEGGY SIROTA/TRUNKARCHIVE.COM

1
HE DOESNT
MIND MIXING BUSINESS
WITH PLEASURE
Liam starred in the video
for Mileys single When I
Look At You soon after
they began dating.

3
HE RIDES
A GNARLY WAVE
The Australian-born actor
surfed competitively from
age 13 to 18. So thats
where that bod came
from, huh?

2
HES A GRACIOUS LOSER
Liam was considered for
the title role in Thor, which
eventually went to his brother
Chris. But there were no hard
feelings, apparently (he later
said he was rooting for his
brother all along.
Cute.)

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INVEST
IGATIO
N

THE
TRUTH
ABOUT
MENAND
CHEATING
What makes a man stray isnt always as
obvious as you might think

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its Not just sex


Writer Nirpal
DhaliWal regularly
slept with other
women while married
to his now ex-wife,
newspaper columnist
liz Jones. here he
sheds light on why some men are
tempted to stray
As the former husband of a tell-all
columnist, I gained notoriety for my
multiple indelities. But unlike most
men, I never hid my marital status from
the women I slept with. I never took of
my ring, nor denied being married. The
only woman I ever lied to was my wife;
something Im not proud of, and have
increasingly regretted.
Look beneath the surface of why men
cheat and you nd a much more
complicated story than the mere
fullling of a carnal urge.
It was about forgetting my life for
a few hours, says Alex, a business
analyst.Im married with two small
children, and sometimes I just want to
feel like the lad I was in my twenties. If
I tell women I meet on a night out Im
married, I feel I have to act according to
a certain role: the responsible husband.
All the spontaneity disappears. I feel as
if I cant irt, dance or joke with them
and like theyre judging me for being
out and having fun. So I adopt a
persona. I pretend Im single and then
I can let loose a little.
The only time I
was unfaithful was
with a married
colleague the sex
just lef me feeling
gutted and guiltridden. The truth is, I
dont go looking for
women but, when Im
having fun, women
want to talk to me.
Being wanted is a

56% of men
who have aN
affair claim
to be happy
in their
marriage

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great drug. When youre married, you


can feel taken for granted.
Michael, a married copywriter, ended
up going home with a woman he met
at a party.She asked me, very boldly, I
hope youre not married? and I said no
without thinking. I took my ring of
when she wasnt looking and from then
on I just played a part. Michael ended
up having an afair with the woman,
and throughout he pretended to
be a single
man living
with friends.
It was absurd,
he tells me.
From that
initial lie, I
had to tell so
many others.
I had to make up reasons why I couldnt
see her, so I invented a new job for
myself. I felt I was juggling a dozen
live hand grenades, waiting for one to
explode and kill me. Im denitely
never doing that again.
But not all men follow the phony
bachelor routine. There are those like
me who didnt b. The fact is, a mans
wedding ring isnt an automatic
deterrent. Being married was no
impediment and might, indeed, have
been of assistance in my misbehaviour.
As I said, my ring remained on, and
none of the women asked until aMer the
red line was crossed. I certainly never
used the my wife doesnt understand
me shtick to woo or explain myself. I
dont know what if any appeal my
being married presented. It wasnt the
challenge, because I really didnt put up
a ght. Maybe it was the clarity of
knowing where they stood, or curiosity
about what sort of man would do such
a thing. And a wedding ring is, I
suppose, a sign that a man has at least
been adequately road-tested and
functions well in some departments.

most
affairs
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According to writer
ANDY JONES,
opportunities are
everywhere and
whether a cheater
takes them is simply
a matter of weighing

up the risks
Indelity isnt just a heady mixture of
lust and booze its a mathematical
equation: Attraction x Opportunity
Trust = Cheating.
For men (and, I suspect, women),
whether you go there is a simple
trade-of between Will I get caught?
and Could I handle the guilt? Forget
any emotional dramas about trust and
betrayal its really the afermath that
worries us most.
For all those who think their partner
never would, imagine two lines one
being attraction, the other being the
likelihood of getting caught. The point
where they cross is where his willpower

MEN LIE

Writer and ex-Loaded


editor MARTIN
DAUBNEY warns that
men will oJen cover
for each other
It was 1am on a
Saturday morning when
the all-too-familiar text came through.
Am@yours OK? It could only mean one
thing: Nige*, my oldest school mate,
had pulled again. But in the eyes of
everybody else and mainly his wife
he was denitely staying at my house.
Cool, I replied. Nige had his alibi, we
had our stories straight, and I could
nally get some kip.
You probably think Im a complete
bastard. Afer all, a bloke who covers
up for a love-rat mate is part of the
problem. But the truth is that, when
it comes to cheating, men just dont
think the same way as women. To

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collapses. The fact is, men are vain


creatures. We like to be made to feel
attractive. We dont get complimented
as ofen as you, so being reminded of
our sex appeal by a new, attractive
woman can be too hard to resist. You
get good eggs men who simply wont
cheat but in the right circumstances,
most will crumble.
Social networking hasnt helped. Take
that girl you went on a date with ve
years ago You casually add her,
suddenly youre chatting and, before
you know it, youre meeting up. And
then, of course, there are the Red-Flag
Moments. Lads weekends away, rugby
tours, stag dos Single blokes know
they can behave appallingly anytime
and anyplace but, for men in
relationships, a 100 return ticket to
Prague is a small price to pay for some
consequence-free thrills.
Yet all this does come at a price. While
it has never been easier to cheat, it has

females, cheating is almost always


wrong, and even best friends should be
reprimanded if they stray. But we dont
judge as you might.
There is one problem: I know his
wife, Kelly*, really well, but I deal with it
in a typically blokey way: I put it to the
back of my mind and hope it goes away.
Thats the guy code; we are a band of
brothers who place loyalty above such
tiresome topics as moral sensibility.
Besides, Nige wasnt having an afair.
He was having a series of one-of ings,
which didnt seem as bad to me.
He was in an unhappy marriage but
didnt have the guts to end it. The

THE MAJORITY
OF MEN DONT
COUNT KISSING
AS ADULTERY

30% OF BRITISH
MEN SAY THEY
WOULD CHEAT IF
THEY THOUGHT
THEY WOULDNT
GET FOUND OUT
uncomfortable truth is that men are
moral chameleons. We lie to protect
good friends but, paradoxically, we take
the moral high ground if there could be
something in it for us.
For example, beware a platonic
male friend who suddenly starts
suggesting your man is playing away
he might not have your best interests at
heart. In fact, it might be because he
actually wants you to end up single so
he can steam in.
The unpleasant truth is that, with
most situations, men tend to keep quiet
because were cowards. Wronged
women might throw drinks. Wronged
men throw punches (and at our
noses, which is why we keep them
out of other blokes business).
Unless, of course, the girl involved
happens to be our sister. Complex,
hypocritical, one minute ruthless
and the next pious, the reality is
that men can be truly potty
when it comes to cheating.

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ITS OFTEN SO EASY

never been easier to get caught


Facebook being cited in 33% of
divorces based on unreasonable
behaviour, according to a survey by
Divorce-Online. Cheaters make the
fatal error of assuming that, just because
they have forgotten about that drunken
text, its somehow miraculously
disappeared. But of course, every guilty
online or phone interaction is stored
somewhere, liable to reappear at any
moment. Thats the spin of the wheel
the cheater is happy to take and
theyll spin even harder if they think
they wont get caught.

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Sex and the...

single guy
Men hate playing
hard to get

PHOTOGRAPH GETTY

Dave was
really chufed
with the
latest text
ofer from
Dominos

We think guys are the masters of playing it


cool, but comedian Tom Craine is here to
set the record straight: they overthink the
rules of love too

m a happy chap, but I know


you Monster Munch, youll take some.
what I hate. I hate famine, I hate
Why is dating diferent?
the mark lef on an ankle from
I think much of it stems from an urge
where a sock recently clung, and
to not look foolish. Last week, out
I hate playing hard to get. Its something shopping, I overheard a father telling
Ive never understood I dont want to
of his daughter for singing, and she
date an MI5 secret agent.
turned to him and said,Daddy, if you
Dont get me wrong: a pinch of
were six, youd be singing too! This is
self-control is no bad thing. Once, on a
so crushingly perceptive, because deep
rst date, a girl revealed she was falling down we all want to sing Chaka Khan
for me. I may have been attered had
in Boots; we just dont want the cashier
she not delivered the news with the
to think were a twat. And its the same
robotically detached tone of
with dating. We all want to be more
someone who does this
open, to be ourselves; but that
within two hours of
helpful adult voice keeps
Were all
meeting every man she
chirping up saying,Ah,
just idiots
dates, but it meant we
yes, but you dont want
searching for that to end up looking silly.
didnt make it to date
two. And then I
one person wholl And so you dont text
changed my number.
until the next day (or
fail to notice
Playing hard to get
the day aWer that).
were an idiot
when you actually like
Friends have suggested
someone seems equally
I hate playing hard to get
pointless. Lets not fool
because I lack patience. Its
ourselves. When it comes to love,
true, I do, but this isnt why. I simply
were all just idiots desperately
feel the stress is pointless. Dating should
searching for that one person wholl fail be fun. Ive learnt to hate the chase. I
to notice were an idiot. So if were all
like the relief of the nish.
on the same page, why cant we just act
But if the other person is playing
normally? Why is it so hard to be
hard to get, its difcult not to get
open about the fact you want more
drawn in. Waiting for their text is
of something? I mean, if you fancy
frankly painful when that hopeful
Monster Munch and someone ofers
beeping makes your heart skip, only

for you to nd its yet another


ofer from Dominos. And modern
technology doesnt help. My iPhone
now presents a little speech bubble
when someones typing. So whereas
previously I could fool myself they
hadnt seen my text, now I can see
someone begin to type and then back
out. Ouch. And if theyre acting aloof,
how should I reply? Do I text now? Or
leave it an hour? Do I correct the typo?
Can I double-text? Big kiss or little kiss?
Aargh STOP! No potentially healthy
relationship has ever been scuppered
because someone went upper case on a
kiss. We need to stop all the nonsense.
Life is stressful enough with work, bills,
illness and Made In Chelsea without us
having to deal with this. Lets not make
nding love yet another chore. No
more playing hard to get agreed? If
you like someone,tell them. In fact,
text them now. Add a kiss. Delete. Add
two. Then panic
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HOWMANY
TIMESTHEYVE

BEEN IN

love
Puppy love, pure
and simple lust
or the real deal?
This months men
confess all on
being bitten by the
love bug
Just the once.
Love is a serious
word and I dont
use it lightly.
Robert, 19,
London

Ive been with my


girlfriend for almost
seven years and shes
the only person I have
ever been in love with.
I cant imagine falling
for anyone else
because shes epic.
James, 25, Surrey

I fell in love once when I


was on holiday. She was
amazing. I was nine. Ana, if
youre out there, call me!
Adam, 25, London
Ive said I love you
once before but it was
more puppy love and I
was quite naive. Sadly, I
havent felt the intensity
of true love yet.
James, 25, Romford

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Ian just knew she


was going to be
thrilled with her
new tractor

Love has struck twice for me;


not an extensive amount, but
both relationships meant a
great deal in my life.
Khalid, 29, Slough
I think I fall in love fairly
easily and have loved
three women. I give my
all in relationships
Ive got a
big heart!
Souleymane,
31, London
I reckon Ive used the L-word about seven
times. I dont think you have anything to lose
in telling someone your true feelings; that
way you nd out sooner if youre meant to
be rather than wasting time.
Once I never spoke up about how
I felt and we ended up drifting
apart. She was the one that got
away. Sigh. Tino, 28, Toronto
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Ive had strong
feelings for two girls
in my life so far, but
I wouldnt say Ive
been in love. To me
it means you want
to spend the rest of
your life with
someone and I just
havent felt that way
yet.James, 21,
Hampshire
Four times. When I was
younger I found it easier to
fall in love and wore my
heart on my sleeve. Now I
know the right feelings that
will tell me theyre The One.
Kevin, 27, Norway

This was one


way to celebrate
nishing all the
Scotch eggs

There have been


times when Ive
wondered, but given
that love is meant to
be one of the few
things in life you are
completely certain of,
saying, Im not sure
probably means I have
not experienced it.
Craig, 20, Rochester

Never. I think when youre 16 and youve


found somebody great, youre suddenly
thinking, This is it, Im in
love, when actually its a bit
more supercial than that
its more lust and
excitement. The only thing
Ive ever probably loved is
food! Tom, 20, London

Just the once. It was a


crazy emotion. As it was
an out-of-control feeling,
I was glad when it was
over! Thomas, 21, Sufolk

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Ive loved many things


lms, music, food, beer but,
aside from being a confused
teen, thinking Id found The
One, Ive only been in love
once.James, 21, Hudderseld
Probably ve times. I dont
know why some people get
hung up on admitting theyve
loved a partner; I feel lucky to
say Ive experienced it.
Steve, 23, Pembrokeshire

Just the once Im not


really at a stage in my
life where Ive had
enough relationships to
use the word love
seriously, so its cool Ive
got that to look forward
to. Steven, 19, London

Ive been in love three


times; one of them was
maybe just infatuation.
There is only one love that
stays with you for life and
its pretty rare but worth
nding! Rob, 30, Edinburgh
Im cautious as I dont think
you can fall in love too many
times with the same intensity.
Based on this, I can say that
its only happened once.
Pat, 20, London

Ive been in love


with one girl before;
it was incredible and
kind of overwhelming.
You denitely know
when youve fallen
for someone its
an unmistakable
emotion.
Idan, 29,
London

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Once you fall for


someone hard you
realise the gravity of
using the word love.
Ive only had one
relationship where
I could say that.
Christoph, 26, Vienna

Ive fallen in love


three times before
Im certain of it!
When youre in love
its important to tell
the person how you
feel frequently.
Jason, 43, London

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Centrefold

Kye
Sones

The X Factor graduate,


31, shows us what hes
working with
Guys need to check their
balls for lumps just like girls
should check their boobs; its
nothing to be afraid of. Ive
never done anything like this
shoot before, but its such a
good cause and I love
Cosmo. Fearne [Cotton, Kyes
friend] has been on the cover
loads and shes a real Cosmo
girl shes strong, beautiful,
cool and the nicest person
on planet Earth. Shes never
seen me naked before
were close, but not that
close! Shell probably put this
up in her downstairs loo.
Kyes debut EP Seven is available
to buy and download now

Kye
dishes the
naked truth on
music, Fearne and
belly buttons at
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I DATED MY
TEEN CRUSH
10 YEARS
LATER
Ever thought about an unrequited
love and wondered What if?
Katie Grant got a second chance
but could it live up to the fantasy?

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met Tom* on my rst


day at a new school,
aged 16. My painful
shyness inevitably led to
painful unpopularity, but
Tom exuded a condence
I was immediately drawn
to. Every time he so much
as asked to borrow a Biro,
I felt my heart pounding.
Then school nished, we
went our separate ways and
he faded into history. So it
felt like fate when, on my
way home from a bad date
a decade later, I saw Tom
chatting to some friends
at a Tube station. Hed
sprouted a beard and
put on a bit of weight,
but I recognised him
immediately.
I was so surprised I ducked
behind a ticket machine.
From my hiding place I
pulled myself together and
decided to say hello; its not
every day the dating gods
throw a golden opportunity
your way, I reasoned. Afer
a quick catch-up he was
single he asked me for
my number. It felt more
than just friendly; were my
teenage fantasies becoming

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an adult reality at last?


I couldnt believe it.
We arranged to go on
a date and I buzzed with
excitement. But to my
surprise, come date night
although we had a nice
enough time instead of
going boom! all my heart
could muster was a lacklustre
meh. While Id erased from
memory the unhappy two
years Id spent at sixth form,
Tom rattled on about old
schoolmates he remained
close to. These included the

INSTEAD OF
GOING BOOM
ALL MY HEART
COULD MUSTER
WAS MEH
boy who had given me a
note scrawled with the three
little words every teenage
girl longs to read: YOUR
[sic] A LOSER.
I knew as soon as we
shared our rst kiss that
things werent quite right.
Instead of simply enjoying it,
I felt delighted with myself
for having achieved what I

Sarah hoped
shed still be
able to read her
horoscope under
all that ketchup

couldnt at school. Even so,


I said yes when he asked to
see me again. I guess I got a
kick out of dating Tom afer
hankering afer him for all
those years.
Soon my old if onlys were
replaced with new ones: if
only he were more like the
man Id imagined him to be.
If only, at 27, he didnt still
live with his parents
Deep down I knew that
Tom wasnt the man of my
dreams. Yet somehow the
geeky schoolgirl in me just
couldnt let go. I do like him,
I told myself (and him), even
as it became increasingly
difcult to convince my
heart he was right for me.
But whenever I resolved to
end it, hed surprise me with
a kind gesture (like the time
he gave me a mix CD hed
compiled especially for me
even though every single
track on it was thrash metal).
Afer a few months,
though, I realised it had to
end, and so I initiated The

Talk.I want more, need


more, I lied, knowing he
wanted to keep things casual.
But in reality, I didnt want
him, Id simply wanted him
to want me, just as I had
wanted him at school. I felt
like I owed it to my shy
16-year-old self.
I nally acknowledged
what Id known all along: I
had been blindly clinging to
a decade-old fantasy instead
of seeing things as they really
were. Yes, as a teenager Id
lusted afer Tom, but as a
26-year-old, had I met this
man for the rst time I
wouldnt have considered
swapping numbers, let alone
bodily uids.
Eventually, I hit unfriend
on Facebook, consigning
Tom to the past again.
Ive learnt that letting go
of your if onlys is not easy
but it made me realise its
never good to keep looking
back. Ahead is where youll
nd your future.

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Ice cream and


romcoms what
could possibly
go wrong?

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ONE GIRL,
ONE GUY,
,
ONE BED
ONE
WEEK
So just what did happen?
Writers Luke and Helen have been friends for years, and are just
good mates. But could sharing a bed for seven nights change all that?

fer seven years,


three holidays
and many
drunken nights,
Luke and I are
super-close. Hes single; Im
single but were just mates.
Oh, and we live together too.
Hes tall, handsome and I
can see hes (a bit) hot most
of my friends fancy him. But
unfortunately, I dont.
So imagine my surprise
when on a night in the pub
with our friends, were asked
the same old question: Why
dont you guys just have sex?
and instead of our usual,
because were not attracted
to each other auto-response,

Luke drops a bombshell.If


we shared a bed for a week, I
think wed end up sleeping
together, he declares.
Whats more, research
suggests he might be right. A
study at the University of
Pittsburgh found that sharing
a bed promotes feelings of
safety and security. And its
been proven to boost
oxytocin, the love hormone,
to bring people closer.
Even so, the idea still seems
crazy. How can sleeping next
to a man I dont really fancy
turn him into someone I want
sex with? But Im curious.
What if Mr Right really has
been under my nose all along?

T he piow diary
LUKE Wearing
my best cotton
PJs, I condently
slip under the
freshly laundered covers of
Helens bed. Not that I think
Im gods gif, but I dont
believe any male/female
friendship can stand the
pressure of continued close
physical intimacy. Plus, were
best mates. I know all her
bad habits, her embarrassing
childhood stories and what
shade of mauve she wants
the napkins at her wedding.
Were practically a couple

NIGHT

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anyway, so what would it
take to cross that line?
But as we lie there staring
into each others eyes,
trying to see each other in
a new way, we both start
giggling. Well, they say
laughter is the best way to
get a woman into bed.
Wait, Ive already got her
into bed. And weve got six
more nights to see if it
becomes something more.
HELEN When Luke comes
in wearing his checked
PJs, he looks more like an
actor in a naf toothpaste
ad than a possible Mr
Helen. As we lay in bed, I
sense him edging closer
and it all feels a bit weird.
Maybe afer a few days Ill
feel diferently I glance
at Luke and he suddenly
swoops in and pulls me
towards him so were face
to face. I think the time I
walked in on two of my
teachers snogging during
a school trip to Holland
was less awkward.

LUKE Ive just


come back from
a date where I
didnt reach rst
base. Finding Helen in bed
apparently on the point of
dozing of, I climb in next to
her, and with the six vodkas
still swirling in my brain and
feeling like I could do with
a cuddle, I inch up to her
sleeping back, idly slipping a
hand round her waist.
She responds with a grunt
and a playful shove that says,
I kinda like that.
Well who wouldnt fancy a
half-cut, horny man looking
for possible no-strings action
afer being blown out?
Okay, turns out Helen
wouldnt. When I try gently
nuzzling her neck, her
disgruntled response
contains several expletives.
HELEN When Im woken
up by the sound of Luke
tripping over something
in the hall, I realise the last
thing I want is a drunken
man on my case, so I pretend

LUKE Amlie,
Hagen-Dazs,
massage oil
yes, were having
a date night. And surely this
combination would melt any
girls heart? Helens been
complaining about a sore
neck, so I gently rub her
shoulders as she devours her
ice cream. This feels weird,

she says. I kind of agree but


Im enjoying myself.Dont
worry, I reply, pushing her
pressure points as I begin a
heartfelt anecdote about
splitting with my ex.
You never told me that
before, she says. But as I
lean closer, I knock the oil
all over the sheets. Cue a lot
of shouting about Egyptian
cotton and 90-degree washes.
HELEN Im not sure if its just
my muscles relaxing, but Luke
massaging me feels oddly
nice. We talk about exes and
where we see ourselves in
ve years, and both admit
wed like to be settled with a
partner and kids. I really
enjoy my single life, but (oil
spill aside) our date night
makes me realise I do crave
someone to ll the boyfriend
role. Surely that person
couldnt be Luke could it?

NIGHT

NIGHT

Helen wasnt
impressed
with Lukes
tipsy antics

to be asleep. A few minutes


later, a 13st lump is draped
around me, whispering sweet
nothings. Romantic it is not!
I try (unsuccessfully) to roll
LUKE After a
long day, Im
knackered.
This is when
Id normally
want some stress-relieving, nofrills sex. I wonder whether I
could do that with Helen and
whether shed want it too.
Then she gets home with a
face that says, If I so much as
glimpse your testicles, trust
me, I will punch them.
Sadly, all she wants to do is
regale me with the worlds
longest story about the girl in
her oSce who is allergic to
sunower seeds. After about
half an hour with my back to
her, she nally stops talking
does she want a kiss? But
when I turn round, lips
puckered, shes fast asleep.
HELEN It pains me to say it,
but Im quite enjoying
bunking up with Luke. Im
so used to falling asleep on
my own that its nice to
have someone to chat to.
Its much easier than it

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him out of bed and make


him sleep in his own room,
but he wont budge. So
instead we just sleep apart,
keeping our distance.
usually is when you rst share
a bed with a new partner.
Getting to vent about my day
is just what I need. As I nally
drift oT, it occurs to me that
we might be spooning, but Im
too exhausted to care.

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got nice boobs. As I reel of


her qualities, I realise theyre
exactly the things I look for in
a girlfriend. After being single
for months, its actually nice to
have someone to share my
bed with. As we talk, she falls
asleep with her head on my
shoulder, and I wonder if we
actually could work as a
couple after all
HELEN I cant remember the
last time Luke paid me a
compliment, but I think it
was in 2008 when he dared
me to eat 15 jalapeos in a
row and I managed it
without being sick. But Im a
romantic. Im not looking for
the rst man who tells me
Im pretty. I did think the idea
that I might suddenly fancy
Luke after all this time was
ridiculous, but I have to admit
its been nice spending extra
time with him. It does feel like
weve become closer but
theres still no sexual attraction.
I think that if I really wanted to
see Luke naked, it would have
happened years ago. Still, Im
pretty cosy and I fall asleep on
my new bed buddy mid-chat.

LUKE I know Helen. I know what she looks for


in a man, I know what she wants out of a
relationship, and I know Im not too far of it.
Yesterday, I felt maybe she was beginning to
realise that too. So instead of making the most of our last
night by stripping naked and waiting for her with nothing
but a smile, I decide to talk it out.
As we chat about the week, laughing at my lame attempts
at romance and her outrageous version of Crazy In Love, I
think we both realise were much better as friends than lovers.
In truth, Im glad it didnt happen. Sleeping with Helen
would be fun, but our friendship would never be the same. I
may not have succeeded in seducing her, but I know, with a
little luck, I denitely could have. Damn that oil
HELEN Its judgement day. I could sleep with Luke just to see,
and put it down to experience, but would I really be able to do
so without judging myself? Ive known all along the answer is
no. I always try to follow my heart and, no matter how much
I love Luke as a friend, romantically its never going to lead
me to him. We spend our last sleepover doing what we do
best: chatting nonsense and having silly arguments. Its good
to be back to how we always were, and should be. I might
have won the challenge, but not having sex means that
neither of us has lost. Lukes nally going back to his own
room and were both relieved. Now he can drop crumbs all
he wants and I get the whole duvet to myself. Bliss!

LUKE Its
Friday night
and, afer going
to the pub
together, Helen and I tumble
through the front door, she
screeching Beyonc while I
do my best Jay-Z impression.
I seize the moment and
instigate a little drunken
horseplay, pushing her on
the bed. As she falls back she
grabs my collar, bringing me
down on top of her.
Suddenly were face to face,
our lips so close I can taste
the salt and lemon on her
breath.You know, you are
beautiful, I nd myself
saying. For once its not a
line; just what Im thinking.
And as I inch closer, this
time she isnt laughing.
No, she says quietly,
turning and rolling away.
As I lie awake, I ask myself
what would happen if I did
actually sleep with her. How

NIGHT

would it change things and


for better or worse?
HELEN I get a little irty with
Luke. As I pull him towards
me, he looks unsure if Im
serious or not. And for a few
seconds Im not sure either.
I wonder if hes a good
kisser but then my senses
kick in. Good friendships
take time and patience, and
Im really proud of ours. A
pub-fuelled kiss and a fumble
under the sheets could
destroy that in minutes.

NIGHT

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LUKE After
four nights of
rows about
stealing the
duvet (her)
and eating biscuits in bed (me),
the novelty is wearing of.
Come on, I suggest,
should we just give it a try?
Im not even your type,
she replies.
Not true. Youre funny and
kind, I tell her. And youve

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ver wondered where authors get their


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The
smart
girls
money
guide

Cosmos Sophie
Goddard aims
to save 100
every month.
Here she tries only
shopping online...

ithout boasting
(OK, Im boasting),
Im awesome at online
shopping. My genius plan
this month? Bulk buying,
from tinned peas to face
wipes. Yes, my at would
soon resemble a WWIII
bunker. Or so I thought...

Groceries
Experts say grocery shopping
online is cheaper because
were less inuenced by
impulse buys, so technically
Im already winning, right?
First stop: Mysupermarket.
co.uk, where you ll a virtual
shopping trolley and
compare the costs of major
supermarkets. My trolley of
items ranged from 39.51 in
Asda to 50.46 in Waitrose.
Tesco wasnt cheapest (43)
but its delivery times were
convenient (and Ive got a
Clubcard). Next I typed
Tesco into cashback site
Quidco.com. Cashback sites
are basically middle men;
instead of buying directly
from a retailer, you get paid a
fee (between 3-6% of the
products cost) for buying it
via the cashback site. All
current omers from that
retailer are displayed I
chose 12 om 60 grocery
spend + 5 cashback. Because
Im unlikely to spend 60,
my housemate and I teamed
up. Thanks to the 12
discount and 5 cashback,
our 66 shop
emectively cost
49 (and we
got 66 Clubcard
points). Downside?
Some omers are only for
new customers, so loyalty
doesnt always pay.

Fashion
Im in need of some new
tees. My go-to store is Urban
Outtters, so I Googled
Urban Outtters discount
code and voil a 15%
discount code appeared. Two
T-shirts normally costing 58
came to 50.30 (including 1
delivery) wahoo. I forgot to
use Quidco, though. Oops.

London Travelcard online


(boo), and I didnt save cash
by booking train tickets
online unless I specied dates
in advance. But one positive
was that my stringent only
buy stum online rule meant I
couldnt get a black cab ajer
a friends birthday lunch,
saving me 12 (but giving me
two blisters. Ouch).

TOTAL SAVED: 7.70

TOTAL SAVED: 12

GiIs
My friend wanted a Jamie
Oliver cookbook for her
birthday and it cost 26 in
my nearest Waterstones. A
quick Google showed it was
available for 19.60 on its
website, or just 12 on Asdas
(both with free delivery), and
even cheaper on Amazon:
11.28 (also with free
delivery). Score.

Beauty
My favourite shampoo,
Krastase Bain Satin, is
16.50 at the hairdressers
opposite our ohce, but I got
it for 11.52 online (with
free delivery) nearly a ver
cheaper! I bought the
conditioner too
TOTAL
(RRP 18.90)
SAVED:
for 11.47.
63.83 (PLUS

TOTAL SAVED: 14.72

Travel
Sadly I found no
concessions for
buying my

TOTAL SAVED:
12.41

HOW I GOT ON

Confession time: I cheated. It


was a pretty ambitious task
and I obviously had to go into
a shop (or, er, 10) at some
point. Who has the time or
inclination to purchase and
prepare a months worth of
meals in advance or work out
when your razor rells are
likely to need replenishing?
Theres undoubtedly huge
saving potential but, like
anything, planning is key.
However, I reckon I saved at
least 100 by avoiding the
shops at lunchtime alone.

TOTAL SAVED: 17 (+ THE


USUAL CRAP IN MY TROLLEY)

Credit-card confessions by Eliza Doolittle


Celebs reveal the last four things that tempted them to wield the plastic
Shoes, 450
They were Sophia
Webster and Charlotte
Olympia, my favourite
designers at the
moment. But they
were on sale. I think
I have a shoe
addiction!

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Kevyn Aucoin Celestial


Bronzing Veil, 38
I dont normally wear
very much makeup, just
mascara and bronzer. I
prefer the natural look.

ALL THE MONEY


I DIDNT SPEND
IN SHOPS)

iTunes, 50
I bought Tom Odells
album, some old Foo
Fighters tracks and
loads of TV shows. Im
a bulk buyer, then I dont
buy anything for ages.

Parking, 10
I parked in LA last
week when I went
to the nail shop,
before lming my
music video.

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is out on 14
October.

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your
to

Ca ers
care
clinic

Ever feel like


the walking dead
at work? Cheat
your way to
more energy
through the day
no cafeine required
7.30AM

The big breakfast

8.15AM

Get your pulse racing


A brisk walk or 20 minutes of morning
exercise, from yoga to cycling, kick-starts
your metabolism and energy for the rest of
the day, says Oliver Gray, author of
Energise You.

8.45AM

10.26AM

Early starter

Task tackling

Whether its having time to make a


quick cuppa, ve minutes of internet
shopping or just having a quick sort
out, studies show that starting your
working day early signicantly
boosts productivity.

According to research, this is your most


productive point of the day, making it
the perfect time to tackle that project
youve been putting of or de-clutter
your inbox with all the
emails youve been
avoiding.

9AM

Schedule
your day
At the start of the day, write
a to-do list, going from the
task that requires the most energy
to the one that requires the least,
explains Oliver. Theres a link
between organisation and
energy, and doing your more
important tasks when your
energy is at its peak will make
your day run more efciently.

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11.30AM

Take a break
Wellness coach Shola
Arewa recommends taking
a two-minute vacation,
whereby you sit for two minutes
away from your screen and
concentrate only on your breathing.
Do this three times a day to reset
your system, trigger the relaxation
response and see an instant rise in
your energy levels!

BY BECKY FLETCHER. PHOTOGRAPHS JAMIE NELSON/BLAUBLUT EDITION, GETTY.


FOR MORE INFORMATION, SEE CHARLOTTE PALMER (FOODSPECIALIST.CO.UK),
OLIVER GRAY (ENERGISEYOU.COM), SHOLA AREWA (SHOLA.CO.UK)

Your choice of breakfast dictates your


energy, focus and productivity for the
day ahead, explains nutritionist
Charlotte Palmer. Avoid toast, pastries
and most cereals, as their high gluten
content requires a lot of energy to break
down when digesting. Instead, include
protein, such as eggs with salmon on rye
bread, or have porridge with cinnamon
and apple. And step away from the fruit
juice it spikes blood-sugar levels.

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suspiciously keen
to do everyones
paper shredding

3PM

Afernoon lull

One or two cups of cofee isnt the end


of the world but it only gives you a
short-term energy lif and is a drain on
the hormones that respond to stress.
Dehydration will make you sluggish,
so Charlotte suggests plenty of water
and coconut water for the ultimate
isotonic (mineral- and salt-replacing)
hydrating drink. And try a handful of
nuts the magnesium is a good
pick-me-up and reduces stress.

6PM

Getting boozy

More than one glass of wine afects


quality of sleep so, if youre out for
post-work drinks, Oliver recommends
drinking water with each glass to avoid
dehydration and aiming to stop drinking
two hours before you go to bed.

8PM

Tweet dreams

12.30PM

Healthy lunch

Grab lunch an hour before an important


task, in order to allow your body to digest it
and turn it into fuel, explains Charlotte. If
your afternoon work requires a clear head,
heavy carbs may drain energy by 3pm.

1PM

Reach for the Lycra

For the ultimate energy boost, hit the


gym or park for some exercise at
lunchtime. Research has shown that
people who do this feel more
productive and dont experience the
dreaded mid-afernoon slump.

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Technology causes you to be overstimulated, explains Oliver,so close


your laptop or log of from whatever
youre doing 30 minutes before bed to
stop the blue light emitted from
gadgets afecting your melatonin levels.
Melatonin levels peak the darker it gets
and make you feel less alert perfect
conditions for a great nights sleep.

11PM

Hit the hay

A regular sleep routine at least


four times a week is important,
says Oliver. Aim for 7-9 hours
during those nights. Getting 1.5
hours less of night-time sleep
could reduce how alert you are in
the day by as much as 32%!

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Karren
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SORTS YOUR
LIFE OUT

Cosmos resident superwoman


solves your work dilemmas

I feel like I was ofered my


new job under false pretences
I was promised lots of perks
that havent materialised.
What should I do?
Janey, London

Karren says: Situations like this


are common, which is why its
important to get any kind of
benets in writing before starting
a job. In this instance, youve got
to speak to your bosses. Tell them
youre concerned that they havent
honoured their promises but that
they were one of the reasons you
accepted the job. If your company is
experiencing nancial restraints
and argue they cant aford these
perks, its still important to broach
the issue. Ask for a timescale too,
otherwise your bosses can argue
that it will happen, but nothing will
come of it. If the promised perks
cant be met, ofer other suggestions
instead. And always check your
facts; dont storm into your bosss
ofce because of rumours youll
come across as misinformed and
very unprofessional.
Got a work dilemma? Tweet us
@CosmopolitanUK, using #KB, or
email questionforkarren@hearst.co.uk.

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So you
think you
want my job?
N A M E BEE BERRIE
AGE 32
F R O M LONDON

BY SOPHIE GODDARD. PHOTOGRAPH KATIE HYAMS. HAIR AND MAKEUP VICTORIA BARNES. ORDER BEES CAKES AND BISCUITS AT BEESBAKERY.CO.UK

JOB BAKER

A typical day
Baking has always been my
passion. At uni I studied
medical microbiology, then got
a job in pharmaceutical PR, but
spent all my spare time in the
kitchen making cakes and
biscuits. I managed to take
holiday to shadow Peggy
Porschen (an amazing cake
guru) for a month before
deciding to turn my hobby into
a business. I learnt as many
techniques as I could going
to decorating classes in the
evenings and watching endless
YouTube videos and baked
cakes for friends birthdays and
weddings until Id saved up
enough money to quit my job.
At rst I worked from my
kitchen at home, but now I rent
a small unit as I need a lot
more oven space! Bees Bakery
specialises in cakes and biscuits,
and Im best known for my
word Jammie Biscuits, which
are stocked everywhere from
local delis to Harvey Nichols
and Selfridges. They came about
because I was making some one
day and asked my hung-over
atmate what word I should
stamp out of the top of one. He
said a rude word and aSer
putting a photo online, I was

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I call it Bikram baking


as the kitchen gets so hot
inundated with requests.
Theyre still our most popular
item; one girl even requested a
batch saying,Will you marry me?
As the business expanded I
took on staT and now have two
part-time bakers and one
delivery guy working with me.
On top of the baking, my
days are always varied I can
be doing anything from taking
orders and making deliveries to
visiting wholesalers to pick up
ingredients. I make wedding
cakes too, so clients oSen visit
for tasting sessions or to discuss
ideas. Im currently working
on a ower-fetti cake (with
edible ower petals), which
someone requested I always
say yes to new ideas.
People always ask why Im
not fat, but I work with around

70kg of dough a week shiSing


that keeps you very t! I call it
Bikram baking because the
kitchen gets so hot that its like
doing Bikram yoga. Its hard to
switch oT aSer a long day
sometimes Im here till 10pm
and when I get home I love
looking at Pinterest or design
magazines for new biscuit ideas.

The good
Im always learning it never
stops. The feeling when we get a
new customer or I come up with
a new design is really exciting.

The bad
It can be physically exhausting
and the hours are long. Its not
that glamorous either Ive got
countless burns and scars! And
staying motivated can be tough.

STILL
INTERESTED?

Qualications A lot
of bakers do Cordon
Bleu courses, but
they can be pricey
and time-consuming.
If youre self-taught,
night school, work
experience and web
tutorials are brilliant.
Salary Professional
bakers can earn
20,000-30,000,
but running your
own business ofers
greater potential.
Key skills Resilience
some people may
not like what you do
or want to stock your
products. Sales skills
and basic accounting
knowledge are
important too.

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one step ahead of the game thanks to
the revival of the social-style model.
The technique codes employees as
green, blue, red or yellow, and is now
enjoying a renaissance, says Carey
Mulqueen of workplace performance
company Tracom. Weve had clients
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Workplaces can be dominated by
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Understand your work personality
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licked. All you have to do is take the
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TAKE THE QUIZ


1. WHEN IM AT WORK

a. Im very independent and


work alone youll rarely nd
me in the bar with colleagues
after hours.
b. Im the rst to suggest a
team lunch or night out, and
get on with all my colleagues.
c. I get annoyed if I dont
tick oR enough jobs on my
to-do list.
d. Im quite vocal to
colleagues about my
thoughts and ideas.

2. WHEN SOLVING A
PROBLEM

a. I like looking at the facts


properly before I make a
nal decision.
b. Ill usually give my friends
or family a call to ask their
opinions on the matter.
c. Im quick at decisionmaking, often doing it alone.
d. I often decide something
in the heat of the moment
and take risks.

3. DURING MEETINGS

a. I dont like going oR


topic and would rather stay
focused than gossip.
b. Im usually the one who
starts talking about what I
did on Saturday night...
c. I dont mess around and
tend to get straight to the
point; the quicker Im out of
there, the better.
d. I love to get creative but
prefer to do it informally,
such as a pre-work
brainstorm over a good
breakfast, or over coRee.

4. IT HELPS ME

a. When people give me


my space and dont ask me
about my personal life.
b. When people make an
eRort to get to know me,
even if its a quick chat by
the photocopier.
c. When people dont waste
my time; Id rather just get
down to business.

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d. When people are as


enthusiastic and excited
about a project as I am.

5. AT WORK, IT IS MOST
IMPORTANT FOR ME TO...

a. Not be wrong.
b. Be the girl who
everyone likes.
c. Get amazing results.
d. Go with the ow.

6. WHEN WORKING
WITH OTHERS, I EXPECT
THEM

a. To be patient, accurate and


deliver on what they promise.
b. To be friendly and have
my back.
c. To be efcient and keep
their head in the game.
d. To be collaborative, fun
and sociable.

Turn the page to nd out


which colour you are

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Mostly As = GREEN

Mostly Bs = BLUE

Hello, high standards and organisation! You have an


Analytical Style. You value facts above all and rarely take
risks. You like order and organisation, a good checklist, and
folders within folders. Fuss and attention? No thanks!
WORK IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Your ability to logically solve problems, and your eye for
facts and gures makes you
the go-to gal for seeing the
bigger picture. Youre clear and
concise, which means youre
always ofering logical options.
IF YOUR COLLEAGUE
IS A GREEN
Avoid going over to their
desk every ve minutes or
bombarding them with emails,
as greens love their space. Cut
to the chase and dont pressure
them for answers. It pays to be
on time with meetings and calls.
If providing feedback, make it
precise and backed by facts.

You have an Amiable Style. Youre a warm people person


and care more about close relationships than results or
inuence. You tend to be laid-back and enjoy working in a
team, which is why trust is so important to you.
WORK IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Network, network, network. Make the most of your
friendly attitude by gaining
the trust and respect of your
colleagues (and your boss).
Youll soon be the most wellconnected person in the oSce!
IF YOUR COLLEAGUE IS A BLUE
Handle any issues you might
have with them in private and
approach conict carefully.
Blues dont tend to voice their
opinions, so look at their body
language, which might better
reveal whether theyre uncertain
about an idea. Prompt a response
by asking them what they think
on the matter.

Mostly Cs = RED

Mostly Ds = YELLOW

You have a Driving Style; youre a practical thinker, want to


move quickly and have the nal say. Youre competitive and
strong-willed, so not someone to be messed with when it
comes to business. In relationships, some might call you a
closed book because you dont easily show emotion.
WORK IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Being enthusiastic and a natural leader means you should
put yourself forward to take
charge when it comes to
projects or discussions. But
dont be too forceful with your
opinions either.
IF YOUR COLLEAGUE IS A RED
Earn their trust by following
up on promises and showing
them that youre competent.
When talking to them or
explaining ideas, leave out
feelings and stick to the facts.
Reds can be quite hard to keep
track of, so arrange regular
meetings to keep up to date
on their progress.

If you have an Expressive Style you are motivated by


recognition and reputation. You tend to be chatty,
ambitious and approachable. Youre fast-paced, continually
excited about the next big idea, but dont ofen commit or
see things through to the end. You may also have a little
drama queen in you.
WORK IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Channel your passion and
persuasiveness into something
positive! Your charm and
condence means youre good at
making presentations.
IF YOUR COLLEAGUE IS A YELLOW
Laugh and lighten up around
them theyll help you see
the bigger work picture. You can
be honest with them; they ofen
make great friends outside of
work. Learn from them and
make the most of their creative
abilities by listening to their
thoughts and opinions, or
channelling their creativity.

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Continue your voyage of self-discovery over at Cosmopolitan.co.uk/quizzes

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STATEMENTS

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Hes
say
Shes
say

His
proposal
went viral
Some called it the
most romantic
proposal ever but
what happened rst?
TIME TOGETHER

Three years
S TAT U S

Engaged
LIVING ARRANGEMENT

INTRODUCING

INTRODUCING

GARTH
CHAMBERLAIN,
28, a project manager
from Zimbabwe

TESS
MONTGOMERY,
30, a model and
blogger from Sweden

How did you meet?


G A R T H Afer rst seeing Tess in our
local pub, I noticed her coming out of a
class at the gym we were both members
of. I had to nd a way of speaking to her,
so went to the class without knowing
what it was it turned out to be yoga.
I persevered, going ve times a week,
until I managed to chat to Tess.

T E S S When this attractive guy with


the most adorable curly hair turned
up at my yoga class, I couldnt stop
looking at him, mostly because he
kept falling over! We ended up talking
afer a class. Then he started turning up
to all my yoga classes they became the
highlight of my week.

How did things develop?


G

We spent a lot of time chatting afer


yoga classes. Then I went to Asia for a
few weeks but spent every day emailing
and messaging Tess, so our relationship
developed long-distance. The night I
got back, we met up for our rst date.

We spent time as friends to begin


with, but I knew there was more to it.
When Garth went travelling, I had time
to think it all through and I knew I
wanted us to date when he got back.

Live together in London

How did Garths engagement video come about?


G

I wanted her to feel special, but I


knew she would suspect something if
I suddenly booked a trip, so I came up
with the idea of booking her on a fake
modelling job. It took months to
organise everything from location to
ights and I wanted to lm the journey.

Celebrating
s
Midsummer ha
tion
become a tradi
Tess
for Garth and

We edited the footage and put it on


YouTube just for friends and family to
see, but it went viral. Im really proud of
it, even though so many people saw my
crying face! We couldnt believe the
media attention. Were getting married
in Zimbabwe on New Years Eve 2014.

What do you love most about each other?


G

Tess is incredibly down to earth and


positive about everything. She knows
exactly what she wants in life and with
that comes a strong determination and
drive thats infectious.

He cares so much about people, and


hes very close to his family and friends.
He makes me laugh every day, no
matter what, so I know I will always
have the best time when Im with him.

Does he/she have any annoying habits?

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Shes always right! And its annoying


to admit that

Yes, hes so messy. And he cooks using


the whole kitchen oor, ceiling, every
worktop and all the pans at once.

Where do you see yourselves in ve years time?


G

Embarking on a new adventure, with


two kids and hopefully with new plans
for the next chapter.

In a new at with a mini Garth and


another baby on the way. And hopefully
a dog, if we can ever agree on a breed.

To see Garths proposal video, go to Cosmopolitan.co.uk/hesaysshesaysromanticproposal

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BY LORNA GRAY

The couple got


engaged on an
Italian island

Brave
enough to let
Cosmo put your
relationship under the
microscope? Send a pic of
the two of you and 100 words
about yourselves to cosmo.
mail@hearst.co.uk with
He Says/She Says as
the subject.

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MEET
THE
EDITORS
Be part of our exclusive
publishing masterclass, where
the UKs biggest editors
will reveal their
insider secrets

ould you love a job in


journalism or online
publishing? Or maybe
you work in PR and
want to know how to pitch a killer
feature? Hearst Magazines UK is hosting
its rst-ever Editors Talk event, allowing
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Whether youre a budding writer,
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our panel of ve editors will teach you
how to pitch a story, create hype around
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Before enjoying a Q&A session with
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with a luxury goody bag. Tickets are
limited, so dont miss out

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LOUISE COURT

Editor-in-Chief, Cosmo

Before joining Cosmo in


February 2007, Louise was
editorial director of ACP-NatMag,
overseeing weekly magazines
Best, Reveal and Real People.
Prior to this, she was editor of
Best after working her way up
through the ranks of newspapers
and womens magazines.

VICTORIA WHITE

WANT TO
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The event is happening at the


Millennium Hotel, 44 Grosvenor Square,
London W1K 2HP, 4 November, from
6pm-9pm. Tickets cost 35. For more
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Editor, Company

Victoria started out doing work


experience at TV Hits then
moved over to Inside Soap.
After stints abroad, she was
deputy editor of B magazine

Mandie
Gower

Sarah Bailey
before moving to Company and
becoming editor in 2003.

SARAH BAILEY

Editor-in-Chief, Red

Starting out as a feature writer


at IPC Media, Sarah worked
her way up to editor of Just
Seventeen. She went on to edit
Elle and launch Elle Girl UK in
2001. After working as deputy
editor of Harpers Bazaar in the
US, she became editor-in-chief
of Red earlier this year.

MANDIE GOWER
Editor, Zest

Mandie has been at the helm


of health and wellbeing

David
Moynihan

bible Zest for ve years, also


launching Zest.co.uk and the
phenomenally successful Zest
Challenge womens running
event. She has previously
worked for magazines in the
UK and abroad, including
Grazia, Elle, Now and OK!.

DAVID MOYNIHAN
Editor, Digital Spy

David has over 10 years


experience in digital media, and
now leads entertainment-news
website Digitalspy.co.uk, which
attracts 14 million monthly
users. Previous editor roles
include IPC Medias NME.com
and Bauers FHM.com.

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The Millennium Hotel is ofering Cosmo readers a 10% discount of


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FASHION SAIREY STEMP. PHOTOGRAPH JOSEPH MONTEZINOS. HAIR MATTHEW WADE AT CAROL HAYES MANAGEMENT, USING WELLA SYSTEM PROFESSIONAL.
MAKEUP SHARON IVE AT CAROL HAYES MANAGEMENT, USING YVES SAINT LAURENT. MODEL MICHELLE S AT MODELS 1. FASHION ASSISTANT SARAH-ROSE HARRISON

Cardigan, 85,
Edwin. Dress, 240,
Gerard Darel. Hat,
350, Rachel Black
Millinery. Scarf,
34.95, Joules.
Necklace, 69.90,
Lola & Grace

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Anyone for tennis? Pastel princess coats are dressed


up with brooches, brogues and pretty frocks
Franziska (left) wears: Coat,
155, Tara Starlet. Shoes,
149.99, Superdry. Socks,
8, Happy Socks. Gloves,
52, Cornelia James. Silver
brooches, 8.50 each, Diva
at Miss Selfridge. Pearl and
bow brooch, 14.50,
Freedom at Topshop.

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Michelle (right) wears:


Coat, 155, Tara Starlet.
Dress, 159, Reiss. Shoes,
69, Dune. Socks, 9,
Burlington at Sockshop.
Gloves, 52, Cornelia James.
Brooches, 12.50 each,
Freedom at Topshop

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Mix things up with


a tweedy jacket and
graphic-print dress
Jacket, 174.99,
Superdry + Timothy
Everest. Dress,
169.99, Reiss

Whether youre a town or a country


girl, knits and orals will play a big
part in your wardrobe this season
Fashion SAIREY STEMP
Photographs JOSEPH MONTEZINOS

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Strike the right note in


a chunky knit layered
over a oaty oral
dress, toughened up
with statement boots

Jumper, 38, Next. Dress,


129, Boden. Boots, 250,
Topshop Unique. Socks,
39, Brora. Scarf, 75,
BeckSndergaard. Belt,
95, Marc Cain. Bag, 375,
Golden Lane

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Digging in! Get stuck into some


bold country plaids, Fair Isle knits and
quilted jackets. Simply marvellous

Franziska (left) wears: Coat,


415, Lavenham Jackets.
Jumper, 295, Brora. Skirt,
40, Asos. Socks, 16, Happy
Socks. Hat, 250,
Rachel Black Millinery.

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Michelle (right) wears:


Coat, 279.95, Barbour.
Dress, 135, Toast. Scarf,
89, Quinton & Chadwick
at Anthropologie

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The horse mistress. A cape-cum-coat is


the perfect country cover-up

Izzi (left) wears: Jacket,


220, Joules. Hat, 39,
Rokit. Scarf, 250,
Rosemary Goodenough.
Franziska (right) wears:
Coat, 314.99, Gloverall
at Surfdome. Trousers,

120

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375, Vivienne
Westwood Red Label.
Boots, 110, OVce. Hat,
118, Pachacuti at
Anthropologie. Gloves,
39.95, Barbour

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Fresh from a
walk in the garden
in a checked
mini trench and
suede boots
Coat, 370, Tommy
Hilger. Trousers,
160, MiH. Boots,
165, Camper.
Scarf, 89, Toast

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Making a splash in
berry-coloured cords
and boots, and a sleek
embroidered jacket
Jacket, 895; jeans,
160, both MiH. Jumper,
90, Hilger Denim.
Boots, 60, Next. Bag,
139, Twist & Tango at
Anthropologie

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Anyone for tea?
Dress down a
oral tea dress
with a chunky
pale bomber
jacket and
brogues
Izzi (left) wears:
Jacket, 300,
Lavenham Jackets.
Jeans, 44.99,
Superdry. Boots,
74.95, Barbour.
Scarf, 250,
Rosemary
Goodenough.
Franziska (right)
wears: Jacket,
475; dress, 180;
belt, 22, all
Topshop Unique.
Shoes, 149.99,
Superdry

Hair: Matthew Wade


at Carol Hayes
Management, using
Wella System
Professional.
Makeup: Sharon Ive at

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Carol Hayes
Management, using
Yves Saint Laurent.
Models: Franziska and
Michelle S at Models 1.
Fashion Assistant:

Sarah-Rose Harrison.
With thanks to Izzi
Denby-Jones, Scooter
and Benson.
Location courtesy of
Jjlocations.com

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In
EXCESS
Dripping in sequins, resplendent in studs
when too much is just perfect

Fashion
SHELLY VELLA
Photographs
IRIS BROSCH
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Dress, 50, Dorothy


Perkins. Shoes, 125,
Dune. Short necklace,
249, Nocturne. Long
necklace, 475,
Akong London at
Caratime. Ring, 310,
Katie Rowland

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Coat, 281; dress,


380, both Hoss
Intropia. Boots, 195,
Karen Millen. Bag, 495,
Aspinal Of London.
Necklace, 394, Mawi

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Dress, 766, Hunkydory.


Bracelet, 435, MFP
at Caratime

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Dress, 449, Michael


Michael Kors. Shoes,
875, Christian
Louboutin. Earring
(just seen), 97; bangle,
122, both Maria Black

128

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Dress, 440, Vilshenko.


Shoes (just seen),
49, Miss Selfridge.
Necklaces, from
258.66, Persy. Ring
(just seen), 399,
Wonsuponatime.com

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Dress, 119, Per Una at


Marks & Spencer. Shoes,
75, Miss Selfridge.
Clutch (on piano), 475,
Lulu Guinness. Necklace,
140, Rachel Entwhistle.
Rings, from 140,
Maria Nilsdotter

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Dress, 1,300, Vivienne
Westwood Red Label.
Earring, 62, Maria
Black. Ring, 399,
Wonsuponatime.com
Makeup Vicky Steckel
at Judy Casey, using
Illamasqua.
Hair Miok at Judy Casey,
using Wella Professional.
Model Katerina
at Supreme.
Fashion Assistant
Holly Coopey
With thanks to
John Parkinson Agency,
Annee Elliot, and Paige
and Ahnika at The House
of Collection

For behind-the-scenes
footage of this shoot, go
to Cosmopolitan.co.uk/
inexcessfashion

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Jacket, 59; skirt,


45, both Twiggy for
M&S Collection. Shoes
(just seen), 185,
LK Bennett. Belt, 110,
Hoss Intropia. Clutch,
295, Lulu Guinness.
Ring, 34, Lola Rose
Boutique

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Megan wears: Coat,
248, Jigsaw. Slip, 35,
Autograph at Marks &
Spencer. Necklace,
350, Romana Cristini.
Corey wears: Cardigan,
89; shirt, 79;
trousers, 395 (part
of suit), all Reiss
Megan wears: Jacket,
624; skirt, 250;
bag, 634; pendant
necklace, 80, all
Vivienne Westwood
Red Label. Shoes,
395, Christian
Louboutin. Necklace,
45, Stella & Dot.
Corey wears: Suit,
395; shirt, 79, both
Reiss. Tie (just seen),
10, Topman

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Jumper, 995; trousers


(just seen), 450;
gloves, 175; bag,
4,500, all Mulberry

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Megan wears: Dress,


50, River Island.
Shoes, 155, Karen
Millen. Belt, 90, Black
& Brown London.
Bracelet, 88,
Nocturne. Corey wears:
Suit; shirt, as before.
Tie, 55, Jaeger
Megan wears: Coat,
170, Paul & Joe Sister.
Dress, 799, Rachel
Gilbert. Shoes, 450,
Christian Louboutin.
Corey wears: Suit,
825; shirt, 170, both
Vivienne Westwood
Man. Tie, 40, Reiss

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Coat, 335, Marc Cain.


Jumper, 38; trousers,
28, both Principles
by Ben de Lisi at
Debenhams . Shoes,
250, Carlo Pazolini.
Bag (on chair), 595,
Aspinal Of London
Megan wears: Dress,
310, Hoss Intropia.
Bag, 1,195, Coach. Ring,
146, Dannijo.
Corey wears: Shirt,
190; trousers, 220,
both Canali

Makeup: Brian Duprey at


Judy Casey, using Mac Pro.
Hair: Rodney Graves at Ray
Brown, using Oribe.
Models: Megan McNierney at
One, Corey Wallace at DNA.
Fashion Assistant:
Holly Coopey
With thanks to BA Reps
and Starr Interiors
For a behind-the-scenes
peek at this shoot, see
Cosmopolitan.co.uk/
hitchcockheroine

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Rollable ats that t in your bag. rollasole.com


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Instaglam

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Faux-fur
stole, 25,
River Island

Shoes, 50, River Island

Earrings,
7.99, New
Look

Corset, 60, Von


Follies by Dita
Von Teese at
Debenhams ..
Skirt, 65, Tara
Starlet. Gloves,
89, Dents

Dress, 50,
Principles by
Ben de Lisi at
Debenhams

Top, 22,
M&Co

Get Hitch-ed!
Hold them spellbound in the
most stylish workwear

Coat, 80,
Red Herring at
Debenhams

Coat,
99,
Monsoon

Dress,
65,
Topshop

Jumper,
10,
Primark

Dress,
28,
Next

PHOTOGRAPH TOM CORBETT. STYLING SHELLY VELLA.


COMPILED BY HOLLY COOPEY AND CLARE SMITH

Trousers,
129,
Marks &
Spencer

Bag,
65, Dune

Necklace,
49, House
Of Fraser

Skirt, 40, Yumi


Skirt, 35,
Dorothy
Perkins

Shoes, 50,
Ofce

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195,
Maison
Scotch

85, Next

78, Topshop

142

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75, Next

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635, Theory at
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120, Wallis

134.99,
Superdry

Military
trench-style

75, Principles by Ben de


Lisi for Debenhams

129,
Boden

58.99, Missguided
75, Bhs

Smart-coat solutions for


when the weather turns sour

24.99,
H&M

275, Jaeger

395, LK
Bennett

110, J Jasper
for Designers at
Debenhams

229,
Ted
Baker

495, Desa
450,
G-Star
Raw

695, Burberry Brit


at My Wardrobe

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30,
Boohoo
97, French
Connection

350, Karen
Millen

250, Hardware
LDN at Topshop

29, Love
Label at Very

59.99, Bank

45, New Look

Biker-bomber
Pep up your wardrobe with the

60,
Next

perfect in-between-seasons jacket

315, Wrangler
165, Three
Floor

69, Wallis
59.95, Gap

100,
River
Island

55, M&Co

214.99,
Superdry

144

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Twenty8Twelve

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79,
Marks &
Spencer

482, Eley
Kishimoto

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99, Minju Kim for


H&M Design Award

85, Asos

Colour
code
Brighten up your daily commute
from palest pink to cool blue
299,
Boutique
by Jaeger

110,
Asos

85,
Marks &
Spencer

239,
Toast

299, Ted Baker


265,
Jigsaw

270,
Maison
Scotch

195, French
Connection

85, Topshop

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295, LK
Bennett

145

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275, LK Bennett

40, Matalan

480,
Mackintosh
275,
Karen
Millen

60,
Topshop
299,
Ted
Baker
215.95,
Maison
Scotch

75, Urban
Outtters

Tweeds and plaids


Punky plaid or country-classic
tweed? Well take both

380, Harris
Tweed at My
Wardrobe

330, Tommy Hilger

50, New
Look

146

657, Carven at My Wardrobe

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299,
Somerset
by Alice
Temperley

79, Fearne
for Very

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Casual
cool
Shrug on one of these of-duty

265, CK
Calvin
Klein Jeans

jackets for easy weekend wear

415, Zoe Karssen

58,
Dorothy
Perkins
130, Hilger
Denim

250,
Emu

49.99,
New Look

64.99,
Bank

395,
Timberland
149,
Mango

160,
Peneld

149.99,
Superdry

35, Matalan
75, Topshop

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165, French
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SARAH HARRISON. STILL LIFES 3 OBJECTIVES

65,
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l
k
y
w
t
t o c ur v
a
C
This autumn, Laura Puddy
is rocking curve-loving prints

PHOTOGRAPHS STUDIO 33, IMAXTREE

Prints, prints, prints


There are loads of accessible brands
with great A/W patterns. My go-to
places include Asos, Evans, Marks &
Spencer and River Island.

k
wit
ared bac
Go bold
others p
e
th
p
e
e
and k

THE COAT

A great buy for


winter: leopard +
black is always a
winner. Coat, 95,
Marks & Spencer

THE SKIRT

Recreate
Burberrys
runway look by
adding a neutral
top to this figure
flatterer. Skirt,
30, River Island

THE DRESS

Team this
with a longer
necklace to
create a
flattering
V-shape.
Dress,
45, Asos

Laura wears:
Jumper, 65,
Clements
Ribeiro for
Evans. Jeans,
40, Topshop.
Shoes and
jewellery, all
Lauras own

ROLAND MOURET

JUST CAVALLI

DKNY

AS SEEN AT

BURBERRY

ofen get asked about wearing


prints should curvy girls
embrace them or steer clear?
My advice is to go with what
feels comfortable, whether that
means adding a printed accessory to a
classic jeans-and-T-shirt combo or going
all out in head to toe.
On the A/W13 catwalks, we saw
everything from leopard print
to houndstooth; camouage
to polka dots. So why
not experiment?
The Burberry show
illustrated how to mix
leopard print with classic
pieces: a printed skirt
with a plain top, and the
classic trench with
leopard-print arms.
When wearing prints,
just remember shape as
well as proportion. In this
picture Im wearing a fab
jumper from the Clements
Ribeiro Swan Collection
for Evans. Its slightly
oversized and, in order to
maintain a streamlined
silhouette, Ive kept the rest of my
outt simple with skinny jeans and
heels Ive made it all about the
printed jumper.
Print can be a great way to disguise
areas that you dont want to highlight by
emphasising the ones youre proud of.
Roland Mouret, for example, famed for
the hourglass Galaxy dress, used ashes
of leopard to create the illusion of a
sculpted shape perfect for curvy gures.
You can combine prints with plain too.

OUT S!
CHECK
UTItEpiece
A
E
B
E
S
THE h one statemen ...

SCARED OF PRINTS? THE


ANSWER IS ACCESSORIES
Bag, 75,
Asos

Boots, 69,
Marks & Spencer

Scarf, 7.99,
New Look
Follow Laura
on Twitter
@Stylaura

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STYLE

Cosmo is coming to an intu


shopping centre near you
to help you create the best
autumn wardrobe ever!

very autumn, we cant wait to get


our hands on the new-season styles.
Thankfully, help is at hand:
Cosmo is teaming up with intu to oer
you the chance to nd the perfect autumn
wardrobe. With FREE Autumn Style
Clinics, youll get one-to-one advice from
style experts on the latest new-season trends.
The experts will be on hand to help you
nd everything from stylish coats and
chunky knits to party dresses, so you stay
chic in the colder weather. Lets not forget
the accessories either, from the best boots to
the coolest heels. And with access to our
fave fashion brands like Topshop, River
Island, H&M and Dorothy Perkins, youll
be guaranteed the best wardrobe options to
see you through autumn/winter with ease.
Centre dates: intu Braehead 14-17 October
| intu Eldon Square 18-19 October | intu
Watford 19-20 October | intu Lakeside
18-20 October | intu Bromley 19-20 October
| intu Chapeleld 24-27 October | intu
Victoria Centre 25-27 October | intu
Metrocentre 1-3 November | intu Uxbridge
2-3 November | intu Potteries 9-10 November

Find your nearest intu


Autumn Style Clinic

The intu Autumn Style Clinics will be


appearing at intu shopping centres
across the country (see above). You can
book your FREE one-on-one style
consultations with a top stylist, who
will help you nd the coolest shades
and styles for autumn. Simply go to
intu.co.uk/styleclinic and book your
slot. Heres to the perfect
autumn capsule wardrobe!

Jumper,
35.99, Zara.
Skirt, 8,
Primark. Heels,
29.99,
New Look

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38, both
Topshop

Coat,
65, Next.
T-Shirt, 7.99,
H&M. Jeans,
22.99; belt,
2.99, both
New Look
Heels,
39.99, Zara

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Island. Trousers, 5,
Primark. Heels, 39,
Debenhams. Clutch,
15.99,
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HOw
DO I
wear...

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The boyfriend
jean took to
the ramp at
Watanabes
A/W13 show

BOYFRIEND
JEANS?

Take on the trends with a little help


from #TeamCosmo
Senior Fashion
Stylist Clare
Smith wears:
Blazer, 42; top,
18, both Dorothy
Perkins. Jeans,
38, Asos. Shoes,
60, Schuh

AHEAD
OF THE
CURVE

When youre curvier, wider


legs and relaxed ts can
sometimes add width, which
isnt always the most attering;
opt instead for a slimmer
straight-leg style. And a rip high
on the thigh will draw attention
there, so go for distressed denim
at the knees and below.

Fashion Coordinator
Holly Coopey wears:
Shirt, 85, Gant.
Jumper, 38, Next.
Jeans, 210, MiH
Jeans. Shoes,
62, Ofce

Fashion Stylist
Laura Puddy wears:
Coat, 375, Jaeger.
T-shirt, 12, New
Look . Jeans, 45,
Topshop. Shoes,
130, French Sole.
Rucksack, 30,
Boohoo . Necklace,
89, Lola Rose
Boutique

SMALL
AND SEXY

LONG
AND LEAN

If youre petite, really baggy


boyfriend jeans can make you look
too childlike. Sex them up with a slick
tted top and sky-high heels to
elongate your frame. Make sure your
jeans hug your hips and bum just
slightly, and roll them up to show
of a bit more skin and make
your legs look longer.

If you have long legs, dont be scared


to rock a full-on baggy jean. Invest in a
great pair that will look good with
age. Just be careful of oversizing
everything in case your clothes swallow
you up or make you look a size larger.
Plus, dark colours give an overall
slimming efect.

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HOW THE
A-LIST
WEAR IT

Ultimate grunge
queen GWEN
STEFANI opts
for rock-chick
distressed denim

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N
FULL-O

105, Levi's

DO

team with
heels to
lengthen
the leg

New York
hot property
OLIVIA
PALERMO
rolls up her
Paige jeans
for downtown
daytime chic

DONT

oversize
everything

75,
Somedays
Lovin

DO

work a darker
wash for a more
attering
silhouette

70, Firetrap at
House Of Fraser

SL
MASIGHTLY
CULI
NE

35, Marks
& Spencer

24.99,
New Look

DONT

For the perfect


casual vibe,
channel JESSICA
ALBA with a
quirky knit and
ballet pumps

110, Gant

cut of your
legs with
closed ankle
boots

150, Amsterdams Blauw


by Maison Scotch

DO

GIRL
MEETS
BOY

dress them
up with sexy
sky-high
heels
42,
Warehouse

29,
Love Label
at Very

ASHLEY TISDALE
keeps it supercomfy with a
slouchy salt
n pepper tee

156

42,
Topshop
KOURTNEY
KARDASHIAN
wears a slimmer
boyfriend style
with timeless
accessories

DONT

131,
DKNY Jeans

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show some skin
with rips or
turn-ups

228
Genetic at
Harrods

BY CLARE SMITH, LAURA PUDDY AND HOLLY COOPEY. PHOTOGRAPHS IMAXTREE, REX FEATURES

We can't stop
loving MILEY
CYRUSs
two-tone denim.
She does what
she wants to!

100,
Wrangler

45,
River
Island

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LIVE LIFE

IN COLOUR
Where better to celebrate Schwarzkopf s revolutionary
new home-hair colour than New York City, home to trend
trailblazers and cutting-edge fashion. With hair this bold and
vibrant, you can make your own rules
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URBAN
LEGEND

ove over ombr, this


season were lusting
aer the colour-block
dip-dye. Its bold, its
rebellious and its unapologetically
urban. What better way to achieve
ultimate stand-out than LIVE Color
XXL HD in Max Blonde, clashed with
LIVE Color XXL Ultra Brights Shocking
Pink for super-sexy, hot-pink intensity?
Using breakthrough high-denition
colour technology, the formula saturates
every single strand with bold colour
for maximum vibrancy. Its never been
easier to get the uber-cool look at home!

GET INTENSE

1
2

Blonde beginnings Already blonde?


Start by separating your hair into four
sections, and tie a rubber hair band
around each section, just above where you
want the colour to start.
Shock tactics Apply Ultra Brights
Shocking Pink to each of the tied
sections. Massage it through so that
each section is completely covered, and
blend just under the band to avoid a straight
line. Leave the colour on for the recommended
time and then rinse.
Out of the dark Going blonde rst? Use
Max Blonde to lighten your natural
colour up to 8 shades. Apply to dry hair.
Leave for the recommended developing time,
rinse and towel dry. Follow steps 1&2 to nish
the look.
Untamed texture Spritz got2b Beach
Matt Texturising Salt Spray on damp
hair and scrunch the hair in your hands
both before and while blow-drying, to achieve
the ultimate tousled style.

3
4

DRESS QUIZ CLOTHING

LIVE Color XXL HD Max


Blonde, 5.49; Ultra Brights
Shocking Pink, 5.49;
got2b Texturising Salt
Spray, 4.07

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HEARTBREAKER

TOP, NEW LOOK. SKIRT, GOLDIE LONDON. SUNGLASSES, MARC JACOBS. GLOVES, NEXT. NECKLACE AND BRACELET, FREEDOM AT TOPSHOP. SCARF, STYLIST'S OWN

s there anything sexier than


scarlet hair? Choosing to go red
sends a powerful message
its the colour of love, passion
and condence. The revolutionary new
LIVE Color XXL HD in Scandalous
Scarlet is the perfect choice for natural
blondes. Romantic and strong, its the
energy kick you need to burn bright in
the city. With its new high-performance
HD formula, which uses the very latest
vibrant colour technology, you get
permanent colour with exceptional
shine and fade resistance. Red has never
looked this good and for so long!

GET SCANDALOUS

Red hot Divide your hair into four


sections along a centre parting and from
ear to ear. Starting with the back left
section, apply the colour mixture to your hair.
Repeat for each section, ensuring complete
coverage from root to tip. Leave to develop
for the recommended time before rinsing.
Shine bright Shiny hair = healthy hair;
apply the conditioning after treatment
to amplify your colour and achieve the
ultimate high-shine nish.
Finish in style Distribute a palm-sized
amount of got2b 2 Sexy Volumizing
Spray Mousse into your roots and
lengths. Now tip your head up and blow-dry
your hair using a round brush, for a relaxed,
textured nish.

2
3

got2b 2 Sexy Spray Mousse,


4.07; LIVE Color XXL HD
Scandalous Scarlet 5.49
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QUEEN
OF THE
NIGHT

hat makes New York so


exciting is that, from
Brooklyn to the East
Village, its about being
dierent, not blending in. And if you crave
the unexpected and unconventional, violet
is the colour for you. LIVE Color XXL HD
Luminance Ultra Violet is specially
developed for use on naturally darker hair.
Theres nothing standard about this shade;
it lightens and colours in one go, taking
you into a high-denition world of vibrant
but totally wearable colour. Perfect for
dark-haired girls who dont want to be
pigeonholed. The result? A head-turning
shade for free spirits everywhere.
JACKET, NEW LOOK. DRESS, JUICY COUTURE. CLUTCH, NEXT. EARRINGS, SWAROVSKI. BRACELETS, FREEDOM AND NEW LOOK

GET VIBRANT

1
2

Out of the dark Simply mix the LIVE


Luminance colour cream with the
developer lotion and apply a full head
application no extra steps required.
Remember your roots When your colour
starts to grow out, top up with a root
regrowth application apply two thirds
of the mixture to the regrowth area and leave
to develop for 20 mins. Apply the rest of the
mixture to the mid-lengths and ends of your hair,
leave for a further 10 mins and rinse.
Dial up the volume Finish the look by
spritzing got2b Guardian Angel Heat
Protection Spray onto damp hair and
blow-dry with a large, round brush for a bouncy
nish. For added oomph and texture, sprinkle
Got2b Powderful Volumizing Styling Powder on
the roots, and massage in with your ngers.

LIVE Color XXL HD Luminance


Ultra Violet, 5.49; got2b
Guardian Angel Heat
Protection Spray, 4.07

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Now your hair is colour-licious, keep the intensity and become your
own urban legend with a little help from got2b

HOT HAIR TIPS

Armin Morbach, top


stylist and Schwarzkopf
ambassador, shares his
essential styling tips
The great thing about vibrant
colours is they actually
suit everyone the key is
experimenting with shades that inspire you.
Its all in the cut edgy statement
styles (eg, pixie crops; faux hawks) or
a more modern shoulder-length cut are
great ways to show o bold hair colour.

2
3

Keep your colour fresh. In-between


permanent applications of red shades,
you can boost your colour by adding a
small amount of semi-permanent Ultra Brights
Pillar Box Red to your conditioner.
The trick for on-trend styling is to look
like you havent tried too hard for an
undone daytime look, try letting your
hair dry naturally, or use a curling iron to
create a bit of extra texture (got2b Powderful
and Beach Matt Salt Spray are perfect for
nishing this look).

HOW-TO HAIR

Dont just dream it do it! To see how Cosmo readers got the New York look at home,
watch their how-to videos at Cosmopolitan.co.uk/schwarzkopf. And why not become a fan
and nd out more at Facebook.com/schwarzkopivecolorxxl.

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LIVE Color XXL Ultra Brights


Pillar Box Red, 5.49; got2b
Powderful Volumizing Styling
Powder, 4.07
got2b Oil-Licious Styling
Oil, 4.07

ENSURE YOU CONDUCT AN ALLERGY ALERT TEST 48 HOURS BEFORE


EACH TIME YOU COLOUR

WORK THE MAGIC

BLOUSE, GOLDIE LONDON. SUNGLASSES, ZARA. NECKLACE, FREEDOM AT TOPSHOP

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110,
Karen
Millen

95,
Whistles
195,
Coach

125,
Russell &
Bromley

Finishing
touches

155,
French Sole

Get straight to
the point in these
fancy ats

BY CLARE SMITH. PHOTOGRAPHS STUDIO 33

55, Schuh

155,
LK
Bennett

69,
Dune
55,
OCce

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Behind
CLOSED DOORS
he new launch from Figleaves
is every girls dream - a shop
within a shop where you can
be tantalized by the most
risqu designs in complete privacy.
Erotique behind closed doors, is an
exciting new online boutique on
Figleaves.com, oering the new lingerie
collection Figleaves London covering
all shades of sensuality. Be seduced by
luxurious lace, delicate details and sheer
fabrics to tempt and tease, with only the
most luxurious, seductive lingerie brands
that are sure to unleash your bedroom
condence. Take inspiration straight from
the pages of your favourite erotica novels
with the Fifty Shades Collection,
including blindfolds, handcus, stockings
and feather ticklers, complete with
stunning, feminine details. Browse
sensational designs from Bluebella,
Marlies Dekkers, Maison Close and
Implicite. Weve all felt transformed in
beautiful lingerie that we wouldnt usually
wear, so let your condence soar with a
treat from Erotique.

Bra,28; briefs, 14,


both Bluebella
Bow, 64, Aubade

Bra, 56; G-string,


34, both
Maison Close

G-string-back
body, 34,
Bluebella

Lustworthy lingerie

You can nd the answer to all your


lingerie needs at Figleaves.com
From luxury nightwear to the perfect
lingerie for any occasion. The new
Erotique boutique has the most sensual
designs from a variety of brands that
you can browse online at your leisure in
the comfort of your own home. Cosmo
readers even get an exclusive 10% o
and free delivery*! Just use the code
COSMOES13 at checkout. Treat yourself
to something youd blush to buy in-store
from Erotique at Figleaves.com!

Bra, 48; briefs,


26, both Implicite

figleaves

EROTIQUE

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APPLY. SEE PROMO CODE TERMS AND CONDITIONS AT WWW.FIGLEAVES.COM.

Treat yourself to something more risqu with cheeky-chic designs


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suspenders, 28, all Bluebella

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NCE UPON A TIME, IN A LAND


FA R AWAY , T H E R E L I V E D A V E RY P R E T T Y
G I R L W I T H A V E RY P R E T T Y P O N Y

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B E F O R E

Instaglam

YOU

E AT Y O U R A P P L E ,
CACKLED THE WITCH,

YOU

MUST TELL

ME HOW YOU DID YOUR


H A I R ; I T S S I M P LY
D I V I N E !

Dress, Rachel Gilbert.


Ring, Maria Nilsdotter

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H a n g f r o m
m y H a i r ? r a p u n z e l
called down.
youve got to
be kidding
tHis took me ages
t o p l a i t !

Top, Day Birger et Mikkelsen.


Hairpin, Basia Zarzycka

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Instaglam

Da i ly

trips to the salon, the


u g ly s i s t e r s j u s t
c ou l d n t g e t t h e i r h a i r
as sleek anD smooth
as

C i n D e r s .

Dress, Next.
Ear cuf, Thomas Sabo

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The Three Bears


didnT give a

da m n a B o u T T h e i r
porridge; They
jusT couldnT
k e e p T h e i r paw s
off

goldilocks
hair.

Dress, Vivienne Westwood.


Earrings, Alex Monroe

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U N RU LY R A P U N Z E L

HAIR PETER LUX AT FRANK AGENCY, USING HEAD & SHOULDERS. MAKEUP LISA VALENCIA AT CAROL HAYES, USING NARS. MODEL JOANNA STUBBS AT MODELS 1

THE SNOWBALL BRAID


Part your hair from ear to
ear, joining in a point at the
back of the crown. You can
use the end of a tailcomb for
this. Peter Lux, creator of
these ponies, used a length
of black elastic to tie this
top section of hair, snipping
the ends oa after knotting.
Gather a small section of
hair underneath the rst
section and attach it to the
original pony, using a second
piece of elastic wrapped an
inch or two below the rst.
Repeat until you reach the
middle of the tail, teasing the
sections of hair out between
each wrap of elastic to create
a spinal eaect down the neck.
Backcomb the ends of the
pony for volume, gently
running straighteners
through to set, before
adding more backcomb.

HAPPY

CINDERS SLEEK
Blow-dry your
To go behind
hair using a
the scenes at
round naturalour ponytail sh
oot,
bristle brush.
visit Cosmopol
itan.
Metal bristles get
co.uk/magical
too hot and
ponytails
frazzle the hair,
opening its cuticles
and banishing shine.
Tip your head upside
down and brush your hair
into a high ponytail. Peter
used a piece of elastic
again, wrapping it around
the base to secure.
If you want a dramatic
swish like our heroine,
continue to wrap sections
of elastic from the base
upwards, leaving a gap of a
few inches between each.
Slick the hair against
your head with a waterbased pomade for a sleek,
wet-look nish (see our
Redken recommendation
in the box below).

PONY
FOR PREP
WITH BENEFITS
Alterna Caviar CC
Cream Leave-In
Hair Perfector,
24.95

Create a small, front side


part and gather a section of
hair into three equal strands,
to plait across the forehead
and around.
For a reverse French braid
(one that sits on the top of
the head), send the outside
strands under (not over) the
middle strand, alternating
left and right. Dont plait
too tightly, warns Peter.
Keep the look relaxed.
Add strands from the
sides of the head to each
outside strand before
weaving it under, so that
all your hair is pulled in.
Start a similar but smaller
braid above your left ear,
working it into the main
one when you reach it.
Continue plaiting to the
end of the tail and muss it up
by gently pulling out tufts.

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Create a similar side


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clipping the front section
of hair to one side.
Curl hair all over using
jumbo tongs (Peters were
38mm) on 2in sections at a
time. The roots should
make contact with the
tong rst and the ends
should wrap around last;
younger hair needs more
heat than the older, drier
hair at the ends.
Backcomb the top
section and gather all the
hair into a low side pony.
Unclip the front section
and brush down into a low
side fringe, wrapping the
ends around the elastic.
Havent got enough
hair? Try a clip-in hair
extension at the nape, or a
clip-in ponytail piece (try
Hothair.co.uk).

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Fresh, wrinkle-free skin its not a lot to ask for.


Getting it is about to become a whole lot easier

by I n g eb o rg va n Lot rI n g en

ifeen years ago no one


would have believed
injecting your face with
poison would be a
common treatment for
beating wrinkles. Then
came Botox and a generation of scary
women who couldnt move their faces.
Now with an incredible 22billion
earmarked for anti-ageing research over
the coming years, some of whats to
come sounds like an episode of Star
Trek yes, you will actually be able to
print 3D skin cells to pretty up your
face. And with author of the book The
Ageless Generation Alex Zhavoronkov
predicting Those in their twenties and
thirties today can expect not only to live
to a healthy 150, but look pretty good
too, we thought wed discover exactly
what this means for the skincare
products on your shelf.

Genius genes
Gene technology is a big buzz term in
skincare. Put simply, it allows beauty
companies to observe exactly how
skincare ingredients aTect the behaviour
of your skins genes, including those that
help slow down the ageing process.
The results in some cases are almost
too good. Science writer Vivienne Parry
says,Already, some skincare is more
eTective than it can let on: anything that
modies the way skin functions must be
classed as a medicine. If this denition
doesnt get reassessed, we might need
prescriptions for all our favourite
potions in future!
In years to come, Vivienne predicts
that well eventually be able to buy
skincare products that are specically
tailored to work on our own individual
set of genes. Start saving now.

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skn prep
SEE
OVER

Priori Cellular
Recovery Serum,
92, uses repair
enzymes to
reverse
free-radical
damage to skin
cells DNA and
genes.

LOccitane Divine
Cream, 69 ,
has a complex of
seven botanicals
proven to activate
skin genes.

Aromatherapy
Associates Rose
Innity Eye
Cream, 60, has
DNA-repairing
yeast extract
and a host of
other plumping,
smoothing
actives.

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Lancer The
Method: Polish,
60, works
thanks to daily
exfoliation and is
applied before its
cleanser and
nourishing cream.

Stem cells, anyone?


Skincare is obsessed right now with
stimulating our self-renewing stem cells
in a bid to help skin regenerate. Look for
creams with a blend of peptides. Favoured
by experts, sources include (but arent
limited to) plant stem cells. Epidermal
growth factor is another skin protein
released by stem cells; it dramatically
plumps the skins top layer but, says
dermatologist Dr Nick Lowe,There is a
big drawback. If there are cancer cells on
the skin, theyll be stimulated as much
as your healthy epidermal cells. Maybe
not worth the risk, then!
Beyond creams, theres the
idea of taking stem cells or
Zelens Stem
Complex, 185,
is a highly
advanced skinstem-cellboosting cocktail.

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growth factors from one part of your


body and introducing them to the
skin. Its the inspiration behind the
Kim Kardashian-favoured vampire
facial, where a serum made from your
own white blood cells is injected
all over your face. Dr Marko Lens, a
reconstructive surgeon, is not impressed.
You cant substitute one growth factor
for another and expect it to work, he
says. But Alex thinks it will one day:
We already have the technology to
reprogramme any stem cells to act like
skin stem cells, he says.We just need
to discover the right way to get
them into the skin.

S-em
creams
Bio EYect EGF
Serum, 125,
mimics the skins
own epidermal
growth factors.

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The peptides in
gardenia plant stem
cells power Neals
Yard Remedies
Frankincense
Intense, 55.

Declor Prolagne
Lift Peeling Gel,
46.50, uses fruit
acids to dissolve
dirt, prepping skin
for creams.

La Roche-Posay
Redermic R
Treatment, 29.50,
teams retinol with
a gentle exfoliant
for deep delivery.

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Hurrah! The future is


skincare, not surgery
The big trend among celebrities is
quality skincare, not procedures, says
Dr Harold Lancer, dermatologist to half
of Hollywood.They dont want
anything that changes their face; what
they want is skin of exceptional quality.
I teach them to achieve that with the
right regime. His method (the one
Oprah and the Beckhams attribute their
glowy faces to) involves exfoliating daily.
This improves the absorption of active
ingredients, and kick-starts the cell
communication [cells really do send

Power
naturals

messages among themselves, and the


initial call to action happens on the
skins surface] that leads to collagen
production, says Harold. Leading
cosmetic chemist Joe Lewis echoes this:
Gentle exfoliation [hes a fan of lactic
acid, which, despite its name, dissolves
dead skin cells in a gentle way] and
quality skincare [look out for fatty acids,
peptides, antioxidants and liposomes]
are key to plumper, beautiful skin. Save
the lasers and skin-needling for getting
rid of scars. Thats us told.

?
g
s
tc
The end of

I believe non-surgical
procedures will take
over from invasive ones
(ie, where you go under the knife),
as theyre getting ever better at
reversing skin damage before you
can even see it, says Nick. He
rates these new kids on the block:
Revance: A botulinum toxin
gel dabbed on skin by a doctor. It
works just like the injectable
version and lasts for months. Its
especially good for areas where
you dont want to inject deeply,
for example, crows feet.
ATX-101: An injectable, fatdissolving salt solution designed
to tighten small, stubborn pockets
of fat, such as double chins. It
shows very good results and
should be approved this year.
Intracel: Radiofrequency
delivered through microneedles
for super-targeted treatment. It
heats up skin to kick-start major
cell regeneration, but very
precisely. Great for issues such as
stretch marks and sagging.

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There was a time when plant-based


skincare was thought to hydrate and
not much else, but natural brands are
on a mission to prove their plants
have true anti-ageing powers.
Fran Johnson from Neals Yard
Remedies explains, Consumer
interest in plant power, combined
with demand for products that really
work, has led to huge investment in
advanced research.
While natural brands such as Neals
Yard, LOccitane and Jurlique spend
heavily on clinical studies and gene
technology, high-tech skincare
purveyors such as Este Lauder,
Lancme and Zelens are launching
plant-based face oils. Certain oils,
such as rosehip and chia seeds, are
extremely high in essential fatty
acids, says Marko. Theyre so similar
to the skins own lipids that they
dont only heal and nourish its
protective lipid barrier, but also play
a part in skin-cell regeneration. Alex
agrees: A lack of unsaturated fatty
acids ages cells and skin. The more
you consume or apply, the better.

Ppotons
lant
Jurlique Herbal Recovery
Advanced Serum, 45,
uses a bio-intrinsic
process to squeeze every
last active ingredient out
of its 18 botanicals.

Pai Echium
& Amaranth
Age
Condence
Face Oil,
46, is a
blend of
some of
the most
healing
plant oils.

Dont forget your SPF:


a new study shows that
simply applying any
broad-spectrum SPF15
sunscreen for three
months has signicant
rejuvenating eTects.

We love Dr Nick Lowe Anti


Age Super Charged SPF15
Day Cream, 17.49

Tisserand Professional
Clarify Facial Oil, 12,
repairs and clears with
chia seed and purifying
essential oils.

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THE HAIR DIET PUT


TO THE TEST
Cosmo reader Emma
volunteered to put her hair on
The Great British Hair Diet.
Emma is a self-confessed
heat-styling obsessive, and her
plan was based on restoring the
shine lost to heat damage. Her
hair BMI came out at 16, and
she was given a mixture of hair
heroes from Pantenes Repair &
Protect Strength & Shine range.
Her plan included the 1 Minute
Wonder Ampoules, as loved by
Danilo, for a shot of healthy
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within. The Great British Hair Diet


eve all picked at a salad
works on a points system; you get
in an attempt to squeeze
recommended a weekly number of
into an unforgiving party
Pro-Vitamin points, followed by the right
dress, but should our hair
products to hit your points target. So are
be getting the same kind of attention?
you ready for your Pro-Vitamin x?
Pantene Pro-V the brand that believes
great hair is healthy hair has launched
The Great British Hair Diet: an online
hair tool that recommends the best hair Once youve received your hair diet,
diet for you.
you might want to think
Just as many of us turn to
about other ways to
vitamins to boost a
improve the health of
healthy diet, vitaminyour hair. Pantene
enriched hair
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Take a break from
products such as
Danilo warns that
straighteners. If you
Pantene Pro-V can
even thick hair with
really need to use
noticeably transform
natural strength
them, spray on some
unhappy hair thats
should be brushed
Pantene Pro-V Heat
crying out for shine.
and styled gently.
Defence Gloss
Split ends, frizz, dull
I work with a lot of
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colour and brittleness
clients who use bleach
are all signs your hair could
in their hair, he says.
be in need of a detox, and
The Pantene Pro-V
Pro-Vitamin B5 is the key ingredient
Coloured Hair 1 Minute Wonder
behind Pantenes healthy hair promise.
Ampoules are my new must-have
The formulas with Pro-Vitamin B5
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Cheryl's
skin
BY INGEBORG VAN LOTRINGEN. PHOTOGRAPHS CHARLOTTE MEDLICOTT FOR LORAL PARIS SKIN PERFECTION SKINCARE, ALLSTAR.
HAIR, SKIN, MAKEUP AND NAILS LISA LAUDAT, USING LORAL PARIS SKIN PERFECTION MAGIC TOUCH INSTANT BLUR AND ELNETT

At 30 and fronting her


very own skincare
campaign, how happy
does Ms Cole feel in her
own skin these days?

What has being a


pop star taught you
about skincare?
To deal with extreme
situations! From heavy stage
makeup with sweat and
hairspray clogging your pores,
to waking up to a still-dirty
annel in the morning, even
afer thorough cleansing.
So whats your beauty
comfort blanket?
I like an exfoliator to get
all that gunk of. In fact
LOral discontinued my
favourite face wash [Pure
Zone Exfoliating Gel Wash]
they got me 23 bottles from
another country but I want
them to bring it back!
Have you always been
happy with your skin?
As a teenager I went through
a hormonal spell of
spots and I hated it. It
made me conscious
of taking care of
my skin. So when
LOral asked me to
be the face of Skin
Perfection, I
really wanted
to test it and Cheryl likes
an exfoliator
make sure
to tackle
it worked.
heavy
I think its
makeup
important to
let women in
their twenties

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Yes, she really


does look like
this up close

know that actually there are


alternatives to injectables
and stuf like that. Its about
prevention at this stage,
rather than putting poison
in your face.
How has turning 30
changed you?
I had a bit of a turbulent
twenties I think its when
youre guring out who you
are, and doing your trial and
error. But by the time you
hit 30 you know, so you feel
more comfortable in your
own skin. I feel settled now.
Who are you closest to?
In this industry theres
a lot of nonsense, so Im
fortunate to have close
friends and family who
have been there from
the beginning. You get
to an age where you
just know who the true
people are and whos
always going to
be around.
If you could,
what would
you change
about the
world today?
I sometimes
wish people

would be a bit more


and even a bit guilty about
understanding of others
that sometimes.
and not be so judgemental.
Who would play you
What is your
in the lm of your life?
earliest memory?
Marilyn Monroe. She was
It was when my little
wise and strong but also
brother was
vulnerable. She
Nicola
Cheryl with true friends
born and
was the rst
lsh
Wa
ley
ber
Kim
and
Roberts
it was just
woman to cut
Dad taking
her own deal
care of the
with Fox. A
house. I was
woman had
three or four.
never achieved
I remember
that and stood
my dad was
up for what she
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which was odd!
Do you have a mantra?
Whats your go-to
I think its a choice to be
karaoke song?
miserable or happy. Its up
Ive never sung karaoke
to you to change your mood.
in my life! I actually nd
it annoying to listen to.
LOral Paris Skin Perfection
When are you happiest?
Skincare (from 12.99 at
When Im just at home
Boots.com) is packed with
with no makeup, hair tied
high-tech, complexionup, sweatpants or pyjamas
perfecting molecules
that tackle your
on, with a cup of tea and a
pores, texture and
packet of biscuits.
tone. Designed for
What are you proud of?
women under 35,
Im really proud that Ive
itll wipe away signs
achieved things above and
of stress and even,
perhaps,
beyond any expectations
a little
and Ive lived out massive
too much
portions of my dream.
partying.
I do feel very fortunate

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But what
does it

smell
like?
T
here are many
things that attract
us to a fragrance:
the brand, the
bottle, the memories. But
lets be honest, most men
will judge it on one simple
criterion: do they like the
smell? So we asked three
guys to blind-snif a selection
of our favourite new scents
with no jargon or price tags
to sway them. Its the kind
of advice you dont normally
get on the shop oor!

We asked three guys to


give us their no-nonsense
verdicts on the new
fragrance arrivals.
It was an education

THE GUY PANEL

Nick Gilbert,
independent
fragrance
expert

Greg James,
BBC
Radio 1 DJ

Merrick Cassanova,
resident
Cosmo-ofce
guy (yes, that
really is his name!)

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Anna Sui La Vie de


Bohme, from 29
The press release says

Captures the energy and


creativity of the bohemian
life. A free-spirited yet deeply
mysterious fragrance. Opens
with a burst of Turkish rose and
pear, with heart notes of peony
juxtaposed with black vanilla.
Nick says Makes me think of
apples and, Gee, your hair smells
terric! Its not particularly sexy;
its for someone who wants to
smell nice.
Greg says It smells like
sweets. I imagine this is the sort
of thing Little Mix would buy.
Merrick says Its light and
subtle with a oral, festival vibe
and pretty sexy. Id say its for an
easy-going, hippy-chick type.

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Giorgio Armani
Si, 63

The press release says

Intense and soft at the same time,


lingering on the skin. Intoxicating
blackcurrant nectar adds the power
of darkness, enriched with sensual
vanilla, Rose de Mai and patchouli.
Nick says This is very good
fun. It smells like neon-bright
fruit, then candyoss or cake and
a lot of patchouli. Baby Spice
would have worn this clubbing.
Greg says Quite sexy in a
musky kind of way. I imagine a
sophisticated, powerful lady
would wear this. Judi Dench?
Merrick says This is a bit
too sweet for me. It makes me
think of someone a bit ditzy
and childlike.

Reiss Grey Flower,


from 25
The press release says A

seductive and addictive perfume


featuring jasmine noir, cocoa leaf,
amber and patchouli.
Nick says Smells like a menthol
haze rising above a dense forest.
To be worn by a brave, sexy
woman. Itd really pop on a
redheads skin.
Greg says This is strong and
spicy. Smells like a woman with
loads of money who holidays in
Dubai. Alan Sugar would love this.
Merrick says This woman
knows exactly what she wants and
how to get it. Its denitely sexy.
Shes a force of nature!

Tom Ford Private


Blend London, 140
The press release says The

complexity of oud wood plays


of the aphrodisiac qualities of
Tonkin musk. Elegance with a
feral character.
Nick says Very sexy. It smells
like a church at mass, with incense
burning. The girl wearing this is a
lapsed Catholic with a penchant for
reading smutty books on the tube.
Greg says Sweet with lots of
spice. It makes me think of an
expensive perfume a dad would
buy his daughter.
Merrick says It smells classic
but its a bit overpowering;
not really something Id want
to cuddle up to.

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Roses de Chlo, 52
The press release says An

inspired new variation of this


timeless classic. Airy, luminous and
subtle. Bergamot adds an incredible
fresh sensation to the damascena
rose, white musk and amber.
Nick says Smells like roses with
salt crystallised on the petals.
Wonderfully powdery in the
drydown [the part of the scent that
remains the longest]. I imagine this
on a bohemian, easy-going type.
Greg says Really sexy. Id want
my girlfriend to smell like this.
Actually makes me think a bit of an
ex. Is that a bad thing?
Merrick says Ooh yes, I like this.
Its quite a fresh, zesty smell and
reminds me of summer. It makes me
think of someone fun who doesnt
take life too seriously the kind of
girl Id like to hang out with!

Elizabeth Arden
Untold, from 35
The press release says

Celebrating the intrigue of the


modern woman: adventurous,
romantic and condent. Optimistic
bergamot, playful pear and
blackcurrant with sensual musk.
Nick says Fruity lilacs and
undercooked crme brle. Its
trying to be sexy.
Greg says Its quite unisex. Id
probably wear this if I didnt know
it was for women. Smells quite
watery-fresh. Maybe Tom Daley
would wear it.
Merrick says Very elegant. I
can imagine a sophisticated lady
wearing this; the type of girl you
would take home to your mum.
Shes a good person and very
settled in life.

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PHOTOGRAPH TRUNKARCHIVE.COM. STILL LIFES STUDIO 33

Beauty Editor Kate thought she


could never love her nails. Until she
checked herself into nail rehab

When I was
the rst being that I kept my
small, I was a
nails au naturel so they could
right nibbler.
breathe. Your nails cant
Nail biting
breathe, says Emma.In fact,
was my cute
the opposite advice applies.
little habit.
Keeping something on the
Not so cute
nails is protective and can
when I hit my teens and was
enhance growth. Makes
still chewing. While my
sense considering one of the
mates were swapping 17 Nail biggest enemies of healthy
Polishes, Id be painting on
nails is water, which swells
Stop n Grow. Thankfully, I
and separates the layers of
nally lost the urge to chew.
the nail plate. Every time
But it lef a bad taste in my
I washed my hands, I was
mouth: I hated my nails.
sofening my already-weak
It seems they never
nails. Gah! My new rule:
recovered from the
a treatment base
Cut to
years of picking
coat and/or polish
and ddling.
reduce length; on my nails at
They were sof,
all times.
fle to shape.
bendy and
Emma also
They should
seriously
pulled me up
teach this stuC on my ling
uncool. If I tried
at school
to paint them,
technique. Think
the tips would peel
about your nails
oa. Katy Perry I was not.
like your hair, she advised.
As a beauty journalist,
Just like hair, cutting your
I realised I was swerving the
nails gives a stronger growing
manicures. Enough! I needed edge. Every three weeks, trim
to cure my nail angst. So I
your nails with curved nail
booked in to see Emma Cox, scissors clippers can bend
educator for Jessica Nails,
the nail upwards. In-between
who gave me my rst decent
trims, I should le them
manicure ever.
square (not pointy) to help
As it turns out, Id been
prevent breaks. Always cut to
making a few rookie errors,
reduce length; le to shape

Strengthener, a daily treatment


only. They should teach this
that promises longer, stronger
stua at school, right?
nails in four weeks. How so?
The comparison of nails
The key ingredients are
with hair is crucial: both are
calcium, which strengthens
made up of a tough protein
brittle nails, and camphor,
called keratin. Cue more
which soothes irritation,
excellent advice from hair
says Clair Rose, head of
expert Philip Kingsley, who
cosmetics for Dr LeWinns.
advises eating more protein
Two months on, I was
(particularly at breakfast) for
chuaed to bits. My nails were
stronger hair and awesome
transformed. Im still no Katy
nails. Nutritionist Amanda
Perry, but now I can work a
Ursell told me to focus on
nail wrap with pride and even
the hero nail nutrients: zinc,
open drink cans without
silicon and the B vitamin
wincing. Result.
biotin. All of which are
found in Imedeen
MY SUPER-NAIL KIT
Hair & Nails
capsules, which I
added to my regime.
Now I had the
skills, I had to give
my nails a health
kick. I scoured
beauty blogs for
inspiration and
Dr LeWinns
Jessica Critical
Imedeen
Care Base And
one product stood Renunail Nail
Strengthener, Hair & Nails,
Top Coat For
out: Dr LeWinns
23.49
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Cassie

Smashbox
Its A Wrap!
Waterproof
Makeup
Remover,
16.50

Inge
Kate
Bridget

Beauty LAB

This easily
removes
everything, even
waterproof eyeliner,
and doesnt irritate
the eye area. Just
remember a little
goes a long way.
Bridget, Online
Beauty
Editor

5
of the

best
eye-makeup
removers

BY KATE TURNER AND CASSIE POWNEY. PHOTOGRAPHS ANTONIO PETRONZIO. STILL LIFES
STUDIO 33. HAIR AND MAKEUP VICTORIA BARNES, USING YVES SAINT LAURENT BEAUT

This month weve


been on a quest to
discover the best
eyeliner and
mascara melters for
your bathroom.
Panda eyes? Pah!

The Body Shop


Camomile
Waterproof
Eye & Lip
Make-Up
Remover, 8

I love this new,


tougher version of
the original. Its
still fresh and
water-like, but
destroyed my
heavy mascara
without making
my eyes foggy
or greasy.
Kate, Beauty
Editor

Clarins Instant Eye MakeUp Remover, 17


This dissolves even heavy-duty
makeup almost efortlessly. The
light fragrance is luxe but may
not appeal to everyone.
Cassie, Beauty Writer

Elemis
White
Flowers
Eye & Lip
Make-Up
Remover,
19

This really is a
one-swipe
wonder! The
oil-and-water
formula removed
my tough liquid
liner without
dragging the skin.
The white tea and
peony extracts gave
a lovely cooling efect
too. Bridget

Nivea
Double Effect
Eye Make-Up
Remover, 3.59

This zaps all eye makeup


without rubbing, is fragrancefree (which is ideal) and leaves
minimal grease. Brilliant value.
Inge, Beauty Director

THE GREAT TWIN TEST-OFF!

Cosmos Beauty Writer Cassie has roped her twin sister into a monthly beauty trial
WINTER
LIPSTICKS

LUXE

Cassie, 30,
loves strong
makeup trends
and is a luxemakeup queen

Connie, 30,
favours paredback beauty and
budget-friendly
buys

Lipstick Queen
Velvet Rope in
Brat Pack, 35

BUDGET

The Body Shop


Colour Crush in
101, 10

Discover
more beauty
testing at
Cosmopolitan.
co.uk/
beautylab

CASSIE SAYS Its nice to meet a


matt lipstick that doesnt dry out my
lips. I love the gorgeous velvet nish
(the clues in the name) and
surprising minty smell. The heavy
gold casing is the icing on the cake.
CONNIE SAYS This lippy ticks
so many boxes for me, even
though I go for more natural
colours and budget brands. Its
minty and, despite being so matt,
its moisturising I didnt think a
lipstick would be able to do both.

CASSIE SAYS Considering this


glides on and feels uber-moisturising,
the colour pay-of is wow! It contains
nourishing cherry-seed oil, but this
doesnt afect the punchy colour. It
faded a bit after drinking, but I guess
thats to be expected.
CONNIE SAYS This looks shinier on
the lips and has a hint of orange to it,
which makes a nice change from
run-of-the-mill red. It feels seriously
moisturising on the lips, although this
does slightly afect its staying power.

TWIN VERDICT Both are great; it just depends on the nish

youre after. But we reckon the Lipstick Queen is worth its weight in gold.

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Hot right now


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The latest products on the Cosmo beauty teams radar


BEAUTY
DIRECTOR
INGEBORG VAN
LOTRINGEN

BEAUTY
EDITOR
KATE
TURNER

loves breakthrough
beauty products

is ahead of the
new beauty trends

BEAUTY
WRITER
CASSIE
POWNEY

likes to look
and smell pretty

Rihannas rst
collection for Mac
sold out in a day. So
sharpen your elbows
for RiRi Fall, from
11, which is even
more fabulous (we
predict the RiRi Woo
Lipstick will y).

Not keen on bubbles?


Hate oily baths?
Jo Loves Bath
Colognes, 59,
infuse your bath
(and your skin) with
nothing but scent.
Deliciously decadent.
Hot designer
Henry Holland
brings fashion
to your
ngertips with
his latest musthave: House Of
Holland Nails
by Elegant
Touch, 7.99.

Autumn sees a shift


to all-out-sexy
scents. Fendi
LAcquarossa, from
43.50, is a tribute
to ery forbidden
love. Red hot!

Cheeky Cowsheds
naughty-little-sister
range is making us
smile. We want all 21
shades of the Chat
Me Up Nail Paints,
7 each.

An Instagram lter
in a bottle. Just mist
Dior Airash Matte
Touch, 30, on your
face for a tinted,
instantly mattifying
veil. Genius.

More fragrance
innovation: appley
DKNY Be Delicious
Skin Hydrating
EDT Spray, 39,
is a mist-all-over
eau de toilette that
actually hydrates.
Juicy!

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Bleach London, the


salon behind the dipdye craze, has just
launched awesome
DIY hair colour. The
wacky Super Cool
Colours, 5, fade in
two to 10 washes.

Follow Inge on Twitter


@CosmoBeautyBoss,
Kate @KateBeautyEd,
Cassie @CassiePowney
and all of us
@CosmoBeautyTeam

PLUS! Were BANISHING shiny foreheads with Rimmel Stay Matte Liquid Mousse Foundation, 5.99 (right); BLISSING OUT with Palmolive
Ayurituel Shower Gels, 2.99; GLOSSING our locks with the yummy-smelling Catwalk by TIGI Oatmeal & Honey Intense Nourishing Mask,
14.95; READING Your Skin Factory by Dr Des Fernandes and Jennifer Munro (18.95, Fernro) to learn the fundamentals of super-t skin.

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STILL LIFES STUDIO 33

White jasmine and


creamy vanilla make
LOral Professionnel
Mythic Oil Le Parfum,
25, a delicious and
nourishing fragrance
for your hair and skin.

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At last, proven relief from dry facial skin


Urea is an important component of normal skin and needed to care
for dry skin effectively. Eucerin 5% Urea Replenishing Face Cream
with highly concentrated Urea, binds water in the deeper layers of
the skin to provide intensive 24hr moisturisation. Uncomfortable
dryness disappears so the skin feels calmed and smooth. Suitable
for use on sensitive skin and even eczema.
TARGETED, HIGHLY EFFECTIVE & CLINICALLY PROVEN.

Before:
Insufficient Ureathe skin loses moisture

SKIN SCIENCE THAT SHOWS

After:
Urea is added and binds
moisture into the skin

For more information and to find your nearest


pharmacy visit Eucerin.co.uk

3 for 2 on Eucerin Dry Skin Range

Shop online at boots.com

Offer available between 02.10.13 and 30.10.13. Cheapest free.


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LEGS
LIKE
THESE

and apply with a


concealer brush, she
advises.Next, set with
a translucent powder,
pressing damp cotton
wool over to remove the
powdery nish.

7HEEL!

Be the girl with the legs


using these fail-safe
sexy-pin pointers

BY CASSIE POWNEY. PHOTOGRAPH BEN RIGGOTT. STYLING SHELLY VELLA. MAKEUP LISA VALENCIA, USING WITCH COSMETICS. MODEL
KATHRIN W AT IMG NEW YORK. FASHION ASSISTANT CLARE SMITH. THANKS TO THE PRODUCTION FACTORY, MIAMI. STILL LIFES STUDIO 33

Theres
nothing
unrealistic
about my
heels

FUZZ OFF

Find waxing too ouchy?


Shaving result in a stubble
fest? Creams remove hair
from just below the surface
of the skin, so stubble stays
away longer than when
shaving. Veet Suprem
Essence In-Shower Hair
Removal Cream, 7.29 ,
resists water and leaves via the
plughole when youre done.

2SPRAY N GO

To those of you who


skip body lotion due to
a lack of time no more
excuses! Vaseline Spray
& Go Body Moisturiser,
4.99, dispenses a ne
mist of moisture-locking-in
ingredients and requires
little-to-no rubbing in.

PROOF TAN
3RAIN-

St.Tropez Instant Wash-Of


Lotion, 10 (1), contains
new rainmac technology
to eliminate wet-weather
worries. Afer applying to
legs using a mitt, St.Tropez
tanning expert Michaella
Bolder advises not reloading
the mitt, but brushing whats
lef on it over your feet and
toes for even coverage.

ILLUMINATION
4LEG

You dont have to be a tan


fan to get great-looking legs;
Vita Liberata Capture The

Light in Buttermilk,
29.95 (4), gives pale skin
a gorgeous glow. It can
also be blended up the front
of the shins to elongate
your legs, whatever
your skin colour.

Film and TV makeup


artist Louise Young has
covered her fair share of
action-lm bruises. She
recommends camouage
makeup try Kryolan
Dermacolor Camouage
Set, 21.25 (3).Mix the
colours on the back of your
hand to match your skintone,

8SOFA SPA

9SQUAT A LOT

Broken capillaries can be


the nemesis of LBD-loving
girls. Clinics such as Sk:n
oaer laser- and injectionbased treatments starting at
around 200. Creams with
ingredients such as vitamin
K, liquorice and bearberry
may reduce redness try
Medik8 Red Alert Body,
41.50 (5). But most
leg thread veins are
unfortunately impossible
to treat with cream.

BYE-BYE
BRUISES

Head scout for


Elite model agency, Leah
Hibbert, urges you to
choose realistic heels.
Obviously the higher the
heel, the longer the leg,
she explains.But no one
will be admiring your legs
if you fall over!

When youre
watching TV, massage
upwards from the ankle
to the thigh to boost
circulation, disperse uid
and keep legs looking lean,
says skincare expert Nichola
Joss. Boost the benets with
a refreshing leg gel. Try
Comfort Zone Vital Leg
Cream-Gel, 34.75 (2).

5THREAD DREAD

Instaglam

Squats are the ultimate


leg-sculpting exercise.
Stand up straight with
your feet hip-width apart,
says TenPilates trainer Luke
Meessmann.Keep shoulders
back and down, and your
tailbone tucked slightly
under. Inhale and bend your
knees, dropping your bum as
if youre about to sit. Exhale
as you stand. Do three sets of
15 reps, with a 15-second rest
between sets.

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TIGHTS
10 CLEVER

If all else fails, invest in some


intelligent tights. Falkes new
range of ultra-transparent
(but not ladder-prone) tights
are described as foundation
for legs. Developed with a
dermatologist, theres a
perfect shade for every
woman. From 10.

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Turning dreams
TO REALITY
Weve teamed up with Always Innity to nd
real-life Cosmo readers to share their secrets to success

Kerry reckons that anyone can throw an


incredible event. Just follow her top tips:
First nail the numbers Figure out
exactly how many people to expect at
your event before you book the venue.
People enjoy themselves more when they
have space (but not too much).
Listen to the experts Take referrals from
suppliers and vendors; they have
experience and a scoop on who can be
relied on in the business.
Dont be scared to negotiate If you
dont ask, you dont get. Youll never
know how prepared people might be to
compromise unless you have the
condence to question them.
Enjoy the moment Theres no doubt
that youll have worked hard during a
stressful build-up to your event, but dont
forget to smile and enjoy it on the day.
Find more tips from Kerry at
Nolchafashionweek.com

Things I cant work without...


A good hand
cream is a
lifesaver
Metallic nail polish
is the perfect
nishing touch to
any outt

Black heels
dress up
any look

I always have a
good notebook
on hand

My favourite
concealer goes
everywhere
with me

88%

OF WOMEN
AGREE ALWAYS
INFINITY IS
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IN NEXT MONTHS ISSUE: We nd out how our Cosmo


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erry Bannigans
award-winning
event company
showcases independent
fashion designers.Aer
graduating in English
and Communications at
Sheeld Hallam
University, I worked for a corporate
company in New York where I felt like my
creativity and passion were being
suocated, says Kerry.A chance meeting
with an inspiring character at a party
motivated me to live my dream and set up
my own business. Now I surround myself
with positive people and my condence
continues to grow.

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SEX ORGASMS ADVICE YOUR LIFE BODY

When
youre
ovulating

BY BECKY FLETCHER AND CAITLIN JONES. PHOTOGRAPHS GETTY, SCOPE BEAUTY, CHRIS CLINTON

of walnuts
a day can
improve
the vitality
and
motility
of a mans
sperm.

PUT DOWN THE


ANTI-AGEING CREAM
On average, people who have sex three times
a week look up to seven years younger.

People who sleep on their stomach


with their arms above their head tend
to have more sexual dreams.
IT WASNT UNTIL RECENTLY
THAT I ACTUALLY ENJOYED
SEX. ITS NOT
UNTIL YOU
REALLY LOVE
YOURSELF
THAT YOU CAN
GIVE LOVE TO
OTHERS.
Lady Gaga

is one sensible songstress


when it comes to sex.

IF YOUR
OTHER
HALF

needs another reason


to cuddle up men
who dont engage in
sexual touching with
their partner are
twice as likely to have
erectile problems.

a) You tend to
choose a more
fashionable outt,
b) The pitch of
your voice changes,
and c) Youre
subconsciously
more likely to wear
sexier colours such
as pink and red to
appear more
desirable to men.

48%
of men say theyd want
to meet your folks before
you become boyfriend
and girlfriend. Really?!

11k

Thats how much we


apparently spend trying
to nd The One.

20,160 minutes

is the average amount of time a person spends


in their life kissing. #puckerup

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Just when you think youve


tried them all, Cosmos
uncovered eight positions
best for female orgasm
from the UKs top sex
experts. Warning: these
moves are seriously hot
Illustrations

Jacqueline Bisset

S p iti ,

multiple
orgasms

F
O
R

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Reverse
cowgirl
side-saddle

Sex

The
vixen

He lies on his back with his


knees bent and legs apart.
You get on top with your
back to him, but, instead of
straddling him, you have one
leg between his, with one
hand on his chest and the
other on his shin. You can
then rock back and forth or
move up and down as fast or
slow as you like.

You sit on a sturdy table


and he stands facing you
with his arms around your
lower back. Place your
hands on the tabletop to
support yourself as he
slowly raises your right leg
and props it on his lef
shoulder, then he raises
your lef leg and props it on
his right shoulder. He can
either hold you close
against him or you can lean
back. For a slightly less
acrobatic version, you can
tilt your pelvis up and wrap
your legs around his waist.

Why its good This might


take a bit of practice, but
persevere because its great
for deep penetration. KG

Why its good Its perfect


for G-spot stimulation. KG

Frontrow seat
at
The
pan
pane
el

You lie on your back and


lif your legs up and over
your head as far as they will
comfortably go. Once youre
suitably stable, your man
squats on top, slides in, and
then leans forward to thrust
inside you. As you near
climax, he can lean forward
to rest his weight on his
hands beside your head,
deepening penetration.
Naughty but oh-so-very nice!

Kate Gould is the author


of Exposing Phallacy: Flashing
In Contemporary Culture and
Mybeautifulchandelier.com.

Why its good This move


makes the most of every inch
of your man; plus easy access
to caress his perineum. ED

Emily Dubberley is a social


psychologist specialising
in sexuality, and the
author of books including
Acrobatic Sex Positions.

Robin Sweet is a regular


contributor to erotica site
Cliterati.co.uk.

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The missionary mix-up


You do all the work here but
you get plenty of rewards.
Your man lies back on the
oor, leaning against a sofa
or bed for support. You then
straddle him with one leg
between his legs and one
to one side. Rest your hands
on the oor to allow you
to control your bouncing.
He can assist by putting his
hands on your hips to help

you move up and down if


you start to feel tired.
Why its good Itll drive
him wild, but youre in
control and can set the
pace of thrusting, and grind
against his thigh all at once.
He also gets easy access to
caress your breasts and
bum in-between
thrusts. RS

The skier
The jellysh
Ask your man to kneel down while
you crouch over his lap facing
him. With your arms around each
other for support, get him to work
up a rocking motion, moving apart
and together in unison.
Why its good Its intimate yet the
angle is just right for deep or shallow
penetration. Your breasts will also get in
on the action by moving against his chest,
giving you extra stimulation. KG

He lies on the bed with his


bum at the edge of the
mattress, legs in the air. Start
by lying on top of him
with your back against
his chest and your pelvis
above his, then slide on
to him. You should then
gradually sit up and lean
forward, taking it slow to
make sure you dont bend
him the wrong way. Once
youre sitting up, slowly
lower your legs on to the
oor, and then rock back
and forth as desired. He
should keep his legs raised
the whole time, allowing
easy access for you to reach
between your own legs to
stroke his penis and balls.
He can rest his legs against
your back if this proves too
hard on his thighs.
Why its good Its great for
hitting your G spot because
you can angle him wherever
you want. And you can limit
penetration levels too. RS

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You do all the


work here but
you get plenty
of rewards

BY ROSIE MULLENDER. EXPOSING PHALLACY: FLASHING IN CONTEMPORARY CULTURE BY KATE


GOULD (9.99, ZERO BOOKS). ACROBATIC SEX POSITIONS BY EMILY DUBBERLEY (12.99, QUIVER)

Crossed
wires

It might sound tricky


but this is surprisingly
easy: lie on your back and
get your man to lie across
you to make a cross shape.
He then puts one leg
between your legs and the
other one on top, and slides
in. Flex and release your
pelvic-oor muscles to
heighten sensation for both
of you. Because of the
unusual angle, its worth
using lots of lube to ensure
the friction works in the
right way.

Flex and
release your pelvicfloor muscles
to heighten
sensation for both
of you

Why its good This position


exposes the sensitive clitoral
hood, enabling either of you
to stimulate it easily. RS

COSMO
ONLINE

The

bookshelf
Stand in front of a wall
and place your hands
up against it. Get your
man to stand behind
you as you raise one leg
up until your thigh is
resting against your
torso. You can push
against the wall
to squeeze yourself
back against him. Voil!
Deeper penetration
in just seconds.
Why its good
Your muscles will
tighten as you raise
your leg, which results
in increased friction
for both of you. ED

Want more hot positions? Weve got them all at Cosmopolitan.co.uk/love-sex/cosmosutra

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Theres a good
chance you havent.
NEW

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pessary
format

Did you know Bacterial Vaginosis is the


most common form of vaginal condition,
yet 2 out of 3 women think they have Thrush?
Look out for symptoms that are unusual to you, these may include an odour not found
with Thrush and a thin, grey discharge which may be excessive and lead to discomfort.
Put simply, BV is an imbalance in your pH levels caused by everyday things like
excessive washing, perfumed products, antibiotics, your period and even semen.
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Sex therapy

For change-your-life sex advice, ask Cosmos sex psychotherapist, Rachel Morris

PHOTOGRAPHS GETTY, MASTERFILE. ILLUSTRATION KATY WAKEFIELD. RACHEL REGRETS SHE CANNOT ANSWER YOUR LETTERS PERSONALLY

Jason showed
Lauren just how
grateful he was
that shed ordered
the stationery

Our sex is so dull


I love my boyfriend but sex is a massive problem;
we hardly ever do it and when we do, I never
climax and he hardly ever does. I want to talk
dirty and use sex toys but he says they put him of.
If I try to guide him, he calls me bossy. Im at a loss!
Our sex lives reect our relationship as a whole. When
women feel their needs arent being met (sexually or
otherwise), we grow resentful. When men feel nagged
or criticised, they grow resentful, and nothing chokes
the life out of a relationship faster. If you want things
to change, do things diferently. You know what you
dont want, so spend some time discovering what each
of you does want and does like and hope for.

Ive lost my
condence

I fantasise about
my unsexy boss

My boyfriend thinks Im great because I role-play for him


(he was a virgin before me) but I feel like a terrible person
because I secretly fantasise about my boss when I want to come.
I dont even fancy him hes old and fat so why do I do it?
When it comes to sexuality, its best not to ask, Why?. Desire is
a constantly evolving, complex mosaic of experiences, thoughts
and sensations; why waste time trying to see whats on each tile
when the whole picture brings such pleasure? All sexual fantasies
are rooted in having or relinquishing power. Sex with your
inexperienced boyfriend might force you (temporarily) into a
more dominant role, whereas the boss fantasy allows you to feel
submissive, which is probably what triggers your orgasm. We cant
control what pops into our heads but we can decide how to feel
about it. Choose not to feel guilty and the problem will go away.

I used to be really
sexual, then I lost
my job and put on
loads of weight.
Now I cant stand
to be touched.
I keep pushing my
boyfriend away
but I dont want
to lose him either.
How do I get my
condence back?
Losing your job has
knocked you but
take a deep breath
and hear this
fundamentally, you
are who youve
always been. Try to
remember why
other people love
you. If you cant
nd a way to do
that, nd a
therapist to help.
Overeating, loss
of libido and low
self-esteem could
be symptoms of
depression, so
speak to your GP.
Your condence
and libido are right
where you left
them I promise.

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HE

How many
is normal?

WANTS
TO
KNOW As a Christian, I pledged

to save myself for


marriage. Then I met my girlfriend,
who didnt want to wait. I love her
so Im not a virgin anymore. I knew I
wasnt her rst but Ive just learnt
Im her ninth! How many lovers are
normal for a 20-year-old girl?
Firstly, shes a woman, not a girl. What
are you really asking? Whether shes a
slapper or practically a virgin compared
to her mates? The average number
wont help you decide whether to
judge her or not thats up to your
conscience. Nine represents nothing
more than the amount of times she
decided (as is her right) to say yes
(or not to say no) to sex. Has she
judged you for pledging not to have
sex and then changing your mind?

Write to: RACHEL MORRIS,


Cosmopolitan, 72 Broadwick
Street, London W1F 9EP, or email
rachel@cosmopolitan.co.uk

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SMOOTH
OPERATOR

Theres a new hero styling product in town that helps you wake up
to the hair of your dreams. Its time to reclaim your mornings!

ow much time do you


spend styling your
hair in the morning? If
youre anything like us,
the answer is TOO LONG! Much as
we adore whipping up amazing dos
before a big night out, day-to-day we
just want our hair to look as good
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So what if I cant
say NO to

Sex

becoming intimate with a man Im


attracted to (and is attracted to me)
mean that he might not respect me
as the curious, clever, smart and sassy
woman I am? Or mean Im about to
sacrice any possibility of us becoming
an actual us? And why, in 2013, is the
standard still a double one?
The authors of a new book, Its
Okay To Sleep With Him On The First
Date (And Every Other Rule Of Dating
Debunked) agree that the arguments are
lopsided. Co-author Jef Wilser says,
Were not going to think less of you.
By denition, that would mean wed
need to think less of ourselves, right?
Unless were complete hypocrites.
But the trouble is, Jef, some men are.
We shouldnt kid ourselves that all men
feel like Jef, sadly. The trick, says fellow
author Andrea Syrtash, is trusting our
instincts rather than outdated rules.
Its important to follow your gut, she
says.We cant assume that all women
want to settle down, or that all men are
only afer fun without commitment.
Some women are more variety-seeking
and some men are more stability
oriented. It depends on the individual.
I was banking on a similar theory
when on New Years Eve 2012, about 20
minutes into a friends house party, I
found myself doing the mating dance
with her cousin. We inched gradually
closer until his hand was in that spot on
my back. One drink turned into a dance,
then the ball dropped then so did my
pants. Surprisingly, days later there was a
follow-up text, a date and, before I knew
it, dinners out, movies, Valentines cards
and more incredible sex.
See, I thought,Im not easy, Im
easy-going. Guys love easygoing. In fact, he said as
much when breaking up
with me two months later.
So it didnt work out. But
if that experience taught
me anything, its that
every situation is diferent.
Perhaps the only thing I
need to say no to is being so
hard on myself, because I still
believe that one day, Ill get my Buttons,
the chocolate fondant and a Prince
Charming to slide on those shoes.

sex?
I

Sara Lieberman loves men. And sex.


So, why, she asks, do people still judge her
for sleeping with a guy straight away?

m fairly resolute when it


comes to dessert. I can share
one chocolate fondant with
two friends; I can even portion
out a bag of Buttons. The same
goes for shopping. Ill allow myself one
pair of shoes per spree, but I draw the
line at two (OK, maybe three). With
men, however, I have no restraint.
As a 35-year-old (still) single lady, Ive
been told repeatedly that if you sleep
with a guy early on, you probably wont
hear from him again. Ive got a copy of
The Rules (thanks, Mum), watched Hes
Just Not That Into You and know about
Freuds Madonna/whore complex.
Yet when chemistry ignites, my ability
to cool it short-circuits. Weddings, for

COSMO
ONLINE

example, are a major weakness. Theres


always the one remaining single guy to
pull, and although I start the reception
telling myself Im going to keep
things at a temperate 36
degrees, the next thing I
know, were downing
shots, he has his hand
on the small of my
back and its My place
or yours?.
So why does having
fun, consensual, brilliant
sex leave me thinking the
friends I spill to the next day,
or the man I did the deed with the
night before, might brand me a slut (a
word I shudder to utter)? Why should

Why,
in 2013, is
the standard
still a double
one?

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COSMO CAR...
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ANSWER: Your Ultimate
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that was selected as best representing
you. From its sweet sound system to
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sure the car is as stylish on the
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Want to text your


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It wouldnt be the
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COOL BEATS

Festival season might be over,


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music Beyonc will sound just
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The Ultimate Cosmo car wouldnt


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Sex

My
bodys
amazing
because
REN CAMPBELL, 35, from
Surrey, is a pro-bodybuilder
and personal trainer

ive years ago I went to


support a friend of mine at
a bodybuilding competition
where, instead of giggling
at a bunch of men in trunks,
I found myself transxed by
the womens bodies. They were muscular
but still feminine, which appealed to me.
I decided then to transform my own body.
As a personal trainer, I was already
very t but had always thought being
slim was desirable. When I told my
trainer I wanted to become a
pro-bodybuilder he laughed; I was
a tiny size 8. I had to completely
change my diet to achieve my goal,
packing it with
protein. I even set my
as
Ren
alarm so I could stick to
a size 8
my regime of eating
every two hours, 24
hours a day. I still do this
before competitions.
I went from consuming
1,200 calories a day to
4,000, stopped doing
cardio to keep from losing weight, and
started intensive weight training. By
sticking to the programme, I managed to
completely change my shape Im proof
that anythings achievable.
In 2011, three years after I started
training, I won the British bodybuilding
title UKBFF Ladies Physique Champion
and reached professional status. Defying
expectations has given me a whole new
level of body condence, even though
most men are intimidated by me how I
look isnt the norm, so they shy away.
Being thin is seen as the ideal, but I think
my shapes attractive too. I love my body.

AS TOLD TO LORNA GRAY. PHOTOGRAPH THOMAS WATTS.


HAIR AND MAKEUP VICTORIA BARNES, USING CLINIQUE

How I
look isnt
the norm,
but I love
my body

Watch Rens behind-the-scenes


COSMO video and her tips for ultimate
ONLINE body condence at Cosmopolitan.
co.uk/amazingbodies

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The new

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food maths
Its a simple equation: add ve things to what you eat and drink, take
ve more away and youll end up healthier, brighter and full of energy

Add these five

Eat lots of
these healthy
helpers

WHY? Reduces
mood swings and
boosts energy
Eating red meat can help
you avoid anaemia, which
causes energy slumps and
makes you infection-prone,
says Dr Emma Derbyshire
from the Meat Advisory
Panel. Its a source of iron,
B and D vitamins, zinc,
selenium and potassium.

+EGGS

+CHIA SEEDS

WHY? Reduce
cravings and boost
your mood

WHY? Great for


skin, hair and
reducing stress

Eggs are one of the


few foods that are rich in
mood-boosting vitamin D
and amino acids; people
who eat eggs for
breakfast also have fewer
cravings throughout the
day, says nutritionist
Robert Hobson.

Omega 3 is essential for


healthy skin, hair and
nails, and chia seeds are a
rich source, says health
and nutrition specialist
Patrick Holford. They also
stabilise blood sugar to
reduce stress. Add to
soups, salads or porridge.

+GREEK
YOGURT

+CHILLIES

Celebrity nutritionist
Martin MacDonald
recommends switching to
Greek yogurt. It has three
times more protein than
other natural yogurt, to
keep you fuller and help
repair muscles after a
workout, he says.

Chillies contain
capsaicinoids, which make us
feel energised, says Emma.
They help with weight loss
by boosting the metabolism
and helping you feel fuller for
longer, as well as reducing
cravings for sweet
and salty foods.

WHY? Maximises
your workout

WHY? Increase
energy and aid
weight loss

Lose these five


Ditch these
temptation traps

DIET
FOODS

SLICED
BREAD

LATTE
COFFEE

ORANGE
JUICE

WHY? Caloric and


easy to overdo it

WHY?
Heighten hangovers
and add calories

When you consume a diet


bar or drink, your body
associates the sweetness
with an energy surge, says
nutritionist Wendy ONeill.
Your brain is tricked into
craving more caloric
foods when that energy
doesnt arrive.

Mass-produced bread is
injected with rapid risers,
stabilisers and emulsiers,
says Wendy. The yeast will
continue to expand in your
stomach, giving many
people irritable bowel
syndrome (IBS). Try some
artisan bread instead.

At around 140 calories a


cup, a daily skinny latte
can add unnecessary
calories, and a cappuccino
isnt much better (90
calories). Cut down on
cals with a black cofee
(4 calories), or a white
Americano (30 calories).

Orange juice contains


more sugar than CocaCola. Instead, Wendy
recommends replacing
it with a glass of tomato
juice, which contains
fewer calories than orange
juice but is packed with
antioxidants.

The sugar in mojitos and


syrups in other cocktails
are full of calories, and the
alcohol content of these
drinks can be difcult to
monitor. The higher the
sugar content, the greater
your hangover may be!
explains Wendy.

WHY? Make you


crave bad foods

216

WHY? Can cause


bloating and IBS

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WHY? Contains
hidden calories

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BY HARRIET STIGNER. PHOTOGRAPHS GETTY. FOR MORE ON PATRICK HOLFORD, SEE


PATRICKHOLFORD.COM. FOR MORE ON WENDY ONEILL, SEE AFIANUTRITION.CO.UK

+STEAK

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My letter to

anorexia
The relationship anorexics have
with their illness is a complex
one. Here, in an open letter to
the eating disorder, Niamh
Keoghan, 30, tries to explain

De Aa,

PHOTOGRAPHS GETTY. NIAMHS BOOK, DIGESTING WISDOM (11.99, URLAR), IS OUT NOW

Im trying to say goodbye. This is the hardest thing


I think Ive ever had to do, or maybe just as hard as
admitting that you had taken over my life. Ive been
trying to nd out why I let you in my life, and let you
take control. I welcomed you on board because I was
convinced you were making me happy. You were
making me the person I thought I was meant to be:
skinny yet so strong and proud. But there shouldnt
be pride in having a person like you rule my life.

You thought I was brilliant; you told me I could


conquer anything, by letting you rule my life. You
took over and I let you. But admitting this was so
hard and, even though I made you feel proud of me,
I felt like a failure. You made me feel like I should be
ashamed of myself. I gave you everything, but got
nothing in return. I was willing to die for you
I would have died because of you. And you would
have let me. You would have been so happy to see
me sufer. And I was so willing to make you happy
and proud. But it would never have been enough
for you. When would you have told me to stop?

I will never forget the day I decided to get rid of you.


It was 9 June. I knew that youd hate it. That I
would pay BIG TIME for trying to lose you. And I
did. I was forced to give up everything: my job, my
life in Holland, my sisters, my friends, just to be able
to ght you. As if you hadnt done
enough damage already, you had to
take away everything else that made
me a happy person. I hated you so
much for that.
I knew it wouldnt be easy. I could
have given in, but I didnt think you
deserved it. If I wasnt allowed to be

Niamh in
July 2006,
before the
anorexia
took hold

Sex

happy, then you certainly werent. So I was ready to


kick your bony little ass! Ive been ghting so hard
against everything you led me to believe was right.
Ive been ghting you to nd out what makes me
happy, to see how precious life is, to nd out who I
really am, to learn to love myself
unconditionally. Each battle was
You lied
hell, and the war isnt yet over,
to
me and
but you will leave shortly.
I
was
ready
You lied to me about just
to kick your
about everything. But for
bony little
someone who isnt a very nice
ass!
person, Ive learnt from you. I
know you hate that I can see a
positive side to all the grief youve caused me.
Sometimes I care. Other times I dont. You dont
deserve for anyone to care about you. Ignoring you
when I had to start eating properly was so much
harder than dealing with the guilt you still make me
feel. You thought you were so strong, but youre not.

You did me wrong, but Im grateful. You made me


look at my life in a diferent way. Youve made me
appreciate things Ive always taken for granted. Youve
forced me to look inside and see who I am and what
Im capable of. I dont miss the life we had together.
I dont cherish the months of isolation and torture
and fear. But I cherish what they have taught me.
I was so scared to think of life without you, but Im
strong and am only going to get stronger by ghting
you. So thank you for making me realise just how
beautiful my family is, how beautiful my life can be
and how beautiful I am. Once youre gone Ill focus
on me and on living the life Ive been ghting for.
Ill never forget you. Im a stronger person for
having had you in my life, although Ive paid a high
price. Now Im letting you go, I dont regret letting
you in, but I think about the other people youve
taken from this world and Im grateful youve not
taken me too. I dont hate you, I just hate what
youve done; but I love what Ive become. I mean it
when I say, Goodbye

Y s, Niam, x

By August
For info and support, contact eating-disorder
2008,
charity Beat, B-eat.co.uk
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Bye-bye body hang-ups


Dr Linda Papadopoulos unravels the causes of poor body image

THE DILEMMA

MY TOP 5
SONGS

My acne
has left
mental
scars

Sweet Home
Alabama by Lynyrd
Skynyrd
Nothing like good
old-fashioned rock to
give you time out
from any stress.

For as long as I can


remember, Ive hated the
way I look specically my
skin. I had terrible acne as a
teenager and was bullied
because of it; the bullying got
so bad I had to change schools.
But even though my skins OK
now, I still dread going out
without makeup and always
worry what people are
thinking about me; I imagine
theyre judging me on how I
look. I dont want to feel like
this anymore please help.
The efects of bullying can
continue long afer the
actual taunts have stopped. And
it can ofen distort the way we
view ourselves, unless we learn to
challenge the negative thoughts
that came from it. This is why
bullying can be so difcult to
cope with; in fact, new research
has found that childhood
bullying can signicantly afect
our mental health later in life.
The 20-year study, focusing on
1,420 children and their parents,
found that those children whod
been bullied were more likely to
sufer depression, anxiety, panic
attacks and agoraphobia than the
ones who hadnt. While its not

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Dont let memories


of bullying afect
your self image

mean kids rejected, and expect


yet clear why that should be the
people to treat you that way.
case, some researchers believe
In order to move on, you must
that being taunted and hurt at
realise its your choice to see
school could have a similar
yourself in a
impact to abuse
experienced in
SELF-HELP CORNER negative or a
positive way. Its
the home.
Facebook.com/ not real acne scars
The fact that in
bigfatdeal
you see when you
your case the
This
former blog focuses
look in the mirror,
bullying started at
on weight issues in
but the remnants
a time when you
popular culture and posts
of the bullies
were constructing
links to interesting
taunts. So take
your own
articles and useful online
resources. Denitely
responsibility for
perception of
worth checking out.
how you feel and
yourself would
dont let their
have greatly
actions continue victimising you
afected your body condence
by dictating your self-image.
and self-esteem. This is probably
why youre still seeing yourself as Instead, see yourself through the
eyes of people you trust; whose
the spotty little girl that the
agenda isnt to hurt or belittle
RETWEET THIS WANT A POSITIVE, HAPPY THOUGHT TO SHARE
you. Take pride in challenging
ON TWITTER? DR LINDAS INSPIRATIONAL WORDS WILL HELP
those negative thoughts when
they pop into your head;
d d Dd_
D f : f h
remember, what the bullies did
f h d f h h
was because of who they were,
#CDd
not who you really were.

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Smells Like Teen


Spirit by Nirvana
This song was really
big when I rst
started dating my
husband. Aww!

One Love by
Bob Marley
Reminds me of sun,
being carefree and
not sweating the
small stuf.

Times Like These


by Foo Fighters
Great tune, great
lyrics and overall
feel-good song.

What A Wonderful
World by Louis
Armstrong
A how-to on keeping
a positive perspective.

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FAB ABS!

Four
steps
to

Get a super-strong core without endless crunches

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MEET YOUR
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follow her on Twitter
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Adjust the reps to
suit your level.

Side-to-side sizzle

Start with your


hands on your hips,
standing with your
feet just wider than
Turn up the
music and shift
with the beat.
Work up to sets
that last for one
song

1
2

hip-width apart. Your


hips should be square,
and your toes should
face forward.
Keeping your legs
rmly planted and
your hips stationary,
shift your ribs to the
right, then back to
the left. Thats one
rep: do 30.

Fold-over
waist whittler

Start in the same position as the


move above.
With your back straight, fold over
at the waist until your head is hip
level and youre looking at the oor.
Then lift yourself back to the start.
Keeping your legs rmly planted
and your hips stationary, shift your
ribs to the right and return to start.
Repeat step 2 and shift your hips to
the left. Thats one rep: do 30.

3
1

Abs shimmy

Backside
bonus: this works
your hamstrings
and glutes to lift
and tone your
bum

Start by standing with your feet


just wider than shoulder-width
apart, arms extended overhead
and hands clasped, palms facing
the ceiling. There will be a slight
arch in your lower back.
Twist on your left foot to thrust
your right hip out as you bend
your arms and lower your right
elbow towards your right hip.
Return to start. Thats one rep:
do 30, and switch sides.

Body
news

DITCH IT

New
gures
Feel good,
show in
look great.
2012 more
Simple
people
were killed by
painkillers and
tranquillisers than heroin
and cocaine. Addiction is
a rising problem, so try a

Pli pendulum

With your hands resting on your hips,


squat with your feet wider than
shoulder-width apart, your toes at
45-degree angles, and thighs as close
to parallel with the oor as possible.
Push oa your heels to stand up.
Turn in from your right ankle until your
right toe faces forward, and extend your
straightened right leg out to your side
until its at least a foot oa the oor. Thats
one rep: do 10 to 20, and switch sides.

natural pain remedy rst:


Tiger Balm Red (4.90,
Boots) tackles muscular
pain, and the 4Head
range (from 3.95, Boots)
can beat headaches.

too. Dilute BeetActive


concentrate (5.99 for
seven servings, Holland
& Barrett) for a superhealthy drink.

DRINK IT Forget oysters;

Battleropes are
about to be big.
Hip London
gym Equinox's

thanks to being high in


nitrates, beetroot juice can
improve your sex drive

TRY IT

Whipped class sees you


rippling heavy ropes for
30 seconds, interspersed
with other moves, such as
kettlebell swings. Sound
easy? Trust us, it burns.

POP IT If you regularly

suaer from broids, try


a vitamin D supplement.
Healthy levels can cut

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your broid risk by 32%.

PIMP IT Protein is the

number-one nutrient for


making us feel full, so up
your intake with proteinpimped products, such as
Oomf Instant Porridge
Pots (1.50, Holland &
Barrett) and Livlife bread
(1.99 a loaf, Waitrose).

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Forever
fashion
Help make every item in
your wardrobe look and
feel fantastic for longer

othing beats the self-esteem


rush you get when you leave
the house in an outt that
you know looks fantastic.
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Novembe

Cancer 21 JUN-22 JUL

Your internet prole


isnt fully established
until December. A
discussion about a loan
HAPPY
reveals character. Did
BIRTHDAY
you nd out why a man
Ms
wouldnt leave you alone?
Scorpio
He hid his real question. By
your 2014 birthday you can
expect a promotion, new
job or award.

The children and babies in


your world call for a major
decision. Welcome a closed
door in work or life, as it will
teach you whats right for
you instead. A fabulous new
look deserves a sele. And
do ditch a heavy situation
youve put up with since
February. Animals connect
you to lovely people.

Sagittarius 22 NOV-21 DEC

Leo 23 JUL-22 AUG

Youll hibernate or take a


role behind the scenes; a
male is involved. Research
a destination you know
little about; it will save time.
The old way of working or
studying is clumsy theres
a better one. A polished
performance does you
favours even though you
know its an act.

You must do whats practical


where family are concerned
and ditch the emotion.
Its also time to volunteer
for something you were
born to do. A man who is
passionate about sport could
be tempted by you. Carefully
examine a plan involving
another region or country;
youll gain from it.

Capricorn 22 DEC-19 JAN

Pisces 19 FEB-19 MAR

Taurus 20 APR-20 MAY

Virgo 23 AUG-22 SEP

If a group, team or association


is proving too much, see
if you can leave or lighten
the load by Christmas. A
new look works well, even
though its a departure for
you. A friend is travelling or
leaving and it will help one
situation. A male with secrets
in his past will never tell
anybody. Dont ask.

Someone with a diferent


accent or passport is hard
work, but only you can
decide to stay or go. A
nancial situation that never
added up before will nally
make sense. Youll play guest
or host and it will bring you
closer to an important
person. Let a practical type
help with a party or event.

Theres a past-life link to a


soulmate that must be sorted
out this month, as you two
owe each other. A project is
easier if you split it into
segments. A pushy female
needs your classy example,
not a lecture. Why not take
up an ofer from a man you
like, and his friend? A feelgood tness class calls you.

Being heard or read online is


hard work until you realise
plan C is better than plan
B. You may not want to
follow orders this month
listen to your instinct.
A female in your family is
being dramatic. And why let
someone else gloat over her
love life? You have delicious
memories/secrets too.

Aquarius 20 JAN-18 FEB

Aries 20 MAR-19 APR

Gemini 21 MAY-20 JUN

Libra 23 SEP-22 OCT

Some ambitions are worth


it and some are not; its time
to make a tough choice. Pay
respect to someone even if it
means you have to fake it it
will make life easier in the
long run. Wonderful, unique
bargains are on ofer. And
a aky male who doesnt
communicate well can be
played at his own game.

Its time to add up your


lifestyle diferently, using
other factors apart from
pounds and pence. A new
way of eating or drinking
fascinates you. Find out what
makes a dark-haired female
so successful and be inspired.
Did you follow through with
an ex or male you lef
behind? Its time.

Its time to look at your


workload and how to make
it function properly. You
also need good health and
wellbeing advice. A kind
person gives you a way to
protect yourself at work.
Find out more about a guy
who loves music. What
separates you from a friend?
You can x it.

Cash ow stops being stuck


when you realise the story
is fated to change twice.
Remember a person who
you asked for a favour and
return it. Why not hand
the boring paperwork to
someone else for a change?
And do pursue a piece of
art that matters; a knight in
shining armour will help.

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dishes or Huxtable, in the


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wear for a hot date?

me. Im pretty sure anyone


would have done the same
thing. It was clear that
her heel was caught on
something inside the dress;
I know theres a lot of stuc
that goes on inside those
dresses to make them look
poofy. I saw her trying to
get up, and I thought she
couldnt on her own, so
I just went to help her.

When my wife [DeborraLee Furness] met me, she


said she was looking for a
stockbroker. So if I want it to
be a great night out, Ill wear
a suit especially Tom Ford
and Ill start talking about
stocks and bonds. Then I
know Im going to get
lucky (Just kidding!)

Youve been
married 17 years.
Whats your secret?

He scrubs
up well does
our Hugh

I had a dinner party and


asked her and 10 others. Her
phone rang and it was Mick
Jagger, inviting her to a party.
All I remember is hearing
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having dinner with Hugh
Jackman. I thought she was
crazy, as I was an absolute
nobody. That was the night
we got together. I knew she
was a keeper, yet I was her
worst nightmare. I was a
young, 26-year-old new actor;
all the wrong things.

Wait. You cooked for


a whole dinner party?
Yes. I made a pumpkin
soup to start, then salmon,
then crpes Suzette served
amb. I had to ring my dad
for the crpe recipe, but he

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Growing up in Australia,
my opinion of masculinity
is that you dont show your
feelings. A real man doesnt
cry. My father is classic
English emotionally shut
down although, in the past
10 years, he seems to have
cried at every family reunion.
The real measure of a man is
to be you. Its OK to show
emotion. Afer travelling
to Italy, Ive learnt that I
prefer their way. There,
men can show emotion;
they can be acectionate and
still be masculine.

...

Id say 80% of marriage is


choosing the right person
and, with Deb, I just knew.
We were really close friends
before we got together [they
met lming Australian TV
show Correlli]. But in any
marriage there must be
some sacrices. No marriage
survives if both people are
selsh. Obviously, there has
to be a great attraction and
love. I ring Deb about 10
times a day.

Have you always


been such a gent?

From rescuing Jennifer Lawrence to


cooking crpes for 12 on a rst date, actor
Hugh, 44, proves hes the perfect gent

told me it was always a good


way to impress.

Whats it like being


a sex symbol?
I still see myself as this skinny
long-legged person. That body
I have is for The Wolverine.
I did work on it, but its not
my natural body, and I get a
hard time for it. Deb tells me,
Your job, as my husband, is

to be fat and schlubby, so


that no matter whats going
on with me, I look great.

The whole of
womankind fell for
you when you helped
Jennifer Lawrence
after she fell over
at the Oscars
I felt so bad for her because
it happened right in front of

Hugh stars in Prisoners,


out 27 September.

GOOGLE STALK!
The obligatory pre-date
check-up of Hugh threw up
the following results...

He lifts weights so heavy, the


bar actually bends we spied
this on his Twitter, not
through his bedroom window.
Thanks, @RealHughJackman.
His CV includes working at
a gas station and as a clown.
It would have also included
being James Bond, but hes so
cool he turned it down as he
didnt want to be boxed in.
From Les Mis we know Hugh
can belt out a tune and he
sang at Nicole Kidmans
wedding to Keith Urban. He
may not be available for
bookings though, sorry.II

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The story so far
When Jordan got red from her Washington DC law-rm job, setting up Need to Know,
an online service to allow girls to nd out all of the dirty dish on their dates, seemed
like the perfect way to make some quick cash. Until she encountered businessman and
playboy Forest Redder. Forest wields a lot of power in a town full of very powerful men
and suddenly Jordans longing to know every last sinful thing about Forest, for far
from professional reasons

m thinking a guy like you can have his pick of any woman. The
amusement in her husky voice faded. A thread of anger weaved
its way in.

Normally hed skip over the comment, but something about her tone had

him stopping and investigating. What kind of guy am I?


She studied her menu. As he watched her, Forest heard an occasional
laugh rise above the crowd noise and the clink of silverware as the people
two tables down dug into their steaks.
Well? Thats all he said. He knew she ignored the question on purpose.
No way was he letting this one slide.
Jordan lowered the menu and stared at him over the top. She didnt
pretend confusion. Rich, powerful. Born wealthy and used to getting
what he wants.
All of it fit in a way, but didnt in most others. Sounds as if youve been
checking up on me.
Her head tilted to the side, sending her hair slipping over her shoulder.
Would that oIend you?
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No.
Oh, come on. She balanced her elbows on the edge of the table and
leaned in.
Are you referring to checking me out on that website, Need to Know?
Her smile faded as her expression went blank. Maybe.
Look, I can understand a woman wanting to know about the man she
plans to invite into her bed. Women do need to be careful. I just think a
website cant replace getting to know someone in person.
Agreed. I poked around and got the vitals, like school and family and
dating history.
He doubted she knew one sentence more than his PR department put
out there. Did your investigating tell you Im the black sheep of the
family?
Those sexy eyes narrowed. Youre a successful businessman. Unless you
killed someone, I have a hard time seeing why youd be considered a
disappointment to your parents.
Hed been disloyal, which was much worse in his fathers eyes. Youd be
surprised.
Jordan smiled as she took a sip of water. What, you were a bad boy, so
you cant attend the annual family yacht race or something?
The way she said it pushed him to prove her assumptions wrong. Being
born into a family with money doesnt solve everything.
Her hand froze in the middle of putting her glass down. When it finally
hit the table it smacked against the wood with a sharp crack. You never
went hungry and always knew youd have a bed to sleep in that night.
Looked like he wasnt the only one with a messed-up personal history.
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Hed refrained from picking her life apart, thinking old-fashioned dating
and getting to know each other might be an interesting twist, but now he
regretted the decision. Are you saying
She waved him of. Just ofering a response to your general comment.
Wen and a few others knew, but Forest rarely shared the details of his life
with anyone, certainly not with a woman he just met and was trying to
impress. But for some reason he craved honesty with her, so he supplied
the barest of information. Its a well-kept family secret, something no one
in the Redder family talks about at parties, but I assure you my younger
brother is the heir. Except for some communication with my baby sister, I
dont have any contact with my parents or anyone else in the family. They
no longer consider me their son.
Noise rattled around them, but a quiet settled around the table. Jordan
moved as if stuck in slow motion. Are you playing me?
No.
ANer a few beats of silence, she reached across the table and covered
Forests hand with hers. In that case, Im sorry.
He hated the sympathy he saw in her eyes, but the warmth of her skin
mixed with his and he couldnt pull away. Ive learned to accept it.
Maybe one day you can tell me how to do that.
What?
Accept a rough family dynamic and not let it dene you.
The longing in her voice got to him. If you need me to, I will.
You always seem to say the right thing. She sat back in her chair,
putting as much distance between them as possible in the small space.
Im wondering if thats practiced or real.
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What does the website say? When her eyes widened, he continued. Im
assuming youre a member, since Ive heard you use the tagline more than
once and, well, from the article I read today about it, it sounds as if every
single woman in town is on it.
Hardly, but yes. Im a member. Her hands slipped from her lap to the
arms of the chair and back again. And no.
He was so busy watching her dget, he missed whatever she said. Excuse
me?
Youre not on it yet.
The playful teasing came zipping back into her voice. He welcomed the
break to the tension snapping at him. Will I be after tonight?
She shrugged. Well see.
Then, lets come to an agreement. Since he had no intention of making
a general announcement to the crowded restaurant, he leaned in. His
nger traced the outline of her silverware against the stark white
tablecloth. After dinner I will drive you home, not because I think paying
for dinner gives me rights with you, but because Im not a dick and want
to make sure you get back to your place without incident. Im still kicking
my ass for not insisting I see you home after our oIce run-in.
Run-in?
I thought youd prefer that to me mentioning how close we came to
having sex in front of the cleaning crew.
This time she wrapped her long fingers around the armrests. Very sweet.
Okay.
He ignored the sweet part because he feared that led them down the
wrong path. One that didnt nish in a bed. And anything that happens
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afer I drive up is your call. A kiss, me coming up with you whatever
you have all the control. Ive made my play and my intentions cant be a
mystery.
You want me to be the aggressor.
Oh, Im happy to take the lead. If she sent him the right look, hed be
all over her. Youll just need to tell me I can.
I only agreed to dinner.
But she understood. He saw it in every muscle and the glint in her eye.
She got his message. She was in charge.
He nodded. Then, lets order.

Jordan had no idea how she forced more than two bites down during
dinner. Even as they chatted about safe topics, a part of her mind
wandered to what would come later.
It sucked for him, really, because he gave her his full attention. He didnt
stare at other women. Didnt say or do anything inappropriate. Hed kept
his word and at the end of the evening pulled up to the lobby of her
building to drop her off until she invited him up.
Not that the decision hit her in the car. No, shed excused herself more
than a half hour ago and texted Elle to go over and hide all website
evidence in the condo. Let me do that. Forest reached around her and
took the keys from Jordans shaking ngers.
She didnt realize a small tremor ran through her until the jangling of
metal echoing in the hallway stopped and her front door opened. Sure.
Despite her desire to remain calm and in control, she almost bolted
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inside. The goal was to get to the bedroom and hide the eleven outts
shed tried on before this dress. Right now they lay scattered all over the
floor and draped over the exercise bike she used as a very expensive hanger.
He held the door for her to go in first. She walked down the short
hallway past the kitchen on one side and den on the other and into the
open family room. The place looked clean. Certainly picked up. That had
to be Elles doing, because Jordan had long ago given up the battle with
clutter. Working from home made stacks of papers inevitable. Not that
you could tell at this moment.
Jordan peeked into the bedroom to her leJ and saw a stack of pillows and
a clear comforter. No discarded underwear. If Elle hadnt been her best
friend before, shed have won the title tonight.
Forests hands fell over her shoulders as he whispered against her hair. I
like your condo.
Me, too. Her breath stuttered in her chest. A few more minutes of that
and shed start wheezing. Not exactly the perfect setup for sexy times.
His mouth found her neck. Hot breath skipped over her skin right before
his lips went to work. The gentle suction had her knees buckling and her
head falling back against his shoulder. The way her body melted into his
should have embarrassed her. After all shed made some sort of vow not
that she could remember a line of it right now.
Tell me what you want. His voice vibrated against her skin.
She let her head fall to the side this time, hoping hed trail the line of
kisses to the base of her neck, then lower. Instead, he hesitated. He didnt
stop, but his mouth didnt move over her. He continued to kiss her neck
as his fingers flexed against her shoulders.
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Please, Forest. She backed up, pressing her butt into his groin to give
him permission.
As if hed been given a flashing green light, his arm wrapped around her
waist and held her steady. Heat radiated off him and burned through her.
His erection pressed against her as he rocked his body into hers.
Say it. His mouth lifted, journeying to her jawline and inflaming the
nerve endings there.
She decided to spell it out before she threw him on the couch and
straddled him, and that was in about-to-happen mode. I want you
inside me.
His hands stilled for a second before roaming again. Very soon.
With every cell tingling, she wanted to demand he do it now. She might
have opened her mouth and suggested they fast-forward this first round,
but the rip of her zipper stopped her. One minute her dress held tight
against her body. The next, the bodice fell and his hands slipped inside.
His ngers traced her nipples through the black lace of her bra.
When she turned her head toward him, he captured her mouth in a
searing kiss. Not gentle or quiet. No, this one claimed. Hot, sensual and
carrying a promise of the wicked times to come, his lips traveled over hers
even as his hands pushed her dress and the thin crinoline underneath to
the oor.
One arm lifted over her head and found his hair. When he lifted her
other arm up, she felt a tug as the clasp on her bra opened. Then his hands
cupped her bare breasts and massaged the nipples to tight sensitive peaks.
Forest Redder did know his way around a woman.
His hips bucked against her, mimicking the rhythm she hoped to
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experience within the next minute or two. She heard the shuffle of
material, then his hands left her for a second. When her eyes popped open
and the protest hovered on her lips, he appeared in front of her.
With his focus transxed on her breasts, he peeled of her bra. Fingers
dipped under the edge of her tiny panties next. His thumb rubbed against
her as the pressure began to build inside her. Yet he didnt stop kissing
her. His mouth met hers and his finger slid inside her slick opening.
If he hadnt been holding her up, she would have crumpled to the oor.
She felt weightless and boneless. Every care slipped away and her whole
being focused on getting him into the bedroom and sprawled across that
mattress.
She lifted her head. And faced him head-on. Those green eyes had
darkened and a tense passion showed in every line of his body.
Take me to bed. She whispered the words against his lips and saw a
tremble shake through his shoulders as she watched.
Yes. Then his mouth came back to hers full force and his hands fell to
her waist.
He walked backward as she stripped off his tie and unbuttoned the little
white buttons on his shirt. She would have shredded the expensive
material, ripped the buttons right of despite the cost, but the way their
bodies kept knocking against each other and their hands explored, she
settled for dipping her hand inside and caressing the bare skin of his chest.
She had no idea how he steered them into place, but when the back of
her legs hit the edge of the bed, she sat. The move brought her face in a
direct line with his erection. She didnt hesitate. Her fingers went to work
as his belt buckle clanked and his zipper screeched through the quiet and
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punctuated their heavy breathing.
Her head dipped forward as she rubbed her palm over him through the
opening in his dress pants. She had his erection out and in her hand before
he could nish his sharp intake of breath. She pumped and squeezed while
his hands slid through her hair.
Jordan. He clenched his ngers as he whispered her name.
Not good enough. She wanted to drive him right to the edge so she
wouldnt be the only one standing there. Her tongue licked up his length
as she clenched his butt cheeks in her hands. When his body tensed, she
kept going.
Every single part of him felt right to her. From his smell to his body, he
t her.
Now she wanted it all.
With one last lingering suck, she pulled a moan out of him. Then she fell
back against the bed with her hands by her head. She would have lifted
her legs or issued a new invitation, but her muscles failed her and the need
driving through her had her vision blurring.
But he didnt need help with this part. The second her back hit the
mattress, he shrugged out of his shirt and bent down to run his hand over
the damp front of her lacy underwear. She was wet and ready and when he
stripped the tiny scrap of material oJ her legs, she almost cried in relief.
Then his knee hit the bed and he shiHed until his mouth was on her. His
tongue up and inside of her. He licked and sucked and kept going when
her hips liHed oJ the bed and her ngers dove through his hair. As he
explored every tiny muscle, she heard the soft growl under his groans and
felt her breath hiccup inside her chest.
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With each pass of his tongue and ngers the nerve endings flared to life.
Her sensitive skin burned everywhere he touched. She thrashed and
tightened her legs against his shoulders. Anything to ease the winding
sensation pumping through her.
Just when she thought she couldnt take one more second, his mouth
traveled up her stomach to her breasts. He took one, then the other into
his mouth and licked her nipples until the sensitive areas ached. During all
the touching and tasting, hed stripped oJ his pants, because she felt the
brush of hair on his legs against her soH thighs.
When he lay full against her with his upper body balanced on his elbows
above her, she almost begged for relief. He stole what little breath she had
when he kissed her again. This time, the kiss lingered. Her head spun and
her arms wrapped around his shoulders for balance.
Before she could ask about protection, she felt him shiH and heard the rip
of paper. His body lifted, but only for a second. Then he came back. He
pulled her legs up around him as she felt him right at her entrance.
His gaze burned into her. Youre sure?
She couldnt speak. Couldnt think. But she knew she wanted this. She
told him the only way she could right then. She kissed his shoulder then
nipped at his skin in small bites.
As she pressed his shoulders in closer, he started to enter her. He didnt
skip right to plunging and pumping. He slid in, giving her body time to
adjust. Then he slipped back and pushed forward again. The move was
steady, robbing her mind of thought and stealing her breath.
The feel of him over her, around her, had her body clenching even as
release hovered just outside her grasp. He didnt speed up. He entered her
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on a steady rhythm, then retreated and began the slow sensual torture
again. Afer a few minutes, her entire body shook with need.
Faster. She whispered the plea against his throat. Now, Forest.
Only then did he speed up. The room lled with the sounds and smells of
their lovemaking. Sweat slicked his back and her ngernails dug into his
skin. He plunged deeper, speeding up as his nger rubbed her clit.
Sensations battered her, tossing the last of her control aside. The
tightening inside her had her meeting his thrusts while she chanted his
name. Just as his body shuddered above hers, something broke lose inside
her. Waves of pleasure crashed over her. Her hips lifted and her thighs
slammed hard against him. She tried to press and clench, anything to
release the energy pounding through her.
With a nal push, his rhythm changed. His big body shook over her as
her head fell back against the pillows. When the orgasm slammed into
her, she inhaled on a mix of shock and pleasure. Every part of her
trembled as a soN whisper of his name escaped her lips. Then he kissed her
again and she couldnt think about anything other than keeping them
right where they were until morning.

Extract from Everything You Need To Know by HelenKay Dimon. Copyright 2013.
Published by Mills & Boon in the Cosmo Red-Hot Reads from Mills & Boon series.
HelenKay Dimons Everything You Need To Know is an e-book in the
Cosmo Red-Hot Reads from Mills & Boon series, a brand-new line of sexy,
contemporary stories for fun and fearless women. Everything You Need To
Know is available for your e-reader, smartphone or tablet, priced at 2.99.
Order at your preferred online bookstore, or visit Millsandboon.co.uk/cosmo
for more information.
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