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How to give your first bj?


? asked 3 years ago last updated 2 months ago
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Its my boyfriend's 17th birthday in a week, and as a little surprise for him I want to give him his first bj...but I really don't know how! We've been together for 3 years, both virigins, and we've only kissed and made out. I mean ok, here's my list of questions: 1) How do you... initiate it? 2) Because I'm a DD, I have a HEAP of stretch marks. If I show him my breasts, would that turn him off? 3) I really love him... but how do I? I mean... I get that you move your hand up and down, but.. uh... how hard do you hold on? 4) I am actually serious but should he wear a condom? I know I can't get preggo but still... 5) I'm a REALLY picky eater! What do I do if I don't like the taste? I mean what do I do if I gag? Answer Following (6) Watchlist
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Kim answered 3 years ago Great question! At your age, I was wondering all the same things... :) Don't read the answer of you're too young or you don't want details... 1) A great way to initiate oral sex (especially if you're worried about the taste and/or smell) is to playfully suggest that you guys take a shower together. If you've only made out, and not got naked with each other yet, then that might be a bit further than you want to go. If so: suggest that he goes and has a shower, while you surprise him by putting on something sexy and maybe playing some nice music and lighting a few candles. Trust me: he'll come out of the shower horny, and then it's all a matter of lying him down on the bed, kissing and fondling... and then gradually moving your kisses further south. Anticipation is often just part of the fun with oral sex, so feel free to kiss down his chest and stomach and gradually make your way down. He'll know where you're going, and the teasing nature of what you're doing will drive him wild. :) 2) If he gets to see your boobs, he almost certainly won't mind. I'm an F-cup and nobody's ever commented on my stretch marks before. Most guys are just thinking "Yay! Boobs!". 3) Blow jobs are about more than just moving your hand (and head) up and down. The key is telling him that you want him to say what he likes and what he doesn't like. All guys are different. Start out by kissing, licking, and sucking gently up and down the shaft of his penis. Don't forget to kiss his balls too (and some people even suck them right into their mouths), as a lot of guys like that sensation (but some don't, so be respectful). His penis and balls are very sensitive, so be gentle by default. If he likes a bit more pressure, he can tell you. The tip of the penis, around the "helmet", is also very sensitive, and a lot of guys like a tongue run around the edge or flicking across the top of this. As you take the tip into your mouth, use your spit (and feel free to spit - most guys have seen this in porn and are quite comfortable with it) to lube up the rest of his penis and use your hand to stimulate any of the shaft

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Search Answers Search Web strangle it, but keep the pressure fairly firm. Ask him what he likes. Again, all guys are different and some like a tighter grip than others. As you draw his penis into your mouth, add a little suction (and a little tongue-play), but make sure you keep your teeth right out of the picture. It's normal for your jaw to get a bit tired after a while too. :] ... From time to time, make sure that you look up at him and give him some eye-contact. Smile, if you can. If you get tired, move off and start kissing it again, or just use your hand. Remember that he will tend to want to build up pace and pressure as he gets closer to orgasm, so be prepared for this. 4) The condom thing is a matter of personal choice when it comes to oral sex. If you are both virgins, and both STI free, then you should have no risk of infection... but have you both been tested for STIs? There are some things (like hepatitis) that virgins can pass on to their first sexual partner. If in doubt: it's a simple matter of a blood test at your local free clinic... Keep in mind that wearing a condom during oral sex will tend to make his penis less sensitive (so it will take longer), and they taste like sucking on a balloon. Honestly. :] Buy flavored condoms if you can. 5) Again, the taste and smell thing can really be helped if he showers beforehand. If you're worried about the taste of his semen then there's no reason why you have to swallow. You can even finish him off with your hand and let the ejaculate go wherever it wants to (try not to get it in your eye though - it really stings!). A LOT of women don't like the taste of semen... and guys do taste different anyway, depending on what they've been eating. If you don't like the taste of it: spit it out. If you gag: stop and take a breath. Keep a glass of water handy if you need to stop and flush your mouth out a little. If it's icy cold water, you can even use this as part of the fun and pretend that you're doing it for his sake. A mouthful of cold water around their junk is a really different sensation for most guys. :] If you're still worried: try using a flavored lube or something else like chocolate sauce. It give you and excuse to lick and suck everything away... and it helps disguise the taste too. Good luck. :) Source: I can't believe I just answered that in so much detail... Asker's rating & comment Thanks soo much! It was soo fun, and the chocolate sauce was a great tip too :P 20

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This is a situation where watching internet pornography can be very educational. 5

? answered 3 years ago it's like sucking your thumb...put your thumb in your mouth and practice...I'm serious...practice using your toungue a lot Rate

? answered 3 years ago if he's 17, it won't be first: boys will do boys ..... don't worry - he'll talk you through it and tho' we like a good bj, we don't always like to think why the catcher is such an expert! condom for oral? I laff every time I hear that - hardly any risk of getting anything. You probably will gag

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Matthew J answered 3 years ago I think it's something you initiate during a long make-out session...Once you can feel his erection through his trousers. Rub the outside of his pants with your hand and eventually unbutton him and take it out. Boys are boys and will like breasts no matter what they look like. Have the lights a bit dim so your stretch marks are less visible. Once you have his penis in your hand jack it up and down slowly. If he has never had you touch it he may ejaculate quickly. So don't be alarmed if you don't get to the BJ part. To start the oral sex keep you hand on the penis closer to the base. Don't hold it too tight. It's ok to ask him if it feels good. Once it's in your mouth be very careful of your teeth! Don't go too deep as you'll be sure to gag! When he ejaculates it will not taste nice! I've yet to meet a tasty semen. Most guys will want you to swallow.. but it's your choice. Some guys (very few) find it hard to get off on oral. So if he is not enjoying it, or if you don't want his semen in your mouth, get him to masturbate on your face or your DD's. This wil be equally exciting for him! Any health care professional will tell you to use a condom. STD risks are low with oral sex especially if you're both virgins.. but ultimately it's your choice. Hope this helps Matthew 3

? answered 3 years ago 1- As far as initiating it just say you want to blow him either that or get on your knees, he will know what to do, im sure like any guy hes seen porn so he will get the hint hopefully 2-depends on your breasts and how they look, if he hasn't seen them yet after 3yrs who knows if he will like them, either way im sure he will forget the marks if you put his dick between your ample pair, 3-If i were you I would just ask him if he likes it as you start, one thing I know as a guy; NO TEETH on it especially if don't know exactly what you are doing, gripwise it depends ask him, 4- he should wear a condom but if you both are virgins then maybe go bare, just depends on how much you trust him to be a virgin and free of disease, if you are any bit unsure of this use a rubber, 5-Most women don't like the taste in my experiance, the only way to know is to try it, if it doesn't appeal to you spit it out and if you gag well then you will know in the future If you ask me I don't think given both of your experiences that you mentioned this is gonna be an enjoyable experiance, he probably doesn't know what he wants and you are unsure of how to do it, kinda like the blind leading the blind here. Its either gonna end up with him ******* to soon or you getting frustrated when he doesn't ***. A handjob would be more appropriate in this case in my opinion, then you can learn what kind of stimulation he likes, grip strength etc. If neither of you are experienced this is probably not going to end well, just sayin. Source(s): One of my exes had never given head, I had to teach her, it was awkward even though I had received previously 4

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suck press hard around him.....he will let you know if it hurts. It is best to sit him in a chair....with you on your knees in front of him....gently lick and suck the head and the underside of his penis. Another thing is to swallow his load as he is ******* suck suck and suck jerking him off as you suck.......you will get used to the taste. A ******** means to completion....take the load if you don't it is like getting half a ******** Source(s): Life Rate

FULLER2013 answered 3 years ago thats the kinda question you should ask him cause that could turn out weird if ya both ent done stuff like that before if ya's jus pop like random like im gonna suck ya then it will be all tounse and a weird atmospere i dunno but maybe talking bout what he wants and might like and what you want a like would lead ya both in the right direction iin what to do , plus dont gag infront of him that would make a lad self contious (these are jus sugestions im not havin a go jus tryin to help ) :) Rate

? answered 3 years ago Are you talking about fell.a.tio? oh, jeez. Ok, I'm a chick who's never given a guy one. Um, I don't even DATE guys. Ewww. Anyways, you grab that sh't and get down on your knees. Put it in your mouth and, (most of the time they like it when you deep.thro.a.t it), and suck on that sh't. You can lick it up and down. Do whatever. You can do a hand.j.o.b, but sucking works better. If he grabs your hair don't be offended. That just means he likes what you're doing. You don't hold it too hard. Don't like squeeze it. You can't get pregnant by sucking on his d'ck. Duh. You're supposed to gag, that's the point of deepthro.a.ting it. And he's gonna c.u.m. Alot, but only if you're doing it right. You gotta suck it like you mean it. If you don't know what c.u.m. looks like it's white and thick. I wouldn't swallow any if I were you. Eww. It probably tastes bad. Well, hope that helped. :D Source(s): Hello!! Watch Straight P.O.R.N. That'll Get You Right On Track!! 1

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