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Index

Marrying a rich man - should you or shouldnt you? ................................. 4
Can rich men be loyal?.............................................................................. 8
Types of rich men to meet and date........................................................ 11
Single internet millionaires dating geeks with potential........................ 15
10 places to meet rich single men........................................................... 19
The conversation topics to avoid on a first date...................................... 24
You dont want to be seen as a bimbo!................................................... 28
Where to meet rich Christian men........................................................... 29
The richest men of all time and who they married.................................. 34
10 careers that will help you meet rich men............................................ 41
How to meet and date millionaire businessmen..................................... 50
Meeting and dating rich doctors in USA.................................................. 54
Dating a wealthy lawyer .......................................................................... 58
Finding and dating a black millionaire..................................................... 62
Lesbian millionaire dating........................................................................ 66
Finding and dating a gay millionaire........................................................ 70
Becoming a trophy wife........................................................................... 74
Dating websites....................................................................................... 78
About this book........................................................................................ 82

Marrying a rich man - should you or shouldnt
you?

Well, this ones easy. Hell, yeahyou should. Now if the question was
'Should you marry a man poorer than yourself?' then that would have to be
one persuasive articleunless youre in an Adam Sandler movie. But this is
a no-brainer.

Lets look at pre-historic men and women and what they looked for in their
potential partners. A pre-historic man looked for a woman who could provide
him with children. Hence she had to be flat-stomached since a swollen belly
meant she was already performing this function for someone else.
Presumably, this is where the tummy tuck obsession came from. Remember
this was a time before marriage as an institution was born and an evolved
concept such as love was perhaps unknown. A pre-historic woman looked
for a man who could gather fruit and hunt well. Thousands and thousands of
years later, things have changed, but not quite.

Is it shallow for a woman to look for a rich man to marry? Isnt it just as
shallow for a man to look for a beautiful girl to marry? Who said one was
better than the other? Some over-eager journalists asked Richard Bransons
stunning girlfriend if she would have dated him if he wasnt rich. She
managed a smile and asked them if Branson would have ever dated her if
she wasnt so beautiful. Full marks to you, girl. Personally, I have never
seen a rich man with a not-so-good-looking wife.

Lets look at the practical benefits of marrying someone richer than you or
just really, filthy rich.

Lets say you not only want your daily bread and butter but also your
marmalade. And a nice steak once in a while wouldnt hurt much. Throw in
some caviar and wine and lifes just great. Marrying a rich man brings major

changes in your lifestyle. And most of the changes are good onesin fact
theyre spectacular.

If youre the kind of girl who likes to be pampered with jewelry and great
gifts, then a rich husband is your means to that end.

A great car at your disposal.

Even better are multiple cars that are chauffeur driven.

Hired help and a luxurious house. Make that twoyour city home and a
holiday villa.

You can finally hire your very own personal trainer and look like a million
bucks (apart from having a million bucks in your bejeweled designer
handbag).

And did I mention the designer clothes? Valentino, Lagerfield, Versace, etc.
You could buy them all. Custom-made handbags and shoes too.

Apart from these materialistic but great motives, theres another side effect
of marrying a rich man. You will never be under the pressure of being the
main breadwinner. Now this could have been an issue and you would be
viewed as regressive and anti-feministic if your partner was an average J oe.
But if hes a millionaire, no one cares. Look at Victoria Beckhamnobut
waitshe has a career in music or fashion or somethingright?

A great extension of the above-mentioned aspect is that you could pursue
your true calling. So if you marry your rich man, you could give up that bank
job you hated and pursue scuba diving like you always wanted. You could
take up pottery or art. You could write, review or critique. Become a salsa

teacher. Who knows? You could end up making more money and fame than
you used to in your regular job and whats more, youd love your job too.

Marrying a rich man is perfect if you are an old-fashioned homemaker at
heart. If you like keeping a great home and baking cookies and tarts, it
would help if your man was out there making those millions.

You could finally become the charitable, altruistic, philanthropic person you
only dreamt of becoming. Donate, help the poor or throw benefits and fund
raisers. You can do your bit for the world.

Finally, if your rich man isnt already famous and hes an all-work-and-no-
party kinda guy, then you could teach him a few media tricks. Throw great
parties, get him in the news with some excellent PR work. Do your part for
his visibility and fame quotient and maybe youll soon be the Vice President
of his new shipping company.

This road is much traveled and some women do find their rich man very
quickly. Some take a while. All it takes is a little patience and lots of hard
work. Remember, quid pro quo. If a guy is rich he would usually expect to
marry a beautiful woman. Therefore, if you want a rich man to marry you,
you have to look and dress the part. Dont you just love this kind of balance?
No one complains and everyones happy.

Wealthy dating websites

There are quite a few wealthy dating websites that do matchmaking
between millionaires and women who want to date them. Many dating
websites are just con games out to get your membership fee and deliver
nothing. Some others may be front operations for credit card fraud. One
millionaire dating website we have got a lot of positive feedback about is
Millionaire Match. They have their members largely from USA, Canada and

Europe. There are many countries they just dont accept members from.
This ensures they have genuine members. They also have a verified
millionaire program wherein millionaires looking for women to date can get
certified as millionaires after they have established their credentials. This
means youre really dating a multimillionaire, not some con artist. Millionaire
match is free to sign up at but unless you pay $30 and upgrade, you wont
get anywhere with this dating website. Thats not much of an investment to
date a millionaire!

Some wealthy dating websites I recommend

Millionaire Match
Millionaire Match is one of the best known wealthy dating websites on the
internet. They power many other lesser known websites. Their focus is on
USA, Canada and Europe. Their verified millionaire program ensures you
can be sure youre talking to a millionaire.

Millionaire Mate
This is part of the friend finder network. So they have access to a large pool
of members worldwide.



Can rich men be loyal?



The internet today is flooded with advice on how to meet and date a rich
guy. Finding and dating a man who pulls in a seven-figure annual income no
longer seems such an impossible dream, given the plethora of where-tos
and how-tos of snaring a Mr. Moneybags. But interestingly enough there is
little on what to expect after that. Among the foremost questions that
confront partners of rich guys is whether he will be a loyal lover. So here are
some thoughts which may help you to find an answer to the question.

The biggest pitfall in the way of commitment from a rich partner may be in
the form of temptations he is exposed to which are bound to be greater in
number and variety as compared to the average guy with the average
income. It is only natural for successful bankers, high-earning lawyers and
wealthy businessmen to dine at the most fashionable of restaurants or
frequent clubs where the hostesses are chosen on the basis of their looks.
The rich boys who are always in the limelight, whether they come from the
field of sports or from the world of showbiz, are even more exposed to
temptations in the form of attractive women or fascinated admirers looking
for a fling. Reports of sexual escapades committed by golfing star Tiger
Woods thronged the news channels and tabloids and proved to be a sad
commentary on the reality of celebrity marriages. Even a longtime marriage
like that of former American Vice President Al Gore and wife Tipper Gore
was seen to succumb to marital infidelity as the former was reported to be
having an affair with Laurie David, co-producer of Gores award-winning and
some would say prophetically-named documentary, An Inconvenient Truth.

Yet another factor which perhaps makes it more difficult for rich men to stay
faithful to their partners is their ego which increases in size as their bank
balances do. Men who are constantly being feted by employees, colleagues,

clients, superiors and generally everyone else around them usually become
used to appreciation from all quarters. In such a situation if for some reason,
they feel that their partners are not giving the due attention or approval, they
know that they can find it elsewhere without making any extra effort. This
constant need for appreciation is difficult to fulfill for any partner who has a
healthy sense of self-respect and may eventually turn out to be a reason for
a rich guy to start looking around.

J ust like their outsized egos, successful men often get used to a sense of
entitlement. Here again, the example of Tiger Woods comes to mind
witness his apology after news of his successive flings erupted in the media.
In the speech, Woods admits the he felt that he was entitled - I felt that I
had worked hard my entire life and deserved to enjoy all the temptations
around me... Thanks to money and fame, I didnt have to go far to find
them. Rich men often believe that their wealth and popularity entitles them
to everything they might fancy, including the right to break as many hearts
as they want.

Guys who can afford the best of everything would naturally go looking for
the same in their relationships too. In other words, it is a trophy girlfriend
they are looking for, whether to show off their colleagues and competitors or
to compliment their own sense of worth. The problem with this situation is
that if you are looking for a guy who is rich, handsome and smart, he is most
likely to have the same expectations from you. Not only will you find yourself
under pressure to prove your worth in all aspects but you may just find
yourself supplanted by the next super-babe who crosses your rich guys
path.

Sometimes its just a matter of opportunity, no more and no less. Successful
professional men like doctors might have to spend hours together at the
hospital where there might be a sympathetic nurse more than willing to offer
a neck rub. Or a busy lawyer might have to zip around the country in the

company of an attractive aide with whom it would be only too natural to
share a couple of drinks after a round of hard bargaining with clients. In
such situations an after-dinner drink or a late night coffee is only a step
away from a nightcap, with maybe neither party intending to commit any
indiscretion but things simply turning out that way. On the other hand, a guy
who earns a regular salary or runs a modest store has fewer chances of
spending nights away from home or being away for days on end.

Eventually however it all boils down to individual personalities and priorities.
Even the cute-looking next-door boyfriend may succumb to the charms of an
attractive waitress on a regular night out with the boys. Earning an average
income can never be a guarantee for loyalty since commitment to a
relationship is a matter of the heart which is rarely influenced by the size of
ones bank account. In fact a guy who does not have a home or a job may
even be more likely to look out for his own financial stability by feeding off a
well-established womans sympathy and then moving on to the next source
of emotional and material support. Moreover, rich men who have seen it all
the glamour and the temporality of a jet-setting life are even more likely
to be appreciative of a relationship where commitment is the keyword. After
dealing with cut-throat competitors and difficult-to-please clients the whole
time, every successful professional will want to come home to a wife and
family where he knows he can find love and fidelity.

So in the final analysis, it is difficult to put forward a simplistic and direct
equation between wealth and infidelity. While it is certainly true that the rich
and the beautiful people are more likely to be sought-after by their admirers,
whether or not they give in to such temptations is ultimately very much a
matter of individual choice.





Types of rich men to meet and date



Practically every single woman wishes that she could date someone who
would offer her not only financial security but also luxurious indulgences,
every now and then. If you dream of being wined and dined in style, here
are some types of rich men you can look around to meet and date.
Millionaire businessmen
Entrepreneurs who pull in a seven-figure profit every year can be found in
the most unexpected of places. He could be the owner of a small but
popular deli just round the corner or he could have made his millions
retailing organic beauty products from the neighborhood salon. Self-made
businessmen who turn a seemingly quirky idea into a lucrative business
venture are not that rare and can in fact turn out to be some of the most
delightful people to know because of their innate sense of adventure as well
as hardworking nature without which any kind of success is difficult to come
by. So keep your eyes and ears open for those single men who have a way
with selling ideas and stuff. You never know, your friendly next-door
entrepreneur may actually turn out to be a millionaire!
The inheritors
These are the ones who have been born into money, vast business empires
or blue-blooded titles. Rich men who inherit wealth from their family could be
some of the easiest to spot, sometimes because of the media attention
surrounding them and at times because of the million-dollar title they carry.
At the same time, it could be a challenge getting access to them especially
for women who do not belong to the same rarified social circles as they do.
However there are quite a few examples of rich inheritors choosing to date

partners who may not carry an aristocratic or widely recognized business
name but still may be attractive because of their looks, intelligence or
personality. If you want to come across the rich inheritors, make it a point to
attend social dos at exclusive polo or yachting clubs or frequent only the
most happening nightclubs in town.
The financiers
Finance professionals like bankers, portfolio managers and insurers are
among the best-paid professionals in the economy for the simple reason
that they are the ones who are responsible for managing the wealth of the
some of the richest people on earth. To meet the financiers who easily make
a seven-figure income plus bonuses and perks, frequent the posh bars and
clubs in downtown business areas. Better still get a job in a bank,
investment or insurance firm where you are sure to come across the money-
spinners. Dating a financier is particularly great for the wonderful sense of
material security they provide and if he is sure about you, it could be the
precursor of a dependable and emotionally secure relationship as well.
However be prepared to share your partner with his super-rich clients since
working under deadlines and zipping across the country to soothe billionaire
nerves are essential part of a financers job.
Rich retirees
These are so many rich old men who are looking for attractive and
sympathetic partners to brighten up the last years of their lives. Many of
these rich retirees are self-made millionaires who most likely had no time for
love and enjoyment in their youth as they slogged through to make their
millions. And now when do have the time to live it up, they perhaps find
themselves without a trusted partner or surrounded by bickering relatives. If
you dont mind the age gap or the prospect of having a less than sizzling
sex life, rich retirees can make some of the most supportive dates, not only
materially but also in terms of emotional companionship as well. To come
across such men, look around wealthy retirement communities especially

those located in coastal areas or in balmy climates. Working as a personal
chef, trainer, caregiver or masseuse may also help you coming in touch with
rich retirees who have both the time and money to lavish on their partners.
Internet millionaires
Men like Mark Zuckerberg and Matt Mullenweg are now legendary as
among the youngest billionaires on the planet. Guys who write programs
and launch websites worth millions of dollars are particularly sought-after
since they are usually younger than their counterparts in other lucrative
professions like finance and medicine. Other advantages of dating the
computer guys is that they are usually easy to get along with and have little
use for inflated egos or physical narcissism. The flip side of dating these
guys is that you might end up without seeing them for days together or even
the weekends as they go underground working on program codes or fine-
tuning their websites. However if you dont mind a few lost weekends or a
little social awkwardness, dating a geek can be one of the most rewarding
experiences of your personal life.
Ivy League alumni
If you are one for riches that come gold-tinted with class, then an Ivy League
grad is perhaps the guy for you. The eight private universities from
Northeastern United States which make up the Ivy League are not only
known for their academic excellence and vast financial prospects but are
also a byword for social elitism. Some of the best-paid and most influential
lawyers, educators, intellectuals and executives in the land come from these
institutions. You have a pretty good chance of coming across a single from
this academic and social elite at one of the many pubs and cafes in and
around the university or while working for a successful Ivy League alumnus.
However if you intend to make an impression on such a guy, be prepared to
come off as a smart and intelligent individual as well. Relying on your
physical charms may not be enough to score a hit with an Ivy League grad
who has been around intelligent people for the most of his adult working life.

There are all sorts of successful guys out there looking for a partner. The
thing is to decide who will work best for you - since every lucrative career
come with its own pros and cons and then go ahead to search for your
Prince Charming.

Single internet millionaires dating geeks with
potential











Today the internet is much more than an indispensable tool for gathering
information and making friends. It is the site of fast-growing businesses
whats more, it is the perfect way to make ones first million while still in the
early 20s. Here are some best know internet multimillionaires and
billionaires. It's probably too late to try and snag any of them but it gives you
an insight into what's possible if you charm a geek on his way up.

Mark Zuckerberg

Mark Zuckerberg is the youngest billionaire on the planet, Mark is only 25
and already a billionaire according to Forbes 2009 list of the super-rich. He
is the founder and current CEO of the immensely popular social networking
site Facebook. While Zuckerberg is still a bachelor, media reports have
been abuzz that Zuckerberg has been dating Asian beauty Priscilla Chan
over some time now. In fact according to author Sarah Lacy, Zuckerberg
and Chan have more or less finalized a contract that covers several aspects
of their relationship, including how much time Zuckerberg will be able to
spare his girlfriend. On J anuary 4, 2011 it was reported that Goldman Sachs
Group Inc has bought a 1% stake in Facebook for $500 million. That makes

Facebook worth $50 billion and Mark Zuckerberg owns close to 25% of the
company!

Andrew Gower

At 31 years old, Andrew Gower is one of the youngest Internet millionaires
of UK and worth at least $650 million. He is best known as the lead
developer of the massively popular multi-player online game Runescape
and as the joint founder of the company J agex with brother Paul Gower and
Constant Tedder. Last year, the Sunday Times listed the Gower brothers as
the 566th richest men in the world, jointly worth an estimated 100 million
sterling pounds while the year before, the Daily Telegraph listed the Gower
brothers as the eleventh richest young entrepreneurs of UK.

Blake Ross

Only 24 years of age but American software developer Blake Ross is
already worth more than $120 million with David Hyatt, his former partner
and co-founder of Mozilla Project. Ross in fact created his first website as a
ten year old- boy and by fifteen he was already working as an intern at the
Netscape Communications Corporation. However it was as the co-founder
of the Mozilla project that Ross became a millionaire in 2004 when not even
in his twenties. Next year he went on to be nominated for the Wired
magazines top Rave Award, Renegade of the Year and made it to the
Rolling Stones Hot List that same year

Angelo Sotira

As one of the founders of deviantArt, a popular online art-based community,
Sotira is estimated to be worth around $75 million. The site was launched in
2000 with the intention of showcasing various forms of user-made artwork
and last year it consisted of more than 11 million members with more than

36 million visiting the site every year, according to data from Compete.com.
While not much is known about Sotiras private life, he is believed to be a
photography enthusiast!

John Vechey

This internet entrepreneur made his millions as the co-founder of PopCap
Games, a leading casual game developer and publisher based in Seattle. In
2008, J ohn Vechey was estimated to be worth around $60 million. Besides
being known as a gaming mogul, Vechey is fond of the good life and was
described in an interview on eurogamer.net as a jolly good sport.

Alexander Levin

Alexander Levin is best known for having launched two popular hosting
tools Wordpress and Imageshack and thereby revolutionizing the blogging
market on the Internet. These two are now two of the biggest revenue
earners on internet with annual revenue of $57 million and $56 million
respectively. Levin is just 25 and a good catch!

Jack Nickell

This 30 year old internet millionaire put in a lot of hard work before he could
rake in the profits with his company Threadless which he set up with J acob
Dehart. But now the company is has an annual turnover of more than $50
million which makes Nickell one of the richest Internet singles around.

Sean Belnick

At a just 20 years old, Sean Belnick may seem a tad too young to date but
you just might change your mind when you learn that his company,
Bizchairs.com has an annual turnover of almost $50 million. Belnick

launched his online furniture shop when only 14 with an initial investment of
$500 and an inventory of 50 products. Today his company has 75
employees and sells more than 25000 products online which range from
office, home and school furniture to medical equipments. This young
millionaire claims to lead a rather modest lifestyle, one of his rare splurges
being a 2008 Range Rover Supercharged.

Kevin Rose

This 33 year-old internet entrepreneur is known for his start-ups which range
from Revision3, Pownce, WeFollow to the most popular of them all, the
social bookmarking site Digg. Besides raking in the millions from his internet
ventures, Rose is also a well known face on television and has appeared as
co-host in TV shows like The Screensavers on TechTV which later became
Attack of the Show on G4. Rose has also made guest appearances on
shows like Late Night with J immy Fallon in March 2009. He is estimated to
be worth more than $30 million from his various web-based ventures. Rose
was famously revealed to have staked $2000 for launching Digg, an amount
which he and his girlfriend had intended to use as a deposit on their house.
Apparently Roses girlfriend broke up with him on this even as he went on to
make millions on his bookmarking site. Even though Rose has been
reported to have a string of rather public affairs by the media including a
long-term relationship with Sarah Lane - his former co-host on The Screen
Savers - he is still a bachelor and girls who have a thing for super-rich geeks
continue to try their luck.

You can find highly paid professionals and entrepreneurs who are single on
Millionaire Match. You never know when one of them starts the next
Facebook!



10 places to meet rich single men













If you dream of being romanced in style, from vacations in private islands to
Cartier solitaires on your fingers, your best bet is to date single men, loaded
with the greenbacks. However, the most crucial part about dating the rich
guys, is to know where to look for them. They are not your average guy-
next-door, who you can come across at the coffee shop around the kerb or
at the grocery store. Single rich men hang around only in special places
when they are not shut up in their offices, working to make more millions.
Here are however, a few places where you can try your luck in finding single
rich men.

Fashionable pubs

If you want to meet the successful professionals, then hang out in places
nearest to their offices. High class pubs near lawyers or doctors chambers
are likely venues, since busy people rarely venture far from their workplace,
when they wish to relax with a drink after a hard day. But know when to go,
since you are unlikely to meet many people if you land up in such a pub

during peak working hours. Late evenings, especially at the beginning of a
weekend, will usually see the regular patrons getting together to have a
good time.

Premium golf clubs

Golf links are popular haunts of successful businessmen and executives,
where contracts are negotiated and deals are struck. Memberships to such
clubs are generally hugely expensive but see if you can get a day
membership. Better still, try to tag along with a rich friend, as a guest, and
then make the best possible use of your opportunity. Again, timing is a big
factor. Late afternoons on working days or late mornings on weekends may
be the best time for powerful people to practice their power drives.

Auction houses

Men who are rich and single have only their personal fancies to indulge.
Many among them are avid collectors of artworks or antiques. So make it a
point to follow what is going under the hammer at the best known auction
houses in town and then visit them on the important days. You are likely to
find quite a few rich guys, bidding for their favourite piece and if you are
lucky, there may even be someone single among them. However, keep in
mind that the really rich and busy men will have their agents at their auction
houses but then, that is a chance you will just have to take. Some of those
attending the auction are likely to be older. Generally people from
traditionally rich families attend auctions of antiques.

Premieres and parties

If you want to meet single men who are rich as well as famous, the best
place is to hang out at events and parties related to the entertainment
industry. Movie and theatre premieres are occasions when the rich and

beautiful people come together. If you can, wrangle an invitation to the
hottest post-premiere parties which generally go on till the early hours of
morning and thus offer a longer time to socialize. However, do your
homework before attending such events so that you know who is a genuine
actor/producer/singer and who is merely pretending to be one.

Sports bars

Guys who have the dough to spare and no partners to spend on, are likely
to be avid sports lovers. Frequent the high-end sports bars and see if you
can find someone suitable. Other good places to meet rich and single sports
fans are the exclusive galleries in stadiums at important matches or post-
victory parties of famous sports teams. But be sure to know your Mets and
Giants before chatting up that rich-looking guy at the bar or you might end
up making a fool of yourself.

Luxury spa resort

What better way for a single and successful executive to de-stress, than to
take a day off at the spa? Visit a luxury resort which offers exotic massages
and relaxing treatments and you may come across someone rich and
available. The main drawback of this venue is that the number of potential
candidates is likely to be limited. On the plus side however, if you do come
across a suitable guy, he is more likely to be relaxed and open to meeting
someone interesting.

Charity dos

This is another popular venue where the rich and successful people gather.
Even though the main purpose of these $500-a-plate dinners is to support
their favourite cause, such events are important places to be seen if one is
to make a mark on the social scene at. It is likely that you will find that all the

male guests arriving with a date, but in most cases, the women will be
partners only for the evening and so go ahead and chat up the guys.
However, be sure to look and dress your best, since first impressions do
matter when you are dealing with those who have the best of everything.

Professional matchmaking services

Most matchmaking services have a section devoted to rich members. You
could sign up for such services and express your desire to meet rich
available men as potential partners. However, such men will have their own
expectations in women and the matchmaker will get you two together, only
when your mutual expectations coincide. But not all rich and available men
are looking for rich women. There are some who would prefer their partners
to have other qualities, like a caring or non-materialistic disposition.

Places of business

If you are looking for a rich man to date, hang out in places they are most
likely to frequent, like banks, convention centres or coffee shops in business
districts. Here, the rich guys may be busy with work, but wait for lunch-hours
or coffee-breaks to find time to chat them up and who knows, you may land
yourself a date on Saturday.

Millionaire clubs

If you are looking for the big fish, find a way to be seen at the millionaire
clubs. These are the places where the really rich boys hang out. Cocktail
parties and weekend bashes are only some of the events regularly hosted at
such venues, where the rich and single can take their pick of the attractive
ladies. While it may take some hard work to get access to such exclusive
venues, once there, you have opportunities galore. But be certain to look
your most seductive, as super-rich men are used to having the best.


The rich and successful among men generally have their own hang-outs.
So, the key to meeting them is to know where to find them. Dont fret if most
of these places appear too expensive to frequent, which they usually are.
The most important thing is to be seen at these places and then make the
best possible use of your opportunities.

Millionaire dating websites

If you want to date multimillionaires, Millionaire Match has many single
multimillionaires from across the world. Signing up is free.


The conversation topics to avoid on a first date


So you thought, youd just meet the rich man of your dreams, flash a smile
and hed be yours. No, its not that easy. Theres this teeny-weeny little
hitch. He has to like you back and you have to get past your first date.

Long conversations on telephones, meeting at odd hours, taking off
suddenly for the weekend, smiling for no reason and other such true love-
ish type things will happen to you. But you have to get past the first date.
You took special care about your appearance. Your dress is handpicked,
the shoes are coordinated, the handbag is classy and not to mention your
hairjust out of a shampoo commercial. But what about the first date?
Whether it's dinner, coffee or just the frozen yoghurt store, he will be
gauging you as a potential partner. The first date is like a pre-qualification
test. So apart from your appearance, there are a few things you have to
remember not to bring up on your first date.

Don't ever talk about your ex-boyfriends. This is a sure shot put-off. J ust do
not mention them at all. No You remind me of or I watched the movie
with J ust dont. Also dont brag that youve dated a lot. Dont share the
magic numberhe definitely does not want to know if hes the 18th guy that
year. Also not good topics for conversation are - crushes and infatuations.
Why would you?

Trust me when I say this. He does not want to know about the great sex you
had when you were in college. This ones definitely worse than the ex-
boyfriends. Do not bring up your sex lifeat all. Do not share details about
that crazy night after a rock concert, when you went backstage and hooked
up with the bass guitarist. Also remember that time at the sorority house
where you kissed a girldont even think about brining it up tonight. There

will be ample time later, to share these things and you could even make a
game out of it Whos wildest?and the loser can make blueberry
pancakes. But right now is not the time. Focus on the date. Talking about
your conquests is crass.

Stay away from topics about your future together, your marriage, what you
want to name your kids. Also do not be presumptuous and indicate any
future activities together, like a second date. Do not say things like We
should go to that Italian place the next time. There will come a time in your
relationship when you can say this naturally and it will sound just perfect to
him. But the first date is not the right time. Also, at the end of the date, do
not ask him if hes going to call you. J ust be your stunning self, smile and
say you had a great time. Be assured that if both of you had a good time, he
will call you.

Dont ever talk about meeting the parents on the first date. This is fairly
simple to understand and expect. There should be no talk of wanting to
introduce him to your mother. Some people think its too early to talk about
introducing him to your girl friends too. But depending on how the evening
goes, you can use your discretion about this one.

Do not talk about your sisters drug addiction or the property issues your
family is going through. You are out to have a good time and these things
will only end up upsetting you and making him uncomfortable. If he knows
about your issues and inquires, be polite and respond in brief. Steer the
conversation to happier things. There will be many bonding sessions over
coffee in the future, when you can let your guard down completely.

Please dont talk about his money, how much he will inherit from his family,
his assets, bonds, investments, his fathers will, etc. This will only make you
look like a gold digger. Carry yourself with dignity. Classy rich men do not

like to talk about their money and he will definitely not appreciate your nosy
questions about his bank balance.

Let it be known that if you talk about your body and how hot people think
you look, it will not go down well with him. Talking endlessly about how your
legs are flawless and how Pilates helped get your derriere in shape will not
turn him on. In any case, that is not the purpose of this date.

No conversations about his body. No Oh my God, your biceps are so huge.
I bet you have a six-pack. Questions about an exercise or fitness regime
are acceptable as long as theyre positioned as polite questions about
activities. So its fine to say I go running thrice a week but I really love
tennis. I am looking to join a sports club. This gives him a chance to tell you
if he likes to swim and play tennis. Who knows, may be your second date
maybe a tennis lesson or two.

For the love of God, do not even think of confiding about what turns you on,
the fact that a little kinkiness works for you or you like your man to dress up
like a pirate. So maybe eating oysters works like an aphrodisiac for you and
you are already visualizing what he looks like tied up in silk scarves, but do
not talk about it. Instead bring up something safe to talk about, like his work.
Again, when you get past the first date and the second and fifth, there will
be ample opportunity to explore these aspects.

Believe it or not, men do not like to hear that the women they are involved
with used to get all dressed up and go out with girl friends with the sole
intention of hooking up with strange men from the bar. So youve had your
girls night outs and its been great funalmost like a hunt, but do not talk
about it on your first date. Men do the same thing, and think how it will make
you feel if he bragged about it.


So restrain yourself from bragging about past conquests and dont indulge in
self pity or be remorseful about the way you handled your career. This date
is all about happy conversations - stuff that brings out his smile and makes
him want to ask you out againmaybe tomorrow!

You dont want to be seen as a bimbo!


If youre looking for ways to charm a millionaire on a date, one of the most
important things is to be able to hold his interest. If you come across as
boring, youve lost your chance. If he mentally labels you as dumb or a
bimbo, youll be fighting the odds. Hell then just be interested in seducing
you. Millionaires date bimbos, they dont usually marry them. You have to
provide stimulating conversation. One of the most powerful tools you can
have to deal with this is the ebook:

Tell Me Honey2000 Questions for Couples by Vikram Chandiramani.

Its a collection of 2000 questions you can ask the man youre dating. Youll
know everything about him with these questions. Youll get closer as a
couple. Youll know his secret desires, inner feelings, his fears and
insecurities. This will give you a major advantage over every other woman
whos trying to get him. Hell be going over your conversation even in your
absence. The book costs $12 and is available as an ebook as well as in
paperback from Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble. Itll be the best
investment youve made in your whole life.



Where to meet rich Christian men


If youre Christian, you may be keen to date someone of your own faith. If it
is difficult to find single wealthy men to date, finding someone who also
believes in Christian values raises the bar even higher. However if one looks
in the right places and goes about it with patience it is not impossible to
come across someone who leads both a successful as well as a wholesome
life. So here are a few ways to meet and date rich Christian men.

1) Your church

The most obvious place to look for wealthy Christian singles would naturally
be the church. But if you have scanned the pews expecting to zero in on a
guy sporting jeweled watches or attended all singles events organized by
the Church and not seen anyone step out of an Audi, perhaps you have
been looking at it the wrong way. Single rich men are not always looking for
a sugar baby and when you are talking about a guy who is a practicing
Christian as well, chances are that he would be discrete about his financial
as well as personal status. It would be a far better idea to find out who your
pastor speaks to when a particularly large Church contribution is required or
who is the sponsor of a Church fete or a scholarship required by an
underprivileged child in your parish. Keep your eyes and ears open for such
nuggets of information and you may just find out that the non-descript guy in
glasses who sits two rows behind you in Sunday service has a business
empire worth millions.

2) Charity events in your city

Rich men who believe in the Christian values of charity and brotherhood are
not likely to restrict their philanthropy to their church but may be found

equally forthcoming to support a good cause. So try to attend all charity
events and fundraising galas in your town, whether it is to raise funds for a
shelter for abused women in your town or for a basic health clinic to treat
women and children in faraway war-ravaged Afghanistan. Once at these
venues it is easy to get drawn to the names that come up with the largest
contributions but at the same time keep a look out for any guest who
happen to be missing a wedding band since there may be sponsors who do
not want their names publicly announced. Also try to imbibe a genuine
interest in the cause which is being supported at the fundraising event
instead of faking a concern or making it plain that you are here for
moneybags and appetizers. Self-made men who have risen to the top on
their strength of their brains will be quick to spot insincerity and unconcern
and that might put off men who are deeply religious. Usually all guest at
such events arrive with a companion, but let not that weigh too deeply with
you since the lady will most likely be a partner for the evening, and if the guy
in question is not attached, you have as fair a chance of catching his eye as
the next person.

3) Communal gatherings

Being Christian does not imply that one cannot have fun. But rather than
hanging out at singles bars and crowded nightclubs to come across a
successful Christian man, it would be a far better idea to take part in
communal celebrations like a parade, a fair, a flower exhibition or a music
festival. It may not be easy to spot a millionaire among the crowds at such
events but usually they are ones who pitch in with a healthy sponsorship for
organizing the festival or hand out free ice creams to all those kinds who
take part in a tree-planting drive. Similarly watch for well-dressed guys who
are treated with respect and consideration by the civic officials of your town
or locality and you can safely assume that they are the ones behind regular
donations to community projects.


4) Christian dating websites

These days there are a plethora of dating websites which are specifically
tailored to the relationship needs of Christian singles. Some of them even
require members to sign a statement of faith of their Christian beliefs, saving
real intimacy till after marriage. J oin one of these which are best suited to
your priorities and resources as well as highlight your preferences in terms
of professional or lifestyle details. You could look for potential matches from
doctors, lawyers, scientists, internet entrepreneurs or any other successful
professions. However like all other kinds of internet dating, here too make
your safety a top priority while meeting someone new who you have got to
know through an online dating portal.

Her are some well known Christian dating websites. You can find
millionaire singles by using advanced search features on these
websites.

Christian Mingle [USA and Canada]

UKChristianDate [UK]

Christian Conservative Dating [USA]

BigChurch

Match.com [USA]
While not strictly a Christian dating website, Match.com has hundreds of
thousands of Christians as members. Use their advanced search to locate
singles by income and zero in on millionaire singles!

Match.com [UK]

The UK version of Match.com has a huge number of Christian singles from
the UK. They have an advanced search feature that will help you find
millionaire singles.

eHarmony

eHarmony isnt exclusively a Christian dating website. The members on
eHarmony are those looking for meaningful relationships. eHarmony has
their own methodology to determine if youre going to be compatible with
someone on various levels. eHarmony doesnt a have a buffet-type dating
spread where you see a million profiles with thumbnails and then send mail
to the most seductive ones. Rather they want to find a soul mate for you.
This is where a lot of high income people seem to head when theyre
looking for quality relationships.
Choose from eHarmony USA, eHarmony Canada and eHarmony UK
depending on your location.

5) Do your own bit

One of the surest ways to come across wealthy Christian men is to start
doing your own bit for the community. It could be as simple as offering free
academic help to underprivileged kids in your neighborhood or as ambitious
as starting a non-profit organization for environmental or humanitarian
causes. Even if you do not have the resources to start on a grand scale,
begin by offering whatever you may have to spare like your time and effort.
Also make an effort to spread word about the kind of non-profit work you are
doing for the community. You are sure to meet successful men while looking
for sponsors or raising funds and if lucky some of them might be single as
well. Again sooner or later wealthy singles who uphold Christian values
would get to know about you and your initiative and who knows a few of
them may even want to know you better.


6) Have patience

Single and wealthy men who are also practicing Christians are likely to be
rare and the few that are present in your city may not be keen on advertising
their status. So you need to have patience in your search and trust God to
lead you to the kind of partner you have in mind. In the meantime, enrich
your own life with faith and meaningful activities so that you are fulfilled and
at peace within yourself a quality which is bound to attract any guy who is
both successful and spiritual.


The richest men of all time and who they married


Some make money; some are born into it while some have money thrust on
them. It is only the first two clauses of this popular saying that have any
relevance in the lives of the richest, and the first even more than the second.
Here in reverse order of their wealth is a brief list of the ten richest men from
across the world and of all time, when considered at the height of their
fortunes and measured in terms of 2008 US dollars with other adjustments
for inflation and foreign exchange.

1) Carlos Slim Helu

Currently the richest man in the world, Slim owns vast assets in wide range
of sectors in Mexico, ranging from communications to transportation and
from cigarettes to soft drinks. All these put his estimated net worth at $60
billion. In fact between 2005 and 2007, it is believed that his net worth
practically double and at one time his fortunes were growing at the rate of
$27 million profit each day!

The 70 year-old Mexican billionaire grew up as the son of a Lebanese
immigrant who came to Mexico at the turn of the twentieth century. Slim
married Soumaya Domit in 1967 and the couple had six children. Currently
Slim is widowed and takes active interest in the Museo Soumaya which is
funded by the Carlos Slim Foundation and has one of the largest Dali and
Rodin collection in the world.

2) Warren Buffet

One of the most high-profile investors of America, Buffet has consistently
figured among the top three richest men in the world for many years now. At

the peak of his fortunes, Buffet was estimated to have $62 billion net worth
even though currently that has come down to $47 billion. The primary
source of Buffets fortune is the textile firm Berkshire Hathaway which he
took over in 1965. Eventually he used the company as a vehicle to invest in
varied sectors as insurance, food, utilities and recently green technology.

In 1962, buffet married Susan Thompson and the couple had three children.
However the couple began living separately since 1977 even though they
remained married till Susan death in 2004. Currently the 78 year-old self-
made billionaire is married to Astrid Menks, his long-time companion who
moved in with him after his wife left.

3) King Fahd Bin Abdul Aziz Alsaud

The Saudi Arabian king who expired in 2005 at the age of 82 left behind a
fortune estimated to be worth 32 billion Sterling Pounds or $76 billion at its
height. As the ruler of Saudi Arabia, the King owed his wealth not only to
ancestral and royal assets but to vast petroleum reserves in his country.
However a debilitating stroke in 1995 left the King noticeably frail and
unable to perform his royal duties following which his brother Crown Prince
Abdullah served as de facto Regent of the kingdom.

King Fahd has several wives as allowed under the Islamic law. He divorced
six of them while two died under natural circumstances. The king had six
sons and three daughters. King Fahds eldest son, Prince Faisal bin Fahd
died of a heart attack even while the king was alive. At the time of his own
death, King Fahd was married to Princess J awarah al Ibrahim, reportedly
his favorite wife.





4) Sam Walton

Sam Walton was the Founder of Wal-Mart, which is today the worlds largest
retail chain and also the second-largest private employer in America. At the
peak of his fortunes, Waltons wealth was an estimated $62.1 billion. The
secret of Waltons phenomenal success lay in introducing new concepts
such as good variety, convenient store hours and central warehousing of
merchandise which allowed heavy discount and thus extended his
competitive reach into smaller markets.

Sam Walton was married to Helen Robson and the couple had four children,
Sam Robson, J ohn, J im and Alice. Currently J im and Robson Walton
remain active in the day-to-day running of the vast retail empire.

5) Frederick Weyerhaeuser

One of the biggest businessmen of the late nineteenth century, Frederick
Weyerhaeuser built his fortunes around the lumber industry. He owed his
success not only to easy access to timber resources at the time but also to
huge demand for lumber and building in the aftermath of the American Civil
War. At the height of his entrepreneurial success, Weyerhaeuser was
estimated to possess a net worth of $76.5 billion.

The self-made billionaire of German origin migrated to United States in 1852
in search of better economic prospects. Here he began taking odd jobs in
farms until he impressed a boss with his sales acumen and knowledge on
timber, after which there was no looking back. In 1857 Weyerhaeuser
married Sarah Elizabeth Bloedel of Erie, Pennsylvania. The couple had
seven children in the course of their long marriage and celebrated their
fiftieth wedding anniversary in 1907 in the midst of children and
grandchildren in the family home on Rock Island.




6) John Jacob Astor

The man synonymous with the fur trade is believed to be the first millionaire
of America. Astor started out in the fur business sometime at the end of
eighteenth century when he overheard some men discussing the prospects
in this line. After making millions, he turned his attention to the opium trade
where again he met with success. Eventually he diversified into real estate,
focusing on the city which was to be the financial capital of the world, NYC.
At the peak of his career, Astors fortunes were estimated to run into $116.6
billion.

The son of German refugees, Astor is another shining example of how big
one can make in the Promised Land. After arriving to United States in 1784,
he soon started trading with the Native American Indians in fur and
gradually built up a business which extended till the Great Lakes region and
Canada. Astor got married the very next year of his arrival in America. His
wife was Sarah Todd who according to Astor possessed a keen practical
mind and who had helped with him with many crucial business decisions.
The marriage produced five children, three daughters and two sons of whom
William Backhouse Astor carried on the Astor business legacy.

7) Bill Gates

The Software mogul who co-founded Microsoft is today the second richest
person in the world. Interestingly however almost 60% of Gates fortune is
held outside Microsoft with assets in Four Seasons Hotel, Auto Nation,
Televisa as well as his investment vehicle Cascade. So even if Gates
current net worth is down to $58 billion from its heady peak a decade ago, it
hardly matters to him with an all-time fortune of $124 billion including the
$38.7 billion strong Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation.


Bill Gates got married to Melinda French of Dallas on New Years Day in
1994 on the Hawaiian island of Lanai. Melinda at the time was working as a
Microsoft manager. Today the couple have three children and they live in a
palatial 60,000 square feet, earth-sheltered mansion in Medina,
Washington. Both Bill and Melinda Gates are actively involved in
philanthropy with charitable and scientific research constituting their main
areas of support. During his leisure, Bill Gates is believed to enjoy reading,
playing golf, bridge and tennis.

8) Cornelius Vanderbilt

The self-made entrepreneur who changed the rules of transport business in
nineteenth century America, Cornelius Vanderbilt made millions from his
steamship and railroad empire. In the early years of business, Vanderbilt
was known for undercutting his competitors to the point of his own
unprofitability. But apparently his business sense paid off in the end as he
amassed a fortune which in its peak touched a massive $178.4 billion.

Vanderbilt was the descendent of Dutch immigrants but by the age of 16 he
was already running his own ferry service between Staten Island and
Manhattan. In 1817, he was picked up by an entrepreneur to captain a
steamboat following which Vanderbilt went on from strength to strength. His
first wife Sophia was actually a first cousin with whom he had thirteen
children. Following his wife's death in 1868, Vanderbilt went to Canada
where he met and married a cousin from Mobile, Alabama, named Frank
Armstrong Crawford, who at the time was 43 years younger than her
husband.





9) Andrew Carnegie

The American steel magnate of the nineteenth century, Andrew Carnegie is
one of the richest men of all times. And yet success did not come to him
overnight. A self-made man from humble beginnings, Carnegie worked hard
from childhood. With continual progress he accumulated savings which
became investments. Eventually his investments became capital for a wide
range of business ventures spread over railroads, rail sleeping cars,
bridges, oil derricks and finance which at the peak of his career made him
worth a whopping $297.8 billion.

The Scottish-American entrepreneurial legend married Louise Whitfield,
daughter of New York City merchant J ohn D. Whitfield in a private ceremony
in 1887. At the time of marriage Louise was twenty-one years younger than
her husband. The couple had only one child, a daughter Margaret. Today
Andrew Carnegie is best remembered for his philanthropic legacy which
made him donate billions to educational and research institutions.

10) John D. Rockefeller

The richest man in modern history is without doubt J ohn D. Rockefeller
whose name has become a by-word for big money. Rockefeller made his
fortune in the oil business and founded the Standard Oil Company which
soon came to dominate the entire energy industry. Eventually he was found
to have encouraged monopolistic practices but by then he had already
diversified into other ventures and the Rockefeller fortune was estimated to
be a staggering $323.4 billion.

In 1864, Rockefeller married Laura Celestia Spelman of whom he is
believed to have said "Her judgment was always better than mine. Without
her keen advice, I would be a poor man. The couple had four daughters
and one son, J ohn D Rockefeller J r., who was largely entrusted with the

running of several educational and scientific foundations that the great
entrepreneur-philanthropist had founded.

TIP: Sometimes multimillionaires dont want to reveal that they have millions
as they are afraid of gold diggers who will cut their throat for the money.
They want to judge the character of a lady, know more about her and then
reveal more about themselves. Youll find many wealthy men on eHarmony.
Choose from eHarmony USA, eHarmony Canada and eHarmony UK
depending on your location.



10 careers that will help you meet rich men





What woman does not want a rich and sensitive guy to take care of her
emotional as well as material needs! But even after frequenting upscale
bars for umpteen times or downing endless cups of espresso at a swanky
coffee shop, if you remain unsuccessful, perhaps it is time to take the
search where the rich guys spend most of their time the workplace. Here
are ten top careers that will help you to meet single rich men.

1) Wealth management

No surprises there! All those guys who are adding on to their millions every
year need to know about ways they can multiply their assets or keep them
safe from the taxman. A banker, a hedge-fund manager, an investment
consultant would count among the best careers in this category which are
sure to bring you in direct contact with Mr. Moneybags and once you spot
one without a wedding band, you can always move up from business to
pleasure. Wealth management is certain to get you in touch with single rich
men. This will include first generation entrepreneurs who are self made
millionaires as well as the blue blooded singles from wealthy families.

2) Insurance

Rich guys insure all sorts of things their businesses, factories, houses,
paintings, yachts, horses and what not. Thus working in the insurance
sector offers you ample opportunities to deal with clients who have
expensive and quirky things to insure. But then you need to be attached to

well-known insurance firms rather than working for just any fly-by-night
company. Big brands in insurance inspire trust and will attract the rich men
you're looking for. Single rich men often take out large insurance policies
when they're younger to save on the insurance premiums in the long run.


3) Public relations

This is another career which will require you to meet rich entrepreneurs,
customers and powerful government officials on behalf of your company or
client. For this you need to have an attractive, outgoing personality,
excellent communication skills and understand people well enough to
market a positive image of the company you are working for. You're likely to
meet a lot of single rich men through this profession.

4) Journalism

Being part of the news industry will put you in direct contact with all the
movers and shakers of the finance world. As a journalist you could work
either for the electronic or print news media but it will vastly help if you focus
on the economic or finance sections. The best part about being a journalist
is the easy access that you are bound to get to the rich and famous and who
knows the next time you go to interview a budding entrepreneur, you might
get talking about more than sales and shares. You could also meet a lot of
single celebrities and hobnob with them at high profile events. Peole at the
to are often very lonely and if you make interesting company, charming a
rich single professional who's unusually successful in his profession should
be a goal within reach.





5) Auctioneer

Once a guy makes pots of money, more often than not he turns into a
collector. For some it could be paintings or sculptures while for other it could
stamps, ancient manuscripts or even antique rare furniture. And the place
where these rich collectors need to come to indulge their expensive hobby is
the auction center. So try to get work at an exclusive auction house and you
may just find a rich and single client placing his bid for your heart.


6) Non-profit organization

Most millionaires believe in giving back to the same society that has helped
them to achieve so much. Thus it is not unusual to find rich people to be
associated with philanthropic work or at least generous enough to support a
good cause. So if you are involved with a non-profit group working for your
own community or for an international cause, you might be surprised to find
rich patrons in decent numbers and who knows you might even come
across an attractive single from among them. If you find yourself as
passionate about a cause as some rich single, it would be much easier to
strike a chord.

7) Sommelier

Rich and successful men are rather proud of the cellar they keep and the
one person they are bound to take help from in this respect is a sommelier.
Being an expert of fine wines and other exclusive spirits is sure to put you in
touch with men who dont mind spending an extra thousand bucks for a
vintage champagne or limited production cognac. So start cultivating your
senses of taste and smell and if lucky, you may find yourselves raising a
toast to something more beautiful than a Dom Perignon.


8) Restaurant

Where do all the rich guys go when they need to entertain? To a fine dining
destination, of course. The restaurant is a great place to meet successful
men simply because here they are in a mood for socializing and would be
more than happy to return your welcoming smile with even some pleasant
chit-chat thrown in for good measure. Best of all, in this industry there is a
wide range of positions you can choose from, ranging from executives and
F&B managers to chefs and waitresses.

9) Fitness centers

All those moneymakers need to take care of their health too. So whether
they decide to spend a day at an exclusive spa or work out in a state-of-the-
art gym, a fitness expert is the best person to help them unwind. And even if
a reclusive millionaire prefers his own private gym or spa, you can always
work as a personal trainer, tennis/golf coach or masseuse to make him feel
fit and rejuvenated. Relationship experts however point out that sometimes
wearing a uniform may create a psychological barrier between a rich client
and someone working for him which he may be unwilling to cross. So keep
in mind your options and get ready to work away all that strain and tension
on your rich and single client.

10) Sales

Sex sells and how! Sales is one of the top industries that employ women
and with good reason too. According to the U.S. Department of Labor,
women made up 34% of all sales positions and 20% of all service
occupations. Hardly surprising, when you consider that all store managers
want to hire the most attractive people to greet their customers, especially
when they happen to be rich and male. However be certain to be associated
with products and services which attract an upper-end clientele. Expensive

apparel, perfume, jewelry, accessories and lifestyle products for men are
some segments that you can explore.

The workplace is one of the best venues to meet a rich single men to date.
Unlike in a bar or nightclub where you have just your charms to fall upon, no
matter how considerable they are, at the workplace you can impress them
with your professional skills and confidence as well. And the combination of
beauty and brains is one that almost all men find hard to resist.

10 strengths that will help you meet rich men


Are you tired of dating someone who insists on splitting the dinner bill and
takes penny pinching to a new level? Very likely you dream of being
romanced by a guy who wouldnt think twice of lavishing you with Louise
Vuitton bags every other day and taking you to vacations in private islands.
But what do you need to possess to attract such a catch? Here are ten
talents that will help you meet and date a super rich man.

1) Stunning looks

Lets face it the rich boys can afford the best of everything and that
includes pretty young women too. So even if you believe that beauty is
merely skin-deep and a persons inner worth is what really matters, it is very
unlikely that a successful man will want to be seen with a woman who looks
like something the cat dragged in on a wet day. So lose the extra pounds,
go for a makeover and practice an 800-watt smile that will stun any man
rich or poor into submission.

2) Social graces

Important as they are, looks will only make a man give you a second glance
or ask you out for a drink. However once he gets to know you, make sure
that you come off as a charming and refined woman who is well versed with
etiquette and social graces. Remember that rich people are used to moving
around in elite circles and unless you give evidence of your own social
bearing, it is unlikely that he will make you part of his world.





3) A well-read personality

This again is a huge plus if you want a rich guy to date you consistently
instead of just having a one-night stand. Men who make millions as a
banker, doctor or corporate honcho will expect their companions to be smart
and intellectually challenging as well. After all, a relationship can last only so
long merely on the basis on sexual chemistry. Moreover if you want to be
introduced to his family and friends, it would certainly help to come off as
woman who is not only good looking but has a well-rounded personality too.

4) Financial acumen

Professions related to the world of finance are some of the best-paid in the
economy. Bankers, hedge-fund managers, investment consultants, CFOs of
multinationals and insurers of the top echelons are believed to take away
pay packets rivaling even the political rulers of the country. A good way to
be noticed by a wealthy single from this profession would be to display
some financial acumen yourself. Take a course in any of the finance
subjects or brush up your knowledge of accounts and statistics. Best of all
get a job in one of the firms where you are certain to meet the top financial
brains and if that is taking time, be on the lookout at business conferences
and seminars where the finance fat cats come together.

5) Golfing skills

Focus on a hobby which is popular among the rich guys and practice it till
you are a reasonable expert. Golf for instance offers not only a great way of
working off all that stress but also a fertile platform to strike lucrative
business deals. So brush up your putt or perhaps your tennis backhand and
wait till your shot elicits a wow from a millionaire practicing nearby.




6) Knowledge of foreign languages

In these times of globalization, business deals and financial transactions
with people from all over the world have become regular features. In such a
situation, millionaire businessmen and corporate honchos are always on the
lookout for language experts who can serve as verbal interpreters in
particular and cultural mediators in general. So if you have a way with
languages, try getting a job in multinational companies or well-endowed
cultural institutions and you will definitely get to meet the top guys in the
field.

7) Expertise on food or wine

It is common for rich men to patronize favorite restaurants and bars even if
not for indulging their own taste buds but to entertain business or
professional contacts. So if you have a zen for cooking or a nose for fine
wines, try to develop those skills. However Here it is as important to get
employed with the most exclusive wining and dining addresses in town or it
will be difficult to get your skills noticed by a wealthy patron.

8) Personal fitness

A lot of rich singles are in the nature of retirees who have made enough
millions to live lavishly in the mellow years of their lives. Try to think of skills
that will bring you in touch with such wealthy old men like being a personal
trainer, an in-house nutritionist or their very own masseuse. And while you
do a great job of improving their health, be sure to lend a sympathetic ear to
their money and family complaints as well. Before you know it, you may
have turned into a companion from a hired professional.




9) Charm the little ones

If you have a way with kids, look for opportunities that can get you inside a
wealthy home as a nanny, au pair or home tutor. With rising divorce rates,
there are bound to be rich and single dads desperate to look for someone to
take care of their children. And even though you need to have a professional
mindset in the beginning, with a little bit of luck you can work your charms
on the Super rich dad together with the kids.

10) Homemaking skills

If you believe that you have nothing to show for your skills other than your
perfectly managed home, you need not despair. As more and more women
head to work and build careers, being a talented homemaker is a major plus
in itself. In fact the ability to manage a household, bring up the kids and
entertain family and friends all at the same time is being highly sought
by men who are otherwise too busy making their millions.


How to meet and date millionaire businessmen






One of the many reasons why wealthy businessmen are among the most
sought after dating partners is that they often bring to a relationship that
amazing combination of hard work and resourcefulness which made them
so successful in their enterprises in the first place. So if you would like to
have a partner with deep pockets and who also looks sexy in a suit, here is
how to find and date a millionaire businessman.

Get a job

To meet a potential date, you must be around the places where they spend
most of their waking hours in a day which in case of a successful
businessman would be his office or place of work. Get a job in a company or
business which is doing really well and where the owner is a single guy.
Even if you are not qualified for a managerial appointment, look for
temporary or trainee positions which will also offer you valuable
opportunities to come across the top guns and once that happen, be sure to
turn on your charm full-blast.

Attend business-based events

Look for business conventions and trade conferences that are taking place
in your city. Attending these would allow you to mingle with the most
successful minds in the business, among which there are bound to be a few
singles. However if you find any of these restricted to non-professionals like

you or charging huge entry fees, consider volunteering at the event which
could range from ushering in the guests to manning a business booth in one
of the trade pavilions. Wealth-management seminars and workshops are
other places where there is likely to be a fair concentration of successful
businessmen. However if you decide to be present at such events, make
sure that you come prepared with some knowledge of what is going on
around you since a potential date might want to know what a pretty woman
like you is doing among a sea of grey suits.

Look around where you are

Banks are one of the few places where wealthy businessmen and the
regular crowd have frequent chances of coming across each other. So the
next time you visit a bank to cash a check, look around yourself carefully
and see if you can spot an entrepreneurial figure sporting a Rolex
wristwatch but minus a wedding ring. In fact while filling up forms, you can
even strike up a conversation with a seeming potential date and explore the
chances of discussing shares and stocks over a cup of latte.

Browse through bookstores

Bookstores draw people from various walks of life but if you want to meet
wealthy businessmen, the sections to browse through would be finance,
marketing, management and the like. Self-help and public relations are
other favorite categories for the rich boys working to climb the ladder. Few
millionaire entrepreneurs would have the time to sit for hours at libraries or
join book clubs. Bookstores on the other hand have a fair chance of
attracting successful people, especially the book lovers among them.
However when browsing for the best-selling management mantras on the
bookstore shelves, be sure to watch out for co-enthusiasts in expensive ties
and maybe you can find time to discuss a date among other things.


Exclusive clubs

Almost all millionaire businessmen are members of some club or other and
nine times out of ten, they are ones where the annual subscription runs into
thousands of dollars besides having a three-year waiting list. Such clubs are
not only places to relax with a drink or work out with a game of squash for its
exclusive patrons, but also ideal venues to entertain a client or strike a
lucrative business deal. Frequenting such clubs will put you in direct contact
with several wealthy businessmen, many of whom are sure to be single.
Apart from traditional clubs, there may be clubs catering to specific interests
and activities like wine appreciation clubs, yachting clubs or equestrian
clubs that attract millionaire businessmen. Similarly many a billion-dollar
deal has been known to be struck on a golf course while the business
parties are teeing off. Even if you cannot afford the membership fees, look
for occasions and events held at these clubs where guests are allowed and
best of all, the rich and single are in a mood to socialize.

Upscale hangouts

No matter how hard a millionaire businessman may be working to pile on
those millions, some time or other he would need to take a break and what
better place to chill out other than the most happening party zones in your
town. However dont go pub or disco-hopping just about anywhere but only
at those places where you know the rich and single hang out. When waiting
for a drink at the bar, remember to keep an ear open for business talk and
when you hear a lot of words like TPS reports and sales estimates, you
know that it is time to make your move. At the same time stay away from
events and venues which ostentatiously expensive since a lot of millionaire
businessmen are often frugal and dislike flaunting a lavish, indulgent
lifestyle.



Rope in family and friends

Dont discount the potential of friends and family to help you come across
successful and, if lucky, single businessmen. They could be employers or
clients of close friends whom you can get to know at their office parties.
Again if you are a single parent, by all means get curious about other single
parents at your PTA meetings, especially if any of them happens to turn up
in a pin-striped suit or step out of a Mercedes Benz.

Expand your horizons

If you want to meet and date millionaire businessmen, look for opportunities
to gather and display you own financial acumen. You could sign up for a
financial accounting course or a workshop on successful entrepreneurship.
Millionaires who have made their millions from scratch are most likely to be
attracted by women who have a sharp mind to go with their pretty faces.

Millionaire Match has what is arguably the largest database of single
millionaire men looking for dating opportunities on the internet.


Meeting and dating rich doctors in USA


Doctors make up one of the most successful professional groups in the
United States. Not to mention the prestige and respect they command in
society for the kind of work they are associated with. Add to this the humane
nature of their job and you have one of the most attractive potential dating
partners. Here is how to find and date a doctor in USA.


What is in it for you?

Doctors in USA are one of the best-paid professional groups, higher than
college teachers or even engineers in general. Among the doctors too, there
is a wide range in earnings. This is partly because of the nature of
specialization into various disciplines like cardiology, oncology, obstetrics or
family practice. According to the US Department of Labor, doctors salaries
are separated into the following specialty areas: Family and General
Practice, General Internists, Anesthesiologists, Obstetricians and
Gynecologists, Podiatrists, Surgeons, Psychiatrists and Podiatrists. Among
these, the cardiac surgeons and anesthesiologists have some of the highest
earnings while salaries of general practitioners and podiatrists are on the
lower range. 2003 Statistics from the US Department of Labor reveal that
the average salary of general and family practitioner in the USA is $139,640
a year while an anesthesiologist on an average makes around $184,880 a
year. Of all the specialists, the one with the most varied salaries were the
surgeons. This is mainly due to the nature of a surgeons area of
specialization. While an American cardiac surgeon can earn as much as
$400,000 a year, the average salary of a general surgeon is a mere
$103,700. Yet another factor determining a doctors salaries is the area of
practice. The best paying states for surgeons for example in the US are

New Hampshire and Nebraska while general physicians in Nevada can
expect to get a higher pay packet than even some specialists.

How can you meet them?

In order to know find potential dates from the medical profession, you have
to know where doctors tend to hang out during after-hours. Rather than
parking yourself at bars and nightclubs every Saturday night and hoping to
chance upon a man or woman in scrubs, you would stand a greater chance
of meeting doctors if you frequent the places they do like professional
associations or high-end clubs. The American Medical Association is an
umbrella organization which includes physicians across the country and
whose main aim is to work on important professional and public health
issues. However AMA has a chapter in each state which keeps organizing
meets, dinners and semi-social events. In fact there is even an American
Association of Physicians of Indian Origin should you be looking at potential
partners from a particular ethnicity or community.

Other than these find about conferences and seminars involving medical
professionals in your city. While it may be difficult for non-medicos to gain
access to most of these dos, you can try to come as someone elses guest
or manage an entry as a volunteer. Charity medical camps like blood
donation events or immunization camps are venues which are easier to gain
access to, even though the number of doctors here may be few and eligible
ones a matter of supreme luck. Again if you dont mind a bit of hard work,
volunteer at your local hospital and mingle with the staff to discover the
doctors in need of a more active social life. Besides professional events,
look for lifestyle venues like exclusive resorts or golf clubs where the most
successful of doctors are likely to relax over a drink or with a round at the
links. Here too, gaining entry will be a test of your resourcefulness but once
in, you are more likely to come upon a doctor in a sociable mood and hence
willing to chat over a martini. Also dont discount bars and cafes near

hospitals since they can have single medicos grabbing a bite or a latte
before going back their shifts. Keep your ear open for individuals who drop
multi-syllabic medical terms in casual conversations. Finally look through
online dating agencies which claim to be able to match you up with doctors
among other successful professionals. You can often use their advanced
search feature to locate single rich doctors .

What are single doctors looking for?

Assuming that you are determined to date a doctor and that you even know
foolproof ways of meeting them, consider if you have what the eligible guys
and girls in white robes are looking for. It is not necessary for a doctor to find
another super-intelligent partner to be happy in love - quite the contrary
really, since a partner with average intelligence is less likely to seem
competition. However you should be prepared to offer your doctor date
some opportunities of interesting conversation or intellectually-engaging
interests if you want your relationship to be compatible on all fronts. At the
same time you should have an unfailing sense of humor to get you through
those times when your doctor girlfriend has changed plans for the third
Friday in a row or when your boyfriend has turned up in an outfit to match
his genius. A lighthearted outlook on life is virtually a must for all those
dating doctors. Finally you have to possess patience loads of it. You need
to understand that your partner is different from the ones you have dated in
the past. He/she may not always remember social commitments or he/she
may not always be available when you need a shoulder to cry on or share a
good news. At times, your doctor partner may not even be able to give you
the kind of attention you deserve but not because he/she loves you any
less, but because there peoples lives and well-beings at stake and to which
he/she is bound by professional ethics.

Finally it would be a good idea to keep in mind that established and single
doctors are not only very difficult to come across but they are hot property

on the dating scene. A more practical option would be to date single
students from the medical fraternity. Doctors who choose to specialize study
well into their late twenties or early thirties. While they might not be making
millions yet, they are more likely to be younger and less difficult to please
besides having a very bright future ahead, professionally and with you,
personally as well.

Dating a wealthy lawyer



The world of the law and its practitioners too can seem cold and
forbidding to hopes of a budding romance. And yet lawyers can make the
most dependable of partners if one goes about it the right way. Here is a
brief guide to dating a lawyer and the aspects that you would do well to keep
in mind.

Get comfortable with legalese

Lawyers like other driven professionals are passionate about their work and
so it would help your dating relationship if you can share some of that
enthusiasm. This however does not mean that you need to spout legal
jargon in fact your partner may look askance if you start doing that or
even memorize the fine points of civil and criminal law. But if you can keep
abreast of the interesting legal cases in current news or at least show some
familiarity with the ideas of crime and punishment, it will pique your lawyer
partners interest in you and let him/her know that there is more to you than
an attractive face or physique.

Expect to be indulged

The best part of dating a lawyer is of course that you can expect to be taken
out in style. The legal business is one of the highest paid in America and
depending on the field of expertise, reputation and location, a lawyer can
expect to earn in millions per year. In fact according to 2008 figures from the
US Department of Labor, the median annual wages of all wage-and-salaried
lawyers was $110,590. But top firms in cities like New York and Washington
D.C are reported to start salaries for first year associates at $160,000 plus a

yearend bonus. Small wonder then lawyers are highly sought as dates by
people who love to be wined and dined at the most exclusive addresses in
town besides being pampered with lavish presents.

Know where to look

There are lots of places where one can come across single lawyers. Stylish
pubs and cafes around legal chambers as well as the local courthouses bar
are a few locations that you can explore. Drop in after working hours and
look for the crowd in suits, long after others may have changed into casual
wear. Also wrangle invitations to social events in the legal community like
fundraising dinners or bar association functions. Gaining an entry to
exclusive golf resorts or clubs for rich and successful lawyers may be more
challenging but the advantage of these venues is that the members are
likelier to be relaxed and more amenable to a social encounter. At the same
time dont forget the power of the virtual world. There are lots of dating
websites like which specifically cater to relationship requirements of lawyers.

Be careful of your appearance and behavior

Lawyers are usually conservative by nature and are not comfortable with
display of highly individualistic fashion or behavior. So if planning to go with
your lawyer lover, take care to tone down the color of your dress/jacket and
keep accessories to a minimum. However since they also have an acute
judgment of material things, you can expect your partner to notice and
appreciate a solitaire on your throat or the custom-designed watch on your
wrist. At the same time, refrain from loud or upstart behavior especially if
you want to see your partner again. And in case he/she confides
professional matters in you, be sure to keep them to yourself. Few values
matter more to lawyers than discretion and integrity.



Be prepared to make sacrifices

Like any other lucrative profession, the practice of law imposes great
demands on a persons time. So when dating a lawyer, you must realize that
he/she will be working long hours and may even be swamped on the
weekends. An essential part of a lawyers work routine involves waking up
early for court timings and much preparation the night before. So while your
friends may be busy dancing away till the wee hours of Sunday morning,
you may find your partner up to neck in his workload. At these times you
need to exercise patience and understand that your partners unavailability
has nothing to do with you. Also once you consider that a trial lawyer holds
the fate of a client in his/her hands, it will be much easier for you to accept
and appreciate the kind of work that he/she does.

Lawyers are often seen as cold and conservative

While this may be something of an exaggeration, it is likely that due to the
nature of their profession, lawyers are much more grounded in facts and
figures. So it may be difficult for them to be swayed by pure emotion and
always respond in a sensitive manner. On the other hand, if you are a
person who constantly needs emotional support and evidence of sensitivity
from a partner, you may need to think twice before dating a lawyer. Their
objective and calculative natures expect a degree of emotional
independence in a partner and the ability to sift facts from feelings and
intuitions.

Be wary of pitfalls in future

However if you do plan to take your relationship with a lawyer to a more
committed level, consider what risks you run in case the marriage or live-in
arrangement does not work out. In a divorce, a lawyer is bound to have the
upper hand and even if you have a genuine case against your partner,

he/she might be able to take advantage of legal loopholes to get a better
deal.

Be realistic

Finally be realistic of your goals in a relationship with a lawyer. They are
naturally cautious people and would think a thousand times before
committing themselves to a more serious relationship. So if you find yourself
losing patience with your partner and wondering if he/she will ever propose
or accept your proposal, take a deep breath and learn to keep faith. On the
other hand however if you find that your expectations dont seem to match
your partners, approach him/her with a frank talk about your relationship.
Being a lawyer, your partner is likely to discuss things in a calm and
objective manner and make a genuine effort in finding a workable solution.


Finding and dating a black millionaire



Millionaires come in all varieties in the modern world. The days of the
financial pyramid being dominated and monopolized by white males are
quickly changing. So what does this mean for you, as a black individual
looking to find a life partner? In short, it means that you don't have to look
just for a pretty face and a compatible personality; we all know that a pretty
wallet makes a pretty face prettier and that dollar signs are among the best
personality traits there are. So how do you find black millionaires?

The best city in the United States to find wealthy black people is without a
doubt Atlanta. The population in Atlanta is roughly 60% African American
and many famous hip hop acts (and others who have the potential to
become famous) are based out of this vibrant city. Furthermore, there are
some some very high profile businesses with headquarters in Atlanta
including Coca-Cola, UPS, AT&T, Home Depot and Delta Airlines, so even
those who aren't in the entertainment industry often have some very secure
and high paying careers. Atlanta is by far and away the best city to meet
wealthy black people, so plan a trip.

The industry of professional athletics in the United States is chalked full of
black millionaires. The NBA is absolutely dominated by black men (over
80%) and the NFL, while not quite to the same degree as the NBA, is also
comprised primarily of black men (around 65%). The best way to meet these
guys in such a way that you might be able to get an actual conversation is to
go behind the stadium after a game and wait patiently for the limos to arrive.
When the athletes start to leave it's time to pounce. It might not be the
classiest method for meeting men but I'm sure you'd be willing to sell a

smidgeon of ephemeral dignity for the right price, and these men all (even
the third string bench guys) have enormous amounts of money at their
disposal. As a man searching for the wealthiest of black women, the WNBA
also presents a similar opportunity. The advantage for men in this regard is
that (with all due respect) the WNBA is not exactly made up of the most
attractive women in the world. They are (for the most part) unusually tall and
masculine and realistically they probably weren't the romantic targets of the
best looking guys in their youth. Money and extreme success are pretty
good replacements but you may be able to prey on their old insecurities in
some cases.

The music industry also has its share of black millionaires. The genres of hip
hop and R&B are almost entirely made up of black men and women (with
exceptions; but the percentage is comparable to that of the NBA). Meeting
high profile successes like these can be difficult but if you make the right
connections it's possible. Try to make friends with people who have jobs at
local concert venues. There are usually many security guards, lighting
specialists, sound engineers and others employed at any given concert
venue to help the musicians and their staffs run shows smoothly. Go to a
concert and hang around the venue way too long after the concert and you'll
stand a good chance at meeting some of these guys. Pretend to take
interest (you may not need to pretend; these peoples' jobs allow them to
interact with world famous acts regularly) and they'll probably be flattered.
Develop a friendship and you might be able to negotiate some leeway with
regards to getting backstage at a later show.

When you've found yourself in that ideal relationship with the black
millionaire, show respect and be appreciative, but also assert your
individuality and strength. Let's get real; most black people who have found
their way to wealth in the United States didn't get there by privilege. They
got there by overcoming odds and being strong enough individuals to better
themselves consistently regardless of surroundings. Show yourself to be the

same type of individual and you're much more likely to develop a mutually
respectful relationship that won't end in you being dumped, which is what
you want to avoid.

Stay away from prenuptial agreements if at all possible. The whole point of
marrying a millionaire is ultimately money in your pocket and a prenuptial
agreement (in most cases) threatens that. Tell your spouse to be that love is
your only motivation and that a prenuptial agreement goes against the
romance of your relationship. If you can deliver this message convincingly
and with legitimate passion then you may well be able to get through to your
partner. Don't go so far as to say you'll leave unless the agreement is pulled
from the table (that could blow up in your face) but make your anger with the
implications of your partner choosing to draft such a document very
apparent. If there's no way out of it then hire a lawyer (it'd be pretty
hypocritical of your spouse to get angry about this) and try to make sure that
the prenuptial agreement is as mutually advantageous (i.e. advantageous
for you) as possible.

It's hard to imagine too many things that would be better than being a
millionaire, but one that comes pretty close is dating and marrying a
millionaire. You can live the lavish lifestyle without putting forth all the
annoying effort associated with actually earning the money you spend. And
on top of that if worse comes to worse and your relationship fails you can
divorce your spouse, take a boatload of money, and magically be a lot more
attractive as you delve back into dating. There's very little to lose by at least
taking a shot, so go make your millions.

One of the ways to find a black millionaire is to sign up with black
dating websites instead of wealthy dating sites. You can always search
by income and locate black millionaires whore single and looking.



Some black dating websites:

Black Singles [USA]

Black Singles is part of the Spark network of dating websites. This is a huge
network. The company is reputed and publicly traded. They have a large
number of black singles from the US. You can search by income and find all
the black lawyers, doctors and other highly paid professionals here.

Matchmaker.com [USA]

Matchmaker.com has been around for a very long time. They advertise
heavily and have a lot of Black single men from USA.

BlackPeopleMeet


Lesbian millionaire dating



So do you feel like being a greedy lesbian today and dating the upper
echelon of your demographic? Make no mistake about it; there are lesbian
millionaires to be found out there. It's just going to take a bit more searching
and precision to track them down (as opposed to an all American
cheerleader girl type trying to find a millionaire man). Don't fret it though;
even if it takes a bit of effort for you to find a millionaire soul mate the payoff
at the end will easily cover the time cost of the journey. Here's how you
start.

You'll never find any girlfriend, rich or otherwise (but it applies doubly when
seeking out the rich ones), if you don't put yourself out there regularly. Many
people have this sort of idealist notion (romantic films in the media don't
help) that love will just find them and that they don't have to work for it. It
doesn't matter if you're the most gorgeous and charismatic woman in the
universe; you're not on anyone's radar before you meet them. The odds of a
millionaire lesbian's limo breaking down outside of your house while she and
her driver both have dead batteries in their cell phones are pretty slim. So
spend time in public and just meet people. Even if you're a confirmed
introvert with isolation as a hobby of choice (as many of us are), or a
reserved girl with a bit of a fear of approaching other women (you wouldn't
be alone here either; men have had to learn to swallow their fears to
approach women for ages) there's just a lot more to gain than to lose by
going against your routines. Continuously bringing new people into your life,
even if they only have very small roles in it, is very rewarding.

Networking is key when seeking the elusive millionaire lesbian. The more
friends you have, the better chance that someone among your friends

knows of a wealthy woman who shares your orientation. Other lesbians and
rich people of all varieties are the best types of people to know (though it's
certainly good to have friends from all circles; these are the two that are
going to be the most likely to be able to point you to what you're looking for)
for your situation. So be as elegant as possible to intrigue the wealthy and
accessorize with a tasteful rainbow necklace or bracelet (a widely
recognized symbol of gay pride) to draw in the lesbians. With a large
network of rich and gay friends it's only a matter of time before you stumble
across a person with both qualities. Chance meetings with millionaire
lesbians may seem pretty unlikely, but putting yourself in the right
environments surrounded by the right types of people can certainly increase
your odds.

Many cities now have gay and lesbian community centers. These can be
great places to just make friends who share your orientation, but they also
have the potential to connect you with lesbians of the unusually wealthy
variety. Rich people have a funny way of choosing at least one cause to
support with their money, and for the lesbian community that cause is more
often than not going to be the fight against discrimination. Community
centers like these often rely heavily on donations, and those who donate the
most are going to show up periodically to see what their money is doing.
You'll be able to spot the benefactors pretty easily as they'll be surrounded
by grateful admirers. Go feminine with your style, look hot, and walk up and
introduce yourself. Show a high level of confidence and dignity when first
speaking to a woman like this. You don't want to immediately be seen as a
possible gold digger, but you do want to show interest and develop a
meaningful conversation that goes beyond the endless gratitude that she
will hear from most people at the center. If you can make her feel as though
she's talking to an equal, she may be intrigued.

High end gay and lesbian bars and clubs are also a great place to take a
shot at finding that millionaire dream girl. It may take a little trial and error to

find gay bars that attract the wealthier clientele, but it's worth the search
(and you can have some fun along the way at the normal gay bars).
Generally what you're looking for in these types of atmospheres is the more
refined and feminine looking girls drinking only the finest alcohol
(champagne is a good thing to look for). Think lipstick lesbians as opposed
to flannel shirt lesbians. Approach a target and say you look like you want
to buy me a drink or something like that; add in a cheeky smile and
chances are a conversation begins.

Even the most feminine of lesbians (and you'll find that the very wealthiest
among lesbians tend to be among the most feminine; in appearance at
least) have a need and appreciation for the strength and masculinity that
other lesbians bring to the table (as opposed to many of their heterosexual
counterparts). At the same time though, lesbians of the wealthier variety are
going to be seeking the most attractive and sexually appealing of their
demographic, and that entails femininity. The point of all this is that when
trying to hook a millionaire lesbian, balance is important. Always look
stunning, but be willful and assertive as well.

While it's true that lesbian millionaires aren't exactly on every street corner,
there are wealthy ones to be found in the United States, if you're simply
willing to look. Never downplay your own aspirations and desires. If true
romance and love is something that's lacking in your life (as it is for many
people) you can't expect to just fill the void with dollar bills. If money's your
main priority though (and who could blame you?), then the rich lesbians
await.

Lesbian dating websites

For lesbian dating websites we strongly recommend GayDating.com . They
are a strongly focused gay and lesbian matchmaking service. You can
search for highly paid professionals here and find a millionaire to date.


You can also visit LesbianPersonals.com , part of the Friendfinder network
of dating websites.

Finding and dating a gay millionaire


It's no secret that gay men are very aware of their personal style and that
they love to shop. If you break the mold and go against the stereotype (I see
it as a positive stereotype; gay men take pride in their appearance where
many straight men seem to be apathetic towards it) then great but if not
then there's one type of man who's the best to date: the millionaire. The
number of gay men who have had enormous financial success in the United
States has been steadily growing and these days there is no shortage at all.
So if you're a gay guy looking to get in on the money grubbing dating
strategies that women have been using for decades, here are a few good
ideas.

The city of choice when hunting down the gay millionaire is San Francisco.
While other cities, such as Chicago, IL and Wilton Manors, FL may
technically have a higher percentage of homosexuals per capita, San
Francisco has a high percentage of homosexuals and is in a very liberal
state with many high profile individuals who have managed to accumulate a
great deal of wealth. The beaches in San Francisco also offer up a great
environment to show yourself off and hopefully be seen by the right people
(those who own the boats). The networking opportunities are abundant in
this city, as you will easily find yourself meeting dozens of other gay men at
will. The more you know, the richer the richest of them are. Ultimately, San
Francisco is clearly the place to live for a man in search of a rich gay lover.
Hollywood and other parts of Los Angeles are also good choices.

A good place to look when seeking out wealthy homosexuals is the fashion
industry. This is one industry that straight men can't get a strangle hold on
because often times their grasp on fashion is just leagues below that of
women and gay men. Go to fashion shows and festivals, mingle with

whoever you can, and make yourself visible (obviously while wearing only
the very best of your wardrobe). You may be lucky enough to meet an
established fashion designer but even if you can't you're still quite likely to
find aspiring fashion designers with talent, and these men have the potential
to be very wealthy and very soon. Arrive at these sorts of events early and
wait until long after they've finished to leave in order to maximize your
chances of meeting the right people.

Live theater (Broadway being the marquee example but there are very
classy productions held at nice venues throughout the country) appeals to
many sophisticated gay men. The grandiose nature of live theater shows
sort of has a way of drawing them in, along with the fact that there's little
discrimination against homosexuality in the industry and it's just a pleasant
place to be. If you enjoy theater yourself then there's really no reason not to
attend some shows anyway. If you don't enjoy theater then just suck it up
and endure the boredom; the men you are looking for can often be found
here. Your target audience member is one in a suit and tie with a refined
sort of feminism to him. There's a wide variety of people who enjoy theater
so it can at times be difficult to differentiate between the rich gay men and
the rich straight men in this sort of environment, which is why you need to
start conversations and allow your natural intuition (your gaydar) to go to
work. Before shows, after shows, and during intermissions approach those
who intrigue you and spark conversations about theater. This may require
you to do a bit of research beforehand; you don't want to go into a
conversation with a theater enthusiast and immediately be ousted as a
casual theater visitor or someone who's not fan at all, so make sure to know
your stuff. Many performers of live theater are gay as well, so it might be
beneficial to hang around after the show and try to meet a few. They won't
be tremendously wealthy in all likelihood (save maybe those in Broadway
and other very high end productions) but they will have some money and
stability.


Many gay men who have risen to great success (with the exception of those
in the fashion industry, which doesn't seem to discriminate) have had to tone
down their flamboyancy at points in their careers in order to appeal to more
traditional hierarchies of business. Whether or not they've had to actually
hide their orientation, (sometimes the case) chances are they've developed
an understanding of and appreciation for their more masculine side (maybe
paired with some resentment, but money has a way of tipping the scales in
favor of the appreciation). As such, when first meeting a wealthy gay man
it's probably best to show some of your business persona as opposed to
going all out feminine. Most gay men are well in tune with their femininity
and obviously gay men are gay so it's not like you'll have to pretend to be
Chuck Norris or something, but everyone (gay, straight or purple) likes a
partner who they can relate to.

The sugar daddy has been a staple of the dating world for centuries, and will
remain so for centuries to come. And now more than ever (with the
increased acceptance of homosexuality in society and in the workplace) gay
men have the means to get in on the action. Money as a substitute for love
is a concept that works better for some men than others though, so before
you dive into the millionaire's world you should evaluate yourself and your
desires, and you should always stay true to what you want out of life.

Gay millionaire dating websites

To find and date gay millionaires, you can head to the wealthy dating
websites. The best dating website in this sphere currently is Millionaire
Match. Signing up initially is free. You can optionally pay $30 to upgrade.
Interact with verified millionaires and you can be sure youve got a
millionaire.

You can also sign up at these gay dating websites and search by income to
locate gay millionaires.


GayDating.com

GayFriendFinder.com



Becoming a trophy wife


There is seldom a career option more alluring than that of a trophy wife. It is
a life of glitz, glamour and opulence lots of it! But I assume you have found
the catch in the very first sentence. Yes, it is a career option after all, in that
you have to work hard to achieve it and harder to keep being good at it. So
go ahead and find out if you have what it takes to be a trophy wife.

First lets get the basics clear

A trophy wife is someone who is beautiful, successful and married to an
enormously rich man, sometimes several years her senior. Such a woman is
quite likely to be the second or the third wife of the man she is married to. A
trophy wife is regarded as a status symbol, something only the very rich and
powerful can afford. The term 'trophy wife' was reportedly coined by the
Fortune magazine in 1989 and has since then gained currency in lifestyle
descriptions of the rich and famous. The person who manages to get a
trophy wife is always a big success in his field which is usually business but
also may be the arts and entertainment industry. Media mogul Donald
Trump for instance acquired a trophy wife in 2005 when at the age of fifty-
eight he married an attractive thirty-four year old, Melania Knauss. Again the
famous writer Salman Rushdie married the lissome model Padma Lakshmi
in 2004 who famously revealed that her husband was only seven years
younger than her father. The couple however filed for divorce in 2007. So if
you believe that being shown off by the most affluent and successful of men
is the life for you, here is a brief guide on how to go about becoming a
trophy wife.




Always look your best

While some trophy wives are successful in their own careers, most obtain
success only with their celebrity marriages. However the common factor for
all trophy wives is that each one of them looks gorgeous. To catch the eye
of the richest available man, you have to be in top shape and at your
attractive best. So get out the armory of creams and lotions and invest all
you are worth in your appearance.

Work on your body

It is not enough for a trophy wife to look her best but she must have a
luscious figure as well. So tone up your body and get your statistics right
which means that the flabby thighs or the bulging tummy wont do at all. This
however is not to imply that you have to wear yourself out to size zero but
only that you need to develop a tight, toned body. You must acquire a figure
that will accentuate the most expensive of evening gowns and the most
revealing of swimsuits if your rich husband is to show you off.

Develop the right bearing

To catch the attention of a man who has seen it all, you must offer
something more than just a pretty face and a nice body. This means that
you have to acquire sophistication, grace and poise so that all heads turn
towards you when you walk into a room. So work on your posture and
carriage and if necessary take the help of a professional. After all as a
trophy wife, you will be shown around and you are expected to live up to its
requirements.





Have an edge over others

If you are aiming for the title of a trophy wife and not just looking to be arm
candy, make sure that you have something extra to offer. It may be the
capacity to conduct a scintillating conversation or an instinct for the latest
sensation in the world of arts. Remember that a rich and successful man
can have all the attractive girls he wants for a fling, but for a wife he will look
for something more. Intelligence, charm or financial acumen, find out where
your edge lies and develop it with finesse so that the person whose attention
you want to get finds you intriguing and then impossible to resist.

Know where to look

If you are seriously looking to be a trophy wife, you will have to be seen in
the right places, in other words, venues where the rich boys hang out. Most
often these are millionaires clubs where pretty young ladies are invited to
wine and dine at parties and whose net worth easily runs into several
millions of dollars. Also choose your venue according to where and with
whom your interest lies. If youre looking for someone from the
entertainment industry you could try making an appearance at a South
Beach party frequented by hip-hop stars. Or if Wall Street fat cats are more
in your line, perhaps you should spend a happy hour in one of those select
oyster clubs. It all depends on the kind of people you are looking for.

Consider pre-nuptial agreements

Being a trophy wife is just like any other lucrative career option and you
should be prepared to cushion your exit if it does not happen to work out in
the long run. A pre-nuptial contract will ensure that a trophy wife would get a
fair share of her husbands billions in case he wants a still younger and
more attractive wife.


So looking to marry into money will take some hard work and a good deal of
perseverance but the end result is bound to be worth those endless Botox
treatments and wine appreciation classes for you will have all the
greenbacks to play with and you will be the focus of so many flashbulbs.
However be prepared to have to deal with a demanding husband since the
tycoon you have married will be used to having his way and will expect his
orders to be followed by everyone around him. Also consider whether you
would like to have a man almost old enough to be your father for a husband.
If you are alright with these requirements and have what it takes to be a
trophy wife, welcome to a life of the rich and famous!

Dating websites

Here are some dating websites you can sign up with. It doesnt cost
anything to sign up initially. You can optionally upgrade to a paid
membership. You can search by income and locate millionaires.

Asian Dating

Asian Friend Finder

Australia Dating

Matchmaker.com Australia

Black Dating

Black Singles For black dating. Most members are from USA

Canada Dating

LifeMatesCanada - This site caters only to Canada.

Matchmaker.com Canada

Christian Dating

Christian Conservative Dating
Has a lot of Christian singles from USA

Christian Mingle
A large number of Christian members from USA and Canada


eHarmony For meaningful relationships. Free membership wont get you
anything much. Be ready to upgrade to paid. Choose from eHarmony USA,
eHarmony Canada and eHarmony UK.

Match.com (USA)
Match.com (UK)
Match.com (Ireland)

French Dating

French Dating

Gay and Lesbian Dating

GayDating.com
Has many gay and lesbian singles from USA

German dating

German Friend Finder

Korean Dating

Korean Friend Finder

Italian Dating

Italian Friend Finder


Indian Dating


Indian Friend Finder

Jewish Dating

J Date
This site is focused on J ewish singles.

J ewish Friend Finder

Senior Dating

SeniorFriendFinder.com

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Single Parent Dating

Single Parent Dating

UK Dating

GirlsDateforFree UK
This site is focused on UK. As the name indicates, its free for Girls.

UKChristianDate

USA Dating

Matchmaker.com USA

Mate1


Singlesnet

Single Parent Dating

Wealthy Dating

Millionaire Match

Millionaire Match helps millionaires find women who want to date and marry
them. Most of their members are from USA, Canada and Europe. They have
hundreds of thousands of members. Their verified millionaire program
ensures you date real millionaires. Signing up is free and costs $30 to
upgrade.

Latino Dating

Amigos.com


About this book


This book is a collaborative effort by various writers who write for
Futurescopes.com and has been edited by Vikram Chandiramani.

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