Waxman Emails To Judy 2011

All of Waxman Emails to Judy Potter 2011
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Diane Rehm From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: 'ed( )* Dec +,)) )*:5):+6 %,5,, Judy: Your client called in to the Diane Rehm show today, and launched into a malicious and false tirade about this case. She even mentioned me by name twice and claimed that I was "grooming" her daughter, and en oying overnight and wee!end visits with her at my house. "s you should !now by now, that is categorically false. #ila has never s$ent an overnight at my house, nor am I "grooming" her or abusing her. %ere is the web site lin!: htt$:&&lorihandrahan.com&'())&)'&)*&diane+rehm+show+on+child+se,+abuse+ ta!es+call+from+milas+mama& "nd here is the lin! to the radio show directly: htt$:&&thedianerehmshow.org&audio+$layer-nid.)/'0' %er call comes at about 10 minutes and )/ seconds. "dditionally, other $eo$le have read the material on her site and concluded that she is ma!ing false claims and e,$loiting her child. %er res$onse to one $erson confronting her- She has gone on the attac! and made claims that she is "traffic!ing" children. I am not !idding. 2hat is her modus operandi. 2he web based grou$ 3ar "gainst 4hild "buse has come out against %andrahan, because it has seen through her s$in and evaluated the facts. htt$:&&www.faceboo!.com&3ar"gainst4hild"buse56&3ar"gainst4hild"buse 2hey reali7e that what your client is engaged in is a horrible e,$loitation of a little girl, which ta!es resources and credibility away from real victims of child abuse. Judy, I don8t really care that your client called in to Diane Rehm and made the false and malicious things she made. It is great evidence of )9 her du$licity and malice '9 her mental instability and 19 her cam$aign of defamation, and she will end u$ $aying for this economically at some $oint. "lso, unfortunately, she is shooting herself in the foot with a high caliber rifle in terms of getting contact with #ila and en oying $arental rights. I don8t say that last $iece to gloat, believe me. "s I have said numerous times, the best result her for #ila would be for %andrahan to get some hel$, become mentally healthy, and then en oy a co+$arenting relationshi$ with Igor. #ila deserves a healthy and loving mommy in her life. Right now, your client is neither healthy nor loving. %ow sad for #ila.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)34, 5 1irus Database: +),35*63, % Release Date: )+5)*5))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: Settlement Demand From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Sun( )) Dec +,)) )5:*+:36 %,5,, Judy: I don8t understand this res$onse. 2he Scheduling <rder re;uires you to "res$ond in writing by December '@, '())." "re you telling me that you cannot even "acce$t" this demand from us, meaning that you no longer re$resent %andrahan- "re you still re$resenting %andrahanI am confused.
#ichael +++++<riginal #essage+++++ =rom: Judy >otter D udy1/CEmsn.comF 2o: michael wa,man Dm wa,yEaol.comF 4c: lori handrahan Dlorihandrahan/Egmail.comF Sent: Sun, Dec )), '()) ):)1 $m Sub ect: R:: Settlement Demand I am not authori7ed to acce$t this offer for a number of reasons. Judy >otter 2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: Settlement Demand =rom: m wa,yEaol.com 44: igormalen!oEhotmail.comG Igor+#alen!oEide,,.com Date: Sun, )) Dec '()) )1:(B:)C +(/(( Judy: "s you are no doubt aware, in the lawsuit which I have filed against %andrahan in =ederal 4ourt on behalf of my client, Igor #alen!o, the Scheduling <rder in #alen!o v. %andrahan, D!t Ho. ':))+cv+'/(+IJS indicates that "the $laintiff shall ma!e a written settlement demand u$on the defendant by December )', '())." "ccordingly, I am authori7ed to ma!e the following demand: $1,500,000. If your client is willing to $ay K)./# in damages for the harm her defamation and other tortious behavior has caused Igor and #ila, and if she will agree to shut down her web sites and cease defaming Igor, then we are willing to dismiss this case. :very day that she continues to $ost defamatory content on the world wide web, every day that her false claims remain on those sites, Igor8s damages are building. I sus$ect that the res$onse to this 4ourt+ordered demand will be that your client will $ost this on her internet sites as further "evidence" of Igor8s "abuse" or my "bullying." I do not hold out much ho$e for this case settling. In view of that, $erha$s we should discuss consenting to #agistrate Judge Rich $residing
over the ury trial, so that we can obtain a s$ecially assigned date for trial, allowing our witnesses much more fle,ibility in $resenting themselves for the ad udication of this matter.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)363 5 1irus Database: +),+5*665 % Release Date: )+5))5))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Settlement Demand From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Sun( )) Dec +,)) )3:,3:)6 %,5,, Judy: "s you are no doubt aware, in the lawsuit which I have filed against %andrahan in =ederal 4ourt on behalf of my client, Igor #alen!o, the Scheduling <rder in #alen!o v. %andrahan, D!t Ho. ':))+cv+'/(+IJS indicates that "the $laintiff shall ma!e a written settlement demand u$on the defendant by December )', '())." "ccordingly, I am authori7ed to ma!e the following demand: $1,500,000. If your client is willing to $ay K)./# in damages for the harm her defamation and other tortious behavior has caused Igor and #ila, and if she will agree to shut down her web sites and cease defaming Igor, then we are willing to dismiss this case. :very day that she continues to $ost defamatory content on the world wide web, every day that her false claims remain on those sites, Igor8s damages are building. I sus$ect that the res$onse to this 4ourt+ordered demand will be that your client will $ost this on her internet sites as further "evidence" of Igor8s "abuse" or my "bullying." I do not hold out much ho$e for this case settling. In view of that, $erha$s we should discuss consenting to #agistrate Judge Rich $residing over the ury trial, so that we can obtain a s$ecially assigned date for trial, allowing our witnesses much more fle,ibility in $resenting themselves for the ad udication of this matter.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)363 5 1irus Database: +),+5*66* % Release Date: )+5))5))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: -o limits to 7andrahan8s cra9iness From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Sat( ), Dec +,)) )*:,3:+3 %,5,, Judy: %ere is the latest defamatory and outrageous internet $osting from your client on her Saving #ila =aceboo! site. Saving Mila 4hris L Sue, Iod bless and than! you so, so much6 re: understanding++#ila has been traffic!ed. It is clear. :ither a Mids for 4ash li!e there was in >enn with udges Asee the Saving #ila =? wall or website or ust google Mids for 4ash9 or she has been traffic!ed into a well $rotected ring in #aine or 3a,man has basically $urchased my daughter as he vowed he would.... I am as!ing you to tell your client to sto$ this nonsense. "ccusing me of "$urchasing" her child, of "traffic!ing" her in some $edo$hile ring- Seriously- Judy, you !now that there is not one scintilla of evidence for these claims. You !now this. 3hen we get into court, I shall be cross+e,amining Dr. %andrahan about such baseless and horrendous claims. Your client is not only destroying any chance she has to be a mother to her child but she is going to ruin herself economically, because there will be conse;uences for this !ind of horrendous defamation per se, I assure you. I have to tell you that at this $oint, I do not understand why you continue to re$resent her. She is engaging in systematic defamation and fraud. I certainly ho$e that you are not su$$orting her efforts on these sites, Judy. You can8t hel$ her and you can8t "win" this case. Your client is absolutely undermining any efforts you are ma!ing to get this case on an even !eel and rebuild some credibility for %andrahan8s $osition.
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To: judy356@msn.com Subject: -ew :ostin! From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Sat( ), Dec +,)) )3:+6:5+ %,5,, Judy: I do not !now how you can be e,$ected to advocate for %andrahan when she is doing everything in her $ower to burn every $ossible bridge in #aine. 4hec! out the latest:
htt$:&&lorihandrahan.com&'())&)'&)(&state+of+maine+re;uest+for+a+federal+criminal+investigation+into+ michael+wa,man+on+milas+case& She is calling for a criminal investigation into #ichael 3a,man, Judge #os!owit7, Judge "le,ander, Dean 4roc!er, Dan Des$ard and Janet #ills. She addressed this to 4hief Judge NaOerdierre, Iovernor >aul Ne>age, "ttorney Ieneral 3illiam Schneider, #aine State Senate >resident Mevin Raye, #aine State %ouse Neader Robert Hutting and Scott Davis. "nd she thin!s that when she a$$ears before Judge #os!owit7 or any other #aine udge Ayou thin! the entire community of udges is not discussing this-9 she is going to be well received- Sorry, Judy, you are one good lawyer, but you are being as!ed to scale #ount :verest wearing a one $iece bathing suit, fli$ flo$s and a bac! $ac! with a few granola bars and some Juicy Juice. %er self+declared war reminds me of #a or Ieneral 3illiam 2ecumseh Sherman8s "#arch to the Sea," e,ce$t that hers is a virtual march through #aine, burning everything in sight. %ave a good wee!end.
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To: judy356@msn.com Subject: ;eslie De.oe From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Fri( 4 Dec +,)) )6:)6:*3 %,5,, Judy: "s you can see in the attached letter I ust received from Neslie Devoe, she ma!es very clear that she never authori7ed %andrahan to use her wor!+$roduct, that %andrahan refuses her demands to ta!e her wor!+$roduct off the internet and that %andrahan is not her friend. She was merely $aid by %andrahan to attac! first Igor #alen!o and then #ichael 3a,man. 2his is how Nori %andrahan rolls. I would not be sur$rised to learn that %andrahan stiffed her ust li!e she stiffed #aureen =latley either, and ust as she will li!ely stiff you as soon as your K)/,((( grant has been s$ent. I li!e you Judy. I was ho$eful that you might be able to use your re$utation and good wor! to $ersuade %andrahan to $ut down her wea$ons, end the war, and ust learn how to be a co+$arenting $artner with Igor. ?ut this web site ma!es it very, very clear that she has ta!en this way too far to go bac!. She has over 1(,((( $eo$le who have bought into her lies, her carefully constructed illusion that she is some !ind of victim and that her child is being horribly abused. :ven if she really wanted to be a mommy, she has $ainted herself into a corner where she cannot ust sto$ fighting Igor, she cannot recant these horrible accusations, because if she did so, all these thousands of $eo$le would reali7e that she mani$ulated them. Do you understand what I am saying%andrahan has made it im$ossible to build any !ind of co+$arenting relationshi$ with Igor, she has made it im$ossible to sto$ dis$araging Igor in front of #ila. She has essentially, destroyed any chance she
otherwise had to be a $arent to this little girl. Ho court is going to allow a $arent who has sworn u$ and down that the other $arent is a monster, who has made false accusation after false accusation, including in court under oath, who has admitted she will ta!e the child to "frica or Iran when she has the chance so that the child won8t have to see the horrible $ostings she has $laced on the internet, who has dragged her $oor little girl in to hos$itals re$eatedly for $elvic e,amination after $elvic e,amination, urine drug test after urine drug test, who has sacrificed her daughter8s innocence by teaching her to say horrible, false things about her father se,ually abusing her, no court will $ermit that !ind of $erson to have unsu$ervised contact with that child. I don8t care how com$etent her attorney is. You can8t "win" this war which %andrahan has chosen to wage. 2he best you could have done ++ for little #ila ++ would have been to $ersuade your client to behave rationally, get some hel$, and be a mommy. ?ut she won8t, she can8t, hear you or anyone else deliver that message. 2han! you for trying. I honestly believe you did.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: li//ord documents From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: 'ed( 6 Dec +,)) )6:,,:)5 %,5,, Judy: I ust s$ent some time today reviewing the documents $roduced by D%%S, $ursuant to your 4lifford <rder. I don8t !now why you and %andrahan have been so $assionate about getting these documents. 2hey are not hel$ful to your client at all. "nyone scrutini7ing these documents will come away with that conclusion, I assure you, including any udge in this case. 2he documents show your client threatening and bullying the D%%S casewor!ers, telling them she intends to sue D%%S and that the =?I will be involved. She challenges "licia 4ummings, the D%%S casewor!er loo!ing into %andrahan8s claims that Igor hit #ila with a frying $an, demanding to !now where she grew u$, what her educational and wor! bac!ground is, insinuating that she is not com$etent and has some !ind of conflict of interest. She admits that she is engaged in fre;uent audio ta$ing of her child. 4ummings has a very hard time !ee$ing her focused on the issue at hand, since %andrahan continues to try and give her global s$in on what a monster Igor is. "lthough %andrahan claims that on =riday, #arch '/, '()) when she $ic!ed #ila u$ from the day care, she had a bruise on her forehead Aof course, now the "bruise" has mor$hed into a "huge contusion"9, and although she claims that the day care $ermitted her to sit in a feces+filled dia$er all day long, D%%S interviewed the day care $ersonnel and owner and discovered that there was H< bruise on her forehead, and that #ila was never $ermitted to sit in a $oo$+filled dia$er. Indeed, the day care owner indicated that from time to time when #ila na$$ed, she had a $ull+u$ for when she had accidents. <h, you will also note that your client told D%%S that she had kept the diaper, and it was in her freezer . Seriously.
"$$arently, it is in there, alongside the multi$le urine sam$les %andrahan has ta!en from her daughter all by herself Asee the #aine 4oast #emorial %os$ital records, which I8ld be ha$$y to $rovide for you9. 2he day care $eo$le told D%%S that they had H< concerns about Igor, but had serious concerns about your client and her bi7arre behavior. "lso, you will see the interviews of #ila conducted by "licia 4ummings, and then another one by 4hris 4all, who $ermitted %andrahan8s $rivate investigator, Ste$hen >ic!ering, to $artici$ate. You will see that #ila was as clear as could be that Igor H:O:R hit her with anything, that there were H:O:R "bad times" with Igor. She said, over and over, that she !new her mother said that Igor was hurting her, but that it was not true. It is ama7ing to read the interview and see how >ic!ering tries to tri$ her u$, tries to get her to say that Igor did hit her with a frying $an. She stands firm and says that he did not. "t this $oint, >ic!ering launches into attac! mode ++ 3I2% " =<PR Y:"R <ND 4%IND ++ and as!s her if she is lying, if she !nows what a lie is. >ic!ering has no right to be conducting a forensic interview of a little girl. #ila also tells the D%%S wor!ers that she wants to see her momma, but only if she $romises to sto$ saying bad things about $o$$y. She also says that she does not thin! momma will $romise to sto$ saying bad things about $o$$y. >lease feel free to chec! out the veracity of my summary. It won8t ta!e you more than 1( minutes to review these documents. 3e are $re$ared to go bac! to 4ourt whenever you are ready, at which time, we shall be demanding that Igor have Sole Rights and Res$onsibilities and that %andrahan have no contact at all with this child until she has undergone a com$rehensive $sychological evaluation by a $sychologist and submitted to whatever thera$y&treatment is recommended. In addition, we shall be demanding that your client $ay for the a$$ointment of a new guardian ad litem, whose $rimary ob will be to communicate with %andrahan8s mental health $roviders and determine when she may have contact with her child again. Your client8s web sites will be admitted as e,hibits in this hearing, as they demonstrate very convincingly what her mental state is right now. 2his $osition is not s$iteful or vengeful. 3e would li!e nothing more than for #ila to have a healthy relationshi$ with her mother as soon as $ossible. ?ut it is clear beyond $eradventure to us that your client suffers from serious mental illness which $revents her from being a healthy and loving mother to her child. 3e are very sad for #ila that she does not have her mommy in her life right now. 2he ball is and has been in your client8s court. She can either continue to s$end all of her time, energy and money on 3orld 3ar III against Igor, committed to destroying him and me, or she can turn over a new leaf, turn her $rodigious energies and intelligence on herself, and get healthy, and be a mommy. 4om$letely u$ to her. 3e ho$e that for #ila8s sa!e, she ma!es the right choice.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)34, 5 1irus Database: +),35*63, % Release Date: )+5)*5))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Fwd: &ore Sa.in! &ila concerns From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: Tue( 6 Dec +,)) )5:*+:,6 %,5,, <h, and this as well. 2his site is not hel$ing your client, Judy. ?ut you won8t be able to convince her of that, I am sure. %ow very, very, very sad for #ila that her mother is s$ending every wa!ing hour on this war instead of on loving her child. +++++<riginal #essage+++++ =rom: # wa,y Dm wa,yEaol.comF 2o: megc DmegcEamerican.eduFG c!erwin Dc!erwinEamerican.eduFG hoard D hoardEamerican.eduFG taylor DtaylorEamerican.eduFG lwong DlwongEamerican.eduF 4c: aumedia DaumediaEamerican.eduFG igormalen!o Digormalen!oEhotmail.comFG Igor+#alen!o DIgor+ #alen!oEide,,.comFG william. .schneider Dwilliam. .schneiderEmaine.govFG 3illiam.Sto!es D3illiam.Sto!esEmaine.govFG Janice.Stuver DJanice.StuverEmaine.govFG michael.!earney Dmichael.!earneyEmaine.govF Sent: Sun, Dec *, '()) )):*1 am Sub ect: #ore Saving #ila concerns >eo$le: %ere are more res$onses from Saving #ila followers, discussing murdering Igor #alen!o, !idna$$ing the child and fleeing the Pnited States to hide in Iran, of all $laces, and violently harming #ichael 3a,man. 2his site is animating loose cannons to say, and $erha$s do, bad things, and "P should distance itself com$letely from it, in my view. 2his is not going to end well at all. brandyowen says: December *, '()) at 0:/B am I understand what you are saying. 2his brings me bac! around to Maren #c4all+%aslet. Seriously, if a mother MH:3 PH:QPIO<4"NNY that her child was being re$eatedly ra$ed, what does she do when the courts tell her to give her child to the ra$istI am not saying I would !ill my child, ?:4"PS: I would kill my ex-husband and sit in prison, i I had to. Ho doubt about it, I am street wise enough to !now that courts fRR! u$. Hot all of the time, but they do, it is a game of whoSs lawyer golfs with the udge and I ainSt T$layinU when it comes to my !ids. Corrupt Judges says: December *, '()) at 1:*@ am 3e need to have a conversation li!e you brought u$ ?randy about what alternatives women have when faced with these situations. It becomes $araly7ing because the courts have so much $ower. I believe a lot o mothers !onsider running away, but reali7e the PS can find them wherever they go V even in any country. I know some have thought o politi!al asylum " even in Iran they are seeking it b#! o how abusive it is here$ %hat is a!tually very unknown and se!retive, but is done$ #aybe you can start some articles or forum for that !ind of discussion. #others are des$erately see!ing a way to $rotect their children from abuse and thereSs no where to turn. Corrupt Judges says: December *, '()) at 1:*0 am &hen I said 'even in Iran( I mean that I have heard o western people seeking asylum in Iran$ ) !ourse, the news won*t !over that b#! Iran is our national enemy$ +ut it is bad when abused women and !hildren have to seek politi!al asylum with our !ountry*s national enemies in order to es!ape abuse$ "nd more comments about #ichael 3a,man on her =aceboo! site:
,ndrew -nke er %e deserves to be $ut into slavery in a third world country. Jail isn8t ustice enough for something li!e that. I I saw him, I.d be the one in an orange /ump suit behind bars . I can8t begin to understand what you feel right now. Stay strong6 =riday at C:/'$m W Ni!ePnli!e W )Saving #ila li!es this. Aem$hasis added in bold9. 3ord to the wise, "P, distance yourself from this site immediately. =ran!ly, if your students have been involved in its creation, you may have to shut the site down in order to avoid any civil, and $erha$s criminal, liability for the actions $er$etrated by followers of the site.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)34, 5 1irus Database: +),35*63, % Release Date: )+5)*5)) 2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: =wd: XHew $ostY 3ho is Nesley Devoe=rom: m wa,yEaol.com Date: #on, )* Hov '()) )':)/:*0 +(/(( Judy: I have generally reached the $oint where I am not res$onding any longer to any of Dr. %andrahan8s malicious, false and misleading $osts on her web site. 2here is no $ersuading her or her followers. Your client has fortuitously found the holy grail for narcissists + she can get all the attention she wants from hordes of virtual followers on these sites she has created. ?ut the $ost below, containing a re$ort authored by Neslie Devoe is crossing the line for me. Devoe8s re$ort $ortrays me in such a negative light that I am concerned that someone may decide that he&she needs to ta!e action to $rotect Dr. %andrahan from this sinister attorney. I !now that Devoe is merely ta!ing Dr. %andrahan8s $aranoid directives and running with them, creating a ridiculous $icture. ?ut the followers of this web site do not understand what has ta!en $lace in this case. 2hey may merely conclude that I am some malicious monster threatening a $oor, defenseless woman trying to $rotect her little girl. I am as!ing you H<2 to forward this email to your client, for it will sim$ly end u$ on her web site and further inflame the $assions of some of her followers. If I see it on the web site, I shall !now that you did indeed forward this. I understand that she is your client and that you have res$onsibilities to her. "ccordingly, you may feel free to tell her my message by $hone. ?ut this is becoming a very, very dangerous game, I fear. You and I have gotten along remar!ably well, given how horrendous this case is. I am concerned for my well+being and that of my children and loved ones.
I want this Neslie Devoe re$ort removed, and I want it removed immediately.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: 1isitation< From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: Tue( 3 -o. +,)) )3:,5:*+ %,5,, Judy: I have received and reviewed your letter dated Hovember *, '()) indicating++ for the first time in C months ++ that Dr. %andrahan would li!e to see her child. I am elated that she now seems to recogni7e that seeing her child8s face, holding her, telling her that she loves her is an im$ortant thing to do for her daughter. %owever, since you wrote this letter, your client has embar!ed on a remar!able, high+tech attac! on Igor and on me, in which she is illustrating that she is no longer ca$able of e,ercising good udgment, of $romoting her own child8s best interest. Indeed, she recently $osted a statement which indicates that when she gets her hands on this child, she intends to flee with her to "frica: "EJordans4once$t Ho worries6
I wor! in Internation Develo$ement. 3hen I get my daughter bac! we8ll move to "frica and ta!e care of baby elefants who have lost their moms. 2hat is #ila8s dream and I $romised to ma!e it real." 2his comment may be found on
her You2ube $osting of the #ila video: htt$:&&www.youtube.com&allRcomments-v.iJI):(7a7BB "ccordingly, Igor is not willing to agree that Dr. %andrahan can have any visitation at all at this $oint. 3e truly do not !now what she is ca$able of. Indeed, in one of the $osts, a woman named Jac!lyn 4. "shley writes "XtYhat man needs to die." "nd following that comment, your client clic!ed "li!e." %onestly, Judy, I am fearful that your client or someone she $ulls into her world will indeed attem$t to !ill Igor and&or me. 2his is ;uic!ly getting out of control. Heither Igor nor I feel safe anywhere near your client and if she shows u$ near me or Igor, we shall call the $olice. I am starting to wonder whether I should carry a concealed wea$on. You should see the hateful comments being made about me. I !now Dr. %andrahan believes that this new a$$roach will somehow achieve what her attorneys and her malicious and false claims to D%%S and the 4ourts have not, but she is terribly mista!en. "ll she is succeeding in doing is scaring Igor and me and ma!ing us com$letely and utterly unwilling to have any contact with her whatsoever. "s we indicated on many occasions before, if Dr. %andrahan wishes to restart visitation, es$ecially unsu$ervised visitation, then the onus is on her to demonstrate that she has turned over a new leaf and merely wishes to be a loving mother, not a digital warrior. "dditionally, we do not !now this Joy Silberg. "lso, even if this web site had not gone u$, we would not be willing to agree that Dr. %andrahan can en oy an entire wee!end with #ila, when she has not even s$o!en to her or seen her in C months. ?aby ste$s. Nast, you claim that Dr. %andrahan "cannot afford to $ay anyone to su$ervise." Yet, this recent incredible wave of Internet activity suggests that she has
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$lenty of money . . . but that she would rather use it for war, rather than s$end it on her child. %ow terribly sad. #ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: 7andrahan8s obsession From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: &on( 6 -o. +,)) )4:,):,5 %,5,, Judy: Your client has clearly gone off the dee$ end and is using this new website as her latest toy. She is $osting the emails I send to you, as you can see ++ htt$:&&www.slideshare.net&#ama<f#ila&e+mails+from+ michael+wa,man+nov+@+'()) I am a big boy and I have remedies at hand to deal with your client8s shenanigans. ?ut #ila does not have any defenses. #ila ust wants to love her mommy and daddy. Dr. %andrahan has doggedly demonstrated that she does not care very much for her daughter, that she cares much more dee$ly about waging 3orld 3ar III in order to destroy Igor. She hates Igor more than she loves her child. "s you !now, des$ite Igor8s re$eated invitations, she has chosen H<2 to see or s$ea! with her child in almost C months. 2hat is an absolute eternity. If I could not see my children for a long $eriod of time, I would absolutely fall a$art, and I would wal! across bro!en glass to see them again. Hot Dr. %andrahan, however. 2his new, high+tech a$$roach is not hel$ing #ila. Hor will it hel$ your client. ?y the way, she owes over KC,((( in child su$$ort arrearages, yet she seems much ha$$ier s$ending her money on new wea$ons in her self+styled war. I8ll chec! the site tomorrow to re+read this same email, I am sure. %ave a good night, Judy. #ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: The website From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: &on( 6 -o. +,)) )6:33:*, %,5,, Judy: Is your client going to ta!e down the website- "nd the You2ube $ostings- "nd the =aceboo! $ostings"nd the 2umblr and 2witter $ostings-
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Hone of this is going to hel$ her. It ust ma!es her loo! even more cra7y and des$erate, in my view. "nd in the meantime, she is $osting defamatory material, and medical records for Igor and #ila, which Igor did not authori7e being $ublished. I sus$ect that 2rue Horth and D%%S will not be ha$$y about this.
#ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: De/amation on the $nternet From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: &on( 6 -o. +,)) )+:*5:,5 %,5,, Judy: Is this website coming down or not- I need to decide whether to file for a $reliminary in unction as $art of the federal lawsuit. >lease advise "S">. #ichael
2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: Defamation on the Internet =rom: m wa,yEaol.com 44: igormalen!oEhotmail.comG Igor+#alen!oEide,,.com Date: #on, @ Hov '()) )':11:*0 +(/(( Judy: It has ust come to my attention that your client has foolishly and maliciously decided to create an internet site in which she defames Igor Aand me9 and in which she has $osted the videos and audio ta$es that she has fraudulently concocted. 2his will, of course, be very hel$ful to Igor in his federal lawsuit, and it will hel$ us obtain a very large verdict, I believe. ?ut this is terribly harmful, not ust to Igor, but also to $oor #ila. #ila will now have a disgusting digital legacy for the rest of her life. " loving mother does not behave this way. " loving mother s$ends her time, money and energy on loving and su$$orting her child. Your client, however, is s$ending her time, money and energy on trying to destroy Igor and me, and she is using her daughter as a means to that end, even though she is harming her. 2he website can be found here: htt$:&&lorihandrahan.com& How that I have $rinted out the contents of the website, feel free to remove it from the web. Indeed, if you care at all about #ila #alen!o, you will ma!e sure this ha$$ens.
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"lso, Igor has only recevied <H: child su$$ort chec!, for the month of Se$tember. %as your client ;uit her ob so that she can avoid $aying child su$$ort"nd last, 0)1S 02$ 3,402,3,4 3,51 ,46 I4%121S% I4 5ISI%I47 &I%3 312 83I90, )2 I4 31,2I47 312 5)I81:
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To: judy356@msn.com Subject: 7andrahan8s incessant attac"s From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Thu( 3 -o. +,)) )6:36:3* %,*,, Judy: "ttached is your client8s latest attem$t to harm me. >lease convey to her that I have not forgotten about her and her defamatory attac!s against me. I have a list of $eo$le I intend to sue for defamation, including Dr. %andrahan, and several of her friends. I shall embar! on that crusade in '()'. In the meantime, 0)1S 02$ 3,402,3,4 3,51 ,46 I4%12121S% ,% ,99 I4 S11I47 )2 S;1,<I47 &I%3 312 ,9M)S% 5 61,2 )90 0,-73%12, &I%3 &3)M S31 3,S 3,0 4) 8)4%,8% SI481 M,6 10, =011::: Your client truly is a remar!able human being. I cannot com$rehend how she can get u$ in the morning and function without having had any contact with her only child in almost C months66 She can continue to file grievances against me, defame me as much as she wants, write as many emails to the Iovernor as she desires . . . I am not going anywhere. I am going to re$resent Igor as long as I draw breath in this world. %er malicious efforts to harm have only galvani7ed my commitment to this case.
#ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: =x:ert Desi!nation From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Tue( +5 >ct +,)) )6:,,:,* %,*,, Judy: I meant to send this yesterday, but it got lost in the shuffle. Do you want me to send along $a$er co$ies by snail mail-
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I shall $robably continue to as! this ;uestion with every single email I send you because I am mystified and disturbed about your client8s refusal to see or s$ea! with her child since #ay )(, '()) ++ does she have any desire to see #ila on a su$ervised basis or to have $hone contact- If you would li!e me to sto$ as!ing this ;uestion, then you could sim$ly tell me that Dr. %andrahan has no interest in seeing her child unless it can be unsu$ervised, and that she has no interest in $hone contact with her child. She is already telling us that with her choices, but I8d li!e to see that in blac! and white. <therwise, I8ll !ee$ as!ing.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: &o.in! o// the dime . . . From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Tue( )3 >ct +,)) )):,5:+* %,*,, Judy: I am following u$ on our hearing today with Judge #os!owit7, in which he denied your #otion to Recuse. "s you !now, he made another heartfelt effort to get us to resolve this case in some manner, by agreement. %e indicated that since our clients tell diametrically o$$osed stories, that if we have a hearing "it is going to go very, very badly for one of them." I am very confident that you will be unable to $rove that Igor has been abusing #ila at all, or that he has been $oisoning her. I am very confident that your client will be stri$$ed of rights and res$onsibilities Ae,ce$t of course, her obligation to $ay child su$$ort9, and relegated to su$ervised visits. You as!ed me to tell you what !ind of $sychothera$eutic treatment, in terms of how many visits, Igor would re;uire in order to $ermit unsu$ervised contact. I tried to e,$lain to you that it is not a matter of logging a certain number of hours on a thera$ist8s couch. Rather, Igor needs to see some evidence which ma!es him feel comfortable&confident that Dr. %andrahan is no longer committed to using #ila as a $awn in her cam$aign against Igor. "s the <mbudsman indicated, and as I have been saying for months, she has been bringing #ila in for unnecessary medical e,aminations, and drug tests, and she has been saying false, negative things about Igor to #ila and ta$ing and video+ta$ing #ila reciting these falsehoods. 2hat is very damaging to this child. Hothing that Dr. %andrahan has done recently has made Igor feel any more comfortable that Dr. %andrahan has abandoned her ;uest to destroy him and his relationshi$ with his daughter, or that she has abandoned the notion of using her daughter as a means to that end. Indeed, the fact that she has absolutely refused to see or s$ea! with her child in over / months only su$$orts Igor8s concerns&fears that Dr. %andrahan cares a great deal more about her $rivate war with Igor than she does about her child. Seriously, how a $arent can go that long without contact with her child is absolutely inconceivable to me. If your client wants Igor to agree that she can have unsu$ervised contact with #ila, then she needs to carry the ball forward and $roduce some evidence that she is able to be a healthy, safe mother to her child. %iring child lobbyists, assembling teams of e,$erts, overwhelming the Iovernor8s <ffice, D%%S and the <ffice of the <mbudsman with information and su$$orters all claiming that Igor is some !ind of abusive monster is H<2 showing Igor that she really wants to be a healthy, safe mom. >resently, Igor is not going to agree to unsu$ervised visitation. 2he <mbudsman recommended D%%S o$en a full investigation into Dr. %andrahan and the emotional well+being of #ila in her care. "s far as I am concerned, unless you can $rovide information which convincingly shows that Dr. %andrahan has turned over a new leaf, Igor should not change his $osition at all. Your client cannot buy her way out of this, or hire another e,$ert to $revail. Instead, she needs to turn her focus inward and try to heal herself so that she can be a good mom to her child.
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In the meantime, if your client has any interest in seeing #ila, or in s$ea!ing with her, we are ha$$y to ma!e that ha$$en. <f course, the visitation would have to be su$ervised. ?ut as between no contact and some su$ervised contact, I !now which choice 00.000000Z of all $arents would choose. She is not hel$ing herself or her child by refusing to have contact with #ila. 2hat choice labels her as an uncaring mother, at least in my view, and that is certainly the argument I shall ma!e to the 4ourt. =or #ila8s benefit, and because it is in your client8s interest not to a$$ear to be an uncaring mother, I suggest your client ma!e visitation and contact ha$$en as soon as $ossible.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) =rom: M/waxy Dm wa,yEaol.comF Date: #on, <ct )@, '()) at 1:/C ># Sub ect: <mbudsman Re$ort 2o: mic!i.mullenEmaine.gov, mary.mayhewEmaine.gov, !athy.veilleu,Emaine.gov,$aul.le$ageEmaine .gov, daniel.i.billingsEmaine.gov 4c: moflatleyEgmail.com, !ingeilC/CEaol.com, ro,anna.7.sherwoodEabc.com,macroryEa$$letonluff.co m, ste$hen$'Emyfair$oint.net, meierElaw.gwu.edu
Iovernor Ne>age, #s. #ayhew, #s. #ullen, #s. Oeiilleu, and #r. ?illings: >lease review the attached re$ort from the <ffice of the <mbudsman carefully. I ho$e that you will cease refle,ively doing Dr. %andrahan8s bidding whenever she and&or her numerous advisors, attorneys and friends contact you in the future. I also ho$e that D%%S will conduct the investigation which the <ffice of the <mbudsman strongly suggested ought to be conducted into Dr. %andrahan. Indeed, if D%%S refuses to follow+u$ on this re$ort and o$en such an investigation, I shall be filing my own com$laint with the <ffice of the <mbudsman. :nough is enough. :ither this administration is committed to $rotecting children from abuse ++ $hysical as well as emotional ++ or it is not. "nd one last word, because I am sure that Dr. %andrahan will react to this with new accusations ++ I do not !now #r. 4roc!er or #s. #owatt. I have never met either of them. I have not $aid them money or made threats against them. 2hey have no reason to write this re$ort in any $articular way, other than to reflect the conclusions which the facts led them to reach. I wish I were one one hundredth as $owerful as Dr. %andrahan claims that I am. I can8t even get my !ids to clean their rooms66
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/
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To: judy356@msn.com Subject: >mbudsman Re:ort From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: &on( )6 >ct +,)) )*:53:,6 %,*,, Judy: I have now read the re$ort a second time, and I must direct your attention to the $enultimate $age, where the re$ort reads as follows: "3e suggest that D%%S should further investigate the actions of Dr. %andrahan in relation to the emotional health of her daughter. 3e suggest that, in addition to a com$rehensive 4hild >rotective Services Investigation, D%%S s$ecifically consider the following:" 2he re$ort goes on to list C se$arate concerns regarding Dr. %andrahan. It is my ho$e and belief that D%%S will soon be investigating Dr. %andrahan. 2his recommendation is a com$lete vindication of Igor8s $osition regarding contact since #ay )(, '()). Igor will not be changing his mind about this unless and until )9 a D%%S investigation is concluded and&or '9 Dr. %andrahan see!s and receives hel$ in order to change her attitude and behaviors. Igor merely wants to feel confident that #ila is safe in Dr. %andrahan8s care. %e does not feel that she is at this $oint in time, at least not unsu$ervised.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: >mbudsman Re:ort From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: &on( )6 >ct +,)) ,3:*):*6 %,*,, Judy: "ttached is the <mbudsman8s second re$ort. "s you might e,$ect, if and when we have any hearing on rights and res$onsibilities and custody, the material in this re$ort will be centrally discussed. "s I view it,
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this re$ort com$letely su$$orts the ste$s #r. #alen!o has ta!en to $rotect his child from unnecessary medical e,aminations, drug testing, and audio and video recording. I don8t say these things to gloat. #ila misses her mommy, I am sure. Igor wants his child to have both $arents in her life. Dr. %andrahan needs to start seeing and s$ea!ing with her child again, as soon as $ossible. =or now, Igor will not $ermit her to do so unsu$ervised. ?ut if she ta!es serious ste$s to address whatever issues are com$elling her to use her daughter as a tool to harm Igor, our ho$e is that unsu$ervised visits will follow. ?ut we need to see evidence that Dr. %andrahan is truly ma!ing an effort to change her attitude and behavior. 2hus far, we have seen no such evidence. Indeed, now that "merican Pniversity is garnering her wages for child su$$ort, we are concerned that she will sim$ly ;uit her ob to avoid this obligation. <bviously, that also would negatively affect #ila and would be sad. I ho$e this does not occur. <h, and ust to ni$ your client8s $aranoia in the bud, I received this re$ort not because I am cons$iring with the <mbudsman8s <ffice, but because since I learned of this investigation, I sent the office a sub$oena to $roduce this re$ort, which you could ust as easily have done. I do not $ossess the remar!able $owers which your client seems to believe I wield. I am a small, Jewish lawyer with a big mouth. 2hat8s all.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65))
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: &arco ?etro.ic From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Fri( 3, Se: +,)) ,4:)6:*6 %,*,, Judy: I have now had several $hone calls from a gentleman named "#arco >etrovic." 2his individual is from Serbia and a$$arently Dr. %andrahan $layed some $art in assisting him in getting to this country several years ago. %e wor!s at the Jet$ort, is married and has a cou$le of children, I believe. 2he reason he has called me is that he claims he feels harassed by your client and by her $rivate investigator Ste$hen >ic!ering. "$$arently, Dr. %andrahan sends him numerous emails and te,ts, and >ic!ering continues to demand that >etrovic ma!e himself available to be interviewed by >ic!ering.
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>etrovic told me that he has nothing but good things to say about Igor, and that he has refused %andrahan8s demands to say bad things about Igor. ?oth your client and >ic!ering have a$$arently ignored what he claims are his numerous directives to sto$ calling and te,ting him. I am telling you these things because I sus$ect that %andrahan is trying to con ure some !ind of "statement" from >etrovic which ma!es false claims that )9 >etrovic has $ersonal !nowledge of Igor and his $arenting AIgor has not seen him in over a year9, and '9 that Igor is doing bad things to #ila. If such a "statement" is $resented to you, I im$lore you as an officer of the 4ourt to do some fact+chec!ing of your own before filing any such statement or affidavit in 4ourt, because from what I have ust e,$lained, it would clearly be a false statement. It is one thing for Dr. %andrahan to willingly $er ure herself, as she has done on multi$le occasions, seemingly without hesitation or contrition. It is entirely something different to mani$ulate a well+res$ected attorney to be com$licit in filing false statements with the 4ourt. Incidentally, I sus$ect that once your client learns of this email, she will immediately begin efforts to get #r. >etrovic de$orted because that is $recisely how she rolls. #ar! my words . . . I had ho$ed that your client would lay down her arms at some $oint and ust be a mommy to her little girl, instead of continuing to fund and $lan 3orld 3ar III. I had ho$ed that $erha$s you and I could hel$ this family divest itself of acrimony and blac!ness and focus on what matters ++ a little girl who deserves to have both of her $arents in her life in a big way. "$$arently your client hates Igor far, far, far more than she loves her daughter. It is far more im$ortant to her to crush Igor and me and anyone else who stands in her way than to find a way to love her daughter. Oery, very, very, very sad.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: &edical @ills< From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Tue( +6 Se: +,)) )3:35:,* %,*,, Judy: I ust received the attached letter and bills from your daughter. I am confused. =irst, these bills are from months ago, and it may well be too late to obtain $ayment from the insurance com$any. Second, where are the medical records which accom$any these bills- Ho insurance com$any is going to $ay bills if it does not !now what services the bills were $rovided for. If this treatment was necessitated by an in ury caused by a third $arty there may be subrogation rights. =urthermore, the services might not even be covered und the terms of the insurance contract.
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"ccordingly, $lease $rovide me with the medical records for the services which resulted in these bills. 3hen I have that information, I shall have Igor address $ayment with his insurance com$any, although I sus$ect it will be too late at that $oint. See, this is why Shared Rights and Res$onsibilities is not wor!ing here. If Dr. %andrahan had communicated with Igor before, during or after the treatment, this situation never would have arisen. ?ut because these bills are li!ely ust $art of your client8s ridiculous and malicious ;uest to stigmati7e Igor as a child abuser, she did not bother to share with him anything about these visits. Remar!able. #aybe you guys could as! the Iovernor or #aureen =latley to hel$ with this- Shoot, she might have to $ay =latley the over K',((( she owes her, though. :A I !now . . . $erha$s a letter writing cam$aign. <r better yet, why not as! Ste$hanie "nderson&=?I to $rosecute me for more crimes- #aybe Hightline or Dateline could hel$- #ost assuredly Ste$hen >ic!ering could find a way to dig u$ some dirt on me, Igor, #os!owit7, Dalton, Des$ard, #ills, 4roc!er, Rabbi S!y and <bama. <h, and $lease D< encourage your client to continue to write to the Iovernor and his assistants, because it ma!es for wonderfully entertaining reading. Judy, I li!e you but I am so sic! of your client8s shenanigans I could scream. I ho$e she is $aying you well.
#ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: 7andrahan From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: &on( )4 Se: +,)) ,3:3*:)6 %,*,, Judy: ). It has now been * months and a wee! since Dr. %andrahan has seen or s$o!en with her child. Does she have any interest in having contact with her daughter on a su$ervised basis and&or $hone calls with her child'. Is your client going to $ay "HY child su$$ort at "HY time- I understand you and she claim she should be $aying less, based on her new income figures, but why is she not at least $aying the amount the 4hild Su$$ort 2ables would re;uire based on the new income figures-
#ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: hild Su::ort From: mjwaxy@aol.com
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: i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: Fri( 4 Se: +,)) ,4:+,:56 %,*,, Judy: Your client has not $aid child su$$ort for months and months. I understand that she feels the child su$$ort order should be amended to reflect her $resent income, instead of her income in January, '()). ?ut why is she not at least $aying the child su$$ort re;uired using the 4hild Su$$ort 2ables and her $resent income- Ienerally, I try very hard to !ee$ child su$$ort issues and custody issues se$arate, and I detest it when $arents mingle the two and say things li!e, "when you $ay me the child su$$ort you owe me, you can see the !ids." 3e are not ma!ing visitation or contact at all de$endent on receiving child su$$ort. %owever, Igor would li!e to enroll #ila in a day care school. Your client claims that she cares a great deal about her daughter8s education. Net8s ta!e her at her word ++ $lease direct your client to ma!e child su$$ort $ayments so that #ila can en oy a school e,$erience this year. Igor does not ma!e enough money to $ay for this on his own, es$ecially when he is res$onsible for )((Z of #ila8s financial needs. In this case, I do intend to e,$lain to the 4ourt that although your client claims to love this child and want nothing but the best for her, she absolutely refuses to $ay "HY child su$$ort, which seems inconsistent with her e,$ressions of love and care. It really would be best for all if your client $aid child su$$ort immediately.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: Settlement discussions< From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: &on( +4 0u! +,)) )+:5):3) %,*,, " solution to your concerns about the confidentiality of your client8s medical records struc! me ust now. If we agreed to the a$$ointment of a I"N, $aid for by your client, then the I"N could be in charge of reviewing those records and ma!ing a recommendation to the 4ourt as to whether your client is ma!ing thera$eutic $rogress such that unsu$ervised visitation could occur. 3e would li!ely agree with whatever recommendations a good I"N ma!es. 3haddya thin!2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: Settlement discussions=rom: m wa,yEaol.com Date: #on, '0 "ug '()) (@:/*:'1 +(*(( Judy: You sent me an email last wee! about unsu$ervised visitation and treatment, and I sent you a res$onse. Is your client willing to sto$ the war and enter treatment-
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#ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: Settlement discussions< From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: &on( +4 0u! +,)) ,3:5):+3 %,*,, Judy: 2he udge tried to focus us on ending this war. You wanted to engage with me about a short cut for your client to see #ila unsu$ervised. Igor has no ob ection to your client ta!ing a direct and $ossibly even short $ath to unsu$ervised visitation. ?ut the condition $recedent to that ha$$ening is not some finite $eriod of time but rather a clear illustration from Dr. %andrahan that she is committed to ending this war and being a nurturing mother, not a warrior. 3hat can you tell me&show me about that"nd . . . #ila has not seen or s$o!en with her mother since #ay )(, '()). 3hy doesn8t your client wish to see her child and tal! to her, under "HY circumstances- Seriously. 2he choice Dr. %andrahan is ma!ing H<2 to see or s$ea! to her daughter, but rather to use her time and resources to fight a war with Igor s$ea!s volumes about her $riorities. >lease encourage Dr. %andrahan to see her child, as soon as $ossible.
#ichael To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Res:onse From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Date: 'ed( +* 0u! +,)) ,4:35:+3 %,*,,
Judy: 2han!s for your email. I wish I could ust give you a ;uic! answer, but nothing about this case is sim$le. "s I said in Judge #os!owit78s chambers to you on #onday ++ if you can hel$ sto$ this war, and hel$ little #ila have two $arents in her life, Igor and I shall be forever grateful to you. I ta!e from your email that $erha$s Dr. %andrahan is willing to enter a treatment $rogram, and I am heartened to hear that, because that might hel$ her sincerely understand that all Igor has done or wanted to do is love this child and ensure that she is treated with love and care by all those around her. <f course, we need to be confident that the treater is ;ualified and will be given the relevant materials, not sim$ly some unilaterally chosen tidbits. 2his war is of Dr. %andrahan8s ma!ing, not Igor8s. It arises out of Dr. %andrahan8s relentless cam$aign to destroy Igor, and to use an army 21
of $eo$le to secure this result. It is true that we have recently ta!en the offensive by filing a federal lawsuit, but as I mentioned to you, we would ha$$ily dismiss that if we felt confident that Dr. %andrahan will sto$ her remar!able offensive against Igor. Igor8s lawsuit and my advocacy on his behalf is merely a reaction to Dr. %andrahan8s e,traordinary efforts to brand Igor an abuser, a child molester, a man who $oisons his child with metham$hetamines, and her efforts to destroy him and his relationshi$ with #Ila. "s the natural guardian of this child, Igor has a weighty res$onsibility to $rotect her. Your client has been using #ila as a means to destroy Igor by briinging her to hos$itals for unnecessary e,aminations and unnecessary drug tests. She has been telling her false things about her father abusing her, and video ta$ing and audio ta$ing her child reciting such things. 3e need to hear that she will sto$ doing these things. 3e need to hear that she will sto$ ma!ing these false and malicious claims. 3e need to hear and be convinced that she has seen the light about this. Igor is a loving $arent. 2hat8s all. %e would never harm his child. 3e need to hear that your client will sto$ ma!ing claims that "it is not a matter of I= Igor will !ill #ila, but rather 3%:H." >erha$s you are not aware that she has done and said these things. If you want, I can easily su$$ly you with email after email illustrating your client doing all these things. Dr. %andrahan needs to sto$ directing Ste$hen >ic!ering to investigate Igor, contact D%%S, including 4ommissioner #ayhew, trying to cause trouble for Igor. Dr. %andrahan needs to sto$ using #aureen =latley to cause trouble for Igor. Dr. %andrahan needs to sto$ using Justice for 4hildren, including Joan #eier and :ileen Ming to cause trouble for Igor. Dr. %andrahan needs to sto$ $utting together "$anels of e,$erts" to influence D%%S to "substantiate" Igor for abuse. Dr. %andrahan needs to sto$ ma!ing claims to D%%S that Igor is abusing #ila in any way. Dr. %andrahan needs to $ay Igor child su$$ort arrearages and enter into an agreed u$on amount that can be sent to him by direct de$osit. 2hat she has chosen to s$end thousands of dollars on mercenaries to destroy Igor, but has not $aid child su$$ort so her child can attend $re+school is sim$ly unconscionable. If Dr. %andrahan can $ersuade us that she is ta!ing a new $ath, that she truly is abandoning this ihad against Igor, then he and his new wife will ha$$ily meet Dr. %andrahan in the middle and do what is best for #ila, so that she can have both $arents in her life. 2he agreement about treatment is only one item that will demonstrate to Igor that Dr. %andrahan sincerely is ready to end this war. 2he burden at this $oint is on Dr. %andrahan to convince us that she is turning over a new leaf and wants to be a mom more than she wants to be involved in a war to destroy Igor. 2he burden is on Dr. 22
%andrahan to show us that she will love #ila and not use her as a means to hurt Igor, harming her daughter in the $rocess. 3e sincerely ho$e that this is her intention, but we have yet to see any evidence su$$orting this notion.
-o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: &ila From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: &on( )5 0u! +,)) ,3:36:*3 %,*,, Judy: I understand that your client thin!s Igor has no right to insist on su$ervised visitation and that it is offensive to her rather well+develo$ed ego to have to endure such an "embarrassing" situation. I get that. Such a restraint would have greatly angered me as well, if that had ever ha$$ened. ?ut, the issue of most im$ortance to all of us in this case should be the welfare of a little girl who has not seen or had "HY contact with her mother since #ay )(, '()). #ila has called many times, and your client has failed to $ic! the $hone u$ or call bac!. #ila has sent $ost+cards and other mailings and your client has not even ac!nowledged recei$t of same. Your client claims in emails that she will send #ila $ac!ages. She does not. Your client does not send child su$$ort, yet does not ma!e any in;uiry about whether #ila has what she needs. 4learly, and sadly, she is more concerned with building a case against Igor and destroying him than she is about s$ending time with her daughter and ma!ing sure that her little girl !nows her mommy loves her, misses her and thin!s about her all the time. 3hen your client filed a false and retaliatory >=" 4om$laint on #ay '1, '((B, ust after Igor had served her with a divorce com$laint, Igor was re;uired to endure su$ervised visits for B months66 %e never, ever missed <H: visit at 4onnections for Mids, and #ila en oyed every single visit. "lso, when those visits go well, the su$ervisors ta!e great notes, and can be called as witnesses to attest to the good $arenting illustrated. 2hat could hel$ your client convince a court that she is on the right $ath, that her $riorities are aligned a$$ro$riately. I sus$ect that your client will not be able to do what is best for her daughter because the very idea of su$ervised visits offends her. 2hat is truly a shame. I would do "HY2%IHI to see my !ids, under the
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same circumstances, and most good $arents would as well. %er refusal to communicate with her child is stri!ing and sad. 3e remain o$en to su$ervised visitation at 4onnections for Mids. Net me !now if we can begin.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: 7earin! From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: Tue( 4 0u! +,)) )6:36:*6 %,*,, ). 2han!s. '. 2he $ros are that everyone is right there in the courtroom and can get on the witness stand fastG also, with someone li!e Ma$lan es$ecially, no se;uestration means he could sit and observe Aeven before he testifies9 and then his testimony can be informed by what he has heard. 2he cons might be that a witness would conform his testimony to be consistent with what someone else said before him&her. I am not worried about that in this case. :ach side $retty much !nows what the other side is going to say. Hot many sur$rises in this case, where the email trail is %PI:6 1. 3ord to the wise about what #os!owit7 thin!s on timing ++ he will li!ely tell us each how much time we have Aand !ee$ in mind the cross you do counts towards your time9, and he won8t budge much on that, so be surgeon+li!e in your choices. Men whined about not having enough time, and #os!owit7 did not listen. Don8t assume he8ll listen to you, ust because you are nicer than Men6 :9 *. I shall s$end time this wee! reviewing that large stac! and $ic!ing a select few of the documents. I8ll let you !now which ones I antici$ate using, by ?ates Stam$ number as soon as I am able. <h, I as!ed #os!owit78s cler! last wee! which side goes first, and she did not !now. I was assuming I would, since I filed #otions first Abac! in "$ril9, but I could be mista!en. I8m going to try and find that out, as it may affect how each of us decides to try this case.
+++++ <riginal #essage +++++ >rom? # wa,y %o? udy1/CEmsn.com Sent? 2uesday, "ugust (0, '()) 1:*/ ># Sub/e!t? %earing Judy:
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"s far as I !now, we are still on for #onday. Issues to address&agree on: ). I have an e,ecuted Summons showing service of your #otion for 4ontem$t was effected today, and we shall waive any argument or ob ection based on insufficient or im$ro$er service of $rocess. I e,$ect you will do the same, as we discussed. '. I thin! we should agree to H< se;uestration of the witnesses to s$eed things along. 3e did this for the divorce trial as well and it hel$ed the trial go smoother in my view. >lease let me !now if you agree. 1. "s far as antici$ated witnesses on my end, I foresee 1 or *. Igor and his $artner, Nily, Mathy Rogers from Horth "tlantic #ontessori AI sub$oenaed her9, and $ossibly ?eth "ngle. 2he first three would discuss what you would e,$ect them to discuss. ?eth "ngle is a friend of Igor8s and has s$ent time with #ila on numerous occasions. She will testify about her observations of #ila over time, $articularly how she has been doing the last several months. *. You have most of the e,hibits I shall be admitting, including a number of the documents found in the =<"" $roduction from the Iovernor8s <ffice. 4an you $lease address these numbered comments, so that I !now your $osition- 2han!s.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Aa:lan From: mjwaxy@aol.com Date: Tue( + 0u! +,)) +,:,3:)3 %,*,, Judy: Please reconsider my request to have your expert disclose the names of cases in which he has testified in court and/or depositions as an expert witness. This is required under the federal rules. See F.R. Civ. P. !" #"v# "$a list of all other cases in which% durin& the previous ' years% the witness testified as an expert at trial or (y deposition$#. )f ) had a chance to depose this expert% chosen (y you% ) certainly would have as*ed these questions. ) can only assume% since you directed your client to this particular expert "see report% pa&e +#% that you are familiar with his expert witness qualifications. ,ith all due respect% ) do not thin* it is fair for you to choose this &uy% (ased on what you *now of his (ac*&round% and then deny me very &eneral and routine information.
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) would li*e to call the other attorneys involved in cases he has testified in% &et copies of his testimony% and ma*e strate&y decisions a(out whether and/or how to cross examine him. -es% ) can voir dire him at the hearin&% (ut that is a waste of time "we only have a total of three hours% ) (elieve#% and it does not &ive me sufficient time to evaluate and ma*e strate&ic decisions. .ccordin&ly% please reconsider your position. Than*s. /ave a &ood ni&ht.
0ichael -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: Aa:lan Date: Tue( + 0u! +,)) )3:**:5+ %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com %ere8s why the medical records are relevant ++ Igor was com$letely unaware until about ' months ago that %andrahan had brought his child to the #aine 4oast #emorial %os$ital on )/ se$arate occasions in )0 months. %andrahan never informed him. "lso, he was unaware that she brought the child in for drug tests on her urine at #aine 4oast #emorial %os$ital and the :leanor 3. Di,on 4linic on )B se$arate occasions. %andrahan never told him. 3e did not discover this until I sent a re;uest for medical records to the hos$ital. 2he decisions any $arent ma!es about medical treatment clearly have a direct im$act on the welfare of the child. 2hat %andrahan did not bother to share any of this with Igor is re$rehensible. 2hat she had her e,amined and evaluated and tested for conditions that did not e,ist is worse than re$rehensible. 2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: Ma$lan Date: 2ue, ' "ug '()) )':/@:*' +(*(( =rom: m wa,yEaol.com Judy: I may not ob ect to Dr. Ma$lan testifying. %ave not decided yet. %e is clearly ;ualified, in the Daubert manner as an e,$ert. "nd I su$$ose what he has to say would be "relevant," even if I thin! his o$inions are easily im$eachable. So, I am leaning towards offering no ob ection. 4an we agree that my certified medical records from #aine 4oast #emorial %os$ital from "ugust ', '((0 to #arch '@, '()) come in under the statute"nd I shall have a set of documents from the =<"" re;uest to the Iovernor available for you to $ic! u$ later this afternoon. I8ll shoot you an email with the cost of the co$ying. I e,$ect to use some of the documents in that stac! as well, during the hearing. Nast Afor now9, will your client attend the hearing2han!s.
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From: Mjwaxy Bmjwaxy@aol.comC Date: Sun( Dul 3)( +,)) at )):+3 0& Subject: =xecuti.e meddlin! in judicial /unctions< To: mo/latley@!mail.com c: i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com( $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com( daniel.i.billin!s@maine.!o.( !o.ernor@maine.!o.( mary.mayhew@maine.!o.( dic".woodbury@le!islature.maine.!o.( daniel.r.des:ard@maine.!o.( mic"i.mullen@maine.!o.( !"esich@:ressherald.com( tmaxwell@:ressherald.com( dhench@:ressherald.com( beem@!wi.net( mmoretto@the/orecaster.net( bnemit9@:ressherald.com Dear #s. #aureen =latley: I have ust obtained a large $roduction of electronic corres$ondence from the <ffice of the Iovernor in #aine, $ursuant to a =reedom of "ccess "ct re;uest I made some wee!s ago. I learned that you have been engaged by Dr. %andrahan, and I have reviewed several emails from and to you concerning your efforts to $ressure the Iovernor to conduct some !ind of "intervention" in the #alen!o v. %andrahan matter. I have noted that #ic!i #ullen has claimed that the Iovernor agrees such e,traordinary and unconstitutional measures are a$$ro$riate ++ "2he Iovernor agrees that intervention is necessary, and he will wor! with #ary X#ayhew, 4ommissioner of D%%SY to give her whatever su$$ort and bac!ing she needs." See email from #ic!i #ullen to Nori %andrahan dated June B, '()), co$ied to %andrahan8s >rivate Investigator Ste$hen >ic!ering. I cannot tell from your biogra$hical data on the web, but it a$$ears that you are not an attorney. Honetheless, I would ho$e that you would understand that our democratic re$ublic is governed by 1 se$arate branches of government, and that the e,ecutive branch of government does not have the right to meddle in and affect the udicial branch, e,ce$t in rare cases, such as granting re$rieves and $ardons. See "rticle II, section ' of the Pnited States 4onstitution, and "rticle O, section )) of the #aine 4onstitution. 2here is a very famous case entitled #arbury v. #adison, / P.S. )1@, ) 4ranch )1@, ' N. :d. C( A)B(19 in which this "se$aration of $owers" theme was develo$ed and e,$ounded u$on. %ere is a lin! to a summary of that case ++ htt$:&&www.lawni,.com&cases&marbury+madison.html I !now that you have $ersonally done a great deal of good in your career and develo$ed a re$utation for fighting for the rights of children. I am sur$rised, therefore, that you would lend your voice and your re$utation to Dr. %andrahan in this case. You cannot $ossibly have informed yourself about this case, otherwise you would reali7e that Dr. %andrahan8s war, which you have oined as yet another mercenary, does not have a little girl8s welfare as its ultimate goal. Igor #alen!o is a gentle, !ind, nurturing, hard+ wor!ing father, not some demonic, violent monster as Dr. %andrahan $ortrays him. Dr. %andrahan8s hysterical, malicious and $aranoid rants have defamed and critici7ed virtually every single $erson who has not agreed to do her bidding. >erha$s you should read some of the court decisions from this terrible custody battle before you commit to giving Dr. %andrahan any further assistance. In $articular, you should read: ). 2he initial decision by our highest court emanating from the #alen!o&%andrahan custody battle: htt$:&&www.courts.state.me.us&courtRinfo&o$inions&'((0Z'(documents&(0me0Cma.$df '. 2hen, you should $robably turn to Judge "le,ander8s e,cellent decision in the case brought against me, based on %andrahan8s malicious falsehoods, for this summari7es the case ;uite well: htt$:&&www.courts.state.me.us&courtRinfo&o$inions&documents&?ar+)(+/3a,man<rder.$df
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1. You should also read %andrahan8s ill+fated a$$eal of a baseless and malicious >=" she filed against #r. #alen!o: htt$:&&www.courts.state.me.us&courtRinfo&o$inions&'())Z'(documents&))me)/ha.$df. *. He,t, you really ought to read the decision from Judge #os!owit7 on =ebruary ), '()) ta!ing custody away from %andrahan and transferring it to #alen!o. See attached ">RDecision." /. I have also attached Judge Jane ?radley8s decision dismissing Dr. %andrahan8s merit+less >rotection from %arassment case against me. See wa,man.>=%Decision.$df. I share with you the laudable goal of $rotecting and hel$ing children, who often have no voice. See $age @) of the most recent #aine ?ar Journal, htt$:&&www.mainebar.org&images&tem$$df&#?Js$ng'()).$df. I have four wonderful children myself, including one daughter. 2heir mother and I, who have been divorced for )) years, are great friends who co$arent about as well as anyone I have ever met. #y !ids are ama7ing human beings. Heither #r. #alen!o nor I would ever do anything to harm any child. #ila is well ta!en care of and well loved by Igor. Dr. %andrahan8s claims are false and malicious. Ho amount of money is worth harming a child, which is $recisely what Dr. %andrahan has been doing to her little girl, and what you are hel$ing her to do again. >lease acce$t my invitation to inform yourself $ro$erly about this case before doing any further wor! on behalf of Dr. %andrahan. If you li!e, I can share with you the certified medical records from #aine 4oast #emorial %os$ital in :llsworth #aine showing that in about a )0 month $eriod, Dr. %andrahan brought her child to the hos$ital emergency de$artment )/ times including $o!ing, $rodding and ta!ing $ictures of her vagina, and also dragged her in for )B se$arate drug tests on this little girl8s urine. I can show you the D%%S re$ort dated "$ril '0, '()) which not only unsubstantiates the claims by Dr. %andrahan about Igor hitting #ila in the head with a metal frying $an, but also notes that #ila twice indicated in forensic interviews with $ro$erly trained D%%S casewor!ers, that she !nows her $a$a did not hit her, she !nows her mother claims that he did, and she !nows her mother8s claims are false. Indeed, her mother even made her recite these falsehoods into a recording device. 2his is emotional and $hysical abuse.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw. -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Stu// Date: &on( ) 0u! +,)) ,4:35:5) %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Iood morning Judy: Hice meeting your husband this morning. :9
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<!, I $lan on $lacing ?ates Stam$ numbers on the fairly voluminous documents I received on =riday from the Iovernor and then ma!ing a co$y for you. It loo!s li!e about ),((( $ages to me. "nd, incidentally, it reflects a R:#"RM"?N:, sustained, well+funded and well+connected effort by your client to destroy Igor. It has convinced me that no matter what you or I may agree on, she is com$letely inca$able of ceasing and desisting from engaging in this war. She has critici7ed and attac!ed virtually every single $erson who has not done $recisely what she wants, including Dan Des$ard, ?renda %arvey, Maren Simone, #ichael 3a,man, Judge #os!owit7, Judge "le,ander, Rebecca "ustin, etc. etc. She claims that #ichael 3a,man actually "ghost wrote" Judge "le,ander8s decision, as well as some or all of Judge #os!owit78s decisions. She and her friends claim that I have engaged in insurance fraud and witness tam$ering. She convened a meeting of '( $eo$le, including her "$anel of e,$erts," with D%%S on #ay 1), '()), including a >ower >oint $resentation. She claims to have a connection to Oice >resident ?iden. She has demanded that Iovernor Ne>age conduct some !ind of "intervention," constitutional se$aration of $owers be damned. "nd she did all or much of this while com$letely ignoring her own child. If she had s$ent any small fraction of the time, energy and money that she threw at her "$anel of e,$erts" and her $rivate investigator, and her "child lobbyist," #aureen =latley on en oying visitation and contact with her child, we would not be here. 2his $roduction of documents from the Iovernor is very, very hel$ful and instructive about how Dr. %andrahan o$erates and what her motivations are. She is trying des$erately to have Igor de$orted, as well, even though she denied this under oath on January )*, '()). %ow would having her father de$orted bac! to #acedonia be in #ila8s best interestJudy, you and I will get along fine, and be res$ectful of one another. ?ut your client has been driving this bus to the edge of the cliff and I cannot sto$ the vehicle from going over the cliff at this $oint. Heither can you, I do not believe.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: &ay $ :ic"%u: &ila on Friday /or .isitation< Date: Tue( +6 Dul +,)) )):,6:56 %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Judy: Yes, all of the $arameters would be mutual e,ce$t for the last one. "nd yes, I was thin!ing of unsu$ervised visits if we could get this <rder. RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR 2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: Re: #ay I $ic!+u$ #ila on =riday for visitationDate: 2ue, 'C Jul '()) )(:1C:1B +(*((
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=rom: m wa,yEaol.com 44: igormalen!oEhotmail.comG Igor+#alen!oEide,,.com Judy: I am intrigued by, and interested in, discussing a global end to the war, including dro$$ing all law suits, dismissing all motions, agreeing on an a$$ro$riate amount of child su$$ort to be $aid by direct de$osit every single wee! as well as ta!ing care of arrearages. Such a denouement would absolutely be in #ila8s best interest. Indeed, I sus$ect that if these two could agree to go down this $ath, #ila could start to en oy a normal life, being raised and loved by two smart, $assionate, loving $eo$le. "s you and Nori must understand, #ichael 3a,man is not going anywhere, and I shall continue to ta!e all necessary legal ste$s to $rotect Igor and #ila and their beautiful bond. ?ut I would much rather s$end my time on other cases. :9 Net me ust lay out some of the basic $arameters of any such agreement to get a feel for whether or not Igor and Nori might be able to envision light at the end of the tunnel. ). Nori terminates her engagement&em$loyment of >rivate Investigator Ste$hen >ic!ering and agrees not to engage any other >Is. '. Nori agrees that she will not ta!e #ila in for any more drug tests on her urine, hair, feces or any other body $art or fluid. 1. Nori agrees to dro$ her claims that Igor is $oisoning #ila with metham$hetamines or any other drugs. *. Nori agrees that she will not bring #ila in to any hos$ital :mergency De$artment for any condition that is not an emergency. /. Nori agrees to find and use a $rimary care $hysician for #ila to see for run+of+the+mill conditions, well chec!s, essentially anything short of emergent care. C. Nori agrees to engage with Igor through email regarding #ila ++ including where she intends to travel with her Aincluding actual addresses and contact numbers9, how she is doing generally, and including any concerns about her well+being. @. Nori agrees that she will not dis$arage Igor, nor will she $ermit others to dis$arage Igor, in #ila8s $resence or hearing. B. Nori agrees that she will not file or have others file any further D%%S claims regarding Igor. 0. Nori agrees to engage and $ay the retainer for a >arenting 4oordinator li!e 2ommie ?ur!e to resolve any $arenting issues that may arise, so that we do not return to filing motion after motion in the future. In e,change for such written $romises, which I8d li!e as $art of an <rder from the 4ourt, Igor would agree to dismiss the #otion to #odify see!ing Sole Rights and Res$onsibilities, the #otion for 4ontem$t, and the =ederal lawsuit. "gain, as $art of this, we would agree to a wee!ly child su$$ort amount, to be done by direct de$osit, as well as an amount to be $aid for the arrearages that have accumulated. I have not even run this by Igor yet, but I sus$ect that if I tell him we are trying to craft an agreement which offers #ila the chance to have the warfare between her $arents end, and offers her the chance to en oy both $arents in her life without all the nastiness of the $ast several years, he would um$ at this. >lease consider this, discuss it with your client, and get bac! to me. 2his would be the greatest gift #ila could ever receive.
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#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us 2o: udy1/CEmsn.com Sub ect: =wd: #ay I $ic!+u$ #ila on =riday for visitationDate: 2ue, 'C Jul '()) (B:*@:)* +(*(( =rom: m wa,yEaol.com 2his email highlights the issues that #PS2 be addressed if we are to find a way to ma!e things better for #ila. 2his war needs to sto$. #ila !ee$s getting hit by the cross fire. 4an you do anything to hel$ get a truce declared . . . for #Ila2han!s. #ichael +++++<riginal #essage+++++ =rom: igor malen!o Digormalen!oEhotmail.comF 2o: lorihandrahan/Egmail.com 4c: m wa,yEaol.com Sent: 2ue, Jul 'C, '()) B:1' am Sub ect: R:: #ay I $ic!+u$ #ila on =riday for visitationNori, 3e need to have a discussion about the ele$hant in the room ++ you dis$araging me to #ila, ma!ing false claims about me, coaching #ila to say false things into a recording device, and you bringing #ila in for unnecessary medical e,aminations and drug tests. 2hese are the reasons that I have decided to $revent you from having unsu$ervised contact with #ila. 2his is $hysical and emotional abuse. You may feel great about how yesterday went for you, but Judge #os!owit7 has not yet seen the evidence of the ele$hant in the room, which he will see at the ne,t hearing. I don8t want #ila se$arated from her mother. I want #ila and you to have a healthy relationshi$. ?ut that cannot ha$$en if everytime you are with her, you and the $eo$le around you are saying bad things about me, tormenting our lives with false abuse claims and dragging #ila in for unnecessary medical e,aminations and drug tests. You have never once discussed this issue with me. It is not going away ust because we no longer have a >=% <rder against you. If you refuse to have this discussion, then I will continue to offer you only su$ervised visits with #ila.
=rom: lorihandrahan/Egmail.com 2o: igormalen!oEhotmail.comG Igor+#alen!oEide,,.com
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Sub ect: #ay I $ic!+u$ #ila on =riday for visitationDate: #on, '/ Jul '()) )B:)/:(( +(*((
Igor, May I pick-up Mila on Friday for vi i!a!ion" If o, #$a! !i%& and #$&r&'
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Stu// Date: &on( +5 Dul +,)) )5:+,:)6 %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Judy: Iood ob today. I thin! your decision to announce to #os!owit7 that we were not going to adhere to the letter of the 4ourt <rder no matter what was very, very smart. 2hat got him in a $issy mood, I thin!. In any case, let8s get our clients served. In Igor8s #otions, the <rder from #ulhern s$ecifically $ermits me to serve both #otions on you Awith an "cce$tance in my view9, and then the 4ourt will schedule a hearing. Nemme !now when you want to serve Igor and I can have him come by my office or yours to acce$t it. Regarding visitation and contact between #ila and Nori, we honestly D< want #ila to have contact. I would suggest that Nori and Igor ma!e some !ind of arrangement for when Nori can call to s$ea! with #ila or vice versa, several times each wee!. If Nori wants su$ervised visitation, we are willing to ma!e that ha$$en. Igor will not under any circumstances $ermit Nori to en oy unsu$ervised contact. In my mind, su$ervised contact is better than nothing. Igor has been forced to do this in the $ast, and he moved heaven and earth to en oy that visitation several times $er wee!. It may not be what Nori wants, but it is certainly what #ila needs. Net me !now if you need my hel$ in trying to set something u$.
#ichael J. 3a,man, :s;. <ne #onument 3ay, 'nd =loor >.<. ?o, 1@/ >ortland, #aine (*))'+(1@/ A'(@9 @@'+0//B $hone A'(@9 @@'+0/C@ fa, www.wa,manlaw.us -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,* % Release Date: )+5+65)) To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: recordin!s o/ &ila tal"in! about :an to head
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Date: Thu( +) Dul +,)) )5:*6:,5 %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com 2his recording really u$sets me, Judy. " $arent who would coach her * year old daughter to say such things is truly beyond hel$, I fear. I !now she sees this as some !ind of cataclysmic struggle between good and evil, which she will do anything to win, but that8s not at all what this is. If your client could find a way to become emotionally healthy, to co+$arent her little girl with Igor, then #ila would have been given the greatest gift she could ever receive. I truly believe that very shortly Judge #os!owit7 will grant Igor Sole Rights. I don8t say this to gloat. I am saying it because what ha$$ens to her rights to be with her daughter "R: 4<#>N:2:NY 3I2%IH %:R 4<H2R<N. If your client conceded that she had some mental health issues to address, and then if she were committed to addressing them, there could be a ha$$y ending to this debacle.
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: Re: Eno subjectF Date: Thu( +) Dul +,)) )3:,5:,* %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com 4orrect. 2hat re;uirment was im$osed by the custodial father, since it is his obligation to $rotect his child from abuse. I don8t understand how anything these individuals may have to say is relevant to whether your client engaged in %arassment on June '), '()). ?ut bring along whomever you want, by all means.
#ichael
To: judy356@msn.com Subject: ourt letter reGuestin! &os"owit9 Date: Thu( 6 Dul +,)) )+:*+:)* %,*,, From: mjwaxy@aol.com : i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com# $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Judy: 2his goes out today.
#ichael
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>.S. Is your client $lanning on attending this hearing-o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,3 % Release Date: )+5+55))
%%%%%>ri!inal &essa!e%%%%% From: &jwaxy Bmjwaxy@aol.comC Date: &on( )) Dul +,)) )5:*6:)) To: Bjudy356@msn.comC c: Bi!ormalen"o@hotmail.comC# B$!or%&alen"o@idexx.comC Subject: >utstandin! &otions Dudy: $ ha.e recei.ed your &otion /or ontem:t E$!or alle!ly "ee:in! child /rom 7andrahanF and your &otion to =n/orce E.isitationF. $nterestiin!ly( you indicate that child su::ort is not an issue( when in /act( your client owes a::roximately H5(,,, in child su::ort( $ belie.e. 0s you may or may not be aware( $!or /iled a &otion to &odi/y Esee"in! Sole Ri!hts and Res:onsibilities a/ter he learned o/ the /alse alle!ations 7andrahan made about hittin! &ila in the head with a /ryin! :an( the /orced statements into a recordin! de.ice to that e//ect( and the dis!ustin! and unnecessary medical e.aluations and examinations( includin! multi:le urine catches and dru! testsF on 0:ril ),( +,))( and a &otion /or ontem:t Esee"in! child su::ort amon! other thin!sF on 0:ril +5( +,)). Iour client has success/ully and creati.ely a.oided ser.ice o/ :rocess on both( so Dud!e &ulhern issued the attached >rder. 0ccordin!ly( we need to ha.e a !lobal hearin! on all these motions. $ shall be ha::y to acce:t ser.ice o/ :rocess o/ your motions as lon! as you a!ree to acce:t ser.ice o/ my motions. Deal<
&ichael D. 'axman( =sG. >ne &onument 'ay( +nd Floor ?.>. @ox 365 ?ortland( &aine ,*))+%,365 E+,6F 66+%4553 :hone E+,6F 66+%4566 /ax www.waxmanlaw.us Bhtt::55www.waxmanlaw.usC %%%%% -o .irus /ound in this messa!e. hec"ed by 012 % www.a.!.com 1ersion: +,)+.,.)4,) 5 1irus Database: +),45*6,3 % Release Date: )+5+55)) %%%%%>ri!inal &essa!e%%%%% From: &jwaxy Bmjwaxy@aol.comC Date: &on( )) Dul +,)) )6:5,:,6 To: Bjudy356@msn.comC Subject: Re: >utstandin! &otions
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Dudy: $ don8t e.er ta"e a .acation /rom this case( nor will $. $ am a.ailable to my client and /riend +* hours a day( se.en days a wee". Jn/ortunately( that is necessary !i.en your client8s relentless and malicious beha.iors and schemes. 'hat you choose to do is u: to you. $ honestly ho:e that you obtained a .ery lar!e retainer because this case ne.er ceases to demand :rodi!ious amounts o/ time. 0lthou!h( it would be wonder/ul i/ our clients8 resources could be used to bene/it the child( not the attorneys( :ri.ate in.esti!ators and ex:ert witnesses your client chooses to :ay instead o/ :ayin! child su::ort.
&ichael
From: &jwaxy To: judy356@msn.com c: i!ormalen"o@hotmail.com c: $!or%&alen"o@idexx.com Sent: Dul ))( +,)) )):5) 0& Subject: &otiion to &odi/y<
Dudy: 0ren8t you !oin! to /ile a &otion to &odi/y< Iour client has claimed that she lost her job :ayin! her H),5(,,, shortly /ollowin! the +5)5)) >rder. She has claimed that this is the reason she cannot or will not :ay child su::ort. 0lthou!h $ ha.e no idea whether this is true( $ ha.e been ex:ectin! her5you to /ile a &otion to &odi/y( chan!in! the child su::ort obli!ation to re/lect her new /inancial reality. $ can only assume /rom the absense o/ any such /ilin!( that Dr. 7andrahan continues to earn H),5(,,, :er year or more. The wee"ly obli!ation o/ H363 continues( as you "now( until $!or has been ser.ed with a &otion to &odi/y.
&ichael
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