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Laying with a stuffed pink elephant given to her by boyfriend Conway Herzog III, Kelli Richmond, 28, of Baton Rouge, goes through her third round of chemotherapy treatment at Womans Hospital.
CANCER
CONFRONTING
Symptoms
The most common symptoms include abdominal bloating or discomfort, increased abdominal size or clothes that fit tighter around your waist, increased or urgent need to urinate and pelvic pain. Additional signs and symptoms are persistent gas, indigestion or nausea, unexplained changes in bowel habits, unexplained weight loss or gain, loss of appetite, feeling full quickly during or after a meal, pain during sexual intercourse, a persistent lack of energy, low back pain and shortness of breath.
Whos at risk?
All women are at risk of developing ovarian cancer regardless of age; however, a womans risk is highest during her 60s and increases with age through her late 70s. Research suggests a relationship between the number of menstrual cycles in a womans lifetime and her risk of developing ovarian cancer. A woman is at an increased risk if she started menstruating at an early age (before 12), has not given birth to any children, had her first child after age 30, experienced menopause after age 50 and/or has never taken oral contraceptives.
Stats
Patsy Richmond, left, watches as daughter Kelli Richmond adjusts her hat over a wig at the Fight Like a Girl wig party her friends threw for her 28th birthday in January.
Ovarian cancer accounts for approximately 3 percent of cancers in women. While its the ninth most common cancer, it is the fifth leading cause of cancer-related death among women, and is the deadliest of gynecologic cancers. Mortality rates are slightly higher for Caucasian women than for minority women.
Source: Ovarian Cancer National Alliance
Kelli Richmond, second from left, talks with, from left, co-hostess Melissa Parmalee, sister Kristen Steward, mom Patsy Richmond and childhood friend Brooke Stikeleather during a wig party celebrating her 28th birthday.
CANCER
Continued from page 1D tucked behind and adjacent to the other one. Solar and Estes told Richmond she would have to undergo a complete hysterectomy. When she was rolled into surgery at Womans Hospital Oct. 28, 20 or so family members waited anxiously in the waiting room. Aside from the hysterectomy, Estes removed her appendix and resectioned her colon as well as two other sections of Richmonds intestines. As he explained to Richmond after the surgery, her uterus literally fell apart in his hands as he was removing it. The final diagnosis Stage III ovarian cancer. I kept myself together better than the rest of the family, said a still-together Richmond, as she was undergoing round three of her chemotherapy treatment at Womans. It hit my dad the hardest. My mother just kept saying, I wish it was me. Conway (Herzog III, her fianc) was my rock! He kept it together which allowed me to keep it together. You kind of take yourself by surprise, she continued. You dont know how youre going to react. Richmond admitted that the surgery and its recovery was 10 times harder to deal with than chemotherapy, so far. Its been better than I expected. They
Even with all she is going through, Kelli Richmond keeps an infectious smile on her face and a positive outlook. She is inspired by the fact that three of her friends are cancer survivors. People our age get cancer, but we dont die from cancer, she said. I immediately knew I was going to be OK.
give me steroids before my treatment, but then the fatigue hits and I spend three days in bed after I leave here (the hospital). Shes sometimes hit with nausea, but thats usually associated with stress. Her other side effects are dry skin and weight loss. While most women would welcome dropping several pounds, the already petite Richmond confessed her weight loss is the largest pain in the butt. Even with all she is going through, Richmond keeps an infectious smile on her face and a positive outlook. She is inspired by the fact that three of her friends are cancer survivors. People our age get cancer, but we dont die from cancer, she said. I immediately knew I was going to be OK. Shes getting on with her life going to work every day, doing things that make her happy and hanging out with friends. Sometimes those friends start to vent about their daily problems then stop short when they remember what all Richmond is dealing with. I quickly tell them, No, let me think about your problems! I dont want them to treat me any differently. Cancer is a part of who I am, but its not who I am It puts a whole new perspective on life that people my age dont have. Keeping things in perspective isnt really something new for Richmond. As development manager for the ALS Association Louisiana Chapter, she continually interacts with people dealing with a 100 percent fatal disease. It gives me hope; I feel lucky, she said. They removed 95 percent of my cancer surgically and the rest will be gone after six rounds of chemo. Her job also gave Richmond some insight as to how patient services work with different organizations. I knew where to look for stuff, she added, smiling. I also know what questions to ask. I was well prepared, because of my job, to handle all the logistics of this. One of her board members also offered some words of encouragement. Dr. Brent Allain told me there are four things the mind, spirit, support and your doctor, and that if all four are good, you are going to have the best experience possible And Richmond appears to have all four in abundance. Herzog cut her hair when it started to fall out; his brother Chris shaved it. He first cut it into a Mohawk, said Richmond, adding that she fortunately kept her eyelashes and eyebrows, and has a normal appetite. Conway said, You can either cry or laugh about this, which one is it going to be? So we had a good time. And then there are the friends who threw her the Fight Like a Girl wig birthday party. The all-girl get-together was the brainchild of Sara Godley. I have one black, one blonde, one red and two brown wigs, said Richmond, laughing at the memory. It was great to give them to me so now I have a collection. She does have her moments, though. Ill feel weak and I want to scream at the world and say Why me?, but everything happens for a reason and hopefully I can help others who may face this one day.