APRIL 2014

a letter from

Chatter

Is it possible to take comfort in Gods able-ness alone? To lean back and relax in the knowledge that he COULD repair that marriage, he COULD heal that baby, he COULD erase that memory and those lawsuits and that debt even if he doesnt? In the book of Hebrews, the writer describes Jesus in a very human way, the way I sometimes feel in my relationship with Able God: In the days of his esh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence. (Hebrews 5:7) Prayers? Check. Supplications? Check. Loud cries and tears? Check, check. I can relate to all of that. But did you catch the word reverence? Jesus combined authentic human outcry with respect. Jesus knew more than anyone that God was Able; that he was able to save him from death, and yet God didnt save him. Jesus went down Jesus, the most beautiful, glorious person of them all. We know the rest of the story, of course, that God eventually did deliver Jesus from death, but not before redeeming the whole world right along with him. And maybe thats the meaning of true reverence: accepting whatever death youve been asked to die with the knowledge that God is Able; not just to heal your situation, but to save the whole dadgum world. Maybe reverence also means accepting that those two things might be connected. Sometimes, perhaps, he opts to heal the world rst and you second. Sometimes, perhaps, youll have to wait for your particular resurrection so that others can be resurrected with you in some specic way; and it might not be in three days, or three years. Sometimes you might have to wait until Forever for parts of you to be brought back to life and sewn whole. Can you become obedient to that, even through loud cries and tears? Is that kind of reverence possible? I dont know if I can, either. Im not Jesus. Youre not Jesus. Were going to fail. And yet, we know from the Apostle Paul that God is able to work powerfully within us, beyond all that we ask or think (Eph. 3:20), so thats got to count for something. Able God, help us to be able. Able to endure. Able to be reverent. Able, even, to rejoice.

In the span of one single day, I have connected with three different friends who are each facing huge, mega-blinding lightning strikes of disillusionment. Failing marriages, failing faith assumptions, failing life choices. Things are coming apart. Things are REALLY coming apart. Not just in our government, not just across the Atlantic or on Downton Abbey or for the stranger one block over things are coming apart, like, at your house. At my house. And this isnt news to you, of course; maybe youve served in the armed forces or are a family counselor or an oncologist or a funeral director. Maybe you havent been at home with mostly-healthy preschoolers like I have in a sort of charmed, amniotic existence. Maybe I dont have the right to even utter the words, Things fall apart because I havent mastered and internalized and exhausted the lexicon of true suffering like most people have like you have. Be that as it may, it doesnt alter the truth. Beautiful, glorious lives and beautiful, glorious people living those lives, are often decimated and scattered over the sea for no apparent reason. Isnt God able to intervene? Gods ability, his able-ness is one of the great bedrocks of his Scriptural denition: he is mighty, powerful. To bewildered Job, God challenges, Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? And the Psalmist asks, Who is mighty as you, O Lord? (89:8) Gods able-ness extended to Jesus, who asked two blind men about being healed, Do you believe I am able to do this? And then he healed them, validating their imperfect belief. If we truly are those crunchy evangelicals who believe in the bodily resurrection of Jesus from the grave, then we affirm a God who is able, in real time and in real space, to bring physical regeneration to a body three days decayed. Thats an able-bodied God if Ive ever heard one described. Yet sometimes our Able God doesnt act. And its in the midst of the really big horrors, the unexplainable ones, when we demand to know where to nd comfort;because it certainly doesnt rest in a God who can be counted on to put things and people back in their right places and minds the very moment everything collapses.

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Irving Bible Church: a community on a journey.

Thanks for picking up Chatter. Chatter is a publication of Irving Bible Church in Irving, Texas.
Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to life transformation through Jesus Christ. We engage this journey by growing in Christ, connecting in community, and joining the mission. This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).

How do we do this?
Growing in Christ At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us (Ephesians 4:11-13). Connecting in Community The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been transformed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with one another on the journey (John 13:34-35). Joining the Mission The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world (Matthew 28:18-20).

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Photo Update: Ash Wednesday

IBCers celebrated the beginning of Lent at the annual Ash Wednesday service. A time for reection and repentance, Ash Wednesday provides an opportunity to contemplate our need for a savior.

An Easter devotional from John 20:1931.

woman who was an awful cook took her new neighbors a cherry pie. It was so bad they couldnt eat it, so they fed it to their dog. When she asked them how they enjoyed her pie, the diplomatic husband said, A pie like that doesnt last very long around our place! Now that was a well intentioned b just like most little American white lies: The check is in the mail. I start my diet tomorrow. This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you. One size ts all.

LI E NO. 2 YOU CANT EAT PIE IN THE SKY.

What Thomas assumed: faith is for fools (John 20:24-25). Now Thomas (called Didymus), one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came. So the other disciples told him, We have seen the Lord! Thomas is a disillusioned, unhappy camper who is not just doubting Jesus resurrection, but determined not to believe it! As far as he was concerned, Jesus was dead and the party was over. Thomas wasnt with the disciples when Christ appeared to them, probably because hed already decided that faith is for fools. Since you cant eat pie in the sky, Thomas was off guring out how to get started making some pie in the kitchen! What Jesus resurrection proved: God is not limited (John 20:26-31)! A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, Peace be with you! Then he said to Thomas, Put your nger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe. Thomas said to him, My Lord and my God! Then Jesus told him, Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed. Jesus did many other miraculous signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name. Something drastic happened to change Thomas mind dramatically Jesus dropped by. Wouldnt you have loved to watch Thomas face when Christ just kind of showed up through locked doors? Wouldnt it have been great to observe Thomas expression when Jesus used Thomas own words to invite him to put his ngers in the nail marks and his hand in his side? HOW DID JESUS KNOW? We have no indication from the text that Thomas ever actually touched Jesus. Why did he have to? The omnipotent, omniscient, risen Christ was standing before him, an amused grin on his face. That was enough for Thomas, who went down to his knees in an instant. He recognized that his call was no longer to doubt a Jewish carpenter, but to worship a divine Messiah. My Lord and My God! If Christ was alive, you see, anything was possible. The resurrection of the Lord meant that he really was the Son of God for whom no limitations existed. If Jesus had promised Heaven to those who believed in his name, then Heaven would surely be theirs. If Jesus had promised fruitfulness, power, and effectiveness to those who minister in his name, then a life full of impact for good would surely be theirs. As Bonhoeffer said: Socrates mastered the art of dying; Christ overcame death as the last enemy. There is a real difference between the two things; the one is within the scope of human possibilities, the other means resurrection. . . If a few people really believed that and acted on it in their daily lives, a great deal would be changed. To live in the light of the resurrection that is what Easter means (Dietrich Bonhoeffer in The Martyred Christian). Dont live by lies that died in Christs empty tomb!

The problem with believing lies is that when we do, we base our lives on what is not real. Jesus said that the truth will set you free. On the other hand, lies will lock you up. Truth sets you free to see things as they are, to hear the voice of God, to love with all your heart. But lies lock you up in a prison where vision is distorted, hearing is muffled, and loving is devalued. I want to expose two insidious lies that can spiritually cripple and emotionally imprison those who accept them. Each one of them died in Christs empty tomb

LI E NO. 1 YOU ONLY GO ROUND ONCE .

What the disciples assumed: only the immediate matters (John 20:19a). On the evening of that rst day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jews The mood in that upper room after Christs resurrection wasnt exactly chipper. Remember, only Mary had seen Christ alive. Though John and Peter had seen the empty tomb, they were still greatly confused about exactly what had happened. Thomas was so disillusioned that hed taken off completely. And the other disciples, in spite of the wildly hopeful rumors theyd heard of angels and empty tombs, were still scared out of their minds. For them, it was: forget this business of heavenly kingdoms! Only the immediate matters. Lock the doors, play it safe. Since we only go around once, grasp all the gusto you can! The world is full of people who are making a good living but living poor lives because they have plenty to live on but nothing to live for. These are people who believe what the disciples believed in that upper room long ago that Jesus was dead, life was ultimately meaningless, and therefore only the immediate matters. What Jesus resurrection proved: Life is not meaningless (John 20:19b-23)! Jesus came and stood among them and said, Peace be with you! After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. Again Jesus said, Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you. And with that he breathed on them and said, Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven. It all changed in an instant. The risen Christ is standing in the disciples midst, bidding them peace, and after they got over their shock and amazement commissioning them for their ministry. As the Father sent me, I am sending you, says Jesus; sending you to be light as I have been light, to bring people the water of life as I have brought you the water of life, to declare grace and forgiveness of sins. Life is meaningless? Only the immediate matters? You only go around once? I dont think so! Those lies died the moment Christ walked out of that tomb!

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There are approximately 15-gazillion resurrection roll recipe pins on Pinterest.

Fact: Pineapple Chess is the undisputed champion of pies.

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Two Lies Continued from page 5 Instead, live by the truth of his empty tomb; that it is by Jesus resurrection that we are awakened to new life. This will be the subject of our seven-part Fully Alive Easter season sermon series unfolding over the next several weeks. We want to explore how Christs resurrection frees us up to overcome barriers that could keep us from the abundant life that Christ offers. We hope youll join us for these messages from Gods Word during Easter Season at IBC. And, if this is your rst time visiting IBC during the Easter season, wed like to extend a special, warm welcome to you. If you have any questions about IBC, there are some friendly faces just outside the Worship Center at the Information desk every Sunday who would love to help get you acclimated. And, if you nd yourself feeling like the disciple Thomas, full of doubts and questions about Jesus and faith, we would love to invite you to an upcoming ve-session class called The Table, a place where you can ask the hard questions about Christianity in a safe, relaxed environment. (Turn to page 17 for more details.) May the truth of Easter free your life in new and beautiful ways this year, as it never has before. Dr. Andy McQuittys biggest pet peeve is missing the trashcan. His close-range rim-shots are just too frequent and irritating.
As Senior Pastor,Dr. McQuitty is also a member of the Elder Board and Lead Team.

sleep, as the resurrection is called an awakening. It is by Jesus resurrection that we are awakened to new life, yet there are barriers that prevent us from abundant living. At IBC, we want to help men and women overcome these barriers with the Spirits help so that they may display the characteristics of full, abundant life: hope, freedom, courage, wholeness, gratitude, humility, and authenticity.
Week 1: April 20 (Easter Sunday)
Luke 24:13-35: Hope vs. Despair
Jesus appears to two men and explains the hope promised in the Scriptures long ago. Jesus makes us fully alive by providing himself as our hope. By his resurrection we are awakened to new life.

Saint Augustine once said, Death is often spoken of in the Scripture as

Week 3: May 4

Romans 8:1539 and Psalm 27:114: Courage vs. Fear

Our present and our future should not cause us to fear because we are led by the Spirit and have been adopted into the family of God. We are made to walk in boldness because of the promise that God is working all things together for good, even when we cant see or feel it.

Week 2: April 27

Romans 8:111 and Colossians 2:615: Freedom vs. Shame

Week 4: May 11

Paul tells the community of believers theyve been set free by Christ. Far too often we allow our past and shame to dene us and hold us captive. Paul reminds us that there is freedom found in Jesus, and that we have been set free from our past and our shame.

Luke 4:1622 & Psalm 147:15: Wholeness vs. Woundedness

Our God is a God of healing and restoration. But because of hurts, habits, and hang-ups we walk with a limp. Jesus heals our brokenness and binds up our wounds. We nd healing and wholeness in Jesus.

Week 5: May 18

FOR FURTHER get enough of Fully Alive? The IBC Teaching Team has recommended these books for more insight. READING Cant

Luke 12:1331: Gratitude vs. Greed

Jesus parable reminds us how easily our hearts can drift from thankfulness to greed. We are called not to store up treasures for ourselves, but to be content and thankful for Gods.

Week 6: May 25

Philippians 2:111: Humility vs. Pride

Paul reminds his readers of Christs example of humility that they are to imitate in their own lives. Likewise, we are to pursue humility before God and others.

Week 7: June 1

Colossians 3:117: Authenticity vs. Performance

Practice Resurrection by Eugene Peterson

The Resurrection and the Son of God by N.T. Wright

The Challenge of Easter by N.T. Wright

Living the Resurrection by Eugene Peterson

Paul reminds the Colossians of their new identity and responsibility in Christ. They have been awakened and are called to live authentically, seeking the things that are above. Likewise, we are called to live authentically before God and others.

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THE IBC EASTER EGGSPERIENCE:

Its a-MAZE-ing!
Its that time of year again when the bounce houses, clowns, llamas and general frivolity descend upon the IBC campus on Holy Saturday. If you or your friends have never eggsperienced it before, mark your calendars and bring a friend! Saturday, April 19, 9 a.m.12 p.m. at IBC The Eggsperience is open to everyone, however it is designed for families who have children 2nd grade and below. The event is free, but please bring 12 plastic candy-lled eggs per child for the egg hunt. Contact Melody at mparlett@irvingbible.org for more information, or if youd like to volunteer.

Help our little eggsperience friends nd the fun!

Fixing our eyes and hearts on Jesus.

EASTER PATH

tuesday, April 15, 12 p.m.9 p.m. wednesday-friday, April 1618, 9 a.m.9 p.m. saturday, April 19, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Experience the life-changing story of the crucixion and resurrection of Jesus in an accessible, unforgettable way. Through ten multi-sensory stations, you will follow the story of the last days of Jesus and experience the true meaning of Easter our risen Saviors victory over death! The Easter Path is free and is designed for all ages.

Stephen Ministers

Meet Ginger, Dave and Diana, three Stephen Ministers who see their ministry as an extension of the comfort they themselves have received.
You might have heard about IBCs Stephen Ministry, a program designed to individually connect lay ministers with those struggling with difficult life issues such as death, divorce, or illness. But what you might not know is that each Stephen Minister has personally experienced deep wounds in their own lives, wounds that inform the way they approach care receivers. Their lives echo the sentiments of 2 Corinthians 1:3-6: Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ ow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overows.

WOUNDED HEALERS

Ginger Dave

Diana

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Over the past two years, IBC has matched 47 care receivers with Stephen Ministers.

CHATTER Thanks for your willingness to be vulnerable with us.

Would you mind sharing a little about what personal wounds you have sustained?

GINGER SMITH I went through a divorce 10+ years ago and had a bout with cancer about 5 years ago. Both experiences, although not pleasant, gained me exponentially greater intimacy with God. It seems most people nd that hardship drives us either to him or from him. Im so grateful for the difficult experiences Ive had because otherwise I probably wouldnt have the depth of gratitude for Gods presence that I gained as a result. DAVE NAGEL One of my bigger challenges in life began early on.

STEPHEN MINISTERS are so-that comforters. God comforted them so that they can comfort others. When you meet with a Stephen Minister, youre likely to be meeting with someone who has experienced: Divorce The suicide of a loved one The death of a close loved one Depression Job loss Loneliness Financial crises Marital stress

In grade school I was labeled as having a learning disability. That learning disability, combined with years of attending special classes, ignited in me a desire to prove that I was better than my label. I developed low self-esteem, and over time became imprisoned by drugs and alcohol. As a result of my addiction, I was kicked out of college and was unable to hold a steady job; I abandoned a loving family, and placed my life and the lives of others at risk while driving under the inuence time and time again. I was living a life lled with pain, and in my darkest hour I had thoughts of ending my life. I wanted the pain that engulfed my heart to go away.
DIANA DUNN Most everyone has had their fair share of personal wounds in their lives. This is normal, by the way. One of the most signicant challenges in my life is that my husband is a recovering alcoholic. He has now been sober for 28 years, yet we are still dealing with his anger management issues. By Gods grace, we have managed to stay strong in our marriage, in nancial difficulties and through life itself. We just stay faithful. Pray. Enjoy life. And move forward. Together. CHAT At the time, how did you feel comforted by God? GS The main thing I found out was that Gods presence was suf-

There isnt sufficient time to tell you all the ways he has taken care of me. Im just so grateful.
DN God covered me with his grace. He came to me in a dream one night at my lowest point. What he shared with me was that I dont have to be the man that I had become, and that he created me for so much more. When I awoke, a drug transaction was taking place literally feet away from me. It seemed like everything was in slow motion, and I knew that in that moment I could change. It was two months later that he opened my eyes, and I decided I could not deny him. I wanted to follow him for the rest of my days. DD I really didnt feel Gods comfort through those times because

cient to sustain me. I had to rethink what it meant for God to take care of me. I found out he would allow some pretty miserable things to come into my life (I didnt really like learning that!), but his presence never left me and he cared for me in ways I didnt even know to request. There were times I would spend almost the whole singing time in church with tears streaming down my face because I was just so grateful to have him so real and so near. Several years before my divorce, I had taken a telecommuting position. Over the course of about 6 years, my entire nuclear family, for various reasons, had moved to within two miles from me. So when the divorce came, I realized God had already provided a job that didnt require off-site child care and placed my full familial support system practically in my backyard. I didnt know the divorce was coming, but he did, and he had been making preparations for me, putting everything in place that I would need. When I went through cancer, I saw him work out circumstances in ways I never couldve anticipated. I went through surgery, chemo, and radiation during my only childs senior year in high school. Amazingly, the schedule mapped out such that I was able to attend every college visit, vocal audition, performance, and choir trip as originally planned since they all happened to occur during my off weeks for treatment. Only God could have dovetailed a schedule that perfectly over that period of nine months.

I didnt know God. But, now I can look back and see how he was working. There were times I would be so angry, scared and mad when my husband had not come home. I knew he was somewhere drinking. Then when he nally did come home, I was relieved and mad. So many mixed feelings. But now I know it was God that kept me loving my husband. I knew there was something special about my husband and I didnt want to give up. God helped me sustain these messy parts of our lives. But, once my husband was sober, there were the anger issues. My husband was raised in a home with anger. I tried to be understanding and forgiving, but only with Gods grace was I able to do this. Again, I knew I wasnt alone. I can look back now and see that God was with me and had a plan for me. For us. In 2002, my husband and I accepted Christ and were baptized together. In fact, our two daughters (as teenagers) inuenced us to seek Christ. We are forever thankful to them. care receiver?

CHAT How does this experience inform your approach to your

GS I know how painful life can be, so I can empathize, but I also know how good God is in the midst of it. Sometimes people in pain just need someone to talk to. A lot of Stephen Ministry is just being there to listen and to care. I am someone outside of their circumstances with whom they can talk, vent, cry, pray. It helps to not feel alone. The circumstances vary marriage problems, physical issues, death of a loved one, employment struggles, lots of things but everyone is really asking the same thing: Is God really going to take care of me? I think its comforting when I can respond with a resounding yes! and continue to walk with that person through their circumstances as together we see God bring them through to the other side.

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The most beautiful people Ive known are those who have known trials, have known struggles, have known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.
Elisabeth Kbler-Ross (author of On Death and Dying)

IBC recently commissioned 17 new Stephen Ministers who completed the 50-hour training program.

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DN I believe that every care receiver God puts in front of me is a gift and that he has somehow equipped me to have compassion and empathy. Its in the book of James that God gives me great hope: Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance nish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James 1:24 DD I am very empathetic and sensitive to others. I enjoy meeting new folks.

Visiting with them. Listening to their stories. Sometimes you are connected to that person somewhere, somehow. Life is interesting that way. I also have realized it takes time to get to know a person. Some people are ashamed to admit what is going on in their lives. I understand that. It can be embarrassing. But what a relief it is to share with someone and to not be judged. To know you are not alone. Sometimes you may never know a persons whole story, but thats okay. Just listen to them. Be their friend. Love them. If you or someone you know needs the care of a Stephen Minister, please contact sharrington@verizon.net.

Stephen Ministry is one of many ways for you to get on the path towards hope and healing. IBC provides a collection of support groups, education classes and counseling services to meet the variety of emotional needs within our community.
Premarital Counseling IBCs mentor-based counseling is designed to assist engaged couples to build a solid foundation for their marriage. Contact kyeichner@irvingbible.org Counseling referrals IBC has vetted a number of Christian counselors: psychologists, as well as licensed professional counselors, to provide emotional or mental health support. Contact kyeichner@irvingbible.org NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) Family-to-Family Group An educational group for those living with or supporting someone with mental illness. Contact eumoore@yahoo.com Mental Health Grace Alliance Living Grace Group A support group for those who have mental illness. Contact pamburtis@verizon.com Family Grace Group A support group for family members of those with mental illness. Contact myrabuzz@gmail.com or rchrdwck@yahoo.com DivorceCare A support group for those working through the issues following divorce. Contact kyeichner@irvingbible.org

Shelter from the Storm A support group for those struggling with the aftermath of sexual abuse. Contact shelterfromthestorm@irvingbible.org Grace for the Wounded A support group for those struggling with the aftermath of physical abuse. Contact graceforthewounded@irvingbible.org Perfectly Blended A support group for those working toward harmony in blended families. Contact janhere@verizon.net Abortion Counseling Condential information available upon request. Contact kyeichner@irvingbible.org Stephen Ministry Lay ministers trained to walk alongside those who are hurting, providing comfort and support. Contact sharrington@verizon.net GriefShare A support group for those struggling with the loss of a loved one. Contact ssharp@irvingbible.org Recovery A group dedicated to learning how to relieve emotional pain, stress, and control and seeking spiritual development in Christ. Contact recovery@irvingbible.org. Teen Recovery Meets during the school year to provide a safe, condential, and loving environment for middle and high school students to identify and share their pain and struggles. Contact tgrant@irvingbible.org.

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Stephen Ministry is named for the disciple Stephen, who was chosen to provide caring ministry to those in need in Acts Chapter 6.

The most common issue among Stephen Ministry care receivers is relational difculty of all kinds for those both married and single.

Looking back on a special day:

Shelby and Chris Arthur
Before our son Jackson was born, my husband, Chris, and I both knew that we wanted to have our child dedicated to the Lord. We knew it wouldnt be easy raising a child to know and love Jesus, especially in this world, but we understood how important it is. As baby dedication Sunday approached, we contacted our friends and family, near and far, to join us. It was so nice to have family travel from as far away as Houston. We will forever be thankful to our family, friends, and IBC family for their commitment to keep us accountable as we strive to be examples of faith to our son. We are so grateful for their love and support. February 16, 2014 will always hold a cherished place in our hearts.

Got a Baby? Get on board.

If you are a parent and would like to publicly dedicate yourself to raising your child in a home that loves Jesus and honors God, we invite you to participate in an upcoming baby dedication on Sunday, May 4, during each IBC worship service.

Details: Baby Dedications will be held on May 4 during each service. Registration opens April 18 at irvingbible.org/ babydedication. Space is limited, so if you have a preference of service times, please register early. Photos of children being dedicated should be sent by April 26 to Donna at doreilly@irvingbible.org. Hard copies are also acceptable. New Parent Orientation: April 27 at 9 a.m. in the Training Room. Orientation is not mandatory, but strongly encouraged. We will explore what it means to dedicate your child and answer questions about parenting issues and childrens ministry at IBC.

Holy Week at IBC

Theres something for everyone almost every day. TUESDAY april 15 Easter Path open, 129 p.m. WEDNESDAY april 16 Easter Path open, 9 a.m.9 p.m. MAUNDY THURSDAY april 17 Service at 7 p.m. in the IBC Commons KidZone available for newborns through 3-year-olds by online reservation. Easter Path open, 9 a.m.9 p.m GOOD FRIDAY april 18 Service at 7 p.m. in the Worship Center KidZone available for newborns through 3-year-olds by online reservation. Easter Path open, 9 a.m.9 p.m. HOLY SATURDAY april 19 Worship Center open for prayer, 8 a.m.5 p.m. Easter Eggsperience and Easter Path, open 9 a.m.12 p.m. The Passion of the Christ showing at 5 p.m. in The Alcove (No KidZone available.) EASTER SUNDAY april 20 Worship services at 8 a.m., 9:30 a.m., 11:15 a.m.; 5 p.m. Regular Children's Ministry for newborns through 5th grade available at all four services. If you are part of the IBC family, the Childrens Ministry would ask that you consider serving with your family for the 8 a.m. or 9:30 a.m. service. Please contact children@irvingbible. org for more information.

CHATTER CONTRIBUTOR SPOTLIGHT

Meet the photographers, writers & editors

ach month, hundreds of man-hours go into every page of Chatter. You might be surprised to learn that most of them are put in by volunteers. Heres a little spotlight on some pretty big talent.

Jacque Bundy
Chatter alter-ego: Photographer Day job: Assistant Pre-K Teacher at Bethany Lutheran CDC in Dallas Proudest Chatter contribution: Shooting photos for the Advent LIVE concert (January 2014). It combined three of my favorite things: Photography, music and Christmas!

Evan Chavez
Chatter alter-ego: Photographer Day job: Director at eVerge Group where I am a UX designer and perform Siebel Open UI mobile and web application congurations for various corporations. Yep, a great conversation starter for sure. Proudest Chatter contribution: Travelling to Haiti to document the collaboration of IBC with Hosean International Ministries at Camp de la Grace.

Katherine Ivey
Chatter alter-ego: Photographer Day job: Licensed CPA in Texas, and working on building up a real estate photography business. I also sell landscape prints on Etsy.com. Proudest Chatter contribution: Doing photography for the article on Laundry Love, The Family That Folds Together.

Yony Kim
Chatter alter-ego: Photographer Day job: Photographer YLK photography and mom. Proudest Chatter contribution: Shooting photos of Laundry Love (November of 2012).

Charles Stafford
Chatter alter-ego: Photographer Day job: Full-time Chiropractor and parttime photographer Proudest Chatter contribution: Its a tie. I enjoy shooting installments of Inside the Steeple and IBCers and Their Stuff. I like them both for the stories they tell about IBC and the people who give it life.

Annie Stone
Chatter alter-ego: Proofreader, copyeditor Day job: 2nd grade teacher Proudest Chatter Contribution: Finding typos in Idle Chatter not easy to do! (Editors note: Annie nds MANY more typos in the Editor Letter.)

Jason Fox
Chatter alter-ego: Writer of Idle Chatter Day job: Advertising writer, creative director and @leeclowsbeard Proudest Chatter Contribution: The July 2010 Idle Chatter I wrote in honor of my dad (Cool On The Inside). Who is still among the living, btw.

Cheryl Hume
Chatter alter-ego: Writer Day Job: I spend my days moving from painting to writing to singing. I also teach music and theatre arts to children. Proudest Chatter contribution: The article Getting Small (June, 2010). Pastor Andy quoted the article in a Sunday morning message, but I missed it. Darn!

Kelly Jarrell
Chatter alter-ego: Writer Day job: Wife and mother Proudest Chatter contribution: The article on Celestin Musekura (An Unusual Dinner Guest, November 2012).

Shawn Small
Chatter alter-ego: Writer Day job: Executive Director of Wonder Voyage Missions Proudest Chatter contribution: Taking a Wheres Chatter shot in a different location around the world every month in 2013 and scoring the back cover with my hard work in January 2014.

Stephanie Suire
Chatter alter-ego: Writer Day job: VP and Petroleum Engineer at DeGolyer & MacNaughton, Writer/ Healthy Living Blogger at www.FoodFit4Real.com. Proudest Chatter contribution: December 2013 article, A New Future through Family Promise.

Peggy Norton
Chatter alter-ego: Writer Day job: I work for a global security company where I develop and implement the overall internal communication strategy for North America. Proudest Chatter Contribution: The one that impacted me the most was the article I wrote about human trafficking. The statistics were staggering, but the light of the story were the two women I interviewed: Heather Crane and Kim Jones (Two Friends, One Mission, March 2011).

Summer Alexander
Chatter alter-ego: Proofreader Day job: Mommy to one plus one on the way, who attempts homemaking and sometimes cooks Proudest Chatter contribution: Im happy being part of Chatters production at any step; even if it means adding periods, quotations marks, and the occasional comma!

Think you might have what it takes to contribute to Chatter? Contact us at chatter@irvingbible.org. There are also opportunities for volunteers to help put Chatter out around IBC every month. (No special skills required there. Just arms.)

THIS MONTH
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Theres always something new going on in Bible Communities! Heres a taste of whats happening this month:
Synergy 9 a.m. The Alcove Couples in their 30s to 50s If you desire to dive into Scripture and deepen your faith, this class is for you. The Tree 9 a.m. West D 20s & 30s, married and young families The Tree is a community for young marrieds and young families looking to grow together in faith and marriage. Crossroads 10:45 a.m. West C Married late 20s and 30s Join us for teaching topics that facilitate group discussion. The goal: deepening relationships within our community and individually with Christ. Journey 10:45 a.m. The Alcove All Welcome Join us as we grow in our understanding of Lent and seek to diagnose our spiritual health. On Track 10:45 a.m. Conference Room Single Parents If you are a single parent or have a blended family, please join us for Bible study, fellowship and prayer. Thrive 10:45 a.m. West D Singles in their 30s & 40s Thrive is a vibrant singles community seeking to grow in the truth and love of Jesus. Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center Diverse, all ages and stages Join us as we study David Kinnamans You Lost Me. We will be learning about the next generation of Christians, and exploring why they are leaving the faith. Legacy Builders 6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome Join us for fellowship, prayer, and in-depth Bible teaching. MyZone Wednesdays, 6:30-8:15 p.m. The Zone A mid-week event for kids thats great for bringing friends. K-5 grade. Contact nlee@itrvingbible.org. MyZone now meeting in the Zone only. Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m. West Wing Youth Lounge Do you deal with perfectionism, pride, overeating, inappropriate anger or control? Recovery is confidential and all are welcome. Visit irvingbible.org/recovery for more info. Grace For the Wounded Thursdays, 6:30-8:30 p.m. A confidential small group ministry that explores the wounds we have received and the healing journey Gods prepared for us. Female group currently offered. Contact graceforthewounded@irvingbible. org to register. Shelter from the Storm A confidential small group focused on finding hope and healing from sexual abuse. We offer groups for both teens and adults. Contact Michelle at shelterfromthestormibc@ gmail.com or (214) 725-0898. NAMI Family-to-Family Class Mondays, 6:30-9:30 p.m. West C/D A 12-week course designed for families and caregivers of those with serious mental illness. Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com. Mental Health Grace Alliance The Living Grace Group Monday nights, 6:30 p.m. West B For those who have mental illness. Contact Pam at pamburtis@verizon.net. Family Grace Group Monday nights, 6:30 p.m. West A For family members, friends, and caregivers who support individuals with serious mental disorders. Contact Buzz Moody at myrabuzz@gmail.com Stephen Ministry at IBC Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events. If you or someone you know could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister contact stephenministry@ irvingbible.org. See article, pg. 8. First Watch Replay Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Training Center Contact brianarrington1@yahoo. com with questions. First Watch Xtra Wednesday, 6:30 a.m. Training Center Contact bcope@huntoil.com with questions.

Visit irvingbible.org/children

CONNECT

Visit irvingbible.org/men.

Events and Resources for Newcomers and small groups

Membership April 27 & May 4, 10:45 a.m. West A If you are interested in becoming a member at IBC, this class is for you. To register, visit irvingbible.org/connect. See, ad, pg. 16.

MISSION

Local and Global

New Friends New Life WINGS Luncheon April 11 Join NFNL and Sally Field for a luncheon supporting the efforts of restoring and empowering formerly trafficked girls and sexually exploited women and their children. See ad, pg. 16. Restoration and Renewal Projects April 27, 12:30 p.m. The Alcove Come join us for a free lunch and hear about upcoming housing projects. RSVP to Kim at kimsaddress@ gmail.com. Prayer Meeting 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, 6:45-8 p.m. The Chapel Join us as we pray for IBC, the needs of our people and the world. Laundry Love first Saturday of the month, 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Located at Amigo Laundromat, 3349 Country Club Dr. in Irving (just down from Sam Houston Middle School). Please join us as we provide free laundry cycles and detergent, strike up conversations and build relationships. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org.

FAITH AND BELIEF

Events and Resources
The Table Sundays, beginning April 27 at 9 a.m. The Living Room The Table is a place where your questions are invited and welcomed. It is a place for you to explore Christianity with others on a similar journey. Contact Jason at jstein@ irvingbible.org. See ad, pg. 17. Baby Dedications Baby Dedications May 4 Registration opens April 18 at irvingbible.org/babydedication. Space is limited, so if you have a preference of service time, please register early. Photos of children being dedicated should be sent to Donna at doreilly@irvingbible.org. Hard copies are also acceptable. New Parent Orientation April 27, 9 a.m. Training Center Orientation is not mandatory, but strongly encouraged. We will explore what it means to dedicate your child and answer questions about parenting issues and our childrens ministry here at IBC.

PARENTING

Events and Resources

Shop Talk Sunday, April 13, 10:45 a.m. Join us on April 13 for a special presentation by Rhett Smith, a licensed therapist, about Anxiety in the Family System. Learn how to make anxiety work FOR your family instead of against it.

HOPE & HEALING

Community Care
Abortion Recovery Counseling One-on-one, confidential counseling for those living with the aftermath of abortion. For information, contact Kym at (972) 560-4632 or kyeichner@irvingbible.org. Perfectly Blended Sundays, beginning April 27, 9 a.m. Conference Room Step Family Education and Support: an 8-week enrichment study. See ad, next page.

MEN

Community and Resources

Father/Son Canoe Trip April 25-27 Join other IBC dads and sons for an unforgettable weekend away in Broken Bow, OK. Cost: Fathers $89; sons (under 12) $59. Register at irvingbible.org/men. First Watch Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons Join the men of First Watch as they ask the question, how is it with your soul? during this Lenten season.

Please visit page 18 for more Sunday Bible Communities.

Visit irvingbible.org/parenting.

CHILDREN

Infants Through 5th Grade

Easter Eggsperience April 19, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Join us for our annual Easter Eggsperience. See ad, pg. 7.

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SINGLE PARENTS

Community and Resources

Kids Night Out Saturday, April 5, 6-9 p.m. Join us for a Neon Disco Dance Party for kids in single-parent families. Event will include a beach ball blast, dinner/dessert, crafts, and more. This event is for children 5 years and older. Register online at irvingbible.org/singleparents. Sit with us on Sunday! Several single-parent families enjoy worshiping together in the 9 a.m. service. Join us in the lowest right-hand section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.

IBC College Ministry Sundays at 3:30 p.m. The Commons Annex

For latest info on times and locations of college events, join the Facebook group: College at IBC. Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

The Gathering Thursdays, 7 p.m. The Commons Join us for our current series, Rebuild Renew Restore, a study exploring the practical ways we can reconnect with God in our lives. Sit with us on Sunday! Young Adults sit together in the lower left-hand section facing the stage at the 10:45 a.m. service. Join us!

MISCELLANEOUS
A Little Bit of Everything
Writers Workshop Saturday, April 5, 10 a.m. The Alcove Join a community of people honing their writing skills. The group is led by published author Betty Grozinger. Everyone is welcome, and no writing experience necessary. Contact Donna at doreilly@ irvingbible.org. NICHE (North Irving Christian Home Educators) Join us April 21 for a curriculum swap. For more info visit texasniche.com. New Arrivals Congratulations to these IBC families on the births of their babies:

TAPESTRY

Community and Resources

Waiting Families Group April 5 and April 26, 7 p.m. A group for anyone in the adoption or foster care waiting process, as well as for those who are thinking about adoption or foster care. Fostering Hope Sunday, April 13, 5 p.m. This is open to all who are involved in serving children through foster care, including those who are fostering, fostering-to-adopt or are considering foster care or foster care adoption.

Visit irvingbible.org/youngadults.

2435 KINWEST

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Wednesday Nights at IBC
Vox Humana Choir Wednesdays, 7-8:30 p.m. IBC Worship Center The choral community of IBC is always looking for new singers, beginner or pro. Everyone is welcome and you can join at any time! No auditions necessary. Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org. Next Gen Choir Wednesdays, 5:406:30 p.m. Students in 4th-8th grade are invited to join our Next Gen choir. We are seeking to help students grow in Christ through the development and understanding of worship. Contact Crystal Elwell at celwell@ irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ17, 18 and 19 Do you want to learn English? Improve your English? Come practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. For more info, contact Corey at 2435esl@irvingbible.org. FREE Citizenship Class Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. IBC For those at least 18 years old who have been issued a Permanent Resident Card. Well guide you through the N-400 paperwork and prepare you for the main components of the new citizenship test. Contact Michael at 2435citizenship@irvingbible.org. IBC Career Transition Ministry Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Want to find a job? Come learn how to craft a rock-solid resume, use the Internet and LinkedIn to network, and ace the interview. For more info, contact 2435jobtransition@ irvingbible.org.

Visit irvingbible.org/singleparents.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Community and Resources

In His Image Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:30-7:45 p.m. Training Room A small group for adults (18+) with special needs. SonShine Pals and Room Our SonShine Rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children with special needs. There are also opportunities for children to be matched with a SonShine Pal.

Austin and Paige Teng and their son Foster Li, born January 15 at 8 lbs, 5 oz, and 22 inches. Ben and Tana Haile and their daughter Ivy Jan, born January 25 at 7 lbs, 4 oz, and 20.25 inches. Rodger and Jessica Mann and their son Landon William, born January 23 at 7 lbs, 5 oz, and 20.5 inches. Travis and Gina Ferguson and their daughter Ruth Ainsley, born December 13 at 7 lbs, 1 oz, and 19 inches.

If you have not attended a support group previously, or have questions, please email tapestry@irvingbible.org.

WOMEN

Community and Resources

Womens Minimester Bible Study Tuesdays, 9:30 a.m. and 6:30 p.m. Three Bible studies will be offered this month: One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp; Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton; and Hunger Within by Arthur W. Halliday. Register online at irvingbible.org/ women. Oasis Retreat April 1113 Join us for a refreshing weekend away. See ad pg. 16. Flourish: A Celebration of Spiritual Growth Save the date for May 6 when we will be telling the story of what God is cultivating among the women at IBC. Watch Chatter for more details.

Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

STUDENTS

Middle/High School and College

Middle School Sundays Life on Life Student Ministries area, 10:30 a.m.-12:20 p.m. Middle School Wednesdays The W Student Ministry area, 6:30-8 p.m. Middle School Beach Camp July 14-18 See ad, pg. 17. High School Sundays Life Groups Student Ministry area, 6:45-8 p.m. High School Wednesdays SWAG 7:15-8:30 The Alcove High School Beach Camp July 10-14 See ad, pg. 17. Teen Recovery Monday Nights, 6-7:30 p.m. Student Ministry Area Teen Recovery is a safe and confidential environment for middle and high school students to identify and share their pain and struggles. Contact Trey at tgrant@irvingbible.org.

Perfectly Blended

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

YOUNG ADULTS
20s and Early 30s
Seder Meal April 10, 7 p.m. The Commons On April 10 the young adults will join the matriarchs and patriarchs of our IBC family to celebrate a Seder Meal, a Jewish ritual feast marking the beginning of Passover. Join us for this retelling and celebration of Gods work in his peoples lives. For more info, contact cspalding@ irvingbible.org.

An 8-week enrichment study for step-families In eight engaging sessions, youll discover usable solutions for everyday living. Learn practical tips, discover steps to building a healthy family dynamic, and gain insight for raising your stepfamily with wisdom. Begins April 27 in the Conference Room. Contact janhere@ verizon.net.

Visit 2435kinwest.org.

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NFNL WINGS Luncheon

Friday, April 11 at 11:30 a.m. Hilton Anatole Beneting IBC partner New Friends New Life. Featuring Sally Field Two-time Academy Award-winning, actress Sally Field has been one of the most versatile and durable talents in Hollywood for more than 50 years. From the podium she speaks candidly about her life and art, delivers empowering messages to women on balancing the demands of family and career, and educates fellow victims of osteoporosis on how best to manage the disease. Standard seating: $175, purchase tickets at newfriendsnewlife.org.

april 11-april 13, 2014 camp copass, denton Like a stream in the desert, an oasis can refresh your mind, body and soul. Join other women for a weekend like no other that will include lots of laughs, delicious food, space to think and rest, and a breath of fresh air. Keynote Speaker: Mary DeMuth, author of The Wall Around Your Heart Family members hurt us. Friends betray us. Fellow Christians deceive us. But Jesus provides a path through the pain and it might surprise you: the Lords Prayer. Join speaker Mary DeMuth as she walks through stories of hurt people who are led through biblical truth into amazing, life-sustaining growth. Worship led by : Sara and Jeff Taylor Cost per person: Angels Motel room for 4 - $110 Tally Hotel room for 4 or 5 - $135 Tally Hotel room for 3 - $150 Tally Hotel room for 2 - $ 185

New Friends New Life is an IBC partner committed to restoring and empowering formerly trafficked girls and sexually exploited women and their children.

for more information about the rooms, visit campcopass.com. Register: For more information and to register, visit irvingbible.org/ women. Registration closes on April 2 or earlier if full. Questions? Contact: Tiffany at tstein@irvingbible.org or (972) 560-4650.

April 27 & May 4 10:45 a.m. West A

M E M BE RSH I P AT I B C

Membership Orientation April 27, Membership Storytelling May 4

If IBC is your church home and you are interested in becoming a member, this two-part event is for you. Come the first week and get to know elders, learn more about our core beliefs, and discover what membership is all about. If you are ready to take the next step, come the following week to share your own story of faith and complete the membership process. For more information contact Sherri Sharp at ssharp@irvingbible.org. Register at irvingbible.org/connect.

HIGH SCHOOL JULY 10-14 GULF SHORES BEACH, AL

Finding Your Identity in Christ Join guest speaker Brian Abby for an unforgettable summer experience where you will learn more about what it means to find your security and identity in the person of Jesus. Music led by Jason and Crystal Elwell.

MIDDLE SCHOOL JULY 1418 GULF SHORES BEACH, AL

Finding Your Identity in Christ Join other middle school students for a week of fun, friendships and time to grow in your relationship with God. Find out who you were always meant to be during this unforgettable week, with teaching and music presented by well-equipped and passionate high school students.

COST: EARLY BIRD SPECIAL: HS: $410; MS: $380 AVAILABLE THROUGH APRIL 23. LATE REGISTRATION COST: HS: $450; MS: $400 AVAILABLE THROUGH JULY 1.

Do you have serious questions about Christianity?

At IBC we seek to foster an open, relaxed and safe environment where you can ask the hard questions of faith and life. The Table is a place where your questions are invited and welcomed, and where you can voice your doubts. It is a place for you to explore Christianity with others on a similar journey. Each of The Tables ve sessions focuses on a specic objection to the Christian faith. Seating is limited. For more information, please contact jstein@irvingbible.org. Class Dates: April 27 May 25 at 10:45 a.m. (Sunday mornings) in the Living Room (formerly the Mens Conference Room).

Register online at irvingbible.org/thetable or at the kiosk in the Town Square on Sundays.

SUNDAY SCHEDULE
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) Synergy (40s & 50s), the Alcove The Tree (young marrieds and families), West D

HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
The Main Place The Main Place provides clothing for homeless teens in Irving ISD. With Prom coming up, students are in need of nearly-new evening dress shoes, purses and jewelry; plus nearly-new dress shoes and socks for boys, and new panties, bras, socks and shoes. Contact Sharon at themainplace@irvingbible.org. Childrens Ministry Leaders Each Sunday we help about 800 kids grow in Christ and connect in community. We are in need of people of all ages to invest in the next generation of nursery, preschool, and elementary aged kids. We have opportunities for all skill sets. Contact Melody at mparlett@irvingbible.org. Mercy Street Mentors There are currently children waiting for a mentor to encourage them as they walk through the difculties of generational poverty. For more info, contact Jen at mercystreet@ irvingbible.org. Safety Team Do you have a desire to serve and protect others? Then the IBC safety team in Sunday is for you. Contact Chris at crose@irvingbible.org. Please include any credentials and relevant experience. NFNL Volunteers On the third Wednesday of each month we need help serving dinner to the women of New Friends New Life at Preston Road Church of Christ. Contact Christine at newfriendsnewlife@irvingbible.org. Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families Men and women are needed for gender-specic mentoring of children from single-parent families. Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingible.org. Meal Team Volunteers IBC makes meals available both Sunday and Wednesday nights. These fun teams could use some additional volunteers to serve together. For Sundays, contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org. For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s-30s couples), West C On Track (single parents), Conference Room Journey (all welcome), The Alcove Renew (multi-generational), Training Center Thrive (30s & 40s singles), West D

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

My Resources
Laptops for My Refuge House Want to tangibly help victims of sex trafcking? Donate your used, but operational, laptop to the mission department. They will be sent to the girls at My Refuge House for their school program. Contact Lauren at lmoussa@ irvingbible.org. Laundry Soap and Dryer Sheets Laundry Love is collecting laundry soap and dryer sheets for their monthly events in Irving. Please bring these to the Laundry Love box in the donation area by the Training Center. For more info visit llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org. Online Giving Option If you would nd it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit irvingbible.org/give.

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

Legacy Builders (all welcome), West A Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

SUNDAY COMMUNITY MEALS

Join us in the Town Square for our community meal on Sundays at 6 p.m. Meals are $3 per person or $10 max./family. 4/6 Awesome Pizza, breadsticks, super salad bar.

4/13 Chicken fajitas, chips and salsa, salad bar. 4/20 No Meal! He is Risen! 4/27 Giant baked potatoes with all the fixins, salad bar. If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

Interested in learning more about IBCs budget for 2014 or other nancial nuts and bolts? Visit irvingbible.org/budget.

WEDNESDAY MIDWEEK MEALS

Each Wednesday night from 5-6:20 p.m., IBC prepares dinner for anyone wanting a good, hot meal. PB&J sandwiches are also available. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. Just come by The Commons and grab a plate! 4/2 4/9 Chopped beef, cole slaw, baked beans, pickles, chips, dessert. Hosted by Marlene Brittons team. Honey Ham, scalloped potatoes, mixed veggies, salad, rolls, dessert. Hosted by Pat Downeys team.

New to IBC?
Have questions? Were here to help.

Were so glad youre here. Sometimes its hard to know where to begin, but we want to make the process of connecting and feeling at home as easy as possible. Here are some ways to start. The Information Center is a great place to get your questions answered, nd help and encouragement for your personal journey, or just have a cup of coffee and settle in. Our team of volunteers would be happy to help you, and our goal is to make you feel at home. The Information Center is open every Sunday after all three worship services. The Newcomer Gathering is an informal get-together for those new to IBC and/or those wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in. Meet other newcomers, ministry leaders and elders. Cant seem to gure out what IBC is all about or how you t into the larger picture? Want free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks? Propel is designed to help you gure out how to best plug in to IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission and what that might look like for you. Youll also learn more about membership at IBC. Small groups exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships and in our hearts. We do this in the context of sermon-based Bible studies that meet in homes. Groups comprise 12 people or fewer and are formed by leaders who have completed small group leader training. To sign up for a group or get more info, contact Ryan Sanders at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

Information Center
irvingbible.org/connect

4/16 Mexican meat, refried beans, tacos, enchiladas, chips and salsa, freshly baked cookies. Hosted by Barbara Wittes team. 4/23 Deluxe burgers, wedge fries, pickles, dessert. Hosted by Bob Downeys team. 4/30 Baked potatoes with all the fixin's, salad, dessert. Hosted by Lavern Howells team. Changes to the menu may be made depending on availability and Bob Downeys whim. If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please email bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Newcomer Gathering
Learn more about IBC and meet others like you.
irvingbible.org/connect

Ready to get plugged in?

irvingbible.org/connect

Propel

THE MOSAIC CAF (THE MO)

Caf Hours Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 8 a.m.5 p.m. Wednesday: 8 a.m.7 p.m. Friday: 8 a.m.12 p.m. Closed Saturday Sunday: 8 a.m.12:30 p.m. & 47 p.m. Phone: (972) 4433323

Connect with others on the journey.

irvingbible.org/smallgroups

Small Groups

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In the midst of Yuletide yuliness, many Christians are fond of reminding folks like capital-A Atheist Sir Richard Dawkins that Jesus is the reason for the season so cut us some slack since you got a good deal on that schmancy washer/dryer set. And while that sentiment is undoubtedly true with or without the extended warranty, we should really be more excited about Easter, since resurrection is the reason for our salvation. But that doesnt rhyme or have a good beat, so it makes for a poor bumper sticker. And if your theology doesnt make for a pithy bumper sticker, well, whats it really good for? Eternal life? Dude, thats so 2006 B.T. (Before Twitter).

The Case for Cadbury

us. And by we I mean the Holy Spirit, for only he is mighty enough to soften the heart of the most ignorant Twitter troll. And so we turn to the second bucketized silo of non-oppressive categorization: The CHB&B Group. Candy. Ham. Bonnets. Bunnies. What in tarnation (or concretenation if the HOA forbids tar in your subdivision) do any of these things have to do with the sanctifying sacrice of our Creator? Lets work backwards up the list, shall we? Aye, we shall! The bunnies are vestiges of pagan fertility rituals, so chase them out of your spiritual garden before they devour your rhododendrons of righteousness. The bonnets once served the practical purpose of catching more pancakes during those more orthodox sunrise services (see above if, as usual, you skipped a couple paragraphs). The ham refers to Peters vision of unclean foods being lowered from the heavens. Also, its tasty. But the candy? The candy is the most theologically sound traditionally non-traditional tradition of all. While Easter candy comes in forms ranging from marshmallow to nougat, I believe it is the cream- (or crme for the fancypants among us) based confections that are most pointy in their ability to point to Christ. Take for example (but not for real because I hoard them) the Cadbury Crme Egg. (The original, not that Luciferian caramel interloper of recent years.) It begins with the lling or innards for the technically minded out there. A mixture of yellow and white fondant, this sticky goo reminds us that while something may look attractive, tempting, even delicately delicious, it can still be nigh impossible to shampoo out of a four-year-olds hair without some industrial-strength, nothing-but-tears Pert Plus Lye with Extra Lye. Just like how sin, though often tempting (hence the phrase, Man, thats tempting.) always results in a sticky situation involving dogs, tongues and apologies to grandma. The outer chocolate shell is, of course, the grace of God. Holding all things together, making our once-pathetic lives t for consumption, and encouraging us to come back for more once Easter is over because everything is 50% off. Even for Richard Dawkins. Because grace. Jason Fox will probably not be allowed anywhere near Lee Strobel after this.
Jason writes from Omaha, Nebraska, for reasons that neither the Lord nor Lori at Tyndale know why.

Still, even if all 2.2 billion of us Christians in the world (but not of the world except on bunko night) really want to spread the glad tidings of hope, Easter is a bit confusing when it comes to celebratory messaging and assorted accoutrements. Whereas decking the halls, eaves, balcony and dog with lights programmed to dazzle to the beat of Trans-Siberian Orchestra/Burl Ives mash-ups is merely gaudy during Christmas, doing the same thing during Lent would be ratcheting the tacky up a few notches past Liberace. Especially if you swap Burl for the Rolling Stones. But mainly because Jesus hates puns. The issues surrounding properly celebrating Easter can be lumped into two general groups, or buckets if youre into clichd corporate jargon from 2009. First, whereas Christmas focuses on the birth of a baby which makes cursory sense to pretty much everyone except Bill Maher Easter revolves around a grown man rising from the dead of his own volition even though he is, as previously mentioned, physically kaput. Something the whole because science crowd tends to poo-poo because sin nature. Second, many traditional Easter traditions seem to have very little to do with our saviors traditional triumph oer the grave unless one considers a sassy bonnet to be part of traditional Jewish burial clothing. Because weird. In regards to the rst category, its easy to see how the great unwashed-in-theblood masses might be confused. After all, we as a Christian body dont exactly adhere to consistent standards of ritualization which, at the end of the day, leads to a lack of proactive synergization regarding the low-hanging fruit of the seed sown amongst the thorns. Some churches commence the season with Ash Wednesday and give up a vice (watching The Bachelor) for Lent. Others only mark Palm Sunday and Easter itself. And many congregations hold Easterly sunrise services that may or may not include pancakes which, if you read between the lines in Mark 16:14, the risen Lord rebuked the disciples for not having at the ready. (The Pancake Theorem also explains the reason behind Christs healing of Peters mother-in-law whose name has traditionally been ascribed to be Jemima Butterworth.) Also, people both in and of the world tend to think were nuttier than a Snickers bar at a squirrel convention. (FYI, this years National Association of Squirrels, Sloths and Weasels worldwide meeting will take place in the oak tree in Mrs. Edna Braunschweigers backyard from August 5-6 assuming the hawk problem gets resolved.) First, we claim theres a God who has always existed beyond space, time or Ryan Seacrest. Second, said God exists in three persons that are eternally distinct yet of one nature. Whu-huh? Third, one of those three personages came to earth and died for our sins because saying no worries, its cool just wasnt quite good enough for something called propitiation. Fourth, because Ryan Seacrest. Obviously, we have our work cut out for

At age 16, Liberace made his professional debut with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra.

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