Book Club Questions She That Findeth A Novel by Kim Brooks (Scripture references on second page) 1.

. Shenita Love, the heroin in, She That Findeth, grows tired of waiting on God for a husband and sets out to find one on her own. Is it ever okay to pursue a man first? Whats the difference between expressing interest and chasing? 2. Shenitas decision to take matters into her own hands and find a man herself was one made out of fear instead of faith. How can we trust God with our lives and walk by faith while not appearing desperate? 3. Shenitas friend from high school, RayShawn, is openly gay and initially feels rejected by the church and God. How do you feel about the churchs current treatment of gays? Has the church, in general, spoken the truth in love? What should be done differently regarding church leaderships approach, if anything? 4. Though their working relationship was rocky, Shenita witnesses to a young lady from her job, Krissy, and then invites her to church and she gets saved. What are some other practical ways we can be a light to others and spread the gospel throughout our daily lives and regular encounters with others. 5. Danielle professes to God but resorts to her former fast money lifestyle due to financial strain. How can we bridge the gap of loving God with our whole hearts while still truly depending on Him to supply our needs in every area of our lives including our jobs, businesses or any other profession? 6. Jackie appeared to have it all together on the outside but on the inside she was bitter and wounded since her divorce from a Christian man who cheated on her. How can we allow God to truly heal us from divorce, break-ups or any other disappointments so that we can ultimately begin again, love again and trust God again concerning future relationships? 7. Pippa felt God told her that Elijah was her husband, when actually he wasnt and she only ended up feeling used and humiliated. Does God ever tell one person who their spouse is and not the other? 8. During Shenitas love pursuit, in the end what did she really find?

Scripture References
Book Club Questions She That Findeth A Novel by Kim Brooks
1. Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. Proverbs 18:22 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. Proverbs 31:10 !"#$%&&$#'()*+$,"$-.)"$-"/")#&0$%)-$()$.1-"12$$3$4.1()#'(%)+$35657 2. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. Psalm 139:14 Order my steps in thy word: and let not any iniquity have dominion over me. Psalm 119:33 3. But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ: Ephesians 4:15 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. Galatians 6:1 4. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven. Matthew 5:16 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. John 13:35 5. But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Colossians 3:23 6. He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds. Psalm 147:3 New Living Translation I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:14 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. Mark 11:25 7. 8. Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Amos 3:3 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:13 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself. Luke 10:27 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. Philippians 4:11