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When Its Time To Leave A Troubled Relationship

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by Virginia Clark Its not easy to decide when enough is enough in a relationship and walk away. Its especially hard when youve invested a lot of time and deep emotions are involved. Theres a saying that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. It can be really hard to discern who is worth holding on to and when its appropriate to just let go. There will come a time in your troubled relationship when you will find yourself asking, How much more frustration, worry or sadness am I prepared to take in order to keep this relationship going? Its not easy to end a difficult relationship if its been big part of your life. And honestly, these relationships are always a big part of your life because theyre full of drama and require so much of your constant attention.

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Its not uncommon to find yourself caught in the trap of wishful hoping, which keeps you more focused on the future and avoiding the truth of the present. Weve all been there; making excuses for bad behavior and rationalizing against all odds how things are bound to get better. You may have been working on yourself for years and found, much to your frustration, that it has helped you but it hasnt changed your partners behavior at all. Thats another trap because the fact is its not your business to try to change anyone else. But then you discover youre spending most of your time and energy trying to do just that! You have to ask yourself why youre holding on to a troubled relationship so tightly. How is this relationship serving you? There must be some benefit youre receiving or you wouldnt be putting up with the discomfort and the pain. Sometimes the benefit is that you have an excuse not to take responsibility for your own life
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(being a victim) because youre distracted with your relationship problem.

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You have to know that the biggest reason you hold on long after you should let go is fear. Youre afraid to be alone or afraid theyll be no one else wholl want you. But fear will be your jailor and will color every aspect of your life. Living with fear is the same as being in a state of constant stress. It will negatively affect your mind and body. To know whether to leave a troubled relationship you have to ask yourself some tough questions. Are you staying in the relationship hoping your partner will change? Have you lost a part of yourself by denying what you want and need just to keep the relationship going? Is the relationship getting better and stronger with time or is it getting more chaotic and difficult? If the answer to any of these is yes, you should consider leaving. You may be responsible for creating the relationships in your life, but that doesnt mean you have to suffer in a relationship if it is no longer working for you. As Maya Angelou says, When you know better, you do better. You can be in a healthy relationship, one where you and your partner get along as equals. One where youre both doing the work needed to keep love and respect your first priority. Virginia is the real deal. Her story of meeting her man late in life and getting married (shed never been married before) is amazing, and her ebook Its Never Too Late To Marry will give you the hope you need, step-by-step instructions on how to make it happen for yourself, and the inspiration to transform your love life. Go here to check out Virginia and learn how to have the relationship you want->

How To Stop Self Sabotage

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by Dr. Brenda Shoshanna Self-sabotage, the action an individual takes, either consciously or unconsciously to harm themselves, is common. Some cant figure out why things start off beautifully and in a little while fall apart. At first it seems difficult to understand why an individual would pull the rug out from under their own feet, undertake a project, (or relationship) and when all is going well, find a way to ruin it. ut many individuals who are in the grip of self-sabotage are either unaware of what they are doing, or unable to control it.

Fear of Success in Life or a Relationship

Many factors contribute to self-sabotage and fear of success is a prominent one. Many individuals will not allow themselves, (or their projects or relationships) to succeed.

Some run away at the last minute, renege on a promise, or cant be counted on. Step 1: Stopping Self-Sabotage We all need to take a moment and see the subtle (and perhaps not so subtle ways in which we sabotage ourselves. Make a list of that which does not go well in your life - repeatedly. How do you contribute to that? What do you do? (Or what do you not do?)What are other ways you could respond? List a few. Step 2: Giving Yourself What You Need In each situation that goes wrong, what is it that you need to make it go right? Make a list. Today give yourself one. Tomorrow give yourself another. What do you need in general that you presently feel you are not getting? Give that to yourself as well. One day at a time. Step 3: Communicating Honestly One of the best antidotes for self-sabotage is open and honest communication, both with others and with yourself. When we give ourselves permission to express our anger or upset responsibly, we do not have to take it out either on others or ourselves. See what it is that you are not saying to someone about the situation in which you are sabotaging yourself. Say it responsibly. This means do not blame, attack or accuse the other. Simply say, This is how I feel about . You are taking responsibility for how you feel, not projecting it upon someone else. Ask for what you need to make things better. Most people have no idea what it is you need in a given situation. When you ask for what you need, (and give the other person room to say no), you open the door to getting your needs met and do not have to attack either yourself or another. Step 4: Make Friends With Yourself This step is vital. What is it that you want in a good friend? Write it down. B)Give this to yourself. Each day choose one item on the list and give it to yourself.

Some feel that they do not deserve it. They harbor guilt or shame about who they are and will not allow themselves to win or to have that which they want in life. Some have a long history of being told by parents, friends or teachers that they are not worth much. (Some have told it to themselves). Like a poison arrow, this negative affirmation has gone deep within. These individuals, believing it is true, cannot allow themselves to shine. Others feel that success is dangerous. The more successful they are, the happier and more fulfilled they are, the more others will dislike them. They subconsciously fear the jealousy of others, and negative repercussions that may come their way and feel guilty about having more than others have. A few get a reverse pleasure out of failing. They refuse to give their wives or family the pleasure of seeing them succeed. They are punishing others by failing, not wanting them to reap the fruits of their success. Attacking the Self Needless to say when an individual cannot express his anger and frustration, this anger often turns around at the self. Some ways of attacking the self include: Consistently choosing the wrong person for a relationship Choosing a job that is not right Staying in negative situations that pull you down Being with people who do not respect you Taking on projects or challenges you are not suited to handle Some begin acting out in ways that causes them to be rejected. Others secretly make others upset.

When we learn how to become our own good friend, we develop the ability to stop self-sabotage before it starts. And we have that which we long for from others right with us wherever we go. From Sarah: I discovered Dr. Shoshanna just a few weeks ago and quickly got her permission to reprint her articlesshes amazing, and youll love her book Save Your Relationship. Just go here to read more about Dr. Shoshanna and get quick, new help for your relationship>>

become a Rori Raye Relationship Coach by Thanksgiving. If this is tickling your mind perhaps its a nice addition to the work youre already doing, or the career change youve been dreaming about but couldnt quite put your finger on.

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If youve been waiting for this opportunity, and are ready to roll! write toMelanie@CoachRori.comShell get you enrolled, and make sure I personally know all about your gifts and dreams so I can mentor you quickly and help you hit the ground running as a professional coach. For more about Rori Raye Relationship Coach Training (RRRCT) logistics, costs and details on how the Training will work for you, go here: Being a coach is the hottest profession there is right now and being in RRRCT guarantees you my personal time and attention, plus hours of videos, audios and written RRRCT Manual included AND youll get the Rori Raye brand name totally behind you business-wise. I consider this a mentoring moment for me, where I teach everything I know to you, and help you build a great coaching career filled with clients and personal satisfaction. RRRCT 2014 is likely to fill up fast, so I wanted to give you an early-head-start before the news gets out. *Ill be giving you jump-start help emailed direction and homework every week, immediate access to RRRCT materials, personal email access to me, and two Early Enrollment Teleclasses- if youd like to secure your spot and get moving right away. Just let Melanie@CoachRori.com know if youd like to start early. Go here to find out how, by Thanksgiving this year, you can be a practicing Rori Raye Relationship Coach:
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Be A Rori Raye Relationship Coach By Thanksgiving!

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We thought you might like to consider this incredible career opportunity - Rori did this last year (she may never do it again), and her new Rori Raye Certified Coaches from RRRCT 2013 are doing amazing!: Hi, This is Rori. On July 7th, 2014 you can be one of a small group of women to study with me to

The RRRCT Pilot Program of 2013 was amazing. Everyone successfully learned to coach clients using my cinematic methods, and everyone got up and running on their own blog/website. More than six new RRRCT coaches are already what Id consider superstars, with many clients, a secure web presence, personal client referrals from me, programs being created, and invitations to interviews, article publishing and partnership connections around the web. Its my job at RRRCT to mentor you to carry on my work personally helping women all over the world as I turn my potential future coaching clients over to you so I can focus on RRRCT and writing and to help you have great fun, personal fulfillment, and financial security while youre doing it. Love, Rori

by Christine Arylo Are you feeling so super loved?? I hope so, because you deserve it! And if not, do not fear, there is love for you here! The reason I am so full of love today is that I have created a love life that has Multiple Streams of Love. My biggest sources of love yesterday came from an emotionally and spiritually uplifting breakfast with a new woman friend in NYC an intimate Italian lunch with a sister of self-loveand a magical tea date with a soul sister who gave me a rose that I carried home from NYC to San Francisco last night.

All this followed by love from the airplane steward (he gave me free wine!) A handmade brownie from a friend (full of only goodness) and the sweetest taxi man from Morocco. Add in two phone calls with soul sisters who helped me keep an Inner Mean Girl from robbing my Days of Love, and today I am FULL OF LOVE! Beaming love feeling loved and grateful for being Wealthy in Love! But it wasnt always this way for me Ive spent these Love Days feeling lonely (even though I had a boyfriend), Ive been disappointed (like the time he took me to Hooters!, for real), and Ive given all my Love Power to my romantic relationship (not knowing that I could source love from inside myself or an array or really fabulous, soulful friends.)

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You Are SO Loveable!

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Heres The Truth About Love And Relationships

You want to be loved we all want to be loved. You want to be happy in love we all want to be happy in love.

But you dont have to wait to find the one to be happy. You dont have to wait for your partner to finally be who you want them to be to be happy You too can have multiple streams of love That fill you UP WITH LOVE Wherever you are today, may this find you knowing that you are LOVED, that you have the POWER to have every relationship in your life be one full of love. There are SO many people on this planet who want to love you most of all yourself!

doing addict herself, Arylo is the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl Reform School and the author of Choosing ME before WE, Every Womans Guide to Life and Love . Known as the Queen of SelfLove, Arylo created Madly in Love with ME, the international day of self-love (Feb 13), dedicated to making self-love a tangible reality for women and girls around the world. Visit her here, for more LOVE>>

Love Is Free
Love is everywhere. Here are three daring ways I call them Self Love Dares that you can plug into find and feel more love right now Collect evidence of Love. Take a Love Collecting Field Trip from 15 minutes to an hour with the intention to see and receive evidence of love use all your senses. Eyes, ears, taste. See the love in other people, nature, signs, the barista and take a picture or make a note to collect the evidence that love is out there. Yes, sometimes you have to look for love. Call someone you Love and Ask them To Tell You What They Love About You. This is whats called a Love Pick Me Up tell your trusted person you need a LOVE PICK ME UP and ask them to reflect back to you what they really love and appreciate about you. You just receive. And say thank you. Yes, sometimes you have to ask for love. Take a Self-Love Soak 3 minutes with yourself, laying down if you can, but sitting up at your desk or outside will be cool too. Close your eyes, put your hand on your heart and tell yourself, Your Name, I love you. Set your timer on your phone for 3 minutes and keep saying it to yourself over and over. For extra power, imagine yourself soaking in pink light. Yes, sometimes you have to fake it til you make it just try it! In devotion to love, Christine Arylo Christine Arylo, an m.b.a. turned writer, speaker and teacher, is an inspirational catalyst who teaches women how to stop being so hard on themselves. A recovering achievement junkie and Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time

Secrets Kill Relationships

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This week ask yourself this difficult question: Am I keeping something from my partner that she or he really should know? Am I not being transparent and hiding some part of me due to some fear?

These Fears In Your Relationship Could Include:

1) Fear of being judged 2) Fear of being rejected 3) Fear of being found out
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4) Fear of being abandoned 5) Fear of conflict

Bring Him Close Free Report... Get your free report, exclusive discounts, bonuses & our FREE newsletter to help you: Sometimes the reason for not telling our partner something is because it is TRULY in the partners best interest and if that is the case, there are times when it is best not to tell in the relationship. (This is not a black and white world!) However, you need to be rigorously honest on this one; is it truly in your partners interest or your own? Generally, secrets rob the partner of being able to make an informed decision based on the truth. Talk to a man in the way that works! Make him fall for you quickly Turn your love life around...now... Email: No Spam | Cancel at any time

So, For The Relationship:

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This week, ask that question and if willing and if it is in your partners best interest to know (which it often times is), courageously reveal your truth. The side benefit for you is that what you share ultimately can be accepted by yourself. Many of my clients claimed that once they shared, they felt less shame and guilt. Most importantly, your partner knows you more and is in a better place to know what he or she could or should do with this truthful information. My happiest couples are those that are vulnerable and open with each other, even the tough stuff. Telling the hard truth is one of the steps on the way to having a long hot marriage. Heres to getting the love you want! From Sarah: Todd Creager is an accomplished Speaker, Therapist, Consultant and Author. At his website: The Todd Creager Center for Successful Relationships, you can find out more about how to have a successful relationship>>