I am writing this letter to inform you with children's right to participate in the family, school and society as whole. According to the article number (12) in the convention of child rights 1989, which state that ''state parties shall take assure to the child who is capable of forming his or her own views the right to express those views freely in all matters affecting the child, the views of the childbeing given due weight in accordance with the age and maturity of the child''. In other words they should participate in decision making and sharing perspectives. Children are not useless as adults think; they are persons who have their views that weight the same as adults'. Therefore, children should be heard and their views should be respected. Giving opportunities for children starts within their family's context. Parents should listen to their children and consider their point of views regarding to the decisions that the family make. For example, if parents want to move to another house, they should take their children's opinion so that parents can consider their views while choosing the place or even in simple things such as choosing clothes. As a result, children develop confidence to express their opinions or advocate for themselves. Indeed, using democratic ways to discuss with children should take a place in all families. School is considered as the second home for children so that their views should not be ignored and taking into account children's opinions can affect the process of making decision at school. Because teachers and also parents want to guide and direct children to the right path, it does not mean to make decisions for them. Besides, children will understand why a particular decision was taken as they share opinions with adults. Also working with the family in conferences or other ways can make matters easier for both family and school regarding to foster children's participation. Moving to a large context which is the society that includes family and school make us understand that it is an important process to involve children as citizens. Children ID: 90044 have the right to participate in different activities in their society as adults. For instance, children have the right to association to an assembly. There are many assemblies nowadays that concern in different fields such as advocators for the environment or for special need childrenetc. Therefore, adults can encourage children to participate in such institutions to let them act as usual citizens. All in all, the school has an important role to work in partnership with the family and society. The school should invite families to conferences to discuss the matters of children's education or the rules of the school and here teachers and parents should foster children's participation. Moreover, they should take children in trips to visit some institutions that allow children's participation as members so that they encourage children to enroll in the society and express their view points. Also they can send newsletters for parents to inform them with useful assemblies that are for children. To conclude, applying participation principle can help to achieve the consideration of best interest of children. Yours faithfully
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References: The Right to participation. (n.d). Retrieved March 29, 2012 from http://www.unicef.org/crc/files/Right-to-Participation.pdf
Promoting the Participation Rights of Children and Young People in Family Group Conferences. (n.d). retrieved March 29, 2012 from http://www.barnardos.org.uk/advocacy.pdf