HOW TO GET THE WOMEN YOU

DESIRE INTO BED

A Down And Dirty Guide
To Dating And Seduction
For The Man Who's Fed Up
With Being Mr. Nice Guy. by oss !e""ries
#ub$ished in the USA.
For %ore in"or%ation or "ree cata$og& contact'
oss !e""ries
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in"or%ation contained in this boo,. The reader is warned that the use o" so%e or a$$ o"
the techni3ues in this boo, %ay resu$t in $ega$ conse3uences& ci/i$ and4or cri%ina$.

USE OF THIS BOOK IS DONE AT YOUR OWN RISK.
56e who wi$$ not ta,e the hint& %ust ta,e the conse3uences.5
77 G$enn /. .o/ey )8) #A 2(- 9:8+*;
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
Part one: how to ha/e power and con"idence with wo%en
Chater one: the one attitude that is the ,ey to ha/ing irresistib$e appea$ to wo%en and
getting $aid with the wo%en o" your drea%s
Chater t!o: how to insta$$ the super7get $aid attitudes in your se$" so you use the%
auto%atica$$y
Chater three: be$ie/e it or not& how to ha/e e/en %ore con"idence with wo%en
Chater "o#r: sti$$ %ore con"idence and power with wo%en<
Chater "$%e: yet %ore con"idence and power with wo%en
Part t!o: how to %eet wo%en& anyti%e& anywhere 9in which we $oo, at the "our steps to
any pic,7up; getting attention& %a,ing your introduction& creating rapport& %a,ing your
pitch
Chater &$': how to "a,e $i,e you are war% and "riend$y
Chater &e%en: getting her attention7the ,ey to pic, ups where/er you are
Chater e$(ht: how to %a,e a wo%an you'/e =ust %et "ee$ $i,e she's %et the %an o" her
drea%s
Chater n$ne: so%e great %ethods and great p$aces to pic, up %ore wo%en than you
and a "riend cou$d possib$y hope to hand$e inc$uding the on$y two pic,7up $ines in the
wor$d that wor, so we$$ that they can get you $aid auto%atica$$y

Chater ten: s$ashing co%ebac,s "or s$ea>oid s$uts<
Chater e)e%en: how to use the persona$s to get hundreds and hundreds o" wo%en to
date<
Chater t!e)%e: *$r+o(($n(: how to get a gir$ when she's with another guy 9or when
you're with another gir$;
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Chater th$rteen: getting the date
Chater "o#rteen: getting the phone nu%ber route
Chater "$"teen: %a,ing the date on the spot
Chater &$'teen: how to hand$e bitches who try to cance$ dates
Part three: how to get the wo%en you date into bed
Chater &e%enteen: deciding your approach
Chater e$(hteen: how to use hypnosis to get your date into the sac,
Chater n$neteen: how to tota$$y brea, a wo%an's resistance to s$eeping with you
Chater t!ent-: a "ina$ word

Aen+$.e&
Aen+$' one: the u$ti%ate ru$es and attitudes "or success with wo%en
Aen+$' t!o: representationa$ syste%s
Aen+$' three: inducing trance states in your date using the story te$$ing %ethod
Aen+$' "o#r: the right way to use /isua$i>ation to bui$d irresistib$e con"idence
Aen+$' "$%e: anchoring to bui$d con"idence
Aen+$' &$': how to swi"t$y detect and e$i%inate wo%en who are wac,os& $ow7$i"es&
cra>ies and scu%
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Intro+#.t$on
UNFAIR SEDUCTIONS IN AN UNFAIR WORLD

Many people who read the rough draft of th! "oo# were up!et "y part! of t$
In%ara"ly& I'd hear the !a(e )o(plant$ *The!e ta)t)! you're tea)hng pro"a"ly wor#
really well$ We thought the part! on power and )onfden)e and on (eetng wo(en were
great$ +ut !o(e of the a)tual !edu)ton te)hn,ue! are down rght d!hone!t and unfar$
They really don't g%e the wo(an any )ho)e$ Why don't you -u!t lea%e the( out of the
"oo#. Then no one )ould po!!"ly ha%e any o"-e)ton!$ *O#$ Let'! get the *unfar* )harge
out of the way$ /e!& !o(e& and I (ean SOME of the !edu)ton ta)t)! n th! "oo# )ould
ea!ly "e )la!!fed a! *unfar$* And& truth to tell& I had !o(e !erou! (oral re!er%aton!
a"out puttng the( n the "oo#$ 0owe%er& *unfar* and *far* are relat%e ter(!$ If you and
I are n a "o1ng (at)h& and we are "oth fghtng "y the rule!& then t ! totally unfar for
(e to #)# you n the nut! and po#e you n the eye!$ /ou are fghtng "y the rule!& and !o
!hould I$

+ut& f /OU !tart fghtng drty& I wll feel under no (oral o"lgaton what!oe%er to
)ontnue to !tand there l#e a fool and ta#e t$ I'( gong to to!! out all the rule! and fght
to wn& no (atter what t ta#e!$
Unfortunately& when you deal wth wo(en& you (ay often fnd your!elf n that type of
!tuaton$ They e1pe)t you to play "y the rule!& "ut they feel perfe)tly free to do whate%er
T0E/ want$ For e1a(ple& lot! of wo(en are (ore than happy to !pend your (oney and
t(e& and generally lead you on& lettng you thn# you ha%e a reward 2!e1ual3 )o(ng$
They tal# a"out !e1 on the date& tou)h you a lot& and ACT %ery !edu)t%e$ Then when you
(a#e a pa!!& they frea# out and !)rea( a"out what an(al! (en are& how we're only after
one thng$ Or they let you ha%e t wth that fa(ou! lne *I'( -u!t not attra)ted to you$*
May"e you fnd out that !he wa! -u!t u!ng you a! a !o)al *!pare tre* "e)au!e her
"oyfrend wa! out of town for a few wee#! and !he ddn't want to !t at ho(e alone and
loo# at the four wall!$
Of )our!e& f you really want to "e a *gentle(an* you (ay not fnd any of th! out untl
the thrd or fourth date$ /ou don't want to "eha%e l#e an an(al and (a#e a pa!! on the
fr!t date& do you. So you hold off awhle& and then the !lap n the fa)e hurt! e%en (ore$
Now& any )h)# who pull! th! off DESER4ES to "e on the re)e%ng end of the (o!t
unfar ta)t)! you )an u!e$ /ou are under no (oral o"lgaton to "e her %)t(& and you
are a fool f you per(t t$
So& "y all (ean!& play far wth a wo(an untl !he !how! you that !he ! playng unfar
wth you$ A! !oon a! !he !tart! to pull !ht& then ether wal# away )o(pletely or let her
ha%e t wth e%erythng you ha%e n your ar!enal$
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And whle we're on the !u"-e)t of far& ! t *far* that the good5loo#ng and r)h guy!
!hould get all the "eautful wo(en whle you and I ha%e to !ettle for the dog!. Are you
any le!! de!er%ng of )o(plete !e1ual !at!fa)ton than !o(e pretty "oy who wa! "le!!ed
"y genet)! and Daddy'! "an# a))ount. Why !hould you -u!t (ee#ly roll o%er& and a))ept
a !tuaton that SUC6S& good "uddy& when you )an "e gettng your !hare& and then !o(e7
So(ethng el!e to )on!der8 When t )o(e! to !e1& wo(en ha%e a (a!!%e power
ad%antage$ It'! relat%ely ea!y for e%en a fat& ugly troll to o"tan !e1ual !at!fa)ton$ All
!he ha! to do ! go to any "ar or )lu"& a)t e%en (ldly flrtatou!& and "e wllng to put out$
She'! !ure to get lad& f not "y the "e!t loo#ng guy& then at lea!t "y !o(eone$ It'! (u)h
harder for e%en a de)ent loo#ng guy to get !at!fa)ton& !e1ually$
FOR 9U/S& 9ETTIN9 LAID IS A C0ORE$
FOR WOMEN& 9ETTIN9 LAID IS A C0OICE$
Ne%er forget th! dfferen)e n the "alan)e of power "etween the !e1e!$ The tr)#! and
ta)t)! you'll learn n th! "oo# wll (a#e you one of tho!e rare guy! who ! on the )ho)e
!de of that power e,uaton$
Whle we are here I "etter (a#e !o(ethng el!e )lear$ I do NOT "ele%e that !e1 ! the
"e all and end all of relatng to wo(en$ Nor do I "ele%e that t ! alway! ne)e!!ary or
e%en DESIRA+LE to u!e the ta)t)! outlned n th! "oo#& 2whether far or unfar3 to get a
wo(an to !leep wth you$ It ! )ertanly po!!"le that the part)ular wo(an you fan)y (ay
"e !(art enough and ha%e enough good !en!e to want you -u!t a! you are& wthout any
ga(e! or "ull!ht on her part$ She (ay al!o "e !ane and p!y)holog)ally healthy enough
to e1pre!! that de!re naturally& wthout any hang5up! or gult ga(e!$ /ou (ght e%en
fnd 5 ga!p 5 that the frend!hp and nt(a)y you !hare wth a lady are (ore (portant to
you than !e1$ When you fnd a lady l#e th!& )her!h her a! the rare trea!ure !he !$ 0ang
on tght& and don't let go7
Unfortunately& "a!ed on (y own e1peren)e& and the e1peren)e of hundred! of (en
I'%e nter%ewed& (o!t wo(en do not ft nto th! )ategory$ I w!h they dd 5 the
REALIT/ ! that they do NOT7 The realty ! that you& a! a (an& are gong to "e !e1ually
attra)ted to (any& (any wo(en& %ery few of who( are gong to naturally de!re you& and
who you )an al!o re!pe)t& lo%e and ad(re$
Many of the!e wo(en are gong to "e hung5up !e1ually& depre!!ed& !uffer fro( low
!elf5e!tee(& eatng d!order!& al)ohol!(& et)$ 0e)#& I e%en "refly dated a wo(an who
turned out to "e "ul()& al)ohol)& and wa! al!o !e)retly a hoo#er7 Top that for a datng
d!a!ter !tory7
Now& you (ay de)de& the he)# wth t$ If you )an't at lea!t l#e and re!pe)t a lady& and
f you ha%e to re!ort to ta)t)! you learned n a "oo#& then t -u!t !n't worth t& and you
wll !#p dealng wth !u)h lo!er fe(ale! altogether$ I )ertanly )an re!pe)t that )ho)e:
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t'! the )ho)e I e%entually (ade (y!elf$ +ut only /OU )an (a#e that )ho)e$ E%en f you
do& th! "oo# wll !tll "e of great %alue to you& "e)au!e you wll learn fanta!t) te)hn,ue!
for (pro%ng your )onfden)e& (eetng and p)#ng up wo(en anywhere& any t(e& and
how to ,u)#ly re)ogn;e and !wftly el(nate all the nutty5lo!er! +EFORE they get to
e(pty your wallet& "end your "ran& and #)# your heart n$ /ou'll "e a"le to get rd of the
drt& !o you )an en-oy the da(ond!$
A FEW MORE WORDS +EFORE WE 9ET ON WIT0 T0IS +OO6
There'! one "g (!ta#e that all the !o )alled *<)#5up Ch)#!* "oo#! !ee( to (a#e$
That !& T0E/ DON'T TELL /OU 0OW TO 0A4E T0E CONFIDENCE AND
<OWER TO ACTUALL/ 9O OUT AND USE ALL T0EIR 9REAT *SEDUCTION*
SU99ESTIONS$
Th! ! a CRITICAL (!ta#e$ 9reat ad%)e doe! you no good at all f you )an't a)tually
go out and A<<L/ t$ All t really doe! ! (a#e you feel wor!e& "e)au!e now you #now
what to do "ut you STILL )an't do t$ At lea!t when you were gnorant you had an e1)u!e$
Th! "oo# wll NOT (a#e that (!ta#e: n fa)t the whole fr!t !e)ton ! ded)ated to
!howng you how to ha%e the )onfden)e and power to "e a"le to ea!ly u!e and apply the
ta)t)! n the other two !e)ton! of the "oo#$ We'll al!o !how you how to u!e your own
)reat%ty !o you )an de%elop your own !edu)ton ta)t)! that perfe)tly ft your un,ue
per!onalty and )r)u(!tan)e!$
Not "ad for one lttle "oo#& huh.
A FINAL WORD
Throughout th! "oo#& I wll "e layng down )ertan dea! that you would do well to
(e(or;e and u!e$ I !ugge!t you get !o(e = 1 > nde1 )ard! to wrte the!e dea! down !o
you )an go o%er the( a! you need to$ There wll al!o "e e1er)!e! to do$ It !
ESSENTIAL that you DO T0E E?ERCISES$ @u!t readng the( wll get you nowhere$
Enough )ht )hat$ Let'! go to "attle (en$
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Chater One

T0E ONE ATTITUDE T0AT IS T0E 6E/
TO 0A4IN9 IRRESISTI+LE A<<EAL TO WOMEN
AND 9ETTIN9 LAID WIT0 T0E WOMEN OF /OUR DREAMS

On)e& one of (y !uper5!)orng "udde! n%ted (e to go to a party wth h($ Not
ha%ng (u)h of a !o)al lfe anyway& I a))epted the n%taton& and "e!de!& th! guy
REALL/ #new how to get lad$ I !ort of loo#ed at (y!elf a! "eng one of tho!e !(all
!u)#er f!h that atta)h the(!el%e! underneath a !har#'! (outh and l%e off the "t! the
!har# !pt! out$
Anyway& we were wanderng around th! huge apart(ent )o(ple1& loo#ng for the
party$ We were wal#ng down a hallway when we pa!!ed an open door& and there wa! a
party gong on& "ut t wa! defntely NOT the party we had "een n%ted to$ Th! wa! a
for(al affar: e%eryone wa! %ery well dre!!ed& and (y "uddy and I were "oth wearng
-ean! and !)ruffy tenn! !hoe!$
Through the doorway I !aw a !tunnng "londe n a low )ut dre!!& !urrounded "y guy!
tryng to ht on her$ My "uddy !aw her too& loo#ed at (e& and went rght nto a)ton$ I !aw
h( wal# n the door& )ut through the )rowd of guy!& !ay !o(ethng to her that I )ouldn't
hear& and hand her a )ard and a pen$ She wrote !o(ethng down& and out )a(e (y "uddy&
!(lng ear to ear$ 0e had gotten her phone nu("er7
I a!#ed h( what he !ad& and he told (e& *I -u!t wal#ed n there& loo#ed at her& and
!ad& AE1)u!e (e$ I !aw you through the doorway& and unl#e the!e gentle(en here& I
don't ha%e t(e for !(all tal#$ I'd l#e to ta#e you out$ Can I ha%e your ho(e phone
nu("er.'
Now& t'! not alway! ne)e!!ary to "e that dre)t$ +ut t ! ne)e!!ary to gra!p and u!e the
atttude (y "uddy had& the !uper5atttude wh)h wll get you lad (ore than any lne&
tr)#& good loo#!& fan)y )ar or fortune$ The atttude !8

I MA6E NO E?CUSES FOR M/ DESIRES AS A MAN$
I MA6E NO E?CUSES FOR M/SELF$
I MO4E T0ROU90 T0E WORLD WIT0OUT A<OLO9/$
Do you really want to get lad wth all the wo(en you )ould e%er po!!"ly want. Then
STO< MA6IN9 E?CUSES FOR /OURSELF7 Don't (a#e e1)u!e! for wantng to loo#
at a "eautful wo(an$ If you're )aught loo#ng& and !he a!#! what you're dong& tell her77
Tell her you're en-oyng !tudyng -u!t what a perfe)tly "eautful "ody !he ha!& and to he)#
wth her f !he'! too uptght to appre)ate a real (an who doe!n't apolog;e for #nowng
what he want!7
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Stop (a#ng e1)u!e! for wantng to (eet a wo(an7 Stop (a#ng e1)u!e! for wantng
to a!# a wo(an out& and (o!t of all !top (a#ng e1)u!e! for wantng to FUC6 the l%ng
!ht out of a wo(an you want7 Th! #nd of dre)t& powerful& go5for5t5atttude ! an
n)red"le turn on for wo(en that )an't "e "eaten7
L!ten7 It !n't e%en the word! you u!e that )on%ey th! atttude7 It'! your tone of %o)e&
your fa)al e1pre!!on!& your po!ture& the !peed at wh)h you !pea#& e%erythng non5
%er"al a"out you wll !how th! atttude far (ore than word!$
Th! doe!n't (ean you ha%e to "e arrogant& or la)# a !en!e of hu(or$ /ou )an "e war(
and frendly at the !a(e t(e you are "eng dre)t and powerful$ The #ey ! fndng the
"alan)e$ On)e you do you wll not "e a"le to #eep wo(en away fro( you$
Now& t'! ea!y to tal# and tell you that you !hould ha%e th! atttude& "ut that won't help
you to a)tually get t$ That'! why the ne1t )ouple of )hapter! are !o (portant$ They wll
!how you how to n!tall th! atttude n your!elf !o that you auto(at)ally fnd your!elf
l%ng "y t n your approa)h to wo(en$ /ou won't e%en ha%e to try or to *thn# a"out t$*
It wll -u!t happen$
0ere'! the other atttudeB"elef you'll want to (a!ter f you really want to "e a !u))e!!
at !)orng wth wo(en l#e a (ad(an$
I DON'T 9ET RATTLED +/ SET+AC6S
+ECAUSE I LEARN FROM M/ MISTA6ES$
I re(e("er wat)hng a T4 !how where the ho!t wa! nter%ewng a (o%e !tarB#arate
)ha(p who !hall go na(ele!!$ The ho!t a!#ed h( what the !e)ret of h! !u))e!! wa!& and
the #arate guy loo#ed at h( n that wooden way of h! and !ad8
*When I fr!t !tarted out )o(petng n 6arate Tourna(ent!& I wa!n't that good$ I got
"eat a lot& "ut I alway! learned fro( (y (!ta#e!$ In!tead of )ryng o%er (y lo!ng& I -u!t
!tuded what I would ha%e to do dfferently the ne1t t(e& and whene%er I (et the !a(e
guy agan or a dfferent guy n the !a(e !tuaton& I ALWA/S )rea(ed 'e($*
Loo# 5 unle!! you are unu!ually lu)#y& )han)e! are you are gong to (a#e a few
(!ta#e! a! you pra)t)e the dea! n th! "oo#$ And& a! great a! the!e tr)#! are& they
won't wor# e%ery !ngle t(e$
Unle!! you #now how to learn fro( your (!ta#e! and a))ept and o))a!onal lo!!& you
wll get nowhere$ The (o!t !u))e!!ful guy! I #now at !)orng all ha%e two great
!trength!8 They ha%e the fr!t power atttude we'%e -u!t loo#ed at& and they al!o #now how
to a))ept gettng re-e)ted wthout t "otherng the( and they learn fro( ther (!ta#e!$
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O#$ A! I pro(!ed& let'! get on to the ne1t )ouple of )hapter! wh)h wll !how you how
to a)tually l%e the!e atttude! n!tead of -u!t readng a"out the($
Chater T!o
0OW TO INSTALL
T0E SU<ER 9ET LAID ATTITUDES IN /OURSELF
SO /OU USE T0EM AUTOMATICALL/
There ! one !(all pont you ha%e to get "efore you )an u!e th! e1er)!e$ Ta#e a
(nute to (agne your!elf rdng n a roller )oa!ter$ See your!elf !ttng n the front )ar&
rdng up and down$
Now& (a#e another p)ture of a roller )oa!ter& "ut th! t(e& do NOT !ee your!elf n
the p)ture$ See t a! f you were a)tually loo#ng out of your own eye!& !ttng n the
roller )oa!ter$ Rde for a few (o(ent!$
Now& wh)h one of tho!e felt (ore real n your "ody. I'll "et anythng t wa! the
!e)ond #nd$ An (age or goal only appear! real to your (nd f t )o(e! n the !e)ond
for(& a! f you were !eeng t through your own eye!$
T0E FAILURE TO UNDERSTAND T0IS SIM<LE DIFFERENCE
+ETWEEN T0E TWO 6INDS OF MENTAL <ICTURES <EO<LE MA6E
IS T0E SIN9LE +I99EST REASON W0/ MOST <EO<LE
NE4ER REAC0 T0EIR 9OALS$
/ou )ould (agne your!elf a)tng )onfdent and powerful untl you are "lue n the
fa)e& "ut unle!! you g%e your (nd !o(e )ue! a! to when t ! gong to tap nto tho!e
p)ture! you wll get NOW0ERE$ /ou wll ne%er tap nto all tho!e great re!our)e! you'%e
"een (agnng$
For ea!e we are gong to )all the fr!t #nd of p)ture& where you do !ee your!elf&
p)ture type C& and the !e)ond #nd of p)ture where you do not !ee your!elf& p)ture type
D$
O#$ Now that we ha%e (ade that )lear& let'! get on to the e1er)!e$
Step One8
Re)all a t(e n your pa!t when you felt )onfdent and powerful$ A t(e where you
fully felt the way you'd l#e to feel around wo(en$ Th! )an "e anywhere and a"out
anythng 5 a great golf !hot you (ade& or an *A* "oo# report you dd n !)hool$
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Step Two8
Clo!e your eye!& and !ee your!elf n the fr!t #nd of p)ture& gong through that
e1peren)e agan$
Step Three8
Now& !tep nto the p)ture& and !ee the e%ent! a! f you were a)tually loo#ng out fro(
your own eye!$ See what you !aw& hear what you heard& and feel how good t felt n your
"ody$ When tho!e feelng! of )onfden)e and power rea)h ther pea# n your "ody& rea)h
o%er wth your rght hand& and g%e your left wr!t a !,uee;e$ Run through th! tw)e
(ore& g%ng the !a(e !,uee;e n the !a(e pla)e$ Th! wll tran your (nd to re)all tho!e
feelng! of power and )onfden)e whene%er you !,uee;e your wr!t the way you are dong
now$

Step Four8
Thn# of a !tuaton or )r)u(!tan)e where you would l#e to "e (ore powerful wth
wo(en or (ore po!ed or whate%er t ! you'd l#e$
Step F%e8
<)ture t the !e)ond way& a! f t were gong on and you were !eeng t through your
own eye!$
Step S18

A! you do !o& rea)h o%er wth your rght hand and !,uee;e your left wr!t& trggerng
your )onfden)e an)hor$ Th! wll tran your (nd to auto(at)ally )all up the feelng! of
)onfden)e and power when you are n a !tuaton l#e the one you are !eeng through
your own eye!$ /ou won't e%en ha%e to thn# a"out dong t& wh)h ! the ad%antage$ 2And
that'! why an)horng wor#! where *po!t%e thn#ng* won't& "e)au!e often "y the t(e
you get your!elf thn#ng po!t%ely& t'! already too late$3
Now& on)e you'%e done th!& I want you to do t agan& "ut th! t(e I want you to p)#
dfferent )r)u(!tan)e! where you'd l#e to u!e your *power atttude* that we tal#ed a"out
n the fr!t )hapter$ Ma#e one a !tuaton where you !ee a "eautful wo(an you'd l#e to
tal# to$ Another )ould "e (a#ng a pa!! at a wo(an "a)# at your pla)e$ 9o through the
!tuaton wth the fr!t #nd of p)ture& !eeng your!elf n the p)ture$ Then !tep nto the
p)ture& and go through t& feelng what t would feel l#e& loo#ng through your own eye!$
Do the !a(e thng for the !e)ond *learnng fro( your (!ta#e!* atttude$ See your!elf
(a#ng a (!ta#e& feelng o# a"out t& and learnng whate%er le!!on you need !o you )an
do t dfferently ne1t t(e$ Then !tep nto the p)ture and !ee t through your own eye!$
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Chater Three
+ELIE4E IT OR NOT&
0OW TO 0A4E E4EN MORE CONFIDENCE WIT0 WOMEN
A great deal of !u))e!! and power wth wo(en ha! nothng to do wth how you a)t and
feel a"out the(& "ut a lot to do wth how you a)t and feel a"out your!elf$ What we're
really tal#ng a"out here ! SELF5RES<ECT$
<lenty of (en who wouldn't ta#e a "t of )rap fro( another guy turn nto down rght
!pnele!! w(p! when t )o(e! to wo(en$ Whether they are rel%ng old dra(a! wth a
(o((y they )ouldn't plea!e a! )hldren& or are !)ared for !o(e other rea!on& they put the
wo(an fr!t$
Other guy! ha%e a !lghtly dfferent pro"le($ They (ay not ta#e any )rap fro( a
wo(an& "ut gettng lad ! SO da(n (portant to the( that they lo!e !ght of other
prorte!$ In a !en!e n lo!e! all the fun a!pe)t!& and get! to "e a )o(pul!on$
9uy! l#e th! (ay wn the "attle!& "ut they are defntely lo!ng the war$ Wo(en (ay
"e n)e addton! to your lfe& and f you fnd the rght one& you (ght e%en )ho!e to (a#e
her part of the )enter of your!$ +ut a lfe !pent dong nothng "ut )ha!ng wo(en ! a
pretty !tupd one$
If that ! your pro"le(& then pull your!elf up !hort for a (nute& and a!# your!elf f you
(ght "e (!!ng !o(e of the other plea!ure! lfe ha! to offer$ /ou (ght "e !ho)#ed to
learn that a ,uet e%enng at ho(e wth a good "oo# )an a)tually "e (ore !t(ulatng than
a "orng date wth a huge "rea!ted "("o wth a roo( te(perature I$E$
So here'! a hnt for n)rea!ng your )onfden)e wth wo(en8 STO< NEEDIN9 T0EM
SO MUC07 And a good way to do that ! gong out and fndng a ho""y that you )an
really en-oy$ So(ethng that get! you AWA/ fro( wo(en$
Not only wll th! n)rea!e your )onfden)e a! you are on the prowl& t pro%de! a great
e!)ape for when that !pe)al lady you are wth put! a "t of !tre!! and !tran on your "ran&
a! they !o often wll$
<er!onally& I prefer +g Mouth +a!! F!hng$ Mo!t wo(en hate e%en the thought of
!o(e )#y& !l(y f!h floppng all o%er the(& and wouldn't e%en )on!der a!#ng to go
along wth you$ And "e!de!& I en-oy )at)hng !o(ethng wth a "g (outh& and "eng
a"le to n!tantly throw t away f I feel l#e t$ Wo(en are not !o ea!y$
1,
Chater Fo#r
STILL MORE CONFIDENCE AND <OWER WIT0 WOMEN7
0ere ! a (ag) word that wll "rng you load! of !u))e!! wth wo(en& and get you
lad l#e )ra;y$ It wor#! wth all wo(en& "ut the (ore "eautful the wo(an& the "etter t
wor#!$ The word !8 NO7
That'! rght$ No7 The !a(e word that wll #eep a puppy fro( wettng the )arpet wll
al!o #eep a wo(an fro( !httng on you7
/ou (u!t !ay no to a wo(an on)e n a whle& when t ! o%er an !!ue of (portan)e&
and when you (ean t$
No (atter how gorgeou!& or great n the !a)# or how otherw!e wonderful !he (ay "e
2and who el!e "ut !u)h a godde!! )ould po!!"ly "egn to de!er%e to "e n /OUR
)o(pany.3 you (u!t "e wllng to wal# away fro( her f you )an't deal wth her fro( a
po!ton of !elf5re!pe)t$
And !elf5re!pe)t& (y frend& ! (o!tly a (atter of what you !ay no to$ It'! a "oundary
!et "y what ! not per(tted& tolerated or allowed$ And whle t (ay "e negat%e fro( th!
!e(ant) !en!e& n realty t ! the (o!t power and po!t%e for)e you ha%e gong for you$
When a wo(an !en!e! t n you& !he #now! !he'! found !o(ethng !he'! n!tn)t%ely
wanted !n)e !he real;ed !he'! fe(ale8 A MAN S0E COULD NE4ER 0O<E TO
CONTROL$
I #now th! !n't ea!y$ It hurt!& really hurt! to ha%e to wal# away fro( !o(eone you
really dg "e)au!e !he !n't treatng you rght$ +ut lo%e )an often "e l#e a !treet fght& and
re(e("er the !treet fghter'! nu("er one rule8 Ignore the pan and )arry out your
offen!%e wth e%erythng you'%e got$ If you )an pull th! off& you wll wal# wth a
)onfden)e and power that wo(en of all age! wll "e a"le to !en!e$ And (ore
(portantly& you'll l#e the guy who l%e! n!de your !#n$
1/
Chater F$%e
/ET MORE CONFIDENCE AND <OWER WIT0 WOMEN

9eorge S$ <atton @r$& the hell5for5leather 9eneral of World War II fa(e wa! on)e a!#ed
what he thought of h! r%al& the +rt!h Feld Mar!hall Montgo(ery$ <atton repled& *0e'!
the "e!t 9eneral the +rt!h ha%e$ +ut he'! (ore ntere!ted n not lo!ng than he ! n
wnnng$ Unfortunately for (any (en& that'! ther atttude toward wo(en$ They wal# on
egg5!hell!& )autou! a! )an "e& hopng agan!t hope that they don't (a#e a (!ta#e$
If you want to ha%e D/NAMIC power wth wo(en& "egn to fo)u! on what you want&
and what you are gong to do& not on what you (ght lo!e or what'! gong to happen to
you f you don't wn$ Of )our!e& g%e the r!#! a glan)e$ +ut don't fo)u! on the($
Fo)u! on what you de!re$ What wll t "e l#e when you're wth that wo(an you want.
What wll you !ee. What wll you hear. What wll you feel n your "ody.
The!e are the #nd! of ,ue!ton! that wll get you e1)ted a"out and a(ed at wnnng&
n!tead of )rngng at lo!ng$ E%en f you #now you ha%e !o(e )o(petton you'll "e a"le
to g%e t your "e!t !hot& "e)au!e your (a-or fo)u! wll "e on your out)o(e$
In !hort8

9LANCE AT W0AT /OU MI90T 0A4E TO LOSE&
+UT FOCUS ON W0AT /OU WANT TO WIN$
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Chater S$'
0OW TO FA6E LI6E /OU ARE WARM AND FRIENDL/
When I wa! n )ollege& and !trugglng -u!t to get a date& let alone get lad rght and left&
I #new one guy who ALWA/S had great loo#ng wo(en around h($ 0e !ee(ed to
#now pra)t)ally e%ery grl on )a(pu!& and they'd alway! )o(e up to h( and g%e h(
hug! and #!!e!$ No& he wa! not a )o#e dealer or a p(p$ Of all thng!& he wa! an
e%angel!t$
Now& I'( )ertanly not ad%o)atng @e!u! Frea#ery a! the way to get your weene wet$
+ut you (ght ta#e a few le!!on! fro( th! guy& Chr!$ I'd wat)h h( go to wor# on
wo(en who were a"!olute !tranger! and wthn a few (nute!& they'd "e laughng and
pun)hng h( playfully& !o(et(e! g%ng h( hug!$ If t weren't for the Lord& Chr!
would ha%e "een the "g !tud on )a(pu!$
And what wa! h! !e)ret& a !e)ret I hope /OU u!e to laun)h you on the way to gettng
lad l#e a "andt. 0! affnty and war(th (ade wo(en feel ADORED$ 0e ddn't )o(e
on all hot and hea%y& l#e a hungry wolf on the prowl$ 0e )a(e on wth all the
frendlne!! and fun at h! d!po!al 5 a! f the!e !trange wo(en were long lo!t frend! that
he dearly lo%ed$
And they "ought t7 E%en the )h)#e!t wo(an& who ! %ery uptght a"out "eng a !e1
o"-e)t& want! to feel lo%ed and !pe)al$ And -u!t "y the war(th n the tone of h! %o)e
and h! !(le he (ade the!e grl! feel a! f they WERE long lo!t frend!$
Loo# at t th! way8 E%en the na!te!t per!on fnd! t hard to rea)t fearfully or angrly to
!o(eone who (a#e! the( feel lo%ed and appre)ated$
I !ugge!t you (a#e th! AS IF prn)ple part of your "ag of tr)#!$ The ne1t t(e you
approa)h a wo(an who ! (a#ng you "ur!t out of your pant! wth lu!t& try puttng a!de
the lu!t and turnng on the war(th$
Con%eyng war(th and affnty !n't !o tough 5 -u!t thn# of how you loo# and !ound
when you !ee a ne)e or nephew& or e%en a pet that delght! you$ No& I a( not !ugge!tng
"a"y tal# a! a way of !)orng "a"e!$ I'( tryng to g%e you an e1a(ple of where t'!
natural for you to "eha%e the way I'd l#e you to try "eha%ng wth wo(en$
The (portant prn)ple to apply here ! that T0E MEANIN9 OF /OUR
COMMUNICATION IS T0E RES<ONSE IT 9ETS$ If you u!e a tone of %o)e or a
fa)al e1pre!!on that (a#e! wo(en fearful or !u!p)ou!& then no (atter how )le%er your
word! are& the (e!!age you )on%ey to her ! that !he !hould "e afrad and !u!p)ou! of
you$
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If %o)e tone and phy!ology 2and agan I don't (ean your appearan)e per !e& "ut rather
your po!ture and fa)al e1pre!!on!3 are !o )ru)al n how wo(en rea)t to you& then what
! the #ey to produ)ng %o)e tone and phy!ology. /our "elef and e1pe)taton a"out
your out)o(e$
If you "ele%e you are gong to get re-e)ted then you are ether gong to )on%ey fear&
and (a#e her fearful or el!e you are gong to try to "eat her to the pun)h and a)t !o
o"no1ou! that !he re-e)t! you rght off& !o you don't ha%e to wat too long n !u!pen!e for
your negat%e pred)ton to )o(e true$ /ou -u!t want to get t o%er wth ,u)#ly !o you
a)tually produ)e the hu(laton that you "ele%e you )annot a%od$
+y )ontra!t& f you a)t a! f you truly were !o(eone who e%eryone l#ed and re)e%ed
war(ly& then that war(th ! what your tone and phy!ology wll )on%ey& and that'! the
re!pon!e you wll get& nne t(e! out of ten$ I'( not !ayng you'll get lad wth e%eryone
you approa)h& "ut !eldo( wll you ha%e a na!ty e1peren)e ether$ And any wo(an who
doe!n't re!pond po!t%ely to war(th and affnty ! !erou!ly !)# and !hould "e a%oded
at all )o!t! anyway$
<RACTICE E?ERCISE8 O6& I #now th! one ! gong to SEEM a lttle !lly& "ut t'!
gong to help you get lad l#e CRAF/& !o -u!t do t7
Step One8

Re(e("er the word! to the pledge of allegan)e$ In )a!e you don't here they are8 2/ou
(ay !tand and put your hand o%er your heart f you !o )hoo!e$3

I pledge allegan)e to the flag of the Unted State! of A(er)a& and to the Repu"l) for
wh)h t !tand!& one naton& under 9od& nd%!"le& wth l"erty and -u!t)e for all$
Step Two8
<ra)t)e& out loud& !ayng the!e word! wth all the war(th and frendlne!! you )an
(u!ter$

Step Three8
<ra)t)e !ayng the( out loud a! f you thought they were the funne!t thng n the
world and you (ght )ra)# up laughng at any (o(ent$
O6& !o you feel a "t !lly pra)t)ng 2and f !o(eone !hould )at)h you they (ay thn#
you'%e -oned the @ohn +r)h So)ety3 and t !ee(! werd$ +ut -u!t re(e("er 5
IT ISN'T SO MUC0 W0AT /OU SA/ TO A WOMAN&
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+UT /OUR TONE OF 4OICE W0EN /OU SA/ IT7777
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Chater Se%en
9ETTIN9 0ER ATTENTION
T0E 6E/ TO <IC65U<S W0ERE4ER /OU ARE
I ha%e a "rother who'! n ad%ert!ng 5 (ore !pe)f)ally he wrte! new!paper and
(aga;ne ad )opy$ I on)e wat)hed h( at wor#& and he !at for a"out three hour! and then
wrote one !enten)e7 One !enten)e7
I a!#ed h( why he too# !o long on one !enten)e and h! an!wer !tu)# wth (e8 It'!
that fr!t !enten)e that deter(ne! whether they e%en read the re!t of the ad7
Loo# at (eetng wo(en l#e an ad (an who'! wrtng )opy for a new!paper ad$ May"e
one out of a hundred reader! ! a)t%ely loo#ng for the produ)t you are tryng to !ell& and
they wll read your whole ad no (atter what the headlne !ay!$
The re!t of the reader! )ould )are le!!$ They are "u!y flppng page!& tryng to get to
the )o()! !e)ton or the !port! page$ They wll only !top f !o(ethng gra"! ther
attenton$
So t ! wth the a%erage )h)#$ In a few lu)#y !tuaton!& your loo#! alone wll !nag
her$ +ut the re!t of the t(e you won't ha%e (u)h )han)e of !ellng your produ)t unle!!
you gra" her attenton and gra" t fa!t$ 2I #now& you want to gra" !o(ethng el!e& "ut that
)o(e! later$ An(al$3
+elow are !o(e of the "e!t way! to gra" a grl'! attenton$ 6eep the( n (nd a! you
read the ne1t few )hapter!$
0u(or
Appealng to her )uro!ty
<uttng an unu!ual or une1pe)ted tw!t on an old& )l)he p)#5up
Role playng
Fa#ng l#e you already #now her
Appealng to her ego
Showng outrageou! "all! or gut!
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Chater E$(ht
0OW TO MA6E A WOMAN /OU'4E @UST MET
FEEL LI6E S0E'S MET T0E MAN OF 0ER DREAMS
The ne1t !tep after you'%e got her attenton ! to ntrodu)e your!elf and get her na(e$ I
hope you are !(art enough to do that wthout (y ad%)e$
Then you'%e got to )reate the llu!on of rapport$ For tho!e of you who don't #now what
rapport (ean!& the d)tonary defne! t a!8 *A))ord& affnty& relaton! (ar#ed "y
har(ony$*
The te)hn,ue! you u!e to )reate rapport wll %ary a))ordng to the type of p)#5up you
are u!ng$ Of )our!e& we'%e already gone o%er the proper way to u!e your tone of %o)e$
0ere are two other %ery !nea#y and powerful way! to )reate rapport wth a wo(an$
/ou !hould u!e the( when you're a)tually on a date a! well a! when you fr!t (eet a
wo(an$ They ta#e !o(e pra)t)e to (a!ter& "ut wor# ,ute well$
MIRRORIN9
There on)e wa! a %ery powerful and !u))e!!ful hypnot!t "y the na(e of Mlton
Er)#!on$ When you are through wth th! "oo# you (ay well want to "uld a !hrne to
Er)#!on& "e)au!e th! (an ! gong to help get you lad (ore than ha%ng a (llon
dollar! )a!h and a "ody l#e S)harwt;negger$
Er)#!on )ould hypnot;e anyone& e%en the (o!t re!!tant patent or )lent$ One of the
way! he dd th! wa! "y (rrorng the "reathng of the per!on he wa! hypnot;ng$
Now& I'( gong to pau!e for a (nute !o you )an go through your *+ull!ht* rea)ton$
+ut (rrorng !o(eone'! "reathng ! a %ery powerful way to (a#e the( un)on!)ou!ly
feel n tune wth you$ Er)#!on would wat)h the rate of h! )lent'! "reathng and then
"egn to (at)h t wth h! own "reathng& or wth the pa)e of h! !pea#ng$ Or he'd tap h!
)he!t wth h! hand n t(e to the per!on! "reathng& and then "egn to gradually !low the
tappng$ The per!on'! "reathng would !low n t(e to the tappng7
Mrrorng wor#! "e)au!e your un)on!)ou! p)#! up and ! aware of thng! your
)on!)ou! (nd ha! no #nowledge of$ To )on%n)e your!elf that th! ! !o& try th!
e1per(ent8
9et a frend of your! and ha%e the( )lo!e ther eye!$ A!# the( to #eep ther eye!
)lo!ed& and gue!! what you are dong$
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Stand n front of the(& and "egn !pea#ng$ A! you do !o& !way your head fro( !de to
!de$
A!# the( what you are dong$
Of )our!e& they wll "e a"le to tell you you are (o%ng your head "a)# and forth$ Now&
a!# the( how they #new they'll tell you they )ould hear the dfferen)e n how you
!ounded$
Now& try t agan& "ut th! t(e a!# the( to #eep ther eye! open$ A!# f they )an hear
the dfferen)e now& and of )our!e they )an't. A)tually& they CAN hear the dfferen)e&
"e)au!e they !tll ha%e the !a(e par of ear! 5 they -u!t aren't CONSCIOUSL/ aware of
t$ +ut un)on!)ou!ly& you "et they are7
In the !a(e way& f you (rror a )h)#'! "reathng& or her tone of %o)e& or rate of
!pea#ng& or e%en a part)ular ge!ture !he u!e!& on a )on!)ou! le%el !he won't not)e$ If
!he doe! not)e on a )on!)ou! le%el& then you are "eng too o"%ou! and !he'! ether
gong to thn# you are a werdo or are (a#ng fun of her& and nether of the!e wll !)ore
you pont!$
+ut f you do t !u"tly& then all !he wll #now ! that for !o(e odd rea!on !he !ure
!ee(! to feel rght down )o(forta"le wth you& old "uddy& a! f !he'! lo%ed you for year!7
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Chater N$ne
SOME 9REAT MET0ODS AND 9REAT <LACES
TO <IC6 U< MORE WOMEN
T0AN /OU AND A FRIEND
COULD <OSSI+L/ 0O<E TO 0ANDLE
INCLUDIN9 T0E ONL/ TWO <IC65U< LINES
IN T0E WORLD T0AT WOR6 SO WELL
T0AT T0E/ CAN 9ET /OU LAID AUTOMATICALL/
ECOLO9/ WARNIN97777777
/ou are a"out to learn !o(e %ery effe)t%e (ethod! for (eetng wo(en$ Whle all of
the( are effe)t%e& !o(e of the( (ght not "e rght for you to u!e n an o%erall !en!e$ If&
for e1a(ple& you need to wor# on "eng (ore dre)t& then u!ng !o(e of the tr)#er
(ethod! that rely on gettng a wo(an'! attenton %a !o(e #nd of ploy (ght hurt you n
the long run$ U!e your own "e!t -udg(ent and try to thn# long ter($
Sngle! +ar!
E%en though I don't part)ularly )are for !ngle! "ar!& I gue!! I a( o"lgated to tell you
!o(e way! to wor# the($ 0ere are !o(e thng! to #eep n (nd f you want to u!e !ngle!
"ar! to p)# up wo(en8
Wo(en n !ngle! "ar! are !ort of l#e (otor)y)le )op!$ Motor)y)le )op! ha%e heard
e%ery !tory n the "oo# fro( people tryng to tal# the( out of t)#et!$ Wo(en n !ngle!
"ar! ha%e heard e%ery !tory and lne 2f they are halfway de)ent loo#ng& that !& and f
not& who )are!.3 tryng to tal# the( out of ther pante!$
Sn)e you are runnng agan!t the odd!& you are gong to ha%e to go through !o(e
nu("er! "efore you get a p)#5up$ Unle!! you are a (o%e !tar or loo# l#e a 9ree# 9od&
fgure a"out CG *no'!* 2would you "ele%e& *fu)# off*3 for e%ery ye!& f you are lu)#y$ So
p)# an approa)h you en-oy dong& !n)e you are gong to ha%e to u!e t a lot$ <er!onally& I
prefer a funny approa)h& "e)au!e I l#e gettng a laugh& en-oy a wo(an wth a !en!e of
hu(or& and generally ha%e fun wth th! angle of atta)#$
Sn)e (o!t "ar! are !o loud& what wth hundred! of people tal#ng at on)e& and (ore
often than not& (u!) "la!tng a! well& +RIN9 A <EN AND SMALL NOTE <AD777 Th!
wll !a%e your %o)e and allow you to )o((un)ate7
6eep (o%ng& and don't let a le!! than opt(u( re!pon!e !top you$ Th! ! a nu("er!
ga(e& and f a part)ular grl !n't g%ng you the re!pon!e you l#e& )ut "at and (o%e on
to greener pa!ture!$
O6$ 0ere ! (y fa%orte !ngle! "ar (ethod$ It n%ol%e! u!ng a note pad and pen$
What I do ! p)# out a grl that ntere!t! (e& !)r""le th! note& and hand t to her8
*0&* I'( ta#ng a !ur%ey on "ad lne!$ Cr)le wh)h one you thn# ! the wor!t$
,1

*C$ ACo(e here often& !ugar pant!.'
*D$ A0ey& "a"y$ Can we go out n the )old and hug.'
*=$ A0$ I'( ta#ng a !ur%ey on "ad lne!$'*
Th! al(o!t alway! get! a laugh$ When t doe!n't& I -u!t wal# away& "e)au!e f the )h)#
)an't ta#e a -o#e& then to he)# wth her$ +ut& a! I !ad& th! ! a fun& en-oya"le approa)h for
(e& t'! un,ue and dfferent& and t'! a good opener$
There are lot! of %araton! on the "a!) note pad and pen approa)h$ /ou )ould pretend
you are wrtng a "oo# for (en and want to !ur%ey wo(en on the "e!t way! to (eet the(
n "ar!$ +ut th! approa)h (ght arou!e !o(e !u!p)on& and I #nd of thn# t'! (ore
)o((on than you'd "ele%e$
0appy 0our!
/our lo)al re!taurant or "ar'! happy hour ! a great pla)e to (eet wo(en$ They go
there to rela1 and unwnd after wor#& and that (ean! al)ohol )on!u(pton& and plenty of
t$ So& you already ha%e one !tr#e n your fa%or& "e)au!e ther nh"ton! are gong to "e
a lot le!! than nor(al$
The *ta#ng a !ur%ey (ethod* wor#! "etter n th! !ettng than n a !ngle! "ar& a!
wo(en are& a! I !ad& le!! !u!p)ou!$ /ou're pro"a"ly "etter off !ayng that you are
wrtng a "oo# for (en and you are wor#ng on a )hapter on "ad lne!$ A!# the wo(en
you (eet to tell you the wor!t p)#5up lne! they'%e e%er heard$ They'll "e (ore than
happy to tell you5 one of the thng! wo(en do (o!t when they get together for drn#! !
to )h)# a"out (en& !o you'll pro"a"ly "e rght on !u"-e)t7 Th! ! a fun approa)h& that
add! !o(e hu(or to the !tale *"e!t way! to (eet wo(en !ur%ey* approa)h$ /ou'll (eet
lot! of wo(en& and !o(e of the( are "ound to go for you& out of !heer nu("er! alone$
Who #now!& you (ght fnd out that !o(e of your fa%orte lne! are a)tually the one!
wo(en thn# of a! "eng the wor!t7 That alone would (a#e t worth your whle7
Watre!!e!
One of the thng! I not)ed when I wa! fr!t tryng out !ngle! "ar! and happy hour
!tratege! wa! that the watre!!e! were al(o!t alway! "etter loo#ng than any of the
fe(ale )u!to(er!7 Ta#e a good loo# ne1t t(e you go to the!e pla)e! and you wll !ee
that I a( rght$
I lo%e p)#ng up watre!!e!$ There ! far le!! pre!!ure& they ha%e to tal# to you& and
you )an ta#e your t(e$ Unl#e a grl you (eet n a "ar& who you wll (ore than l#ely
ne%er !ee agan unle!! you get a date& you )an pretty (u)h #now where and when the
watre!! of your drea(! wll "e$
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I !hould pont out that wth watre!!e!& a! well a! !ale! )ler#!& and other *wor#ng
wo(en* you ha%e to de)de on a one !tep or two !tep approa)h$ +y that& I (ean that f
thng! !ee( to "e gong really good on your fr!t (eetng& you )an a!# her out rght on the
!pot$ If not& you )an try to "uld (ore rapport on later %!t!& "efore you ht her for the
date or phone nu("er$
Watre!! +at
A! wth any p)#5up& #ey fr!t !tep ! to get your target! attenton$ 0ere are three good
way! to do that8
C$ The )le%er lne approa)h$ 0ere'! a lne that I'%e u!ed t(e and agan$ 9od (u!t ha%e
wh!pered t n (y ear& the fr!t t(e I u!ed t$ It wor#! when you are n a !ngle! "ar or
other "ar or re!taurant that ha! lot! of fe(ale )u!to(er!& and your target ! "u!y !er%ng
drn#!$ @u!t loo# at her and !ay&
*I -u!t wanted you to #now that nnety5nne per)ent of the wo(en who wal# n that
door would #ll ther own (other! to loo# half a! good a! you do$*
Th! ! pro"a"ly the (o!t effe)t%e lne you wll e%er u!e$ It'! one thng for a "eautful
wo(an to hear that a (an thn#! !he'! good loo#ng& "ut t !n't really that "g a deal to
her$ After all& !he already #now! t ! true& and (ay e%en "e tred of hearng t$
+ut& wo(en "eng !u)h )at5l#e )reature!& nothng plea!e! the( (ore than to #now
that they are SO "eautful that other wo(en hate the( for t and are n!anely -ealou!7
E%en the (o!t -aded& hard5a!!ed wo(an would lo%e to "ele%e th! ! true7
D$ The dre)t approa)h$ 0ere& you are dre)t& "ut you al!o a)#nowledge the realty that
you are a !tranger to her& and that you re!pe)t her need to earn her l%ng wthout "eng
hara!!ed "y p)#5up art!t!$ Wal# up to her and !ay&
*I don't (ean to nterrupt you whle you are wor#ng& "ut I -u!t wanted you to #now
that I thn# you're one of the (o!t attra)t%e wo(en I'%e e%er !een& and I'( really glad I
wor#ed up the )ourage to ntrodu)e (y!elf to you$*
Tell her your na(e& a!# her her!& and then let her get "a)# to wor#$ Chan)e! are& !he'll
"e !o (pre!!ed& !he'll )o(e o%er to tal# to you$ Th! lne ! %ery flatterng& and what
really (a#e! t wor# ! the la!t "t a"out *wor#ng up the )ourage to (eet you$* It (ple!
that !he'! !o "eautful that you -u!t had to o%er)o(e all that !hyne!! -u!t !o you )ould get
a )han)e to (eet her$ Wo(en eat th! lne l#e )andy and t wll get you lad "y
watre!!e!& !ale!grl! and the l#e wth !tartlng fre,uen)y$

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=$ The drty& !nea#y& fa#e l#e you are n !how "; approa)h$ 0ere n L$A$& HH$HHHI of
the "etter loo#ng watre!!e! are a!prng a)tre!!e!& watng for that "g "rea#$ So(e of
the!e wo(en are !o gorgeou! they would (a#e you drool n your pant!& and they are rpe
for !o(eone who they thn# )an help the( along n ther )areer$ Now& #eepng n (nd
the e)ology warnng at the "egnnng of th! )hapter& let (e tell you how I !tu("led on to
th! !)a( and how t )an help you to !leep wth the (o!t "eautful wo(en around$

At the t(e I !tu("led on th! approa)h& I had a roo((ate who wor#ed for a !(all
aero!pa)e re!ear)h )o(pany$ They had -u!t (o%ed nto a !ute of off)e! that pre%ou!ly
had "een o))uped "y a talent agen)y$ Openng a )lo!et one day& they d!)o%ered a few
hundred p)ture! of %ery good loo#ng a)tre!!e! who were applyng for a role n a fl($
My roo((ate "rought a"out a hundred of the( ho(e& and a! I wa! gong through
the(& !lo""erng all o%er (y!elf& t !uddenly o))urred to (e that8
Mo!t of the!e grl! were pro"a"ly wor#ng a! watre!!e! to !upport the(!el%e!$
What "etter way to get fa%ora"le attenton fro( !o(e )ute pe watre!! than to wal#
nto a "ar or re!taurant wth the!e and -u!t !tart gong through the($
So& that'! what I dd$ And !ure enough& "efore long& a %ery gorgeou! young food and
drn# !er%)e te)hn)an 2"ureau)rate!e for watre!!3 )a(e "y to !ee what I wa! dong$ I
told her that (y !!ter ran a )o(pany that (a#e! (o%e! for T4 2wh)h happen! to "e the
truth& "ut don't worry f you don't ha%e a !!ter that doe! that& you )an tal# a"out (y !!ter
f you feel gulty3 and that !he wanted (e to go through the!e p)ture! and !ele)t the one!
I thought were the (o!t attra)t%e$ Naturally& th! !weete pe wa! an a!prng future O!)ar
wnner& and a!#ed f !he )ould get a re!u(e to (e$ I !ad t would ha%e to "e fa!t& a! (y
!!ter wanted to #now "y to(orrow$ Of )our!e& !he n%ted (e to )o(e "a)# to her pla)e
after wor# to get the p)ture& and well& we had a few drn#! and$$$$$$$$
The #ey to th! (ethod ! not to (a#e t !ee( l#e you are "la)#(alng her$ Tell her
you would "e happy to !u"(t her p)ture and re!u(e to the rght per!on$ After you ha%e
agreed to that& T0EN a!# her out$ The threat of you not dong t f !he doe!n't a))ept
ha!n't "een (ade& and n)e guy that you are& you wouldn't e%en thn# of (plyng t$ +ut
!he (ght "e afrad of lo!ng your good wll& and !o wll a))ept$ Try to get her to go out
wth you on the !pot$
Now& !o(e of you (ay "e wonderng& *Well& t !ound! great$ +ut what f I don't ha%e a
roo((ate who happen! to wor# for an aero!pa)e re!ear)h )o(pany that happen! to "e n
the !a(e off)e that u!ed to "e u!ed "y a talent agen)y.*
9ood ,ue!ton$ What you do ! put a !(ple ad n your lo)al paper along the!e lne!8
*Model! wanted7 All e1pen!e! pad& plu! J>GG$GG photo !hoot n Taht7 Send K 1 CG
to8 /our Na(e <rodu)ton!& /our Addre!!$*
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That !hould get you !o(e n)e re!pon!e!$

Street and Super(ar#et <)#up!
One of the toughe!t pla)e! to p)#5up wo(en ! rght on the !treet& and that'! why I
lo%e t: t'! a real )hallenge$
Of )our!e& one of the ea!y way! out ! the old *ta#ng a !ur%ey* (ethod& "ut that !n't
nearly a! (u)h fun a! u!ng lne!$
The a"!olute #ey to !treet p)#5up! ! to "e %ery up"eat& happy& war( and frendly$ Do
NOT )o(e on hea%y on the !treet$ Wo(en are naturally 2and -u!tly3 )autou! n the "g
)ty$
0ere'! a great !treet p)#5up for you that wll al!o wor# n a !uper(ar#et$ I )all t the
)o(pl(ent !trng$

<)# out your target& then wal# along!de her$ Fnd one thng a"out her you )an
genunely )o(pl(ent& then !ay8
*I l#e your hat$*

She'll !ay *Than# you$*
Then !ay& *I l#e your wat)h$*

She'll !ay *Than# you$*
Then what you do ! pau!e& !ort of loo# at her !deway! for a (o(ent& and !ay wth a!
(u)h )har( and good hu(or a! you )an8

*Co(e to thn# of t& I l#e e%erythng$*

Nne t(e! out of ten that wll get a "g laugh$ If !he doe!n't laugh& !he'! a %ery uptght
)h)# and you'd -u!t get re-e)ted f you !traght a!#ed her out anyway$

On)e !he'! laughed you ht her wth th!8
*My na(e'! LLLLLLLL$ +y what na(e are you )alled& you !hnng e1a(ple of genet)
perfe)ton.*
2I #now that !ound! )orny "ut t wll get a "g laugh$ Tru!t (e$3

On)e !he tell! you& you !ay&
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*/ou #now& I )an tell you're wo(an wth fanta!t) good ta!te$ And you #now how I
#now that.*
She'll a!# how$

*+e)au!e you laugh at all of (y -o#e!$*
She'll laugh agan$ Then you ht her wth another laugh lne$
*Do you "ele%e n rratonal and !elf5defeatng nfatuaton at fr!t !ght.*
She'll laugh agan$ If !he !ay! ye!& then you !hould -o#ngly loo# hea%enward and !ay&
*Than# you& 9od$ Would you l#e to get a )up of )offee.* If !he !ay! no 2to the
nfatuaton ,ue!ton& not your )offee n%taton3& you !ay&
*9reat$ Then I'( not "eng rratonal f I a!# you to ha%e a )up of )offee 2or !o(e
fro;en yogurt& or whate%er ! near"y and )on%enent3$
Whate%er the re!pon!e& you want to try to n%te her to do !o(ethng wth you& n a
pu"l) pla)e& rght then and there$
If !he !ay! !he'd l#e to& "ut ! n a hurry to get !o(ewhere& a!# her out for that
e%enng& f t ! at all fea!"le$ Say !o(ethng l#e *I'd "e %ery flattered f you'd ha%e
dnner wth (e tonght$* +e dre)t& "ut )har(ng at the !a(e t(e& and don't "a)# down7
/our %ery dre)tne!! ! part of what (a#e! you appealng& and when you )o("ne t wth
)har(& a !(le& and the a"lty to (a#e her laugh& you are really gong to ht her hard$
And that "t a"out "eng *flattered$* Well& for !o(e rea!on I )an't fgure& that wor#! %ery
well$ Ma#e !ure you add that n$ It'! l#e you're !ayng that the n)e!t )o(pl(ent a"out
your!elf would "e to "e !een n pu"l) wth her$
Th! approa)h wll al!o wor# well n a !uper(ar#et$ It'! un,ue& dfferent& funny&
dre)t& and fun and ro(ant) for you and her$ I d!)o%ered another great !uper(ar#et p)#5
up totally "y a))dent$ I wa! !ufferng through another atta)# of hay5fe%er durng allergy
!ea!on& !o I went to the lo)al O!)o drug !tore to get !o(ethng for t$ A! I wa! wal#ng
along I !ped an n)red"le honey wearng %ery tght -ean! and an e,ually tght T5!hrt$ A!
I wal#ed "y her& I had to !nee;e& "ut the !nee;e wouldn't )o(e out& !o I pau!ed rght ne1t
to her a! I !truggled to !nee;e$ I not)ed her loo#ng at (e& and n!tantly (y
(agnf)ently !lea;y "ran phoned up a !)a($
Wth one fnger up to (y no!e& a! f I were a"out to !nee;e& I !ad to her&

*Do (e a fa%or$ <ound (e really hard on the "a)#$*
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She !ad& *Are you !ure.*
I !ad& */e!$*
She ga%e (e a good !lap& and I !ad& *Well& t ddn't help the !nee;e& "ut I thn# I -u!t
fell n lo%e$ What'! your na(e.*

Then I ht her wth the other lne! you'%e already !een$ Unfortunately& !he wa! (arred$
Oh well$ +ut I'%e u!ed the lne on other o))a!on! wth !u))e!!$ It'! a nu("er! ga(e& good
"uddy& a nu("er! ga(e$ +ut you'll fnd th! *!nee;e* lne wor#! well n -u!t a"out any
pu"l) *non5p)#5up* !ettng& !u)h a! the "ea)h& par#!& et)$ Try t& and you'll !ee t'!
nothng to !nee;e at$ 0a ha ha ha ha ha ha$ That'! what'! )alled an author'! rght to a"u!e
h! reader!$

0ow To A!# A Wo(an Out
When /ou're +oth In Front Of Other <eople
On)e I wa! n "ar"er !hop& gettng (y har )ut& and an n)red"ly !e1y lady wa!
watng her turn$ She wa! wearng a !#rt that wa! !o !hort that you )ould ea!ly !ee her
-u)y thgh!$ 0er leg! were !)rea(ng out to "e (ne& "ut what )ould I do. Although I
wa! "u!y )hattng wth her n front of the "ar"er and the other people watng ther turn& I
)ouldn't gra)ou!ly a!# her out rght there n front of e%eryone& )ould I.
I !tarted re%ewng (y other opton!$ I )ould hang around after (y har)ut& and wat
for her to fn!h& and then ht her a! !he wa! )o(ng out the door& "ut that would "e la(e&
and #nd of !)ary for her$
Well& I dd a lttle (ental e1er)!e that really help! (e when I'( !tu(ped for what to
!ay$ I (ade a p)ture n (y (nd of (y!elf& !ttng n the "ar"er )har$ Then I !aw p)ture
of (y!elf !tandng a few feet a away& wat)hng (e !ttng n the "ar"er )har$
So(ehow th! #nd of *(ental d!tan)ng* (y!elf fro( a !tuaton alway! help!$ Sure
enough& the rght word! )a(e to (nd$
I !ad to (y target& *Let'! !ee$ /ou're a #no)#5out n the loo#! depart(ent& you ha%e
the great ta!te to laugh at all (y -o#e!& and you're al!o %ery !weet$ And lfe ! !o unfar
that t'! got to "e the )a!e that you're ether (arred or ha%e a "oyfrend& or "oth$*
Th! got a laugh fro( e%eryone pre!ent& (o!t (portantly her$ *A)tually& I don't&* !he
!ad$
+y th! t(e& n!tead of "eng an e("arra!!(ent& t had turned nto great entertan(ent
for e%eryone pre!ent& and !he wa! en-oyng "eng the !tar of the !how$ /ou )ould ha%e
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)ut the !len)e n that pla)e wth the "ar"er'! !traght ra;or& a! e%eryone wated to !ee
what the out)o(e would "e$
*Than# you& 9od*& I !ad& loo#ng hea%enward& holdng (y hand! together n (o)#
prayer$ Another laugh fro( all a!!e("led$ Then I loo#ed at her& !(led& pau!ed& then !ad&
*I'd "e %ery flattered f you'd ha%e dnner wth (e tonght$* She !ad& *I'd lo%e to$* We !et
the t(e& and !he ga%e (e her addre!! on a pe)e of paper and t wa! one of the (o!t
en-oya"le and ro(ant) e%enng! I'd e%er had$ And her leg! felt a! good a! they loo#ed$
A La!t Dt)h Method That Wll Al(o!t Alway!
9et /ou A Date E%en After A Wo(an 0a! Sad *No* To 9ong Out Wth /ou
Th! (ethod wll wor# H t(e! out of CG and really #no)# a wo(an out$ /ou !hould
u!e t only after !he'! refu!ed your ntal offer for a date$ I'%e !een t (elt wo(en who
had no ntere!t n (e what!oe%er and ntally refu!ed to go out wth (e$

It wor#! l#e th!$ Fnd out when your watre!!& or !tore )ler#& or other wor#ng grl !
on !hft$ 9o to your lo)al flor!t and get a n)e "ou,uet of wldflower! and !u)h (ade up$
Don't go for a do;en red ro!e!: that ! way too hea%y$
Wrte on the )ard& *To 20er na(e3& fro( your !e)ret ad(rer$*
Then ha%e a "uddy del%er t on or "efore her !hft$ If you )an't get a "uddy to do t& try
to tal# a pa!!er"y nto dong t$ <eople u!ually en-oy helpng out when t ! a (atter of
lo%e$ Corny& an't t.

Wat a few day!& "efore you go for the pe)e de re!!tan)e$ 9o to your lo)al T5!hrt
!tore& and ha%e the( (a#e up a T5!hrt$ It !hould !ay& *I AM /OUR SECRET
ADMIRER$* <ut th! !hrt on under a "utton up !hrt or -a)#et& and then wal# n on your
honey pe'! !hft$ Walt; up to her& tap her on the !houlder& and open your !hrt or -a)#et$
Now& that wll (a#e an (pre!!on$ /ou were )le%er& dfferent& un,ue& and went to all
that trou"le -u!t for her$ 2Ne%er (nd that you only ha%e to pay for the !hrt on)e& "ut )an
u!e t o%er and o%er agan$ @u!t (a#e !ure t !tay! )lean& !o t doe!n't loo# u!ed 5 that wll
really "low t for you73 After !he get! through huggng you& or e%en #!!ng you& tell her
you'd l#e to !ee her& and you're wllng to go to !o(e effort to do t& and then !o(e$ Then
a!# her out$ If !he'! got any !(art! and heart at all& !he'll go for t$ Th! ! a great& fun
(ethod& and t really wor#! l#e a )har(7
+y the way& f you don't ha%e a lo)al T5!hrt !hop& and want to try th!& you )an order a
!hrt fro( (e$ Spe)fy S(all& Medu(& Large& or ?5tra large& and whether you want the
grl'! na(e put on the !hrt& !o that !he #now! for !ure you dd t !pe)ally for her& or
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whether you want the plan& *I AM /OUR SECRET ADMIRER* (e!!age$ It'! twenty
"u)#!& to the !a(e addre!! and !a(e na(e you !ent your orgnal pay(ent for th! "oo#$
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Chater Ten
SLAS0IN9 COME+AC6S FOR SLEAFOID SLUTS7

Wo(en are not alway! !weet and frendly& dyng to (eet you& and eager to fulfll your
e%ery de!re a! a (an$ At t(e! they )an "e downrght na!ty$
Who !ay! you ha%e to put up wth t& fella!. 0ere are !o(e w)#ed reple! to her "t)hy
putdown!& to let her #now -u!t who'! n )harge7
0ER8 I'M REALL/ NOT INTERESTED IN MEETIN9 /OU$
/OU8 One of the!e day! you are gong to !ee a (an a)ro!! a roo( and you're gong to
want to (eet h( "ut t'! not gong to happen "e)au!e he'! gong to ntut%ely p)# up on
your n)red"le )apa)ty for rude "eha%or$
Alternat%e One8
/OU8 Than# you for !howng (e how war( and fe(nne you are$
Alternat%e Two8
/OU8 /ou'%e got a lttle pe)e of !not hangng out your no!e$
Alternat%e Three8
/OU8 29a;ng at her upper lp3 9ee$ It'! a(a;ng what they )an do wth ele)troly!!
the!e day!$
Alternat%e Four8

/OU8 2pull out a ta(pon wh)h you !hould )arry for -u!t th! purpo!e3 0ere$ It'! gotta
"e that t(e of the (onth7
Alternat%e F%e8
/OU8 I'( a lonely per!on tryng to o%er)o(e (y !hyne!! and you'%e -u!t !la((ed (e
"a)# nto (y !hell for (onth!$ I hope you're happy$
Alternat%e S18
/OU8 Chll out& !#rt7
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Chater E)e%en

0OW TO USE T0E <ERSONALS
TO 9ET 0UNDREDS AND 0UNDREDS OF WOMEN TO DATE7
0ere'! how to u!e the per!onal! to get hundred! and hundred! of re!pon!e! fro( -u!t
ONE ad7 I got o%er FI4E 0UNDRED re!pon!e! the fr!t t(e I tred t 5 you (ght do
e%en "etter$
Fr!t& DON'T <LACE A <ERSONAL AD7 Now& I #now I !ee( l#e I'( )ontrad)tng
(y!elf here& "ut plea!e "ear wth (e& "e)au!e I'( not7 If you pla)e a per!onal ad -u!t l#e
e%ery other guy on the !ngle! page of your lo)al paper& you aren't gong to attra)t the
attenton that you need7 Re(e("er& ATTRACTIN9 ATTENTION IS T0E 6E/ TO
MEETIN9 WOMEN7
In!tead& pla)e a !(all )la!!fed ad on the !ngle! page of your lo)al paper or (aga;ne$
6eep t %ery !(ple and don't "other wth artwor# or fan)y tr((ng!$ The paper (ay do
the layout for you for a no(nal fee 5 f not& a graph) art!t )an do t$ If you really want to
go )heap& hre a art !tudent fro( your lo)al )ollege$
0ere'! how the ad !hould read8
WOMEN8 0ow To Fnd& Wn and 6eep the Lo%e of /our Lfe
In Thrty Day! or Le!!7
For a"!olutely free nfor(aton !end !elf5addre!!ed !ta(ped en%elope to8
2/OUR ADDRESS 9OES IN 0ERE& DUMM/73
/ou are half5way ho(e now$ In!tead of a few )ru((y re!pon!e! to a per!onal& you are
gong to get 0UNDREDS and 0UNDREDS of wo(en wrtng7 Run the ad two or three
t(e!& to )on%n)e the !#ept)!$
0ere'! the !e)ond !tep$ Wrte a one to two page letter that ! a per!onal ad for you&
de!)r"ng E?ACTL/ what you want and don't want n a wo(an$ Now of )our!e& I )an't
tell you what that !$ +ut I )an tell you how your letter !hould !tart$ Do t -u!t l#e th!8

*Dear Reader&
*I ha%e !o(e S0OC6IN9 new! for you$ /ou (ay "e -u!t DA/S away fro( (eetng
T0E LO4E OF /OUR LIFE$
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*I ha%e e%en MORE !ho)#ng new! for you$ /ou won't ha%e to !pend (ore than >G
)ent! to (eet h(& and t !houldn't ta#e (ore than TEN MINUTES of your t(e$*
I ha%e STILL MORE !ho)#ng new! for you$ E%en f th! !hould happen for you& I wll
!tll owe you a 9REAT& +I9& FAT A<OLO9/$
*Allow (e a (nute to e1plan$
*Th! ! NOT a pt)h for a '!elf5help' "oo#$ Th! ! NOT a pt)h for a 'datng !er%)e' or
one of tho!e d!gu!tng 'HMN' nu("er!$ It'! not e%en a pt)h for a !e(nar& an rre!!t"le
lo%e poton& or a p!y)h) a!trolog)al5pa!t lfe lo%e )hart$
*So -u!t what the he)# IS th! a pt)h for then.
*Eute !(ply& dear reader& th! ! a pt)h for ME7
*O6$ Allow (e ANOT0ER (nute to e1plan$
*My na(e ! 2your na(e3 and I'%e gone to the a"!urd e1tre(e of pullng a )ra;y !tunt
l#e th! "e)au!e I %ery (u)h want to (eet a 4ER/ S<ECIAL lady to lo%e and en-oy and
re!pe)t$ Who #now!. May"e /OU are her$
*I 6NOW you are out there& !o(ewhere$ +ut I'%e re)ently real;ed that I would ha%e to
do !o(ethng DRASTIC to get your attenton& whle weedng out all the CRAFIES&
LOSERS& and DUM5DUMS who are #eepng u! fro( (eetng ea)h other$
*I hope that la!t !enten)e doe!n't !ee( o%erly negat%e& "ut I thn# t'! a pretty a))urate
de!)rpton of the !ngle! !)ene& for "oth (en AND wo(en$*
+ut I dgre!! $$$$
O6& you get the pont$ Then go on to de!)r"e your good and "ad pont!& what you
DON'T want n a wo(an& and what you do want$ Fnally& a!# the( to !end a letter and a
re)ent full length photo$ If you l#e what you !ee& arrange for a (eetng$
That'! the SMART way to play the per!onal!$
/,
Chater T!e)%e
+IRDO99IN9 5
0ow To 9et A 9rl When She'! Wth Another 9uy
2Or When /ou're Wth Another 9rl3
/ou're at a party& and !o far the a)ton ! !low$ The )la!!e!t grl! there are the one!
who don't ha%e )oo#e )ru("! n ther (u!ta)he!$ /ou're !erou!ly )on!derng gong
ho(e and thu("ng through that u!ed )opy of Tt and +u($
And then$$$n !he wal#!$ A !tunnng ra%en hared "eauty& n tght re%ealng red dre!!&
her pert "rea!t! !tranng agan!t the thn& )lngng (ateral& npple! -uttng& poutng "low
-o" lp! parted e%er !o n%tngly$ +ut you not)e& to your )hagrn& that !he'! wth another
guy$
What wll you do. What wll you do...............
0ere'! two approa)he! for you to try8
A<<ROAC0 NUM+ER ONE8

A! you flt a"out the roo(& (a#e )a!ual eye )onta)t wth the grl$ Try to !ee fro( her
re!pon!e f !he'! ntere!ted$ If you )an't tell& MO4E IN AN/WA/$ Th! ! a !afe (ethod
5 he won't get a )han)e to pun)h you out$ Introdu)e your!elf& TO T0E 9U/$ +e a! n)e
and frendly a! you )an& and a"o%e all 6EE< +RIN9IN9 T0EM +OT0 DRIN6S$ The
na!ter he !hould get& the n)er you !hould "e$ Th! n)rea!e! your !tature n her eye!& and
de)rea!e! h!$ At !o(e pont& +ru!er +oy ! gong to ha%e to go pee$ That'! when you
(a#e your (o%e$ Don't dawdle& for t(e ! of the e!!en)e$ Mo%e n and pt)h for the
phone nu("er$ Then get out of there fa!t& "efore he )o(e! "a)#7 Ideally& your "rd5dog
pt)he! !hould "e the fnal one! of the e%enng a! you don't want to "e around f !he !nu"!
you and then de)de! to tell h($ There are !o(e !)#o wo(en who en-oy (a#ng ther
"oyfrend! angry and -ealou!$ Don't wat to !ee f !he'! one of the($

A<<ROAC0 NUM+ER TWO8
0ang out "y the +athroo($
Th! ! generally a good party approa)h anyway e%eryone ha! to go e%entually& and
you get a great )han)e to !ee what'! there n the roo($ Wat tll ether your drea(grl or
her "eau ha! to go& and poun)e then and there$ One thng you !hould #eep n (nd 5 -u!t
"e)au!e a grl ! wth a guy doe!n't (ean !he'! REALL/ wth the guy$ 0e )ould "e her
"rother& or )ou!n& or roo((ate$ If he'! really unlu)#y& he'! !o(eone wth who( !he'!
*-u!t frend!&* wh)h& "eng tran!lated fro( wo(ane!e (ean!& *he ta#e! (e e%erywhere
//
and pay! for e%erythng& "ut f he tre! to put a fnger on (e he'll ne%er !ee (e agan$*
+rutal& aren't they.
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Chater Th$rteen
9ETTIN9 T0E DATE
O6& let'! !ay you'%e (anaged to p)#5up a (ore than pa!!a"le "("o$ Where do you go
fro( there.
+a!)ally& there are two !)hool! of thought$ One !)hool !ugge!t! gettng her ho(e
phone nu("er& watng a few day! to a wee#& and then )allng her for a date$
The other ad%o)ate! tryng to get her to go out wth you rght then and there& the !ooner
the "etter$ If you )an't get a date wth her that e%enng& you (a#e a date for another t(e&
rght on the !pot$
I'%e had "oth (ethod! wor# for (e& and ther are )ertanly ad%antage! to ea)h$
<er!onally I prefer the on the !pot date (ethod$ 0ere'! why$
Lot! of grl! who ha%e nothng otherw!e planned wll go out wth you that nght f you
(a#e the pt)h e1)tng enough$ True& you'd pro"a"ly l#e to "e wth a wo(an who ha!
(ore ntere!t n you& "ut then agan we're gong to !how you te)hn,ue! to (a#e one of
the!e *got nothng "etter to do* grl! eager to !a)# wth you regardle!! of ther orgnal
ntenton!$
Al!o& there ! !o(ethng %ery e1)tng a"out gong out wth a !tranger that you -u!t
(et$ It'! an ar of *anythng )ould happen* that !trongly help! to alter a grl! (ood and
(a#e her !u!)ept"le to dong thng! !he nor(ally wouldn't$
+y way of )ontra!t f you get her ho(e nu("er& and wat !e%eral day! to )all& odd! are
that the le!! ntere!ted grl ! not gong to "e wllng to !,uee;e you n to her !)hedule$
And you'%e lo!t the orgnal e1)te(ent of (eetng a !tranger$ So t'! up to you$ If you l#e
the !ellng )hallenge& or -u!t the adrenalne ru!h of !pontaneou!ly (a#ng a date on the
!pot& do t$ If you prefer to fght "y a !et plan& go wth the phone nu("er route$
Ether way& the ne1t two )hapter! wll !how you the wnnng te)hn,ue! to pull t
off$$$$$
/1
Chater Fo#rteen
9ETTIN9 T0E <0ONE NUM+ER ROUTE
If you'%e e%er a!#ed a wo(an for her phone nu("er& you'%e pro"a"ly not)ed an
ntere!tng pheno(ena 5 %ery few of the( !ay *no* dre)tly$ In!tead& they !ay e%erythng
+UT *ye!$*
0a%e you e%er gotten the!e re!pon!e!.
*I'( !orry& I don't ha%e a phone$*
0ow do you )o((un)ate& )h)#. S(o#e !gnal!... *Why don't you g%e (e your
nu("er.*
Rght$ And a! !oon a! your "a)# ! turned& that )ard wth your nu("er on t wll "e
!hredded !o fa!t the CIA would en%y the )h)#'! a"lty to de!troy do)u(ent!$ DON'T
+U/ IT7 If a wo(an tre! th! !l)# tr)# on you& -u!t nod your head& !(le& and wal# off&
lea%ng her !e)ure n the #nowledge that !he (et a (an too !(art for her to "a("oo;le$
*Sure$ It'! >>>5CDCD$*
The old wrong nu("er ploy$ I)#y& aren't they.
My pont ! th! 5 f you get anythng "ut her ((edate po!t%e re!pon!e when you
a!# for her nu("er& you are n "g trou"le& partner$ 9%ng out the ho(e phone nu("er !
a (a-or !tep nto her pr%a)y& and !he u!ually an't a"out to do t unle!! !he dg! you on
SOME le%el$
What'! the "e!t way to a!# for the nu("er. Try to "e a! (atter of fa)t and
!traghtforward a! po!!"le$ *I'd l#e to ta#e you out !o(et(e& )an I ha%e your ho(e
phone nu("er.* wll do -u!t fne$ If you want to "e a lttle !l)#er& hand her a pen and a
)ard and !ay& *Mag) !e%en dgt!& plea!e$* That'! a "t (ore n%ent%e& and n%ent%ene!!
ne%er hurt!$
If you do get the nu("er& get lo!t a! !oon a! you )an$ There'! no pont hangng around
after you'%e )lo!ed the !ale$ Lea%e her wonderng a"out you and get the hell out of there
"efore you do or !ay !o(ethng to (a#e her )hange her (nd$
0ow long !hould you wat "efore you )all. That depend!$ If you !en!e her ntere!t n
you wa! pretty hgh& t'! !afe to wat > to M day!$ She'll "e wonderng what happened and
why you ha%en't )alled& and that wll (a#e you appear (ore C0ALLEN9IN9 and
therefore (ore attra)t%e n her eye!$
/2
If you !en!e !he wa!n't that ntere!ted& wat two day! and then )all$
Try to (u!ter up all the )heerfulne!! and fun you )an when you (a#e your )all to pt)h
the date$ /ou want to !ound )arefree& fun& and e1)ted a"out the a"!olute "la!t the two of
you are gong to ha%e together$ Tal# to her n the tone of %o)e you'd u!e for an old frend
who you en-oy "eng wth$

The #ey pont ! to a!# her out FOR A S<ECIFIC NI90T$ Don't !ay& *Would you l#e
to get together th! wee#.* or *What nght are you free.* That'! a wea# pt)h$ /ou want
to )o(e on !tronger than that$
Try *Let'! ha%e dnner Wedne!day nght& eght o')lo)#$ Then we )an go dan)ng$*
Then S0UT /OUR MOUT0 AND DO NOT SA/ A WORD77777
That "ref (o(ent of !len)e ! the a)d te!t$ If you hear a long he!taton "efore !he
an!wer!& or e1)u!e!& or anythng "ut& *Sure& I'd lo%e to&* you'%e got a pro"le( on your
hand!$
If a wo(an really doe! want to !ee you& "ut ha! !o(ethng to do on the nght you'%e
a!#ed her to "e wth you& and -u!t )an't )an)el tho!e plan!& what wll her re!pon!e "e.
S0E'LL MA6E A COUNTER5OFFER$ So(ethng on the lne! of& *I )an't Wedne!day&
"ut how a"out Thur!day at K o')lo)#.*
Don't )onfu!e a )ounter5offer wth an *I'( "u!y& "ut how a"out another t(e.* That'! a
!tone )old RE@ECTION$ If !he really wanted to go out wth you another t(e& !he'd tell
you when that t(e !$ Ta#e t fro( !o(eone who u!ed to fall for th! one all the t(e 5 t
wll do nothng "ut generate u!ele!!& t(e5wa!tng w!hful thn#ng on your part$ Ether
you get the date& or a !pe)f) )ounter5offer& or you FOR9ET IT7
One fnal warnng here& "e)au!e wo(en are e%en tr)#er than you )an (agne$ Often
t(e! you'll (a#e your pt)h for a !pe)f) nght to go out: !ay a Wedne!day$ And you'll
hear& *That'! !ound! l#e fun$ Sure I'll go$*
Then& thro""ng wth the thrll of %)tory& a! you are a"out to hang up you hear& *Oh$
Could you do (e a fa%or. Could you )all "a)# Wedne!day a"out N p( to )onfr(.* Or
you (ght hear& *Call (e Wedne!day around N p( and I'll g%e you (y addre!!$*

DON'T 9ET SUC6ERED +/ T0IS TRIC67 /ou ha%en't got a date n th! n!tan)e&
you ha%e an opton for a date& wh)h ! a"out a! %alua"le a! an IOU fro( one of (y
ga("lng "udde! who l%e at the ra)e tra)#$ The )h)# ! watng to hear fro( the guy
!he'! REALL/ ntere!ted n& and f he'! not a%ala"le& then you (ay get the date$
If a grl tre! to pull th! on you& !ay !o(ethng l#e& *I don't thn# that'! a good dea$
We'll try another t(e when your !)hedule ! loo!er$*
/3
That wll put her n her pla)e n)ely$ /ou'%e !hown her that you )an't "e !u)#ered and
!he )an't )all the !hot! al(o!t )ertanly an unl#ely and unu!ual o))urren)e$ That wll
defntely get her attenton$
Wat a wee# and )all her "a)#$ Chan)e! are !he'll a))ept the date wthout the *)all and
)onfr(* "ull!ht$ If !he doe!n't& then TOSS 0ER NUM+ER AWA/ and (o%e on to the
ne1t ad%enture$ She'! -u!t out to wa!te your t(e anyway$
On)e you'%e (ade your date wth your lady& get off the phone7 Agan& you (ght "low
t f you !tay on and -a""er& and you want to #eep her wonderng a"out you$ Do your
tal#ng on the date7 If you ht t off on the phone& where doe! that lea%e you. /ou )an't
get lad o%er a phone wre& whate%er the HMN nu("er! would ha%e you "ele%e7 Sa%e t for
the date$
Fnally& nowaday! al(o!t e%eryone ha! one of tho!e da(n phone an!werng (a)hne!7
DO NOT LEA4E A MESSA9E ON ONE OF T0ESE +EFORE /OU'4E 0AD A
DATE WIT0 A WOMAN$ U!ng a phone (a)hne a! a "uffer "etween you and the lady
! wea#& ant5)hallenge& and put! the "all n her )ourt& a! you ether ha%e to wat for her to
)all you "a)# or alternat%ely& loo# (patent and de!perate "y )allng her to !ee f !he got
your (e!!age$ A4OID T0IS <0ONE +LUNDER LI6E T0E <LA9UE7
+ASIC <0ONE <ITC0IN9 RULES8
DO TR/ TO USE A 0A<</& CAREFREE& EA9ER TO 0A4E ALL T0IS FUN
TO9ET0ER TONE OF 4OICE$
AS6 0ER OUT FOR A S<ECIFIC NI90T$
DON'T FALL FOR *O<TION DATES$*
0AN9 U< AS SOON AS /OU <OLITEL/ CAN& ONCE /OU'4E MADE T0E
DATE$
DO NOT UNDER AN/& AN/& AN/& AN/ CIRCUMSTANCES W0ATSOE4ER
LEA4E A MESSA9E WIT0 0ER ANSWERIN9 MAC0INE OR A ROOMMATE
EIT0ER FOR T0AT MATTER$ T0E FIRST TIME /OU TAL6 TO 0ER <ERSON TO
<ERSON IS T0E FIRST TIME /OU'4E E4ER CALLED& AS FAR AS S0E S0OULD
6NOW$
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Chater F$"teen
MA6IN9 T0E DATE ON T0E S<OT
Th! ! the (ethod I thn# ! the "e!t$ There'! !o(ethng e1)tng and !pontaneou!
a"out t that you -u!t )an't get u!ng the phone nu("er (ethod$
The thng to #eep n (nd here ! to try to appear )a!ual$ /ou don't want t to loo# l#e
you are dyng to ru!h her "a)# to your pla)e and rp her pante! off$
The "e!t llu!traton of th! (ethod wa! g%en to (e re)ently "y a frend of (ne& @($
0ere'! the !tory he told (e8
*Our regular !e)retary at wor# wa! gong to "e gone for a few day!& !o we wanted to
hre !o(eone te(porary& -u!t to an!wer phone!$ So(eone wa! !)heduled to )o(e "y that
afternoon& and the "o!! wa! gong to "e out of the off)e$ 0e told (e f I l#ed her& I )ould
go ahead and hre her$
*She wa! a )ute lttle "londe na(ed Megan$ She )a(e n a"out O8=G n the afternoon$
We tal#ed for a whle& and I told her !he had the -o"$ Then I n%ted her to go ne1t door
for )offee$
*Well& we tal#ed for a"out an hour and then I a!#ed her f !he wanted to ha%e dnner$
We dd& and that turned nto a (o%e$ And fro( there we went "a)# to (y pla)e and dd
all !ort! of wonderfully o"!)ene thng! to ea)h other for !e%eral hour!$*
0ere'! the (an pont8 Try to !teer the grl you'%e -u!t (et nto a dfferent en%ron(ent$
Don't (a#e t ela"orate anywhere near"y wll do$ The )orner /ogurt !tand for !o(e
fro;en fer(ented )ow -u)e: the lo)al p;;a parlor& e%en a "owlng alley$ /ou want a
)han)e to !et her down and u!e the (ood alterng hypnot) te)hn,ue! we're gong to "e
!howng you$
Whate%er you do& don't n%te her "a)# to your pla)e rght away& or do anythng that
(ght !)are her off$ Ma#e t !ee( l#e you -u!t want to !pend ffteen (nute! tal#ng n a
pu"l) pla)e$ Wth what we are gong to !how you& that'! all you are gong to need$
/5
Chater S$'teen
0OW TO 0ANDLE C0IC6S W0O TR/ TO CANCEL DATES
<erhap! the (o!t !erou! offen!e a )h)# )an )o((t ! to )an)el a date$ I'%e heard all
!ort! of hlarou! e1)u!e!& and nne t(e! out of ten they are -u!t that$
+ut !o what. Wth the proper a(ount of )oer)on and p!y)holog)al pre!!ure& you )an
get her to go out wth you anyway$ Then you )an u!e one of the ,u)#5layBhypno!! tr)#!
we'll !how you !o you )an !tll wnd up !)rewng her$ 0ow dare !he try to wa!te the t(e
of a (a!ter of 9uerlla 9et Lad ta)t)!. A! +at(an would !ay& *<oor deluded grl7*
It'! really ,ute !(ple$ When !he )all! to )an)el wth her !lly e1)u!e& you -u!t do th!8
0ER8 Oh& I'( !orry& "ut I )an't (a#e t tonght$ I ha%e to ta#e (y frend to the arport
2Or8 *I'( -u!t not feelng well&* or whate%er le !he tell! you3$
/OU8 So what you're !ayng !& you'd l#e to go& "ut due to a )r)u(!tan)e you )an't
)ontrol and weren't e1pe)tng& you won't "e a"le to.
0ER8 /eah$ That'! rght$ 2She'! got to ad(t th!5 !he )an't )o(e rght out and !ay !he
-u!t !n't ntere!ted$ That (ght ta#e a lttle gut!$ 3

/OU8 2Clo!ng n for the #ll3 Well& !n)e you !ad you'd l#e to go& what arrange(ent!
would you l#e to (a#e to do that rght now.
Then& you !hut up$ /ou ha%e the !lly )h)#$ She'! "a)#ed nto a )orner& and wll ha%e
to na(e a day& or el!e r!# "eng re%ealed a! the lar !he truly !$

/our other opton ! to "low the )h)# off& "ut (a#e t a! e("arra!!ng and
un)o(forta"le for her a! ! hu(anly po!!"le$
0ere ! a great way to (a#e her feel a"!olutely awful8
0ER8 Oh& I )an't (a#e our date "e)au!e (y parrot ! ha%ng an e1!tental )r!! and I
want to !ee h( through t$
/OU8 0(($ /ou #now& I'( !ttng here& wth the phone n (y hand& l!tenng to you
!pea#& and I real;e I !tll don't under!tand what'! gong on$ And I al!o real;e I )an a))ept
hearng the full and )o(plete truth fro( you$ So& why don't you tell (e agan what'!
gong on$
06
It'! %ery (portant that you !ay that la!t !enten)e wth the rght nfle)ton and tonalty$
/ou're (plyng a part of the !enten)e wh)h !n't a)tually !ad wh)h !& *$$$and th! t(e
tell (e the truth$*
+ele%e t or el!e& "ut nne t(e! out of ten& the )h)# a)tually wll fe!! up and ad(t
her de)epton$ That'! when you poun)e on her7
/OU8 So& how doe! t feel to #now that you're afrad to ta#e re!pon!"lty for your
own de)!on! and ha%e to re!ort to lyng a"out the(.
Oh& the -oy of "attle& (y "rother!7 Flu!hng a )h)# down the tolet of hu(laton !
al(o!t a! great a #)# a! !)orng7

Now& on)e n a whle& a )h)# wll )an)el& "ut when !he doe! !he'll (a#e a )ounter5
offer to go out agan another t(e$ Th! at lea!t ! "etter than a !traght )an)ellaton
wthout !u)h an offer& "ut I'd !trongly ad%!e agan!t a))eptng$ She )ould "e -u!t
throwng you a "one to (a#e you feel "etter& "ut e%en f !he !n't& your a))eptng her offer
of dong t another t(e (a#e! you loo# too ea!ly a%ala"le and re(o%e! the ele(ent of
your "eng a )hallenge to her$ Th! wll (a#e you loo# (u)h le!! appealng n her eye!$
0ere'! the rght way to handle th!$ Let'! !ay you ha%e a date for Saturday& and !he )all!
you Frday e%enng$
0ER8 I'( !orry& "ut I really )an't (a#e t Saturday$ I'%e got frend! )o(ng n fro( out
of town$ +ut I really do want to !ee you$ Can we go out Sunday n!tead.
/OU8 No& I ha%e plan! for Sunday 2e%en f you don't and you are dyng to "e wth her
5 "te the "ullet and refu!e73$
At th! pont you ha%e two opton!8

Opton One
/OU8 Why don't we try another t(e when your !)hedule ! a lttle loo!er.

Then poltely !ay good"ye& and hang5up$ Wat D wee#!& then )all and a!# her out for a
!pe)f) nght$ If !he doe!n't a))ept or (a#e a !pe)f) )ounter5offer& to!! the nu("er and
(o%e on$

Opton Two
01
/OU8 Well& I'll tell you& th! ! -u!t the way t ! for (e$ It'! -u!t the way I do thng!$
When I (a#e a date& and !o(eone )an)el!& I lea%e t up to the( to (a#e the ne1t date$ So&
f you want to go out& I'( ntere!ted$ Call (e& and I'll !ay ye!$

<er!onally& I prefer th! opton$ It'! not a! down and drty a! the fr!t one& "ut t !
effe)t%e nonethele!!$ +y puttng the "all "a)# n her )ourt& you don't ha%e to !pend the
two wee#! "efore you )all& wonderng f !he'! really ntere!ted 2you !houldn't "e
wonderng th!& "ut t'! hard to ha%e that #nd of d!)plne& and I'( a !u)#er for !tuaton!
that I )an't ,ute fgure out3$ /ou )an -u!t !afely a!!u(e !he !n't ntere!ted& forget a"out
her& and lea%e t up to her to plea!antly !urpr!e you$ And you al!o pre!er%e the ele(ent of
"eng a )hallenge& )on%eyng the all (portant (e!!age I DON'T NEED /OU& /OU
NEED ME$
O6$ Now you're ready for the ult(ate !e)ret!$ In the ne1t )hapter! we're gong to "e
!howng you how& -u!t "y tal#ng to a wo(an& you )an get her !o da(ned turned on
durng the date that !he'll "e t)hng to !)rew you$ 0ang on to your hat!& gentle(en$
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Chater Se%enteen
DECIDIN9 /OUR A<<ROAC0
The ne1t few )hapter! wll e(pha!;e ,u)#5lay !tratege!8 0ow To S)ore on the Fr!t
Date or e%en !ooner than that7
0owe%er& you (ay de)de that you want !o(ethng (ore than ,u)#& hot !e1 wth a
grl$ If you want a relaton!hp wth a lady& I re)o((end that you don't u!e the te)hn,ue!
n the ne1t few )hapter!$
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Chater E$(hteen
0OW TO USE 0/<NOSIS
TO 9ET /OUR DATE INTO T0E SAC6
What you are a"out to read (ay !tret)h your a"lty to "ele%e to the "rea#ng pont$ I
don't "la(e you for ha%ng that rea)ton at all$
All I )an tell you ! that th! !tuff wor#!5t wor#! !o well that t !)are! (e at t(e!$ My
only )o(fort ! #nowng that a! you "e)o(e (ore and (ore !u))e!!ful and powerful wth
wo(en& you lo!e the de!re to a"u!e the power$ Su))e!! (a#e! you want to go a lttle "t
ea!y on the poor defen!ele!! )reature!$
What I a( a"out to !how you wll allow you to )reate %ery powerful feelng! of "eng
turned on and e1)ted n al(o!t any wo(an you )an !pend t(e wth$ /ou don't ha%e to
rely on lu)#& or that !pe)al *)he(!try* or *!par#$* Th! )hapter wll !how you how to
)reate that n a"out ten (nute! t(e& wth al(o!t any wo(an you want& n al(o!t any
)r)u(!tan)e!$ In!tead of date! that end up wth a polte pe)# on the )hee#& you'll end up
ta#ng t a! far a! you want to go& regardle!! of how the wo(an felt a"out you "efore you
u!ed the!e te)hn,ue! on her$
One la!t )auton "efore I lay out th! te)hnology$ In !o(e !tate!& rape ! defned a!
*nter)our!e of a wo(an& "y a (an& "y for)e& threat of for)e& or OT0ERWISE
WIT0OUT CONSENT$* In !o(e !tate!& f you get a date drun#& and fu)# her when !he'!
pa!!ed out& you )ould fnd your !elf fa)ng a rape rap$
L#ew!e for hypno!!$ I a( not an attorney& and a( not gong to g%e you legal ad%)e&
"ut I warn you here and now of the po!!"le )on!e,uen)e! and a( not a"out to "e held
re!pon!"le f you get !lapped wth )harge!$ /OU USE T0ESE MET0ODS AT /OUR
OWN RIS6$ 2And I wouldn't ha%e to g%e th! d!)la(erBwarnng f the!e (ethod! ddn't
wor# a! well a! they do$3
0OW IT ALL WOR6S8
CO4ERT 0/<NOSIS AND T0E STRUCTURE OF SEDUCTION
Th! (ethod wor#! "e)au!e t "ypa!!e! all of a wo(an'! )on!)ou! re!!tan)e to
!)rewng you$ It doe!n't (atter what that )on!)ou! re!!tan)e ! "a!ed on$ May"e you are
not her type and !he T0IN6S !he need! a )ertan LOO6 n a guy to turn her on$ May"e
!he want! you "ut ! afrad of loo#ng )heap f !he )o(e! a)ro!! too fa!t$ May"e !he'! -u!t
re)ently "een "urned "y a guy and !n't eager to ha%e t happen agan$

It DOESN'T (atter why& "e)au!e fro( now on you wll "e a"le to get pa!t all of that
"y "ypa!!ng her CONSCIOUS (nd and gettng rght to her UNCONSCIOUS$ If th!
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!ound! l#e "ull& plea!e !t)# wth (e for -u!t a few (ore page!& "e)au!e what you are
a"out to !ee ! a MA9IC #ey for gettng lad wth !tartlng fre,uen)y$
SCORIN9 TEC0NIEUE NUM+ER ONE8
STAC6IN9 REALITIES
Let (e tell you a !tory a"out (y "uddy& R)#$ R)# told (e a"out th! e1peren)e he
had whene%er he read a "oo#$ A! he wa! readng along& he )ould "egn to "e aware of
)ertan thng!$ A! he read& he )ould !uddenly "e aware of the un,ue dar#ne!! and !hape
of the letter!$ And a! he "e)a(e aware of that& he )ould al!o !ee the )ontra!tng whtene!!
of the page$ And he )ould al!o "e aware of the !(oothne!! of the paper$ And a! he
"e)a(e aware of that& he )ould al!o feel the r!e and fall of h! )he!t a! he "reathed& and
the !lghte!t lttle noddng& lttle noddng of h! head$ And a! h! eye! "egan to )lo!e $$$$
Now& what -u!t happened a! you were readng that. E%en though I'( not !tandng o%er
your !houlder a! you read th!& I'll "et (y +at(an )o() "oo# )olle)ton& that you !tarted
to not)e the thng! I wa! tal#ng a"out$ /ou not)ed the dar#ne!! of the letter!& the
"rghtne!! of the page& and the !(oothne!! of the paper$ And you not)ed your "reathng
and your eye! !tarted to )lo!e$
0ere'! the pont8 The only way to under!tand !o(ethng you are hearng or readng& !
"y ha%ng a lttle "t of the e1peren)e your!elf$ Naturally& and wthout any re!!tan)e& you
"egan to e1peren)e what I wanted you to& "e)au!e you had to do !o n order to (a#e
!en!e out of (y word!$
+ut not)e !o(ethng el!e of CRITICAL IM<ORTANCE$ I ddn't !ugge!t that you
e1peren)e the!e thng!& or warn you n ad%an)e& or g%e you a dre)t )o((and$ That
would ha%e )au!ed ((en!e re!!tan)e on your part$ In!tead& I pre!ented t to you a! part
of a !tory$ I told you a"out an e1peren)e SOMEONE ELSE 0AD& AND T0E ONL/
WA/ FOR /OU TO UNDERSTAND T0AT WAS TO 0A4E T0E E?<ERIENCE
FOR /OURSELF$
Th! ! the !a(e pattern and te)hn,ue that you )an u!e to put a wo(an nto an altered
!tate and get her to feel and do -u!t a"out whate%er you'd l#e her to$ /ou !tart "y tellng
her a !tory a"out !o(eone el!e& and that !tory de!)r"e! an e1peren)e that n%ol%e! the
feelng! and a)ton! you want 0ER to ta#e$ It !ound! too !(ple and too good to "e true&
"ut t WOR6S7 And the (ore you pra)t)e the "etter you get$
Let'! do a !a(ple of th!& to let you !ee -u!t e1a)tly how to u!e th! te)hn,ue that !he'll
"e una"le to re!!t$ /ou (ay want to wat tll later n the e%enng& when you are alone n
your apart(ent$
E%en though t u!ually only ta#e! f%e (nute! or !o& you !tll don't want to run the r!#
of "eng nterrupted$
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After the u!ual !(all tal#& here'! how t would go8
/OU8 0ey& dd I tell you yet a"out (y frend& M#e.
0ER8 No$ What a"out h(.
/OU8 Well& th! ! ntere!tng$ I re(e("er one t(e M#e told (e th! !tory$ /ou !ee&
he had th! frend$ And th! frend not)ed !o(ethng unu!ual when !he'd l!ten to
!o(eone tal#$ L#e for e1a(ple !he )ould "e)o(e aware of the !ound of h! %o)e $$$$ and
a! !he heard the !ound of h! %o)e& !he )ould al!o hear the other !ound! of people n the
roo( $$$$ and !he )ould "e)o(e aware $$$$ of the r!ng and fallng of her )he!t $$$$ and the
!lght noddng of her head a! !he l!tened $$$$ and the deep& deep r)hne!! of h! %o)e $$$$
and a! !he "e)a(e aware $$$$ of all the!e thng! $$$$ the pre!!ure of her hand a! t re!ted on
the ta"le $$$$ and the outlne of h! fa)e a! !he wat)hed h( !pea# $$$$ her attenton would
"e)o(e r%eted $$$$ on a %ery un,ue detal of h! fa)e $$$$ whate%er t (ght "e that !ee(ed
to )apture her attenton $$$$ !o that a! !he fo)u!ed (ore and (ore on th! part of h!
fa)e$$!he "e)a(e (ore and (ore fa!)nated "y what he had to !ay $$$$ (ore and (ore
)apt%ated and totally enraptured "y th! e1peren)e of h( that !he wa! ha%ng $$$$ and a!
!he allowed her!elf to real;e the!e thng! $$$$ !he )ould al!o feel a deep longng wthn
her!elf for h( $$$$ to feel h! tou)h $$$$ h! gentle tou)h a)ro!! her fa)e$ 2Rea)h and gently
!tro#e her wth the "a)# of your hand3 $$$$ and a! !he felt th! tou)h and her eye! )lo!ed
wth the plea!ure of t $$$$ her "reathng "egan to deepen& and her heart "egan to pound $$$$
to pound $$$$ wth the r)h $$$$ deep war(th of h! %o)e$$$the r)h& deep war(th that "egan
to !pread $$$$ "egan to pound through her )he!t $$$$ and through her "elly $$$$ and deep
through her thgh! $$$$ a! the war(th and the wetne!! and the deep r)h poundng of her
(o!t "urnng fe(ale pla)e $$$$ the poundng "urnng pla)e $$$$ that longed to "e flled&
a)hed to "e flled $$$$ flled wth h! thro""ng ro)#5hard (anne!! $$$$ and a! !he felt the!e
thng! $$$$ deeper and deeper and e%en (ore nten!ely $$$$ the feelng of h! hand a! t
tou)hed her thgh$$$ let her #now that !he would open her!elf to th! (an )o(pletely
$$$g%e her!elf to h( $$$$ at the t(e he )ho!e to ta#e her $$$$
Now $$$$ I guarantee that T0AT WILL 9ET you lad $$$$ f !he doe!n't rape you rght
there $$$$ -u!t (a#e !ure you repeat that !a(e tou)h you ga%e her on the thgh& later on n
the e%enng$

In hypno!! ter(!& th! ! #nown a! an an)hor$ +a!)ally& all that (ean! ! that when a
per!on ha! an e1peren)e& anythng that ! a!!o)ated or ln#ed wth that e1peren)e wll
)au!e the per!on to re)all the entre e1peren)e$ It'! what <a%lo% dd to h! dog! 5 "y
a!!o)atng the rngng of a "ell wth the !tate of hunger and droolng& he )ould !et of that
!tate "y !(ply rngng the "ell at any t(e thereafter$ In th! )a!e& you are al!o rngng
!o(eone'! "ell& "ut hopefully !he wll NOT +E A DO9777
/ou'll ha%e to de)de when to u!e th! approa)h$ /ou )an try t n the re!taurant or wat
untl after when !he'! n your apart(ent$ It depend! on how darng you want to get$
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FIRST DATE SCREW TEC0NIEUE TWO8
ANC0ORIN9
We (entoned an)horng a"o%e& "refly& and here'! another way to u!e t to get lad on
the fr!t date$

The fr!t !tep to (a#ng th! wor# ! to fnd out your date'! preferred repre!entatonal
!y!te($ 2FOR A DETAILED 9UIDE TO DOIN9 T0IS& SEE A<<ENDI? TWO AT
T0E END OF T0IS +OO6$3 /ou fnd th! out "y a!#ng her to re)all her la!t %a)aton
and ha%e her de!)r"e n her own word!& what !he l#ed "e!t$ If !he !ay! !he en-oyed the
feelng of layng out n the !un& and !w((ng n the war( wa%e!& you'%e got a
#ne!thet) per!on$ If !he !ay! !he l#ed the !ound of the poundng !urf& and the ,uet
nght!& !he'! audtory$ If !he u!e! %!ual ter(!& !he'! %!ual$
Ne1t& a!# f !he )an re(e("er the (o!t e1)tng e1peren)e !he'! had re)ently$ When
you !ay the word *e1)tng* drop your %o)e a "t& and g%e t an erot) )onnotaton$ Nne
out of ten t(e! a wo(an wll re)all an erot) e1peren)e$
When !he an!wer! ye!& a!# her to )lo!e her eye! a (nute$ Then& dependng on what
her preferred !y!te( !& a!# her to re(e("er& what !he !aw& what !he heard& and how t
felt n her "ody$ A! !he e1peren)e! th!& you'll not)e thng! !tart to )hange$ 0er fa)e wll
flu!h& her "reathng wll get hea%y& her lower lp wll get larger& and !he wll a)tually re5
e1peren)e n her "ody all tho!e lo%ely erot) feelng! !he had when !he fr!t went through
the e1peren)e$
A! !he'! dong th!& tell her that when tho!e feelng! n her "ody rea)h ther pea#& !he
!hould wggle her pn# fnger$ When !he wggle! t& rea)h o%er and g%e her rght wr!t a
!,uee;e& and at the !a(e t(e& !ay& *9ood$* Run her through th! a two (ore t(e!$
Then ha%e her )lear her (nd& and )lo!e her eye!$ Rea)h o%er& !,uee;e her wr!t& and
!ay good$ If you'%e done t rght& !he'll go rght "a)# nto the erot) !tate !he wa! n
"efore$
Now& tea!e her wth t$ 9o "a)# to nor(al )on%er!aton& then a (nute later& rea)h o%er
and trgger the an)hor agan$ Loo# nto her eye!& and !(le at her a! your do t& "ut th!
t(e& don't let go of her wr!t$ 6eep !,uee;ng& #eepng her n the erot) !tate untl you
!top$
/ou now ha%e a weapon you )an u!e any t(e durng the re!t of the e%enng7
Later n the e%enng& when your get her "a)# at your pla)e& tea!e her a "t$ Don't (a#e
a pa!! for a long t(e& -u!t !(le #nowngly$ If !he (a#e! a )o((ent you thn# !
ntere!tng& rea)h o%er& !,uee;e the wr!t& and !ay *good$*
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When !he goe! nto the erot) !tate agan& #eep one hand on the wr!t !,uee;ng& then
atta)# wth the free hand and your (outh$
<ra)t)e an)horng$ /ou'll get "etter at t and t doe! ta#e !o(e pra)t)e5we !houldn't
#d our!el%e! a"out that$ +ut !ht 5 t wor#! n)ely7
What'! great a"out th! te)hn,ue and the pre%ou! te)hn,ue of !ta)#ng realte! !
you often don't ha%e to go on a for(al date$ /ou )an ta#e a grl you -u!t (et for an
nno)ent )up of )offee and get her ready to fu)# you n ffteen (nute! t(e$ Why wa!te
t(e gong out when you )ould "e gong n.
FIRST DATE SCREW TEC0NIEUE T0REE8
SENSOR/ O4ERLA<
Agan to (a#e th! wor#& you ha%e to fnd out the lady'! preferred !y!te($
On)e you do that& you !tart tal#ng to her a"out the "ea)h$ /ou !tart "y a!#ng her to
re)all !o(ethng fro( her preferred !y!te( a"out the "ea)h$
Let'! !ay you are tal#ng to a wo(an who'! preferred !y!te( ! audtory$ 0ere'! how
you'd do t8
/OU8 0ey& let'! try an (agnaton e1per(ent$ Clo!e your eye! for a !e)ond$ Let'!
ta#e an (agnary trp to the "ea)h$ /ou're at the "ea)h$ And you )an hear the !ound of
the wnd a! t "low!& and the !ound of the wa%e! $$$$ and the !ound of a gull& )ryng
o%erhead $$$$ and a! you hear the !ound of the wa%e! $$$$ 2!wt)h to %!ual !y!te(3 you )an
al!o !ee a wa%e a! t (o%e! toward the !hore $$$$ you )an !ee the !unlght glntng off the
wa%e& and !o(e of the whte !pray that'! "eng "lown off "y the wnd $$$$ and a! you !ee
that !pray $$$$ you )an al!o feel t gently tou)h your fa)e now $$$$ and a! you feel the !pray
on your fa)e $$$$ and the r!e and fall of your )he!t a! you "reath $$$$ and the gentle war(th
of the !un on your fa)e $$$$ you )an "egn to feel a deep and )o(fort and war(th $$$$ and a
feelng of "eng totally at ea!e$
20ere'! where you get her$ /ou'%e already hypnot;ed her& "e)au!e when you !wt)h
people fro( ther preferred !y!te( to a !y!te( that ! nor(ally not n ther )on!)ou!
awarene!!& they enter an altered !tate$3
$$$$ and that feelng of ea!e and war(th& "egn! to !pread through your "ody $$$$ wth
ea)h "reath you ta#e $$$$ the r!e and fall of your )he!t $$$$ allow! a glowng r)h war(th to
!pread throughout your "ody $$$$ a war(th that feel! !o %ery good $$$$ !o good $$$$ l#e
war( and gentle hand! $$$$ (a!!agng throughout your "ody $$$$
2Fro( here you lead her n the !a(e (anner a! the fr!t !ta)#ng realte! te)hn,ue$3
MORE <OWER CLOSES FOR 9ETTIN9 /OU LAID
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I want to e(pha!;e agan the (portant !uper5rule you !hould (a#e part of you$ I
want you to eat& !leep& "reathe and !ht th! rule8
I MA6E NO E?CUSES FOR M/ DESIRES AS A MAN
Th! rule ! (portant n e%ery a!pe)t of dealng wth a wo(an& "ut no where (ore !o
than when you (a#e that fr!t !erou! pa!!$
If you aren't gong to u!e the hypnot) te)hn,ue! (entoned n the pre%ou! )hapter!&
then I !ugge!t you u!e one or "oth of the followng power )lo!e!$
<OWER CLOSE ONE8
TA6IN9 W0AT +ELON9S TO /OU CLOSE
What doe! the a%erage guy do when a wo(an n%te! h( nto her apart(ent for a )up
of )offee.
I'll tell you what he doe!$ 0e (a#e! !(all tal# whle the )offee ! "rewng& all the
whle !weatng and ner%ou! a"out when he'! gong to (a#e h! pa!!$
Then& when !he !er%e! the )offee& he drn#! t ner%ou!ly& wonderng when he !hould
(a#e a (o%e$ May"e they !t down on the )ou)h& and he wonder! when he !hould !t
)lo!er$
T(e wear! on$ Nothng ha! happened& and he'! gettng (ore and (ore out of )ontrol$
May"e he !pll! h! drn# or ha! to #eep gong to the "athroo($
<erhap! he de)de! he "etter do !o(ethng& !o he (o%e! a lttle )lo!er and #nd of
apologet)ally put! an ar( around her$ 0e !tart! to !lowly fnger her har& watng to !ee
her re!pon!e$
The fr!t power )lo!e )ut! through all that non!en!e 0ere'! how t wor#!$
She n%te! you n for )offee$ /ou let her !lde whle the )offee ! "rewng$ Th! ! her
!afe t(e5the la!t few (nute! !he'll E4ER "e !afe around you agan$ /ou )an )hu)#le to
your!elf a! you loo# at her and real;e that$
The )offee ! ready and !he pour! t for "oth of you$ After !he ta#e! the fr!t !p& don't
!ay anythng$ @u!t !uddenly !top tal#ng and loo# at her nten!ely& wth -u!t the !lghte!t
hnt of a !(le$
At th! pont !he'll not)e& and pro"a"ly a!#& what ! t$ /ou CALML/& SLOWL/&
AND DELI+ERATEL/& put your )up down& rea)h o%er& ta#e her! out of her hand& and
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put t down$ Loo# at her for a !e)ond& ta#e her fa)e n her hand!& and #!! her
pa!!onately$
Th! #nd of a)ton ! !endng a wo(an a <OWERFUL (e!!age a"out the #nd of (an
you are$ /ou are n effe)t !ayng& WIT0OUT WORDS& *Let'! !#p the )rap "a"y$ I want
you& 0ERE& NOW& AND I'M NOT MA6IN9 AN/ E?CUSES FOR IT$*
Th! ! (y fa%orte& non5hypnot) )lo!e& although I )an't entrely )all t that& "e)au!e
wo(en !ee( to go nto a tran)e wth the !low& del"erate& "ut une1pe)ted (o%e(ent! you
(a#e$
A #ey to (a#ng th! pt)h wor# ! SA/IN9 NOT0IN97 If you tal#& you'%e runed t7
Al!o& your (o%e(ent! (u!t "e !low& and del"erate& not hurred and ru!hed& l#e you are
afrad !he'! gong to !top you$

<OWER CLOSE NUM+ER TWO8
T0E TEASE
Wth th! )lo!e& you operate a! f you a"!olutely #new the grl wanted to de!perately
!leep wth you& "ut you are deter(ned to hold out tll the la!t po!!"le (nute and to
en-oy tea!ng her all e%enng$
Wth th! approa)h& you lean nto her a! you tal# a! f you are a"out to #!! her$ Then
you MO4E AWA/$ 9et up and f1 your!elf a drn#& or go to the "athroo($ When you
play wth her (nd l#e th!& !he won't #now what to thn#$ And when you put her n that
!tate of (nd& !he'! (u)h (ore pla"le and le!! l#ely to re!!t you$
A good ta)t) ! to wat untl !he !ay! !o(ethng funny& and then rea)h o%er and "ru!h
the !de of her fa)e wth the OUTSIDE of your hand$ Then !ay !o(ethng l#e& */ou're
!u)h a funny lady$* Do th! !lowly and del"erately& loo#ng n her eye! the whole t(e$
Then <ULL AWA/$
0ere'! how you end th!$ Whle you're tal#ng& !uddenly yawn& loo# at your wat)h& and
!ay& *I'( feelng a lttle "u!hed$ Let'! )all t an e%enng$*
If you're at your pla)e& you pro)eed l#e th!8 *C'(on$ I'll dr%e you ho(e$* Ma#e a! f
you're really gettng to lea%e$ A! !he !tand! up fro( the )ou)h& ta#e her n your ar(!& and
#!! her pa!!onately$ It'! the la!t thng !he'll "e e1pe)tng& and the une1pe)ted ha! the
"e!t effe)t$

T0E MA6E OUT
When you are (a#ng out wth a lady& you want to !how her that you are deter(ned
and powerful and )ertan you wll get what you want$
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Don't wa!te too (u)h t(e n her (outh$ Th! ! where (o!t (en (a#e ther "g error$
9o for her ne)# a! !oon a! you )an$ A! you go for her ne)#& )up her "rea!t n one of your
hand!$ 9ently ru" t wth the pal( of your hand$ Let your hand! roa( freely o%er her leg!
and a!! 5 you are the rghtful #ng& and th! ! /OUR TERRITOR/& rghtfully your! to
e1plore a! you !ee ft$
Rather than tryng to get your hand! n her pant! rght away& ta#e the pal( of your
hand& and pla)e t o%er her pu") (ound$ If you pre!! down lghtly and (o%e your pal(
up and down you wll get her %ery hot and "othered$
Don't "other tryng to ta#e off her "ra ether& "efore you ta#e her "rea!t! n your
(outh$ S(ply lft up her !hrt or "lou!e& and pull the )up of the "ra down& !o the "rea!t !
e1po!ed$ L)#& AROUND the npple at fr!t& n!tead of gong at t dre)tly$
Then& let your tongue fl)# t ,u)#ly a few t(e!$ Then "te t $$$$ not hard enough to
hurt$

If !he'! wearng pant!& (o%e your head down& and #!! her on the )rot)h$ Then rea)h
for her "elt& f !he'! wearng one& and undo$ Don't "e !hy a"out t$ <ull her pant! rght off&
and try to ta#e her pante! wth the(& f you )an$
6!! "a)# up to her )he!t now& "ut th! t(e you wor# your pal( on her na#ed "u!h&
!lppng your nde1 fnger on her )lt& and n her )unt$
After a few (nute! of th!& (o%e "a)# down to her pu!!y$ 6!! her nner thgh! on)e
or tw)e and then go for the eat5out$
0ere ! (y fa%orte )unnlngu! te)hn,ue$ I d!)o%ered t "y a))dent year! ago& and
wo(en go )ra;y o%er t$ I don't )la( to "e the "e!t fu)# n the world 5 I #now I a( not$
0owe%er& wo(en ha%e told (e& o%er and o%er agan that I g%e the "e!t head of any (an
they ha%e e%er (et$
0ere'! the !e)ret$ 6neel down !o your fa)e ! le%el wth her !nat)h$ She )an !t on the
edge of the "ed or )har or )ou)h& wth her leg! o%er your !houlder!$ Ta#e the nde1 fnger
of your left hand& and the nde1 fnger of your rght hand$ U!e the left fnger to pu!h away
the !#n hdng the )ltor! on that !de& and the rght fnger to pu!h away the !#n hdng
the )ltor! on the other$ On)e you'%e pu!hed th! loo!e !#n to the !de the )ltor! wll "e
e1po!ed$ Fro( here& what you do ! u!e your fnger! to pu!h the "a!e of the )ltor!& !o t
pop! up& fully e1po!ed$ Th! ! !ort of the e,u%alent of a wo(an !,uee;ng the "a!e of
your )o)# when !he "low! you 5 t help! to #eep your )o)# rgd "y trappng the "lood n
t and al!o #eep! t fro( (o%ng$
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Fro( here& !he'! your!$ /ou'll "e a"le to !u)# and l)# on the lttle "ngo "utton and
!he'll frea# out$ The harde!t pro"le( wll "e gettng her to hold !tll 5 f !he thra!he!
around too (u)h you are gong to lo!e your grp$
At th! pont& !top for a (nute and ta#e off your pant! and !hort!$ Re!u(e eatng& and
when you feel ready& roll on your )ondo($ /ou !hould pra)t)e th! untl you )an do t
,u)#ly and wthout fu("lng$
Then !pread her leg! open and !lp t n !low and deep$ Let her en-oy the plea!ure of
ha%ng your )o)# n!de of her$
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Chater N$neteen
0OW TO TOTALL/ +REA6 A WOMAN'S RESISTANCE
TO SLEE<IN9 WIT0 /OU
We'%e all heard the non!en!e a"out *No Mean! No* and re!pe)tng a grl'! rght to
refu!e a pa!!$
Well& I hope "y now you #now dfferently$ Often t(e! *no* doe!n't (ean that at all$ It
)ould (ean& *I don't want to appear )heap& !o I ha%e to put up to#en re!!tan)e fr!t$* Or t
)ould (ean& *I'( not !ure$* Or t )ould (ean& *I'( !)ared of !e1$*
Whate%er t (ean!& the two wor!t re!pon!e! you )ould (a#e to a wo(an who re!!t!
you& are to8

Argue wth her a"out t$
9%e up and !ul#$
The "e!t thng to do ! e1pre!! agree(ent wth how !he feel!& then "a)# off and try
later agan n the e%enng$ If !he'! -u!t tryng to a%od appearng ea!y or )heap& you'll nal
her later anyway$
The real pro"le( ar!e! when the lady -u!t happen! to ha%e a !erou! pro"le( a"out
!e1 or ! -u!t NOT attra)ted to you$
In the fr!t )a!e& you are n trou"le& "uddy$ If !he'! th! hung up& what #nd of a fu)# !
!he gong to "e anyway. <er!onally& I'd !ee her to the door and throw away her phone
nu("er$
If !he'! not attra)ted to you& "ut l#e! !e1 generally& you'%e !tll got a fghtng )han)e$
Let (e !how you !e%eral way! around the& *I'M @UST NOT ATTRACTED TO /OU
LINE$*

MET0OD ONE8 AS IF FRAME
Th! ! perhap! the !nea#e!t and (o!t unfar (ethod I #now to "rea# a wo(an'!
re!!tan)e to !leepng wth you$ It ! the 05"o(" n your ar!enal$ It wor#! on the prn)ple
that f you put !o(eone n the phy!ology of a )ertan !tate& they wll a)tually +E n that
!tate$
0ere'! how t wor#!$ /ou (a#e the pa!! and !he re-e)t! you$ /ou !hould a)t
apologet)$ Tell her you are !orry you (!read her )ue!$ Say !o(ethng l#e& *Loo#$ I'(
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!orry$ I'( -u!t really du(" when t )o(e! to readng wo(en& y'#now$ May"e you )an
help (e wth th!. I #now th! !ound! really du("& "ut I don't want to #eep (a#ng th!
#nd of du(" (!ta#e wth wo(en$*
Odd! are& !he'll "e wllng to help$
*If you )an re(e("er a t(e you were wth a guy that you were really attra)ted to& )an
you !how (e what the loo# wa! on your fa)e.*

She'll laugh at fr!t& "ut then !how you$

*O6$ +ut )an you !how (e how your (outh wa!. Wa! t open. And how dd your
eye! loo#.*
*O6$ And how were you "reathng. Can you !how (e.*
*0ow were you !ttng. What wa! your po!ture.*

*And what feelng!& )lo!ng your eye! for a !e)ond& were you aware of n your "ody.
And how dd tho!e !tart to "uld.*
At th! pont& you ha%e a )ho)e$ /ou )an an)hor tho!e feelng! and (a#e a pa!! later
"y frng off the an)hor& or you )an (a#e a pa!! then and there& u!ng a tran!ton l#e
th!8

*And how would th! tou)h feel to you f he were tou)hng you l#e th!& here and
now.* Re!u(e your pa!! now$

MET0OD TWO8 REDEFINE T0E MEANIN9 OF T0E SITUATION
Th! ! a (ore %er"al approa)h than the la!t (ethod$ When !he feed! you the *I'( -u!t
not attra)ted to you* o"-e)ton& you reply a! follow!8
*What you're really !ayng ! you ha%e an unpre)edented opportunty to e1pand the
range of people you )an !hare -oy and plea!ure wth$*

That wll "low her (nd$ /ou'%e ta#en a negat%e and turned t around nto a po!t%e
opportunty for her to grow and e1pand her lfe$ /ou'%e (ade her e1)u!e for not fu)#ng
you her po!t%e rea!on to do !o$ Wow7
MET0OD T0REE8 CONSEEUENCES
0ere you pont out the )on!e,uen)e! of her a)ton! "y !ayng8 *Tellng (e that ! only
gong to (a#e (e want you (ore& "e)au!e I get really turned on when wo(en re-e)t (e$*
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Well& where doe! T0AT lea%e her. /ou'%e let her #now that pu!hng you away agan !
only gong to (a#e t wor!e for her7 She )an't wn no (atter what$
MET0OD FOUR8 S0OC6
Th! (ethod rele! on nterruptng her pattern "y re%er!ng the ta"le!$ 0ere you !ay8
*Attra)ted. Who !ay! I'M attra)ted to /OU$ A! far a! I'( )on)erned& honey& I'( g%ng
you a MERC/ fu)#7* Then ((edately re!u(e your pa!!$
MET0OD FI4E8 0UMOR
0ere you nterrupt her pattern of re-e)ton agan& "ut th! t(e (ore gently$ <oltely
!ay& *Oh$ I'( !orry$ E1)u!e (e$* Then get up& and go nto the #t)hen$ 9et a paper
!hoppng "ag& !t)# t on your head& and wal# "a)# o%er to her$ *There&* you !ay& *that
!hould f1 t7* A! !he laugh!& re!u(e your pa!!$
MET0OD SI?8 9UILT
One of the harde!t thng! for anyone to do ! wat)h a grown (an )ry$ /ou are gong to
depend on that for th! (ethod& "ut "e aware that th! one ! gong to ta#e !o(e a)tng
a"lty$ <ull away after !he re-e)t! you and put your head n your hand!$ Euetly !tart to
!o"$

*I'( !orry $$$$ I !hould ha%e #nown "etter than to thn# $$$$ that a grl l#e you $$$$ )ould
l#e (e $$$$ * So" !o(e (ore$ *Let (e !t a !e)ond $$$$ and I'll ta#e you ho(e$* 2O"%ou!ly
f you are at 0ER pla)e& you word t a))ordngly& du((y73 *It'! -u!t that I'll ne%er
#now $$$$ the pea)e $$$$ of ha%ng you n (y ar(! $$$$ and lo%ng you $$$$ t would ha%e
(eant !o (u)h $$$$ 2!o"& !o"3$ I'%e ne%er "een wth a wo(an a! "eautful a! you $$$$ you
don't #now the )onfden)e t would ha%e g%en (e$$$and the happne!! $$$$ $ 2!o"
un)ontrolla"ly now3 $$$$ )ould you fnd t n your!elf $$$$ -u!t to let (e #!! you on)e $$$$ to
#now I at lea!t had that.*
Now I pro(!e you& f the grl ha! any heart at ALL& !he'll #!! you$ And that'! when
you re!u(e your pa!!$ If !he !top! you& !tart weepng agan$
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Chater T!ent-
A FINAL WORD
Well& we'%e )o(e a long way together$ /ou'%e learned and hopefully appled (ethod!
to g%e you un"eata"le and ea!y )onfden)e wth wo(en$ /ou #now how to (eet wo(en
left and rght& and how to !)ore wth the one! you want& when and where /OU want to$
I !n)erely hope that you put the te)hn,ue! n th! "oo# to u!e$ Ma#e the( WOR6 for
you$ /ou'll "e a!ton!hed at how ea!ly and ,u)#ly they )an "rng you !u))e!! and
happne!! wth wo(en$
I'%e "een a )olo!!al falure wth wo(en and a )olo!!al !u))e!! and you #now what.
Colo!!al !u))e!! ! not only one hell of a lot (ore fun& t'! al!o one hell of a lot ea!er7
On)e you #now how to do t& t'! 0ARD to fal wth wo(en& and EAS/ to get what you
want$
I hope you d!)o%er -u!t how ea!y t !7 And how (u)h n)er )olo!!al !u))e!! )an "e7
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Aen+$' One
T0E ULTIMATE RULES AND ATTITUDES
FOR SUCCESS WIT0 WOMEN
Note8 The!e atttude! and rule! are the foundaton of e%erythng n th! "oo#& and the
#ey to your !u))e!! wth wo(en$ To (a#e the( wor# for you& you (u!t pra)t)e the(&
"oth n your (agnaton and real lfe7 Wrte the( down on three "y f%e nde1 )ard!& and
%!ual;e your!elf puttng the( nto a)ton$

AtttudeBRule One8
I MA6E NO E?CUSES FOR M/ DESIRES AS A MAN$
I MO4E T0ROU90 T0E WORLD WIT0OUT A<OLO9/$
AtttudeBRule Two8
I DON'T NEED /OU5/OU NEED ME$
AtttudeBRule Three8
/OU CAN'T CONTROL ME$
AtttudeBRule Four8
I NE4ER 6NOW W0ERE I STAND WIT0 A WOMAN UNTIL I MA6E
T0AT FIRST SERIOUS <ASS& SO I DON'T CONSIDER A WOMAN
A SERIOUS <ROS<ECT UNTIL AFTER WE'4E MADE LO4E$

AtttudeBRule F%e8
T0E FIRST STE< IN ATTRACTIN9 A WOMAN
IS 9ETTIN9 0ER ATTENTION& AND T0E +EST WA/ TO DO
T0AT IS +/ +EIN9 UNIEUE& AND NO4EL& AND DIFFERENT$
AtttudeBRule S18
I DON'T AR9UE WIT0 A WOMAN AND NEIT0ER DO I
ATTEM<T TO A<<EASE 0ER$ I LISTEN CAREFULL/ TO W0AT
S0E 0AS TO SA/& +UT 9ENTL/ AND FIRML/ DO AS
I 0AD <LANNED ALL ALON9$

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AtttudeBRule Se%en8
T0ERE IS NO WOMAN SO +EAUTIFUL T0AT I CAN'T MA6E 0ER MINE$
AtttudeBRule Eght8
A *>* IN /OUR +ED +EATS A *CG* IN /OUR 0EAD&
+UT A *CG* IN /OUR +ED& +EATS A 0UNDRED *>'!* IN /OUR 0EAD7
AtttudeBRule Nne8
NE4ER 9ET SERIOUSL/ IN4OL4ED
WIT0 A WOMAN W0O 0AS MORE <RO+LEMS T0AN /OU DO$
AtttudeBRule Ten8
<ERSISTENCE WIT0OUT FLE?I+ILIT/ IS A <RESCRI<TION
FOR DISASTER$ 4AR/ /OUR A<<ROAC0 AND ST/LE TO
DISCO4ER W0AT WOR6S T0E +EST$
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Aen+$' T!o
RE<RESENTATIONAL S/STEMS
<eople per)e%e the world n three "a!) (ode!8 4!ual 2p)ture!3& Audtory 2!ound!3&
6ne!thet) 2"ody feelng!3$ Whle e%eryone u!e! one or (ore of the!e !y!te(! at any
g%en t(e& (o!t people ha%e a preferred !y!te($ If you !pea# to the( u!ng ter(! fro(
ther preferred !y!te(& you wll )reate great feelng! of rapport and war(th& "e)au!e you
are& n effe)t& !pea#ng to the( n the language ther "ran prefer!$
0ow To Fnd Out /our Date'! <referred Sy!te(
Step One8
A!#& *Can you re)all the la!t t(e you had a really fun %a)aton.*
Step Two8
After gettng a *ye!* an!wer& a!#& *What dd you really l#e (o!t a"out t.*
Step Three8
Ma#e !ure your date u!e! SENSOR/ ter(! to de!)r"e the e1peren)e$ If !he -u!t !ay!&
*It wa! really fun7* you ha%en't gotten anywhere$ A!# her what !pe)f)ally a"out t wa!
fun$

Step Four8
L!ten for the !en!ory "a!ed ter(! !he u!e! to de!)r"e the e1peren)e$ *I really l#ed
the water$ It wa! !o )lear and "lue$ And you )ould !ee the "t! of !unlght !par#lng off
the top! of the wa%e!$* 9ue!! what. She'! %!ual$
Step F%e8
De!)r"e a re)ent e1peren)e of your! to her& u!ng ter(! fro( her preferred !y!te($
Step S18
Wat)h her non5%er"al re!pon!e! a! you de!)r"e your e1peren)e$ /ou !hould not)e& f
you are really gettng through to her& pupl dlaton 2her eye! gettng "g and wde&
du(du(3 n)rea!ed "reathng rate& et)$
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Aen+$' Three
INDUCIN9 TRANCE STATES IN /OUR DATE
USIN9 T0E STOR/ TELLIN9 MET0OD
Fr!t& ne%er& NE4ER (enton that you )an do th!7 If you tell her a"out t& you (ght a!
well forget a"out t7 Don't !ay the word *hypno!!* 5 t wll ha%e the !a(e affe)t a! !ayng
*AIDS* or *0erpe!$* /our a( ! not to (pre!! wth what you #now& "ut to u!e what you
#now to get re!ult!7
Try to do th! n a ,uet pla)e$
Step One8
Fnd out your date'! preferred !y!te($ Th! !n't a"!olutely ne)e!!ary for th! part)ular
(ethod& "ut t !ure )an help7
Step Two8
Start "y tellng a !tory& "ut (a#e the !tory hard to follow$ /ou want to o%erwhel( her
)on!)ou! a"lty to #eep tra)#$ Thu! you would !ay& *Dd I e%er tell you a"out (y frend&
@(. It !ee(! he wa! at th! )onferen)e& and he wa! n the hotel "ar on a "rea#$ And the
"artender wa! tellng a !tory a"out h! negh"or who had two "rother!$ One wa! really
good at dealng wth people& "ut the other had pro"le(! untl he (et th! guy$* et)& et)$
Step Three8
Wea%e ele(ent! of your )urrent !tuaton nto the !tory that are "a!ed on your date!
)urrent !en!ory e1peren)e$

Step Four8
Lead her nto a #ne!thet) (ode of e1peren)e and de!)r"e erot) "ody !en!aton!$

Step F%e8
Ma#e a !(ooth tran!ton nto your phy!)al pa!! at her$ Don't !uddenly !top tal#ng
and roughly gra" her$ /ou'll -olt her out of the !tate you wor#ed !o hard to "uld$
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Aen+$' Fo#r
T0E RI90T WA/ TO USE 4ISUALIFATION
TO +UILD IRRESISTI+LE CONFIDENCE
Re(e("er fr!t the two dfferent #nd! of %!ual (age! you )an (a#e n your (nd8
D!a!!o)ated& where /OU SEE /OURSELF IN T0E <ICTURE7
A!!o)ated& where /OU DO NOT SEE /OURSELF IN T0E <ICTURE7 /OU SEE
T0E E4ENT OR CIRCUMSTANCE AS IF /OU WERE STANDIN9 T0ERE&
LOO6IN9 OUT OF /OUR OWN E/ES$
/ou'll u!e the fr!t #nd of (age& d!a!!o)ated& to (agne all the new& aggre!!%e&
powerful #nd! of "eha%or! you'd l#e to ha%e wth wo(en$ That'! your fr!t !tep$
/our !e)ond !tep ! to (a#e a!!o)ated (age! of the )r)u(!tan)e! where you want to
u!e tho!e new powerful& "old& a!!ert%e "eha%or!$ What would t a)tually loo# l#e fro(
your own eye!.
/our thrd !tep ! to run through the "eha%or!& fully a!!o)ated$ 0ow would you feel
n your "ody. What would your %o)e !ound l#e. What would you "e !eeng out of your
own eye!.
Th! wll (a#e the!e "eha%or! %ery real to your "ran& and wll tell your "ran
INSTANTL/ to )all the( up when you need the(& !o you don't e%en ha%e to thn# a"out
t7
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Aen+$' F$%e
ANC0ORIN9 TO +UILD CONFIDENCE
Step One8
Re)all a t(e when you felt %ery powerful& re!our)eful and po!ed$

Step Two8
Clo!e your eye!& and run through the !tuaton$ What dd you !ee. 0ear. 0ow dd t
feel n your "ody.
Step Three8

E1peren)e tho!e powerful feelng! n your "ody$ When they rea)h ther pea#& an)hor
the( "y rea)hng wth your rght hand and gently !,uee;ng your left wr!t& u!ng your
nde1 fnger and thu("$ 6eep holdng that !,uee;e a! you )ontnue to e1peren)e tho!e
powerful feelng!$
Step Four8
Run through the fr!t three !tep! another two t(e!$

Step F%e8
Ma#e an a!!o)ated (age of a )r)u(!tan)e where you want power and )onfden)e
wth wo(en$ A! you do !o& fre your an)hor "y applyng the !a(e wr!t !,uee;e$
Step S18
6eep holdng the !,uee;e and you wll e1peren)e the powerful& "old& )onfdent
feelng! n a )r)u(!tan)e that u!ed to (a#e you ner%ou!7 /ou ha%e now traned your
"ran to rea)t to wo(en "y puttng you nto a powerful& )onfdent& "old !tate& WIT0OUT
/OUR 0A4IN9 TO T0IN6 A+OUT IT AT T0E TIME /OU ARE ACTUALL/ IN
T0E SITUATION7
Step Se%en8
Do th! on)e a day& n the (ornng to !tart your day& for one wee#7 Refre!h and repeat
after that f needed7
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Aen+$' S$'
0OW TO SWIFTL/ DETECT AND ELIMINATE WOMEN
W0O ARE WAC6OS& LOW5LIFES& CRAFIES AND SCUM
I w!h the world were far$ If t were& I wouldn't "e !ttng here wrtng th!$ I'd "e a an
ndependently wealthy (ult5(llonare play"oy& on (y own "eautful trop)al !land&
!urrounded "y the entre UCLA Wo(en'! 4olley"all tea( thn#ng up new way! to "e
n)e to (e$
Ahe(($
+ut lfe ISN'T far$ And one of the (o!t unfar realte! ! that MOST of the wo(en
you (eet are not gong to "e de)ent& ntellgent& together pnna)le! of lo%e& -oy and !elf5
e!tee(& dyng to (eet you and fulfll your lfe n e%ery way po!!"le$
Nope$ Mo!t wo(en are !erou!ly dnged n one way or another$
May"e t'! the (po!!"le e1pe)taton! of !o)ety that doe! t$ May"e t'! the horr"le
early tranng or -u!t "ology$ Whate%er the rea!on& t ! a fa)t you (u!t "e prepared for$
So (any t(e! I would fall head o%er heel! n lo%e wth a wo(an -u!t "e)au!e !he had
a few )hara)ter!t)! I really l#ed$ I thn# I dd t "e)au!e I truly do l#e people and en-oy
the feelng of l#ng !o(eone$
+ut (an& dd I get (y head #)#ed n$
Tattoo th! on the n!de of your eyeld!8 @u!t "e)au!e a wo(an ! gorgeou! or fun or
!(art or 2fll n your fa%orte here3 doe!n't !ay +EANS a"out her )hara)ter$
Many wo(en wth great per!onalte! ha%e terr"le )hara)ter!$ I'%e (et wo(en who
are wtty& "rllant and ton! of fun and 9OR9EOUS to "oot who would ha%e no !e)ond
thought a"out !tealng you "lnd n a !e)ond$ Or dong whate%er wh( )ro!!ed ther (nd
at the (o(ent$
The!e lade! l%e "y one rule8 I'M NOT 9OIN9 TO DO AN/T0IN9 UNLESS I
A+SOLUTEL/ FEEL LI6E IT AT T0E MOMENT$
Char(ng fla#e! l#e th! )an really put your head 2not to (enton other part!3 through
the rnger$
Then ther are lade! wth great per!onalte!& great )hara)ter!& and e%en great loo#ng$
+ut they ha%e one !(all pro"le(8
T0E/ 0ATE SE?7
2/
That'! rght$ If you'%e e%er read 9eorge Orwell'! )la!!) "oo#& lHKO& you #now how the
totaltaran go%ern(ent dd t'! le%el "e!t to d!)ourage people fro( en-oyng !e1$ They
were !u))e!!ful to !u)h an e1tent that people %ewed !e1 a! they would a d!gu!tng
(nor (ed)al pro)edure l#e ha%ng an ene(a or poppng a "ol$
They e%en had a group for young!ter! )alled T0E @UNIOR ANTI5SE? LEA9UE$
Well& lHKO (ay ha%e "een f)ton& "ut the @ASL !n't$ I'%e u!ed to date (any of t'!
(e("er!7
The "e!t way to deal wth all of the!e %arou! %arete! of low5lfe fe(ale! ! to ta#e the
!a(e ta)t you'd ta#e wth )an)er8 EARL/ DETECTION AND SWIFT REMO4AL$
To ad you n dete)ton& I'%e de!gned what I )all rather (ode!tly the @EFFRIES
U<RI90TB U<TI90T SCALE$ It allow! you to ,u)#ly !;e up a grl to let you #now f
!he'! got relaton!hp potental or f !he de!er%e! no (ore than ha%ng one of the *,u)#5
lay* !tratege! pulled on her$
The %ert)al !)ale (ea!ure! her en-oy(ent of !e1$ Not ne)e!!arly perfor(an)e& "ut
enthu!a!( and genune plea!ure !he get! out of t$ Naturally& you'd want !o(eone wth a
low *uptght !)ore$*
The hor;ontal !)ale (ea!ure! her )hara)ter& how *uprght* !he !$ Lot! of thng! go
nto th!8 ! !he war(. Doe! !he treat people& e!pe)ally !tranger!& wth re!pe)t. DOES
S0E DO W0AT S0E SA/S S0E WILL. I! !he hone!t.
Th! la!t ! (o!t (portant$ I on)e wor#ed wth a grl who I )on!der to "e one of (y
(odel! for uprghtne!!$ In addton to her regular -o"& wh)h !he wor#ed wth (e& !he
!old )ertan door to door #t)henwareB!oap produ)t!$ She #new I had an n)red"le )ru!h
on her& and would "uy anythng !he !lapped down n front of (y fa)e$
+ele%e (e& lot! and LOTS of lade! would not ha%e he!tated to ta#e ad%antage of
th!$ +ut not L!a$ After tal#ng to (e for awhle& !he real;ed that I really ddn't need her
produ)t! and !he wouldn't let (e "uy the(7 She !ad !he ddn't feel rght a"out (a#ng a
!ale to !o(eone who )ould get a )heaper produ)t that would do the !a(e -o" for the
part)ular need they had7
That& (y frend!& ! ntegrty and U<RI90TNESS$
Other ,ualte! that go nto th!8 I! !he a g%er. And& -u!t a! (portantly& )an S0E
re)e%e good thng! fro( /OU. Wthout feelng un)o(forta"le a"out t. One of the !ure
!gn! that you'%e got a !)#o on your hand! ! !he )an't a))ept !o(eone'! "eng good to
her$
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So(eone on)e de!)r"ed a good frend of (ne th! way8 *She'! really great to anyone
who )an ta#e t$*
<)# a grl who )an ta#e t$
When you (eet a lady& !;e her up a! the two of you !pend t(e together& and try to put
her on the uptghtBuprght !)ale$

0ere are !o(e early tell5tale "eha%oral )ue! to let you #now you're dealng wth
!o(eone who ! NOT gong to get a fa%ora"le !pot on the !)ale8
She tal#! a"out !e1 on the fr!t date$ Any wo(an who doe! th! ether ha! no )la!!& or&
far (ore fre,uently& ! a pr)#tea!er$ If a wo(an tal#! a"out !e1 on the fr!t date& or e%en
pull! out a drty drawng or photograph to !how you 2"ele%e (e& I'%e had t happen3 don't
get hot and "othered7 Th! ! a !gn of a !)#o& "ele%e (e7 /our "e!t re!pon!e ! to a)t a
trfle !ho)#ed and !ay& *I thn# tal#ng a"out the!e #nd of thng! wth !o(eone you
hardly #now ! #nd of %ulgar& don't you.* Or& e%en (ore effe)t%e& */ou #now I fnd
people who ha%e to tal# a"out !e1 rght off the "at u!ually ha%e a real pro"le( wth t7*
That wll REALL/ <UT 0ER IN 0ER <LACE$ She (ay e%en try to pro%e you
wrong& "y fu)#ng you later that nght$ +ut generally !pea#ng& you'%e got a @ASL
(e("er on your hand! and are "e!t off )allng t an early e%enng$ Tell her you forgot that
you ha%e to dr%e out of town really early the ne1t day for a Three Stooge! )on%enton$
0a%e !o(e fun wth t& "ut forget her& FAST7
She #eep! you watng a long t(e when you go to p)# her up or doe! !o(ethng el!e
that ! darn rude ether at the "egnnng of the date or later on$
May"e !he'll pull a fla#y !tunt l#e ha%ng you wat n the l%ng roo(& whle !he
(a#e! a ,u)# )all$ Then !he'll get on the phone and )hat wth a grlfrend for an hour or
!o$
Wo(en l#e th! are loo#ng for a (an who'! gong to A+USE T0EM
EMOTIONALL/$ They are te!tng you rght off the "at to !ee f you'll "e patent and
under!tandng and f you are& /OU ARE OUT7 She deally would l#e you to pull the
phone out of the wall& gra" her "y the har and ether drag her out the door or wal# out&
wth her runnng after you$
If the )h)# pull! !o(ethng l#e that& you ha%e to (a#e a de)!on$ Ether g%e her
what !he want!& "y aggre!!%ely tellng her what an a!!hole !he ! and turnng to wal# out
n wh)h )a!e !he'll fall n lo%e wth you rght then and there$ Or& de)de !he'! not worth
wa!tng the t(e& wa%e poltely& and get lo!t$ Or& wat patently for her to fn!h the )all
and then !#p the date and !)rew the )h)# rght there& u!ng a ,u)#5lay hypno!! !trategy$
She )ertanly doe!n't de!er%e any "etter treat(ent7
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+y the way& you (ay fnd t ,ute a (nd5e1pandng trp to play the a"u!%e a!!hole
-u!t on)e n your lfe7 It ! a far werder and (ore (nd "lowng e1peren)e than any drug
you (ght e%er u!e 5 t'! l#e "eng a new per!on& "eng re"orn n a new per!onalty and
"ody$ Try t& f only to !ee what t ! l#e and to add to your per!onal fle1"lty$
She !tart! tal#ng a"out her pa!t "oyfrend! or other guy! !he'! )urrently datng$ Th! !
(ore ea!ly dealt wth and not ne)e!!arly )au!e to relegate her to the *lowlfe* )ategory$
@u!t tell her you'd really rather not hear a"out t$ Th! wll e!ta"l!h you a! ha%ng !o(e
"all! and then you wll ha%e pa!!ed her lttle te!t$

She drn#! or u!e! drug! to e1)e!!$ If !he get! rotou!ly drun# e%ery t(e you go out&
)on!der the fa)t that you (ay ha%e an al)ohol) on your hand!$ Sure& they )an "e fun for
a whle& "ut I per!onally would rather not "e wth a wo(an who lo%e! @a)# Danel! (ore
than !he doe! Ro!! @effre!$
She doe! not #eep appont(ent! or )o((t(ent!$ I don't #now how *fla#e!* are
(anufa)tured: I !u!pe)t that they were ra!ed "y parent! who put enor(ou! pre!!ure! on
the( to perfor( on )ue& !o now they ha%e a polarty re!pon!e and refu!e to do anythng
unle!! they feel l#e t at the (o(ent7 If a wo(an doe!n't do a! !he !ay! !he wll& du(p
her or u!e a *,u)#5lay* !trategy$
She a!#! for a fa%or +EFORE you'%e e%en gone out7 May"e !he need! a rde& or !o(e
(oney& or e%en her )ar wa!hed$
To hell wth the!e e%l lttle Na; dou)he5"ag e1plotaton ,ueen!$ Fu)# and du(p
t(e& good "uddy7 And DON'T DO 0ER T0E FA4OR$ TELL 0ER /OU'LL DO IT
AFTER /OU 9O OUT7
In !u((aton& I'( no ""le thu(per& "ut !)rpture doe! !ay !o(ethng %ery& %ery w!e
on the !u"-e)t8
*A good wo(an& who )an fnd her. 0er pr)e ! "eyond pearl!$*

U!e the uptghtBuprght !)ale& and get your!elf a STRAND OF T0EM7
Ro!! @effre!' S<EED SEDUCTION CATALO9
Author'! Note
If you ha%e a fa%orte p)#5up lne& !edu)t%e te)hn,ue or !tory& that you would l#e to
!end (e& !end to8
Ro!! @effre!
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