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Who should reach orgasm first, man or woman?
OCTOBER 19, 2013 BY FUNMI AKINGBADE 12 COMMENTS

Its not news that many men today can start and finish with sex in just
a few minutes. While countless married women take longer time to get
aroused and become properly prepared (physically and emotionally, it
eventually takes ages for them to reach orgasm. But reaching orgasm
and ejaculating at the desired time is always a question married men
and women want answer to. Who should reach orgasm first, man or
woman? Actually, anyone could be the first to climax. But men being
what they are on bed, desire to climax with their wives together or
admire it when their wives get there first. The feel of watching their wives
display is a sexual thrill for them.
There are two things couples should take into consideration: one,
husband should know the right moments when to speed his wife up and
slow himself down and number two is getting familiar with the trick of
prolonging sex. I can assure you that if you follow my advice, you and
your wife will have a happy ending, because you will be able to
deliberately delay your ejaculation while your wife will climax fully.
One way to increase a womans speed of reaching orgasm is while kissing her, make sure you nibble on her
neck a little bit longer. Most often ignored, the womans neck is both nerve-packed, highly sensitive and
nothing turns up the heat for a woman like the feel of a mans lips on her body. You can also fire up the
titillation by taking turns to kiss her in different body parts. This usually takes her out of her comfort zone and
gets her ready for some passionate expectation. You can experiment with more creative ways of bringing her
to the brim of orgasm by rubbing your lips against her nipples, sweep them along her belly button and even
gently brush your face against her cheeks, for more intensified arousal. Drag her tongue into your mouth slowly
and then suck gently on the tip. This playful twist on a typical kiss will send currents of electricity between her
legs. Most women like an amount of pressure when they are kissed. While you are fully concentrating on this,
you will be amazed that your ejaculation speed will slow down because you are fully focused on something
else.
To ensure she climaxes before or at the same time with you start stimulating her clitoris as soon as possible.
While the attention is more on her, slow yourself down and erotically speed up the clitoral stimulation. No
woman has ever resisted this. To aid caressing and arousal, add a few drops of some natural lubricants on
your fingers and use them on the clitoris to the virginal lips down to the inner part of her thighs. Experts report
that circular stimulation, starting slow and building up the speed, is most effective. At this point, encourage her
to hold firm the base of your manhood and at the same time apply some degree of pressure on it to help resist
premature ejaculation. When handling your manhood, she should maintain a soft touch and keep her strokes
closer to the base where you are less sensitive. Also, convince her to vary her moves: youll love the shifting
sensations so much that you wont notice youre skipping the steady friction that makes you ejaculate
prematurely.
If you are able to achieve this, go ahead further and arouse her by inserting your pointer and middle fingers into
her vagina with your palm facing the ceiling, and then rest your chin in the palm of your hand. In this position,
you can move your fingers in a come-hither motion to massage the front wall of her vagina (G-spot territory!)
while teasing her clitoris with your tongue. Remember the rule of the game is that you have to slow yourself
down. To light your fuse without triggering an unexpected explosion, your wife should only kiss and lick your
penis, not suck it (otherwise, it feels too similar to being inside her). Showing your testicles a little love will
also give you mega pleasure without pushing your ejaculation button. Now during intercourse, both of you
should agree on girl-on-top position and this grants her total control of the speed, angle, and depth. This is
100 per cent best for speeding up her orgasm. Instead of moving her hips up and down, which will bring you
closer to the brink of ejaculation, she should slide them back and forth so that her clitoris is rubbing against
your abdomen. Dont be shy about getting involved and pushing up hard or increasing the speed. Shell love the
intensity. Finally, remember long thrusts are the husbands orgasms best friends, so keep them to a
minimum.
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Ras 8 hours ago
This is a brilliant writer. lovely Funmi. Any practical lecture

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Mi ke Roy 10 hours ago
Great Funmi.I love fingering!

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OKO 4 hours ago
No need just try me first. one hour non stop pumping.
i do 100 laps of press up every morning to make sure i retain the strength to push up and
down her down below.

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SIM CHUCK 6 hours ago
IF U WAN KNOW WHO GO FIRST REACH OGA.., TRY ME! U GO SPEAK EGBA
LANGUANGE WHEN JUNGLE MATURE. U HAVE MY EMAIL. I SWARE I GO KEEP AM
VERY CODED. JUST PRACTICAL. NO BE BEANS!!!!!!!!!

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omoi bi l e 9 hours ago
Some good advice here!

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Hmmmm. This is interesting.

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I dey l augh! 11 hours ago
Thanks

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Chi mex Chi na. an hour ago
M y wife will testify how good I am in terms of love making between Us,


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ND 2 hours ago
I digested the whole piece thanks,Sure gonna try it out.


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Buggl e boy 4 hours ago
Thank u soo very much,God wil keep ur family as u r workin hard to other families frm
collapsing .


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Lect urer 4 hours ago
You are wrong on some issues. I would have commented and boosted our readers'
knowledge as I go several hours, up to four without ejaculation. Indeed I ejaculate only
when I want to, but I feel this is rather too explicit a topic for a newspaper of this nature.
This is Saturday Punch for heaven's sake.


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phl ow 4 hours ago Lecturer
A deceitful comment!


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