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I started to sit down to write this letter, as I always do, with my preschooler taking
a nap upstairs and my can of pretentious soda water sitting next to me on the couch. I
sat there and sat there and sat there and just couldnt, like, DO IT. I opened my phone to
Facebook (#bigshock) and scrolled down mindlessly, immediately following the link to
a video titled, The voice of Winnie the Pooh reads Darth Vaders lines from Star Wars.
I think even the Apostle Peter would have clicked on that link. Believe you me, it was
worth it. Hold on, Gentiles of Rome, he would say. Some things cant be made to wait.
Ah, distraction. Ah, 21
st
century. Ah, rst-world problems. Theres a huge lack of purity
in our actions. And when I say purity, I dont mean moral or altruistic purity; I just
mean a lack of deliberate action. To do anything simply and intently, with a denitive
motivation. Were just multitasking our humanity into the digital dirt. I dont know that
we can help it, really. Part of it is our brave new world. Yet part of it, at least for me, is
to escape what sufering or stress I feel. Flitting from one domain to the next and back
again, accomplishing little nothings here and there, riding the wave back and forth and
up and down and back again. I feel fast and buoyant, like I can outrun my troubles.
In James 1:4, the half-brother of our Lord Jesus, writes, Consider it pure joy, my broth-
ers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the
testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance nish its work so that
you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
I would like to reach in with an ice cream scoop and carve out that word: PURE. Con-
sider it pure joy. In the Greek, this word for pure in verse 2 denotes a marker of the
highest degree of something. It could be rendered, full or greatest or all. So, yea.
Pure means Pure. Pure joy.
But back to pain. Back to the trials of many kinds. If you are going through any type of
intense sufering right now, you know that if you give your hurt room to breathe, if you
allow it to decant for a moment in your soul stopping your incessant phone-checking
and credit-card swiping and joke-telling you will be able to testify that pain itself is,
by nature, PURE. It doesnt have to be told to be pure. It just is.
As John Green says in his NYT bestseller The Fault in Our Stars: Thats the thing
about pain, Augustus said, and then glanced back at me. It demands to be felt.
Pain cannot be multitasked away. It doesnt condescend to be ckle. It is what it is. Its
pure and unadulterated. It hurts and sometimes the hurt takes our breath away. Feel it we
must. Face it we must. So how then can we, at the very same time, experience pure joy?
(I always get a little mad when I read this verse, honestly. Its like telling someone to
breath underwater. I cant breathe joy when Im drowning in pain! Ever heard of mutu-
ally exclusive categories, James?)
Ah, but then theres another word to scoop: CONSIDER. The ESV, RSV and NASB
translations read, Count it all joy. Chalk it up as joy, in other words. Score one for joy.
Pencil joy in the win column.
And why? So perseverance can nish its work so that you may be mature and complete,
not lacking anything. Whats so great about maturity? What about this particular
Future Completeness outweighs what was taken from me?
Honestly, I dont know what the answer is for you. Or for James readers. They were Jew-
ish Christians who had been scattered across the known world because of terrible perse-
cution. Many were living in poverty. They too were acquainted with the purity of pain.
I dont know what your particular brand of pure pain is today, and maybe the idea of
feeling even 1% of joy within it seems insulting and impossible. (Or seems as ridicu-
lous as Winnie the Pooh reading Darth Vaders lines.) But maybe you dont have to
feel the joy at rst. Maybe you chalk it up as joy, call a spade a diamond, out of faith, or
total bewilderment, and maybe the joyful feeling will come to fruition alongside that
maturity and completeness and not-lacking-anything-ness on down the road. Maybe
icking your wrist to make the little pencil mark in the Joy category is all you can do
right now.
After all, its not like we Christians are unpracticed when it comes to seeing the unsee-
able. It takes ruthless faith to believe in the healing of the blind, the walking on of water,
and the raising of the dead. Those were mutually exclusive categories once, too: blind-
ness/sight, solid/liquid, death/life. We chalk it up as fact, and wait for that little act,
that little chalking up of faith, to bear out reality.
I hope you can bear the pain/joy dichotomy today. And if you cant, remember that
Jesus himself was a Man of sorrows, acquainted with grief (Isaiah 53). Pain paints a
broad stroke. But James tells us its worth it. Somehow. Someday.
a letter from
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Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to life transformation through Jesus Christ. We engage
this journey by growing in Christ, connecting in community, and joining the mission.
This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment
(Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).
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Growing in Christ
At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of
God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The
journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each
of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us
(Ephesians 4:11-13).
Connecting in Community
The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been trans-
formed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed
to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with
one another on the journey (John 13:34-35).
Joining the Mission
The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and
make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people
who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this
by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world
(Matthew 28:18-20).
Photo Update:
Pentecost Sunday Festival and VBS
On Sunday June 8, the IBC family gathered to celebrate
Pentecost (P), the birth of the Big-C Church with food trucks,
karaoke, and general frivolity. Hundreds of kids descended
upon the IBC campus in June for VBS (V): Weird Animals:
Where Jesus Love Is One-of-a-Kind.
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IBC is partnering with a new local ministry to provide
help and support for single, pregnant mothers.
Mercy House
T
wenty years ago, while sitting in her living room having her
quiet time with the Lord, Susan Hulet had a vision about a
house full of single, pregnant women being discipled and cared
for during their pregnancies and preparing them for parenthood. At
the time, Susan and her husband were both pastors at a church they
had founded and she also had a busy midwifery practice. Over years
of delivering babies, she met many single, pregnant women who were
hurting. They were dealing with family dysfunction, rejection and
coniction about bringing a child into the world alone. Susan felt like
the Lord just kept sending these young women her way. They just kept
coming, she explained. As a pro-life advocate, Susan encouraged these
women to make a choice for life but noticed there was a gap between
convincing them to keep their babies and getting them the support, love
and stable environment they needed during and after their pregnancies.
Excited about her vision, Susan drove to church to tell her husband.
A week later he decided to share it with their congregation. After that
service, a close friend came up to Susan and said, Your Mercy House is
going to happen.
That is how it got its name, Susan recalled. After that we referred to
it as Mercy House. Mercy House is now a Christian maternity home
for single, pregnant women that provides residential and maternity
care, mentors, life-skills training, prayer and spiritual guidance. Ulti-
mately we want to connect these women with the Lord, helping them
understand his great love for them and that he is all they need.
Mercy House was appealing to the IBC leadership for its holistic ap-
proach (and is not to be confused with Mercy Street, IBCs local partner
ministry that works to match at-risk kids with mentors). Local Part-
nerships Director Tricia Kinsman-Ash says, For a couple of years,
IBC had been praying about how to be involved in the pro-life issue,
yet nothing seemed to resonate with what we consider the heartbeat
of IBC. Then I got a call from Susan. After hearing about Mercy House
and its vision, the IBC team prayed for a year and then ofered Mercy
House the opportunity to apply for partnership status the following
year. In 2014, the vision team brought Mercy House on as an ofcial
partner, excited to be involved in the pro-life issue in a way that met the
needs of both the mom and the baby.
Why does IBC have so many local partnerships?
Sometimes its hard to keep track of all the ministries and non-prots IBC supports around the
community. Executive Pastor Bryan Eck explains why IBC invests so broadly.
Years ago, we adopted a saying a philosophy of local missions, if you will that if IBC ever
ran out of money, we would be so connected and engrained in the community that the com-
munity itself would raise money to keep our doors open. If this was going to be true, then loving
our neighbors would have to be at the forefront of everything we do. After much prayer and
strategic planning, we came up with a list of initiatives that we believe needed to happen for
our community to be served. We chose this amazing list of partners because they were all at the
intersection of the community and its needs serving the hurting, the lost and the disenfran-
chised. Jesus himself was always at those intersections among the least of these (Matthew
25:40). So the partners list is long and the needs are great. But when you see the community, our
partners and the church working together, the community changes; the world changes.
If you have any questions about our local partners, who they are or what they do, you can
visit our website or contact our director of local partnerships, Tricia Kinsman-Ash at
tkinsman-ash@irvingbible.org.
It took a several years for Susans vision to be-
come a reality. In early 1996 a monthly newslet-
ter was created to start raising money for Mercy
House and the board of directors was selected.
In the fall of that year, a pastor in Arlington
who was also interested in starting a similar
type of ministry for pregnant women contacted
Susan. Youve done all of this work so far, he
said, What is it that you are lacking? What
can I help you with? Susan told him all they
were lacking was a house. When the pastor ofered to let her use a house on his
churchs property, a 2,500 square foot house in Arlington, Susan knew that the
Lord was guiding her on this journey.
In March of 1997, Mercy House opened in Arlington, TX and started taking in
pregnant women. Since the rst house opened, it has served 120 women with
residential and maternity services. When a women rst moves into the home,
the staf and houseparents celebrate that she chose life for her baby and has
committed to the work she will do at Mercy House to prepare for parenting. In
the rst week the resident meets with a family worker who creates a writ-
ten service plan that identies her needs. The rst goal is to cover physical
needs, which includes a safe place to live, food to eat and clothes to wear. The
second is medical care, which includes midwives and birth centers who have
volunteered to provide free services. As a midwife herself, Susan believes its
important to provide a natural, holistic birth experience for the women. The
third goal is to help prepare women for parenting their baby. Counselors, men-
tors, midwives, doulas (birth attendants), chiropractors as well as many other
professionals donate their time and services to the women at Mercy House.
Volunteers with special skills such as birth and pregnancy photographers,
CPR trainers, child car seat safety trainers, nancial planners and women who
do crafts and home living skills all serve the residents at Mercy House.
Over the years, other programs have been added to teach and prepare the
women for life outside of Mercy House. The Earn While You Learn program
ofers 10 modules of basic infant care that is covered over 10 weeks. After
nishing the 10 modules, the women earn a Baby Shower that provides all of
the basic baby needs. In addition, the women are required to attend church on
Sunday, a mid-week service, and a once-a-week Bible study. A Prayer Ministry
team also meets with the women, inspiring them toward the Lord and giving
them a safe place to talk and pray.
Once the baby is born, the mother is allowed to stay up to 12 weeks to recover
and take care of the baby, all while preparing to move on. Some options for her
next steps may include a group home for single parents, transitional hous-
ing programs or returning to
family. The average stay for the
women at Mercy House is 5-7
months before they graduate
from the program.
Susan admits it has not been an
easy journey. The program for
Mercy House has changed over
the last 15 years. The original
home was sold in 2003, and in
the interim they used Shep-
herding Homes, families who
hosted individual girls in their
homes until a new home could
be secured. In 2006, the minis-
try was rebuilt, a new board was
selected and a strategic plan
was put in place to grow the
ministry incrementally. Then
a few years ago during a walk
with her husband in her own neighbor-
hood, Susan found a house for sale that
had a good oor plan for Mercy House.
It was as if God was directing my steps
on that walk, Susan recalled. The house
was perfect! In 2012, the new permanent residential home opened which
houses up to four women, a full-time couple (who lives in the home as house-
parents) and a single woman to serve as an assistant to the houseparents.
Mercy House still needs volunteers for its ministry. Volunteer opportunities
include: mentors who are willing to connect with the women on a weekly basis,
drivers to take them to medical appointments, Bible study leaders, profession-
als such as photographers or nancial planners who are willing to donate their
time, or even women who would like to teach the residents a class on cooking,
sewing, or other crafts. In addition, Mercy House holds an annual Benet as a
fundraiser. This years 6th annual Benet will be held at the Hurst Conference
Center on September 11, 2014 and will need a lot of help.
Susans vision is still clear today, although it has been transformed by the
obstacles, uncertainties and challenges of running Mercy House for the last 15
years. Her new vision is to partner with other churches to help them start their
own home for pregnant women or women in need. She now has a template
for starting the ministry, the willingness to train others and the knowledge of
what type of budget is needed. Susan has passion in her heart to help women in
need and she wants that to live on beyond her time with Mercy House.
Stephanie Suires fears around the house include spiders, geckos and running
out of toilet paper.
Stephanie has been married to Trey for 10 years and they have two children, Sophia (7) and Tallen (5).
Stephanie writes a healthy living blog called Food and Fitness 4 Real (foodandtness4real.com) where
she shares tness tips, race recaps, recipes and local restaurant reviews.