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Resource: Worry Time |2 Copyright 2012 eCentreClinic About Worry Time Many people find themselves struggling with worry. People worry about many things including, whether their symptoms are getting worse, they worry about their health, their family's health, their studies, finances, social networks, and the future. Many worries have a very real basis and it is understandable to have worries, especially when we are experiencing difficult life circumstances. Worry is a natural response to anxiety and most people experience some level of worry. But, many people also find that their worries can be very unhelpful and interfere with their ability to concentrate and do what they want to do.This resource provides information about a practical but proven strategy for managing worry, called Worry Time. Before introducing Worry Time, let's learn more about worry.
Worry vs. Problem Solving Sometimes people mistake worrying for problem solving. Worry is a normal and inevitable part of life. Many people with low emotional wellbeing find themselves worrying about things more than they used to. But, worry is only helpful if it makes us aware of future events that we can do something about or if it helps motivate us to prepare for those events. Worry becomes a problem when: We worry about things that are very unlikely We worry about things that we cant reasonably do anything about All we do is worry without planning or doing anything to help us cope Worry interferes with what we want to do
This means that there is often a difference between worry and problem solving. Problem solving is a highly constructive process. Problem solving involves identifying a problem and thinking clearly about ways of either fixing the problem or things you can do to help you cope with the problem (see the Resource on Structured Problem Solving). On the other hand, Resource: Worry Time |3 Copyright 2012 eCentreClinic worrying is often a circular process, where worst-case scenarios get repeated in one's mind. Problem solving can lead people to resolve problems and this helps us to become more confident about our ability to handle life events. But, worrying makes us anticipate the worst, which reduces our emotional wellbeing. A good way to test whether you are worrying instead of problem solving is to ask yourself: Is what I am thinking making me feel worse? Or, am I thinking about or dwelling on negative things without doing anything to help myself? If the answer is yes to these questions then you are probably worrying instead of problem solving. For example, thinking that you might have a car accident or a fatal illness in the future are examples of worrying. If you are worrying, it is often helpful to use Thought Challenging and Problem Solving skills to look for solutions to help you cope. And, you can use Worry Time to help manage any remaining worry.
About Worry Time Worry time is a very simple, but very powerful, skill. Worry Time involves setting aside a specific time during the day to deliberately think through your worries in a structured way. For example, some people will put aside 15 minutes in the morning or 15 minutes once in the morning and once in the evening for Worry Time. When you find yourself worrying outside of this time, take note of the worry (you might want to write it down) and remind yourself that you need to think it through during your next Worry Time session. Then, once you have done this, tell yourself that you can refocus your attention on what you were doing because you will deal with the worry during Worry Time.
What to do during Worry Time During Worry Time one thinks about all one's worries in a structured way. You can think about as many worries as you can fit within the 15 minute session. To help you to keep the Worry time productive, you can use the Worksheet at the end of this Resource to help keep notes of your ideas, plans, conclusions, and potential solutions or things you might do or say to yourself to help you cope. Once your Worry Time is up, you make a note about the worries you might tackle at your next Worry Time session.
Resource: Worry Time |4 Copyright 2012 eCentreClinic The key questions people find helpful to ask during Worry Time sessions include:
1. Consider the likelihood of the bad event happening and how much control you have. Sometimes we worry about things that are unlikely, especially when we are stressed or anxious. It is also often helpful to recognize the difference between the worries that you have control over and those that you do not. If you do not have control over the feared event then ask yourself whether it is helpful to keep worrying about it. And, if it is about something you can do something about, then use Problem Solving (see the Resource on Structured Problem Solving) to find solutions for the event.
2. Consider how bad the feared event would be and your ability to cope. Sometimes we worry out of habit. We may also over-estimate how bad certain events will be and under-estimate our ability to cope even if they are bad. So, ask yourself whether the worry is actually important or if you are worrying more out of habit.
3. Consider if you will be worrying about the event in the future and look at the costs and benefits of worrying.We all get stuck in the moment and sometimes this leads us to worry about things that, in the grand scheme of things, arent that important. We may also believe that worry is helpful. So, try asking yourself whether this is something you will be worrying about in 1 month, 1 year or 5 years time. Also, consider the costs and benefits of continuing to worry.
There is a Worry Time Worksheet at the end of this resource
Important Points About Worry Time People who struggle with excessive worry often experience physical symptoms such as muscle tension, upset stomachs, concentration and sleep difficulties. Sometimes people will also notice an increase in anxiety. This is understandable as Worry Time means focusing intensely on your problems. Given this, it is important to: Avoid scheduling Worry Time too close to bed time in case you experience difficulty winding-down and relaxing. Use the strategies in this course to manage your symptoms, e.g. thought challenging, controlled breathing, physical exercise, etc. Use an engaging task after Worry Time to distract yourself. And, if your worries come back, keep reminding yourself that you will think about it in the next Worry Time session.
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Summary Worry is a normal human reaction to anxiety. Worry Time is a practical and proven strategy for managing excessive worry, which can help people to control their worries and make sure any worry they have is helpful.
Worry Time works best when it is combined with the other skills taught in this Course.
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My Worry Is: Step 1: Consider the likelihood of the feared event and how much control you have.
Step 2: Consider how bad the feared event would be and your ability to cope.
Step 3: Consider if you will be worrying about the event in the future and look at the costs and benefits of worrying.