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Now that I have shared my initial confusion about hearing Christmas songs in mid-
ADMINISTRATION November, I must admit that there is a part of me that welcomes the start of the
President
Christmas season. When people hear those Christmas songs and the see the lights on
Dr. Michael E. Murphy the trees, it reminds us of the hope that was brought to us on that first Christmas day.
Principal
We all recall the sights and sounds of our earliest Christmas memories. It was the
Mrs. Kathleen K. Mahar excitement of Christmas morning and the gathering of family around a table with all
Assistant Principal, Academic Affairs
types of food and desserts.
Mr. Lewis R. Van Wambeke
Assistant Principal, Student Affairs
During my conference in South Carolina, I met a man named Derreck Kayongo who
Mr. William M. Weber told his story of life in Uganda under a cruel dictatorship. He shared how he had seen
Assistant Principal, Student Affairs
so many terrible things in his life and had watched as family and friends were killed
Ms. Kaycie S. Lomax right before his eyes. His story was one of tremendous grief but also of great hope.
CFO / Business Manager
He told of the kindness of those who helped his family leave the war torn area and
Mr. John C. Coppola shared what they had with his family. His life’s journey eventually brought him to the
Director of Athletics
United States and a life he could never have imagined. Throughout his tumultuous
Mr. Lee R. Dove life, his faith allowed him to move forward. He said, “When you have a gun pointed
Director of Development
at your head, you realize how important God is to you. The real challenge is keep him
Mrs. Katy A. Caruso in your life when the gun is no longer there.” His belief that God has a plan for him
Director of Alumni and Media Relations
is the reason he started a non-profit company to provide soap to those in third world
Ms. Kristen A. Koehler countries who are dying from diseases caused by a lack of hygiene. For those who
Director of Admissions
benefit from his efforts, he provides hope for a better tomorrow.
Mr. Thomas E. Miller
Editor, Assistant to the President
As we weave our way through all of the insanity of Christmas shopping and parties
Mrs. Heide C. Cornet-Hostelley
with family and friends, I hope that we do not forget the gift that we received on that
first Christmas. With the birth of a child, mankind was changed forever. The light that
led the wise men to a small stable in Bethlehem should also be the light that leads us
to our God. The Christmas spirit is not about the single day of the year, but rather the
IN THIS ISSUE...
hope that is generated for a life filled with sharing your gifts and talents with others.
Greetings from the President 1
Principal / Finance / SHS 2
I pray that this Christmas, you enjoy the time with your family and connect with the
Academic Affairs / Cav Shop / Attendance 3
Student Affairs 4 hope that the baby wrapped in swaddling clothes brought to our world. May God bless
Admissions / Cavalier Club 5 you for all that you do to show the light of God to your children and those you meet.
Campus Ministry 6
Guidance 7
Parents’ Association 8
Computers / It’s Academic / GMA 9
Technology / Facebook 10
Athletics / Financial Aid 11
Spalding Spring Sensation ~ Bella Italia! 12
Engaging Faith & Learning 1
The Cavalier • December 2009 / January 2010
Principal’s Desk ~ Mrs. Kathy Mahar “We Are Spalding”
The Faculty, Staff, and Administration of Archbishop Spalding High I was waiting in line at the MIAA Football Championship where a small
School pray that the blessings of Christmas bring peace and joy to you and group of Spalding girls were commiserating that they did not have enough
your families. May your home be filled with the warm and loving spirit of money for the $7 per person tickets. They were pooling their resources,
the season. Help all of us remember those who struggle for food, shelter, but coming up far short. Out of the blue, a Spalding father ahead of me in
and safety. And, may the New Year bring you continued blessings, good line and another behind me spoke up and said that they would cover the
health, and happiness. girls’ admission – this was the championship game after all. The group
of girls was almost dumbstruck at the kindness and was stumbling over
TEACHER OF THE YEAR themselves expressing gratitude when one of them looked at the fathers
and at me and said, “Wow, we are Spalding!”
Don’t forget to nominate a Teacher of the Year. Nomination forms are
available on the school’s website and should be sent to the principal BY This gesture and phrase speak to who we are as a community. We support
December 11th. each other, we celebrate each other, and we respect each other. We are
united by our faith and by a basic kindness that shapes who we are.
If you have a “We Are Spalding” story and would like to share it, please
email me at mahark@archbishopspalding.org.
STRATEGIC PLAN
We are beginning work on a new strategic plan and we need your help!
Where do we want to go as an educational community? If you could
design a model school, that was the best at what it taught and offered Students Helping Students
students, what would it look like and what would that mean for Spalding? Students Helping Students (SHS) – NEW! SHS is now offered BEFORE
This is the part of the process where we need to stretch our imaginations. school on Tuesdays and Thursdays and during ALL lunch periods (by
Please be on the look-out for an electronic questionnaire that will be appointment only), EVERY DAY! National Honors Society students are
administered in early December. As busy as the season is, we would available to provide tutoring in various academic subjects. SHS is a great
greatly appreciate your taking some time to provide feedback. We will place to get help, review for upcoming tests, get organized or just work
also be hosting several parent focus groups. Dan LeDuc, a parent and quietly on your own!
Board member, is chairing the Strategic Plan Steering Committee. We
thank Dan and all of you for your collaborative support. • OPTION 1: Morning Tutoring
o Days: Tuesdays & Thursdays
o Time: 7:00-7:40
From the Finance Office o Location: Room 114
MID-TERM EXAM REMINDER
All accounts must be current by January 1, 2010 in order for your • OPTION 2: Lunch Tutoring
student(s) to take their mid-term exams. If the account(s) are not o See Mrs. O’Kieffe in room 114 to request a Lunch
current, your student(s) will not be allowed to take final exams. Tutor
o Tutors will be assigned based on availability and
TUITION MANAGEMENT SYSTEMS (TMS) subject
OUT STANDING LATE FEES
TMS applies payments toward late fees and returned payment charges Please contact Tara O’Kieffe, Resource Coordinator, at ext. 279 for
first. The balance of the payment is then applied to tuition. What this details about SHS or other tutoring options.
means is that your student’s account will be delinquent if the fees are not
included in the tuition payment.
All teachers will provide a study guide to aid the students in preparing for mid-terms. National Honor Society (NHS) is again hosting MID-TERM
MADNESS during the school days preceding exams. These intense exam sessions are led by NHS members and teachers. Information on time and
place will be posted and announced before the sessions.
Please make sure that your son or daughter eats properly and gets sufficient sleep during exam week. Proper rest and nutrition are important not only
in terms of our general well-being, but also in achieving the proper mindset for exams. Students, however, sometimes lose sight of this as they struggle
to prepare for exams. Cramming is not recommended and can be avoided by conducting an early and regular review of the material. Twenty minutes of
review over a two to three week period will result in better retention of information and avoid a three hour evening of cramming.
EXAM SCHEDULE:
We recently had our Freedom from Chemical Dependency counselor working with our students. Mr. Glenn Hall has been working with our students
for the past five years. He has developed a teacher/student relationship with our students even though he is only here for one week a year. At Spalding,
we feel it is important to talk with the students early and often about chemical dependency. Therefore, we focus on the ninth grade class each year. He
also talks with the sophomore, junior and senior classes as a whole. He covers topics that empower young people to make healthy, responsible choices
regarding alcohol and drug use. Having Mr. Hall here also encourages students to have an open dialog about chemicals and the effects it can have on
students and adults. During his talks, Mr. Hall encourages and supports the non-use/abuse of alcohol and other drugs during adolescence. In addition to
talking with the students, Mr. Hall also meets with the parents to discuss very important topics. Some of the topics he discussed this year were effective
ways to communicate with your child about drugs and drug use. He also gives parents the tools to cope with trends and what to say about your own
experiences with alcohol and/or drug experimentation. Mr. Hall also covered different areas such as the use of household items to get high. He also
felt it was important to talk to the parents about prescription drugs this year. There is a trend in our society of addiction to prescription drugs. This
means our students are not immuned from society and the problems that exist in the “real world.” Mr. Hall’s advice: clean out your medicine cabinets.
There is no reason to keep prescription drugs.
As part of the health education program and an on-going commitment to prevention and wellness, Mr. Hall also provides teachers and administrators
with up-to-date information on the physiological and psychological effects of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs. We would like to thank Mr. Hall for
his time and dedication to the students, parents and faculty at Archbishop Spalding High School. In addition, we would also like to thank the Parents’
Association for financially helping bring Freedom from Chemical Dependency to us this year. Without the Parents’ Association this program would not
be available to our students. So Thank You Parents’ Association!
Thank you…To the families that donated blankets to the Blanket Drive during the month of November! We continue to have an on-going collection of
clean, gently used men’s clothing, for the Franciscan Center, which our sophomore students take with them during their day of Service. Thank you in
advance for your support! Students/parents may place these items on the bench outside the Campus Ministry office up until March 25th.
Senior Service Requirement….All Seniors need to have completed and submitted their required Service Hour documentation and reflection
on or before Friday, January 08, 2010.
Looking for Service Opportunities….On-going approved Service Opportunities are posted on the Archbishop Spalding WEB site (www.
archbishopspalding.org). Click students then Campus Ministry. You will access a page requesting you to click Campus Ministry once again. Once you
click “Documents”, you will have the ability to access and/or download several documents, included “Approved Outreach Opportunities”. You may
download these documents and save them to your Computer to simplify recording your hours – paper copies are also available on the table outside
Campus Ministry. It is good to periodically submit your completed hours to Campus Ministry to be recorded and posted. Looking for the Service
Record Form?...This may also be downloaded from the ASHS site. Again, click students, then Campus Ministry and follow the documents link to
“Service Record Form” which also “spells out” the student’s requirement.
Stocking the Sarah’s House Shed…During the month of February, we will be holding a collection for Sarah’s house, similar to the collection held last
year during the fall. They are in need of many items for families moving into transitional housing and new homes of their own. Their needs are: furniture
items (lamps, dressers, end tables, coffee tables, kitchen tables and chairs), new bathroom items (towels and bath mats), kitchen items (cooking utensils,
measuring cups, flatware, glass casserole dishes, pots and pans) and gift cards to Target or Walmart. Students/parents may place these items on the
bench/in the area outside the Campus Ministry office up until the end of February. We ask that if you bring gift cards, please hand them to someone in
the Campus Ministry office or leave them in the office marked in an envelope for Sarah’s House. For larger furniture items, please contact Gail Fritsch
at molarbear2@comcast.net to arrange drop of or pick up. Thank you!
Christmas Liturgy… On Thursday, December 17th, we will join with our Chaplain, Fr. Tom Ryan in school-wide Liturgy giving thanks to God for the
gift of this holy season.
Rally , Mass and March for Life….in Washington, D.C. is Friday, January 22, 2010. As it becomes available, additional information, permission
forms, etc. will be provided through announcements/ may be obtained through Campus Ministry.
Catholic Schools Week….we will concelebrate with our Chaplain, Fr. Tom Ryan on Tuesday, February, 2, 2010, commemorating Catholic School s
Week – “Faith, Knowledge, Discipline, Morals – Dividends for Life”. This is a school wide Liturgy.
Senior Retreat…”Relationships: God, Family, Friends”. The listing for the remaining Senior Retreats is posted on the bulletin board in the hallway
by the Campus Ministry office. Students depart ASHS by bus on Wednesday @3PM and return to school prior to dismissal on Friday. Information
packets are mailed home to parents/guardians in advance of the students assigned Retreat. Please feel free to stop by Campus Ministry, email mayerk@
archbishopspalding,.org or call 410-969-9105 ext. 236 with any questions.
Sophomore Service Dates…Each student participates in a day of service as part of their sophomore year. The majority of dates are assigned by
homeroom. Sophomores go to their first period class and are called down to the Chapel. Following an orientation, the group departs and is separated into
three separate groups, all accompanied by a moderator, serving at Our Daily Bread, Beans & Bread, and Franciscan Center. Upon return, the students
share lunch and reflect on their experience. The remaining dates by homeroom are as follows:
12/3/2009, Ms. Lisa Walker 12/15/2009, Dr. Jennifer Jones
1/28/2009, Mr. Andy Bauer 2/9/2010, Mrs. Melanie Esposito
2/25/2010, Ms. Stephanie Walsh
Questions….pleaseemailmayerk@archbishopspalding.org orboylec@archbishopspalding.org orgiveusacall410-969-9105ext.236(Kathy),ext.345(Caitlin).
“Be glad in the LORD, you just, and give thanks to his holy name”
Scholarship Information
The Guidance Department receives information for a variety of scholarships throughout the year. Some of these are offered by local and national companies and
organizations. The information is posted on the white board in the Guidance Office and can also be accessed on the school website by clicking on “Students”, then
“Guidance”. Seniors need to check these resources regularly to keep themselves updated as to what opportunities are available.
Sallie Mae’s Free Online Scholarship Search is available through www.salliemae.com. This is one of the most respected and comprehensive lists of awards
available to high school students. At the site click on Planning for College and then go to “finding free money”. The scholarship search can be accessed in that
area of the site.
FASTWEB is another database of scholarship information where students can conduct a scholarship search. The address is www.fastweb.com.
Information to better understand financial aid is also available online. Financial Aid 101 is available through the Sallie Mae website. FinAid, the Financial Aid
Information Page located at www.finaid.org is a comprehensive and objective guide to information on loans and sources of financial aid.
Student Absence
When students are absent for an extended period of time such as a week or more, parents may contact the guidance counselor to ask for assistance in gathering academic
work. A more direct method, however, is to email the teachers directly. The email of all faculty members can be accessed from the website or it follows the pattern
of lastnamefirstinitial@archbishopspalding.org. For shorter absences, students should consult their syllabus and contact a classmate who has information on what has
been happening in the classes. In addition, when the student returns to school they might photocopy a classmate’s notebook as well as speak directly and promptly to the
teacher about which tasks need to be made up and when the teacher will be expecting the work to be completed.
Looking ahead to January, our meeting will be on Tuesday, January 12 and will feature Mr. Patrick Brady, chair of the Religion Department here at
Spalding, talking about his newly-published book Walk Confidently with God: A Practical Guide to Living a Debt-Free, Stress-Free Life. I am sure we
could all use that knowledge after the Holiday season. Please join us in the Library at 7:00 pm.
Hospitality
Thanks to the parents, including Sharon Bogdan, Susan Caldwell, Dawn Ducoty, Maureen Dustin, Stephanie Eberly, Lisa Fenton, Judith Green, Tina
Greis, Mary Inscoe, Jayne McDonald, Carmen Mulea, Barb Perez, Ellen Pulto, JoLynn Reda, Lynn Supplee and Maureen Vernon who helped serve
dinner and brought desserts to the dinner for the college representatives on October 19 before the College Fair. The representatives were very happy to
get a meal before meeting with the students.
Thanks also to all the parents who helped out at Open House on October 25. Julie McHale coordinated the event and had more than 100 parents donate
baked goods, serve refreshments and serve as tour guides. There are too many names to list here individually but please know that we appreciate the
great support and could not host events of this magnitude without your help!
Special thanks also to Mary Cofran and Valerie Washington who coordinated dinner for the teachers during the Parent-Teacher Conferences on
November 19. They were helped by several volunteers who served the dinner and helped with set-up and clean-up.
Please help us to take advantage of all these offers. The dollars really add up! If you have any questions about any of these programs, please contact
Greta Bill or June Lawson at asgiantsafeway@gmail.com.
ABT--Top Row (left to right): Dan Brady, John Vernon, Mikey Collins
Brian Petrosky; Bottom Row (left to right): Eddie Millsap, Robert Bacaj,
and Matt Hedin
Mark your calendars for Basket Bingo hosted by the Graduate Mother’s Association (GMA) on
Sunday, January 31, 2010 from 2:00-5:00 p.m. in the Cafeteria.
For more information or to volunteer email ashsgma@gmail.com.
Miranda Jackson, a 16-year-old cheerleader from Mississippi’s Pearl High School was kicked off the squad and suspended after school officials found
out about “profanity-laced, private conversations” she had on Facebook aimed at school officials and the politics of the cheerleading squad.
Using World of Warcraft (WoW), a 20-year-old male from Canada began chatting with a 16-year-old female, but went to her high school soon after to
meet her face-to-face. Fortunately, she had the presence of mind to tell school officials. When the police apprehended the stalker, they discovered that
he had been posing as the girl- using her pictures from MySpace and WoW.
At Farmington Junior High School, in Utah, a handful of 13 and 14-year-old students were trading nude photos of themselves via their cell phones.
Police were contacted by a parent who reportedly found sexually explicit photos (essentially child pornography) on her child’s cell phone. The school
district acted swiftly in disciplining the students.
Last July, 14-year- old, Chanelle Rae took her life after receiving an internet message earlier on the night of her death. While in the midst of some rocky
relationships with her friends, one of them sent her a message that made her “want to die.” Police blamed cyber bullying for her suicide.
These are just a few real stories of online irresponsibility and carelessness that had profound repercussions. More and more, we read of students being
expelled, having their college acceptance revoked, or like in the case of many adults, getting fired for cyber conversations and postings.
Unfortunately, many parents are unaware of their child’s cyber activity, and in some cases, that child is putting himself or another at risk by cyber-
bullying, posting indecent photos, or giving out too much information. Recently I was confronted by a Spalding mom who was concerned at some
of the Facebook postings of a few of our students. She explained how she is trying to raise her son to respect women, but there were a few girls who
were posting compromising pictures and sexually explicit messages. This epidemic, hopefully contained to just a few students, is certainly a problem
caused by both girls and boys.
The answer to these problems, in most cases, is to redeem the communication medium by educating, setting expectations, and holding children
accountable. At Spalding, we believe that the internet, social networking, and text messages are very useful tools, but we also want students to be aware
of how to use them appropriately. Starting in January, I will be giving a social network responsibility presentation in various classes in an effort to make
students aware of their actions and help them to think before posting. As a Catholic institution, we believe that following Christ is a call all day and
everyday – not just during religion class or at Mass. Our call as Christians extends from heaven to earth to cyberspace.
Though I hope and pray these presentations will be beneficial, what you do at home will be of greatest importance. Let me challenge you to check up
on your child’s virtual activity. Requiring your child to log in to their Facebook account and navigate through their postings as well as their friends’
while you observe (or requiring them to give you their password) is no more of an invasion of privacy than sitting in the passenger seat while your child
drives. It is a necessary level of accountability to help train your child. Furthermore, checking up on your child’s text messages via their cell phone,
cell phone bill, or other account features that your carrier provides allows you to ensure that they are using their plans wisely and are not hurting others
and not being hurt themselves. Lastly, I encourage parents and students to hold each other accountable by reporting any inappropriate, malicious, or
alarming tweets, posts, texts, etc. to our Assistant Principles –Kaycie Lomax and Bill Weber or another student counselor. It is our mission to provide a
safe, godly, nurturing environment for each student and the peace of mind for each parent entrusting their child in our care. Together we can help train
students to use these valuable tech tools maturely and responsibly, but it will take all of us to do so.
Archbishop Spalding now has an “official” Facebook page. Please visit our school
website www.archbishopspalding.org to access the link and stay connected with old
friends, get info on upcoming events, etc.
It’s a wonderful new way to keep in touch with old friends and to stay updated on all
of the exciting news here at Archbishop Spalding.
“Bella Italia”
Saturday March 27, 2010