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When gathering more information outweighs the advantages of an immediate decision.
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When others can resolve the conflict more effectively.
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When the issue seems unimportant or symptomatic of another more basic issue.
COLLABORATING
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To find an integrative solution when both sets of concerns are too important to be compromised.
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When your objective is to learn, e.g. testing your own assumptions, understanding the views of others.
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To merge insights from other people with different perspectives on a problem.
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To gain commitment by incorporating others concerns into a consensual decision.
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Teamwork through hard feelings that have been interfering with an interpersonal relationship.
COMPROMISING
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When goals are moderately important, but not worth the effort or potential disruption of more confrontational
styles.
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When two opponents with equal power are strongly committed to mutually exclusive goals, e.g. in labour
management bargaining.
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To achieve temporary settlements to complex issues.
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To arrive at expedient solutions under time pressure.
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As a back-up style when collaborating or competing fails to be successful.
What to do when conflict arise
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Acknowledge you are angry/upset and calm yourself (breath, count to 10, etc.). Deal with the emotional
component first and dampen it so that the discussion is constructive. Research shows that people in a rage lose
30 IQ points and are therefore less rational.
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Toothpaste illustration: Its easy to push the toothpaste out but impossible to get it back in! Dont be impulsive!
(You will regret it later) Dont respond to anger with anger but disable it with a quiet, calm response.
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Decide whether the problem is worthy of the conflict! (Check your own filter system!)
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Decide on the right time to deal with the issue (Sometimes postponement is better) and place (distraction-free).
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Confront the opposition (Is this the right person to confront?).
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Define the problem together to prevent wasting time with misunderstandings.
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Communicate opinions and feelings assertively.
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Listen accurately/actively to the opposing perspectives and dont interrupt.
Communicate your hope and intentions to reach an agreement.
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Acknowledge feelings, use facts and clarify misunderstandings.
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Problem-solve together to reach an agreement.
Conflict is constructive when...
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The relationship is subsequently stronger and the two people are now better able to interact.
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The two people like and trust each other more.
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Both are satisfied with the results of the conflict.
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Both have improved their ability to solve future conflict.
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Creating opportunities to succeed
To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end in life.
I cant tell you how many times I have restarted this chapter. Motivation is a something we do quite often in our daily
interaction with people. Whether it is at home, trying to encourage our children to do better at school, or whether at
work, trying to move our employees to increase productivity and meet up with organisational goals and expectations.
In this process of trying to bring it all together so that it will make sense on paper, I actually realised again how
important the psychology of motivation is. Further re-afrming what has been said so many times before that we will
not be able to really have great inuence or impact on employees and to lead transformation if the process does not
start with ourselves.
Before a supervisor is able to inuence the motivational levels of employees, the supervisor has to:
not only understand the basic psychology of motivation, but also visit and revisit his/her own personal beliefs and
attitude regarding the importance of his/her role as supervisor in ensuring a motivating environment, taking into
account (responsibility) that his/her own attitude (remember, past experiences which inuenced/shaped your
attitude) will determine the level of inuence he/she will have on motivational levels.
You must also understand that we all have a past history which inuences the way we do things. This contributes to the
uniqueness (authenticity...) of each employee and therefore is conrmation that each one is motivated by different
things.
To be an effective motivator you need to understand each employee. Be CONNECTED! And let us not forget that you
need to be motivated yourself! Remember, the modern supervisor models the way! Also remember:
The mood of managers/supervisors has public consequences.
In order to highlight and explain the above, please allow me to take us back to the beginning. Back to the psychology
of motivation; trying to understand what really drives or moves people to excel. What really moves you? What
motivates you to get up every morning and do whatever you need to do?
What does this matter to you as supervisor?
All people are born motivated and with a natural drive to succeed. We are also born with the intrinsic need to be
recognised and empowered to succeed. Sustaining these natural high levels of motivation will be determined by how
our real experiences will shape our perception and denitions given to success and the ability to achieve that which is
needed to succeed. And also how the experience of success brings meaning to our lives.
Meaning as dened by a feeling of having value and to make a difference. A fear driven by a basic need to
succeed and to make a difference by adding value. Succeed in nding the answers to the questions: Why are we here
and what is my purpose in life?
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Finding my purpose is a journey we all embark on the second we see rst light. The success criteria to this Finding
my purpose seems to be an answers questions around nding ones purpose in life ...
Indicators of motivational issues
Here are a few indicators of employees who are motivated and those who are not:
Motivational theories
Maslows hierarchy of needs:
Hertzbergs theory of satisers and dissatisers:
Motivated Demotivated
Have a positive attitude High absenteeism
Meet work targets and more Average or below work output
Are reliable in attendance Average or below quality standards
Take pride in their work Just going through the motions
Produce good quality work Theft
Maintain good relation with colleagues Trying to beat the system
Maintain good relationship with supervisor
Other:
Other: